Ian McConnell - Quitting (The Way I Wrote It)

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Жыл бұрын

I wrote this in December.
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Lyrics:
I’ve been thinking ‘bout quitting
I don’t think I’m gonna do it
But I’ve been thinking ‘bout quitting
17 year old me probably wouldn’t believe
That I’ve been thinking ‘bout quitting
After all of the hours that I spent getting good
I’ve been thinking ‘bout quitting
I’ve been thinking ‘bout quitting
I used to love this, now I love this less
And I’ve been scared to get this off my chest
Afraid of who I might let down if I decide to put to rest
The life I’m living
But I’ve been thinking ‘bout quitting
It comes in waves, but the waves come stronger and more often
I’ve been reading about how burning out is not uncommon
But I never thought it’d happen to me
So young and full of so much promise
But if I’m honest
I used to love this, now I love this less
And I’ve had trouble filling up my chest
With the air I need to live because I’m anxious and I’m stressed
Beyond my limits
So I’ve been thinking ‘bout quitting
And I tell myself I’m a loser
Who can’t take when things get hard
I’m my own worst abuser
But I guess most people are
And I’ve already come this far
It’d be a waste to not just finish
But I’ve been thinking ‘bout quitting
I don’t think I’m gonna do it
But I used to love this, now I love this less
I don’t know what I would do instead
So I’ll probably just convince myself that sticking with it’s best
And try forgetting
That I’ve been thinking ‘bout quitting
Chords:
Verse:
Ab Eb/G Db/F Ab/Eb Dbsus9 Ab/C Bbm Eb
Chorus:
Db Eb Ab
Db Eb Ab
Db Dbm Ab Ab/G Fm
Bbm Eb
Bridge:
Db Eb Fm Cm
Db Eb Db Eb

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@kahsindra Жыл бұрын

10 years at my job, this came up on my Spotify today and started crying at my desk at work. This hit hard, encompasses what I’m feeling. Thank you for your vulnerability, it made me feel validated. 💕

@ElectricMusicianDude Жыл бұрын

I've been trying to put a finger on what's so enticing about all of his songs and now I finally realize that it really is the vulnerability in each one.

@lindsay4647 Жыл бұрын

My dude this is great but take the breaks you need. No one, especially internet wackos, should force you to turn a good thing into a bad thing because of those strangers' wants. Your needs come first. You should always come first. Take care.

@1985gvs Жыл бұрын

I don't think it's 100% autobiographical, it's probably mainly content and generic situations people can related to in different levels.

@TommytheroxTV Жыл бұрын

@@1985gvs agreed, many times songs artists write can be about the experiences others or friends close to them have told them about. Art is not always self absorbed, sometimes it’s charitable, a canvas for others to project onto rather than a reflection of the artist.

@FailurePrime Жыл бұрын

I got something completely different from this song. I thought this song was about suicide

@lindsay4647 Жыл бұрын

Definitely valid points. Regardless of who it's about, breaks are important anyway. You should always look out for yourself first and foremost, you can't help others if you don't help yourself. Dead men can't give hugs.

@678Draco Жыл бұрын

@@FailurePrime i can see how you got that from some parts but I think it's about burnout for phrases like "I used to love this, now I love this less" "After all of the hours I spent getting good I've been thinking about quitting" Still pretty interesting how songs can be interpreted!

@InkMonkeyMag Жыл бұрын

This version hits extra hard. I hear this one and just want to give you a hug.

@pridearts3169 Жыл бұрын

I can't tell if it's intentional or if you're only talking about music, but this is the most beautiful and accurate depiction of unaliving that I've ever heard or seen. Hope you're feeling better now. Thank you for helping me with my struggle. ❤❤❤

@SleepieDogz Жыл бұрын

This song reminds me of when I quit pursuing my childhood dream. After doing something else for the last three years. I'm going back to keep pursuing it. Do whatever you got to do to put yourself where you think you can do the most good

@MossLyndon Жыл бұрын

I've been listeing to this song on repeat. It hits somewhere inside. At the end of the day, we all have to do what is best for us. And you are fantastic either way.

@carlosporras9178 7 ай бұрын

Why am I relating this lyrics to life?

@mariettagallo8921 Жыл бұрын

Everything you write is so relatable ❤

@meredithflateau8950 4 күн бұрын

This fits a current friendship of mine.

@tuesdaysteve Ай бұрын

And you listed the chords at the end of the shared lyrics! Thank you for all of this. So good…

@Jedhenrymusic 27 күн бұрын

Thank you for this…..hits so close to home. Makes me not want to quit knowing I’m not the only one that feels this way. You articulated it perfectly. Again, thank you

@ElectricMusicianDude Жыл бұрын

When he finished and just put his hands on his lap like "welp..." I felt that.

