I packed and left my marriage after 27 years

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After more than 25 years in marriage, George Chacha, says he suffered so much, emotionally he decided to quit. A marriage he spent so many years building. He had built a lovely retirement home too in Migori but he left with nothing. He says if he knew things would turn out this way he wouldn't have allowed the silence to ruin his marriage.
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@Tuko Жыл бұрын

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@stefigitash3482 Жыл бұрын

Maybe she also has her story to tell

@PuppyWorld123 Жыл бұрын

Extremely selfish. Chose other woman over wife even when they had separated... Your family comes first.. He walked out over 'issues'. In this life you are paid what you 😢 serve....

@lilianlemein1427 Жыл бұрын

Lynn Ngugi kindly do this episode....

@wilsonlosike6398 Жыл бұрын

@samuelagwotu5074 Жыл бұрын

He has to reconcile with the mother of his children

@elishibawambui9064 Жыл бұрын

I don't judge until I hear the other side of the story. But that silent of her fast wife means she was depressed and felt that nobody need her,love her or even understand .And also the family were against her anyway may God see you through George.

@elizabethhowell1876 Жыл бұрын

What a gentleman ! To take respect and stand accountable as an African man is very very rare. I salute you sir

@tvs9978 Жыл бұрын

So so rare

@Deborahponi Жыл бұрын

Wow my condolences to him and the family. I believed through him narrating the story, there were some red flags that was missed due to the cool war which was happening in silence btn him and his wife. The son was fighting in silence whilst needed perhaps their help. Hmm African father most don’t build up intimate relationship with their children because of our culture’s perhaps. I pray that we all learn from this than regretting later than being there for our children.

@gladyschepngeno9341 9 ай бұрын

Connecting the two stories, your broken relationship with your wife took a toll on your son.

@KDT227 Жыл бұрын

Effective communication is very important in marriage! Resolve the issues and FORGIVE!

@shalommediahub1639 Жыл бұрын

What should be done to this quite people? Sometimes people say that quite people are good better those who make noise because you can solve issues together. I don't advocate

@joycemutanda9261 Жыл бұрын

Very important indeed

@buildplanconsult4411 Жыл бұрын

Well said..that's actually why their marriage failed..

@destinedwinner1338 11 ай бұрын

@@shalommediahub1639u nailed it

@KDT227 Жыл бұрын

This gentleman is wise - even though he shares his story he was very careful to be balanced in his assessment of the situation. He didn’t paint her black and he took his own responsibility where necessary.

@elizabethwathoni5529 Жыл бұрын

Must have put into consideration comments of earlier interview and Manipulated the story. Initially all blame was on wife and the heading was that she threatened to kill him

@naigasophiamariam7749 5 ай бұрын

That's sth rare to find in men... They will paint you black like you didn't exist...

@teresawanjiru3171 Жыл бұрын

No communication is the main killer of marriage.

@loycelutukai6055 Жыл бұрын

Yaani.....everything dies..😢😢

@marlinealaka1901 7 ай бұрын

Very true😢

@salamawise Жыл бұрын

Quite a lesson. Wish we would have the wife share her experience...not for us to judge but to learn and strengthen our marriage relationships. May the lord restore your marriage and keep your sons strong

@RonniCerah7807 Жыл бұрын

I love this man's strength the Grace he carries,,,most men they die inside out quietly

@MarthaThiga Жыл бұрын

😢😢Sad..The worst part is when the son committed suicide..I hope and pray the other children will not be affected by separation of their parents plus the death of their brother..Healing to all of them cause they are going through so much pain..

@genniferpaulgomez3028 Жыл бұрын

I listened to your storey, & must say mental illness is the deadliest of all illnesses & the sad fact, is noone sees or recognize it, until it's too late. Mèntal illness, rob human beings of living.

@bekaogoro7071 Жыл бұрын

Am sorry for the loss of your son. May God heal your marriage

@cynthiaakinyi9829 Жыл бұрын

I like the fact that he accepts that both of them were victims of each other

@missorwa3136 Жыл бұрын

We've got the same name, both names

@mubizz80 Жыл бұрын

It's such a painful touching story. Sorry for having gone through such trauma and thanks for sharing your story with the world.

