I wasn't ready for this - my heart is SHATTERED

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4 ай бұрын

I wasn't ready for this and I don't think you ever truly can be ready to lose your best friend. My heart is shattered and the grief is vast. Yet it wouldn't feel honest to not share this news.
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@jkm8741 4 ай бұрын

One day all our beloved pets will come running towards us and that will be a fantastic day ❤❤🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

That will be an amazing day!!!

@user-qv3oj7iw1c 3 ай бұрын

Biće neverovatan dan upravuste❤❤❤😊😊

@derindawithabigr 4 ай бұрын

I am soooo sorry. I am just ugly crying with you my husband and I have 4 cats and we lost our 13yo lab last year and it’s just heartbreaking losing a baby

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! I’ve been ugly crying everyday never thought I’d put it on the internet 😂 but here we are! I’m so sorry for your loss it really is heartbreaking

@rosaa658 4 ай бұрын

Rachel I’m so sorry 😢 for , your loss ! I know how it hurts 😢, because we have been through this 3 times . And the pain never goes away , but what helped us . We adopted another shelter dog 🐕 , and it wasn’t to replace him . But it did help & his personality , it was like reincarnation ! Just remember the good times , you has together . And one day you’ll see him away ! Because all dogs 🐕 & cats 🐈 go to heaven . And I say this because , nurses that work in hospice . Have witnessed when people are , transitioning they see their pets . That have passed & they’re so happy & they also talk to them . 🙏🏿😇❤️🥰❤️🥰🤗🥰😇

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you! I’m so sorry you’ve been through this and I think your right! We will definitely have another dog in our life at sometime, but trusting the timing of that! How soon did you get another dog?

@desratlinda8639 4 ай бұрын

I've heard that too that people see their pets when their passing 🌈😿🙏

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

May we meet again!

@KristiLEvans1 4 ай бұрын

I am so sorry, sweet lady 💔

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 😊

@sherriemerson4471 4 ай бұрын

I'm so very sorry for your loss. It is always heartbreaking to lose one of our furbabies. They bring so much love and joy into our lives. Ollie will be waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much! I look forward to seeing him again but grateful that for now I can still feel him in everything!

@sheeeraaa 3 ай бұрын

Thank-you so much it was very sweet.x

@YW2324 4 ай бұрын

Awww 😢❤I'm sorry for your loss. I miss my cat so much 😭....

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you! Losing our fur babies is the most challenging thing yet their love is the greatest gift we keep allowing our hearts to open to them

@rosemaryroutte7379 4 ай бұрын

So terribly sorry for the loss of your Ollie.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🤍

@marthamleynek2187 4 ай бұрын

My heart is broken to hear what you are going through. 🙏❤.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you! 🥹

@brudyboy58 4 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss. My dog was more than a dog. He was my best friend.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you! Your so right for Ollie was my best friend!

@hildachacon001 4 ай бұрын

I am deeply sorry about your loss. It’s extremely heartbreaking. ❤️🐶❤

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much 🤍

@JenniferCurd-bl6wb 4 ай бұрын

I cried as you were telling this story sorry for your loss

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

😭😭 thank you!

@sharonantonio9122 4 ай бұрын

Oh Rachel I am devastated for you and Kyle. ❤️

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

It’s been such a hard few days but we keep saying how grateful we are to have each other through this time

@allie1lilly2 4 ай бұрын

I feel your pain. I lost my baby short of 16 years. We love them with our whole hearts. And they give us so much joy. It’s still hard thinking of her without crying. Hugs to you.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss! They are truly the purest form of love and that is hard thing to loss once you've experienced how joyful it is!

@gailnightowl0423 4 ай бұрын

I'm so very sorry for your loss, absolutely heartbreaking. 💔 🙏 🙏

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you it truly has been gutting!

@gailnightowl0423 4 ай бұрын

@@SimplyRachelOBareYou're most welcome. I cried watching your video as I know this horrible pain of losing a pet, it's almost unbearable. 🙏 🙏

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I’m sorry it made you cry but your right it is almost unbearable

@engleharddinglefester4285 4 ай бұрын

Yep we had two dogs and miss them all the time and it's been decades. They don't live long enough.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

They will forever leave a lasting spot on your hearts!

@dianaleal5183 4 ай бұрын

At least he knew you were with him. So sorry you are going through this. God has a special place for all our animals.❤️🐶 he is not hurting anymore.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I know it was all we could have asked for him we would tell him often we just want you to pass at home in peace and he did just that like the bestest boy he was!

