Imagine complaining about your husband to a bunch of men. Disgraceful.

This video tells me more about the people in this room than the brother they are speaking about.

I remember the story of Prophet Ibrahim visited Prophet Ismail home, he was not at home and his wife (she dont know that is Prophet Ibrahim which is Prophet Ismail father) answered the door. So Prophet Ibrahim asked her how is her condition, and she started complaining, to a complete stranger. To cut the story short, Prophet Ibrahim tells her to send his salam to Prophet Ismail and change the boundary of his doorstep. When Prophet Ismail gets the message from his wife, he immediately divorced her because that is the message from his father. Moral of the story: Wife and husband should keep their problem and discuss within themselves. Dont tell people your problem or your achievement. Unless it becomes necessary, then talk to your elder.

That man “dodged” a bullet.

Deciding where to go out isn't what you call a leader or a man...please sisters wake up and get out of this spoilt brat mentality, your husband is not your father ...ask yourself the following is he providing for you? Is he supporting you? Is he there for you in your time of need? Is he helping to strengthen your Iman and belief? Is he there to make the real life decisions that need to be made? This is a man and a husband not what takeaway we having tonight.

Imagine a man saying "I'm a prince, I'm a king" with a dead serious face. The brother dodged a huge bullet and should be grateful. And she should grow up. She's acting like a spoiled brat and isn't even aware.

So let me get this straight, she’s annoyed because she has to communicate with her husband?

It’s women like this who would then complain that their husband is too controlling. He makes all the decisions. Even where we eat. Sounds like her father was pretty controlling and she now expects that from her husband. Nothing wrong with asking what someone likes or wants to do and then making the final decision.

The point i see here is, i dont want to communicate with my partner so i will just blame him for that. Communication work both ways.

I'm a woman and I don't agree with her. I'm starting to hate these KZfaq Muslim shows. Talking about this is our nature.

Imagine saying a brother is acting like a woman and is disgusting cause he just asks his wife what she wanna do. I appreciate ur islam content ali but shut ur mouth up on this one

Please dont ever compare your father to you husband. If a husband compared his wife to his mom he would be considered a 'mamas boy' but somehow same negative aspect doesnt count when the wife does the same action. Also you are setting your marriage for failure when you compare your spouse to your parents. Your spouse isnt your father or mother figure.

My eyes roll when i hear other women call themselves Queens and Princesses 👸 🙄. Reality check: you're not, you are a normal woman. Too many people have this 'I'm special, I'm the main character' attitude nowadays

She’s being lazy! Marriage is a partnership not like a father child dynamic! She’s confused’ 😮😳🤦‍♂️

First off...a leader is a problem solver and he's good at managing people...making a decision as to where they going or eating isn't a problem to solve...just make a choice...A man's three primal / primary functions is to (seek out resources ) to provide for himself and family within his means.. (seek out threats) to provide protection and(problem solve)...maintain order , peace and discipline..she sounds like a modern American woman that has seen too many American movies...

When Ali said disgusting l lost all the respect i had for him. A man works all week and on a off day he may want to rest and sometimes he runs out of idea to go out somewhere so he asks his wife where shell we go so that makes the man féminine. Taking à charge is différent to planning à day is different. I pay the rent, i pay all my expenses of my wife so she doesnt work but during the weekend sometimes i do not have time to think about what to plan for the weekend so means i am not the leader or i am not leading her. These kids do not know anything about life /problems and kids.

The art of being a woman is to make men believe they are in charge. You never have to take the wheel to lead. You give direction, voice your desire and let him take you there.

Lmao you aint a princess or queen..humble yourself

Years ago I confronted my Ex-wife about her bad behavior and negative attitude, she claimed I was "Too controlling". At that point I decided to fulfill her desires and for a whole month I was very passive in our decision making. The first couple of days she liked it but by the end of the month her bad behavior and attitude returned even stronger. When I confronted her again she gave me the same B.S this girl said. At that point I knew the solution was to make her my Ex.

So basically shes an overgrown adult child who needs a daddy 🫡

Cringeworthy 🤮

I felt she had a problematic attitude, one that’s almost combative or something from the way she first talked and looked. Then she said she’s a princess, a queen, and I’m like “yup, there it is”. She expects things to be done for her, but is framing it as “I want a man to lead me”. Stay sharp fellas.