@mumbistafford2357 11 ай бұрын

This is an exceptional man! He has spoken about mental health and marriage openly ❤. Deepest condolences to you and your family. You have really inspired many of us. God bless you so much🙏

@judithpande7292 Жыл бұрын

My marriage is more or less the same because we have very many issues that are unresolved for 9years.Personality differences,no affection then my husband giving commands instead of being involving.The marriage isn't working at all despite my husband not being violent.marriage entails alot that men don't understand

@chrpmaginaatsyaya3888 Жыл бұрын

A commanding and a so controlling man is just a psychological torture in marriage even if hes not violent😢

@chrpmaginaatsyaya3888 Жыл бұрын

Men rarely accept when on the wrong. When you raise an issue it worsens as he will even assault you verbally to show you hes right

@benardgugu3893 Жыл бұрын

Y don't u teach him since u know his challenge/??

@nephatoliech5601 Жыл бұрын

Marriage is a contract, you get what you put into it. If you feel that with all honesty you put in more than you get, re negotiate the contract or simply find another contract that is suitable. Just don’t destroy your marriage because of stupid ego. Women have ego too, and they want to usurp the roles of men. Haiwezekani😡

@dianaclarke6810 Жыл бұрын

@@chrpmaginaatsyaya3888 😓

@josmilakate8867 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for coming out to share. You have spoken life giving words. I have learned a thing or too. I'm inspired may the Lord heal you and entire Family. Kudos

@ayandakhanyile9996 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story "Baba", I related to everything you shared. For 2 weeks now, my wife and I sleep in separate rooms. After listening to your story, I am going back to sharing the bed with my wife. My deepest condolences for the loss of your son, may his soul rest in peace.

@priscawambui2604 Жыл бұрын

Thanks alot for sharing your experience coz you HV helped me alot and I know many will learn from this,I wish you all the best in life.

@user-wf3wx4vu2x Жыл бұрын

I hv learned smth too,I haven't gone such deeper ...... Bt using Ur advise this must end.

@atuheireagnes6829 11 ай бұрын

Big lesson concerning my children 😢 i pray I'm more careful in observing their ways, withdraws, critical follow up,loving them and being their for them 🙏

@akampurirajanis4290 11 ай бұрын

oh, my goodness! this was so terrible! 😢 so sorry for your family!

@seraa7272 11 ай бұрын

This has also given a life lesson to cherish the people we love and also tell them is how much we love them. And also to be keen on the behaviors of our kids

@hockeyfan3738 Жыл бұрын

The host is beautiful and I like how she listens. ❤

@YvonneKawiraTuko Жыл бұрын

❤ thank you so much for your kind words.

@pamelaayieta6071 Жыл бұрын

Boys are so sensitive to the well being of there mother but they will rarely confront their dad.Their is a reason as to why his son commited suicide.Mums tears really hurt biko and he decided to just not seeing his mum go through pains.

@ayandabaca7545 Жыл бұрын

She really is a good listener

@lilychepkirui9947 Жыл бұрын

There's nothing hard before God may he touch the heart of this woman this man is really hurting

@lilianwekesa2965 11 ай бұрын

Mad respect to you sir! I love the way you have put across your sentiments, not once have you talked bad about your ex-wife. Learnt a lot from this

@charitychisete4230 8 ай бұрын

Coz she is a good person but the thing is ,he failed to be with the virtuous woman from God coz of infidelity and narcissist spirit from devil. But the Lord is faithful soon they will be together

@angatiawycliffe1258 Жыл бұрын

I like the part where Chacha takes responsibility for his own failures and mistakes. Surely when you do, it helps you heal and look at life better than just aportìoning blames. May God guide you through and many others with similar challenges. It happened to me.

@franciscawaigwa2779 Жыл бұрын

He admits also his failures. He sounds genuine.

@angatiawycliffe1258 Жыл бұрын

@@franciscawaigwa2779 True

@user-vt6py1ex5q 11 ай бұрын

A touching story very educative

@pheladinare2876 Жыл бұрын

Baba George is very atticulate and also very intelligent. So full of wisdom going forward I have learned a thing or two to practice in my marriage for the healthy outcome. God bless you baba 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

@YvonneKawiraTuko Жыл бұрын

He truly is. May God heal him

@ritahnanteza3128 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing with us. Am not yet married but I have learnt a lot on what happened to you sir. Only God knows your pain 🙏.

