Point of correction he is not working for himself, he is working for the wife in disguise. It is better he works with an outsider
@moneymikaeltv5 ай бұрын
True
@sunnyikoza29205 ай бұрын
Thank you. He is working for his wife.
@UcheGodwin-br1yu5 ай бұрын
Do the DNA ooo because this woman the way she's reacting is something else
@fenvero5 ай бұрын
My brother, a DNA is a must
@treasureokpo69445 ай бұрын
When a married woman commit adultery, it affects her husband. Today he's up, tomorrow he's down. It's not the same thing when a man does it, not that I'm supporting men unfaithful. Madam, if the DNA will give you peace, do it if you are sure of yourself.
@nkolika2715 ай бұрын
Question? What a MARRIEd man commits adultery, does it cause his wife’s ups and down???
@akwaraomamuyovwi25654 ай бұрын
Are u even listening to ursef ,wat do u mean by wen a man does it is not thesame abeg stop gibbershing bullshit Cheating in the eyes of God for married couples is Bad it dosent matter who does it whether man or woman.And anyone who does it will bring consequences of things fallen apart in the family coz the vow has been broken which one is if the man does it is not thesame
@user-go4te8ng3e5 ай бұрын
Ben I told you before, you are not married and have never been married, this man knows what he is saying and should be respected for that, all what he requested is quite legitimate and reasonable, if he gets older than this he will find himself in a big problem as even the children will become disrespectful and destroy his manliness and ego on quote, that is the consequences of tolerating such a woman. Going to Canada was the final plan to nail him and discard him if he does not comply with will...... She is just been esposef, the man has to be careful, the words of our father's are words of wisdom
@amazinggrace21175 ай бұрын
Gbam👍❤
@ugochiopara51075 ай бұрын
THIS woman is absolutely rude. She really should go back to her parents to be re- trained 🙄
@user-ru4vc6vm2m5 ай бұрын
Do DNA madam if you are sure of yourself
@user-yv5rh1gv3c5 ай бұрын
90% of women are never sure nowadays 😂
@joeolu19325 ай бұрын
Her playing around could have been what resulted in the husband business downturn. Please do DNA, and you will be grateful that God saves you.
@KK_Waffenlager50455 ай бұрын
DNA is necessary. It seems she's guilty. Why is she so frightened hearing about the mention of the DNA.
@nkolika2715 ай бұрын
A married woman whom the husband has not reported Infidelity? It’s wrong and a SLAP IN WIFES’s face. I pray she does not tolerate that nonsense. This man is just crying “wolf”, a lazy man’s cry.
@barclay12145 ай бұрын
He has the right to conduct a DNA test. Everybody is faithful until DNA proves otherwise.
@janejapan93635 ай бұрын
DNA should be done it's seems she guilty
@mauriceashuachere28894 ай бұрын
Definitely
@ashaade41765 ай бұрын
I'm a lady but I fully understand with the man and I align with his terms and conditions. The woman should calm down and allow the man to be the Man that he is!
@mortalwombat785 ай бұрын
He is not a man just because he has male parts. A man is strong in the eye of adversity. He was drinking, depressed and making life miserable for his family just because his business ran down. A real man is sober and in control of his life. I will find it difficult to live in the same house as a man who is depressed and drink everyday.
@user-dz4zz1yd5z4 ай бұрын
@@mortalwombat78married woman brings bad luck to the husband when she starts having an affair, and that is what happened to her husband. The husband was doing well before he married her and trained her in school , he was not a drunk then. She must do the DNA test, her behavior is terrible.
@mortalwombat784 ай бұрын
@user-dz4zz1yd5z you don't know if she's having an affair. That's pure speculation which makes your comment moot and void. By the way, the spirit of drunkenness and depression can bring down a marriage as much as infidelity.
@user-dz4zz1yd5z4 ай бұрын
@@mortalwombat78 she should get the DNA test done and avoid the speculation.
