if it's real, then i'll stay
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0:00 @enesai_ "you amaze me"
0:30 @HIVE "Feeling so rushed by life, getting good grades, getting a license, getting a job, all of that as fast as I possibly could without really taking much time for myself and others around me. It feels nice to stop and enjoy life, it really is. I would say that it is even essential, because it really makes you realize where you are headed, if it is something you want or not."
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@Gaming_with_Carlos08 3 ай бұрын
who's listening in 2024?
@Etnies787 3 жыл бұрын
This makes me feel so alone, but in the most comfortable way possible.
@princess-cd5zg 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@omp365 2 жыл бұрын
every comment section like this reminds me that there are people out there that yearn for a more peaceful world.
@MikeOrkid 2 жыл бұрын
Definition of my life.
@YoutubeYoutube-te2ny 2 жыл бұрын
Makes me hate my life more than I already do
@omp365 2 жыл бұрын
@@KZfaqKZfaq-te2ny hating your life is a dead end. accept what is wrong about it and start moving forward. even if you don't move fast, progress equals more contentment. i used to go on about hating my life and it never changed until i made peace with it and worked on improving things.
@coltenpine2382 2 жыл бұрын
My late fiancé introduced me to your music. It’s been about 4 years since she died, and every time I hear one of your songs, it reminds me of her. Your music is truly a masterpiece just like she was. Thank you.
@bonjr2854 2 жыл бұрын
my condolences, I hope the memories the music brings back are all positive 🙏
@coltenpine2382 2 жыл бұрын
@@bonjr2854 thank you! And yes, it brings nothing but good memories.
@_tony_masters Жыл бұрын
FUCK; this is sad. I am so sorry bro.
@Sunnyking77 Жыл бұрын
Im sorry what you been through. May everything heal soon. Till then may you blessed enough strength to go on
@itisi6455 Жыл бұрын
✨One who speaks of a loved one as a Masterpiece, is one itself...
@pyrolofi768 8 ай бұрын
The worst part of being young is the fact we all want to grow up when in reality we were truly happy with everything as is back then
@Live.Every.Moment 5 ай бұрын
True😐
@BosstyGaming_YT 5 ай бұрын
Amen to that I feel the same way
@adrianrock1287 5 ай бұрын
My childhood friend, yes I agree! Him and I used to play video games back in the early 2000s. Also playing outside was a regular thing to us...
@GoatyMan3678 3 ай бұрын
Growing up is realizing that you should cherish what you have and those memories you made. I may start to journal them, I have started to forget… I’m scared that if I lose someone close to me, I might forget… am I depressed?
@SLIVER-MACE 3 ай бұрын
Love you all
@mateam7517 3 жыл бұрын
Dear Bonjr, i think you should know that people around the whole world, even in places you have never heard about (Reunion Island here), listen to your songs to find the comfort they can't find anywhere else. There's something so true and pure, warm and cold, aching and soothing in them... When i feel like i'm failing at life, when everything else doesn't make sense anymore, i always come back to them. And it's never enough, i never stop needing those songs. They inspire me to take the next step, to reconnect after accepting to lose myself for a moment. So, truly, from the bottom of my heart, thank you ♡.
@conrad5968 3 жыл бұрын
This (Ireland here)
@Ta.Mires.2 3 жыл бұрын
It's about this. 🌐 (Brazil here)
@mustafapc19 3 жыл бұрын
This (India here) :)
@enesai_ 3 жыл бұрын
the words i feel but couldn’t explain
@mateam7517 3 жыл бұрын
@@enesai_ loving that it's a shared feeling! music's magic ^^
@MC-874 3 жыл бұрын
Now i can shut down myself in deep-root that lies in the bottom of the void.
