yes June. It can be really hard what sometimes people do. My partner whom i lived with for several years. She vanished pregnant from our home one day. It was totally traumatic. I couldn’t find her and she blocked me completely. Eventually a strange told me the situation and it was not good. She had been and was living a double life. with this other man thinking it was his little boy who was by then born. two years of legal followed. And eventually the police contacted the other msn as I couldn’t find him and also I was told that he was highly dangerous. she had lived here for 25 years and the Lyn left the country and went to her home country in Asia. continued to block me out. I lost my CEO job in the middle of all this. maybe wasnt performing too good with all this going on. I don’t know. I literally collapsed then and it’s just so so hard. They live in Asia and that’s their life. She has made contact since but theres so little can be done now.

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Or it needs to be free

@@findingequilibria8772 dear God please help

that didn’t resolve matters for me. And I regret the court process as it antagonised her so much more and the situation became not fixable

Agreed, i think there needs to be a legal mandate to flip the percentage of children who go to men to the percentage of the time they currently go to women.

@@IRGhost0 In my opinion, after horrendous personal experience, I think the courts should be pushing mediation in a major way, to counsel people and help them to come to a natural agreement that works for all, and of course in the best interest of the child.

@@Onlinesully i agree that it should always be in the best interests of the child, but i'm not sure how much they take the child's point of view into account. and even if a child felt they should be with one parent more one year, their needs might change next year. and meanwhile the courts made a ruling that doesn't adapt to the child's needs quickly enough. i think that should be resolved.

@@IRGhost0 Honestly, court isn’t the place to resolve these things. Mediation and counselling is the best possible way. to help two adults to find a good way to coparent. Courts totally destroyed our lives. It has left me suicidal.