@thayu2821 Жыл бұрын

I always say, no one belongs to anybody. Marriage is 2 people who want and choose everyday to be together. They are both grieving 2 deaths. Marriage and son

@maureenmore973 Жыл бұрын

It's so saddening to see so much sympathy for this man in the comments. Anyone who knows anything about Covert Narcissists can see all the red flags. The fact that he went into a new relationship that soon after leaving his wife is a major red flag. When a woman goes quite trust me she is in so much pain that putting it into words is impossible. Alot of what I'm hearing is the story of my life and marriage,, I'v been on antidepressants for 23 years. My husband is a saint to everyone out there, very quiet, humble and generous. Only me and my kids know the monster he tirns into behind closed does.

@joycengeru6520 11 ай бұрын

This guy is a narcissist. He is remorse now because the wife moved on and the public is aware of him now.

@sabinakemto1184 10 ай бұрын

Hugs mummy

@faithmakena6848 10 ай бұрын

I support this is a fully baked narcissist

@BedolaKitoga-pk3nc 10 ай бұрын

Me too I'm in there same situation me n my kids are going through a lot 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

@dorothytumusiime3587 10 ай бұрын

I understand that

@beryl557 Жыл бұрын

May God grant your wish Sir, to Bond your family n move to a better step ahead. Thanks for sharing!

@donnatrixie1376 Жыл бұрын

Unresolved conflicts or rather sweeping issues under the carpet killed my marriage the moment it started. One thing beg to disagree with is for a husband to remain neutral in issues pertaining to in_laws. A true husband should protect his wife from the so called in- laws- I can't be more clearer on this

@jagenaught Жыл бұрын

Well he should respect his parents and keep his immediate family from them. However I have the experience of wives involving their people and things they shouldn't be involved in. This killed my marriages but finally I have a woman who understands the importance of us doing our own thing.

@pamelaayieta6071 11 ай бұрын

A woman gets what she gives,if you treat in-laws with respect,you will get respect,but some women join their husbands families and disrupt everything.Respect in-laws,you mighty need them one day.

@the62922 8 ай бұрын

@@pamelaayieta6071 You must be a very painful in law to have. This is a rare comment

@roslynematofari8992 Жыл бұрын

So sorry George, for the loss of your dear son and marriage, may God strengthen you as you heal from these painful experiences

@malihaa5158 Жыл бұрын

There is more to this story than meets the eye 👀 have kuna shida mahali, we need the wife's part of the story. This whole situation caused his son to sink into depression.

@Leonidah-gh1py 5 ай бұрын

True

@user-nk3ue2cs4k Жыл бұрын

This man is real . He recognises his mistakes and very couregous to talk about his life ...while waiting to hearing from the wife thank u Sir.

@sallywahito Жыл бұрын

I wish the wife could be available to also give her part of the story. Unresolved issues over the years pushed these couple to a bitter end...but hearing from both parties will give a clear picture of the real issues

@MyJOSE2013 Жыл бұрын

true. i would like to know why she wont forgive

@faithkamanthe3286 Жыл бұрын

Yees very true

@sallywahito Жыл бұрын

@@MyJOSE2013 hapo hata Mimi ningetaka kusikia

@nancymumo3126 Жыл бұрын

@gladysntalkshow8973 Жыл бұрын

I second you, wish we could hear from the woman

@halimahhajarah972 Жыл бұрын

This show was very important full of wisdom from a Man of intelligence, I appreciate Sir I have learnt that we should resolve each and every issues whenever they come up and move.

@buildplanconsult4411 Жыл бұрын

Communication, communication & communication. The oxygen of marriage & all relationships!

@banthatiramontsho9540 Жыл бұрын

Sure..... Louder .... so true. If only this could be a lesson to couples.

@annsarahwambui5479 Жыл бұрын

Louder please😊

@lifewithTeeDiks Жыл бұрын

My understanding is that due to your issues with his mother, he became depressed, and it affected his mental health and u did not have ur eyes to the ground to notice that. Let us watch how we behave in front of our kids because they are watching

@luciakabui3151 Жыл бұрын

This man's story has too many gaps. Why would a sane wife n mother say she would rather be a widow than live with her husband? I think kuna tabia/vitendo unbearable alitendewa. Then, as an African man, how can anyone bar you from entering your house/compound, visiting your son's grave? In whose compound is your son buried?

