Point of correction he is not working for himself, he is working for the wife in disguise. It is better he works with an outsider

Do the DNA ooo because this woman the way she's reacting is something else

My brother, a DNA is a must

When a married woman commit adultery, it affects her husband. Today he's up, tomorrow he's down. It's not the same thing when a man does it, not that I'm supporting men unfaithful. Madam, if the DNA will give you peace, do it if you are sure of yourself.

Ben I told you before, you are not married and have never been married, this man knows what he is saying and should be respected for that, all what he requested is quite legitimate and reasonable, if he gets older than this he will find himself in a big problem as even the children will become disrespectful and destroy his manliness and ego on quote, that is the consequences of tolerating such a woman. Going to Canada was the final plan to nail him and discard him if he does not comply with will...... She is just been esposef, the man has to be careful, the words of our father's are words of wisdom

THIS woman is absolutely rude. She really should go back to her parents to be re- trained 🙄

Do DNA madam if you are sure of yourself

Her playing around could have been what resulted in the husband business downturn. Please do DNA, and you will be grateful that God saves you.

DNA is necessary. It seems she's guilty. Why is she so frightened hearing about the mention of the DNA.

He has the right to conduct a DNA test. Everybody is faithful until DNA proves otherwise.

DNA should be done it's seems she guilty

I'm a lady but I fully understand with the man and I align with his terms and conditions. The woman should calm down and allow the man to be the Man that he is!

Ben Cash no matter how you try to put it, she has already break the man's trust for her and it will be very hard for that man to believe whatever thing she is saying

This woman has wings , she has no respect for her husband this man is too calm for her don't trust her 🤣🤣

This man is very proud. He needs to bend for the family to work.

Man, man man, many God have mercy on you man

Why is she fighting with all her powers against DNA test?! Hmmmmmm oga better go do it oooooo at least you can know what you hold and can claim with full chest oooooo

When a woman gets pregnant for another man apart from her husband, there's every tendency that the children will still look like the husband firstly,if the husband continues to sleep with his wife through pregnancy and secondly as they grow up too. It doesn't mean that the children belong to the husband eventually because It doesn't completely eliminate the original DNA of the man who actually impregnated the woman. So this man's request for DNA in spite of the fact that the children reportedly look like the husband, is valid 💯💯💯💯

DNA, DNA

Madam, if you don't have any skeleton in your cupboard, let him conduct the DNA. Stop challenging him, because you were so wrong.

If this woman refuse DNA for the children which means the children are not for the husband confirm.

Respect is earned 💯

Do d DNA madam don't worry if u kw ur conscious is clear Do d DNA my sister let this man keep quiet

Wicked madam , your husband decision is final , do t cried for DNA madam , DNA must be done 👍🏼 Ben Cash

Bencash why r u not asking this madam why she dont accept DNA test there must be something fishy

Madam please go for the DNA

Make una go run DNA test

Bros go for DNA.

The lady should try and be apologetic and submit to the DNA test. The test will clear her if she hasn’t done anything. The man must relax and be forgiving about the secret kept from him. The lady was wrong but did not commit crime. She was probably thinking she was helping the husband. 🤔

Ben Cash is just so out of touch🙄 This woman is wild and arrogant and not ready to continue being a wife😏

She is really afraid of DNA. Just the mention of it drives her crazy. My Brother,you should go for DNA.

Oga you can still take your kids to do the DNA without your wife knowing. Why is she so frightened about DNA?

Madam na why you dey run from DNA na if you have a clear mind na so why you dey make unnecessary wahala na Madam

I support DNA test. If the woman is faithful then she should be laughing at the idea of DNA that he should go ahead.

Behind a good man is a good woman. If the woman has the know how why not give her the lead. That’s how you become successful. These men hold themselves back.

I can understand this man’s frustration in his marriage. He’s the woman and the woman is the man. She takes all the decisions in the relationship and the man is reduced to a dependent. I’m sure there’s a bigger man behind the woman. I would also have doubts of the paternity of the kids.

