"Elders are not always right! " ~Deep and true words .😢 Lots of love to you Mithali. ❤💞

“that because of other people trauma we have to suffer “ connecting deeply 🌼

Can relate.Some indian teachers behave ruthlessly and illogically.😢

Childhood trauma is real man😭

The kind of teacher who questions your character just because you have friends from the opposite gender are the worst. They need to get out of that outdated ideas and belief they hold

The same thing happened to me in my school. Even I didn't tell my parents because I was scared. The class teacher of mine held me to boys class and she asked to me to pick a boy whom I like and want him to be my bf. I felt so embarrassed in front of everyone. She did this only because I was speaking to a boy and laughing making jokes after classes. Since then whenever I speak to a boy even like a friend it traumatizes me. Some teachers have the old mentality saying that a girl can only speak to a boy if she likes him in a romantic way!!!!

I also got slapped once in my school in the middle of the ground , because i was a girl talking to the other girl 😂😂😂

When i was in 12th my accountancy subject was very weak so out of anger my teacher she was also my class teacher beat the shit out of me infront of everyone, as she was scared that i will destroy her result record and insulted me so badly and said derogatory remarks on my caste too.she didn't even stopped even i was crying the whole class boys and girls were watching, I will never ever forget that day. Just bcoz im weak in any subject doesn't mean I'm worthless still got the seat in good delhi University college .such people don't deserve to be teacher and plus they were getting high salaries for what beating innocent kids?.

My story is different from others in comment section. I'm 26 now, And in my school days we have 2 senior teachers who used to do our sitting arrangements. And they combined girls and boys based on their heights and let us sit together. They thought in this way our shyness from other genders will be reduce and we will become more comfortable and confident and in this way we were more like friends and bro sis bond rather then dating in school early in age. They were have a very progessive mind set at that time. And I have so many great memories with my friends.

everyone : writing there stories Here me : reading them and Imaging myself in there stories

Aah! You touched my bleeding nerver girl.... Even in my school days my hindi teacher slapped me in staff room and passed a comment " Zada jawani chadh rhi hai isko jab dekho tab canteen me ghumti rehti hai ladko ke sath or padhai me 0 rehti hai" And i was numb at that point of time....i legit didn't bring myself to cry because i didn't even know what was wrong and right in class 7th😢some teachers are so traumatic

I was slapped by my school teacher in class 1 because I used to carry all subjects together...routine follow na krke sb leke jaati thi qki kabhi kabhi jo routine me nhi hota tha wo parane lg jaate the to wapas ghr pe aake likhna prtatha main copy me.... ab isme thappar maarne waali kya baat thi nhi pata 😂

Her every line was so deep 🥺✨

Imagine that teacher seeing this video 😂 He be like : aee yeh to dhoti khol rhi hai😅

Something similar happened with me too . I was in 9th standard .. there was a female teacher whose mother was in hospital and the teacher was very tensed .. vo hume padha rhi thi or ek ldka intensionally baar baar unhe pareshan kr rha tha ye bol k ki mam "kon si line pe padha rhi h aap " i thought to help the teacher kyk vo pareshan thi . Maine uss ldke ko bata diya ye vali line pe h hum . The teacher came and slapped me ! Puri class mujhe dekh k has rhi thi! Aur main ye soch rhi thi ki maine toh inki help krne k liye bataya use . Uss din maine ye bhi jaana ki sabki help krna bhi humesha sahi nhi hota ! Once i was in 10th standard back then ... ek ldka mere peeche vali seat pe baithta tha ...vo apna pair mere seat pe rakhta tha or isliye main use mana kr rhi thi!! My hindi teacher saw this ...she came and slapped me twice ! I was wondering why didn't she slapped the boy ? And what was my fault? And tbh ab agr vo teachers road pe mil jaye toh vahi gira k marungi 🤡

One story : I walking on the corridor in recess time then a volunteer came and told me to give my necklace to her bcoz it was not allowed and then a teacher came i said "mam i wont wear it again please dont take this my friend gave this to me(female friend)" but she still took that and when i was going to my class she said "boyfriend ne diya hoga kese jhut bol rhi h ki friend ne diya h koi sharam hi nhi h inko" then the next day i complained about her to the principal and they did nothing 😑

