Your parents were so wrong to use the Bible to make you stay in an abusive marriage. I’m sure God wouldn’t want that for you. Good thing he lost his job as an officer. I know cops are shady but I’m glad they fired him so he can no longer abuse his power.

So proud of you sister for escaped such horrible narcissistic abusive marriage from a narcissist abuser. Thank you so much for sharing your story. It takes a lot of courage to share it and it is a teaching story for us Hmoob women to learn. May God bless you and may you find peace for the rest of your life to enjoy it.

Why would stayed with such an abuser for 25 years? The minute he started abusing you, you should've called the police and file reports abd have him arrested and thrown in jail. You should've divorced him. You subjected yourself and your children to his abuse. Those are his children too. You didn't make them yourself. There is no excuse for his behavior or abused. Him being a cop you really should've sent hi to prison. He shouldn't be allowed to be a cop. With a badge he's feeling untouchable.

Shame on your husband. Just bc he’s a cop doesn’t mean he can do whatever he wants to you. You deserve better!

So sad nawb. Tau ib tug husband yog police, e tseem muaj lub saab zoo le thiab. I’m so happy at the ending nawb. 😢😢😢😢😢😂😂

Hell No! That's too much! I am glad that you made it ou alive. Hmong people need to change their culture system about domestic violence. When the spouse is abusive to the point where you can run or hide. That's why they kill each other is the last resort. If a couple don't get along.. talk it out and go your separate ways...

Ntuj aw cas yuav muaj tej tug txiv neej siab phem ua luaj li nas viv ncaus cas koj tseem yuav nws dab tsi nas 😢

What a sad story, glad you got away safely from your abuse husband.

Tus txiv neej no nws vwm lawm nws yuavtsum mus ntsib docteur.

Sim neej no mas lam ua ib sim neej tuag tsau nab kuab tsis lwj xwb os mog😂

Ib tug txiv ua ib tug tub ceev xwm,es nws ua phem rau nws poj niam menyuam it’s a big crime,he can not abuse you your children or any one you should tell the Authority have locked up. Don’t be stupid,why you let these abuse go on for 25 years.

My ex wife needs this kind of husband

Tu niam tsev yog tu tsev es nws twb ua hauj lwm rau hauv county nws tseem ntaus poj niam tsim poj niam ne yuav ua li cas thiaj pab tau tu poj niam dim

Not sure what kinds of Christian are your parents that not saving you from that monster

Why are you not reporting him

Cas yuav ruam ua luaj tsi muab nws ua kom nws plam kiag nws txoj hauj lwm ua police nas cas yuav cias nws tsi2 koj txau nkaus nas.

Ib tug police es torture tus poj niam npaum no mas tsis tsim nyog ua police li os.

Most Hmong OGs are like your husband 😂😂😂

According to the Bible once your husband commits infidelity, that's permission from your husband you can leave the marriage and God will forgive

The way your husband acted if your report your husband will lost his job! Sister I don’t think you tell us everything! Sometimes missing!I like to know him name! Some things wrong

Uas tsg os tus niam tsev aws ! Uas cas yov tiv kev tsimtxom ntev uas luaj nas? Zoo kg es koj dim lm os. Hmoob ces sij ntshais2 poob ntsej muag xav kom tiv thb uv xwb.

Thaum peb tus txiv tsim tsim peb li no mas yog peb tseem ruam ruam coj zoo zoo ua qhov twg los ua tau ntxim ntxim tus txiv ntxub. Tus txiv muab yus tsim npaum li cas los yus yeej tsis paub khiav li. Txog txij yus ntse yus paub khiav ces yus twb mag tsim txom txaus nkaus tshuav qhov tuag lawm xwb mam txawj xuas kev khiav dim. Khuv xim lub sij hawm tau txiv siab phem li no

Tub ceev xwm tseem ntaus poj niam thiab tham hluas nkauj ces nws lub txim yuav yog lub loj tshaj ntag lau, tus niam tsev cas koj yuav hlub thiab txuag nyuag tub xwm dev ntawm koj ua luaj li na, muab nws xa kom ua nws nws ti txha nkaus nti tsis taus kiag xwb ma.

Sister you suffer too long!! He’s a cop and he should know the law of abuse koj yeej ruam zog lawm, if you seek peace from hmong people you not gonna get help. Hmong people it’s all about reputation, God loved every one and he wants us to be happy enjoy our short time on earth. Sad that you didn’t seek help from the law earlier. Let god do his job for those who don’t repent..

Twb nyob teb chaw mekas lawm ua cas nej pheej tseem ntshai ,ntshai nej tej txiv Siab phem es tiv nws tej ncaws taw tseem cia nws ntaus tau yus thiab laud…I don’t understand you people

OMFG, why is it that you always go to your damn parents and family? Those people will not help you! They'll only forced you back to your abuser. His family and his relatives will only be on his side. You subject your children to his abuse and traumatized them for their entire life. About time you woke up and finally found enough strength to get away and divorce him. Glad he lost is jobs. He should've gotten prison time.

Kj twb ntse thb tab si mloog kj zaj neej neeg no zoo li kj ruam ua luaj li os.

The story is off. If she is really working in office I don’t think she’s that stupid, not knowing what to do. Even her husband is officially a police officer, himself knows the laws not to punish her. I don’t believe the story is true.

Ib tug txiv ua ib tug tub ceev xwm,es nws ua phem rau nws poj niam menyuam it’s a big crime,he can not abuse you your children or any one you should tell the Authority have locked up. Don’t be stupid,why you let these abuse go on for 25 years. Ua cas Koj zaj neej neeg no doesn’t make any sense to me at all, you said you work in the office, why you still that stupid and let your husband abuse you for 25 long him years did all of that to you. You should know that in this country no one can abuse any one like that.

As koj ruam ne nws ntaus koj ces koj hu tub ceev xwm meskas rau nws xwb mas cas zoo li koj hais tsi txaus ntseeg kiag li na