@MsEMccray Жыл бұрын

I appreciate his willingness to share this story, it could not be easy. I also appreciate his humility. People, unfortunately, don't speak about these things and live miserable for years. This happens in the diaspora all the time. I hope he and his ex-wife both find happiness.

@teresawanjiru3171 Жыл бұрын

Silence is the first killer of marriage.refusing to discuss issues.

@banthatiramontsho9540 Жыл бұрын

Very true....it is very important to have communication on all issues... silence is a killer.... 👏👏👏

@arlinamokori8093 Жыл бұрын

Wow so inspirational an eye opener, thank you for sharing .So many marriages are broken due to silence which is really sad.

@gracedavis1908 Жыл бұрын

Lack of communication, and leaving your matrimonial bed will ruin a marriage. Thank you for man’s perspective. I m living it now and i have lost hope in any reconciliation. Praying for God to heal our marriage.

@adelen9937 Жыл бұрын

I agreed with him that the one thing you can’t do it to leave your bedroom,and resolve the issue before bedtime.I relate to this story.thanks for sharing your story.

@IntimacywithGod252 Жыл бұрын

Soo sorry for loosing your baby may God give you peace which surpasses human understanding.

@EsterMaupa Жыл бұрын

You should have simply loved their mom...the best gift any man can give his kids, the rest will fall into place..Can anyone really make us be what they want though,..just wondering? Those kids😢😢

@pheladinare2876 Жыл бұрын

May God bless you baba George and I pray for healing in your marriage and if ever it can not be restored may the both of you learn from the mistakes and move forward to greatness and be friends for the sake of yourself and your children.

@YvonneKawiraTuko Жыл бұрын

Amen

@roselynehumphreys7704 Жыл бұрын

Thank you. "Onge matek" nothing is too difficult. U hv A beautiful family, I pray that ur family find inner peace and love. I love you all.

@pastorabiodun62 Жыл бұрын

I pray that this will be a message to so many couples going through uphills in their marriage. it is really heartfelt

@janetthompson8429 Жыл бұрын

This man is a good person, may God give you strength to carry on. My brother I Love you with the Love of the Lord. I feel your pain and God will see you Through. One Love

@VictoriaNdudim 11 ай бұрын

Wow, what an experience!! He is a gentle man. A lot of lessons learnt. Thank you for sharing your experience.

@homelifenaturally-um6iq Жыл бұрын

Military men have made their wives to go crazy and their children to have mentle issues. George is not the first military man to do that. They potray to be very good men in the public. I am married to one and i know this from others military homes too

@salomemuasya2331 Жыл бұрын

yes,millitary men it's true they pretend alot.discuss their marriage issue kwa mess.dictactors and rude people.i have the experience. it's hard.gumu sana.

@nurugizani3075 Жыл бұрын

So I have heard

@mambaholdings4370 Жыл бұрын

Yes and no. No , even other persons in other professions go through the same. It's phenomena in mariage(s) where discussions are less.

@winnmarywachira9132 10 ай бұрын

Very true

@WhatsinterestigToday 7 ай бұрын

I believe Mr Chacha’s sincerity. I wish him and his family healing

@magnam6807 Жыл бұрын

I watched an interview of the Kagia couple whose daughter became an alcoholic but later was transformed. They learnt about their different temperaments and how to communicate better. Mr. Kagia in particular did a strling job to hold the rocking ship. Love triumphs against all odds

@estherayiku3383 Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much George, a lot of wisdom and great insights.

@irenekoikai349 Жыл бұрын

I like the way he expressed himself, May the Lord give you strength and you'll heal and your wife will also heal and God will make your marriage work it's not too late.

@leahmwihaki5797 Жыл бұрын

May the Lord give you strength and answer your prayers.

@halimahhajarah972 Жыл бұрын

My dears let us learn and embrace family meetings be it on monthly or even after 3/4 months, in that ways we get to know each others problems and how to go about

@Stargate234 Жыл бұрын

some family gathering are the reasons of some marriages shattering down. If see someone not involving family and relatives in their marriages dont blame them they have reasons as to why

@cyreenjehu4533 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the encouragement sir but very sorry for your loss

@ssuunaalex Жыл бұрын

Very educative ,I have learnt grt lessons ...similar cases in Uganda

@DeeDee-lc5et Жыл бұрын

If only we could hear from the wife...life is not easy better a separation than being in a coffin

@africanmamamrembo Жыл бұрын

Very well articulated. Sorry for what life has dealt you. Perhaps you could turn the poems into a book in your son's memory?