@mortalwombat784 ай бұрын
@@user-dz4zz1yd5z YOU are speculating.
@UcheGodwin-br1yu5 ай бұрын
Ben Cash no matter how you try to put it, she has already break the man's trust for her and it will be very hard for that man to believe whatever thing she is saying
@user-mw3jh8dv5g5 ай бұрын
This woman has wings , she has no respect for her husband this man is too calm for her don't trust her 🤣🤣
@patisemede71384 ай бұрын
This man is very proud. He needs to bend for the family to work.
@eruchaluvictoria72434 ай бұрын
Man, man man, many God have mercy on you man
@JessicaChiwendu-hm8em5 ай бұрын
Why is she fighting with all her powers against DNA test?! Hmmmmmm oga better go do it oooooo at least you can know what you hold and can claim with full chest oooooo
@ugochiopara51075 ай бұрын
When a woman gets pregnant for another man apart from her husband, there's every tendency that the children will still look like the husband firstly,if the husband continues to sleep with his wife through pregnancy and secondly as they grow up too. It doesn't mean that the children belong to the husband eventually because It doesn't completely eliminate the original DNA of the man who actually impregnated the woman. So this man's request for DNA in spite of the fact that the children reportedly look like the husband, is valid 💯💯💯💯
@ciattacarr9425 ай бұрын
DNA, DNA
@akenuwaadesuwa50954 ай бұрын
Translate to Chinese pls😢
@augustinaanyanwu48595 ай бұрын
Madam, if you don't have any skeleton in your cupboard, let him conduct the DNA. Stop challenging him, because you were so wrong.
@joancharlesbarnabas78445 ай бұрын
If this woman refuse DNA for the children which means the children are not for the husband confirm.
@chinasawhyte3885 ай бұрын
Respect is earned 💯
@Omohrahim5 ай бұрын
Do d DNA madam don't worry if u kw ur conscious is clear Do d DNA my sister let this man keep quiet
@olalekanaina18085 ай бұрын
Wicked madam , your husband decision is final , do t cried for DNA madam , DNA must be done 👍🏼 Ben Cash
@janejapan93635 ай бұрын
Bencash why r u not asking this madam why she dont accept DNA test there must be something fishy
@TheFootbalStan5 ай бұрын
You dey mind Bencash? He will always support women no matter what.
@susanimade-di8mh5 ай бұрын
Madam please go for the DNA
@user-wk4qx8un3f5 ай бұрын
Make una go run DNA test
@brightnwoke39855 ай бұрын
Bros go for DNA.
@ulomma69495 ай бұрын
The lady should try and be apologetic and submit to the DNA test. The test will clear her if she hasn’t done anything. The man must relax and be forgiving about the secret kept from him. The lady was wrong but did not commit crime. She was probably thinking she was helping the husband. 🤔
@stockstock68055 ай бұрын
Ben Cash is just so out of touch🙄 This woman is wild and arrogant and not ready to continue being a wife😏
@jimmysheglo22585 ай бұрын
She is really afraid of DNA. Just the mention of it drives her crazy. My Brother,you should go for DNA.
@angeladiele58065 ай бұрын
Oga you can still take your kids to do the DNA without your wife knowing. Why is she so frightened about DNA?
@graceomojeowho88885 ай бұрын
Madam na why you dey run from DNA na if you have a clear mind na so why you dey make unnecessary wahala na Madam
@angeladiele58065 ай бұрын
Exactly…I don’t understand her.
@OsazuwaKevinOsazuwa-vl1eq5 ай бұрын
My brother thank you is like you are seeing what I'm seeing
@inabiyi5 ай бұрын
I support DNA test. If the woman is faithful then she should be laughing at the idea of DNA that he should go ahead.
@user-zg7xe3ib7j4 ай бұрын
Behind a good man is a good woman. If the woman has the know how why not give her the lead. That’s how you become successful. These men hold themselves back.
