First

ANTHONY UR AMAZING

YOOO RANBOO

Hiiiiiiiii

Lol I'm early

That comment

The fact that I've heard this story Not just once or twice, But like 4 or 5 separate times, From different people throughout the past year is so weird. I've never experienced it myself, But apparently a lot of mums and grannies just find themselves in this scenario.

@@BramLastname a poem

@@ariatheanalbanian thanks, Even if it's not the first time, I heard that one, either.

Listen, she grew up in a different time maybe she’s denying

Facts

Same with me it took me so long to accept myself for who I am and to accept my sexuality

to me it was easy i’m not sure why but i was like “ ok i’m gay im bisexual and im okay with that” hardest part is telling others

Fr

its always easier to come out to people you dont know online, than it is your own parents

Hahaha ur attracted to men 😂

Oh yeah same here! I would find a lot of guys attractive and find at least a handful of girls attractive. I really thought something was wrong with me because I thought it has to be 50/50 or else I wouldn’t be considered Bi but after talking to a lot of people they said that it’s okay and it doesn’t have to be 50/50!

I’m the opposite, but I never talk about the girls I like bc they’re straight (I also don’t talk about guy crushes who are gay) but now people think I’m faking it for attention 🙂👍

This. Bi and other multi-sexualities are a spectrum. You can absolutely lean more towards one vs another.

Mhh yeah, same here. Only realized that I had some attraction for guys when I was 23 or so. For me the difference is even more stark actually. I've only met maybe a handful of guys in my life that I felt attracted to. It's quite rare, but it's definitely there

I love this story! It's so sweet! 💜

Aww that made my day ^_^

What did you do with him after?

❤

I find it so funny when people say that because if your bisexual you like multiple genders, so I’d assume it’s more common for them to accept trans people and realize trans woman are woman and trans men are men.

I’m not very familiar with the terminology and I’m trying to learn so sorry if this is bad to say but saying your a trans guy does that mean your a guy now or a women now

@@tahmidrakib7993 a guy

@@tahmidrakib7993 trans guy means your a guy now. Trans woman means your a woman now.

If this is offensive sorry but like is that just a reversal to straight lmao like bruh so logically it doesn't make sense to me

Mad! I love your song and as a bisexual man, I also used it to come out to my mum!! I'm very thankful for you!

The bi king is here

I loved your song man. Was a great surprise to see you on this vid :)

i love u

@Adelyn Adams omg i loved ur amongus video

I would like to know how did you realised that?

@@Martyna456 probably having crushes on men and women, but being turned off by the idea of being in a sexual relationship

@@Martyna456 i am bi and ace, and why would you like to know how someone realized that

@@touya_simp8110 I'm interested in the process as I'm still struggling with figuring out my own sexuality. It's not so obvious to me

I'm bi, aroflux and ace

💯

you dont have to tell everyone your sexuality either

@@bobbyiscool everyone has the right to stay closeted

​@@bobbyiscool yeah, i only want to know the sexuality of a person if i want to be in a relation if that person.

@@joyul8216 Good for you

Yes! Include Molly Burke

That's a really good idea! I'd be interested to see it

I third this, i really want more rep for disabled people in general as the most we see are just from memes making fun of them or whoever's in our immediate lives affects our awareness of them.

i would love to enjoy watch this episode. and also one for deaf people.

Oh absolutely! There's also this girl called Lucy who does really educational videos. I can't remember her channel name though. :/

Hi! I’m married to a man and he knew when he married me I was not straight. That has not changed. I can promise you there are people who are in the same boat and are 100% valid. 💕 It took me a while to feel valid but knowing I’m not alone helped :’) Much love to you!!

