愛上直男怎麼辦?! 那些愛情友情的難題 What should I do if I fall for a straight?

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Күн бұрын

這集我們來聊三個主題:
1. 跟前任感情很好,該怎麼跟現任說?
2. 告白直男失敗了,我該怎麼面對和處理?
3. 摯友結婚了,該怎麼調適心情?
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In this episode, we'll discuss three topics:
1. How to talk to your current partner about having a good relationship with your ex?
2. How should I face and deal with confessing to a straight guy and being rejected?
3. How to adjust your feelings when your best friend gets married?
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@jellyyu2600
@jellyyu2600 4 ай бұрын
看完影片最有感的就是 宇成的思緒跟表達能力都好清晰喔😆
@patrickseager8046
@patrickseager8046 3 ай бұрын
I do hope you guys and your families are fine after the earthquake. Kind wishes from South Africa.
@atzmisk9491
@atzmisk9491 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for opening this space to share our stories, thank you for loving your fans and listening to us, I love you guys so much, you are my strength and driving force. ❤
@rossjam123
@rossjam123 4 ай бұрын
I find these videos very comforting. Thanks.
@John-yc8dh
@John-yc8dh 4 ай бұрын
喜歡你們影片,感謝你們陪伴👍
@HaitianCutie18
@HaitianCutie18 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience and advice on these topics. Definitely helpful to hear different viewpoints 😊😊
@kcong4037
@kcong4037 4 ай бұрын
Thanks...很喜欢看你们分析,你们给的意见都很有道理,是个很成熟的看法。 对于直男的我只是当他们是好自己好兄弟吧了,像宇成所讲的知道是机会很小的就不要去追不然最后连朋友都没得做,每次回去梹城一定会去找那直男好兄弟,说真的认识他们时都是单身,哈!从他们拍拖,结婚到做了爸爸我都有参与,所以和他们的老婆孩子都很熟,我一回去找他们那一定会载我去吃好料或喝咖啡,孩子小时候会跟着一起去但到了中学就不跟我们这几位老人家出去了,所以我们还是可以无所不谈。 很喜欢看你们的分享,很有道理,你们三位都非常棒。。。。
@kcong4037
@kcong4037 3 ай бұрын
Hi bro 这一集好像一个月之前有播放过了. 天佑台湾。。。。你们三位俊男都还好吧!愿您们都平平安安。。。。加油台湾
@thrupledaily
@thrupledaily 3 ай бұрын
這個是會員優先看,幾週後才開放成功開影片的唷!(Jeremy
@tingchunong4386
@tingchunong4386 3 ай бұрын
超級寫實的問題 邏輯思考表達到位
@user-ni7wx9ie5m
@user-ni7wx9ie5m 3 ай бұрын
Impressive Adam with cute confused looks ❤❤❤🥰
@user-tnuiop
@user-tnuiop 3 ай бұрын
好喜歡你們的影片 你們都好可愛🩷🩷🩷🩷
@pakpoomtreechairusmee5648
@pakpoomtreechairusmee5648 4 ай бұрын
I did fall in love with a Japanese straight guy once…and never confess to him because we were very good friends at that moment. However, at the end I need to leave that relationship behind…Yes, it was painful at the beginning but still beautiful in my memory. Time will help to recover your feeling sooner or later❤❤❤
@thrupledaily
@thrupledaily 3 ай бұрын
That's right! Are you still friends now? It's never easy to fall in love with someone we shouldn't (Jeremy
@pakpoomtreechairusmee5648
@pakpoomtreechairusmee5648 3 ай бұрын
@@thrupledaily Not anymore Jeremy…its quite too hurt to keep continue the relationship even being friends. I totally agree with you! It never work out to fall in love with someone we should not.
