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Michelle Melone

Michelle Melone

Күн бұрын

I quit social media for a month... and this is what happened
I never tried anything like this before but I recently got stuck in another episode of depression and I figured, why not give it a try. Quitting social media has expanded my perspective on comparison and succes. I highly recommend everyone to try a social media detox at least once! #socialmediadetox I was inspired to do this detox from watching these videos:
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@Welovemenudo23
@Welovemenudo23 5 жыл бұрын
Quitting social media is not a challenge it’s a decision and acceptance
@KaneoYT
@KaneoYT 5 жыл бұрын
Which can be challenging which makes it a challenge
@basicthings7820
@basicthings7820 4 жыл бұрын
n i did😇
@Jess-ew3tm
@Jess-ew3tm 4 жыл бұрын
Nah bby issa challenge 😭 i always feel like im missing out on something like a new meme or something or news
@anismarhalim1194
@anismarhalim1194 4 жыл бұрын
yup i did quit social media.
@pradeepmahale5
@pradeepmahale5 4 жыл бұрын
Truee... Should actually interact with real people.. And d face to face like old times... True
@AWholeLottaLola
@AWholeLottaLola 5 жыл бұрын
_”Everything on social media is fake.”_ _Truest thing I’ve ever heard today._
@amyv9312
@amyv9312 4 жыл бұрын
Lola I read this exactly when she said it!
@andreblackaller3560
@andreblackaller3560 4 жыл бұрын
Lola this is on social media dudes
@breannedixon9712
@breannedixon9712 4 жыл бұрын
That’s not really true though It’s so annoying when people say that People’s social media persona is the exact same in real life No ones who they are at work, or school or whatever as they are at home It’s just as fake Your neighbor could be a pedo, or abuse there kids. People hide depression, and addiction. You never know anyone.. period. That’s not a social media thing. That’s just life
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 4 жыл бұрын
@@breannedixon9712 true
@taliatv6442
@taliatv6442 4 жыл бұрын
Lola then this comment is fake
@arirose8796
@arirose8796 4 жыл бұрын
I quit it for 4 months and no one noticed. That’s how you know you have no friends 💀
@a-stark3
@a-stark3 4 жыл бұрын
damn
@CozygirlSteph
@CozygirlSteph 4 жыл бұрын
This !! Swear this is me too
@TruptiJagtap
@TruptiJagtap 4 жыл бұрын
Yeahh....truth
@modenavigationprivee1227
@modenavigationprivee1227 4 жыл бұрын
Same hehaha
@bhagyashreearote1359
@bhagyashreearote1359 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao same
@Erakko-
@Erakko- 5 жыл бұрын
I abandoned social media four months ago and I can tell you it's the best choice I've made this year. Never ever gonna go back there again.
@melancholissa
@melancholissa 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you. I quit social media last January and I feel so much better.
@midulfrombd
@midulfrombd 4 жыл бұрын
I did in 2017
@alexandraaikonika
@alexandraaikonika 4 жыл бұрын
Same, quit media accidentally for half a year in 2017 and since then I can’t really get myself back there for long. (Instagram and Russian version of Facebook) Only a couple months ago I’ve realized that I don’t want to go back because of how damaging SM is. I literally feel like puking when thinking of wasting an hour there.
@AyshaLovesYou
@AyshaLovesYou 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 21 and I quit social media when I was 17. Never gone back and I love my life. I read, hike, do a lot of art activities, and have more friends now than when I had social media. When I’m out and about I don’t scroll through my phone when I don’t have anything to do, I make conversation with somebody near by or enjoy my surroundings.
@ikeyikey2766
@ikeyikey2766 4 жыл бұрын
@@tokyodiva read a book when u are outside it helping me so much
@Imalliee
@Imalliee 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 15 and I’m quitting today because it have such a terrible effect on me. I think social media is the reason why I’m so insecure today and why I hate myself. So I wanna take a break 😌
@battlelover666gaming2
@battlelover666gaming2 4 жыл бұрын
I am 15 too I quit social media 2 days ago.
@TS-pt6ch
@TS-pt6ch 4 жыл бұрын
Battlelover666 Gaming yes I’m 15 too and I quit too
@jaezeychant1077
@jaezeychant1077 4 жыл бұрын
I am 16 and hell yeah, we're on the right track about quitting social media💜
@adrianexee
@adrianexee 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@stutim3987
@stutim3987 3 жыл бұрын
I am 15 and I am also quitting social media.
@thiccviener825
@thiccviener825 4 жыл бұрын
I quit Instagram weeks ago. It’s completely useless. Everything you post others forget, and everything others post, you’ll forget. It just takes a scroll to forget.
@thiccviener825
@thiccviener825 4 жыл бұрын
Róisín Grant hey there! I’m 2 months+ still clean from instagram. You know what I noticed? I feel sooo much better when someone I haven’t seen in a long time tells me I look much better. Better than constant posts and constant feedbacks. Also I look at others act like drones while they mindlessly scroll. Lemme tell you you’re not missing out on a damn thing.
@JT-gm4fk
@JT-gm4fk 2 жыл бұрын
@@mariellegomez5089 My same experience as a photographer
@sanndraleclerc
@sanndraleclerc 5 жыл бұрын
So true why follow someone that you dont care and don’t talk too 😂 Thats why I deleted my instagram... it’s all fake!
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 4 жыл бұрын
Same here !!!