@patriciaoketch2877 Жыл бұрын

It is sad that they had to part ways. He sounds like such a wonderful man. One of the many who try to keep a marriage going. Thanks for sharing your story

@rosemaryngare5368 Жыл бұрын

Am sorry this happened to you George but am glad you've come to know what might have caused the break up. All is not lost n keep clinging to the faith.. I just wish that time you realized that there are differences you decided to seek counseling but as I said earlier all is not lost....

@mamaj3539 Жыл бұрын

This man is hurting 😢. May God lead your ways sir

@musicjunkieaddict6600 Жыл бұрын

This is a very interesting interview of course we did not hear the other side. Mental illness is a silent killer at times. My condolences to you sir and your family

@joanchemutai8736 Жыл бұрын

Surely goodness and mercies shall follow you all the days of your life 🙏🙏

@rose.wanjalachoni Жыл бұрын

The story is touching but I fear. Narcissists are normally so eloquent and always presenting to be smart,wise and calm when they know the world is watching! I fear!👀. Sorry about your son.😭

@anniegitau4491 Жыл бұрын

I think the wife was a dismissive avoidant attachment personality

@priscarnthuli5006 Жыл бұрын

The first person to speak in court always seems right until his opponent begins to question him. Proverbs 18:17

@sherr6813 Жыл бұрын

I'm in awe of his gentleness and wisdom. I hope he finds his peace soon. That is all he needs right now

@mosesmaxpunchlinetv8478 Жыл бұрын

What about the woman who caused him all that

@bordiadube9256 Жыл бұрын

🙏🙏🙏

@nurugizani3075 Жыл бұрын

@mosesmaxpunchlinetv8478 we should listen to both sides

@thiwejuliadalamba3528 Жыл бұрын

Even serial killers are gentle🙄

@franciscawaigwa2779 Жыл бұрын

Sir, you are right. Full of wisdom, knowledge and understanding. Your are a good father. I salute you. George keep going. I

@gracekariuki6688 Жыл бұрын

Marriage is about communication, once it breaks then you are done. May God heal your hearts for the loss. I hope you can sit down and reconcile as we also wait for the lady's right of reply.

@shirugaks7464 Жыл бұрын

What a wonderful message to families from a personal story of pain and tragedy. Indeed this gentleman has taken full responsibility on his part which is a rare gesture today.

@peninnahkaviti914 Жыл бұрын

I literally cried expressing that you love her even now. Wow. May God guard them always and you too.

@innocentkaramuta8200 Жыл бұрын

Life is spiritual, the devil is attacking in many dimensions like octopus,we should do everything possible to fight the enemy spiritually.

@Nakuru56 11 ай бұрын

Great advice indeed!. Thanks a lot George. May your son Rest in Peace. Shalom.

@user-eh4by2xq6q 10 ай бұрын

I respect this man for being honesty for what happened to his marriage..thanks for being an African black man who highlighted the major issues which makes a marriage soar..If couples put God first..all these problems will be solved and continue with a normal health relationship...A teaching to all us ..a powerful testimonial discussion l enjoyed to listen to

@lindiwentombela7412 Жыл бұрын

I salute you George and I wish all married couples would listen and watch this video. What I have learned from you is that you are very humble human being. What is trash for somebody else is a TREASURE for someone else. So wish my ex husband would listen to this message because he was very selfish and abusive when we were still staying together. Hoping that you find peace and closure in your new chapter and God gives you the right direction to move on with your life. What I know is that life goes on.

@NileGoddess Жыл бұрын

Amen

@estherkieyakinyanjui7220 Жыл бұрын

My marriage is heading here and I always pray it does not affect my kids, my hubby is a contributor, I am heading for the door, I believe there is some story from the wife too

@evelynewangui6151 Жыл бұрын

This man is very eloquent and definitely we learn a lot from him. May God strengthen him and his boys. I wish the wife could consider a dialogue- for the sake of the children, as he puts it. I salute you Sir.

