If I should have a daughter ... | Sarah Kay

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13 жыл бұрын

www.ted.com "If I should have a daughter, instead of Mom, she's gonna call me Point B ... " began spoken word poet Sarah Kay, in a talk that inspired two standing ovations at TED2011. She tells the story of her metamorphosis -- from a wide-eyed teenager soaking in verse at New York's Bowery Poetry Club to a teacher connecting kids with the power of self-expression through Project V.O.I.C.E. -- and gives two breathtaking performances of "B" and "Hiroshima."
TEDTalks is a daily video podcast of the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world's leading thinkers and doers give the talk of their lives in 18 minutes. Featured speakers have included Al Gore on climate change, Philippe Starck on design, Jill Bolte Taylor on observing her own stroke, Nicholas Negroponte on One Laptop per Child, Jane Goodall on chimpanzees, Bill Gates on malaria and mosquitoes, Pattie Maes on the "Sixth Sense" wearable tech, and "Lost" producer JJ Abrams on the allure of mystery. TED stands for Technology, Entertainment, Design, and TEDTalks cover these topics as well as science, business, development and the arts. Closed captions and translated subtitles in a variety of languages are now available on TED.com, at www.ted.com/translate.

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@ajbritton5172
@ajbritton5172 7 жыл бұрын
"but getting the wind knocked out of you is the only way to remind your lungs how much they like the taste of air."
@yanabisuna5684
@yanabisuna5684 5 жыл бұрын
Aj Britton what does it mean?
@cynthiag4105
@cynthiag4105 5 жыл бұрын
Yana B when something bad happens it’s the only way to appreciate everything good that happens. “getting the wind knocked out of you is the only way to remind your lungs how much they like the taste of air.” means appreciate what you have. you won’t realize how great things were until they’re not anymore.
@yanabisuna5684
@yanabisuna5684 5 жыл бұрын
cynthia g ohhh i see thank you!!! :)
@user-rd8xg2um4w
@user-rd8xg2um4w 9 жыл бұрын
Sarah Kay would literally be the best teacher ever
@oliviachriselda.n1517
@oliviachriselda.n1517 8 жыл бұрын
I know right!
@monalisachitsama4831
@monalisachitsama4831 8 жыл бұрын
+SweetieNerd truuu
@cornelioviccelerio9712
@cornelioviccelerio9712 7 жыл бұрын
Q nerď just finisheď baby bath
@cornelioviccelerio9712
@cornelioviccelerio9712 7 жыл бұрын
ok
@cassie3003
@cassie3003 7 жыл бұрын
She actually is a teacher
@jessicajnsm
@jessicajnsm 9 жыл бұрын
And just like that, the world fell in love with Sarah Kay.
@maribellamcgovern6341
@maribellamcgovern6341 5 жыл бұрын
jessicajnsm Oh Yeah
@nave_3030
@nave_3030 3 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@complexplane6756
@complexplane6756 Жыл бұрын
@@maribellamcgovern6341😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@MayraMartinezz
@MayraMartinezz Жыл бұрын
it’s been almost 10 years since i saw this video and i will never stop coming back to it. i can recite most of it because she has a brilliant way of putting things.
@ikartik90
@ikartik90 6 ай бұрын
Same honestly!
@yesreneau
@yesreneau 10 жыл бұрын
2 years after watching this and I still come back repeatedly
@jennysayquack1730
@jennysayquack1730 5 жыл бұрын
OMG!! HI!!
@medeiapsyche
@medeiapsyche 5 жыл бұрын
When she speaks, I remember youuuuuuu
@juliafigueiredokrausz2750
@juliafigueiredokrausz2750 5 жыл бұрын
YesReneau sameeeeeeee
@maryaronida
@maryaronida 5 жыл бұрын
Yes. Same here.
@EmiTheLoomistar
@EmiTheLoomistar 5 жыл бұрын
She expresses exactly like you
@rebeccapyles3825
@rebeccapyles3825 10 жыл бұрын
Why couldn't she have been my teacher? Then I'd always look forward to class.
@rebeccapyles3825
@rebeccapyles3825 10 жыл бұрын
How did this comment get over a hundred likes? XD Thanks guys! I appreciate it. Although its a tiny things, it made my day.
@sisbeatbrosfamiliagang5814
@sisbeatbrosfamiliagang5814 6 жыл бұрын
She's amazing
@lslpz96
@lslpz96 4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad she wasn't my teacher, I would have failed every year to stay in her class. 😂 also, yes I know this comment was made 5 years ago. Fight me. 😂
@nicholerowski4569
@nicholerowski4569 8 жыл бұрын
her voice is so hypnotizing
@jathenvanfleet2669
@jathenvanfleet2669 3 жыл бұрын
Yes💯
@scaryshark9950
@scaryshark9950 3 жыл бұрын
yooo i was your one thousandth like :)
@abbygene604
@abbygene604 9 жыл бұрын
"Getting the wind knocked out of you is the only way to remind your lungs how much they like the taste of air." Love it.