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 4 жыл бұрын
Just focusing on my family and my kids
@breannedixon9712
@breannedixon9712 4 жыл бұрын
Sandra Leclerc Everything is fake. And I don’t know. I follow cooking accounts to learn to cook. No reason to talk to them lmao. I follow girls in my PA program who I want to be like... no need to talk to them. And I follow dog accounts. Not talking to them. Cleaning accounts, too. It’s a tool and you should take advantage of it Assuming you have a job, do you think your coworkers are who they are? Or that they could (and statistically) a few are horrible people? Probably not
@NarimenPark
@NarimenPark 4 жыл бұрын
Same here 🤘🏼
@danielajagelkova8626
@danielajagelkova8626 4 жыл бұрын
Same!
@thetempuragirl2805
@thetempuragirl2805 4 жыл бұрын
I quit a year ago. Not even a message from "friends". Painful but liberating.
@aminez8355
@aminez8355 4 жыл бұрын
you mean not even a message from fake friends
@mentallama9123
@mentallama9123 4 жыл бұрын
Same here but it's fine. Just learn to enjoy your own company instead of the company of two faced friends.
@thabiblue7212
@thabiblue7212 3 жыл бұрын
The reality of this is so sad I quit 7 days ago and it's only one guy who's been messaging me and we're not even friends
@thetempuragirl2805
@thetempuragirl2805 3 жыл бұрын
I realized people don't leave, the Universe moves them for us.
@iJuanGutierrez
@iJuanGutierrez 4 жыл бұрын
Having social media is living in a virtual world that makes you forget about yourself in the present. People play the sims on social media creating a character thats always “happy” never sad. Also you get more depressed because your living a lie cause your actual life isn’t that way. All people show is highlights of their life knowing that they have way more lows.
@lefrancaisavecchaima4363
@lefrancaisavecchaima4363 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly how i feel !
@egdiy2202
@egdiy2202 4 жыл бұрын
Definitely true!! 🙌
@Deneirioo
@Deneirioo 4 жыл бұрын
Couldn't be me
@Frankielubbock
@Frankielubbock 4 жыл бұрын
I decided to delete Instagram last night It’s like a weight off my shoulders
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 4 жыл бұрын
You feel better
@yvonneumuhoza4622
@yvonneumuhoza4622 4 жыл бұрын
So true
@liyamin
@liyamin 4 жыл бұрын
@Dário III u delete only the application or account too?
@ThisIsWellMalik
@ThisIsWellMalik 4 жыл бұрын
same
@theweirdo820
@theweirdo820 4 жыл бұрын
Tbh, that sounds great. Im gonna do that right now.
@writteninstars
@writteninstars 5 жыл бұрын
I am three weeks off of Instagram. In 21 days, I have discovered 5 new albums, delved deeper into HTML, and have felt less anxious!
@Lord_Sammy
@Lord_Sammy 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you. That social media shit is making us mad depressed n shit. I've havent been wit it for almost 4 months.
@lustinasea9755
@lustinasea9755 4 жыл бұрын
omg what a coincidence i quited social media too and just started HTML im still a beginner
@juliettepierre8289
@juliettepierre8289 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah same here! I'm reading more, taking walks, having longer discussions with friends :)
@stephenwinkler9155
@stephenwinkler9155 4 жыл бұрын
I just quit everything. Never knew my garden looked so beautiful...and had so many weeds! I am fitter, sleep better, got more time for my kids. yahoooo!
@HolisticLongevity
@HolisticLongevity 4 жыл бұрын
Marshall Figg its amazing isn’t it? I did a break for 1.5 months in summer and doing another one right now. Life-changing :)
@marwinosborne8541
@marwinosborne8541 4 жыл бұрын
Congrats.
@icedcoffee6461
@icedcoffee6461 4 жыл бұрын
👍👍
@growwithlala
@growwithlala 4 жыл бұрын
I deleted my social media two days ago and this popped on my recommendation. Google is spying me. HAHAHAHHAA
@mileycyrus201198
@mileycyrus201198 4 жыл бұрын
same lol
@ilyem1244
@ilyem1244 4 жыл бұрын
BRUH I THE SAME THIGG HAPPENED TO ME, except i didn’t delete snap lol
@stoicstarz
@stoicstarz 4 жыл бұрын
lala duran i deleted social media a few days ago, this popped up lmao
@stoicstarz
@stoicstarz 4 жыл бұрын
Benny McNally it’s quite annoying , i feel bored and keep having the urge to re download everything and give up. i’ve noticed that i’ve been obsessing over social media too much, and being obsessed over what i post and when to post and the amount of likes i get. I constantly compare myself to everyone else. I will re download it in half a year. but i knew i had to quit social media for myself, to better myself.
@stoicstarz
@stoicstarz 4 жыл бұрын
Benny McNally i agree, i know the first week is gonna be hard. but i’m actually way happier and i’ve only been off it a few days ! i wish you the best of luck! 2020 Is our year to grow !!
@elisabethleela2630
@elisabethleela2630 4 жыл бұрын
I deleted Snapchat and Instagram when I was 16 and haven’t got it back since, my mental heath has improved so so much. Best decision I ever made!!
@user-us6df2fd9n
@user-us6df2fd9n 4 жыл бұрын
@bornofthevirgomoon How's it been?