@Pondero36 Ай бұрын

Miss your music man. Thank you for all your songs and real feelings.

@MasterRayne 5 ай бұрын

To me, this song resonates so unbelievably hard. I've been dealing with violently suicidal ideations since I was 12 years old, and yeah sure, life is a rollercoaster and it has its ups and downs. Right now mine has been in a down-swing for about half a year or more due to a string of truly awful experiences, and the future doesn't show any signs of improvement. I haven't seen or heard anything about either of my 2 sons in months. My mental illnesses keep from being able to hold a job for longer than a month or so and when I'm sober I sleep for 18+ hours a day. After trying to take "the long nap" over 20 times in my 27 years of life, I gave up on it.. because while leaving this world behind could possibly make me not have to endure the pain, it would cause pain to all the people I love, and that's literally the last thing I want.. So currently I'm a rock sitting in the middle of the river of life, slowly eroding while everything passes by.. I'm truly beyond suicidal at this point and have chosen to simply exist and try to enjoy what life I have left when I can, however difficult it may be to find joy. This song makes me tear up with a strange melancholy nostalgia because the lyrics take me back to a time when I used to think about quitting life. Anyways, love yourself and cherish every moment. The only thing guaranteed in this life, is that it will end. Every single thing that lives.. will die.. so enjoy the fleeting time that we get to experience this life and do what makes you happy and try your best to help others experience happiness as often as possible.... And please, don't quit... Sincerely, Another Ian who cares~

@MacDaddyThis Ай бұрын

This hits so many spots

@peregrynn5972 2 ай бұрын

This for me applies to life. I’m thinking about quitting it.

@hambleton06 2 ай бұрын

You are loved.

@joshuazousel1129 Ай бұрын

I feel the same sometimes. But keep at it buddy we people need each other.

@amandajackson1541 Жыл бұрын

It's ok to step away from something and be proud of what you created and move on to the next thing.

@vintageandvinyl Жыл бұрын

Man, Ian, your songs have a way of relating to so many people including myself. I have had you on repeat for weeks now. Thank you for sharing your talent with the world.

@laurag725 Жыл бұрын

Can you please, please put this exact version out as a single?? If this was on Amazon or iTunes I would literally listen to it every day. You are SO insanely talented.

@codyrbancroft Жыл бұрын

This is real life. Songs like this let people know they’re not alone.

@timothybrown9020 6 ай бұрын

This is such a deep song

@itsrodney1569 Жыл бұрын

Just a random stranger but this hits home for me on personal reasons but i just want to say i think you should worry about you you've gifted us with enough with your music even if you do stop ill still always be a fan but if the passion is gone maybe a break will clear the mind but i know your going to blow up one day i play you on my work radio every chance i get just trying to show you off cuz your that good ill brag sayin i was ian mocconnell fan before everyone else was

@chubsnubber4867 Жыл бұрын

Turning 60 in a couple weeks. This song hits on how you feel when you feel like the best of your life is in the past and now you just wait for it to be over. Wasted days and wasted nights. Thank you

@brunojs6 Жыл бұрын

It might sound silly, but I am in my 30s and I already relate to what you are saying, and I get afraid this feeling gets stronger day by day... I keep reminding myself that there's so many ways of living, each phase of our life has its own beauty, we just need to find it. Keep that in mind.

@DERPY_SQUID Жыл бұрын

I love your music so much I wish I could meet you

@donnapatterson6124 Жыл бұрын

look after yourself and take the time you need. you are so talented i love listening to your music

@baptisteprunier5700 Жыл бұрын

I've been through a burn out and I am only 26 years old. You are not alone and the most important person for you is yourself ❤️

@ashleyann7942 Жыл бұрын

Thank you. Sending a hug your way 🤎

@ChelseaSpeak3 Жыл бұрын

This is so beautiful and poignant. Do what you have to do to stay happy and healthy.

@Takashiian Жыл бұрын

Hey. From one Ian to another, and from someone that loved music and never took that path, I want you to know you’re music is sincerely amazing. I don’t go to KZfaq often from seeing snippets of videos, but your melodic artistry is on point. This song about quitting resonated with me deeply, and it made me cry. Don’t give up! You have something magical I haven’t seen in years and I can’t wait to watch you succeed.

@ianmcninch8070 Жыл бұрын

I second this

@jaho.1249 Жыл бұрын

I've been going through it recently, and your music helps me. Music is a great way to feel like you aren't alone. When you lose some motivation to do what you love to do, it hurts, you feel like you're gonna lose a part of yourself if you put it down. Especially after putting in so much effort. But it's not a waste, and just cuz you put it down, doesn't mean that you can't pick it back up later :) much love yall. Stay strong out there

@namenlos2459 Ай бұрын

It is scary, how you can descripe my feelings better than i ever could.