@hillj5118 4 ай бұрын

I am so so very sorry for your loss ❤ My deepest sympathies to and your family.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much 🤍

@ruthsebastian4760 4 ай бұрын

So sorry to hear about the loss of Ollie. God be with you Sarah and Kyle. It must be difficult. Take care. Love you both 😘🤗🙏

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much. Love to you from Rachel and Kyle 🤍

@kaymckean7250 4 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss 😢 May your beautiful Boy rest in peace 🌈🐾🐶💗

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much 💛

@pamfritz3553 4 ай бұрын

You loved him so well, now it hurts so deeply. He had such a wonderful life and you created that for him.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for those kind words! He truly had such a beautiful life!

@user-qv3oj7iw1c 3 ай бұрын

Baš mije žao 😢😢😢😢

@9384cows 4 ай бұрын

I'm so very sorry you lost your sweet fur baby. It's a pain you can't describe. I lost My MAX 9 months ago and I still cry every day. Please accept my deepest condolences. He will always be in your heart.🙏💔🙏💔🙏💔

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much and I send you my deepest love and sympathy for the loss of your sweet Max 🤍

@9384cows 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much. It's a hurt that is hard to talk about to most. They look at you like you are crazy feeling so sad and lost without your dog. You are the first person I actually told other than my family because you said what I am feeling. It's like you have to mourn in silence even though they are such an important part of your family. Thank you so much for acknowledging my MAX. My heart breaks for you and your loss. It's so hard and you feel so lost without them right there with you. The house feels so empty. Sending hugs and prayers to you and your family. Thank you again.🙏🙏🙏💔💔💔

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

How I couldn’t agree more it truly is hard for people to understand unless they have loved and been loved by an animal! You are safe to mourn and I am sending you so much love 🤍

@michellehollensteiner4643 4 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss. Please know that I’m praying for you guys and I’m sending you big hugs

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much we can feel your love 🤍

@michellehollensteiner4643 4 ай бұрын

@@SimplyRachelOBare You’re welcome. Anytime

@laurievillotta7935 4 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved dog. I hope in time God will give you peace. Memories can never be taken away.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much the memories will always be with us 🤍

@hollyhock1197 4 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry for the lost of your loving and loyal companion, Ollie. They are truly angel without wings here on earth. He must of had an amazing life of love and adventures to live so long. And he really knew how much you all loved him. It must be really hard for our furbabies to leave us too. 💔 I lost my sweet, smart, loving and loyal Husky girl, Xena 4 months ago to Cancer. She was my world and we had a very special bond. ❤️ She was my anchor in my life. We had so many amazing adventures and tossed her favorite blue ball a thousand times over. I am grateful for the times we shared together for 10 years. We are the lucky ones to experience our lives with them. The grief is real. I don't believe they ever leave us. After the passing of Xena, a month later, I captured her spirit laying down in my backyard on my RING camera. She is still there. 🥰 🐕 📷 ❤

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much for you loved and kindness and sharing your story! What a beautiful life you and Xena had together. Our fur babies truly are the most pure love that walks this earth and what a gift to be loved by them and see how their love for us expands our heart so much deeper!

@debbiemurrell3632 4 ай бұрын

I know the pain you are feeling. I lost both of my furbabies on January 31st. My heart is shattered. So very sorry for your loss. I had my babies for 15 years.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I am truly so so sorry for your loss! My heart goes out to you! 💛

@marcialane3956 4 ай бұрын

There are no words to adequately describe the grief I know you and Kyle are feeling right now. I lost my girl in September, on her 15th birthday. She was my world, my best friend, my child, my everything. Hearing your heartbreak while watching this raw and honest video, tears streaming, I feel your pain. Hugs and prayers to you both 🐾

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry you know what this feels like it’s gutting and hard to believe. Thank you for your love and kindness 🤍

@mandaAU09 4 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss x

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you 🥹🤍

@shirleyanneyoung955 4 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry. Nothing can prepare you for the loss of a precious furbaby. My girl passed 16 months ago and I wish I had gone with her. I don’t live now, I only exist. It was only her and I, no-one else.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I am so so deeply sorry for you loss! My heart goes out to you!