@FeliciaOlsson
@FeliciaOlsson 5 жыл бұрын
I love listening to people telling their experiences with being off social media since that reminds me of what I have actually been through myself and achieved. I deleted Instagram, Snapchat and Twitter for about a year ago now. Never thought that I would be able to delete especially Instagram, but it worked. I experienced the exact same thing as you did, that you do not miss out on anything. Thank you for sharing your thoughts about this and reminding me of how great I am actually doing. ❤️
@mynameisliana
@mynameisliana 5 жыл бұрын
I'm doing a month without Instagram right now... just a few days in. And I'm honestly feeling good, along with the fact that it's giving me that much extra time. I might stay off for longer. :)
@FeliciaOlsson
@FeliciaOlsson 5 жыл бұрын
mynameisliana Sound so good! You go girl 😊
@bouchradjeghader2014
@bouchradjeghader2014 5 жыл бұрын
Iam going through this same thing
@lifeofdidi8515
@lifeofdidi8515 4 жыл бұрын
I am planning to completely delete soon
@lilianarodriguez2182
@lilianarodriguez2182 4 жыл бұрын
Felicia Olsson same here it’s been over a year now and it was the best decision I made
@julieonthego
@julieonthego 5 жыл бұрын
I love the promotion of less materialism, our world is so consumed with wanting STUFF and I feel like social media enforces that in some ways. Enjoyed the video Michelle!
@daria9855
@daria9855 4 жыл бұрын
Omg that is exactly what i thought !! :)
@thecoolkar
@thecoolkar 4 жыл бұрын
julie i was the 420th like ;D
@hopehezeta6416
@hopehezeta6416 4 жыл бұрын
i just deleted my instagram now and i watch these kinds of videos to reassure me that i did the right thing HAHAHA
@chulcat
@chulcat 3 жыл бұрын
Did you make a post saying you’re taking a social media break or you just left?
@nailahmathew2885
@nailahmathew2885 3 жыл бұрын
@@chulcat i personally just left
@clarencedhege1
@clarencedhege1 2 жыл бұрын
Same 😂😂😂
@goofycawfee
@goofycawfee 5 жыл бұрын
I’m starting today, going a month without social media this video was really inspiring! 😊
@jiji1241
@jiji1241 5 жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@sebasreartes
@sebasreartes 4 жыл бұрын
So... how about now? 🤔
@preciousrobles2804
@preciousrobles2804 4 жыл бұрын
she probably got the hang of it if she's not replying
@GulmiD
@GulmiD 4 жыл бұрын
How's it going sis?
@goofycawfee
@goofycawfee 4 жыл бұрын
Dipankar Raj Sharma hello! It went great and I feel like going off of social media rewired my brain in a way that I don’t really care about followers or anything anymore. I prioritize my real life now and I’m happy the way it is! When I made this comment, I didn’t use it for around two months. Now I am using social media again for business reasons and only post when I’m required to do so.
@cashmunty
@cashmunty 4 жыл бұрын
social media is so addicting. its insane
@angelscornerrr
@angelscornerrr 4 жыл бұрын
I deleted it today. With everything that's going on i can't handle it. So today i deleted it today and i wanna film my journey for my channel.
@esmesal6006
@esmesal6006 4 жыл бұрын
How u been holding up?
@angelscornerrr
@angelscornerrr 4 жыл бұрын
@@esmesal6006 thanks for asking! I downloaded it back and I stay away from the sad stuff and I follow TONS inspirational and self love accounts so all I see is positivity 😃
@Lyfe_on_My_Terms
@Lyfe_on_My_Terms 3 жыл бұрын
Same bro once I seen the first pic ever of George Floyd I was like “oh nah it’s bout to be some low vibration going on in here let me delete these apps” couldn’t handle it
@avantikaphuyal6793
@avantikaphuyal6793 4 жыл бұрын
You literally explained me , being depressed about not having fun like my social media friends, not having that dress like an insta model, not being successful like a business woman and her perfect life ,then without a second thought I deleted all the apps. Now I'm still alive , haven't missed out on anything and happy than I ever was. Because in the end NOTHING EVEN MATTERS . So go on do it , You're stronger than you think
@katyacatano1556
@katyacatano1556 4 жыл бұрын
I quit social media for a whole semester and I don’t regret for my decision. I still can’t believe that it really helps me in many ways.
@footyfan1151
@footyfan1151 4 жыл бұрын
You go girl!
@nonaambansjourney2022
@nonaambansjourney2022 4 жыл бұрын
Really?did it make any changes?
@givem3aflower
@givem3aflower 4 жыл бұрын
It’s so weird that when social media started to blow up we all were so excited to always see what our "friends" are up too and being able to connect even when you live in another country. Nowadays it just turned to a waste of time and a constant reminder how shitty your life is. (Even tho it actually isn’t that bad )
@tvbuu
@tvbuu 3 жыл бұрын
As an artist, social media is definitely toxic and has a lot of negatives. The day is going to come when I just vanish from it all.
@IonizedP
@IonizedP 4 жыл бұрын
I quit social media last October 2019 and I am now more connected to the environment and to my family. Sometimes you have to disconnect to enable to connection with other more relevant thing.
@Zarazz948
@Zarazz948 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been doing it for 3 years and still counting. I’ve never been happier in my life. I am actually enjoying real life conversations, focusing on expanding my knowledge and reading books, starting my own business. Some people think it’s weird, but hey idc because I’m happy and not living the rest of my life scrolling 😎
@purpdist2355
@purpdist2355 4 жыл бұрын
When you said comparing my success to other people - that's my desease and I lose every time.