Im sorry you've had to go through that. I've been with a man for 5 years, hes straight but I'm still super bi, we talk openly about women and our attraction to them though, thankfully its nice to have that, none of my exes had that kind of respect with me... im sorry you are going through that trouble though and hope things get better for you :( its not easy when someone is telling you you are or arent this or that.

sorry to hear that

So many of us bis end up in "straight" relationships and it makes sense when you consider the number of heterosexuals outnumber other sexual and/or romantic orientations. We are all still valid! 💖💜💙

Totally feel you. Just to assert dominance I constantly remind my partner that I am "75% not straight" (we took a mock test like ' how gay are you? ' ) when he seems to forget about that.

same

Yeah this hits hard. I’ve copped literal hate speech from gay guys, straight gfs dumping me when I told them because they thought I was a gay guy just using them out of confusion, and have been completely shut down by a queer girl as being a confused straight guy because I didn’t act like a member of the lgbtq community should (I still have no idea what she meant).

Some girls are insecure. Bisexuality in males tends to signal to straight females that they won't be secure in the long run. We all look to the future with guys we like. If there is something that gives us a smidge of doubt in our stability with you, then it's done. The doubt sets in, and before you know it, it's too much to think about. To see you in a different way is also just down to our individual preferences. What you look and feel like to us changes. It's unfair for you, but people can't help their attraction, as you know. Attraction across the board can come and go. I wouldn't want to know. I would think why's he telling me this? Is it because he wants us both? Normalising it is the only way to change this. But that won't happen in our generation.

@@jl_nwestieso you are claiming that women are biphobic because bisexuality is…unstable? I think you need to have more confidence in your ability to keep a man tbh.

@icedancer2370 Biphobic? No, don't put words in my mouth. Not all women. Some women who aren't as fucked up as myself can handle it. But others who have been shit on from great heights by men and maybe even influenced by past trauma have a harder time. I know for myself that I would want to have just 1 normal thing for myself after being orphaned and not having anything else that's stable in my life that came with no drama. I use normal and stable in the same type of context. As in, it's not what I have grown up seeing and gotten accustomed to, so it's very new still for some. The unstable possibility also comes from the many gay men who used it as a stepping stone, and therefore, the doubts that stem from their time in the bisexual box still linger. Something unfamiliar to our lives can often light up the insecurity in us. So that brings me to your kind comment on my belief in keeping a man. Unfortunately, I have 1 and have had for a decade. No matter where I leave him, he always finds his way home, bless him. But play your cards right, and I can arrange for him to be all yours. I can't speak for everyone, but I can speak for the women who I know have been affected by this. This may make me a tad biased on the subject after losing my friend to suicide after she found out her man was sleeping around with men and women. This isn't all on him though as she was just as fucked up from people letting her down in her past, just as I am today. She also had no belief in herself that she could keep a man. I shouldn't have spoken before like I knew exactly how it feels to be in a bisexual relationship because I don't. I was only giving my not so great 2 cents and possible reasons on the matter. But I can't help but think of the comparison on biphobia (in this case) or mere preferences? Is it wrong that your subconscious brain tells you your male partner isn't as attractive as he also loves dick? Then, with this, the physical attraction that you get with him then goes out the window as you look to him as a different person? My friend saw it the same way as when guys who break up with girls for weight gain. Is it right, no, but can you help how you feel, no! Do you hate the sexuality, no! Do you hate the sexual acts themselves? No! Do you hate the people? No! Do you want the drama that's associated with it? NO! Would you want people to be happy with whoever It may be, but just not within your relationship? Yes! Again, this isn't everyone, as some are truly biphobic, in every sense. It's such a complex issue with so many factors that can make people run away! My friend didn't like that she felt everyone and their dog had a whisper or sneer for her. She didn't like that there was whispers regarding how she couldn't keep him happy as her dick sucking skills were crap, and that how could she be with someone who's had more dicks than her?! She didn't like 2nd guessing who her man had slept with and if he compared her to them. Knowing that she could never give him the 1 thing he liked destroyed her. She always said that it's just her luck to find something that everyone else had and for it to be dangled in front of her and then whipped away. All things that girls who are stable in their life would find it hard to deal with. I just hope it can be normalised and educate people on it. That way, we don't have people take their lives because of it.