@shirleyanneyoung955 4 ай бұрын

@@SimplyRachelOBare Thank you

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

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@reginahaley3723 4 ай бұрын

This video popped up on my feed. It’s the first time I’ve seen one of your videos. What a precious pup. I definitely feel your heartache. You will never forget him, and he will always be so very special to you. I know you are so grateful for the time you had with him. I lost my sweet Jack to cancer 10 years ago. I wish you comfort and peace.🥰🐶🫶🏻

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I’m so glad you landed here! I’m sorry to hear you lost your sweet Jack to cancer it’s heartbreaking and we appreciate your love 🤍

@bunnyroo501 4 ай бұрын

Sharing your heartbreak for your lovely boy. 😢 In time the good times memories will erase those very last memories and you will be able to laugh, smile, and cry without the very raw pain you have right now. Only time will help. Sadly the world keeps on turning and life goes on, even when we want it all to stop. Heartfelt condolences ❤

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Wow so beautifully said thank you 🙏🏻 the worlds does keep turning and we learn how to just flow with the deep valleys that arise! I’ve been really choosing to feel my mind when the good moments because yes I don’t want to remember him in that state

@kristir0191 4 ай бұрын

My heart breaks for you guys. I am so sorry for your loss especially with everything else going on. Sending gentle hugs. Praying for support and small moments of goodness amidst the pain and sorrow. Praying for the process of grief as it comes up for you guys. Thank you for your vulnerability and rawness. I hate this so much for you guys.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much for your kind and loving words that mean so so much to us! Big love to you 🤗

@AbbyKuusisto-cl7lr 4 ай бұрын

@@SimplyRachelOBareI'm so sorry!! I know how hard it is to lose someone,that you love!!!

@09frigid 4 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🤍

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@SandiByrd 4 ай бұрын

Oof my heart - I don't know what brought me here but I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I genuinely am - I can feel your heartache thru my screen 😢 I can't believe how hard it was to find someone to come to the house to help you guys.

@kathyhelmold7358 4 ай бұрын

My heart aches for you and Kyle. Losing a pet is the worst. They love you so unconditionally and you give that love back😥😥 Sending hugs and prayers for healing. May Ollie have the peace he so very much deserves❤ RIP Ollie💔💔

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much 🤍

@jerrefreeman6044 4 ай бұрын

The grief strikes so deeply when we lose our fur-babies. Ollie knows how much you loved him and wouldn't want you to be sad. I truly believe we'll see all those we've lost (pets and people) again one day. In the meantime, they're tucked away in your heart. Condolences & 🧡 from Texas

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Your right it is a deeply pain but I know he is always with us just in a different form! We appreciate your love 🤍

@terrygresham5765 4 ай бұрын

So so sorry for the loss of your beloved pet, you gave him the best life ever and he knew he was loved. Only pet lovers can understand the depth of pain experienced when losing a pet. Cherish the memories and know he is free from pain and running around happy where he is. Thank you for giving him his best forever home xx

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much this means the world!! 💛

@littlemissshihtzu 4 ай бұрын

This is the first video of yours that I've ever seen. It showed up in my feed which is really quite ironic (beautifully ironic actually) because I have a KZfaq channel about my one-eyed rescue dog and today we paid tribute to a very special dog who'd passed that belonged to a friend of ours. I want to extend my deepest condolences to you on the loss of your best friend. I know this grief very well as I lost my first dog shortly after I gave birth to my first and only child. My dreams of my son growing up with my Westie (who was my bestie!) were shattered and it took a long time to heal from this loss. Many years later we welcomed our one-eyed rescue dog (Sadie Grace AKA Little Miss Shih Tzu) into our home and of course, we fell completely in love with her. Sending you lots of love and hugs! I'm glad your channel was presented to me today! I don't think it was a coincidence! 💞

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Wow this is truly so so beautiful! I’m so glad you landed here and shared this story with me how truly beautiful 🤍

