I'm here to say "I tried that, Tony, and still got cheated on" 😩😂🤣 I married little ugly and he cheated. He blamed it on me and I divorced him. It was the move of God, because the week before I found out, I asked God to remove anything standing in the way of me aligning with His will and the first to go was him. It devasted me, but I can tell you how faithful God is 🙌🏽

I did this once with a man that wasn't very attractive but treated me good...then...because he got me...he started getting arrogant and treating me like I was the ugly one 😂😂😂

Nothing but facts! “ people like what other people like” that’s a whole sermon

The single and available men need to be more VISIBLE. It's as if they're hiding, hibernating, or sleeping smh.

I remember a family friend of ours telling me when I was a teenager to go for the good guy. It’ll be okay if he cant dress etc. Basically she told me to pay attention to character. This was so good. ❤ 29:20

Oh please. You know damn well you wouldn’t seriously date or marry someone you aren’t attracted to

Perfect message!! Learned a long time ago, character and morals over looks. Sadly a lot of people don't have good character, best thing to do is work on yourself.

What I think is ugly, beautiful, pretty, homely or sexy again varies from person to person… Screw Societal Standards. I am going to go after who I want & like who I want. Anyone of us can get or attain most anything in life.

TG, you're on your job. My father, born in the 1950s has been telling my brothers and I this for life. "Don't get one too pretty that you gotta fight over".

All facts Tony. You dropped gems on this one. No one has everything. Everyone is making concessions somewhere. Valid points. God help us all to see with our inner eyes.

True. I just said this the other day. Ppl only like you when other ppl like you

Nothing but truth. I always focused on brain and brand but not body. So this year I've started a skincare routine, and working on weighloss and a maintenance routine. My hair as always been long but 9/10 it's in a librarian bun😂😂😂😂so getting my hair professionally done is on the task. Really bringing out my natural beauty and I think all people have something that is very beautiful about them. Really I can say I demonstrated laziness when it came to myself I take care of everybody but put my selfcare to the back. It's a mental adjustment to put me on the schedule or spend an hr or 2 in the bathroom doing my facials and body care routine. It's a hard truth

I always loved the movie Shallow Hal. Superficial of a man who hypnotize to see the inner beauty.

So true Tony. Common sense. Go for the Diamond in the rough instead of the flashy person that everybody notices.

its true, my friend said this guy on campus was good looking. he was interested in me, so i gave him a chance. ended up marrying him. i honestly didnt notice him before that

Gems 💎 I love black men. I now date men of all races due to my experience and my past. I want a man that loves Jesus and my current prospective marriage partner has a beautiful heart and he respects my boundaries, and even though he’s not black he has been consistent. This is an answer to prayer and if one day I meet a black man that desires what I am bringing to the table. Amen

Thank you Mr. Gaskins🎉 You helped me to break out in a praise! After stating all the altercations that people are doing to their body, reminded me that God is so gracious and merciful!!! I have not done anything (nothing) to mine. Nor have I desired. I worked on me and still have plenty to do! God bless you and your family!!!

Confirmation... Many are picking who others like over whose best for them.Say this a lot.

Most people want what they can't have and what they can have they don't want. Go figure 🤔

Humility is always in order no matter how beautiful or handsome you are. Today, with wigs, weaves, eye lashes. Plastic surgery, liposuction, fillers, etc. anyone can look better. The real value is the heart and mind. Are you a safe person? Ask God.

I LOVE when Tony says laying his eyes on a set of hams 🤣🤣🤣. Keep on preaching on brother. Many people walking around vain as if their stuff don’t stink. Judge not unless you be judged

I think more men do that than women, they are quick to go for what's popular or trendy then show it off like they joined the club lol

Good message Tony. Humans judge by the outer appearance, but God looks at the heart.

I would love to be in a healthy relationship but I Don’t TRUST anyone with my heart anymore….in other words…I have TRUST ISSUES !!!😮

I had a good laugh, then ooouh, it hit home. Dated the tall guys, short guys, very lean guys, chubby guys and thick guys. I look at your heart, how you treat me & do you respect me.