@yanabisuna5684
@yanabisuna5684 5 жыл бұрын
Abby Gene what does it mean?
@anthonygjikondi3378
@anthonygjikondi3378 4 жыл бұрын
Liana Bisuña I’m late but basically something bad has to happen for you to fully appreciate what that thing is
@MemeSaad86
@MemeSaad86 4 жыл бұрын
@@yanabisuna5684 I would understand it this way, let things go out of you, don't hold them and experience new spaces, then you will see how you are becoming more open to accept new fresh things that will fill you again for good and once you are full of them you reach again to the point where you should refresh them and let them go again.
@a24396
@a24396 10 жыл бұрын
My favorite part: "When I meet you, in that moment, I'm no longer a part of your future... I start quickly becoming part of your past... But in that instant, I get to share your present - and you, you get to share mine... And that is the greatest present of all..." Really great stuff!!! Sarah is simply amazing!!!
@annel6620
@annel6620 4 жыл бұрын
a24396 how come its your favorite part? ☺️
@a24396
@a24396 4 жыл бұрын
@@annel6620 I'm not sure exactly... I think it's because she's speaking to an interconnection she describes that we all share. And I think the idea that we're all connected somehow makes our existence in this crazy world a less lonely one... And, it doesn't hurt it's also a clever bit of word play presented in a masterful performance... Maybe... But I'm not sure... For some reason that's the part that I enjoyed the most...
@kennaelise8075
@kennaelise8075 9 жыл бұрын
Sarah Kay is one of the most inspiring people I have come across online. She is my favorite poet. She makes me want to create new poetry, music, and art all at the same time. Sarah Kay, thank you for helping me start my journey as a person who walks through life with their hands out, in case something wonderful happens to fall into them.
@sanfran9249
@sanfran9249 9 жыл бұрын
Mackenna Elise I couldn't agree more with you guys, good luck in writing on your thoughts and curiosities forwards the world! :DD
@christopherpeck792
@christopherpeck792 9 жыл бұрын
Mackenna Elise ERIC THOMAS!!! Look him up!
@kennaelise8075
@kennaelise8075 9 жыл бұрын
Christopher Peck Thank you for the recommendation. I'll have to check him out.
@MCPerez
@MCPerez 9 жыл бұрын
Yeah she is an inspiration she really good , sarah and phil taught me what poetry really is to this videos. Im inspired to write again
@poonamsagar5332
@poonamsagar5332 6 жыл бұрын
Mackenna Elise i agree.. she is amazing..she also helped me to start my journey
@andreadrea9775
@andreadrea9775 9 жыл бұрын
Cause there is nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shoreline no matter how many times it’s sent away.
@rotroom
@rotroom 8 жыл бұрын
sarah kay is the reason i started slam poetry. it really is my passion, just recently i performed a poem in my school theatre. im really glad my gr 8 teacher forced me to watch this because i never forgot about it.
@user-rp3ku9ed2v
@user-rp3ku9ed2v 8 жыл бұрын
thank
@Lebythebookworm
@Lebythebookworm 8 жыл бұрын
Same here
@ilikedogs7641
@ilikedogs7641 Жыл бұрын
@@user-rp3ku9ed2v god
@EvilVSWaffles
@EvilVSWaffles 9 жыл бұрын
We watched this in my English class last year. This is what got me into spoken words poetry. Now I'm writing my own poetry (over 600 notes on Tumblr) and am listening to new poems everyday, thanks to this video. I fell in love with this video, and tried to linger in the classroom after the bell rang and it was still playing. This inspired me, because while my anxiety gets in the way of me passing English every year, poetry is becoming my escape. Never underestimate women. Never underestimate poets. Most of all, never underestimate women who happen to be poets, and poets who happen to be women.
@TheSweetKeys
@TheSweetKeys 9 жыл бұрын
what is your tumblr blog?????
@chonsohp
@chonsohp 9 жыл бұрын
TheSweetKeys I'm still waiting the response.
