Child upkeep, is it a responsibility of the man only? That's the question that Francis Kamara is asking in this show. Kindly keep your comments respectful and remember to SUBSCRIBE!

Pole Francis, I know him from brookside Eldoret such a humble man. May God see you through this.

Thanks Monica for this great interview. So unfortunate what Francis has gone through. He appears genuine, kind, compassionate and committed to his family. I hope that he will be get a fair chance coz he's paying way too much for the upkeep of his family and other expenses. God will make a way for him.

My classmate, pole sana, Francis is a cool guy back there 1993 to 1996 class thigio boys

Waa n the way he s handsome n the smile locks the dental formula 👌😆🙈

Ooooh my God some ladies aky unapewa good husbands hivi but you take them for granted😢😢.I wish kupata bwana kama huyu 🙏

Monica you are a very cheerful lady asking hard questions in very diplomatic way. To Mr. Kamara everything good for your family is not in vain. Be strong God is with you

Thank you Monica for bringing this powerful show. Men also needs to be heard and considered as human beings who also go through marriage abuse. but there is something l noted Kamara said that his wife was acting that way anytime she gave birth. So we need also to consider his wife, she needs counseling. l dont see how l can go ahead and give birth to five children with a man l don't love. lets judge fairly.

Sometimes yoi want to comment but there aren't any right words to say.I pray for the best for you & your children, @FrancisKamara.

Marriage foundation is build by God. God is the starter. Before men marry, pray. Before women get married, pray.

Such a humble and good hearted man atumia amwe mwendaga atea.

Ooh!! Such a great honest, kind, and loving man going to waste. May the light of the Lord shine upon your face.

Asante Monica as always for beautiful show well, upbringing of kids it's a 50/50 responsibilities of both parents, period!

Wooiye some women are heatless,,she was taking advantage of yr kindness,how I wish I can have him as my husband I can love him

Ucio mutumia lastly ata regret na wale wana m advise hawatamzaidia. May God bless this man to fulfil his desires Atumia angi marathukuma na Up keep ya ciana

This is so sad... Pole Sana Kamara.. God will see you through this

Watching from Saudi what a responsible man God will reward you

Well done Kagoni 👏👏.. Reke tũigue cia arume ũmuthi

There are credible pointers to show that this happens more often than the public gets to know due to obvious societal and cultural reasons. ABUSE of any kind has no GENDER and MUST never be tolerated or swept under the rug. It is a CRIME inasmuch as it is EVIL. These abuses destabalize the FAMILY UNIT and unfortunately CHILDREN suffer the most.

Nime wait tu Sana, finally thx team gulf like Zicam

These women has come too much 😡😡. May the lord open New doors for you fransis

Oooh my whatva wonderful man....May God bless u

I wish those kids will one day stand by you

How can I get him pliz,he needs someone like me tujenge nyumba yetu iko na Amani na lots of love

Pole sana Francis u seem like a good hubby aki some women they don't appreciate what they have,.. I wish naweza pata kama uyu may God see u through

Pole sana Francis, women let's be responsible and stop stressing this men ,I'm a single mum have never bothered to request help from the dad of my kids,yet hes filthy rich.

Thanks for a show based on mens rights being violated.kusoma kwa sana madam kagoni

God bless you Monica Kagoni ..🎥📺👸🙏♥️♥️

wuuui pole Sana ngai niegukuonekanira noungiona mutumia urahura muthuri hau hatiri muturire nii ndateirwo na ciana inya niundu wa kuruara no ngai nimwega nindahonire na ciana ciakwa iriyaga naikanyua naigathoma nanditeithagio ni mundu kuoguo kamara wiyumiririe ngai niegukuhotanira

Wakwa ndateithagia mwana ona ikumi no Ngai ndari areka aage na ndakareka..

May God bless him,never luck anything for his children, also wife should support her children ,who said only a man care his children ,both parents should take Responsibility's

Wish some of us would have a husband with such a great personality and love for His kids.Francis u ar one of a kind.