@McNugge. 3 жыл бұрын
Why tf did I read that as _"... Down myself in deep-throat... "_
@unavela 3 жыл бұрын
Don't, is cold as fuck down here
@unavela 3 жыл бұрын
@@m.us..c203 it's lonely on the top if you let it get to your head
@vid7074 3 жыл бұрын
The void is internal
@jesseg94 2 жыл бұрын
Bunch of edge lord's here getting off on themselves lol
@IIIIIlIIl 5 ай бұрын
1 month 11 days sober from alcohol here. Living with my alcoholic family is tough but I will prevail. Much love to everyone. ❤
@korbendallas9317 5 ай бұрын
Keep pushing. It's not easy, I know. Find new hobbies and keep yourself busy, exercise helps a lot. Replace your time drinking with things and projects you're passionate about But, if you're around other people drinking all the time, you probably need to leave that environment. It is up to You!! The mind is the most powerful thing, YOU Can do ANYTHING you put your mind to. You are not "powerless to alcohol" .. You're the one making the choices. Make good one's. I believe in you
@muffinatordlux 5 ай бұрын
10 months off the weed... was a chronic smoker.. had to move away from my family as well.. mom, sis and brother all smoked. Didn't care what I was going through. Even said I was arrogant and an asshole after quitting... keep it up man.. life gets harder before it gets better
@audiodrink 5 ай бұрын
❤I believe in you. I tried so many things to help me quit drinking. There was breakthrough when I surrendered my will to God and started praying 🔥 That I am weak and you are strong Lord....I gave my life to Jesus...AGAIN. it is only by His strength that I am still sober. I know without a doubt that if you pray God will hear you. I declare 2 Cor 5:17 over your life, "Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new!" I love you. The price has been paid for you. Leave the life in the grave and know God is ready to forgive and he does not look past his son's righteousness. The perfect Jesus. You also become his son through belief in Jesus. Go now, pray, lay your life down and rise up new in Christ. have new life. Get baptized. Tell your family. Rejoice. Show them how God heals. Get alone in the woods with God if it helps. He always speaks to me through nature.
@user-zv9hm1hs9z 5 ай бұрын
God will bless you
@michaelmora8946 5 ай бұрын
Damn my comment is probably to long too read huh, one day I'll get the same love back
@justinyang6521 Жыл бұрын
When the pain has become a part of you, so when you're pain free, you feel empty.
@donsandrano1429 5 ай бұрын
I understand
@kyle2095 5 ай бұрын
@@donsandrano1429i also unfortunately understand
@SALVAG3D 5 ай бұрын
I had to adapt. It was too much for me. If I hadn't, I would have ended myself. But now I'm here listening to this and remembering everything that was lost. But, at least I survived. I guess.
@MrJGarcia13106 5 ай бұрын
I completely understand what it feels to be like that !
@MaxW0lf 4 ай бұрын
With millions of people dying everyday, why am I still here...? Life has no purpose... No goals... No ambition... No need for eating nor drinking... Just existing. I am just a flesh walking around. I don't feel a thing. Empty...
@bonjr2854 3 жыл бұрын
it's been 520 days since release and the feedback continues to amaze me ^^ ty for listening! how's everyone doing? and where are you listening from? i've been reading most of the comments so please keep sharing your stories!
@ira._.8822 3 жыл бұрын
Ukraine is here)
@DBayakFlRemake 3 жыл бұрын
Please keep making this kind of music. Love from India...
@jackyochoaa 3 жыл бұрын
TEXAS , USA here man I love your music puts me in a great state of mind. Always on repeat. Your doing amazing work man.
@aleksandre9711 3 жыл бұрын
Georgia, the country.
@bonjr2854 3 жыл бұрын
@@aleksandre9711 wow!
@CarrotTheParrot 3 жыл бұрын
Its somehow weird, how this song and "its okay, youre okay" have a very unique way of being understood They are not your typical songs, but they have a very powerful message, depending on how you feel or your life is going I have listened "its okay, youre okay" for literally more than 10 hours for sure. These are simple masterpieces and I really want to thank you mr.bonjr
@Dd-mt5ol 3 жыл бұрын
takes me out of the world 🌎 into my own reality but now i gotta follow my the worlds reality because i gor debt to pay now before i just drove around my bmw going 150 drifting smoking pot heavily now facing reality because of that debt
@InfiniteLife.. 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same as this comment. Thank you mr bonjr 🙏✨The first time I listened to it’s okay you’re okay I awaked to the amount of emotions I had suppressed through out my life. I listen to o it regularly now. The power of music 🙌
@Pandavelka 3 жыл бұрын
you can listen to it when you're sad, happy, nostalgic, angry....it's just so complex and it can soothe you as well as make you very sad and contemplative
@livysardothien5745 2 жыл бұрын
I made the likes 444 and the comments 4. ✨4444✨
@_risinsunn 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way ✨♡
@epalegmail 10 ай бұрын
I was married for four years with this amazing woman. I loved her more than I've loved anyone. She had depression and started taking meds, which at the same time weakened the relationship. She left me saying that she wanted to be alone and in no relationship. I asked very often for a second chance but she just stormed out of my life extremely fast giving me no time to even comprehend what was happening. After just two months she found someone else and they moved in together. These have been dark times in my life and dark thoughts just keep coming. These kind of music makes me feel the hole she left in my life, which I'm not sure anyone will or should fill again. Thanks for posting.