@EvilVSWaffles
@EvilVSWaffles 9 жыл бұрын
I didn't see this for weeks? I have no idea how I didn't see it, but oh well. It's nightvalecommunityqueers, just in case you were still interested. :)
@haileyanguiano6922
@haileyanguiano6922 9 жыл бұрын
Shannon Holmes I followed you. c:
@EvilVSWaffles
@EvilVSWaffles 9 жыл бұрын
Aww, thank you. Thanks very sweet of you~
@saraismynamo93
@saraismynamo93 10 жыл бұрын
I feel like she raised so many good points. People do walk with armors, protecting themselves from emotions because one of them might carry a little pain. People do listen to you waiting for their turn to talk, they no longer care about the quality of your words but only to contradict them. I've never really enjoyed poetry because I felt like poets speak in ways they only understand, they only want to tell their story and not that of others, the voiceless, the small. It allows you to communicate your self-interest, your narcissism and then be applauded for it. But now, I realize I'm wrong, this girl's changed my mind in 18 minutes. Funny enough, my name is Sara too and I feel like I can do the impossible.
@oneabee
@oneabee 10 жыл бұрын
Sara, from reading that post I can tell you… You have the gift! You would make some amazing poems! The way you write is refreshing. You might be surprised what you could put on paper. =) Just speak from the heart and let it flow.
@saraismynamo93
@saraismynamo93 10 жыл бұрын
Thank you, stranger! I can't communicate how much I appreciate what you said, truly, thank you.
@oneabee
@oneabee 10 жыл бұрын
You're welcome =)
@ZeroFace
@ZeroFace 10 жыл бұрын
“The most important kind of freedom is to be what you really are. You trade in your reality for a role. You trade in your sense for an act. You give up your ability to feel, and in exchange, put on a mask. There can't be any large-scale revolution until there's a personal revolution, on an individual level. It's got to happen inside first.” Jim Morrison
@sianpratt4961
@sianpratt4961 10 жыл бұрын
oneabee Maybe your Sara's, girl in a hooded jumper, oneabee. :)
@oliviarutherford7088
@oliviarutherford7088 5 жыл бұрын
“This world is made of sugar, it can crumble so easily but don’t be afraid to stick your tongue out and taste it” This line is so true I love it
@TwentyPaphonies
@TwentyPaphonies 8 жыл бұрын
"Anderson Cooper is a gorgeous man" This girl is amazing. She embodies what it means to be a fangirl.
@jakiyaelrod2293
@jakiyaelrod2293 6 жыл бұрын
Twenty Paphonies love your profile pic
@Jay-fj9eq
@Jay-fj9eq 6 жыл бұрын
I SEE YOU EVERYWHERE
@sceptre80
@sceptre80 5 жыл бұрын
I was not expecting to see you here. Wow. Ily.
@kaylaparker88
@kaylaparker88 10 жыл бұрын
"This life will hit you hard in the face, wait for you to get back up just so it can kick you in the stomach. But getting the wind knocked out of you is the only way to remind your lungs how much they like the taste of air." wow
@yanabisuna5684
@yanabisuna5684 5 жыл бұрын
Kayla Parker what does that mean?
@elosneeze
@elosneeze Жыл бұрын
I have a tattoo dedicated to Sarah and this poem. “Because there’s nothing more beautiful then the way the oceanline refuses to stop kissing the shore, no matter how many times it’s sent away” ❤️
@brazilisforreal
@brazilisforreal 8 жыл бұрын
I watch this video from time to time and I always go for the "like" button, to find out it's already pressed.
@abc314pi
@abc314pi 6 жыл бұрын
Cora Sanroman same tbh
@gloriana7777
@gloriana7777 9 жыл бұрын
she has a nice voice
@kikiam7850
@kikiam7850 9 жыл бұрын
Her voice is perfect for her stories
@flux202
@flux202 4 жыл бұрын
When she sang.
@Therese231999
@Therese231999 7 жыл бұрын
Sarah Kay has always been one of my favorite poets. I keep coming back to this.
@vannathomas2555
@vannathomas2555 7 жыл бұрын
SAME!
@marisaseres4370
@marisaseres4370 7 жыл бұрын
midgette me too
@fancygirlbella3478
@fancygirlbella3478 6 жыл бұрын
midgette same
@yumbunny2566
@yumbunny2566 3 жыл бұрын
Same.
@yidamir4250
@yidamir4250 9 ай бұрын
As do I. Today was probably at least the 10th time I have been moved to watch it in as many years. Chokes me up every time. So authentic!
@alexisdubreuil3223
@alexisdubreuil3223 8 жыл бұрын
ANDERSON COOPER IS A GORGEOUS MAN.
@briannacavanaugh5183
@briannacavanaugh5183 9 жыл бұрын
i wish i had a mom like this. all i got was empty stolen rum bottles bashed into my head. i admire this women
@_annie4635
@_annie4635 8 жыл бұрын
Brianna Cavanaugh work towards being this kind of mom to your children. Let your past build and mould you into a mother your children will be proud of. become a woman other peoples children will admire.