@The-ii5mj 4 ай бұрын

We also recently (12.17.21) lost my 14yr furbaby a lot like y'all. She had a seizure when my Son yelled "Mom something's wrong!" & as soon as I saw her I knew. I grabbed her up & we also went thru the "Do we jump in the 🚗 & drive to Emerg Vet" but I told my adult son, "No, we hold her" bcuz at the Vets, they would of taken her from us...to ✔️ her. So take comfort in knowing he left this 🌎 feeling 💕 She knew I had her as she laid on my chest while my son fed me & her Clonazepam ⭐💫 which allowed her to relax & me to stop howling I wasn't ready. She laid calmly as we pet her for 48 min hearing what "A good girl" she was. After she passed, my son left me w/her while he ran to get the ice chest, ice, etc. I was NOT sticking her in a freezer. I dressed her in her cute jam jams w/her 🦪 necklace. Sorry to ramble on but something important i wanted to say. 6 mo later, i was still grieving to the point i needed help. Many don't know but most Vet Schools (Tx A & M, etc) have a crisis line where they "get it". They helped me get a healthy outlook on my grief & stop w/the "what ifs". Best of luck to you & all the others who also lost their "fluffy kids"❣️🐾⭐✌️

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Truly I am so so sorry for the loss of your sweet girl. It sounds like a truly challenging experience but how sweet you were able to give her comfort, love and presence in those final moments together. I feel like that is the best thing we can do for our furbabies! I am also so sorry you had such a difficult time processing that grief and what a gift that vet schools offer those services I had no idea truly a blessing! I am sending you big big love from Colorado!!

@maureenobrien9661 4 ай бұрын

I just lost my 14 year old Pug, Daisy May and I am beyond heartbroken. She had an abdominal mass for months but no symptoms at all. But then of course, the dreadful day came and her back legs gave up. As the day progressed it became clear that I was going to have to make that dreaded decision. We have buried her in the garden in the area where she loved to potter. We created a heart shaped grave and a small headstone is coming. There is nothing quite like the pain of losing a beloved dog. At times it feels as if we may never recover. Of course we do, but they take a piece of our heart with us. I feel your pain, I really do, since I am feeling my own pain so deeply. RIP Ollie, maybe you will meet Daisy May over the Rainbow Bridge. 💔

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

My heart breaks for you and how beautiful of a passing and celebration of her life you have created. I can see in my mind her beautiful spot in nature and heart shaped headstone. I truly hope Daisy May and Ollie are playing together over the rainbow bridge!

@adenonco1 4 ай бұрын

I am so, so sorry. I know its a pain that is nearly unbearable. When a beloved pet leaves us, a piece of us go with them. I believe we are all reunited again when our time is up. Until then our pets are with us even though we can't physically see them. I hope and pray that you hang in there and eventually find peace.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for these beautiful thoughtful words I couldn’t agree more I know he is with me still and I continue to communicate with him it’s just different and I am coming to terms with that being ok

@camilamacedo1506 4 ай бұрын

Dear, I lost my Luey in October 2023, and in the very March 8th that you lost yours, Luey would have turned 12. He passed away unexpectedly and I know exactly what you feel. I am so sorry and it is not easy. I cry every day but knowing he was in my life it is a blessing in itself. Everything seems grey but the love will heal the pain.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I am truly so sorry for the unexpected loss of your Luey! My heart goes out to you! I love what you said " everything seems grey but the love will heal the pain" truly so beautiful!

@lennapelayo3252 4 ай бұрын

😢😭😭😭😭🤍🤍🙌🙌i know how you feel my beautiful boy died November 6,2021. I miss him so so much i cry every week i send my condolences to you and yr family

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

i am so sorry for your loss! The pain is so deep. We appreciate your love 🤍

@sheeeraaa 3 ай бұрын

Awh Rachel im so very sorry 😢ive have just been through this my self and my heart is also shattered,my dog also called Ollie passed over the rainbow on Monday at 6.15 he was 11 years old .life within him seems unthinkable, i loved him so much.😢 He is playing in heaven with all the other doggies.x

@SimplyRachelOBare 3 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for the loss of your Sweet Ollie Dog as well! Sending you big big love it's just so hard to loss them, they are family!

@lyndarossi933 4 ай бұрын

We went through it many, many times and you are never ready even when they are ill. So very sorry. But he had many happy years with you and that's what you remember.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! 💛

@MadDog31542 4 ай бұрын

I'm so very sorry. My boys are my kids. I completely understand your grief. It is so devastating. Prayers for your boy Ollie. I'm very sorry. ❤