@damarisnjenga5886 Жыл бұрын

Very well spoken Gentlemen, although there were so much Emotional Abuse involved. Thanks so much for sharing. The Host is the Best. Keep up Kawira

@shedared Жыл бұрын

You can’t change anyone in marriage. After 14 years, I can say that don’t leave any issue unresolved even if the other person is adamant continue to push getting help to break the ice. We can move past anything if both parties are willing to communicate and put our EGOS aside.

@survivorthriving4455 Жыл бұрын

Abuser's do not have time for self analysis, as they lack empathy and compassion.

@khumbulamangena7889 Жыл бұрын

Say that again, I'm talking from experience

@sue.7494 Жыл бұрын

Right

@user-gu5gp4xf9o Жыл бұрын

Yhooo what a polished or refined gentleman. Unfortunately life is not always a red carpet. You such a gallant with wisdom. Mind opening!

@chisomochipokolo8933 Жыл бұрын

To me you are a good man. There is so much wisdom in your talking sir. Indeed issues need to be sorted out same day. And indeed in marriage dialogue is very very important. God help us. May God give you peace

@riokziah5056 Жыл бұрын

To be sincere both men and women we are suffering cause of luck of communication and ignorance (and more than that not allowing GOD to drive our marriage).

@chania80 Жыл бұрын

I am sorry sir. Mental health issues are very real. Its unbelievable how someone can just behave normal one second and decide to leave this world in the next moment. I have lost a close relative this way and its very painful. May your son rest well. Poleni sana.

@mercykimani5085 Жыл бұрын

For sure Mr chacha you're strong man may God heal your heart

@roselyn677 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your life story, sorry for the loss of your dear son. I love your openness and have learnt a lot from your experience but all in all marriage is a challenging journey that can only be guided by God.

@aishalubega1381 Жыл бұрын

The boys are grown ups now, they should look up their father and try to appreciate him, he is also hurting .

@annengei2814 Жыл бұрын

Have learnt alot today,stay blessed

@YvonneKawiraTuko Жыл бұрын

So glad you learnt a lot. Thank you for watching

@annekimani7084 Жыл бұрын

this is real courage. he is ready to heal.

@mamasolomon5949 Жыл бұрын

You're a great man And u did ur best She too is a very good woman And a lovely mother, i hv learnt A lot 4rm ur story u. May God bless you And ur family

@karendikitchen8439 Жыл бұрын

Very informative article to learn from it.... It's well Sir George

@ruthdan2789 Жыл бұрын

It would be fair if we heard Mrs Chacha's side of the story... However I like the fact that Mr Chacha's has acknowledged his role in the breakup.

@maureenawour8922 Жыл бұрын

As a woman I know for a fact that that lady was seriously hurt and she was dead inside, it's not easy

@cecilemagabe Жыл бұрын

My neighbour and tribemate sorry for what happened. Challenges are there to make us strong.

@mariabaemedi3326 Жыл бұрын

Agree

@mpume131 Жыл бұрын

@Maureen I can attest because I've experienced it when I reached that stage of stopping to talk to my husband

@maureenawour8922 Жыл бұрын

If only I can tell you my story, it's almost the same with yours

@ruthpartridge6314 Жыл бұрын

@@mpume131 when you have emotionally checked out

@Gatsiga 5 ай бұрын

Very informative ... through this the man became marriage counselor. This guy is full of wisdom may God give him a successful second chance 🙏🙏

@annewaihenya1917 Жыл бұрын

Keep strong George.God will make everything beautiful, at His own time.

@rizikiawadh9489 Жыл бұрын

Imagine when there was this silent war between the parents, the most responsible son Got silently affected mentally. And no body was there for him. This is so unfortunate. LET US SPEAK OUT.

@annemwadime6289 Жыл бұрын

This was a case of two narcissists living under one roof.

@user-kp6bw5lp6n Жыл бұрын

very informative, thank you George for sharing your story

@silviailenji7745 Жыл бұрын

My deep condolence to you man,may God give you more life and remain strong in Jesus name Amen.i have learned something which l will correct myself 🙏🏿

@mercyomulela6832 Жыл бұрын

Marriage is hard work. We learn as we go. May God give us strength & wisdom as spouses & parents.

@jackiemumo9578 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your story sir. You have saved someone's marriage and life.

@user-ry7mq5vy9l 5 ай бұрын

There is so much emotion in this video, you can sense how emotional this things has affected this man from his voice. I sincerely appreciate him for sharing his stories. God heal him and grant him strength.