@Tara-qu6qd Жыл бұрын

Nurse life ❤

@claydogr1143 Жыл бұрын

The way the piano stops just before the last lyric and then abrupt silence 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Well done sir 👍🏻

@mikeandersen5069 8 ай бұрын

Just, truely amazing..

@seedbobo8055 Жыл бұрын

You are a legend man.

@matteosalioni186 Жыл бұрын

From italy with love, u’re very good man keep going

@wordlady88 Ай бұрын

Writer here and felt this in my soul.

@tommybello3162 3 ай бұрын

cant tell if this is about quitting a job or life... damn

@harlowlow 8 ай бұрын

Ian - I'm not sure if you read all the comments on your work, but I feel so heard and seen after listening to this. I work in the human services and outreach field, and it just gets to be too much sometimes. "I used to love this, now I love this less" is EXACTLY how I feel a lot of the time. I love this song so much. Thank you ❤‍🩹

@LouMathis-nv1du 7 ай бұрын

Boy, if I’ve ever heard a song that so perfectly describes what it feels like to go through living with mental illness. Beautiful song ❤

@PoeticMindsetz Жыл бұрын

Mark my words. This is the beginning of something special.

@DroneTastic Жыл бұрын

You are absolutely fantastically talented. Never quit writing. The moving way you have with words is undeniable. The world is better with you in it.

@amanyatim5136 Жыл бұрын

i feel heard and seen thank you for sharing this with us. sending strength from Malaysia

@valeriebeanphd 4 ай бұрын

I feel this so much. Thanks for sharing the chords.

@rtclayton86 Жыл бұрын

i’ve been playing bass for almost 20 years, semi-professionally for a lot of it. I feel this so much.

@asonharris954 Жыл бұрын

Wow that’s amazing

@BhishanRaiOfficial Жыл бұрын

Such a brilliant lyrics you got there... I am into depression as well and each words of your was able to resonate with me like nothing else... Much love and respect to you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@kennycarson5316 10 ай бұрын

I needed this . In this moment. Thank u ian

@gen_lee_accepted5530 Жыл бұрын

Found you a month back, really have enjoyed so much of your content. Cheers.

@roxyc3004 Жыл бұрын

I have depression for years now, I just want to say thank you. And I might be able to say I know this feeling.

@mushishroom3563 Жыл бұрын

This song resembles exactly how I felt when I got through my 5/6th year of band. It got to the point where I was so self destructive and upset with what I was doing that I would make up any reason not to go to class or practice. I was so scared to quit because so many people said how happy they were by me being in band. Luckily, I realized that it’s my life too. Please do remember that!! Don’t feel pressured to do something you personally can’t do anymore. You are loved by so many but the main person you need love from is yourself ❤

@zacharypoitras1667 Жыл бұрын

You’re amazing and I hope you find peace

@aryanbhardvaj536 Жыл бұрын

So relatable ❤️ Lv from india.

@stamzthehuman897 Жыл бұрын

Sometimes I feel like I should stop like I'm sinking back to who I used to be but then I remember that back then I couldn't smile. Now I can. Stuff gets better...

@quequotion6862 Жыл бұрын

The world is better that you decided to carry on.

@SamuelDantowitz Жыл бұрын

This came up as a recommended video on my work computer. Proud of the algorithm.

@SamTownsBladesmith Жыл бұрын

I feel this in my heart, Ian. You have a way of expressing things I haven't been able to put into words. Thankyou.

@smullins17 Жыл бұрын

beautiful vocals.

@laurelkanipe6800 Жыл бұрын

This song is both haunting and beautiful.

@StormTheParade Жыл бұрын

I really really wish i was better at music composition, i want to put strings behind this - it's so beautiful!

@MariePerie 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for this.

@caspercascade4623 11 ай бұрын

i love this song to death but listening to it while doing the last uni assignment of the year is dangerous lmao

@SumNutOnU2b Жыл бұрын

Listen this through once thinking it's about burnout and second guessing your career choices - and it's pretty good and works that way. ... ... ... THEN, after you done that, go back and listen again. Only this time think that maybe it's about suicide. Then it really hurts ya to listen to it. Especially if maybe you've had some of those thoughts yourself.

@Igoligirl2 Жыл бұрын

Nothing like weeping in the nurses station

@christianoneal380 5 ай бұрын

This is real music

@xxhaxboyxx2950 Жыл бұрын

Please please please I need a guitar version!

@amandakellen658 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing this version of the song 🤍

@lifeofDwight Жыл бұрын

This was so nice! Way to go Ian

@brockr9974 Жыл бұрын

I just keep singing this song it’s so well written. Could be an ode to the middle aged man as well.