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much 🤍🥹

@jwdc7784 4 ай бұрын

No words. Just ❤🙏🏻

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you! 😘

@amandaslaw81 4 ай бұрын

So so sorry for your loss. What a handsome guy he was. I know all to well what you are going through because we are currently going through it times 2 and I've lost so many wonderful furbabies throughout my time here on earth. Jan 20th our 12 year old boy kratos was extremely sick out of nowhere and He had to be taken in to have the suffering ended peacefully. That was so hard and gut wrenching to do. He was the best dog u could ask for. Then on Jan 20th we lost our 12 year old fur baby karma. Again so suddenly she was throwing up in the afternoon so we decided to see what was going on in the morning as the vets were closed the night before when we saw she was throwing up and acting weird. Bright and early I was calling the vets office and they didn't open till 8am by this time she was looking really really bad and I knew it wasn't good. At 8am I called our vet they insisted we call emergency vet so I did and as I was on the phone asking to get in ASAP she died. Now we have no furbabies and our hearts are broken.they really were such amazing dogs and they made life so much better. Praying for you guys. So sorry for your loss again.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

My heart breaks for you, the pain of losing your dog is truly horrible and you lost two so close together my heart goes out to you and I am sending you so so much love! 💛

@barbarameehan113 4 ай бұрын

I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you. We lost our almost 18 yr. Old minipoodle, Remy, this past dec. 9th. We miss him everyday. I talk to him...he is with us every moment.❤❤❤he passed at home also.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry for the loss of Remy! I love you walk to them everyday! We’ve been doing that as well!

@sandyp196 4 ай бұрын

I don't know why your video came up as the first one I saw today. My lovely cat died in my arms at 12.03am on 8th March. She had heart disease for the past year. She died peaceful in her own home with the person who loved her the most. I am grateful for that. I'm just so devastated. I can't stop crying. She came home yesterday in a beautiful little memorial box. It does make it easier that I have her home. But I miss her sweet little face so much. She was 18. She brought so much joy to my life for 18 years. Sometimes the only joy. Sometimes she was the only reason I got out of bed in the morning. I'm not entirely sure what to do now. I'm so sorry for your loss. It's very painful.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

My heart aches with you for your loss! It's wild that just hours our apart our sweet loves would pass, may they be playing together over the rainbow bridge! I am sending you so so much love through this grief, it's truly the most difficult!

@YW2324 4 ай бұрын

We had to take our cat to the vet after 5 days of being in pain on and off. He couldn't properly walk or eat or drink, or use the litter box. He had kidney failure 😞. I said good bye to him only quickly because I knew I'd start crying otherwise. He was a special cat. He was a cat who if spooked he could be mean, but that's probably because someone left him on our porch in our previous house 🏡. I still dream about him. I miss him so much 😢❤. I hope you heal, 🙏🏻 I still watch old videos of him.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry for the painful experience you had my heart breaks for you knowing the pain you felt! May you keep seeing him in your dreams!!

@YW2324 4 ай бұрын

@@SimplyRachelOBare thank you very much 😊 💜❤️. Ya. I still wish he was here with us. But he lived for 15 years give or take a few months. But ya.... His name was Alex. He was a tabby cat 🐈.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

How sweet!! I’m so glad Alex had such a lovely life and have you so much love

@YW2324 4 ай бұрын

@@SimplyRachelOBare yep me too 😁. I watched some older videos of him too to make me feel happy 😁

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Love this!!

@Tabby169 4 ай бұрын

I am so very sorry for your tremendous loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family ❤🙏

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much!

@matthunt4512 4 ай бұрын

Oh wow, my heart is truly breaking for you both, those precious little babies are so much a part of our lives. God gave these creatures to us to name and care for; sounds to me like you and your husband cared for yours. Don’t be shy in getting another pet again; Ally would want you both to continue to share your love to other pets.!!

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much! He was truly something special! We agree when the time is right we will adopt another sweet little fur baby!

@LAURIEOHIOLPN 4 ай бұрын

I'm so very sorry. The true love of a dog...

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you! It truly is the purest love 🤍

@shp12 4 ай бұрын

my heart goes to you my darling I am so sorry for your pain and grief . sending you so much love strength and courage in this difficult time.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much! 💛

@valerienelson3296 4 ай бұрын

So very sorry for your loss. Push away the end and chose to remember the good.❤ I know that empty house feeling. I am so happy you got to love on him for his final breaths.❤❤❤

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

We are so so glad we got to be with him it was so special! We keep sharing all our favorite memories of him and that is helping. We appreciate your love!