DNA,DNA NEEDED

He has the right to do DNA

For me this woman has not done any wrong.

How much did this woman pay Bencash that's making him talk foolishly? You'd marry, your wife will do things behind you, and we will all see how you'd handle it. Oga, I'm not saying to leave your wife, but that DNA is important. Mr James is involved.

She had plans to relocate to Canada with the real father of her children. Evil woman

Let’s not judge a book by its color, it will surprise us when the truth starts to come out ooooo.

this woman have a good heart just like my wife .. others will buy a truck for their sugar boy

DNA is not a bad request if she's sure the kids are for her husband she has nothing to fear Ben cash.

In this case his wife technically collected all his husband money to buy that truck just to bring the man under her control

Then he should start to run 🏃‍♀️ if no DNA 😂😂

Madam do Dna let him cater for the expences.

I will love and cherish this woman

What is wrong with DNA? If you're faithful to your husband don't be scared of DNA

The man has found someone else outside the wife even though it’s not right to hid things from the husband and looking at it they know each other than anybody else but let’s look at why all the Conditions the man is giving.

Someone is seriously advising this man in a bad way but the woman should not run from dna

Why can't he take the children for DNA himself. Are they not living in the same house?

Sometimes women do not know that RESPECT is a man's food, and not sex! I can relate to how the man feels. It's not the truck that is the problem but the deceptive way the woman went about it. She fooled her husband and turned him to her employee for 2 years or so! If the woman wanted to really helped her husband as she claimed, she should have come out openly and presented the truck to him and the husband would have cherished her forever. Moreover, she was not even prepared to let him know until the man found out the truth by himself! That is totally unacceptable. I won't take it either. I respect the man's decision about not wanting to drive the truck again. He is a MAN indeed. If he does not do this, the woman would do another worse thing in future. This is why I do advice men not to combine money with their wives. It is recipe for disaster. It would work out if the man earns more than the wife but if it is the other way around, then you would see you are in hot soup!

The man is too proud ooo ,his ego is too much my only problem with the wife is let. Her prove herself in the DNA and if it comes out his if na me I o divorce him collect all my dime

Ben Cash how is he wrong??

Do the D.N.A she is very guilty 😂😂

Ben Please explain to the lady that men really feel bad when things go like that for them, so they get kind of ‘combat ready ‘ for any action that suggests they’re being overlooked or disrespected. She should really go down for him to feel that he’s still in control, simple.

His ego is too much and complex is his problem.

This woman is too impatient. Her husband is trying to make a point but she keeps seeing things from her own side alone. She shd calm down, keep quiet and humbly listen to him

Maybe she wants to relocate to Canada to join the real father of the children.

Ben that woman have no respect for the husband, let the man work for outsider and go for DNA text. Men be wise, don't allow your wife to take you responsibility at home, else you lost your respect and the woman will become the.head of the house

DNA must be conducted

He trained you and made you whom you are today, pls do the DNA

I think She has no respect for the man because of joblessness.

My friend stand on your decision ( DNA )

Too many secrets: show him the forms you've filled and all your research about relocating to Canada. 2 Show him all your bank accounts 3, show him all the property including land that you've bought. 4, Do DNA to prove to him that he is really part of that family.

Well, the woman betrayed their trust. Forgiveness is OK, but healing takes time. Ben, since the issue of DNA is mentioned, it should be done to build the trust. The way the woman talks, submission to her husband is questionable.

No woman will support this man again. He is very ungrateful .

He us spending but he is providing for the family

Is either you like it or not, Canadian embassy will request for DNA, let your head straight madam.

What is wrong with the DNA TEST? Why is she behaving as if she wants to beat him up? Does she have anything to hide? If she is sure of herself, she should be happy with the DNA simple. Me I agree with the man. Bencash, ask her why she is against the test!