@lukasdevries
@lukasdevries 4 жыл бұрын
this
@elineoortwijn9460
@elineoortwijn9460 5 жыл бұрын
I’m gonna start with no social media for a week, just to start ... can’t wait to feel better ! :)
@michelle_melone
@michelle_melone 5 жыл бұрын
Eline Oortwijn that’s amazing! Good luck🍀
@fleur5084
@fleur5084 5 жыл бұрын
Had ik ook gedaan met insta (gebruik geen fb en twitter). Begon ook met een week, en het is nu 3 maanden geleden. Is eigenlijk super makkelijk en mis het eigenlijk helemaal niet. Super chill!
@michelle_melone
@michelle_melone 5 жыл бұрын
Fleur wat goed! Ik vind het ook best grappig dat het eerst een big deal lijkt en we het uiteindelijk helemaal niet missen😄
@lex7968
@lex7968 4 жыл бұрын
Update?
@prodrt1
@prodrt1 4 жыл бұрын
Update?
@buxralabros2160
@buxralabros2160 4 жыл бұрын
Sis I quit social media for 8 months and I was really happy without it
@glowinggrowing7518
@glowinggrowing7518 4 жыл бұрын
I’m trying to do it for this long myself!
@rockandfashion7207
@rockandfashion7207 4 жыл бұрын
What have has changed about you/what have you noticed since quitting social media
@shesaidhi
@shesaidhi 4 жыл бұрын
Internet, it does not bring together. This is a cluster of loneliness.We are kind of together, but each one.The illusion of communication, the illusion of friendship, the illusion of life
@tiffanip5047
@tiffanip5047 4 жыл бұрын
I just came back from a trip to NYC and I had this realization that just because you’re in a big city filled with tons of people, you feel even more lonely. I would pay more attention to everyone in the subway especially and see literally every single body on the train on their phone. No interactions and it was so quiet. It was pretty sad
@averybrewer6982
@averybrewer6982 4 жыл бұрын
i deleted social for a few months and i felt SOO GOOD. i got it back recently and my life is falling
@juliettepierre8289
@juliettepierre8289 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe try deleting one social media app/account at a time
@brunagarcia9550
@brunagarcia9550 4 жыл бұрын
currently my goal is to be 1 year and 6 month without instagram, 8 months into that goal and my anxiety is a lot better!!
@harshishreyan6755
@harshishreyan6755 3 жыл бұрын
Click here - www.howtocrazy.com/benefits-of-social-media-detox/
@user-ig8ry8zg1s
@user-ig8ry8zg1s 4 жыл бұрын
I’ll start right now. I’ll get back to you in a month.
@Noel-wt9qo
@Noel-wt9qo 4 жыл бұрын
^^
@girlie000
@girlie000 4 жыл бұрын
How’s it going so far?
@user-ig8ry8zg1s
@user-ig8ry8zg1s 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry for the late reply. It was our finals week. Here’s what happened after a month of no social media: I’m a student in Manila and we have lots of group works and the way we communicate with each other is mostly through fb messenger hence I wouldn’t say I didn’t use social media but what I changed was my intention in using it. My goal was to lessen how much time I spend on social media and to not open anybody else’s story or post. Memes/ funny vids were fine tho. In the beginning, I had a hard time because opening social media app, though I only have one, was like muscle memory. It’s the first thing that I would do whenever I get bored so I tried leaving my phone for a while, surprisingly it’s not that hard once you start doing it. I also disabled the ringtone of my messenger app so I wouldn’t feel obligated to reply right away and only when I actually have a free time to do it. Second week was easy, I only needed a few days to not want to open my account. I even got lazy on the idea of scrolling through my social media at one point. I also decided to unfollow, if I can’t unfriend them, some people on my friends list that posts too much of their life events. People who post negative stuff were immediately unfriended. You will become what you listen to hence I deliberately avoided people spreading toxic inhibitions on my feed. To say the least, I opened my account to declutter. In next two weeks, I used social media as a way to distress by looking through funny videos or articles unlike before when I would try to check other people’s post which leads to comparison. It felt like I was living in the year 2009 where I only used social media exclusively for fun. Through this experience, I’ve realized how easy it is to just not open social media. And since I avoided other people’s post I felt less obligated to also post everything that’s happening in my life. Also, since I don’t really compare myself anymore, whenever I post a story, because I don’t post on my timeline, I became less critical of what to post and also I became less anxious/caring of what other people might say since I felt like my real world is separated to my social media. Basically, this experience made me take social media not too seriously and actually use it on how it should be used, to communicate.
@haaappy
@haaappy 4 жыл бұрын
I don't have friends, sooo... that would'nt be that hard.
@christina1530
@christina1530 4 жыл бұрын
Tiktok is the app that makes me most insecure and also instagram I wanna delete them but I feel like I will be bored because that’s ill I do on my phone besides KZfaq
@okys575
@okys575 4 жыл бұрын
first time i was thinking like you but now i can do it, and i feel comfortable without instagram 🙃
@pulchritudinousbangtan9819
@pulchritudinousbangtan9819 4 жыл бұрын
Sameee
@crisgarcia519
@crisgarcia519 4 жыл бұрын
same with tik tok, in my case is also so time waster, but i've tried deleting it for a week and now i'm goingo for a month. I've discovered that i like reading more than i thought. You can do this !