True my son is facing the same problems sms all the time.Everytime police etc woii boychild God see you thro

Seems like this lady had post delivery depression which is very common especially if poor family planning arrangement.

Ngai na vile nime lea watoii. pekeyangu like 6 years now no help to the he father 😭😭😭😭

So sad. But humble Man. May GOD open here door for work

Usijali my brother laana ya mungu isha mpata.. You can't do that to your hubby!

pole sana mzee,,athuri taya monekaga kuu maa,,,ndamenya wakwa riu ni miaka kenda na dari uteithio ateithagia ciana naguo 😂😂😂,,no Ngai ni mwega tondu dari adiganiria thank you Lord

Ingigia muthuri toyu ingimurora ta king😋😋😜😜😅😅. Wangu alikana hata mimba sio yake na hata sikushughulika 🙁🙁. 18 years ago na we have never met even once. Sahii nko gulf nalea watoto bila stress

Eagerly waiting for today's show In NAI.

Waiting kwa hiuha kiura ruga me to reke nemwo kafa thayu bro

You need to be real and I am becoming impatient. Judge Mumbi Ngugi passed the judgement and please Kagoni follow up with the ruling and this man can benefit from that ruling. Lazy woman who is out to destroy this man that means he cannot even remarry or ever be happy. Very sad story.

Very sad case , kamara you not supposed to pay 100% .You are entitled to spend time with your children , love of your children is key ...but don't let your ex take advantage .God loves them more if one is not working why should they live in Nairobi ? There is something called tough love ....talking from experience seeking counselling helps ..above all may God heal you .The incidences could have been related to postnatal depression/ psychosis. So forgive but be firm in sharing parental responsibilities 🙏🙏.Thanks for sharing , Amazing interview MK

Good interview. Monica your words are well articulated na uko very beautiful

if you stay with a violent wife or husband, you are likely to be killed or you kill in self defence.. The earlier you run for your dear life the better.

😭😭😭😭Ngai na ndamenya riu miaka mugwanja yathira wakwa ndoi ciana iriaga kii kana kwihumba kana guthoma na ndimutindanagirira na akinyita mugunda akiendia nuthu na ndingimwitia onaki ndaugire nii tutigutangana tondu riu ingiri na stress taki but responsibility ibatii gukorwo ya both parents

Atumia aria moi guthukuma arume na aria mahuraga athuri ao mamenyage moinaga watho wa Ngai

Wow the lady was getting postpartum depression and getting phychotic whenever she had a baby ! She needed medical attention

Huyo wife alikua anashikwa na post natal depression after every child..

Francis kamara thank you for coming forward and opening up ABOUT all the shenanigans u went thru with wifey.Definietly other men might follow SUIT. Stay strong tho my brah.

Before we condemn the lady, she should be evaluated for postpartum depression. I will not believe the man alone.

Go for a DNA test first probably some of these children are not yours. Why not share the responsibility?

Good interview

U r doing a great job

I thank God I've both my ears even though I was in a crisis.

Postpartum depression is real,and if the partner is not aware it can be severe,However We should know and learn how to start marriage with God....

Can't live with such a woman...Acha nilee watoto peke yangu ama niwasaidie akiwa na wao. sharing responsibilities while apart

It's like that lady was suffering from postpartum depression,pole sana

To good to be true 🤔🤔I need husband of such kind 🙏🙏c wakundunga kisu 🙅🙅God forbid

The government needs to encourage women to contribute to her children upkeep. Why would the government put all burden to the father even after separation? Why don't they give the father full custody of the children then? The mother can come to visit the children until she's financially stable too.

Please bring the wife too n listen to the other side of the story

Ooh my lord,this is so painful story,so sorry brother:::😢

🥳 Ngai Baba,Jamani I feel for him,Ngai!Ucio ni orogi

There is some women who usually go through postmortem depression and so many ppl don't understand them.