@starsmlad
@starsmlad 3 ай бұрын
Firstly, it’s great that subscribers have someone to write to and talk about important things👍 your opinion is three experiences of life, plus in the comments people will exchange experiences❤ I agree that we will have to go through a breakup, first love, separation, disappointment, other situations.. it’s just an experience.. remember one thing - don’t get hung up on it.. let the traumatic experience be short, and the good experience or interesting experience be long.. find ways out.. life is not so long.. secondly, I sympathize with your country.. I hope there will be no more earthquakes
@billywong2297
@billywong2297 4 ай бұрын
愛上直男這個問題,我曾經也經歷過,所以也可以分享一下。第一次有初戀的心動就是大學的同班男生,由大一開始,不論上課下課或外出活動,在一班要好的同學中,他的個性氣質笑容都最吸引我,他很愛玩愛鬧,像個小孩子,與他相處會覺得好快樂;他常常找我教他功課,不知不覺間便喜歡被他依賴的感覺;我不愛足球,但會去足球場看他踢球;我不太會打籃球,也會陪他打比賽;晚上無聊時會打電話給他閒聊,他又陪我聊上一兩小時。那個時候,是第一次有愛的悖動,沒有好好管理自己的思緒,只是完全陶醉於我跟他的幻想中。然後到了大二,就算知道他是直男,喜歡他的感覺沒有減,所以最後還是對他表白。當然結果是吃了檸檬🍋⋯⋯ 那次告白失敗後,如同潑出了水收不回來,對他付出的(單方面)感情收不到回應,跟他的關係由我自己起了變化,就算他對我態度依舊,但是我心起了尷尬,與他一起會不自在,見他跟其他同學親密會生妒忌,這種感覺令我覺得痛不欲生,最後我選擇自己疏遠他,讓時間慢慢沖淡我對他的感覺(我知道他感到我在疏遠他,他也沒有阻止我)。到後來交了男朋友,我才能坦然面對這位同學,他也有祝福我們。 不管對方是不是直男,當喜歡一個人的感覺來了,我們都無法回避,能做的,只有如何回應這份感覺,然後隨遇而安,讓時間帶著我們走下去。
@nathaliegoncalves5733
@nathaliegoncalves5733 4 ай бұрын
Bravo boys for your communication between you and that you share with us. I wish you a lot of love🕊️💚 bonheur à vous 3 🤍🍀
@MoMo-ug7fq
@MoMo-ug7fq 3 ай бұрын
I do hope you are all safe 🙏 much love from MoMo in uk xxx
@user-xc1rz3pr7z
@user-xc1rz3pr7z 4 ай бұрын
母單這麼多年的我來說,因為渴望談戀愛,也曾經向很要好的朋友告白過。某次借住他家的一個夜晚,他突如其來地跟我聊他喜歡一個的女生 ( 欣賞而已還沒告白),說著她的種種特徵、讓他心動的行為,我跟他說那就跟她告白呀!! 他卻說再看看,也不知道他有什麼好顧慮的。後來反問我:那你呢?有沒有喜歡的人? 我說:我可能喜歡你 他聽到之後卻不驚訝 繼續看著我 (我那時候想著可能平時跟他的舉動有些讓他懷疑了,喜歡跟他出門,聽他聊美食、聊鞋子、聊電腦,喜歡跟他穿一樣的衣服,喜歡跟他一起睡覺,甚至我有提出要跟他一起洗澡的要求,可惜他拒絕了) 我則回覆他說:或許我只是把崇拜跟依賴當成愛情了,並不是真的愛上你吧。 就這樣子把告白帶過去了,之後的日子裡我跟他還是會約出來吃飯見面聊天,我也還是不清楚自己對待他究竟是愛情還是友情。我媽常常在懷疑我是不是喜歡他,因為我都只跟他出門而已,沒看過我去找別人。
@user-qc6zf6xu6u
@user-qc6zf6xu6u 3 ай бұрын
Tem continuação a sua história? Eu me senti representado porque ja passei por algo semelhante
@ianlee4099
@ianlee4099 3 ай бұрын
添加慾望的喜歡;也因為夠喜歡所以開口表白了!但,感覺還不到愛的程度⋯
@user-mo5qi8co1y
@user-mo5qi8co1y 3 ай бұрын
我看了你的故事,感觉填了欲望的喜欢。内心深处对他的喜欢好像并不是那么强烈。或许,你只是对他有好感。喜欢他的个性,某些部分却并不是有着那么深的在意。
@hyunpark1033
@hyunpark1033 2 ай бұрын
You are so perfect in everything!! In addition to being very beautiful, you have a relationship full of love, affection and understanding. However, you guys are still great with words, you made me think a lot during this video. I love you so much, I always follow all your videos ❤ During this video I was able to think about a relationship I had in the past, it was the first time I had feelings for someone of the same sex as me. I admit it was strange,Because we were friends and I can't express my feelings. But I think in the end, we learn from our past relationships and from that we grow
@abdullahmakkah998
@abdullahmakkah998 3 ай бұрын
Adam is very cute❤ i love both all of you. Wishes from india❤❤
@eunicemay7520
@eunicemay7520 4 ай бұрын