Every woman has different masculine and feminine energy ratios, some are 70/30 feminine and some are maybe 80/20 masculine. Communication from the beginning on, will help a lot in finding out what each other want and which expectations are present

Ali normally I never comment on any video’s on KZfaq and as my brother in Islam I assume you mean well but… this is completely haram the mixing that you are doing and showing beautified women even some without proper hijab. You never show your OWN WIFE but you seem to have no qualms about showing other people their daughters. The decision is yours but it would be wise to consider if what you are doing is going to in favour or against you on yawn-al-qiyamah… all the people that see these video’s can testify that day…

Is this like the fitna show. I dont think these type of gathering are acceptable. Has to be makroh

These type of videos ruined a lot of homes, men take decisions when it comes to saftey، providing, and take care of deen in general other than that should be negotiable

What new age nauseating crap is this 🤢 fear Allah and have some shame

They are all a joke 😂. Dude was a great guy (her words) but didnt plan weekend out. Bruh and Ali condoning that nonsense is wild

Shes whining about nothing really. If a man was ro constantly say lets do this i wana do that then hes considered controlling. The poor guy only wanted her input on what to do for the day.

After listening to this I'm better of staying single and waiting for hoor al ayn in Jannah insh'allah

Where does Islam say anything about being a princess or a queen? I’ll wait..

That guy is a millionaire IA 🤲🏾 and has been blessed from this rodent

Leaders arent born. Their made. Encourage him to become a leader and praise him when he does. Not everyone wants a guy that makes entirety of every decision. If I ask my future spouse her opinion its because im being considerate and trying to be understanding of her feelings or to get an alternative thought. But yeah i can plan. But relationship is an even keel. If I do it. So does she. Treat him like a king, get treated like a queen. Goes both ways.

lol what a professional gas lighter-these kind of girls are the problem.

Maybe the brother was asking for your opinion. Otherwise, if he was calling the shot he would be considered 'misogynistic' to some sisters out there. There is always two sides to the story.

Not all men know how to lead, but encouraging them in the right direction can help. Father treating his kids shouldn’t be held at the same level. Husbands love is vastly different than fathers. Also, Marriage life is making necessary changes/ sacrifices to be successful. Honestly, she wouldn’t care if the guy had a great mother and was compared to her.

He wasn't leading....code word for " I wasn't obeying him and making my own rules"

2 brain cells in this entire room

This has become a Fitnah Show SubhaanAllah. May Allah protect and guide us. Aameen 🤲🤲

Women want a man that just 'Gets it' whilst being covert about it.

May Allah guide us to the right path of Islam. Mixing in this type of setting is not permissible an islam.

Maybe there’s something going on in his mind, in this dunya, when a man goes through stuff he becomes reserved, sometimes we have to shine the light in his dark mind to get him through it, don’t leave any brothers behind, ibadah is medicine but also being there and listening and uplifting is key to a good ummah

So he wasn’t a leader because he didn’t decide where to take you out and left you with the choices?

Whether you intend it or not you are clickbaiting muslim youth with a fitnah thumbnail. This is extremely lowly behaviour.

And when he leads she will cry that he is too controlling. This woman dodgy.

The thing I see here is that, even though everyone is criticizing the complaining lady.. No one saw the men supporting her here too 👀

Let her go back to daddy then. You never compare the fkn relationship of your father to your husband's. A husband DOES NOT need to treat you like daddy does. Kinda weird.

And if he did lead and took her somewhere then she wouldn't like it and that would be a problem. So these so called "princesses" always want to do something. How about sitting at home and making the house a home?

Context to this SHORT clip: She was referring to a brother she was getting to know from an online 'halal' marriage site and was sharing her experience on why that brother wasn't for her. She didn't mention his name or identity in anyway, there was no ill intentions hence even said he is an amazing guy. Please refrain from backbiting because you don't know the full context

This woman is a pure comedy!!Whenever I want to get a dose of laugh I come here to watch her,wanna be Angelina jolie with her expressions🤣👎🏻

Her ex husband was lucky enough to be saved from this girl😂.

This is stupid and I don't see how this show is beneficial

tell me you're lazy without telling me you're...

'I know a lot of women like that' He met a chunk of that 4 billions

Tbh it's not a must for every feminine lady to be like this They can enjoy deciding stuff and its attractive in a different way

Since when was this type of gathering permissible islamically ?? You shouldn’t be free mixing so casually .