KUDOS METHA YA KAGONI FOR BRINGING THAT SPECIAL GUEST..KAMARA.

Kindly also host Maureen wanjaro wife to the late musician legend mwalimu George wanjaro usikie maajabu ya musa about what she had been going through since the burial day

Children upkeep should be a joint responsibility....it should be shared depending on the incomes of the two partners. Its so sad how this man has suffered in his marriage. May God remember him

I like the way when a woman is abusive we find a diagnosis very fast,so 😭 sad

Mum hii nayo ni kali...... Ati my wife used to do what? Aki i kifap.... Nice one

Waa Kai andu mendaga atia.muthuri ta uyu mundu agatinga.

Khai mwathani ate keee ,enway waitng

Waiting from Switzerland 🇨🇭

I know a woman who married with a small baby girl... he had six of his own but he loved the 1st one and the girl was bright in school... she is the only one who went up to university... when the parents retired, this girl stood with her adopted family... she educated young siblings.. she is very rich and to date she helps all... sometimes those children are the blessings in your home... y

Following from Washington DC mwihoko.athuri marakua nikwaga kwiyaria matigacambe.

Waiting my notification is on

Inspiring story but funny vile kagoni anasema 'warumwo moni yateo thi'

Wuuuuuiii.. my neighbour ..watching from diaspora

Good evening kagoni? Nikuri atumia macaragia ha kwinyitirira but ndari na Bata wa kihiko wira wake nikunyamaria muthuri, but wathii urihagirwo thi.

That's true...this has become a business to some of which responsibility should be for both.

Monica I love your voice ..💋💋💋♥️🙏♥️

Waaoh kiambu ni my home located

You are very smart Monnie

The lady might have been suffering from Postpartum psychosis....but ata kama siezi ishi na mwanamke Aina hiyo....peace of mind is paramount

When a man become cool the woman thinks he has become a fool 🙂 arume shout like a lion

Go to court, the new rule is 50/50 to child upkeep. Women need to style up. This guy was clear he didn't want more kids..ai..now with 5 kids what will the do coz again 15k ni kidogo for 6 stomachs

What happened to this case?

The children should be given to the person making the money. So Kamara go to court and claim your children.

School fees ,food,children up keep and other unseen is must whether their is divorce or not .kamara jikakamue watoto ni wako ,ihave faced the some nanimetoboa

Naniguo maaah turethaa athuri responsible nangi maheo nikumarumiaa

Huyu mwanaume ni gentleman anafaa achukue Hawa watoto coz mama yao ni jobless. She is taking advantage on him

Woi too bad....I feel for u man.....I thank God u were not killed.....afathali mguu niponye than saying navumilia the situation will one day change...u will end up be killed ooooh.

Mimi nilikataa hizo cases mony I do pay their bills I was advised to take him but for me I decided I don't want anything to do with him not even his own money nobody from his family followed us to know where we are I thank God he has been a father to my sons

Wah pole bro

I know there are many men going thru such lakini juu huwa wanaambiwa ety mwanaume ni kujikaza as if wao sio watu hawaongei, speak up and don't mind about pole judging you it's for the best of your mental,emotional health...boychild needs help.

The lady seems to suffer from postpartum depression after child birth . She needed medical help to prevent escalation of behavior. Besides sickness she’s taking advantage of her husband’s humbleness. The responsibility of bringing up a family/ children should be a joined effort . Francis has been taken advantage of for a long time he needs help from a lawyer.

Wooiiee...boy child.😔😔😢😢..but this is what many men are going thru..but as usual they dont come out to speak out

Niruo ruingi muno ukiona mwana waku kuhurwoni mutumia.no uyu mwanake niaroneka kuma unyinyi wake ti mundu wa haro .he look so cool calm n humble

Bringing up children is a joint responsibility. Men need to rise up and fight back these oppressive laws.

My God. Wewe kweli, mbona ulikua umefungwa macho

I want both sides of the stories. Bring the wife too.