Ben Cash, you don't understand what this man is going through. From the woman running her mouth if you are married you should understand quickly what the man is going through. DNA is not a crime if the man demand that. Once a man is being fade by a woman. Most of the woman have the opportunity to take the man as a servant in the house. This woman is acting man of the house. Better for the man working outside than working for the wife. Actually the woman is acting man in the house. Why won't he talk about DNA, why. She's hiding something.

It's not his child...... she's hiding her secret.......force it on her

Ben is not seeing what he is going through

Why dis woman dey para anyhow

Mr Ben, please encourage the woman to subject the children to DNA,,try to balance your sense of judgement please

Guy no marriage or relationship wit out secrets but that secret must not be a deep secrets As for this matters is not up to family separation

Ben Cash needs 15:50 to get married, because he doesn't understand the way women behave at all. DNA of the children is important

Woman do the DNA. 🇬🇧

Oga do the DNA cz the way this woman is running her mouth, something must be wrong somewhere.

Go do DNA women

this woman have converted all her husband's weight to her own that was why she was trying to rule the man

She would have just run away with the kids without telling the man oo if not that the man finds out oo PLS DNA OO

U can do the DNA without her knowing just take the kids one by one to the hospital for collection of samples because if the woman is sure that u are the father of the children she will not oppose you doing the DNA

Is she the man of the house and she must as well do DNA test what is she afraid of

Ben let DNA be done

Oga no because ur wife get money more, u dey run

Very rude woman and again una go chock say 1/2 kids is not for the man

Madam use wisdom here. It’s very easy for things to go south at this junction. Your man is pained cos his ego has been altered. At this point your family wealth is gradually picking up and money is something that comes with a lot of temptation and if you’re not careful you’d gain the money and lose something more valuable that money can’t buy. Please at least agree for dna and am sure the rest would be changed cos he’d not want you out of his life at his present condition. There’s no guarantee he’ll get you back if you leave to your parents. The reason I said that you should consider dna for him is because the embassy might still request a dna when you decide to proceed with travelling so there’s no much difference there. This marriage will only continue if one of you decides to play the fool. Remember only a wise person can play the fool. Good luck

Please do a dna test and give him conditions should the results be correct that the children are his, as he is doubting your loyalty. You simply, at this stage of the lack of trust, cannot escape doing a dna test, unless you do not want the marriage to work. Trying to bring up your contributions into the financial structure now because you are currently more capable, will not overshadow this issue. All this does makes you look more condescending and that loses you points in this situation. YOU HAVE TO NOW DO A DNA TEST - You created this situation for yourself and you can't escape it. Once you prove yourself, then your husband will have to humble himself and you will see a great change in him for the better. Whilst I agree with the assitance given by her, she appears to be very controlling and has lost all ideological of her position in this marriage.

Ben Cash go marry first and have many year of marriage experience, then you will be qualify to handle this kind of issue.

When you see a woman voice raised up then you know the woman is in control.

Oga do DNA pls why she is afriad of doung DNA If is are husband children,oga do DNA Text Jor .Oga you can do DNA Text without her knowing,Take there teethbruch to do DNA Text pls.

This woman is hiding something. She's too rude and aggressive. Go for DNA Why are you afraid

This is what keeping secrets does woman. Keep your mouth shut. This woman is creating more problems for her. If you really are remorseful you wouldn’t be ranting like you are doing. Ben if you really want to be a marriage counselor go study to know how to handle cases like this.

I very well understand this woman.only she konw the kind of man she is marrying... Men ...Men...Men l know them.hes angry that his wife is succeeding cos am a victim unless l ran to America b4 l die.

Odogwu my brother, your wife is hard working and conservative, trust her, throw away pride, and run to Canada with your children, that environment is too toxic for a dead man

He probably have another woman, how can a man give up on his family just like that. Marriage is thru thick and thin, thru death do us part.

You don't need her permission to do a DNA biko! Just go do it!

This woman is so disrespectful and arrogant