Majority of "bi" women are always in a straight relationship. Hope you know that. 😐

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you're happy with your boyfriend and I hope you know you're valid

As I’ve seen so many bi-women ending up marrying men and having kids.. I just don’t feel (as a trans-masculine person) that bi women look for women to settle with. Recently also feeling emotionally played by a bi girl

@@Zoro-IX hello, I am a bi woman with a girlfriend

Same Like exactly

It means they’d prefer to stay bi themselves

looooooooooooooool

@@snowystarflakes7700 LOL

They're Aromantic then

no

Good luck!!

wait doesn’t iran kill ppl who are lgbtq or something

I wish you the best and hope that you will be able to escape as soon as possible!

@@Yayayayayayehkrodks yes they do that's why I'm escaping

@@6emowitch957 good luck with it i rly hope ur safe

by that definition, everyone is bisexual

@@bobbyiscool I mean not necessarily, not everyone is attracted to both men and women

@@Rayinator Bro, even the straightest person will gain pleasure out of gay sex (unless they have no sex drive). Maybe if the definition is more about your attitude towards it, maybe. Also definitely a lot of men aren't "attracted" to other men in the same way as a woman, but clearly would enjoy sex with a man. Perhaps that should be the line for bisexuality? You should be clearly attracted to a man's body when seeing them just as you would with a woman's body (not naked).

@@Rayinator If you just like sex with the same gender, that doesn't make you bisexual. You're an average horny person.

@@bobbyiscool idk man kinda just sounds like you're bi in denial

Waw shes a queen for that

Thanks for sharing your experiences Jessie, my fellow bi queen! ❤️

I love you too Jessie ❤️

I’m a bisexual too

Im lesbian but love u guys

Love u too 💓 (Also bi)

The asexuality metaphor is SPOT ON, I am absolutely gonna start using that

And unlike what some people assume, being attracted sexually to others while in a relationship doesn't mean you're gonna cheat or have to break up with who you're with. Your sexuality doesn't just disappear or change into a [insert current love one]-sexual, you can still be attracted to whoever and still stay loyal to who you're with. It's exactly like straight relationships, c'mon people.

FR

Just to clarify, asexuality is a lack of sexual attraction (there can be some, for example, demisexuality.) Asexuals still experience romantic attraction and can want to be in a relationship. Aromantic people do not experience romantic attraction (or experience some - demiromantic) so would not want to be in a romantic relationship. So it would be more fitting to use aromantic in that metaphor

Exactly, Im bisexual and dating a man who has admitted to me he is bicurious, everyone automatically assumes we are a straight relationship but ive dated women and arent any less attracted to them just because im dating a man.

We’re all here for you good job for coming out 😀

@@sigmarizzyeehaw Thank you, bless your heart!❤

what was the purpose of coming out as bisexual though? did you want to have gay sex with somebody? if not, why do you care to let them know?

also im sorry, but everyone is bisexual. some people just dont want to admit it for religious reasons. humans innately have homosexual feelings. that doesn't change the cultural disposition that we should have normal relationships with each other, and avoid hypersexuality

@@bobbyiscool tf are u talking about

Same

Yeah!

100%!

Exactly!

100% Facts

What’s extremely hurtful is when people in the LGBTQ+ community refer to bisexual as greedy or even pick a side you aren’t really bi no one can actually like both. Like I expect those comments from outside the community but to be erased within the community stings more.

hjj

Yup, I though I was straight until 15 years old and bisexual until 17 years old. I’m biromantic asexual

Honestly I didn’t really care when I found out I was pansexual. I was just like “meh I kind of expected that” in my head.