@shk9269 10 ай бұрын
I feel your pain. Know that you are not alone. This sounds cliche, but time really does heal your wounds. Give it another 4 years and you'll have learned new things about yourself and others. Life may feel less pretty for a while, but you will be a better man in the future. A man that has learnt things others may never learn. By going through a dark stage in life. It will take time, it will be hard. But you are harder my friend. Keep going, there is light at the end. I wish you all the strength you need, and don't be afraid to cry. Tears will bring relief.
@epalegmail 9 ай бұрын
@@shk9269 I keep coming back every time I feel lost to read your comment. Thanks for the response, my friend. It really helps.
@shk9269 9 ай бұрын
@@epalegmail I personally believe heartbreak is the worst pain a human can feel. It is easier to lose a loved one through a car accident, compared to losing them through a breakup that involves rejection and betrayal. I'm glad the comment I made can bring some relief! You're the best :)
@MrJGarcia13106 5 ай бұрын
I feel you ! Stay strong
@seanmatters8196 5 ай бұрын
I know we can all say we’re not alone, and people have felt the same pain you’ve felt, but reality is in the moment no one else matters but the ones involved or the one involved, the pain is solidified in time and makes it feel like time isn’t moving, that your utterly alone in this world and only feeling this alone, that is the real feeling, only we can overcome what we feel. We are here for brief moments in people’s lives creating love and bonds with one another, energies moving together. Even tho that energy was given to the world, the energy never left, the world gives back in a new form sometimes, we must keep fighting and not let up, we’re here for a reason
@VoicesCollide Жыл бұрын
Just realised why I feel so alone. Not because I physically am alone but because I have alot of people around me that act like I don't exist.
@LamentOfTheFallen 4 ай бұрын
Its okay, Me too.. I was once so happy but now the people made me the way I turned myself into, Im changing.. and I will make sure that change is worth it in every way.
@skyler862 3 ай бұрын
Kind of similar
@justbeingamom6834 Ай бұрын
Ye it's hard feeling alone
@RogerJaramillooo 3 жыл бұрын
Please never stop upload music, there’s no artist like you.
@TheJoSef1n 3 жыл бұрын
You should check these then Eeuphonious, Fluidified, Vesky, skeler., dreamscape, ØFDREAM
@Sujithnair009 2 жыл бұрын
Correct damn correct..pls don't die...we need you
@NeoTokyo420 2 жыл бұрын
It's only you who think so, but you may not have heard of Alicks, some kind of treasure too...
@moonji_woon8223 Жыл бұрын
@@TheJoSef1n May I ask what type of genre is this music?
@TheJoSef1n Жыл бұрын
@@moonji_woon8223 Of course! I am not sure myself, but I would say its a mix of ambien and chillstep :)
@FreeDom-xj9xc 3 жыл бұрын
The way i interpret the title is to be a reference to derealization, a wanting for death knowing that the world around you isn't real, and the reassurance of staying if it is the opposite OR a relationship that no longer feels authentic, falling apart; that only if it were real as it was, you would stay.
@enesai_ 3 жыл бұрын
this
@jamesjonson4501 3 жыл бұрын
For many years I've had moments when randomly everything around me feels, like an illusion, my peripheral vison increased and everything felt small like it was shrinking and it felt like I'm slipping into a dream but without sleeping and I've never figured it out until I randomly read your comment and out of curiosity googled derealization and realized that was what I've been experiencing over the years thinking it was only me
@jamesjonson4501 3 жыл бұрын
@@michaelgrovesdandyline3099 I've never experienced that extent but the feeling I can understand and it's scary especially if it happen regularly. Maybe therapy might help but if not I really do hope you find a way to cope and deal with it as it comes.
@thingonathinginathing 3 жыл бұрын
Just when I thought I was finally starting to not wanting to kill myself lmao
@mello4989 2 жыл бұрын
@@thingonathinginathing please talk to someone it's not worth it I promise you
@anujj6104 Жыл бұрын
It's like this song unlocked so many memories that I had completely forgotten about. It made me see memories that I didn't know I had... I can listen to this for hours and hours, contemplating life, living nostalgia and fantasizing about the perfect childhood I wished I had...