@brannon5311 4 ай бұрын

I just happened to find your vlog this morning. My heart hurts for you and Kyle. There is really nothing one can say to avoid that horrible emptiness. I lost my baby boy, Dexter, last July and he took a piece of my heart with him. I will be checking in with you vlog regularly. May you precious Ollie rest in peace.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for your kindness it means so so much! I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet Dexter your right a piece of your heart goes with them and it's a hard new world to navigate!

@commonsense354 4 ай бұрын

I’m so very sorry for the loss of your precious Ollie💔

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much! 💛

@bethany.r.groeger 4 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss. He sounds like he was the bestest boy. One thing that can sometimes ease the pain is, when you're ready, adopting an another animal in need. You're not replacing or betraying him, rather you're giving a wonderful opportunity to a pet through which Ollie's memory gets to continue on in a slightly more positive light. Hopefully that makes sense. Wishing you peace ❤️

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you and I couldn't agree more, when the time is right another sweet love will be adopted. That love is meant to be experienced and these just bring so much joy to your life!

@SarahLee-rs7ks 4 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Ollie. I know this pain all too well. I've lost so many of my animals, who I get so attached to and it rips your heart into pieces. I'm praying for you and Kyle.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! I am so sorry you've experienced this deep loss, it's hard but your right the love is so real that it does rip your heart into pieces!

@MariaCrespo-yj8zz 4 ай бұрын

I know that feeling but don't worry he is in heaven with his doggie friends they all fly to heaven and go threw the rainbow 🌈

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

🥹🥹🤍 May he been playing, eating peanut butter and loving it up there 🌈

@Vibrantlifestyle 4 ай бұрын

So sorry sweetie - I put my dog down of 16 years 1 month ago. It’s still really hard and they become part of our lives. I’m holding in the light of healing with ❤️

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much and I am so sorry for your loss that is no easy decision!

@leem200 4 ай бұрын

So sorry, it is hard to let a part of the family go. It is always sad and hard to find a vet sometimes. We had to put ours down because of the pain he was in. He was sixteen years old. Even though I have two other dogs now and it has been two years I still miss him. Hugs, fill so sorry for your loss. Never easy. When ready honor him by finding another one. I got my last two at the animal shelter. They are great. I did not think I would ever want another pet for it was really hard. Greive it is normal, and I think he would want to pass on at home, with smells he knows and people who love him.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for these beautiful words! We agree he is went just the way he was meant to and we are glad he went on his own it's the best thing we could have wished for. We will one day adopt another but our hearts are still so raw to even think about that day being soon.

@rubylively4958 4 ай бұрын

Hugs. We’ve all been there and know what you’re going through.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much! 💛🤗

@peacefulpoate5613 4 ай бұрын

❤ Peace to your hearts

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you 🤍🥹

@TUPELO_HUNNY 4 ай бұрын

7 months ago today I lost my beloved Bernie suddenly and unexpectedly to splenic hemangiosarcoma....the devastation and pain is still with me...he was a few weeks shy of his 7th birthday...I have a little of his ashes in a ring and his photo in a locket around my neck....since that I now have 2 rescues. They've been a great help but he will always be my he❤

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I am truly so so sorry for your loss! I can imagine how challenging that was for you. I would love to know about this ring, that sounds so special!

@poppyk6182 4 ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss. Im in tears 😢❤🙏🏻

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you 😢

@MaterLacrymarum 3 ай бұрын

I'm very sorry to hear your tale. I lost my last dog in a terrible way, and I hate anyone to go through anything remotely like it. I had three dogs, and lost two of them. I have one left, and he's still silly as ever was. But when the day comes, there's nothing to do but blubber, cry, and wish it wasn't true. It may not be the right time, but there are others in need of love out there waiting for you. When you're ready.

@SimplyRachelOBare 3 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss, it truly is such a difficult loss they are your babies! We would love to bring in another fur baby in the coming months, they make like so much more bright!

@lindahendricks1868 4 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry. We lost our fur baby too a few yrs ago. Now we have another fur baby. We love her like a grandchild. So I feel your pain and know you are not alone. Take care sweet child.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much! We know one day we will adopt again, the love is just like nothing else is it?

@desratlinda8639 4 ай бұрын

Awwww, so sorry for your loss 😥😟, just lost my tabby cat "Chuck" a month ago and miss him so much..Loved him more than anything, 😥

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you and I am so sorry for your loss of Chuck sending you big big love 🤍🤍

@HowToWithCraig 4 ай бұрын

So, so sorry for your loss. I'm crying with you. Much love from Utah.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you thank you! 💛

@cookiescott9329 4 ай бұрын

So sorry 💔💔💔...we are never ready when their wings are ...❤❤

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you and so perfectly said!