@janeeyre6174
@janeeyre6174 4 жыл бұрын
you can read a book ☺️don't feel pressure to start with what everyone likes or maybe classics. you'll find something for you! I would recommend Harry Potter if you didn't read them
@taiyanna
@taiyanna 4 жыл бұрын
yess!! tik tok makes me hella insecure but then there are some videos on there that i enjoy and that are funny. i honestly don’t know what to do that’s the only app i really go on :(
@sonyaazra19
@sonyaazra19 4 жыл бұрын
Quitting social media is a relief....really it is!!! 🙇‍♀️
@user-mm1vg2fk5j
@user-mm1vg2fk5j 5 жыл бұрын
I deleted Instagram and Snapchat yesterday and I feel better :)
@mohamedanane9362
@mohamedanane9362 4 жыл бұрын
- 0567 hi , are you still using them now in quarantine?
@esmesal6006
@esmesal6006 4 жыл бұрын
- 0567 how are u doing now
@user-mm1vg2fk5j
@user-mm1vg2fk5j 4 жыл бұрын
@@esmesal6006 I still delete them sometimes 😊
@akshitajain6010
@akshitajain6010 4 жыл бұрын
I deleted social media on the 1st of December 2019 and I really enjoy I feel like I haven’t missed out on anything and I feel like i haven’t found myself needing it or wanting it great !!!!
@akshitajain6010
@akshitajain6010 4 жыл бұрын
Shea Stirewalt Awww that’s really good something to strive for !!!
@beena8527
@beena8527 4 жыл бұрын
I quit social media few weeks ago. I am beginning to discover myself. I read more books, try new art styles, journaling, exercising etc. there’s so much more for me to discover 😊
@LonnekeVerharen
@LonnekeVerharen 3 жыл бұрын
The problem for me is how much of my time just gets lost to these apps. I’m always complaining about not having enough time but in all those hours on social media I could have done something like improve my art or read more
@haurinori
@haurinori 4 жыл бұрын
I left all my social media accounts since 2 years and 3 months. I deleted my insta account, Lord knows what happened to my Facebook account and I never had Snapchat. Though I've lost my touch with all my old friends, we talk on phone sometimes (I use that old button Nokia phone) but it's not the same. But I like how much I've worked on myself- yoga everyday, good sleeps, wake up early and what not! I'm little, only a *little* addicted to this KZfaq, but I am doing fine. *ITS SO MAGICAL TO BE HEALTHY!*
@Rishaballinone
@Rishaballinone 4 жыл бұрын
I quit social media forever, its been 2 months. And i love enjoying my life, every moment 😍. The main reason of quitting social media was " i thought social media is to being social online" but there was nothing social things happens there. People follow people for no reason and don't do anything. And its soooooo frustrating and time wasting at the same time. Like, if you don't want to talk to me, know about me, interact with me. Inspite of me doing everything for you. Seriouslyyyyyy😑. And i feel soooooo freee now. It was like a invisible heavy weight.
@nadinegone5673
@nadinegone5673 4 жыл бұрын
The moment I watched your video deleted all my social media accounts and realized how much it's impacting on my mental health thank you
@janafbnd8940
@janafbnd8940 4 жыл бұрын
Nadine Gone I’ll do the same now!
@user-nu4en4ms6w
@user-nu4en4ms6w 4 жыл бұрын
I am going to that too!!
@dezirebooker7572
@dezirebooker7572 5 жыл бұрын
Omg this is exactly how I feel. Being on social media seeing people have fun and look cute made me feel LONELY. I’m taking a social media break❤️ Update: I decided to do a 30 day no social media cleanse. At first I would go on my fb for like a minute then hurry and deactivate it again. I realized it was nothing I was missing out on at all. I also deactivated my Snapchat and didn’t get back on it until I realized that it has a 30 day rule if you don’t log in ..it will delete your account. Then I deactivated it. Instagram I stayed on because it’s like a Pinterest for me. I unfollowed people from my community and followed pages I actually liked. I muted people that I did know that way I wouldn’t get FOMO. Since my cleanse I really could care less for being on social media and posting/sharing all day❤️it also has made me aware of what I want to put out there for the world to see.
@ayeshalarezsisi8899
@ayeshalarezsisi8899 4 жыл бұрын
Almost three weeks since I decided to quit in my IG, FB and Twitter. It's pretty exhausting. You know, when youre just sitting there and scrolling your phone but deep down, your mind feels like suffocated with all these fake stuff and crap. I am somehow relieved after quitting it and decided to watch Ted talks instead and other videos that are beneficial to me.
@ga652
@ga652 4 жыл бұрын
There are more things to worry about than what everyone else is doing or what everyone else thinks. Our society nowadays is so hive mind that people like this think getting off social media for a month is going to make some huge positive impact on their lives, but they created the problem with social media themselves. I only have an Instagram & I don’t use it everyday, & when I do I’m not comparing myself to other people because I don’t gaf about what anyone else is doing but me, and what’s going to bring my life success & happiness. Until people start truly living for themselves depression, stress & anxiety is going to continue to increase in our society. Just do what makes you happy y’all, nothing else matters in the end.