I have a similar experience with story 2. My friend, V and I had been classmates for 5 years and being friend since then until now. What happened was he confessed to me but I refused him as that time I had feeling for my other childhood friend. For quite some times V and I didn't contact each other until we had our own partners. We started to contact each other back after we met at our friend's wedding reception and now we still send greetings and wishes whenever festive seasons and birthdays. In my opinion, we must learn to let go, let time heals you, move on and find a chance to continue as friends.
@jf_zycnvk
@jf_zycnvk 3 ай бұрын
祝福🧡💛
@matthewjay660
@matthewjay660 3 ай бұрын
J.A.G., 我希望你们一切安好,在地震中平安。🇺🇸🤝🇹🇼
@Mandu_mj68
@Mandu_mj68 4 ай бұрын
第二🤩
@Duxxterq
@Duxxterq 3 ай бұрын
I hope all three of u stay in this relationship forever 😊
@calvindavis2054
@calvindavis2054 3 ай бұрын
The questions presented here in this video each were very good questions indeed. And for each one of these scenarios, we all have something to learn. I think people, that means everyone, needs to understand that there will always be that delicate balance of life that we must then deal with in every relationship in our lives. Sometimes we want things to be as easy as we wish that it could be, and find ourselves with “harsh” realities of what life will always show itself to be. In each of these scenarios, what was forgotten for these individuals is the acceptance of a reality. They are all looking for a way to bend that reality without accepting. We will meet many people in our lives. Some relationships might last for many years or even lifetime. But some relationships will come to an abrupt end, and we will struggle to deal with it, sometimes badly. And that’s okay. In that instance, that feeling of hurt will present itself and is an emotion that cannot be escaped. We all have to work through similar feelings, no one person is unique. And it’s easier for some more so than others. But this is life. You will be better to always remember that. The more you find ways towards acceptance, the better decision you make for your own wellbeing. And that’s not to say never step out there. But the exact opposite. The more you step out there, getting entangled in unforeseen circumstances, emphasis on “unforeseen”, the more we mature. How we handle each circumstance will have lasting effects. There’s no escaping that. So remain aware, learn, deal and then heal.
@Kittlesub
@Kittlesub 4 ай бұрын
I understand question about the best friend getting married. You must be feeling loss and confusion but it's natural. It happens to all friendships, doesn't mean they love you less just that they won't have as much time. Open yourself to new friendships this is the best advice. You don't want to pressure your married friend just accept it and find more things to fill your time.
@CocoFtChanel
@CocoFtChanel 3 ай бұрын
But it’s actually hard to find new friends after you are 30+ years old, plus if you’re also introverted 😅 and even if I make new friends, most of the time they are either in a relationship or they’re already married & have children.. I don’t have any singles friends, I’m always the only one. It’s like I’m a magnet for people, who are already married 😂 So saying: „just find new friends“ sounds waaaay easier than it is in real life 🙈
@Kittlesub
@Kittlesub 3 ай бұрын
@@CocoFtChanel omg you are right. I understand better now. If I may ask, how do you deal with it? What advice would you give in this situation?