@susieme9045 4 ай бұрын

I know that grief so well I lost my beloved Luna a seal point Siamese 5 years old to an auto immune reaction a few weeks ago beyond devastated

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I am so deeply sorry my heart goes out to you! I know your pain and grief and may you find some ease in your days in this new way of being.

@kyleoconnell1 4 ай бұрын

This is so difficult, thank you! I love you!

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

It has been so challenging! I love you big!

@ColoTobe 4 ай бұрын

My condolences. I'm so sorry for your loss.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much! 😘

@krisjames4276 4 ай бұрын

Love love love ❤❤Dear Rachel, your video just came up on my feed. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I do understand your grief as my little Stan left me suddenly last year whilst holding him. Although the passing of your little man seemed very sudden the cancer had obviously progressed enough that his body decided it was time to go. How wonderful that he enjoyed such a loved life right until the end. This is something many humans never get to experience. Heaven welcomes all God's animals home. He will continue his life in peace and love. You will reunite again and then it's for eternity. Hold tight to the gorgeous memories. Don't hold on to the last moments. Your darling dog would not have been aware much by that time other than the love you were surrounding him with. Once he left this earth his soul was no longer in the body. That was only needed on earth. Take time to grieve. It's a natural process and important although painful. Just remember Rachel, ❤You can only grieve if you have loved.❤ When the time is right, share that love again, this world and it's animals need it. I hold you in my prayers tonight love xx❤🙏🤗❤️❤️❤️💐💐

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Wow this is truly the most loving and beautiful message to read! I am so sorry for your loss as well! I couldn't agree more with everything you have said, shortly after Ollie took his last breath I felt his soul was no longer there he wasn't with us in that form anymore it was the wildest feeling but it is so true!

@tabathaevans5541 4 ай бұрын

I am so sorry. My daughter and my gbabies lost their fur baby yesterday in a tragic way. He was let out to go potty and he seen a jogger running by so he ran out of no where he darted into street and a vehicle was speeding and hit him. Our hearts are broken 💔. I couldn't sleep last night . Sending you all Prayers and Love praying for comfort ❤🙏💯. Our baby was only 2. Two years ago we drove like 5 or 6 hours my daughter, her two boys and I about 3 days before Christmas. Her husband bought him for her for Christmas. He was a Chihuahua. He was so sweet and so very lovable ❤.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I am so so deeply sorry for this tragic accident my heart attacks for your beautiful family! Big big love to you!

@christinewilkerson9105 4 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry I know what your feeling we lost our little girl gabby to cancer she was 13 yes old that was 4 yes ago and it's still hard we got her when she was a puppy she's a dachshund we now have a cavalier king charles spaniel his name is Rascal so sweet and loving we got him a year ago he's a very good boy so try to keep your chin up and just remember all the good times you had with him

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much for your kindness! We feel it and appreciate it. I am sorry you've experience this kind of loss as well but what a gift you have another sweet little Rascal in your life I love that! 💛

@LordUSABless 3 ай бұрын

I am so sorry to hear of your lovely Ollie passing. My heart cries right along with yours. 😢❤

@SimplyRachelOBare 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much we feel your love and appreciate it! 💛

@stephaniewalsh67 4 ай бұрын

I am going to give my beautiful 3 year old guy lots of love right now.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Please give them a bit extra from me!

@philipdefrancisco7540 4 ай бұрын

But there is no other choice but to love. You made a beautiful tribute.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Your are so right and what a gift that we were able to love him and be loved by him!

@naturegirl5681 4 ай бұрын

So sorry for your loss my heart breaks for you.💕

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏻 it’s been a hard moment in time

@michellemcneill5313 4 ай бұрын

Lost our Gracie Girl from cancer at almost 13 so Hard . Forever Missed ❤ sorry for your loss. !!!