@@zzpixel4861 lol had a similar experience

lmao

i don't have a problem with you being "bisexual" particularly because whether some religious people dont believe it or not, everyone is bisexual. most straight people would be aroused by gay sex period. the problem i have is the hookup/dating culture that we have. this isn't a new thing, its been a problem (mostly straight issue) in the past, but now its even worse. more kids involved too.

there is something called abstinence and its pretty good for your mental health. if more people abstained, we'd be happier and we would have to think less about our sexuality. sex drive is almost like a drug. control it

If only your father was bisexual

@@bobbyiscoolYesss I agree with you! I love the model/actor Jaye Davidson even though supposedly he’s gay. But then one day when I was looking through some of his old pictures he was kissing up on some girl lol. I wouldn’t be surprised if he was a little bi😊

facts

yep

exactly

yes, but some people seem to think that bisexuality by definition is transphobic :c

@@kikibirdball how? being bilingual doesn’t meet you deny the existence of all other languages but two. same thing, bisexual just means of all the different options you are generally attractive to both feminine and masculine people. For a lot of people that includes trans + non-binary

damn that's awful

This. When I always tried to get a gf the girls would say I wasn't "gay enough" which, cool, fine, preference. They prefer less feminine looking women, fine. But when people were telling me "hey you know if you looked more feminine or more masculine maybe the other gender would like you?" Like what?!

It is

pan ppl rn : 😀

Yikes :/

Ayyye, same here! Nonbinary bisexuals rise up ✊💜

@@sw4mpy that sounds like an awesome combo 😊🤩

I'm nonbinary panromantic ace those that count

Me too! Nice to find other bi enbies :) 💖

Nonbinary bisexuals are so sexy and cool, I love it for us ❤

I'm sure the bisexual community as a whole would really appreciate that comment. Thank you for your support, sending love to y'all too💓 -sincerely, a very bi person

Thank you. Bisexuals are often attacked and feel not valid. People like you make Bisexuals genuinely so happy! Love you An oppressed bisexual

As a bi myself thank u for the comment!

The B in LGBTQ+ means bisexual. That is my ted talk.

As a pansexual (formerly bisexual), I second that statement. much love 💗💜💙

OMG I DID THE SAME THING 💀💀💀

Funny story, I had to come out to my mom because she went through my search history after a sleepover when a friend yelled "sex" and saw an 'Am I Gay?' quiz website and thought it was lesbian porn. Not my preferred way of coming out but at least she accepts me 🤷🏽‍♂️

I looked a LOT of pictures of zendaya when I was a kid and every show she was in I watched and my dumb child self marked that off as admiring and being jealous of her. That was not the case lol

It was straight for me lmao

same tho

Source: You made it all up...

@@MetalCrowd-je2bv liars

@@MetalCrowd-je2bv What's extra funny is you two think you're believable, Wittle BABY GUrls

@@MetalCrowd-je2bv You definitely act like a whiny annoying little gurl.... Especially with all the internet crying. IRL tho, the poorly shaven beard and BO are a dead give away....not to mention the tiny pp. Plus adults of any variety are supposed to be, like you two....

@@MetalCrowd-je2bv it's all the whinnying. The extreme immaturity. IRL, no one would mistake you for anything but what you are. Annoying. The tiny pp is a ded giveaway. Not to mention BO....

if youre biromantic fr you dont have to say anything . like seriously, what do you get by saying something? if you have a same-sex friend, they're literally your best friend. the only reason someone would be mad is if you want sex with them (aka bisexual)

Hey I'm bi and Persian too!! I'm sorry about your situation, I hope that one day it gets better and that you have a good support system or will find one

That's on period 💅

Fr....literally HELP

Hello there, hungarian bi fellow!