@madduxwigley3281
@madduxwigley3281 8 жыл бұрын
keep going it will get better you will find happiness
@unnatiu2557
@unnatiu2557 6 жыл бұрын
I wish I did too..but well at least now we know what kind of mothers to never be.
@hellogoodbye4061
@hellogoodbye4061 4 жыл бұрын
Surprised to hear this...in today's world, we only hear how evil fathers are and how wonderful mothers are....thanks for sharing.
@PaddySnuffles
@PaddySnuffles 8 жыл бұрын
This is the most beautiful, poetic, and inspirational TED talk intro I've ever seen. Hot damn.
@shane2471
@shane2471 6 жыл бұрын
GURLLLLLL I FEELLLL
@catstrawford
@catstrawford 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah lol... That's Sarah Kay!
@DavidHaverty
@DavidHaverty 10 жыл бұрын
She IS poetry 11:59 "I use spoken word to help my students Rediscover wonder. To fight their instincts to be cool and un-phased and instead actively pursue being engaged with what goes on around them so that they can reinterpret and create something from it" -Sarah Kay TED Talks 3/2011 Damn beautiful.
@MJ-ph7iq
@MJ-ph7iq 10 жыл бұрын
I performed If I should have a daughter 3 days ago at my school talent show and made pretty much all the parents in the audience cry...
@felicitystokes6099
@felicitystokes6099 8 жыл бұрын
I want to write poetry so damn bad. I admire poets so much and I aspire to be them. most people, however, don't take 17 year olds too seriously. I've been in public speaking since 7th grade and this really reminded me how unique everyone's writing is and how unique their stories are.
@rellepainite
@rellepainite 7 жыл бұрын
Cool, good luck :-)
@emilyann7819
@emilyann7819 7 жыл бұрын
do it anyway, don't let anyone stop you!
@manikantareddy3789
@manikantareddy3789 7 жыл бұрын
I hope you will be the one talking in Ted talks about your success.All the best
@HEY-im6rm
@HEY-im6rm 7 жыл бұрын
well its much tougher when ur a ten yeard old and have the wiseness as gold
@emilyann7819
@emilyann7819 7 жыл бұрын
Poetry doesn't have to be wise, it can be about anything. You can make a poem about the color of a blanket, or your friend, anything, there are no rules to poetry. :)
@japrox1
@japrox1 9 жыл бұрын
I wish she was my poetry teacher. She's so encouraging. My poetry professor sucks the passion out of each student every week. I came here to remember you can still love something while someone is trying to take it away from you.
@1800cocoapuffs
@1800cocoapuffs 9 жыл бұрын
This TED talk made me see a whole new side of what I can do. That life is actually worth all the struggles. That I can make it even though my struggles aren't as harsh or bad as some that there is inspiration to do better, like this video, and that giving up isn't an option. Sarah Kay if you see this, thank you. You really changed my viewpoint on life, and what I can discover and succeed.
@saravalk1299
@saravalk1299 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you...
@robertam2973
@robertam2973 3 жыл бұрын
I will literally write this down for my future daughter because this is exact what she can’t forget . Sarah, you have a brilliant mind and a beautiful heart.
@MayaBProductions
@MayaBProductions 8 жыл бұрын
My teacher showed us this in 6th grade and I've had a deep love for poetry ever since 😊😊
@givememyname7919
@givememyname7919 6 жыл бұрын
Maya B. Great teacher you have there.
@ckv954
@ckv954 6 жыл бұрын
Still love poetry?
@gabrielamarrero7111
@gabrielamarrero7111 4 жыл бұрын
So did mine
@hannahxoful
@hannahxoful 7 жыл бұрын
I could honestly watch anything by this woman a million and ten times
@YouTubechannel-dr1kr
@YouTubechannel-dr1kr 7 жыл бұрын
what about when thats over?
@iLOVEpicklesBRO28
@iLOVEpicklesBRO28 10 жыл бұрын
My first Sarah Kay poem. Always gets me just as it did that first time
@nicoleponferrado5695
@nicoleponferrado5695 8 жыл бұрын
it's almost 2016 and I'm still watching this
@stellawang8322
@stellawang8322 8 жыл бұрын
it is 2016 and I'm still watching this
@whatsnew6286
@whatsnew6286 8 жыл бұрын
+Stella Wang thankyou😂😂
@yakkoowackoovideos9263
@yakkoowackoovideos9263 7 жыл бұрын
Nicole Ponferrado It's 2017
@abc314pi
@abc314pi 6 жыл бұрын
Nicole Ponferrado it's 2018 and i'm still hooked on this
@tckswain
@tckswain 6 жыл бұрын
It's 2018 & this is the first time I've seen her, but I really enjoy listening to her😊
@feliciaaraujo1618
@feliciaaraujo1618 8 жыл бұрын
Every word she says sounds like poetry
@Csam0003
@Csam0003 3 жыл бұрын
Three things I know to be true about this TED talk: 1. Amazing 2. Uplifting 3. Admiring
@alessandrotomich9317
@alessandrotomich9317 8 жыл бұрын
I love how poetic her words are. The audience was terribly quiet, though.