@user-hq3pm1xv7u4 ай бұрын
I can understand this man’s frustration in his marriage. He’s the woman and the woman is the man. She takes all the decisions in the relationship and the man is reduced to a dependent. I’m sure there’s a bigger man behind the woman. I would also have doubts of the paternity of the kids.
@shirley99795 ай бұрын
DNA,DNA NEEDED
@samuelbarba68474 ай бұрын
He has the right to do DNA
@danielnapoleon17765 ай бұрын
For me this woman has not done any wrong.
@planet84915 ай бұрын
How much did this woman pay Bencash that's making him talk foolishly? You'd marry, your wife will do things behind you, and we will all see how you'd handle it. Oga, I'm not saying to leave your wife, but that DNA is important. Mr James is involved.
@freemindgoula73505 ай бұрын
She had plans to relocate to Canada with the real father of her children. Evil woman
@user-zh8yq3jk5b4 ай бұрын
Let’s not judge a book by its color, it will surprise us when the truth starts to come out ooooo.
@henryokafor46505 ай бұрын
this woman have a good heart just like my wife .. others will buy a truck for their sugar boy
@philipasiemo8385 ай бұрын
DNA is not a bad request if she's sure the kids are for her husband she has nothing to fear Ben cash.
@nkolika2715 ай бұрын
It is a slap in the face when people are Married and there are has never been any infertility issues. It is so wrong for this YEYE man to demand a DNA. That’s is wrong. I will NOT have that if my husband come up requesting DNA for our KIDS. U do DNA when wife is suspected of infidelity, which is NOT the CASE in this matter. OGA, don’t support someone who is wrong.
@elizabethegbeotamere4905 ай бұрын
In this case his wife technically collected all his husband money to buy that truck just to bring the man under her control
@briskaalidunah72675 ай бұрын
Then he should start to run 🏃♀️ if no DNA 😂😂
@patienceokoli20165 ай бұрын
Madam do Dna let him cater for the expences.
@henryokafor46505 ай бұрын
I will love and cherish this woman
@modestusihesiaba88915 ай бұрын
What is wrong with DNA? If you're faithful to your husband don't be scared of DNA
@user-zh8yq3jk5b4 ай бұрын
The man has found someone else outside the wife even though it’s not right to hid things from the husband and looking at it they know each other than anybody else but let’s look at why all the Conditions the man is giving.
@user-ll9dy1cf4x4 ай бұрын
Someone is seriously advising this man in a bad way but the woman should not run from dna
@chinonyevivian11124 ай бұрын
Why can't he take the children for DNA himself. Are they not living in the same house?
@Isiro-wz3zf5 ай бұрын
Sometimes women do not know that RESPECT is a man's food, and not sex! I can relate to how the man feels. It's not the truck that is the problem but the deceptive way the woman went about it. She fooled her husband and turned him to her employee for 2 years or so! If the woman wanted to really helped her husband as she claimed, she should have come out openly and presented the truck to him and the husband would have cherished her forever. Moreover, she was not even prepared to let him know until the man found out the truth by himself! That is totally unacceptable. I won't take it either. I respect the man's decision about not wanting to drive the truck again. He is a MAN indeed. If he does not do this, the woman would do another worse thing in future. This is why I do advice men not to combine money with their wives. It is recipe for disaster. It would work out if the man earns more than the wife but if it is the other way around, then you would see you are in hot soup!
@user-ll9dy1cf4x4 ай бұрын
The man is too proud ooo ,his ego is too much my only problem with the wife is let. Her prove herself in the DNA and if it comes out his if na me I o divorce him collect all my dime
@idealinspirations46964 ай бұрын
The woman is not faithful! When she married the man she had nothing. The man put her through school and opened a business for her. She was in control of the man’s money. After a while the man’s business started struggling and the woman bought a truck for business without his husband’s knowledge and told some one to encourage the husband to be the driver. The man drove the truck for 2yrs without knowing he was driving her wife’s truck. Meanwhile he is living with the woman and was giving her money from his salary as the truck driver. If the woman can use her husband like this, she is not trustworthy. The man has every right to feel hurt.