Actually tho

Yep

and maybe find out in the comments section if anyone is going through what you are going through at the moment, so yeah.

i feel called out

Ayy lets go same here

yyyyyup

Yeah, that's me :)

Big mood, until I was outed by my bro I wasn’t even going to tell anyone except my sister. Sending an internet hug if you want it, and either way also I hope you have a pleasant day

If you are bisexual you can get a girlfriend too? I think you seem to be homosexual/

also your father is pathetic if he lets any of your siblings have a girlfriend before marriage and he acts "religious" when you come out. absolute loser. of course, i am on the side of no sexual relationships before marriage, BUT i would accept your view over your father's because his is clearly hypocritical

Trulyy

I'm bi and non-binary and my girlfriend is bi and trans so I guess I hate myself and my girlfriend, huh. 😅

omggg me too bestiee

Bestie sameeee

Lmfao same im she/they and bi

I’m bi & trans so like guess I’m mephobic🚪 🏃‍♂️

Same

same lets go bisexuals

Yassss, I was so excited too

@UCs9ESLwgctnv4PVtLUTyILg ur right we are gay !! anyways learn some manners weirdo

Samee

Oh mood. This was me

Same. I alway thought: yeah, that's what other hetero girls think too right?

I used to think having minor crushes on attractive women was just a thing that everyone experiences.

I know this comment is from a year ago, but I have to say I felt this way too. I tried to force myself to feel attracted to a fictional dude because I thought it was unfair that I could only be with the opposite sex, and I didn't realize until very recently that that is NOT a straight thing to do, and that, hey, I can be with anyone of any sex if I want to.

anthony is probably the last guy who would ever get canceled

I’m still really happy about the one he did with nonbinary people. Even though there was a lot of transphobia in the comments, he was being respectful. And I love that

@@tiffanyhuang3115 youd be surprised but yeah i agree

I feel like he’s always low key making fun of them maybe it is the feel of his show

@@Boxofcare666 uh how? Elaborate.

You’re welcome. ;)

I used to think everyone felt this way, some just have a preference or are afraid of discrimination.... Took me a while to realize I was wrong 😂

right? you'd think it is an obvious thing to know, but I also had to hear someone just straight-up say straight people don't feel anything for the same gender to actually realise lol it just felt so surreal like, wdym not everyone feels this way? is it not normal to be "confused"? I was a bit slow haha

@@tova1412 right?! I knew I was into women for years, but since I thought everyone was to some extent, I thought if I only date men I'm still straight lol

@•{crow}• that true

Lmfao.

I’ve been thinking about it for a while and I think I’m biromantic heterosexual, but I don’t want to confirm that until I’ve actually had sex a couple times with both genders (for context I’m a virgin)

isn't that just being a normal close friend? i have many of those in both genders but dont see the urge to announce that i am "biromantic"; also im quite not sure how you can be romantic but not sexual? maybe give examples of some distinctions? im not trying to trick you or anything. i just dont have the same understand as you since im not biromantic. i would like to learn

personally though, i'd have a lot of respect for someone who is biromantic over someone who is bisexual (by this i mean someone who is engages in sex with both sexes, which means they change partners often or cheat, also hypersexual- i am fine with people who are sexually attracted to both sexes, since that seems to be the case with most people to some degree). i just dont understand the drives for this. what do you want to get out of it that is greater than a normal friendship (best friend)?

I have done some research, and I'm starting to get it. I still don't see how this is different than a normal relationship (girlfriend/boyfirend). Even before the LGBTQ+ movement, girls used to have "girlfriends" as a normal thing, (could be platonic), just typically not at the same romantic level as a boyfriend. And tbh, a platonic love seems pretty much the same as two really close high school or college friends of the same gender. I personally don't understand why it needs a classification beyond "best friend" unless you are looking at a long term relationship.

EXACTLY 💯💯💯

yes, and memento mori

As a bi I completely agree with this statement Also, o7 memento mori

thank you for clearing this up because I'm confused. So then what's the difference between bisexuality and pansexuality then? (I identify as pansexual specifically to not exclude any genders)

@@Mauiohwowie there really is no difference it's just what you want to call yourself

It kinda bothered me when he said that bisexuality meant “any two genders”. It’s meant “two or more” for quite some time now.