@geraldineochieng3840
@geraldineochieng3840 8 жыл бұрын
+Alessandro Tomich they musta been hooked/hanging on her every word.
@ashiwick
@ashiwick 9 жыл бұрын
The Giant girl in hoodie must be really happy if she could remember it ...
@guiltymorty4117
@guiltymorty4117 9 жыл бұрын
This is the most beautiful and inspiring thing i've seen in a very long time...
@guiltymorty4117
@guiltymorty4117 9 жыл бұрын
***** I didn't wish for anything, i just said it was inspiring and beautiful.
@rebekahtoepperwein4502
@rebekahtoepperwein4502 7 жыл бұрын
"Rain will wash away everything if you let it" I really felt that.
@valerieg5409
@valerieg5409 8 жыл бұрын
The ending poem always brings tears to my eyes
@oatbug788
@oatbug788 9 жыл бұрын
She is so proud of that joke.
@Hedborn
@Hedborn 9 жыл бұрын
I find myself coming back to watch this video every once in a while.. it truly is medicine for the soul. Thank you Sarah, you're a sunbeam.
@yidamir4250
@yidamir4250 9 ай бұрын
Yup. Choked me up today for the 10th time..
@mockmm
@mockmm 9 жыл бұрын
I've lost track of how many times I've watched this. It really doesn't matter though, it gives me thrill bumps everytime. Sarah Kay, you go girl!
@myraluvssaltines
@myraluvssaltines 10 жыл бұрын
ugh that beginning is so beautiful it makes me tear up. she has such a way with words :) and she is super cool!
@magdalenaspirit
@magdalenaspirit 9 жыл бұрын
It is such a privilege just to hear Sarah speak. I discovered spoken word poetry just a few days earlier, and since then it is on my "to do list" to hear Sarah's poems, every day, because they're wonderful and painfully true at the same time. Thank you Sarah!
@caveman861
@caveman861 9 жыл бұрын
She's a rockstar! Also, try Button Poetry channel here on KZfaq, if you haven't already.
@-nocreativitywhatsoever-4965
@-nocreativitywhatsoever-4965 6 жыл бұрын
caveman861 I'm currently obsessed with that Chanel and also youth speaks
@alixnight5318
@alixnight5318 8 жыл бұрын
It's so strange this video came out almost five years ago. I still remember it showing up in my subscription box and liking it so much it earned a permanent spot in my favorites playlist. Sometimes I even sing "there's days like this my momma said" and I've never even heard the song it came from or if it's even a real song. This is still one of my favorite Ted talks of all time. Sarah Kay is so talented, I wish I was like her. Enjoy this video. I definitely will and I've probably seen it at least twenty times by now.
@baileymorris6129
@baileymorris6129 8 жыл бұрын
+Alix Night the song is "momma said" by the Shirelles
@LuciTaylor
@LuciTaylor 9 жыл бұрын
I love this. I've always loved this. You can see the passion in her eyes, in her face expressions, in the way she moves around, even how she speaks. It's unbelievable how happiness is glowing right out of her. I'm absolutely in love with this speech.
@krixialei
@krixialei 7 жыл бұрын
"small hands and big eyes that never stops asking for more" "your voice is small but don't ever stop singing" I swear this sounds just like she's my momma lol
@abc314pi
@abc314pi 6 жыл бұрын
Krish you're so lucky then!
@MISSYEYALOVESU
@MISSYEYALOVESU 8 жыл бұрын
"No Anderson, you're the GOD"
@JenifferAG96
@JenifferAG96 8 жыл бұрын
I think my replay button broke lol
@hdjdidud
@hdjdidud 7 жыл бұрын
+Twila71 I Broke that button as well now
@earlchapman4907
@earlchapman4907 7 жыл бұрын
I second that. Wow!! Empowerment and strength inspiring hope, worth, and belief here.
@bunniz
@bunniz 7 жыл бұрын
Have you tried the loop feature in the right click menu?
@Aycap27
@Aycap27 2 жыл бұрын
Watched this in 2011. I still come back to it from time to time.