@ngoziofurum51445 ай бұрын
Ben Cash how is he wrong??
@user-mw3jh8dv5g5 ай бұрын
Do the D.N.A she is very guilty 😂😂
@estheraidoo80595 ай бұрын
Ben Please explain to the lady that men really feel bad when things go like that for them, so they get kind of ‘combat ready ‘ for any action that suggests they’re being overlooked or disrespected. She should really go down for him to feel that he’s still in control, simple.
@patisemede71384 ай бұрын
His ego is too much and complex is his problem.
@Godwin75215 ай бұрын
This woman is too impatient. Her husband is trying to make a point but she keeps seeing things from her own side alone. She shd calm down, keep quiet and humbly listen to him
@inabiyi5 ай бұрын
Maybe she wants to relocate to Canada to join the real father of the children.
@user-uq9pm5fn4r4 ай бұрын
Ben that woman have no respect for the husband, let the man work for outsider and go for DNA text. Men be wise, don't allow your wife to take you responsibility at home, else you lost your respect and the woman will become the.head of the house
@user-gh7yp3qv2c5 ай бұрын
DNA must be conducted
@aguuju75155 ай бұрын
He trained you and made you whom you are today, pls do the DNA
@samuelbarba68474 ай бұрын
I think She has no respect for the man because of joblessness.
@kennedyuche72634 ай бұрын
My friend stand on your decision ( DNA )
@julieryatim78025 ай бұрын
Too many secrets: show him the forms you've filled and all your research about relocating to Canada. 2 Show him all your bank accounts 3, show him all the property including land that you've bought. 4, Do DNA to prove to him that he is really part of that family.
@mohammedabdullahi81905 ай бұрын
Well, the woman betrayed their trust. Forgiveness is OK, but healing takes time. Ben, since the issue of DNA is mentioned, it should be done to build the trust. The way the woman talks, submission to her husband is questionable.
@patisemede71384 ай бұрын
No woman will support this man again. He is very ungrateful .
@user-gh7yp3qv2c5 ай бұрын
He us spending but he is providing for the family
@olaoni46515 ай бұрын
Is either you like it or not, Canadian embassy will request for DNA, let your head straight madam.
@hauwaagwae46604 ай бұрын
What is wrong with the DNA TEST? Why is she behaving as if she wants to beat him up? Does she have anything to hide? If she is sure of herself, she should be happy with the DNA simple. Me I agree with the man. Bencash, ask her why she is against the test!
@timothymmadu46044 ай бұрын
Ben Cash, you don't understand what this man is going through. From the woman running her mouth if you are married you should understand quickly what the man is going through. DNA is not a crime if the man demand that. Once a man is being fade by a woman. Most of the woman have the opportunity to take the man as a servant in the house. This woman is acting man of the house. Better for the man working outside than working for the wife. Actually the woman is acting man in the house. Why won't he talk about DNA, why. She's hiding something.
@EdoboyAkpomon5 ай бұрын
It's not his child...... she's hiding her secret.......force it on her
@bontuogodfred-zb5fr4 ай бұрын
Ben is not seeing what he is going through
@chordkeys5 ай бұрын
Why dis woman dey para anyhow
@user-uk6cy1de9sАй бұрын
Mr Ben, please encourage the woman to subject the children to DNA,,try to balance your sense of judgement please
@erasmuscharles5 ай бұрын
Guy no marriage or relationship wit out secrets but that secret must not be a deep secrets As for this matters is not up to family separation
@lankejoseph52415 ай бұрын
Ben Cash needs 15:50 to get married, because he doesn't understand the way women behave at all. DNA of the children is important
@modysantos17965 ай бұрын
Woman do the DNA. 🇬🇧
@hotjam9935 ай бұрын
Oga do the DNA cz the way this woman is running her mouth, something must be wrong somewhere.