Congratulations 🎉🎊🎈on being part of Couple Retreat Show.

Societal Beauty Standards vary from individual to individual or race to race or ethnicity to ethnicity… I don’t live by “Societal Standards”

Hey Tony and blessed tribe! Tony, your friend sounds amazing. I love men like him with a great heart and attitude. I have always been in relationships with men that society finds unattractive. I’m glad your friend got the love he deserves.😍🙏🏻🙌

That social experiment would be some good entertainment! And you're absolutely right that our society is too vain. That's why most of these relationships don't work out bc they focus on looks instead of inner beauty.

Bad hygiene = DEALBREAKER!👀

“We need to make sure we are a looker now” TG 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Holy Spirit spoke through you boss

Mr. Gaskins! I just saw the preview for the ext episode of couples retreat and saw you. Can’t wait to tune in!

So true.... this is why alot of the time fix ups don't work... when others choose your mate they choose what they like..... it's like they don't bother to figure out who you're attracted to

When you are watching VH1 Couples Retreat and see Tony Gaskins on it! 👏🏾✊🏾

Yassssssss Im seeing my brother on tv nahhh. Love to see it!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ Tell the Queen I said “hey” ❤️

Loved the message, love the love you always exude toward your boys and wife!! btw GOD Bless you have a lovely looking RV?!

The friend example is your average brotha! See the heart...total package. 🙏🏾🙋🏾‍♂️👍🏾

IT'S THE CHILE.....I AIN'T GOT THE TIME FOR ME😂🤣😂🤣😂 TELL...IT TONY! PEOPLE GIVE UP ON YOU BECAUSE THEY DON'T THINK ABOUT THE TIME IT TAKES TO GET THINGS STARTED BUT THEY MOVE ON WITH OTHERS, NOT KNOWING THAT IT'S ALL IN THE WAITING SOMETIMES! MOVE ON... BE HAPPY, JUST LET GO AND STOP HOLDING ON TO SOMETHING YOU NEVER WANTED, FINISH YOUR PLAN! BLESSINGS TONY!

Men like that would not approach me. They are afraid, even when I approach them. I want the underdog

Built like a Big Mac 😂😂😂😂....Tony strikes again

I did arm lipo and it’s very painful and not that successful

People like what other people like… FR. The blind and lost are leading the blind and lost especially when it comes to relationships, dating and building. Say it again brother 🗣️💯

“I’d be doggone‼️”😆🤣 👏🏾👏🏾💯💯

I thought will and jada was happily married and attractive now that the entanglement scandel came out I dnt look to no couple I look for myself

Very well said and I really enjoy your videos thank you for this message ❤

This message was so spot on, Thank you Bro Tony ❤️🙏🏾

Good evening Tony! Here listening and learning. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

A lot of times when people grew up the under dog they don’t even know how to love because they were never shown love. The people who grew up in love, love the best.

I knew you was a real one ! With a Jamaican Queen we love to see it!

The heart and core matters. Amen.

Facts , I laugh so hard, man tony is funny naturally😂😂😂. He's spitting facts

I am just a little confused because you also talk about the 3 B's. One being BODY. I like what you are saying but it's a little conflicting. I must say I truly love listening to you and I've been married for 35 years and I'm still learning. Thank you!!

We need the honesty! 🙌🏾🙏🏾

I appreciate this, I’ll no longer look over or underestimate a short man. Lol

Tomy Gaskin's you're real and hilarious without trying at times. But that line "No such thing as a ugly billionaire, I'll be dog gone ....Oh yes it issssss .. 😂😂 LOL. Informative great video as always. Thank you 😊😊

Great Video but its still too many clowns 🤡 & I don’t do the circus 🎪 😂

Facts! Sidenote- i would love hair care tips, a hair care line, jamaican remedies, or regimens from your lovely wife one day. I have thick caribbean type hair but when flat ironed or relaxed its similar to her texture.