@@EyeconicLaura Wouldn’t that fall under Pansexual tho? Because I know a lot of people debate Bisexuality as attraction towards people who identify as female/male. Some people seem to exclude trans people from this, due to them not being born whichever gender. Pansexuality from what I’ve gathered is an attraction to however one may identify, and regardless of what’s been someone’s legs, so it’s more fluid and open to other genders outside of cis folks

@@Spookynymph pansexuality is more about a lack of preference or how when it comes to attraction, gender isn’t even part of the equation. Bisexuality can still include any gender, but gender is a factor in attraction for bi people. The two widely overlap but the distinction matters for some and that’s perfectly valid, so long as no one is trying to insinuate that bisexuality is inherently transphobic or that pansexuality is inherently biphobic.

@@EyeconicLaura can you describe a little more what you mean when you say gender is a factor v.s. it not being a factor?

@@jazmync3880 I'm bi, and I see gender is factor as that you can for examble like womens more than the other gender(s). That you prefer one or more genders over the rest. When being pansexual the gender completely doesn't matter, you don't prefer any, so it's not a factor.

I wonder what would have happened if your mother was bisexual and chose a female partner instead

@@bobbyiscool she would have lived a happy life with her partner 😁💅

@@bobbyiscool So what? Whoever a parent chooses as a partner regardless, the parent deserves to have a partner that makes them happy and as long as the partner (regardless of gender) is respectful to the family everything is okay

@@ryujuice9693 okay then its not a family no more

​@@bobbyiscoolso what????

Our generation in a nutshell

okay but literally everyone thinks they’re non binary now because they dgaf about gender norms when 99% of y’all aren’t having actual gender issues. I’m not saying you’re not nb (im nb and have been diagnosed with gender dysphoria), just an observation I’ve made.

@@jellie1188 well it's an observation you made, ok. but this isn't the place to put that observation out, make your own comment about this under a relevant video because otherwise, you're just coming at this person for being nonbinary. tl;dr: you're being rude as hell.

The struggle is so HSKSNFJSKKSKS?

@@larsswig912 what’s tl;dr mean ?

I'm sorry you had to go through that,I believe love is love. I have gay, lesbian and bi friends and I support them no matter their sexual orientation. I really hope you find people who accepts you for you.

@@leslie-annjones5321 thank you so much for your kind words, i don’t let any of it get to me because i live in a city where the LGBTQIA+ community is accepted but questioned but nevertheless it isn’t right

i got called a double dipper once-

I straight up got called the f-slur in middle school with my first girlfriend

i was once called a wet noodle for not being straight

I feel you mate, that was basically the soundtrack for my late teens.

No seriously.

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

Me too! I actually recently had someone say this to me! My friend had to bail me out of the conversation before I blew my lid.

Bruh, I'm one of those people who don't give a damn about sexuality unless I want to relate to the person.

Thank you! I’m a bi woman who has been leaving towards wanting to date women these days. And the amount of hate from lesbians is breaking my heart. No I’m not a cheater. No I’m not trying to entice men. Yes bi includes trans attraction (which can lead to severely transphobic lesbians). I hate feeling so invalidated from my own community.

Thank you! I'm still new to being bi and have a lot to learn because I realized I was bi and came out only a few months ago. (The signs of me being bi were always there it just took until high school to realize) I've heard about biphobic lesbians though so reading this made me very happy! 💖💜💙

@@mandachris7146 I also never understood this. I am also a lesbian, but interestingly all my serious gfs identified as bi or pan. Some lesbians I think are too insecure and can't understand that being bi doesn't necessarily means that eventually you'll miss the D and will cheat.

Thank you. ♡ also, ur username is awesome n funny.