@Zx0ZTH3XvXD3ATHsZsG0DXzX0X Жыл бұрын
too much feelings be expressed bud.
@brocoli7006 Жыл бұрын
i can only confirm! This song feels obviously sad, but at the sime time there is always a soft voice saying "its ok, you can forgive, you can let go now, just breathe" ❤ Almost same feeling: First 50 Seconds of "Hans Zimmer - Goodbye my Son"
@iamcopperhead 6 ай бұрын
Forreal dude. It hurts so bad every day. Especially after becoming clean and sober, turning 44. Among other things.
@DNDMarcus2293 5 ай бұрын
This song makes me feel like I've let down not only myself but everyone around me and its too late to fix anything
@josephdavis4956 4 ай бұрын
You're right, it's not too late to become who you know you can be. Keep going, you've got this.
@a19894 4 ай бұрын
Wow , this is exactly how im feeling right now
@yankquinn9992 4 ай бұрын
It's never too late
@emperorofcuntstittiesprink155 4 ай бұрын
Let those moments flow through you, leaving you cleansed as you wipe the tears away. It's ok to be a disappointment. Be you. Your pain is seen fellow human.
@Playstation19999 4 ай бұрын
I jabe to right a greatful list .. so easy to be down
@Tayehl 3 жыл бұрын
This is the song you hear when you think your life is going well but it's not.
@liamp6491 Жыл бұрын
I feel love for you knowing that you can have that same emotion. It's hard
@stevenstubby8632 Жыл бұрын
Believe me, you are right where you were meant to be. Everything happens for a reason. Everything is as God wills it to be. Once you truly.. truly understand this, nothing else will matter anymore. You will be one with everything. You will become the perfect infinite divine light that shines through every living thing. The light that is the foundation of the Universe. Everything is as God wills it.
@PrinceAmir206 7 ай бұрын
@@stevenstubby8632yessssssss!!!! Thank you!!!!!!
@sagnikpanja2000 4 ай бұрын
😢
@tiny1801 3 ай бұрын
❤😢
@oscarknight7823 3 жыл бұрын
I’d like to tell my story, because thanks to you I’ve been able to keep moving forward. I’m a digital artist and I’ve been struggling with severe depression and suicidal tendencies for the past three years, I’m 20 at the moment. My life took a sour turn when I was 17 and if I’m being honest, I haven’t recover from that. I learned to deal with all of it by myself, and became a very introspective guy, but there are times when I just feel like I can’t keep going, it feels like I’m drowning under deep and dark water and don’t really know If I’m swimming for the surface or the bottom, but when I play your songs while I’m painting, it feels as if life turns from black&white to a beautiful deep blue, cold and gentle; it’s as if I found the meaning to everything and nothing at the same time. Your songs make me feel like I’m not broken anymore, it’s soothing and comforting. You are an amazing producer and a terrific musician; you brought peace to a tormented soul, and you have helped me to connect with myself once more in order to keep on doing what I love, thank you🖤
@levistrobel351 2 жыл бұрын
Keep fighting. Don't let the world win, prove to them how strong you are. God bless, and have a great day.
@maylove0333 2 жыл бұрын
Healing Heart's Healing Mind's. We will get through this through the healing sounds of music.... Together we will make it
@B.CREAT1 2 жыл бұрын
It wel get better, just expose and keep on creating and producing. And be kind!
@Anoniempje333xoxoxoxo 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your story, I truly hope things will get better again.
@jnm_army2394 2 жыл бұрын
You have to think you winning your battle if the batle is on your mind , you have to think you winning with anger , keep fight
@jellynightninjathe1508 2 жыл бұрын
This song…finally made me realize she isn’t coming back. But the memories I have of her will continue to shine like diamonds. And for that I’ll wait
@danielson9027 4 ай бұрын
This comment helped me out so much. Thank you. I’ve been in denial since my baby girl has passed and your comment made me feel more at peace.
@Fiddy661 4 ай бұрын
She was never yours it was just your turn
@Jaguar-lr7jq 5 ай бұрын
This music give me the saddest vibe, it makes me feel like i wanna isolate my self and don’t wanna be found
@aloneintokyo 3 жыл бұрын
So good
@LemonRust1 3 жыл бұрын
haha when i saw this song i thought of you aloneintokyo
@KaiUndMoritz 3 жыл бұрын
100% obvious that you like bonjr
@freakytitmaster814 3 жыл бұрын
i love your videos man. i also love your taste in music haha. keep up the good work brotha!