“Jiggalo Fabio” 😂

Prepare yourself to Receive and Wait on Diving Timing. ✅💯💜🥰

Tony, thank you so much for this video. You're talking straight facts!!!👏🏽👏🏽

Truth and wisdom!💯

I remember I declined a date because the person wasn’t my type on picture. They asked again, we Met in person and I was smitten from day one 🥰. Their eyes were melty brown, laugh infectious, smart, inviting, successful… welp months later they dumped me 😂😂 because I didn’t fit the life they wanted 😂😩 moral of the story is. Take a chance, it might go bad 😂. So be able to dish what you put out, 😌

10:30 I’m a hairstylists my clients have gotten one or more of these procedures and they come to their appointment post op

Lol I love Tony! From I saw the picture he used and the subject I knew it be would be funny and informative, as per usual. But the photo was whimsical so I knew he was about to shift our perspective.

@Tony some of us like Long talks. Communication is one of the LIVE LANGUAGES. It's healthy and without that I will not bond however I get what you mean if it's draining...shalom

I would love to be a part of the experiment Tony if you do that... Sounds very interesting and a good idea

You’re one in a million, Tony Gaskins! These men in today’s Society want the FLAWLESS Instagram Models ONLY!!…I’m definitely NOT in that category, not ashamed to say.

Thank you for giving us one more time the game real and raw we really appreciate it

I had a guy chasing me but he had a biggg belly, I was like nahhh but he kept trying. I was bored one weekend and decided to go out with him. Ended up really liking him. That belly didn’t even matter lol. Found out later he was married 🤦🏽‍♀️

Dropping gems

I am looking your way big bro Tony even though I do not believe in god anymore but, you are the big brother i needed in my life and you speak life into my soul . Thank you for all your videos helping people.

Thank you. I thank God for this message. So timely. I'm going to continue to be obedient to the Holy Spirit even though some people get angry at me and insult me for spreading truth that steps on their toes. It is most unpleasant, but I must keep going.🙏🏾

This is really a message for men. They tend to like women that a bunch of other men like.

Yesssss let’s do it

Always dropping 💎💎💎💎 Thank You

Hilarious i have a blind date this Sunday 🤣 😂 😆

I understand what your saying but Im 5’8 and Im not going to settle for a man 5’4 just to not be single what God has for me is for me! Period😊

Sign me up for the experiment Tony! Now if I’m delusional just let me know and imma take that L 😅

I understand what you’re saying. I’d date a guy that’s not considered attractive but treats me right. But I can’t date a guy that’s overweight, it’s stressful. Like I’m going to scared that one day he’ll have a heart attack or won’t wake up. Being with an over weight guy is just nerve racking.

You are so right. As usual.

Thank you Tony, this helps me take a good look at myself in the mirror and get real. Indeed the truth will set you free! (God specifically made us for the different purposes he intended us for, we’ve each got to know his purpose for us, and it’s all good)❤

I'd love to see that experiment Mr Gaskins 😄💯

Analyze that thing…😂 That’s for always breaking it down.

So happy to see Tony gastus on couple's retreat Check it out Tuesdays at 9

Makes sense..good message 💪🏾

TG, your speaking truth; most women are looking for a man that enery other woman wants. My advice, find a man that u can fix up!

A young teen does not need that type of car yet. They need to know what should be earned with work not given to them that early in age. He needs a Honda accord a Toyota

Love this message.

Hey Brother, hope all is well. I know your really serious, when having conversations with us. Nonetheless, you be cracking me up in a good way. Lol! Thanks for being real. As-well-As having a sense of humor.😂

Tell them T!! So true, because am Jamaican!! We are golden one of a kind!!!

ON POINT!

😂😂The social experiment idea But that’s a great idea.

Go ahead Tony speak those facts

A very good video..touched on a lot..and to add my 2 cents lol..jay z is not ugly. He is notbaomeone you'd look at and be stuck. I think people just say this because its been said so much.

This is beautiful, thank you sir

Not nuns getting thick in the name of the lord 😭😭😭😭

Im bout to set up a “sosha expirrment!!” 🤣😭😭😭😂😂😂

Great message thanks 😊

😂😂😂 a lot of men still abuse it still.