@user-bw8yn3zr1s
@user-bw8yn3zr1s 3 жыл бұрын
She will make every single viewer fall in love with her. Her passion, her voice and so so much positivity and brightness.
@perpetuallychaotic6109
@perpetuallychaotic6109 8 ай бұрын
Saw this years ago but every year i find myself rewatching it. When life start to become too much, Sarah Kay is my way to make it all make sense somehow. I'm so thankful for her existence and her brain.
@itsgabbieagain
@itsgabbieagain 8 жыл бұрын
"no Anderson, you're a god"😂
@basmalasaad3039
@basmalasaad3039 3 жыл бұрын
I dieeeed🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣
@heidi4442
@heidi4442 9 жыл бұрын
This made feel not depressed.
@msalie101
@msalie101 8 жыл бұрын
Yes ahh
@noorsami427
@noorsami427 7 жыл бұрын
heidi4
@seeingdifferent2011
@seeingdifferent2011 7 жыл бұрын
She is so freaking amazing! I had the privilege of seeing her live and she didn't perform this piece but it will always be one of my favorites. And she's tall! Which i didn't know until I stood next to her 😆
@bibhutiadhikari7530
@bibhutiadhikari7530 Жыл бұрын
Does anyone else come again and again for this poem?or is it just me?
@PatriciaSonia
@PatriciaSonia Жыл бұрын
Not just you. I also bought the book. 😊
@yidamir4250
@yidamir4250 9 ай бұрын
Again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and....
@greersmith8985
@greersmith8985 9 жыл бұрын
my school saw this live
@C00kii0
@C00kii0 9 жыл бұрын
Lucky
@sandrainbookland6581
@sandrainbookland6581 9 жыл бұрын
You are super lucky!
@user-rd8xg2um4w
@user-rd8xg2um4w 9 жыл бұрын
😱
@user-jv4wr2mf3w
@user-jv4wr2mf3w 8 жыл бұрын
Same, Phil came too
@greersmith8985
@greersmith8985 8 жыл бұрын
they were incredible and inspired a spoken word poetry club at my school
@alishachristie4047
@alishachristie4047 2 жыл бұрын
I watched this often when i was in high school, fast forward 10 years later as a mother of two daughters watching this again in a different light ❤️
@razannasser521
@razannasser521 2 жыл бұрын
reminds me how many sweet souls there still are in this world who can and HAVE made a difference.
@nehatheturtle543
@nehatheturtle543 9 жыл бұрын
I'm watching this for the third time and I'm still hooked and amazed
@vibeswithval
@vibeswithval 2 ай бұрын
12 years ago I was a teenager who had a narcissistic mother who I so desperately wanted to love me. But this - I memorized this. Because I dreamed of being this mother for MY daughter. And now, I’m about to be a mother. And I will make sure my little one KNOWS this too. Thank you Sarah. Thank you.
@ellamohney9504
@ellamohney9504 Жыл бұрын
my 7th grade English and creative writing teacher showed me this. I was going to memorize it but I never finished. she was the best teacher. recently she moved to Alaska to teach. I will never forget this
@zoeyskymusic
@zoeyskymusic 10 жыл бұрын
Her whole TED talk is spoken like a poem and its wonderful. Thank you Sarah for putting things into words that I didn't even know I could feel.
@devious05
@devious05 Жыл бұрын
Have loved this for years but has new meaning listening again after having a daughter. Thankyou for your words
@pieahgee8180
@pieahgee8180 Жыл бұрын
Same! I was 18 when I first heard this poem by Sarah Kay. Now I'm 28 with a 7 year old daughter.
@PissMyselfLaffing
@PissMyselfLaffing 10 жыл бұрын
I didn't know that first part was a poem and I thought she was just insane...
@reneelove7970
@reneelove7970 9 жыл бұрын
I thought it was beautiful. It's real. But no one ever tells us that
@DroHipHop
@DroHipHop 9 жыл бұрын
Renée Love she is too
@reneelove7970
@reneelove7970 9 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@cassandraskyler
@cassandraskyler 9 жыл бұрын
But then I figured it out. It's great
@TTENT2010
@TTENT2010 9 жыл бұрын
@eapark5160
@eapark5160 2 жыл бұрын
My fave TED Talk. It's been years but I keep coming back 🥰
@bethanyrichardson4187
@bethanyrichardson4187 10 жыл бұрын
i love passionate people
@sherlockholmeslives.1605
@sherlockholmeslives.1605 7 жыл бұрын
How does she know all this from memory?!