@christiancastillo1860 3 жыл бұрын
lol funny im playing rust listening to this song lmao
@TTGPetWussy 2 ай бұрын
ALONEINTOKYO WHEN YOU MAKING MORE MUSIC
@somedude8604 3 жыл бұрын
Haven't heard the song yet but I'm sure it's going to be amazing.
@memolorenzana5482 3 жыл бұрын
Yes it is
@somedude8604 3 жыл бұрын
@@memolorenzana5482 indeed, absolutely love it.
@breenirwin2356 2 ай бұрын
The feeling you've hit a brick wall in life people around you are happy but amongst them you still feel alone you are a ghost in society
@m0le6377 2 ай бұрын
So fucking real
@danaluha5019 5 ай бұрын
I listened to this a lot while my son was away in the military and i was recovering from heartbreak, surgery, and isolation. Something about it was comforthing and it helped me to keep pushing forward.
@realjqa 3 жыл бұрын
Idk where we go when we die, But lord please take me here . 🦋🙏🏽
@BK-20147 3 жыл бұрын
I love the colors of the pictures from Bonjr songs (its ok, echo complex) all dark blue
@LoonieMoony 3 жыл бұрын
I listen to them in twilight when the sky out my window is the same colour
@Froststormer Жыл бұрын
I listen to this while biking home after a closing shift at 12:30 am. The feeling I get while doing that and no cars are anywhere, immaculate.
@byronmann4525 Жыл бұрын
I'm only 21 but all this song does is make me think of years past and how everyone has changed. And it's beyond sad.
@SoGoplaysgames 11 ай бұрын
21 aswell and that's true asf
@sibusisodlamini5273 8 ай бұрын
Turning 20 next year, still yet to see the changes.... hope it won't be anything too bad.
@shawnnfr 5 ай бұрын
me at 17. missing the hell out of my childhood.
@azalea6658 3 жыл бұрын
this song gives me the vibe of being caressed/comforted after a tragic event like you just lost someone you needed and cared deeply for and you dont have much hope left but the people you have left are there for you to try to calm you down and reassure you its going to be okay
@___forzatography___7788 Жыл бұрын
man.
@hive5123 3 жыл бұрын
You know, bonjr songs was really the start of me liking calm music in general It started a few years ago with the famous "It's okay, you're ok" song like most people, and ever since, I managed to find some peace Feeling so rushed by life, getting good grades, getting a licence, getting a job, all of that as fast as I possibly could without really taking much time for myself and others around me It feels nice to stop and enjoy life, it really is. I would say that it is even essential, because it really makes you realize where you are headed, if it is something you want or not. So thank you bonjr, after all those years, I believe I really ought to thank you and this awesome community that was built, as they are the ones that I can relate to a lot when it comes to those feelings I can't quite put words on. Thank you.
@josiasavila2003 3 жыл бұрын
Hey men, I feel you till getting the job fast, heck even the good grades as I always strolled thru schools, mostly here on México a year in Kansas, but I still feel dragged as I miss a year at preschool and another changing career, thought I was doing good till these recent days as my now ex (you know) but yea these last days have been rough, keeping me up asking what could have been wrong at all.. getting snoozed by Bjorn it’s ok your ok seems like a paradox but hey at least I’m liking my career and most importantly myself. Si amas a alguien no lo dejes ir.
@CruzWithMe 2 жыл бұрын
Well said
@ezgisuberber653 Жыл бұрын
calm as in end of the world feeling
@rmonroe135 2 жыл бұрын
Just when I thought “it’s okay, you’re okay” couldn’t be topped! Plz keep making music like this 😭🙏🏽
@user-pz6yh2sc2q 6 ай бұрын
🙁🙁
@SALVAG3D 5 ай бұрын
Low key ya. I'm ok for a good while. Then I come across music like this, and it knocks me on my butt. I'll get up. I'll be fine. Always are. But ya. I understand that..
@ZaineLombaard-un7jj 3 ай бұрын
She showed up,in my dreams and it felt so real...
@m0le6377 2 ай бұрын
Real
@ShalomMulenga 3 жыл бұрын
Need to take a long walk to this, really got me thinking.
@user-pv4tc2im4w 3 жыл бұрын
Cloudy foggy day. you walk alone, celebrating another pointless outing and enjoying the air soaked in longing. Dark night. You lie wrapped in a blanket and feel a kind of emptiness inside you, you look at the ceiling and a tear of unspoken words and hidden emotions flows down your cheek lonely. Enjoy.