Its so sad to know that from our childhood we were taught to respect these adults who are not even adults....and yes some are teachers are real big bullies

This kind of similar situation happened with me while I was in std 9.A junior psycho boy was stalking me. I didn't know his intentions at first, so I considered him as a brother who asks me for help. Oneday he asked my no, and I gave simply. Then he regularly used to disturb me and ask my friends about me, minute details. I complaint to a Ma'am, and she told Principal Sir. Sir though handled the case but at last these were PRINCIPAL SIR'S words "TAALI KABHI EK HAATH SE NAHI BAJTI, ZAROOR TUMNE USE CHANCE DIA HOGA, AND YOU ARE A GIRL YOU SHOULD BE CAREFUL,WHY DO U TALK TO BOYS?" and these words to a 9th std girl who knew nothing about his intentions just took a drastic toll on her mental health but at last I overcame this situation with the help of my parents❤️

Same thing happen with me , when I was in class 9th .. Reason was - The boy dropped his pen under my bench by mistake and I took that up and gave it back to hum , he simply thanked me and I said - koi nhi Bhai it's ok Then the turned turned and without asking anything she started hitting me with scale , 2-3 slaps over my face and the whole class was laughing . She didn't touched the boy but she was so cruel for me .. 🥹😭 I never never told this story to anyone because I thought it was my mistake, but now I know that she was not at all right

Im actually thankful that none of my teachers were like that. Ive always been much better friends with boys than girls as i find communicating with them easier, and till now, no teacher has ever taunted me or has said a word to me about it ❤️

Once I was slapped by two teachers for copying down ( I was somewhat trying to improve my own handwriting) a poem written by a nursery kid ,which was published in the school magazine.I was in sixth standard then. The poem said that ,the teachers are like coaches , students are like players,books are like football and school is like a playground. The teachers scolded me and asked "Am I coach and you a player,you come to play at school, huh?""shameless" Etc etc🙂 As soon as I replied them that I had just copied the writing from the school magazine,they said " If someone jumps from hill,will you too?" I literally didn't know what exactly my fault was🙂

In my school girls are not allowed to sit with girls😂 one boy and a girl has to sit otherwise we get slapped 😂😂 we would be dying to sit with girl as being a girl but in our school to maintain a healthy relationship it was compulsory to sit like that❤

Once I was talking to a boy and we must have laughed in that conversation then I got back to my work and probably I was seriously and quietly doing my work after that and a teacher came and taunted me saying "abhi to bht has has ke baat kar rhi thi ab kya ho gaya" and i was clueless why would she say that ...I understood years later what she meant lol God bless such people's thought process

School teachers are like that i was slapped for keeping lip balm in my bag and so many things like this which are not even necessary to consider

I went through something similar in middle school , these 3 teachers made my life so hell that i had to leave my school . I hate them so much they literally traumatised me .

Aise teachers kisiko na mile bhai....

I was new in class and a week later my maths teacher slapped me at my back but it was too hard and as i am introvert at that moment i literally shattered , my eyes was full of tears and yk guys the reason was my line in notebook was not straight Can you belive it . It's been like 7 years but still it hurts.

I'm in a military school and I'm blessed the teachers here are very very friendly and they understand❤

“Sometimes somebody else’s trauma results in someone else’s suffering”. The statement at the end is such an important lesson, which should be acknowledged by all generations. It is very important for everyone to respect each other irrespective of one’s age. Heartfelt sympathy you experienced this. Love your new series of ramayan lessons and narrations. Lots of Love and Blessings 💗🤗