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss it truly is so hard! Big love to you 💛

@jennifertaylor5776 4 ай бұрын

Much love and prayers to you and Kyle ❤❤ you’re beautiful. ollie is in heaven with my beautiful kitty marmalade who I just lost five months ago, no matter how long it is there’s always gonna be a part of you that aches because you miss them. I understand the pain so sorry to both of you for what you’re going through you’re in our hearts and our prayers. God bless.😇🙏💕💕💕👋🇨🇦

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you thank you! I truly hope Ollie and Marmalade are playing together! I am also sorry for your loss! 💛

@ritasnellgrove6343 4 ай бұрын

You came up on my feed at the most surprising time. I lost my beautiful, gentle, funny boy kitty Stranger, suddenly, so unexpectedly yesterday. I'm in shock. So very very sad! My heart goes out to you. I so know how you feel. We are going to miss them for a very long time! 💔💔

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for you loss! My heart goes right back out to you! May you find some ease in your day and enjoy remembering all the joyous moments you two had together!

@TheQueensWish 4 ай бұрын

I am sorry about Ollie and what you all had to suddenly experience without any help. It is so painful. There is a dividing line which is how life was before with Ollie and then life after he died. Everything is changed. Other nice things seem trivial when all you want is Ollie back again. I’m so sorry.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

So so perfectly said! Life without him is strange but we are very slowly finding our footing again!

@alethiablanchard 4 ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss, praying

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much! 💛

@longtimetnbcfan 26 күн бұрын

Im so sorry, my heart is broken for you, this same thing happened to us back in Feb in the middle of the night. Its hard and I know its hard, especially because they are family.

@SimplyRachelOBare 21 күн бұрын

I am so so sorry it’s truly gutting and I don’t know about you but I keep having moments I expect to see him and then I don’t it’s so hard. Sending you love 💕

@cutypieable 4 ай бұрын

Please don’t do like I did when my fur baby passed away. I didn’t get another one for years because I thought he needed to be mourned properly. In hindsight, I should have gotten another one sooner because they bring so much joy in our lives, and waiting doesn’t mean that you aren’t mourning your former baby. Not having one just makes life sadder. That is just my perspective from the mistake I made.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I love this perspective! We agree one day when we are ready maybe in a few months we will make the decision to adopt another beautiful sweet loving furry soul!

@missyholz 4 ай бұрын

So very sorry!

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much 💛

@Urobam 4 ай бұрын

So sorry! There is no words

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you thank you! 🤗💛

@Kaj0699 4 ай бұрын

I feel your loss and heartbreak. I've lost 3 Dogs. The last 2 within an exact year of each other (last one being 3 years ago) and this brings it all back. Literally heartbroken for you. 😢

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I am so sorry! It truly is such a heartbreaking experience they become your family and that's never an easy thing to loss

@Kaj0699 4 ай бұрын

@@SimplyRachelOBare no. It's like losing a child. I'm still crying over the loss of my last 2 as they were so close. Loved each other. The last Dog - Bella, was only 8 years old. Toby, who died a year bar 2 days earlier, was nearly 14. 💔💔

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Your so right it truly is like losing a child! I am sending you so so much love 🤍

@gailschwindt8970 4 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry for the loss of your beloved pet.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much 💛

@harper_anne2089 4 ай бұрын

My daughter lost her precious dog on her birthday last year, April 4th, and she couldn't even stay at her house afterwards. Anya was like her child. She flew from Indiana to Oklahoma to be with me so she could grieve away from everything that reminded her of Anya. My heart broke right along with her. She still cries a year a later with memory triggers. I am so sorry for your loss and you and Kyle are in my prayers. May Ollie rest in peace.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

This truly breaks my heart and what a beautiful gift she had a loving home and mom to come to in her deep grief. You gave her so much comfort and I send you both so much love! The loss is so real and like you said they become like your real children and that's a hard loss to process!

@harper_anne2089 4 ай бұрын

@@SimplyRachelOBare I send you and Kyle all of my love, and thank you for your kind words. The grieving process never ends it seems. The only thing that brings me relief is to cry. Cry cry cry. God bless you ✝

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Let those tears flow!! And thank you for your love and kindness 🤍

@banzobeans 4 ай бұрын

Sad! And quite beautiful. Death is so strange.

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

Death truly is so strange! It’s been so hard to wrap my head around him no longer being here and having watched him make that transition.

@mandy2829 4 ай бұрын

I am so sorry- I just went through this a month again... Hardest thing ever! My girl MyLee was fine and then one day she wasnt and by 8:30 that evening she took her last breath 😢😢😢 I am sorry for your loss♡

@SimplyRachelOBare 4 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for you loss! It truly is the hardest experience, may your sweet girl rest in peace!