@CocoFtChanel
@CocoFtChanel 3 ай бұрын
@@Kittlesubhmmm, I don’t really deal with it, that’s the thing 😅 I wish I had an answer for you. First it was really hard, but after time you’ll get used to it. So I try doing things on my own and be happy with myself rather than depending on my friends
@Kittlesub
@Kittlesub 3 ай бұрын
@@CocoFtChanel that makes sense. Thank you for sharing 🫶🏽
@sherievaughn6475
@sherievaughn6475 3 ай бұрын
I hope you all are safe after that earthquake. Much love to you
@elisangelacordeiro3759
@elisangelacordeiro3759 3 ай бұрын
Gostei do vídeo
@eaglegolden8326
@eaglegolden8326 3 ай бұрын
Love you guys I m french men married to korean men, I almost return Korea I hope will have time to travel to Taïwan 😊
@kenfraza
@kenfraza 4 ай бұрын
This was a great discussion! As someone still “in the closet” I am attracted to straight men, but rarely act on that impulse.
@suelinagel3116
@suelinagel3116 3 ай бұрын
Amo vocês três, esse amor de vcs 3 é muito poderoso.beijos de uma brasileira de 62 anos..lili
@paulapuspita8936
@paulapuspita8936 3 ай бұрын
Blue ..my favorite colour..hi guys ..nice to see you again ..greeting from Indonesia ..🫰
@sujibldrama
@sujibldrama 3 ай бұрын
Adam 😘
@billywong2297
@billywong2297 4 ай бұрын
第三個問題的根源在於當事人接受不了自己最重要的東西從自己生活中離開,除了害怕失去,也妒忌搶走那重要的東西的人,這個情況如像父母捨不得女兒出嫁一樣,但每個人都有自己追求幸福的路要走,我們沒辦法把一個人永遠佔有。希望當事人能懂得放下,或找其他人、事去替代他的閏蜜。如果他是愛他的閏蜜,也希望閏蜜能找到她的幸福。我們要學習在人生中適當時候要放下一些東西,才能學懂釋懷。
@eidkejek4488
@eidkejek4488 3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@anuarvonen
@anuarvonen 3 ай бұрын
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜❤️🧡💛💚💙💜❤️🧡💛💚💙💜❤️
@Blfangirl.
@Blfangirl. 3 ай бұрын
You know you're obsessed with someone's boyfriend here when you just missed to read the English captions just to stare at them😂
@minicarolma
@minicarolma 4 ай бұрын
希望大家都找到自己的幸福❤❤
@thrupledaily
@thrupledaily 3 ай бұрын
真的是需要努力(Grayn
@teckjiasee5671
@teckjiasee5671 4 ай бұрын
今天我是第一名
@user-hg8sd5kh3v
@user-hg8sd5kh3v Ай бұрын
那就愛吧
@karsteinntryggvason4735
@karsteinntryggvason4735 3 ай бұрын
😁😁😁❤
@user-db4hm7zr7l
@user-db4hm7zr7l 3 ай бұрын
愛上直男經驗..真的很痛苦
@anuarvonen
@anuarvonen 3 ай бұрын
Anu Suomi Finland 2024
@richardjordan9684
@richardjordan9684 3 ай бұрын
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@user-cm4kn1pi2z
@user-cm4kn1pi2z 4 ай бұрын
Jeremy, you say you don't want to expend energy on a relationship that has little chance of success. But what chance was there that Grayn and Adam would accept you and your relationship would succeed? Grayn is right, even if there is a 0.5% chance, in love, everything is tempting!