Dude when i was in my school.....and even if i am sitting with a boy....they start judging that i am character less and all...and when they use to come in class for lectures and all.....they use to embarrass me in front of 60 , 70 children......i don't understand that if you have this kind of mentality...why the hell did you opened co-ed school.......my friendships were affected bcoz of these things.....as they says" gehu ke sath ghun bhi pista hai" Bro get yourself checked up...but i am so proud of myself that i didn't care about what they are gonna think about me.....i still used to chill with girls and boys both...coz i am not doing anything wrong. I just felt like sharing it with you coz i can literally feel it as you are of my age only So thank you ❤

It was much needed,not every time your elders are correct and not speaking your heart out is our mistake

I had to suffer this type of thing 3 times in the school where the teacher slapped me for unnecessary reasons and this traumatized me till now... Still when i recall these events i still cries the hell out of me.🙁

You are so brave to share this as grown up, it’s not easy to look back at the past traumas and triggers which effected us badly.

This video is potrayed so maturely and wisely. So true!

Learnt this lesson when I was 12 or so, from then On, I respect the ppl who deserve to be respected not just because they are older than me.

it takes alot of courage to share ur personal experiences. great mitali❤

Even I got slapped once in the middle of the playground just because I spoke in Hindi with my friend. And I was in 3rd standard. But later I saw her speaking to other teachers in Hindi in the staff room. 😂😂

My respect for American students increase... they take ain't no shit from this teachers😅

Can relate here…. I was also confronted by a tharki teacher in 8 th standard when I talked to boys of my class. He asked if i want to get married or continue study … lol now i earn 3 times more than him and living my own life while he is somewhere sulking with his life 😂

Yaar ! Maine same situation face Kiya h " I was in class 6 sitting on the first bench .. our maths class was over by the time and I 👋 waved my elder brother in the ground through my class window - and..... Suddenly my maths teacher slapped me #TWICE and she said - who was he ? I replied - my brother ma'am 😞 " ... You know what se said back then ??? " Not all boys are your brothers " 💔 Dear Mitali ❤thanks for sharing this Till now I thought - School life me mera sabse worst incident tha yee

Well said. I really felt it... I think everybody ones in there lifetime have encountered such an scenario.😞

You spoked my heart out🥺❤️

Elders are not always right that's true Mitali you know what maii apko aapna story batati hoo I was in 5th class maine apni ek friend ko kahan ki ek pyara sa song likhne ke liye dhere dhere se mere zindagi me aana wala song thaa I mean uske lyrics mujhe bahut pyare lagte thee I was just 10 year old that time and she wrote that song for me and I just kept in my bag and you know what kuch din baad wo lyrics ke page Dadi ke hath lag gayi and you know what unhone kya samjha ki mujhe kisise pyar haii ham yahin sab karne jate haii school maine ye lyrics kisi or ke liye likha haii unhone literally mujhe dhamki di ki ham ye sab baat tumhari mummy ko bata denge or principal se complain bhii karenge you know what that day I cried so much literally I can't understand ki aisa maine kya kar diya ki ye itna gussa ho Rahi haii mujh par infact maine kahan bhii ki aisa kuch nahi haii but unhone samjha hi nahi haii ... Aaj jaab ye incident ko yaad karti hoo to lagta haii kitni pagal thi maii or kitni innocent or kitni buddhu ki koi kuch bhii bol deta thaa mujhe or literally maii kuch bhii man lete thii but one thing I can't understand ki Dadi ne literally ek lyrics ke paper ko itna bada issue bana diya wo bhii jhootha

Pata nii kyun ap ki ye story sun kar mujhe bhi apni ek school ki story yad agayi... meri wo class teacher thi pata nii un ko merese kya problem thi wo humesa mere se chidti mene agar exams mai achhe marks rakh diye toh doubt karti or result ane k bad mujhe bulati or kehti fr se ye answer likho... Maine wo answer likha.. or wo ek dam sahi hua fr bhi un ko us mai bhi doubt ho ra tha unhone tab bhi mujhe bht bate sunai pure class k samne ki kehti ye cheating kari hai n all mai bolti ki mai yese nii ki hun but fr bhi wo bolti mujhe bht bura lagta par mai ghr aa kar kuch ni bolti thi mujhe lagta mere ghr wale samjhege hi nii.. fr ek bar Mera pehla periods hua tha toh mai bht jada dard mai thi toh mai school nii aai kuch 4 ya 5 din tak jab mai school gyi unhone mujhe bulaya or jor se ek thappad mara or kaha absent kyun thi Maine kaha meri tabiyat kharab thi but unhone suna nii or mujhe sab k samne insult Kia... mai abhi jab likh bhi rahi hun na mujhe aj bhi wo scenario yad Ara hai... mai Aaj Tak nii samjh pai ki wo yesa q karti mere sath....