@kennycarson5316 10 ай бұрын

Maybe thats my problem. I'm turning 40 soon and I don't know how long to keep putting coins in the machine

@brockr9974 10 ай бұрын

@@kennycarson5316totally feel ya man. I went sober only way I could. One day at a time my man!

@christinacarpenter7204 Жыл бұрын

I adore this song. I hope you don’t quit making music.

@fftv3875 Жыл бұрын

god damn

@snow1marco Жыл бұрын

I would hate NEVER hear you again, but ya gotta do what’s best for you!

@Joe-yf1ff Жыл бұрын

Damn this is perfect great job

@dissolve333 Жыл бұрын

Awesome song, as always. Thank you

@lauraspates5752 Жыл бұрын

Your song is incredible. I’ve listened to it over and over in a quitting spot here. Quitting a bad marriage. I’d love the music/chords if you want to share. I know it would be therapeutic to learn to play and sing. Apologies if you’ve already provided. Thanks again for this masterpiece ❤️

@sofialeos6009 Жыл бұрын

This resonates so much with what is going through my head I wish I could tattoo this song

@pnferreira Жыл бұрын

So good! And thank you for posting the chords!!

@realdketa5500 Жыл бұрын

Bravo!!! 🔥

@cameronbarthus6537 Жыл бұрын

So conflicted about if should upvote or downvote this...upvote for the amazing song as usual! Downvote for the vibes that you are going through! Love your music! This song hits to close to home atm. Do you do bro! Live your best life and do whatever is best for you! Your music will always have a place!

@amanderps970 Жыл бұрын

This hits home, dude. Do what is best for you. The only person you should be worried of letting down is yourself, and pushing past the burnout and need to stop.....it's not worth it.

@autumn5583 Жыл бұрын

Me too! Don’t quit, the alternatives are better. But yeah i get it. If it means anything, your words make me feel heard and seen.

@YouMayNotHyde Жыл бұрын

Wow this really hit at the perfect time

@DavidStickney Жыл бұрын

Glad you didn't quit 🔥❤️🙏

@miuinlau1497 Жыл бұрын

Love your singing so much! I feel the same too +2

@VilllabandNJ Жыл бұрын

All The Feels!!!

@johnhuffman4256 Жыл бұрын

This song is beautiful Ian.

@FailurePrime Жыл бұрын

You're amazing. I'm rooting for you

@barrettdowell3985 Жыл бұрын

This is beautiful, no matter what message you take from it. I'm becoming a huge fan

@claydogr1143 Жыл бұрын

Great song Ian 👏🏻 I've been there several times in my life and now I'm 59 and glad that I didn't quit. It's a yin and yang thing life is...you have to experience lows in order to know highs. May sound cliche but it's just a fact.

@LadyCameoASMR Жыл бұрын

I love this song so much

@kingcharming23 Жыл бұрын

I needed to hear this. I needed this on such a deep a level. Thank you so much for being yourself. I understand the lyrics. The pain. The frustration. I get it. Lately it’s how I’ve been feeling constantly. After all the work I put into my passion, I just keep feeling like now I love it less and it’s taken such a toll on me. Truly can’t thank you enough. Thx for being you. I’m gonna stick with it too. The waves keep coming, and they really do suck, but I’ve coke too far to quit. Not for the people around me, but for myself. Much love brother ❤️

@nelejuchtmans5929 Жыл бұрын

I hear you, and I feel the tiredness and sadness in your song. It is beautiful, the song, your words but most of all how you in touch with what you feel, what is alive in you and how you share it with the world. Thank you for sharing and know that by creating this, share this beauiful vunerability you are making a differences for the better in peoples live. Thank and be kind to yourself, it's ok to rest and to think about quitting. It makes you an authentic feeling human being, not weak!

@skotcynwrig8932 11 ай бұрын

My god. I just found you and hit like 3 songs, and they all perfectly resonate with me. I feel like you've lived parts of my life. Wild.

@IntellectTV06 Жыл бұрын

Good one

@lmtinker Жыл бұрын

Absolutely love this song. I hate the place you have to be to write it but also completely relate. Love your music

@kellyanderson47 Жыл бұрын

Your so talented♡ I just love it! The music you make is so refreshing. I think your style and message is needed in todays society. And your also cute so that's a bonus lol

@ghostyjr5493 Жыл бұрын

Always put your mental health first, but I'll be sad if you stop making music 🖤

@justaspoonfulofgreen Жыл бұрын

This is fantastic! You've got a real talent writing lyrics (and music). All the best from Belgium - a new subscriber :)

@mellogrx7593 Жыл бұрын

Nice

@FreeUrFuture Жыл бұрын

I see nothing but greatness for your future. If you need to take a break do so, but know you have an incredible talent to touch people with your music. I hope you never quit King, stay strong.