@@walky2 exactly. I have the biphobia. Men think that just means we want to have threesomes with them. Or think that we are just trying to get mens attention. Or that I’m a closet lesbian. It’s tiring

I was in the same boat. I tried to convince myself that being with a male “made me straight”. However, the attraction to females never went away even when I tried to push it away. Your completely valid and I hope that you have a great life. Much love and support though your life :)

Your attraction is valid and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. Wish you all the best 👍🏻

I have only dated men and I'm married to one and it's not my intention to ever be with anyone else but at the same time. For that reason, I don't feel completely confortable using the label bisexual, I'm more likely to say things like "I'm not 100% straight" or " I find women attractive too" or whatever in those lines.

Lol I misspelled her surname, just bi girly things ✨✨🤭

Jessie is SO beautiful 🥺

Yes...

same

I watched just for her ❤️

Pretty much

He is a weirdo

I bet he thinks that going around and having sex with random people is bad, how dare he

SAME he did that, but also expressed how non-gay he was, strange, maybe deepdown he was gay, either way NC baby! (he was a bad guy)

Glad you found yourself now

same! im happy that u accept urself now :))

Same

i swear, when i came out as bi, there were tears. When i came out as trans, there was tears. Just goes to show that I was told to never be or reveal any of this to anyone, but Im so glad i got this off my chest...

Oh really. The way society works today is pathetic. If someone has an opinion that follows with contemporary trends its completely accepteble, but if u say that u don't give a shit about trans people or don't support them (which is your constitutional right to have an opinion) there will a shitstorm.

@@Joewho. what?

@@Joewho. just as it is your right to have an opinion. it is also others' right to villify your opinion. If you are going to make your opinion public, prepare to be scrutinized. Of course people will make a fuss if you say you are indifferent to a group based on their chosen gender (despite any opinions you have on LGBTQ in the first place). I, personally, do not blame you as long as you don't actively go out of your way to bring down any groups based on race or gender. I don't blame others for disliking you for being unsupportive either, as long as they also do not go out of their way to bring you down.

@@Joewho. Constitutional is what the government can't do to you, the government won't stop you, however what you say and do has consequences and the people you effect are allowed to choose those consequences, and not being an asshole to people for things they can't control isn't a "contemporary trends", If you don't care that's fine but atleast leave them alone and understand what these people go through and if you're an asshole to them well then talk shit get hit

@@Joewho. It's one thing to be part of the lgbtq+, it's not hurting anybody. It's another to actively look down on another person and say that they are less worth because of them doing something and loving people, which hurts nobody

im so sorry you have to go through that

@@sainaina it’s whatever I’m just glad I’m out of that hellhole now :)

I’m Iraqi so I relate :( it sucks how our families also don’t feel like a safe space

I also live in an Islamic state so I relate too. but I'm still living here and it's not just my sexuality that's the problem, I'm also no longer a believer which is also gonna get me killed here. honestly I love my country and if I was straight and still Muslim, I'd 100% continue living here. my family is here, this is the land where I was born, the place where they speak my language. I don't want to leave, but I have no choice but to do it for my safety. and let's not even think about how my family will react...

omg youre so lucky :( im still stuck in this hellhole.

Same here!

Its always refreshing to see interviewers lettings there guests to just talk there mind with out jugging them for it

@@Red_Devil_Stew and he doesn't force them to answer anything, it's always "are you confortable talking about...."

@@simpalert9323 Yes! comfortably it helps so much in the interviews having the comfort the support, It truly feels more authentic like their not hesitant about speaking their mind they feel safe in the way that you get every thing un-filtered

Anthony4President

What do they think Bisexual means?

