I think I am suffering from postpartum depression still...

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2 ай бұрын

We are back with weekly vlogs and I am so excited to share with you more behind the scenes of my life. In this vlog, your girl is juggling being a mom, wife, friend, and a boss. I really had a hard week and life right now just feels overwhelming. So, I really wanted to have a heart to heart with you all and be vulnerable with how I am really feeling these days. So cheers to creating a safe place over here to explore all my feelings. Hope this brings someone comfort that maybe is in the same boat.
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@chelsmarie981 2 ай бұрын

I am 30, engaged to the love of my life, a specialist at an elementary school and in grad school. Not the same life at all, but feeling the exact same way lately. Tanya, I really appreciate your honesty and transparency because it IS relatable. Life is hard, whether you’re an influencer with a husband and a baby or whether me. I truly hope you find a therapist that you connect with; I am searching as well. I hope we all find some mental peace and clarity very soon. ❤

@LifeofTanyaMarie Ай бұрын

Aw! Thank you so much for the kind words, and for creating a place where I can feel safe to share! This journey is such a struggle and having anyone relate to me in any shape or form, just makes me feel normal! I know each one of us lives a different life, but feelings and vibes and energy can be the same ! So I’m super happy that we have each other to lean on! Sending good vibes and support your way, you got this!

@latessaallison1228 2 ай бұрын

i feel like no one ever tells us boy moms that their hormones live forever in our bodies and forever change how we feel and after birth it takes our bodies a long time to adapt to those hormones changing us. let alone just growing a whole human, birth, and all the emotions of that. we are told we are just supposed to adapt to it all without fail but it’s all new and different and we all know that it takes time to adapt and learn and evolve.

@LifeofTanyaMarie Ай бұрын

It’s absurd how much women and mothers go through! And I feel like we don’t have a safe place to talk about this without judgment! So I really hope that my KZfaq channel can be a place for these discussions, and for this comment section to be a place where people can find comfort

@latessaallison1228 Ай бұрын

i agree thankful for youtubers who are honest and open and make us all feel normal. your an amazing momma. love watching his lil smile

@1Michicanna 2 ай бұрын

Sis, you will be ok. This is how it feels. Like there is not enough time and the walls are closing in, trust; give it time and you will get into a routine that works for you as a business mommy and your family. Praying for your best. 💜💜

@LifeofTanyaMarie 2 ай бұрын

awe this comment is bringing me to tears. thank you for speaking this words over me you have no idea how much it means to me to have your support! I appreciate you!!!! hoping things get better

@CpT_PrInCeSs Ай бұрын

You have so much going on!!! That's why you feel so overwhelmed, you need to prioritize what's the most important to you and you're going to have to let go of a few things as hard as it might be to you, but that's what's going to help. Wishing you the best 🙏💕

@kimoraharper9504 2 ай бұрын

Absolutely LOVE seeing a raw version of you and your journey. I am 7 months PP and I can honestly say I 100% relate. This is my fourth and final child and I've been down this road before, so I'm here to say you will get through this! It's natural and you just have to listen to your body, take all the time you need to just have time to yourself to slow down and realize you are human not a robot. You will start to feel normal again once Zaire gets to be a little over 1 and independent. You will bounce right back and then realize you went through a major change in your life that you now have control of. Hang in there because you are doing an AMAZING job and if you ever need a reminder of that, look at your baby's sweet face and that genuine smile and comfort he gets from you will be all you need to know you are doing everything right. You got this mama, im rooting for you! ❤❤❤

@stefanyyadira Ай бұрын

I am in tears right now because I feel the same way. I am also 9 months postpartum and I bring my baby to the office with me. I have 3 other kids and I am running our business. Sometimes I just want to sleep and hide. I got my nails done the other day and it took longer than I expected and both my hubby and my kids almost had a meltdown. Where were you? I missed band, that took forever all for nails… I felt so guilty. And they are always supportive but that day was just different. They didn’t know. We are here for you Tanya and relate to you. You know you have kept me motivated on days I just could not. We will get through this together. ❤

@iam_ar2k726 Ай бұрын

Thee best one to lean on is Christ...I pray for healing of ALL anxieties , insecurities and inadequacies...You are Worthy, Loved and Appreciated....Love * Lite...You got this!

@LifeofTanyaMarie Ай бұрын

Yes! Always gotta put God first

@creating1_c1999 2 ай бұрын

If anyone sees your life as easy and envy it, you're not going to have a legit relationship/communication with them. You cannot thrive in relationships where people want your life. You do have to be careful where your mental health is concerned because you don't want to trust it to just anyone. But don't stop looking because regardless of who you are, what you do, or what life you are blessed with, you are still worthy of wellness.

@michellemckee7479 Ай бұрын

I battle with depression every day. And I have a real issue with letting negative thoughts, feelings vibes rent. Space in my mind and I have to try and get rid of those feelings because it is a powerful thing in it can do damage. But prayer prayer is what gets me through everything. And I know you already know that, but that is my go to i feel lighter and lifted praying for you, girl.❤

@LifeofTanyaMarie Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing that with me, and for being so honest and transparent with me about your own journey! Definitely makes me feel like I’m not alone with the struggle right now. So I appreciate you more than you know! I also want to let you know that I’m rooting for you and your journey, and I hope that things get easier! Prayer is the best form of reassurance that God is with you every step of the way! You got this sending you love

@marangelasp7462 Ай бұрын

I am60 amd i feel the same way for many reason, i know exactly what you feel. It seems like you have family. I have seen your videos. I dont have anyone, and it's very stressful, overwhelming, and scary at times not to have any one to talk to. You look okay compared to me. Just have faith. Life has ups and downs. Your baby should always be number one. Do not focus and stress on material stuff.😊

@scorpioangel7561 2 ай бұрын

It’s ok to feel that way sis. I’m a 50+ yr old woman still having to tell myself I need time to myself. You need a few days to yourself ladybug. Literally leave EVERYTHING - home, work, family just for 3 days to relax and unload so you can be there for yourself and your family and work. I’m praying for your PEACE. You are loved. ❤❤❤ I would love to talk to you and give a listen ear.