Look I’m not going to say anything is wrong islamically here because I cannot judge that but I feel bad for the guy man. He’s just been called a woman and a passive Muslim man in front of loads of people and he’s heard I’m guessing his ex spouse say these things about him. Was this needed? Could she have not just said I don’t like men who don’t lead me instead of mentioning this anecdote? Also people need to communicate these things in a relationship if they don’t feel like it’s being fulfilled in my opinion. Give them a chance at least. Also being led in this way by your husband where he decides where you go all the time and you get sat in the car and are taken everywhere seems more like a personal preference and the lack of it does not mean that that man is a woman Ali and I know that was a generalised statement but still. If this is her current spouse the top comment references that and I understand that she seems well intentioned but…

Ali wants a woman who doesn’t think for herself that he can control. That’s the takeaway message from this video.

How can you claim to be a leader in the relationship and then be indecisive

Quite a few comments on here *BACKBITING* the sister. Very sad.

As a man i must say , what everything i decide , she will any way think i am wrong , i rather do what she decides , and do what she says , i'm a man , whatever she'll tell me to do , i'll do it in the best way possible as a man , but she needs to write the groceries list with precise instructions, no way i'm gonna do groceries based on my decisions

I fully understand that nobody is perfect, but this dynamic shouldn’t be on display. You discourage free mixing, yet you indulge in the act. The comments aren’t exactly respectful either. Be conscious of the atmosphere you create when being in a position of a wide reach. Let the sisters discuss these matters on their own channels, and vice versa. May Allah guide us 🤲🏽

Those arguing over her expectations are expecting same from their dads for their mothers. I don't know about others. But I being a man know her expectations are right on the point. If a man can not make her feel like a princess, he's not worthy living with. That's the responsibility Allah has given you, not ignoring the responsibilities that Allah has given to the women too.

As soon as you tell her what to do and she doesn't agree, you'll be labeled as "controlling".

If men are overpowring then you say they are toxic If they give you the reigns and ask you (as his equal) to make decisions then they are suddenly not masculine enough . It’s honestly so disgusting that this woman is talking so poorly behind her previous husband’s back. They least he deserves is some respect and dignity infront of millions of people watching this . 3aib on you Ali Dawah.

Why do you think this is ok to do ? Promoting this type of gathering ? When did you see the Prophet SWS promoting this? Really ? At the very least you could have put a screen or something between you . Why did you feel the need to do this in a room inside privately with girls who are not your wives or sisters ? Are you following the non Muslim podcasters now ?

That guy did well avoiding this women

Astgfirullah what are you doing Ali dawa 😢😢😢😢 mixing ???

Ali lostbhis mind! This meetings are nonsense. Ali, let your wife have this discussions with them in private.. what are you doing?😅

Some women tend to forget that a lot of times if it were up to us men, we would just stay at home and chill. Me taking you out or asking you what you wanna eat is just a way to show my appreciation and respect. When things need to be done, i’ll be the first to wake up, but because i’m quite indecisive when it comes to to certains stuff which to be honest most of the time we just don’t care too much about them (what to eat tonight or what are we gonna do today), that means i am quite passive and indecisive ? Some people are just spontaneous or have other things to think about. I don’t care what my favorite color is nor my favorite dish, it’s not gonna pay the bills. Give me whatever food you have, i’ll take it as long as it fits in my stomach. Sometimes i might want to eat something and it’s okay

May Allah swt protect the man who is being spoken of in a negative way on a public platform with a bunch of men that has thousands of view's.

Im 55 years in the bery near future. Men are supposed to be humble ,women should be submissive. She's projecting masculinity not submissiveness. Understand the difference. Perhaps the brother loves her so much that he's afraid to offend her in any way. Men like that shouldn't be.a disgust to other male. The Messenger pbh said, the closest to me are thise who treats their wives with kindness and im the kindest to my wives. If that brither starts showing masculine aides she'll be turned off.uou neber know youre in a good position until you find your self in a bad one. It's until they find the worst they realized how sweet it was . She said he's amazing ehat else do yiu want?

Do you want all your sins to be forgiven? Say the following 1X in the morning, or 1X at noon, or 1X every MONTH: La ilaha illallah, Allahu akbar La ilaha illallah, Wahdahu La Sharika lah La ilaha illallah, lahul mulk wa la hul hamd La ilaha illallah, wa la huwla wa la quwwata illah billah If you die on this day, noon or month, Allah will forgive all your sins. Sunan Al Qubra Lil Nasai Sheik Al Bani has classified this as authentic.