Yes my 11th class teacher was also always behind me just because I used to hang out with my boy best friend, even though we never did anything inappropriate, he is like my brother, but she called me characterless in front of whole class, said so bad to me, I literally cried in front of everyone, even though I used to be a very strong girl who never cries, and she even said such things to my parents, and when I got good grades in final exam, she said it was because of her scolding that I became a good student, and the sad part is there were other students who literally were couples or used to be too touchy, she never said anything to them, but to me she said so much on just talking with boys.

Something similar happened with me. When I was in 4th standard I was so bad at maths so my maths teacher insulted me infront of the whole class . And asked me to follow her to each and every class whenever she teaches and i was asked to sit on the floor while others kids were sitting on bench as if i have committed a sin and every kid out there has made fun of me. I was literally cry every now and then but my class teacher Sister Gracy tried teaching me . I have mentioned this situation to my mom just now😢 as me being a kid was not bold enough to tell my parents about it as i thought it's my fault that i m bad at maths. This is still an unhealed trauma in my life

God, this is really horrible 🥺 I feel for you and everyone telling their story here in the comments 🥺 And, reading all the comments, the fact that only girls were slapped/scolded/screamed upon and not the boys, really makes me more angry.

You are grown up Mitali. You feel maturity in your life and I love it.. keep flowing.....❤️😊

You're sooo peaceful person ❤

Thanks Mitali.....I am going through the same thing which you went through.....i thought really thought that everything is my fault...now i realised bade bhi galat ho sakte hai hamesha hamari galti nahi hoti

When I was in 3rd grade I was slap by a male teacher in front of my classmates its not because I was wronged its because my bench partner was making noises but my teacher couldn't slap her because they both are from same community but instead he slap me... I couldn't tell my parents because at my time I live with my aunt and my aunt was also so toxic... because of being scolded by my aunt I couldn't tell anyone. Now I am 30 but still its hurt me😢I was wrongly slap by a teacher

Currently suffering from this trauma..But thankuu di for making me feel good! ❤️✨️🌿

even I got insulted in a really harsh way in front of the class because I was talking to one of my male frnd... I asked him for notes and he cracked a little joke and we were laughing and that teacher called me characterless I felt really bad

I remember when i was in class 1 my class teacher (SHABEENA MAAM) slapped me on my both cheeks cz i had applied henna on my hands..!!! Ik it is not allowed in schools but i was just a child of class 1st, and those slaps were soooo painful ... I have always hated that teacher and will continue to hate her forever

In childhood we suffered a lot...... And when we grew up we realise and just think.............i wish i had time to understand ourselves 😔

I am really thankful that neither my school or any teacher was like that

Same happened with me and my friend also we were talking to the boys sitting behind us( we consider them brothers ) and then the principal came to our class and slapped both of us aur bahut baatein bhi sunai then the teacher also slapped us but point to be noted larko ko kisi ne kuch bhi nhi kaha

I was not slapped but... Since class 7th there was this boy whom I considered as my brother since i am a single child so i dont have any sibling. When we were in class 10th we were in the same section and to be precise i was studying in a residential school (jawahar navodaya vidyalaya) and it was a rule there that boys and girls SHOULD NOT talk to each other and if there's some very important topic to discuss about then we had to take permission from any teacher and then talk to any boy. So when i was in class 10th we were not following such rules strictly and since i and the boy whom i considered my brother were in the same section so we used to talk about studies,about the day or hostel stories or if there's any problem he used to share with me. My PT teacher noticed us 3-4 times while roaming in the corridor. Then later i got to know that a girl from our class was asked by that teacher about us. The environment was so toxic that i don't talk to boys very often and i hesitate as well unlike others.