@KtRosemary
@KtRosemary 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been feeling a little “meh” lately and I think part of that is because I’m not feeling productive during the day because I’m spending all my free time on social media. This video has really made me think about stepping away from it for a while... so thanks! 👍
@alelibalingit6225
@alelibalingit6225 4 жыл бұрын
social media made me insecure about myself because of those influencers that made me think that i should be perfect just like them. this is the first day that i deleted my snapchat and deactivated my instagram,fb and twitter. I hope i'll be happier with my decision and my mental health will get better. :)
@theunknownknight24
@theunknownknight24 4 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: In fact we are just seeing blinking pixels on a display that are colored in different colors... think about
@sugan6018
@sugan6018 4 жыл бұрын
Florian the same could be said for real life in a way
@SonamCho
@SonamCho 4 жыл бұрын
I remember how I used to play with my mates outside everytime and now we all know how its changed. 😇
@garrett8454
@garrett8454 4 жыл бұрын
1st world problems. I’m done with social media. Just deleted everything
@lotta4968
@lotta4968 4 жыл бұрын
I think I‘m gonna do this in december
@donotbangchan
@donotbangchan 4 жыл бұрын
Wish you luck!! :)
@crystalianike
@crystalianike 4 жыл бұрын
Yes me too!
@naaimsmall6480
@naaimsmall6480 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@girlie000
@girlie000 4 жыл бұрын
So, did you? :)
@lotta4968
@lotta4968 4 жыл бұрын
- anushka. No),: I had to use it for a few things but in january of february I’m gonna do it
@Maki-qw8he
@Maki-qw8he 5 жыл бұрын
I have already deleted Instagram and Snapchat. Just waiting on Facebook to delete. I haven't been on for about a month and i see improvements in myself already.
@radioactivedynamite
@radioactivedynamite 4 жыл бұрын
I quit social media because I thought it would help me cope with depression, it's been 3 days so far but I'm no longer addicted to looking at my phone in the morning.
@samiyanoor1974
@samiyanoor1974 4 жыл бұрын
I'm on my 1st day of social media detox and this video really added a new inspiration to me. I'll comment again on the 30th day about how much I've grown
@majinblackgear5bankaisuper151
@majinblackgear5bankaisuper151 4 жыл бұрын
Samiya Noor you better
@ale8oneboy
@ale8oneboy 5 жыл бұрын
Michelle, thanks for sharing. It was exactly what I needed to hear today. Yesterday I made the decision to take a break from social media. I have a bad habit of comparing myself to others. FOMO is a real thing. Peace.
@emjayperegrino
@emjayperegrino 4 жыл бұрын
Yesterday, I decided to quit using FB and I even deactivated my account. Thanks for your insights about quitting social media.
@eline_sandes
@eline_sandes 4 жыл бұрын
I always quit instagram during summer and the holidays because I want to focus more on my mental health and productivity. This year I struggled a lot but it was still worth it. We need to delete these apps every once in a while in order to take a deep breath and reconnect with real life
@sethlin4282
@sethlin4282 4 жыл бұрын
One thing I hate about social media is when a friend decides to unfriend or blocks you. That feel is like you've been stab into the heart. To me, I take it very personally when somebody unfriends or blocks me on social media. I define that as a betrayal. Because of that personal feel, I made the decision to permanently delete all my social media & it was the BEST decision I ever made. I permanently deleted all my social media accounts (preferably Facebook & Instagram) & been "social media sober" since November 2018. How I feel after deleting my social media? I feel much better especially for my mental health! I felt more happier to not witness who in my friends list decide to block or unfriend me.
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 4 жыл бұрын
Seth especially when they like your photos but never don't have time to contact you on the phone. I deleted all my social media I am getting to the point of my own happiness and inner peace and trying to best for my family and other important things in my life e
@anonymousperson6805
@anonymousperson6805 4 жыл бұрын
I deleted my instagram 💜 Edit :2 months later and all I can say I feel better
@prabhjot_kaurdhaliwal6016
@prabhjot_kaurdhaliwal6016 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I just think everyone posts some content on Instagram and shows they are rich.If everyone is Rich who is suffering from poverty??
@juliettepierre8289
@juliettepierre8289 4 жыл бұрын
Woah true
@resonanz161
@resonanz161 4 жыл бұрын
I stopped using Snapchat 3 years ago. I also stopped using Twitter half a year ago and this christmas I deleted Instagram. I only use KZfaq now. I started reading again. I started actually watching movies and series(which I could not do before because I felt like I had a very Short attention span, which got way better) . I also started writing more. Dealing with myself and actually processing all the input my brain gets every day instead of comparing myself to others 24/7 and being overwhelmed with all the information flowing in. I'm still in contact with all my friends. Even those who live on the other side of the planet because of messenger apps. And I'm still a normal person. Not some kind of technology hating missionary.
@MelissaKane
@MelissaKane 4 жыл бұрын
I did a detox for 6 months and learned so much. I'm now on the journey to helping others with their business goals b/c that's what I was lacking myself right at the beginning of my detox. Glad you learned a lot during this time.
@norayahya3494
@norayahya3494 5 жыл бұрын
I decided I would delete twitter because it makes me angry every time I read stupid people’s comments about somethings that are really bad and they think it’s ok. I don’t know why I do that to myself. 🤷🏽‍♀️
@julissax5142
@julissax5142 4 жыл бұрын
yesss I’ve deleted twitter many times for that reason
@CCTH-86
@CCTH-86 3 жыл бұрын
Same here. I deleted my Twitter account after more than 10 years of owning it. I left for that very same reason. Oh, and severe anxiety on top of that.
@valeriaochoa3904
@valeriaochoa3904 4 жыл бұрын
Girl, tomorrow is December 31 and I will do this. You really inspired me! This year won't be the same. I'll come in february 2020. ✨🙌
@saraimaneseddar2212
@saraimaneseddar2212 4 жыл бұрын
Did u do it !? how it feels ?