I know I am a person who just wants to chill while my father or brothers do my work and look after me and fulfill all my needs... my father is driving the vehicle while I am just chilling like a 2 year old but I do know that this wouldn't be the case with my husband.. we will have to work together and live our life with trial and error....Also the one thing that I have learnt from my mother and the married women around me is that what happens in the bedroom should stay in bedroom...if u start talking about it outside...it will take so horrific turns.... so either be mature and communicate well with eachother or tell someone who you know can solve your problem

We really getting Muslim red pill talks before GTA 6. 🤦🏽‍♂️

lost iq points watching this

Shes telling them what they want to hear..... Dangerous woman

They really thought they did something with this conversation lol. Privacy between husband and wife is also very important in Islam. May Allah guide us all

“I think this guy is amazing” 😂😂 cmon now

It's because we think "ok I don't wanna deal with her so I'll just let her do whatever she wants and if she starts making drama I'll just check out"

No man was lowering their gaze. Also talking to women not related to them. This is Haram. Read the Quoran and learn.

He’s not your dad he’s your partner

When a man does start taking charge and telling these women what to do, they start saying theyre opressed and feel controlled and want their freedom back. Smh. This world is doomed.

Firstly, I just wanna start off by saying gathering and free mixing like this is haram to begin with. Onto the main point, there is no issue with a man finding out what his wife likes and dislikes. Communicating this will build your love and relationship even more. A woman is not a child and cant just sit their and expect to be given a husband that knows everything about her. This mindset is so ridiculous. The sister said her dad treats her like a queen and princess, well sorry to bring you back to reality, but you are a servant of Allah, the almighty. Therefore, instead of expecting your husband to take the wheel and do things that you like, you should expect him to bring you closer to Allah foremost. Your husband can see you as a queen in his eyes because of his love for you and that is healthy because you should love your wife to those levels, but dont expect a guy to be like your dad. Your husband is not your dad. Your dad treated you like a "princess" but thats because he needed to so you wouldnt betray him and go astray from Islam. And he done this so you would love him enough and have enough respect for him to stay on the deen for him. Girls who have this mentality, honestly just think to yourself for a second. You want a guy to not ask what you want and dont want and want him to take the lead because you got that from your dad who knew you since the day you were born. 😂 And the brother at the end who said there is alot of passive muslim men nowadays which is a problem. So the opposite which is aggressive muslim men is the answer? 😂 Your wife wont do everything you say bro and you wont do everything she says and being aggressive aint the answer. There will be disagreements and thats where the communication comes in to talk about eachothers likes and dislikes. Sisters hate aggressive men, so you do need to be passive when finding out things about them. You will naturally be passive if you love them. Im not even 20 yet and im assuming most of the people on these shows are, and the level of immaturity is obscene. Basically sisters, dont be like this sister. Dont be a burden to your husband by expecting him to be like your dad. Remember marriage involves two people, and you are also a new person going into his life so communicate and talk to eachother and naturally Allah will make it easy for the both of you because you will understand eachother and what your role in the relationship is. Every man and woman is different, so communicate and dont listen to the people in this show, especially when they say things like this.

Quick reminder: Lower your gaze

What is this?! Why are they together?

She is speak truth. My husband needs to be told everything instead of taking the reins and being a man. Im taking my Shahada this week and with the start of my new faith, Im also ending my sham of a marriage. Alhamdullilah.

With him i have to tAlK tO HiM 😂😂😂

If he did thing his way like how she's supposedly wanting... she would complain "You never listen to me! You're so selfish! We always do things your way and you never listen or care about me! Waaaa!" They don't know what they want and they don't have khair.

KZfaq algorithm is convicted i want to see videos about the fine detail of Muslim life, I've no idea why.

Feminine men on the rise

These sisters mixing with non mahram and complaining about their husband in what has this come upto.

The moment she said "Im the princess" game over 😂

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Yes. I know what is sister means. I feel the same.

A husband is not a father and a wife is not a mother. Plain and simple.

So you call your man not a leader because he doesn’t plan trips during free time? Are you insane? I bet the man works so gare for you and provides so you can be a “queen” then you dismiss him. Ali stop this nonsense!

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Sister, this is just an advice: You should not talk about your husband in public like that. Please talk to him in private and work things out InshaAllaah.

I used to pick my partner up drop her home pay for everything. I would ask her opinion on what she wants to eat, where she wants to go etc and her reaction was the same as this woman. Disgusting lazy behaviour.