No this is true elders are always right in their way as a kid we don't know about good or bad

I've felt ki it's there perception which they try to impose on us. Which is not always same for everyone. ❣️

Exactly... she is the only one giving this important message...loads of love di❤️

I changed my school for my +2 and the teachers in that school were probably the most narrow- minded people I've ever seen in my life. I remember this bio teacher who would always point girls out and indulge in their character assassination...those years of my highschool were nothing less than a trauma.

After reading the comments, I really felt sad for you all who had to bear this trauma inside you for this many years, and that too for someone else's sick mentality. Guys, just keep remembering the words of mithali "elders are not always right" & keep believing in serving the good to coming generations. And I don't know if should say it here or not, but I was always very lucky in this particular aspect, from my parents to my all teachers (from beginning till 12th) were the best. Even on our last day of school, we all sat together, had lunch together, clicked so many pictures. And our teachers were so happy to see us like that. I swear, only today I understood how lucky we were. ❤ And even till today, my parents never stopped me from talking with any guy. Its their trust, which gives me strength to cope up with any of the situation, whatsoever it is. Their trust gives me strength to choose the right path.

Yes Di.. I feel it is really necessary to chill out and relax... And not to care about the outside world sometimes..❤

i can relate ...even i got slapped by a teacher ... as other girl was asking ques with me during test ...and she didnt even said anything to her as she was her one of the fav. student ... getting scolded for this in front of everyone .... its really hard for me to forget that

Meanwhile my school ,who order girls to sit with boys. 😂😂

I got slapped 15times continuously, because i didn't bring pencil And 3 slaps again when she got to know that pencil was there in my bag of which I was not aware.

The same thing happened to me I was twice slapped by two teachers in grade 1 because 1) I was keeping my things away to keep my books on the table 2) By mistake I had pasted paper on the table in art and craft class. Literally they were the most ruthless people I had ever seen in my life until now This is the reason why I have become reserved and scared to talk to anyone Childhood trauma is real man😢 And the fact is due to fear I didn't talk to my parents about it 😭

I was badly scolded and insulted by my teacher for just wearing a decent jeans and top in school bcuz it was my birthday.

Thank you so much...this Felt like home after all the trauma.❤ Edit: i scrolled some of ur reels. It feels home. My anxiety is calm.im crying. Tysm❤

Imagine that teacher is watching ur this shorts dii😂😂😊

The similar thing happened with me. I was in fifth class, Mam didn't remember my name so called me without saying my name. I thought she is calling other girl. Later she came to my seat and slapped me 10 times non stop. My classmates were laughing on me. I so scared that one's house is near to my house and he will tell this to my mother. He did actually but at right time his mother stopped him

Same thing happened with me n that teacher told everyone in class to not have lunch with me or else they will be punished.

Your words are really calming didi bcs I know I have a male best friend but teacher don't accept me sitting and talking with him even our friends tease us they literally didn't understand friendship .. unko yhi lagta h ki isko ispe crush hoga and all chahe kitni baar samjha le ki yaar hum bhai behen jaise h... in logo ki wajeh se Mera one and only friend chala gya or ab humari itni baat nhi hoti kahi na kahi awkwardness si aa gyi h 😢❤❤

Yrr tum logo ke sath toh bahut bura hua hai really i felt so bad after reading all comments.plz guys be strong

This video got my heart❤

Same thing happened to me i was very bright in study but was chatting with a mischievous boy of my class and the teacher specially took me in corner and scolded me for talking with him and he'll make me like him ... Even though he was so nice to girls and was very sweet boy apart from being a bit mischievous

Your voice itself is very relaxing....