@lizanzo5126
@lizanzo5126 4 жыл бұрын
Did you doit girl?
@aidanakhassenova3337
@aidanakhassenova3337 4 жыл бұрын
That’s already February,how is it going?
@debbiegroth2049
@debbiegroth2049 4 жыл бұрын
i did this the month of november and it was so worth it. i finally found myself and found that everything on social media isn’t real and it’s all just fake. i learned how pointless it was. my happiness increased and my anxiety/sadness decreased. so worth it 1000/10 would recommend!!💗
@guillemsalinas1399
@guillemsalinas1399 4 жыл бұрын
This is actually motivating me to try to uninstall everything again and learn to live by myself. I've done that before a couple of times but ended up falling for social media again because I felt like everyone was having fun online and constantly getting replied to stories and meeting new people and I was missing out on everything, even though that was definitely just a thought and not the reality. Definitely going to try again soon!
@shreyankpatel2591
@shreyankpatel2591 5 жыл бұрын
I have not used Instagram for like 10 months now. And it feels great. I don't know if I want to use it anymore. Because it doesn't add any values to your life. So instead of using social media, I'll advise you to do something productive like read a book, go for a run or you can even watch a good movie/series. Tip: If you really want to use it, try doing it on your desktop/laptop. It's won't be addictive that way. P. S.: Loved this video 💙
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 4 жыл бұрын
I don't deleted all my social media I feel you most people who are on social media don't even have an normal life .. they just want vadiliation . I feel like sometimes people don't understand your sturggles you face in life. My twin flame she treat me like crap she never make contact with me. I am in a kramic relationship effected on me. She just never make contact with to me , to atleast check up on me. I am not chasing her no more. It's done. Self love and self worth and self respect.. so called friend
@shreyankpatel2591
@shreyankpatel2591 4 жыл бұрын
@@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 Yeah true that. People should use the time for self development instead of social media.
@user-umcub
@user-umcub 4 жыл бұрын
After doing this I can safely say it had no effect on my mental health, instead I watched way more KZfaq videos It's been 2 years now
@sheilavalentine5116
@sheilavalentine5116 4 жыл бұрын
I have personally never felt interested in social media even though I have been surrounded most of my life by people who are practically obsessed with it, so it's interesting to see so many people realizing the perks of living with out it.
@sigaudfabienne
@sigaudfabienne 4 жыл бұрын
I love this video! You said a few very important things. Like all being fake, losing a lot of time, FOMO and materialism :)
@tyramong7758
@tyramong7758 5 жыл бұрын
I deleted social media I just bought a house and moving to a new town gonna focus on my growth than my social media
@kaim0nd
@kaim0nd 4 жыл бұрын
To me, comparing yourself to strangers sharing their pictures on social media is a chance for self reflectance. Try to understand why you feel that way about yourself, your life, because how unfair it'll be to want a person to quit documenting their lives on social media because of our insecurities. It worked for me.
@yusuhani
@yusuhani 4 жыл бұрын
i am on my second day from taking a one month break from social media and it kinda feels like i left out but I think it's probably bcuz friends keep on chatting and ghosting us and there's a fear, i'd miss her online this time. but else, I think youtube is a better community than Instagram. we don't compare ourselves anymore, we just enjoy the content.
@KM-lo3hv
@KM-lo3hv 3 жыл бұрын
I’m quitting social media for a month, just started yesterday. Doing it cus im just gonna try to focus on myself and find myself during that time, its time for self care sis and I’m going back on that shit. 👏🏿👏🏿
@zdango9279
@zdango9279 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you,this past months,comparing my self to others thier success,travels,relationships and by that i had a breakdown and so after i survive that breakdown i decided to quit and leave social media like deactivated my fb acc.And i read inspirational ,self growth books.
@juninanda3371
@juninanda3371 5 жыл бұрын
You're doing great things! I've been quit social media for 3 days. Hope I can reach 30 days!
@PUJA-jl9qn
@PUJA-jl9qn 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I just realised a few weeks ago that technology and social media shouldn't be a distraction from the real joys of life. I started to take it just as an option, and that made me feel better about myself and my music. I'm less anxious, less depressed. I feel I can be bored, sitting on a chair in the yard, and that's not something bad. In fact it's even more healthy for the mind than social media.
@dilpong
@dilpong 4 жыл бұрын
I really love to hear other people's stories about taking a break from social media. So inspiring, thank you
@arbitrarylib
@arbitrarylib 5 жыл бұрын
Social media and the internet is honestly boring
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 4 жыл бұрын
It's really is unfortunately
@nashra1001
@nashra1001 4 жыл бұрын
I’m watching this on December 20, 2019 wow what a coincidence
@alinabuschmann3199
@alinabuschmann3199 4 жыл бұрын
I realized that social media can turn people 180 around. I saw this on myself. As a child and young teen I loved my hobbies, going out and didn't care about most things. But when I was around 13 I first had Facebook and with 17 I made an instagram account and followed people I looked up to. But it changed me mostly negatively. I would get distracted by these videos and "perfect" pictures and constantly dream abut this dream life everyone else had. I got depressed and started to neglect my hobbies because I thought so many poeple were better than me. And I stopped going out because I was chained to my phone. After some years I decided to delete social media and it improved so many things. I realized how artificial everything was and that it's ridiculous to compare myself to this.