Same

Hell yeee

I did the same with the agoraphobia episode. 🙃

Glad you found yourself lmao! i’m bi and closeted so i just tried to find some bisexual video :) this is perfect

When you don’t got much going for you and the little things cause a little too much child-like excitement XD (not making fun I do this XD)

Took me 16 years lmao , its rough

so proud of you :)

it took me two years when i realized

Around 3 years for me 😅

I feel this, like I use labels so it’s easier to describe to others but now I feel wrong using a label for my gender because it’s 2 different things at once

@@wiliamarg If you don't feel comfortable with a given label, then don't use it. Like I said, they're a useful shorthand, not a convenient pigeonhole, and people should never be reduced to _just_ a label.

I like to think of labels as this: They're merely stickers, not slots or boxes. You are still you without the sticker

@@theblaze5530 Now that's how labels SHOULD be viewed!

I knew I would find your comment!

Your tattoos are really cool!

As another Christian bisexual, your sexuality is valid and not a sin. God made you the way you are and there’s nothing to be ashamed of 💗💜💙

Me toooo

Ayeee I finally found another bi christian :) 💕💜💙

ayo hey christian bi fam

May I join the Bi Christian gang? :) 💙💜💟

I’m sorry, I’m glad you have a community within your family though.

Well good luck

Same

Same

Same

😌

@@urmom-xs6vl i like your pfp :)

It ends up being a self-fulfilling prophecy. I'm sorry you went through that and hope you found better partners in your journey

boost

especially since bisexuakity has ooenly andnofficially inclided non-binary genders since the 70s. but as soon as the pan label got more popular around 2015-2017, all of a sudden we are biphobic and liking nb people makes you inherently pan 🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴

But.. bicycle does imply that only two wheels exist

@@qannicc no. it implies that a bicycle only has 2 wheels. not that, in the ime tire world, there are 2 wheels only. but yes, the analogx doesn't fit entirely onto bisexuality. yet the bi vommunity became fully aware of nb identities in the 70s and bisexuality includes people with nb attraction since then at the latest. the bi in bisexual now stands for being attravted to AT LEAST *two* genders. not ONLY two genders

What Mad said was great, that 'bilingual'' does not imply that there are only two languages, in the same way that 'bisexual' does not imply there are only two genders

I feel you. I've only ever dated men, but that doesn't mean my attraction to women is suddenly gone. Whatever label you choose to assign to yourself (or maybe you choose none, that's ok too), you're still valid ♥️

and your ass if you Catch My Drift

I am bisexual but I haven’t dated anyone :’)

@@buzzbuzzbee3850 Based on biphobe logic, that would make you ace (obligatory /j)

Cue my mother saying i'm lesbian after me telling her my first time was with a girl... Turns out I'm ace so that's even funnier cause then none of my sexual history is valid cause I was never truly sexually attracted to them (i was inmy self discovery era)

One of the first people I came out to told me that they’d never date a bi person because she thought they would cheat

What does TL;DR mean ?

@@gabrielle3362 too long didn’t read or TL;DR

@@gabrielle3362 too long; didn’t read

the term "gold star" is the one that was popular when i was in school. lesbians would completely ridicule you if you werent a gold star (meaning being with only women) , and it fk'd me up for a while tbh

Glad to hear things are looking up for you. People in the church can often be blinded by overly religious things and forget to prioritize love. Anyways, figured I’d reply since ur story sounded interesting and I was just scrolling thru comments

@@PumpKeen I just want to say thank you. I didn’t think anyone would care to read my comment. Like I said, my story isn’t the worse, but I’m always open to tell it if it can somehow help others. Thanks again :)

Hey there. I'm really sorry to hear that you went through such a tough time. You're not alone, I went through a very similar experience and ended up in a psych ward after a TW!!! --------------- failed unaliving attempt. ------------. I hope that things get easier for you. I'm sending all the very bestest vibes to you. Know that you are who you are meant to be, in the place where you are meant to be too. I wish you peace.

@@ezraspencer3571 best vibes back and thank you :)

@Hayley Bagels leave these people alone, this is not appropriate here. and no one appreciates it when people like you start an argument.

this would be such a cool 10 mil subs idea!

@@angell.7469 Thx :D