The way you presented this matter, our elders should also make us understand these things in this way only😊

Once my principal slapped me in front of whole class because I was drinking water outside class when teacher was teaching!! 💔

I have naturally curly hairs but used to always brush them coz society thinks only straight hair is pretty So once when I was in standard 9th, I did a haircut which flaunt my curls and since they were short in length I made two ponytails (believe me they weren't in length to make plaits), for the first time I was so happy with my hairs, but I guess the sister in my school didn't liked it. I was simply sitting on the first bench doing my math sums when she came to took a round, spotted me and found me inappropriate, she legit slapped me hard infront of the whole class, accussed my hairstyle and dragged me by the cloth of my arms to outside the class, she made me do the plaits outside the class infront of of her, she was so harsh that my class teacher in the next room came to the door and watched me with pity Like always I thought it was my fault, I was the one who did something scandalous, but did I? All I did was embrace my curls As I grow up I am realising how much I blamed myself for others toxicity!

Tbh... U r the first KZfaqr jiski thinking mujhe aachi lgti h practical lgti h nd khi n khi ek new way unlock krti h to think greater ❤🦋

Idk why I cried watching this

Aise choti choti bate life time Tak yaad rhti h 😢

Yes this happened with me exactly 😢 and I knew that teacher now also I hate her so much

My teacher whom i consider as my ideal says STAY AWAY FROM MEN CAUSE I KNOW HOW THEY THINK EVEN IF HE IS YOUR BESTEST FRIEND ...if he is your father or brother its absolutely save cause he is into a scene of saving..not like others and i should say its true !!

I’m sorry you went through that , but it’s true that elders aren’t always correct

I was slapped like 20 times continuously because I was laughing with him... . She slapped me continuously without even listening to me and then I told her that he is my cousin.. In our school diary we have mentioned each other's name.... Then she just told me to sit and she didn't even apologize... She questioned my character and said nothing to the boy(my brother)....

Ones the same incident happened to me the class teacher she was too ruthless to the kids not just me I was in 7 th standard and I was sitting with a boy (typical boys and girls system ) so he continuously was touching my thighs while the teacher was teaching I spoke to him to not do this and the teacher turned around she came to me and asked me to stand up I did and she slapped my bare face 😂 I was like wth did I just suffer from ? ... I didn't cry instead slapped the guy next to me .. the teacher was shocked at such behaviour she asked why did u slap him ? I told the way u slapped me without understanding any of my concern.. I also did but prioritising my self respect .. (she was confused in the meanwhile my friend from behind spoke up for me of how she saw the boy misbehaving with me the teacher was so embarrassed at her act that she left the class ) I mean is it just me who thinks female teachers are way more irritating and egoistic rather than male teachers ?????

I'd have never gotten over it. Your so strong!❤

True yaarr..elders dont even realize how badly we suffer because of their harsh mentality and behaviour..surely do what you wish you like❤

Slapped by my parents for talking to a boy.....pretty traumatizing isn't it?

Ye to kuch bhi nahi I was thrown out of my class because I was laughing when my sports teacher said I have two daughters both girls 😂😂

Trust me...this has happened to so many of us..thanks for sharing❤

You know what.... Just thanks alot for existing in this world ... idk you but the way u express ur feeling in ur videos ..... thanks because idk why but it's so relatable

Same thing happened with me I was holding my pee for about 5 periods and I was having back to back classses so when the 5 th class ended I tried to go out of the class without taking the class monitor permission and the teacher stopped me at the corridor,she slapped me 4 times and shouted on me and told me to go in class

My parents didn't allow me to talk to anyone from opposite gender (not even my cousin brothers elder than me) throughout the life cuz they thought that society would judge. And cuz I love my parents and would never want to hurt then I did the same ! Till date(I am 19 now) I have never interacted to any male anytime except my own brother and cousins who are younger than me. My yonger sister once talked with one of my cousin brother casully laughing and she was insulted by my parents (which was wrong). But I know that I come from a backgroung where people would always spread rumors about me even if I am not wrong , so I better listen to my parents for their happiness❤

Thankyou so much...I really needed this 😢😭🫶

Big hugs coming you way 🥺❤

Same thing happened with me in school. My teacher just slapped me in front of whole class just because I said that we all classmates should celebrate rakshabandhan together and tie rakhi on each other.😢