@irishager639
@irishager639 7 жыл бұрын
a lot of practice. It's not easy haha
@mikefuller6959
@mikefuller6959 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Iris. I know the Nightmare Song by WS Gilbert, The Tay Bridge Disaster by William McGonagall and September 1, 1939 by WH Auden from memory. They are among the longer poems I know from memory. Cheers - Mike.
@irishager639
@irishager639 7 жыл бұрын
holy crap. I have a hard time memorizing stuff, even when I wrote it. I'm envious of those who can.
@mikefuller6959
@mikefuller6959 7 жыл бұрын
Awww! Thanks Iris, sweetie!
@WeirdGlow
@WeirdGlow 7 жыл бұрын
memorizing your own poems that actually mean something to you is a whole lot easier
@marissapruden9610
@marissapruden9610 8 жыл бұрын
I'm fourteen and I love writing poems, songs, and stories. This is amazing and I love it a lot. I don't know what else to say besides thank you.
@elakazoglu8582
@elakazoglu8582 7 жыл бұрын
Marissa Can't_Even same, pham
@joshhore9774
@joshhore9774 9 жыл бұрын
Funny how internet is so timeless although uploaded a few years ago I find myself stumbling across these remarkable journeys and I wonder where they would find themselves now. Thinking that of a dream come true and a huge career move how far ahead can you ponder and in which direction will you wonder? I guess I will just wait for the next picture tube and leave a thankyou and a thanks too you for the inspiration and admiration you have instilled in a young poets heart, mind and soul. This memory now shall never be or grow old it remains another beautiful story told.
@nanjolly
@nanjolly 4 жыл бұрын
It's the poetry that's timeless - we used to read poetry from books, and old poetry still has stuff to say. But it's thrilling to hear Sarah speak it!
@leonoresalmantine
@leonoresalmantine 3 жыл бұрын
It must be almost 10 years and I still have tears in my eyes every time I watch this 💞 she did absolutely amazing this time around ✨
@yidamir4250
@yidamir4250 9 ай бұрын
Exactly how I feel every time.
@simullane7836
@simullane7836 3 жыл бұрын
10 years later and it brings a tear to my eye.
@blossombassey3863
@blossombassey3863 3 жыл бұрын
Do you know in she has instagram?
@cherylsibson2529
@cherylsibson2529 6 ай бұрын
Sarah, eight years later, and your poem is more relevant now, than in any time before, thank you for your gifts, and is all so very heartwarming, and so very true. Renee, Sarah and Kayla MacDermid sent me to you.
@cate811
@cate811 9 жыл бұрын
I first saw this video about a year ago, and it has taught me to go through life with my hands open instead of up in a shield. Thank you, Sarah Kay.
@ozdergekko
@ozdergekko 9 жыл бұрын
Being an amateur poet myself, Sarah's lecture touched me so deeply I actually shed a few tears at the end. What a woman! What a lecturer! What a poet! Utterly inspiring!
@SelenaPutri
@SelenaPutri 10 жыл бұрын
I love her voice, it's so soothing.
@deannaw5546
@deannaw5546 11 ай бұрын
I keep coming back to this
@rva
@rva 4 жыл бұрын
I love vulnerability.
@essieelite547
@essieelite547 8 жыл бұрын
I started to get in spoken word poetry and I loved it but this , this inspired me so much. I'm only 13 and I want to do spoken word poetry
@kokorodaki4017
@kokorodaki4017 8 жыл бұрын
+psycopath xuxu I'm in pretty much the same boat. I'm 20, almost 21, and have been writing poetry for a few years, but it wasn't until a few months ago when I first watched this video that I realised I wanna do this. Still haven't taken it up, and have generally been too buys with other projects to put much effort into poetry, but I wanna do this sometime in the future.
@ParadoxEclipse
@ParadoxEclipse 8 жыл бұрын
+Cory - betweenmyheartbeats cuffed vv
@kokorodaki4017
@kokorodaki4017 8 жыл бұрын
Mark Frenier umm... what? typo maybe? if not, I have no idea what that's supposed to mean
@MusicLuver0543
@MusicLuver0543 8 жыл бұрын
me too :) I started getting to spoken word around the beginning of 9th grade. it's such a beautiful art medium.
@asdfgh123456978
@asdfgh123456978 8 жыл бұрын
I'm 16 and I just found out about spoken word poetry. I'm excited but I'm also afraid because I'm not confident
@LilianTahmasian
@LilianTahmasian 10 жыл бұрын
Incredibly Beautiful.
@itsgabbieagain
@itsgabbieagain 8 жыл бұрын
an amazing woman with a big heart 😘 very inspiring
@honestlythoidc5781
@honestlythoidc5781 2 жыл бұрын
Two years have passed and I am still in love with Anderson Cooper and I still cannot understand why I cry every time I hear Sarah Kay sharing her poems & stories.