@LifeofTanyaMarie 2 ай бұрын

ugh you are soo right I need to find that time for just meeeeee! I am tapped out! praying for balance. Thank you for being so kind and understanding and for rooting for me! Appreciate you

@haydeeramirez5920 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing and being real! I can relate! I know you will be ok💕💕💕

@abigailthompson7265 Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing ❤ I pray God clothe you with his reassurance

@believeinyourcrown1127 Ай бұрын

Sending you so much love and light Queen. I am currently going through the same emotions as a toddler Mum and now expecting. At the end of the day I know God has us and will also bring the right mental health professional in our lives to guide us.

@bernettamorton3626 Ай бұрын

Postpartum depression is real. In addition to prayer, get therapy! You need time for a total reset. Your mind, body, and soul needs to process all the changes you have experienced and will experience for the duration. If you have loving and trusted family and friends...please get them involved. Since you are already paying for childcare, that sacrifice is worth your sanity. Keep that as long as you can. Postpartum depression will pass, but its duration varies with every woman. Remember, the baby will also be growing and will eventually be more independent. Things will get better. Remember...you have to take care of yourself first before you can take care of someone else❣️ Been there and can now share❣️

@LifeofTanyaMarie Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for these words of encouragement and seeing me and meeting me where I’m at! I feel so good to just be seen in a phase of life, where I feel so confused and lost! I’m documenting this place where I’m at so hopefully one day I’ll look back and see how far I’ve come! I am currently looking for therapist right now, so hopefully I can just find one that fits my vibe and start doing the work and taking the time to heal! But for now I’m just giving myself Grace and taking it one day at a time

@SADEKELLY_ Ай бұрын

Loved the vulnerability in this!! I’m due in 2 months & a bit worried about how my transition will be. Everyone keeps reassuring me that I’ll be fine especially because I’m a time management coach professionally but I’m still giving myself lot of grace cause this is my first baby, so this side of your content was so great to see cause it was so real & raw ❤

@autumnl5127 Ай бұрын

New subscriber. You have a beautiful family and your skin is so beautiful😊

@unapologeticallyromel7096 Ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing ❤ praying for you

@susannannozi6637 Ай бұрын

Praying you find hope🙏🙂love you lots.🤍

@Dominique129 2 ай бұрын

Hi! I'm a friendly neighborhood mental health professional lol :) Thank you, Tanya, for platforming and sharing so candidly your experiences as new mom juggling so much. Your story will impact more people than you know & you are figuring things out as you go. Continue to take mindful time to breathe, relax, sleep, engage with the good people & things that fill your cup. I am super bias but I hope you can find a great therapist you connect with to support you 💛

@LifeofTanyaMarie Ай бұрын

Awe thank you for giving me a safe place to share my true feelings! It’s so scary being this open and honest about where I’m at! I appreciate you more than you know

@christobelthipe8627 Ай бұрын

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@lovefaye-ff1rv 2 ай бұрын

🙏🏾 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️

@MENA_ADUBEA Ай бұрын

Sending you so many hugs💕💕💕 30:20

@LifeofTanyaMarie Ай бұрын

Love you ❤

@deedeelaveen6872 Ай бұрын

Try Saint John's wort supplements for mood improvement. Also you can't do everything it's ok to turn down events, there will be more events. Also cut your spending that will put more money in the bank so you won't feel stressed about working to earn more.

@scorpioangel7561 2 ай бұрын

Hey. Ladies. I’m so happy I get to catch a Live… I’m starving and y’all test tasting sandwiches. ❤❤❤😂😂😂

@LifeofTanyaMarie 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for hanging with me tonight! And omg the sandwiches were soooo good lol

@autumnaquino-to3lf 2 ай бұрын

You dropped a pin can I have it❤ your so pretty

@LifeofTanyaMarie 2 ай бұрын

awe thanks for hanging with me :)

@abdulwali6096 Ай бұрын

where is your baby

@LifeofTanyaMarie Ай бұрын

Huh?

@abdulwali6096 Ай бұрын

I mean don't leave him 😊

@cecileroy557 Ай бұрын

The baby is at home with the babysitter. Seems you missed that when she told us that.

@cecileroy557 Ай бұрын

@@abdulwali6096 She's a wonderful mother - who's an influencer... which is her job. She needed to attend some kind of meeting/get-together.

@lydiadegrassi 2 ай бұрын

My baby is 8 months old. I’m just going through postpartum still I have a load of house chores, my baby wakes up every 4 to 5 times a night, I can’t stop stressing eating/ I’ve gained so much weight and I don’t remember the last time I got sleep. I work 40 hours and it’s just a handful and I just wanna know when things get better. 😅🥲

@Zionreignsforever Ай бұрын

Things will get better!!!