@LusaïlToDoha
@LusaïlToDoha 3 ай бұрын
Jeremy also said that if it didn’t work he would have accept their decision ( Grayn and Adam as a couple). So it seems that his point is valid. Don’t try to unvalidate his opinion by being out of context. I do not think we can compare his position ( he is not straight and they were all three having mutual feelings for each other) to te case that they brought here were one side is having feeling for the other one without having any knowledge of it until he confessed. Peace!
@migdaliacrespo4821
@migdaliacrespo4821 3 ай бұрын
Me parece no se sin sentido el tema q hablan porque no mejor hablan de ustedes de su relación q yo todavía no la entiendo ustedes los 3 son novios como se puede tener una relación así ahí muchas preguntas en mi mente como se conocieron y decidieron llevar este tipo de relación lo normal es tener un novio pero ustedes no es así ustedes 3 se pesan explíquenle eso a todos los seguidores de ustedes
@danielweir67
@danielweir67 4 ай бұрын
guys i'm gonna make a statement about the 2nd couple. one, gay. and the other not. do not be in a hurry to break up. because of the confession. give the straight guy a chance to mull over the confession. he may take it as a complement or not. he may say, i don't feel that way about men. or he may say he'd like to examine the situation more. there are so many scenarios between them. it's really a wait and see situation. time will tell. 🏳‍🌈
@stulzgrun7097
@stulzgrun7097 3 ай бұрын
Hi guys. I already know a fan from Russia. I watched your video about the answers to the questions (stories). I have a question and I hope that one of you will answer it. I didn't accept myself as gay until I was 20 and I was hurting myself. that's why I had almost no friends. And now I have problems communicating and understanding how to be a friend. I am either too active that I cross the line when meeting a possible friend or I am passive for fear of imposing myself. contacting a specialist psychologist does not help yet. What does friendship mean to you and what kind of behavior is right in your opinion? for example, I quickly get attached and open up to a person. and then I regret it because friendship doesn't start anyway. In Russia, they say "A friend is known in trouble" But it is not always possible to go through a difficult ordeal, and it turns out that friendship does not happen. I know that in Asia, the relationship in terms of friendship is different, that there is a topic with bromance. as a result, I want to ask you what should someone who is bad at social skills do? By the way, I'm 26 years old, I probably look like a loser. if such questions bother me at this age. 嗨,伙计们。 我已经认识一个来自俄罗斯的粉丝。 我看了你关于问题(故事)答案的视频。 我有一个问题,我希望你们中的一个会回答它。 直到我20岁,我才接受自己是同性恋,我伤害了自己。 这就是为什么我几乎没有朋友。 现在我在沟通和理解如何成为朋友方面遇到了问题。 我要么过于活跃,以至于在遇到可能的朋友时越界,要么因为害怕强加自己而被动。 联系专家心理学家还没有帮助。 友谊对你意味着什么,你认为什么样的行为是正确的? 例如,我很快就会依恋并向一个人敞开心扉。 然后我后悔了,因为友谊不会开始。 在俄罗斯,他们说"一个朋友知道有麻烦" 但它并不总是能够经历一个艰难的考验,事实证明,友谊不会发生。 我知道在亚洲,友谊方面的关系是不同的,有一个与bromance有关的话题。 结果我想问你,社交能力不好的人该怎么办? 顺便说一句,我26岁,我可能看起来像个失败者。 如果这样的问题困扰我在这个年龄。
@user-cq9vm6yg7s
@user-cq9vm6yg7s 3 ай бұрын
Ой, здравствуйте! Вы молодец, что пытаетесь разобраться в себе и своих чувствах, научиться общению с людьми. В этом нет ничего стыдного, наоборот, вы человек с большим внутреннем миром. Надеюсь, что у вас все наладится!
@stulzgrun7097
@stulzgrun7097 3 ай бұрын
@@user-cq9vm6yg7s thank you)
@stulzgrun7097
@stulzgrun7097 3 ай бұрын
@@user-cq9vm6yg7s thank you
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