@ellieblowing7200
@ellieblowing7200 9 жыл бұрын
When i am upset i just watch the very beginning and the inspiration fills me with love
@RobbieKhan
@RobbieKhan 10 жыл бұрын
Caught a glimpse of this video's description on the main TED site and was going to pass it up and watch something else but something made me click through and watch it. I'm glad I did. You can Sarah's soul and passion in what she is saying and while I'm not the greatest reader or the most creative writer it's inspired me to maybe do more to become better at those things. I should really watch more TED talks for this kind of stuff!
@RockstarDiva92
@RockstarDiva92 6 жыл бұрын
Years later and I still tear up from this
@brickbrick8410
@brickbrick8410 7 жыл бұрын
"no matter how wide you stretch your fingers, your hands will always be too small to catch all the pain you want to heal." This line resonated with me the most. i find Sarah Kay inspirational
@davemeansbusiness
@davemeansbusiness 10 жыл бұрын
this was my first TED talk. It inspired me to talk at TED someday. Like someday 10 years from now..... but then magically, I might get to speak at TEDx this year!!!
@shannonmoran6381
@shannonmoran6381 9 жыл бұрын
Thank You. My English Teacher showed me this during a hard time and taught me to start writing poetry. Yesterday I shared my own spoken word poetry along with If I Should Have a Daughter. This is the first time I have shared my poetry and it was almost freeing.This was 4 years after I first saw this video. This video showed my spoken word and I could not be more grateful. Thank You.
@iqradream3792
@iqradream3792 17 күн бұрын
“I’m trying my hardest to get it right this time around.” WOW
@taylormolash9299
@taylormolash9299 Жыл бұрын
Watch this about 4 times a year I get super emotional every time. but getting the wind knocked out or you is the only way to remind your lungs how much they like the taste or air. because there is nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shoreline no matter how many times its sent away
@OhMJB
@OhMJB 10 жыл бұрын
i watch this literally every week
@meganh6913
@meganh6913 10 жыл бұрын
same! also the 'to this day' project!
@sarahpriest8467
@sarahpriest8467 10 жыл бұрын
That was beautiful. She has the same first name as me; I wish I could find a way to put my words into a master piece, but I don't know what words to use. Every time I try to put pen to paper I find nothing worth to write that is powerful and meaningful. Only scribbles fill the page, only scribbles and mistakes fill my life; every time I try to sound meaningful, it turns out useless. I wish there was only one word that meant everything; anything worth to put on paper.
@donnarussell3683
@donnarussell3683 10 жыл бұрын
Just keep writing. Don't worry if you think the words are wrong, they probably aren't. You will surprise yourself one day. The more you write, the easier the words will come to you.
@NTLocketForever
@NTLocketForever 10 жыл бұрын
You say you can't write anything meaningful but what you just wrote there was pretty god damn beautiful
@MoonmothMedia
@MoonmothMedia 10 жыл бұрын
What you wrote there was poetry in itself. Keep going, you've got your own voice, just believe in it.
@estebanhernandez670
@estebanhernandez670 9 жыл бұрын
That was beautiful in it's self.
@SifatSultanTheConsistency
@SifatSultanTheConsistency 9 жыл бұрын
Donna Russell agreed!
@ireshabandara2727
@ireshabandara2727 Жыл бұрын
I really don't know how to say, how much I'm thankful for you for writing this poem. I really feel every word of this. It is amazing how you can turn feelings into words.. ❤️
@celestialvenus6711
@celestialvenus6711 5 жыл бұрын
Truly inspirational. 7 years since it first came out, and everything she says is still relatable. This is how I want to raise my kids some day... It is evident that she feels the pain of everyone affected by the bombing. She is so intellectual, and at the same time so humorous! Her wide eyed gaze represents her innocence, and her vision throws bright, gold light on every topic that people fail to discuss out of shame or indifference.
@itsemgee
@itsemgee 8 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful and inspiring speech!
@morganbuchholz5127
@morganbuchholz5127 9 жыл бұрын
you are truly inspiring, please come to north Carolina and inspire teens the way you inspired me
@AwesomeJaneUniverse
@AwesomeJaneUniverse 9 жыл бұрын
Yes, do come to North Carolina!
@dipeshm.7320
@dipeshm.7320 5 жыл бұрын
Her way of expressing those poems make them even more beautiful. I'll be performing my 1st spoken word in 7 days. I hope I can do at least 1% of the magic she does. :D
@saku1116
@saku1116 2 жыл бұрын
10 years later, it’s still gold, and I keep coming back to this.
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