@magdaleneforchia46025 ай бұрын
Go do DNA women
@alloymbanaso82844 ай бұрын
this woman have converted all her husband's weight to her own that was why she was trying to rule the man
@user-gh7yp3qv2c5 ай бұрын
She would have just run away with the kids without telling the man oo if not that the man finds out oo PLS DNA OO
@user-fl8bd7wj9l5 ай бұрын
U can do the DNA without her knowing just take the kids one by one to the hospital for collection of samples because if the woman is sure that u are the father of the children she will not oppose you doing the DNA
@SamuelMkeni4 ай бұрын
Is she the man of the house and she must as well do DNA test what is she afraid of
@gemtemgodwill39695 ай бұрын
Ben let DNA be done
@BLESSING.C4 ай бұрын
Oga no because ur wife get money more, u dey run
@charlesappiah31085 ай бұрын
Very rude woman and again una go chock say 1/2 kids is not for the man
@2winztv5 ай бұрын
Madam use wisdom here. It’s very easy for things to go south at this junction. Your man is pained cos his ego has been altered. At this point your family wealth is gradually picking up and money is something that comes with a lot of temptation and if you’re not careful you’d gain the money and lose something more valuable that money can’t buy. Please at least agree for dna and am sure the rest would be changed cos he’d not want you out of his life at his present condition. There’s no guarantee he’ll get you back if you leave to your parents. The reason I said that you should consider dna for him is because the embassy might still request a dna when you decide to proceed with travelling so there’s no much difference there. This marriage will only continue if one of you decides to play the fool. Remember only a wise person can play the fool. Good luck
@markokusanya8555 ай бұрын
Please do a dna test and give him conditions should the results be correct that the children are his, as he is doubting your loyalty. You simply, at this stage of the lack of trust, cannot escape doing a dna test, unless you do not want the marriage to work. Trying to bring up your contributions into the financial structure now because you are currently more capable, will not overshadow this issue. All this does makes you look more condescending and that loses you points in this situation. YOU HAVE TO NOW DO A DNA TEST - You created this situation for yourself and you can't escape it. Once you prove yourself, then your husband will have to humble himself and you will see a great change in him for the better. Whilst I agree with the assitance given by her, she appears to be very controlling and has lost all ideological of her position in this marriage.
@oguinyelivinus91795 ай бұрын
Ben Cash go marry first and have many year of marriage experience, then you will be qualify to handle this kind of issue.
@willimmichel23224 ай бұрын
When you see a woman voice raised up then you know the woman is in control.
@iyaibeji41204 ай бұрын
Oga do DNA pls why she is afriad of doung DNA If is are husband children,oga do DNA Text Jor .Oga you can do DNA Text without her knowing,Take there teethbruch to do DNA Text pls.
@arthurowa4734 ай бұрын
This woman is hiding something. She's too rude and aggressive. Go for DNA Why are you afraid
@minavash38355 ай бұрын
This is what keeping secrets does woman. Keep your mouth shut. This woman is creating more problems for her. If you really are remorseful you wouldn’t be ranting like you are doing. Ben if you really want to be a marriage counselor go study to know how to handle cases like this.
@uzoamakaaguleke64005 ай бұрын
I very well understand this woman.only she konw the kind of man she is marrying... Men ...Men...Men l know them.hes angry that his wife is succeeding cos am a victim unless l ran to America b4 l die.
@Eteawan5 ай бұрын
Exactly! Most men cannot manage the situation when their wives are providing for the home. His Ego is talking. But the woman should do the DNA. Sha.
@blessndyamaka5024 ай бұрын
Odogwu my brother, your wife is hard working and conservative, trust her, throw away pride, and run to Canada with your children, that environment is too toxic for a dead man
@user-zg7xe3ib7j4 ай бұрын
He probably have another woman, how can a man give up on his family just like that. Marriage is thru thick and thin, thru death do us part.
@anthonyuremeh89235 ай бұрын
You don't need her permission to do a DNA biko! Just go do it!