@aarna3625
@aarna3625 4 жыл бұрын
Before trying to be cool or doing what cool people do Just ask yourself" how many people you have actually asked how cool they are?" No one really cares if you are cool or not, some people will tease and then forget It's your life don't let it be controlled by others Like what you do not what the trend is Thanks for reading 😉
@Fridasjoy
@Fridasjoy 4 жыл бұрын
I quit instagram for a year, just came back. I should’ve done a video, clearly
@guitarfreak2279
@guitarfreak2279 4 жыл бұрын
I want to do this too. And next year I am gonna start my personal blog about becoming happy
@sarama6945
@sarama6945 4 жыл бұрын
You really inspired me i just feel like i was wasting too much time on social medias that it makes me feel less lucky about the conditions of my life but from now m gonna leave all that and give more time to improve my talents and practise more my hobbies and start reading books thank you ❤❤
@strawverrybear8702
@strawverrybear8702 4 жыл бұрын
I haven't deleted my social media yet but I haven't gotten back on FB and IG for 3 months now. I agree that it has significantly reduced my anxiety and has made me more happier in general. I still have KZfaq and Reddit but I only use it to watch uplifting videos.
@Patrycja99nl
@Patrycja99nl 5 жыл бұрын
Whoa, this video is actually really inspiring. I've been sick of wasting time on social media but I find it hard to let go off it. You gave me some motivation girl, thank youuu xx you're awesome
@kiwiradioNZ
@kiwiradioNZ 5 жыл бұрын
Subtle art book is good. Agreed! I've been more productive and more exercise since quitting social media. KZfaq I still like.
@soumiliray1522
@soumiliray1522 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this inspiring video. Just uninstalled my social media apps. I will do two weeks without social media. Can't wait to feel better.
@zuziamarchewa7395
@zuziamarchewa7395 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot for this video :) I don't feel happy because of procrinasting time on social media and I wanted quit it a long time ago, but I was afraid that I will miss something. Now I know I won't, so I'm gonna do this for few weeks
@orphicana9657
@orphicana9657 4 жыл бұрын
this is crazy that it came up in my recommended after i deleted snapchat and instagram five days ago (only social media i use apart from reddit which i scroll through for like 10 minutes idk if that’s cheating lol) and planned to enter the new decade without it! hopefully, i don’t feel the urge to re download it after 14th of january 2020 but who knows! haha, this video is amazing :)
@abbey3806
@abbey3806 4 жыл бұрын
Hey! how’s it going?
@orphicana9657
@orphicana9657 4 жыл бұрын
@@abbey3806 it's going really well, actually. i really do not feel the need to post my life or see what others are doing. it's made me a lot more productive too :) my studying has gotten better so yeahhh
@giannacrotty8045
@giannacrotty8045 5 жыл бұрын
I love you!! Spread your message, we can help other people!
@gamermk2
@gamermk2 4 жыл бұрын
You give off such a chill presence. First video I saw from your channel and I really like your style. Thanks for your personal experience and keep up the KZfaq channel :)
@nassimmustdie_
@nassimmustdie_ 4 жыл бұрын
I THANK YOU SO SO SO MUCH FOR GIVING ME THE MOTIVATION
@siskahearts
@siskahearts 5 жыл бұрын
I can’t stop with social media cuz then id have to miss u xxx ur biggest fan!! 🤩
@sebastianokami5312
@sebastianokami5312 4 жыл бұрын
My personal experience. I deactivated my facebook account 3 months ago. On the first days of august my 19 year old cat died from a heart attack, I was devastated, I was so depressed I couldn't neither eat nor sleep, I was really lost. 15 days into agust I posted what happened to my cat and what I was going through. To my unpleasant surprise only 20%, give or take, of my facebook friends responded to that post with support, kind words or whatever. On the other hand; a lot, and I mean a lot of that silent 80% were people that I knew and see regularly face to face at work or random events. To be honest, I started to feel hate and anger towards those friends, I was really upset, at the point of crossing paths IRL and I decided to ignore them, turn my head, look to the ground, jaywalking, all sorts of madness from my part, because I was hurt by their indifference. It was then that I realize, beyond what happened to me after my cat died, that facebook changed me, I never hated or had so much resentment towards people because I felt that they didn't gave a fuck, which is true, but facebook oppened my eyes to that reality and that was it for me. I tried to deactivate before for having issues with ex girlfriends, former bros, etc. This time is bye bye for real. I keep an IG account but just for my job, but I'm on the verge of deactivate that thing too
@ani1528
@ani1528 4 жыл бұрын
Seba Okami I‘m sorry to hear that! :( but I’m glad that you left these fake people behind and hopefully feel a lot better now 💕
@sebastianokami5312
@sebastianokami5312 4 жыл бұрын
@@ani1528 Thank you. I was thinking, without being too weird or anything, facebook was an addiction for me, or almost. I was so on edge for the likes, the pictures, the popularity, I was so stressed posting something and waiting for the reactions. I knew I had to leave it but I never could. Now it's like nothing for me, after all this time off I don't even think in going back, not at all. So, I think this is a gift from my cat, I really miss him but I think all the good things he gave to me in all these 19 years, and closing the door to this parade of fake people and all, I consider it the ultimate present.
@nashra1001
@nashra1001 4 жыл бұрын
such an eye opener! this is great thank you so much for sharing your experience with us i hope you find inner peace if u’re back on social media
@shadsaleh6146
@shadsaleh6146 4 жыл бұрын
This is so relatable for me! I went through the exact same thing and deleted all the apps! It really is so amazing how much you can improve while just focusing on yourself and your life.
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