@gloom_mental1761 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@jennpark8559 3 жыл бұрын
Enjoy?
@jennpark8559 3 жыл бұрын
What? Suffering?
@tim.t777 19 күн бұрын
The fact that bonjr is liking every single comment makes this channel special
@AlyssiaMaiko 4 ай бұрын
I wish I could go back in time and hug myself as a child. A very long hug…
@jadeanderson1878 3 жыл бұрын
I can just shut the world off to all your music. I love it soo much.
@bonjr2854 3 жыл бұрын
;)
@omnithewolf3628 3 жыл бұрын
I’m about to zone out the universe with this
@user-zf4gu9hq5n 7 ай бұрын
If whales could sing they'd sound like this
@Jonathan123_LOL 29 күн бұрын
Dear Bonjr, Its been months since my aunt passed away. This song reminded me of her, she died cause of cancer, I dont know what would i do for you. Thank you. This might be the best music so far. May my aunt rest in peace. 3-4 Months Pass By. Still Crying about her. My mum is still sad. We all loved her.
@minatorres5261 18 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry. May she rest in peace
@odry.mp4 3 жыл бұрын
"İt's ok, you're ok" parçasından sonra favorilerime girdi 🖤✋🏻
@Mc-ty8hy 3 жыл бұрын
Onun yeri apayrı.
3 жыл бұрын
TÜRK YORUUUUM
@odry.mp4 3 жыл бұрын
@ 😎🖤😳👓🤏
@yusufayhan6797 3 жыл бұрын
O bambaşka bi şey ya apayrı bi yeri var
@makupicu4766 3 жыл бұрын
Türk buldum rahat ölebilirim
@blank-re8qv 3 жыл бұрын
i've only listened to "it's okay, you're okay" so far, but i really like what you're doing!
@bonjr2854 3 жыл бұрын
you should check everything else out then, especially on Spotify ;) might find more stuff that you enjoy
@survivaldude29 5 ай бұрын
Really hits the vibes of 2024 😞
@jcreates2926 4 ай бұрын
If my early morning dreams have background music, it would be this.
@tatia.5370 2 жыл бұрын
I was on a suicide hotline almost about a year ago and we had started to talk about music and the person I was talking to recommend your music to me. I’ve never been more grateful for music. So thank you:)
@hoodiegirl7221 3 жыл бұрын
Every time bonjr comes out with something, I wait until I'm alone at night an listen where nobody bothers me. And each time I cry like a baby
@awsomegamer102 Жыл бұрын
This song reminds me of my ex. We were together for about 9 months and definitely had our ups and downs, but it felt good. This song brings back memories of our time together in the best way possible.
@wingedwillow5549 2 жыл бұрын
Kinda cool how “It’s okay, you’re ok” and “if it’s real then I’ll stay” somewhat rhyme
@fallensadly5799 3 жыл бұрын
unreachable dreams
@ysf3655 3 жыл бұрын
U know... This type of songs, make us almost share the type of feelings that can out explain to each other,
@lethabomodise2765 21 күн бұрын
"I'm tired alfred"-Batman 😢
@leosicht-meitner5384 Жыл бұрын
Dude this has a certain heaviness to it but also brings positive things, it turns you upside down inside out, brings nostalgia with sorrow but also beauty , mixes sad with joy , memories of exs and people gone from my life into only pleasant memories , it is soothing. It is like life with bad and good but makes it more soothing… Great job and awesome talent , you made a new fan and follower
@soyunlobo08 3 жыл бұрын
It’s not real and I know it’s not real.. but I still stayed, slowly losing myself more and more
@soyunlobo08 3 жыл бұрын
@Matthew 😔
@user-np6tf8zx1u 2 жыл бұрын
Holy...
@amiradenby9482 2 жыл бұрын
Huh
@user-sw9qq9go4z 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t even believe that people can make a song like this. Thank you for saving me these years. Love from Taiwan
@1Monty509 3 ай бұрын
I still remember everything, from the very first day we met, to the last. For a few years, I got to experience what true happiness felt like. I got to see what my true potential was. Sadly, depression has taken a grip on me once again, and I feel like I have been falling ever since. I don't see a way out this time , and I am scared.
@kristinetheim3201 Жыл бұрын
For the one who don’t have and don’t like any kind of social media, I’m so glad I found this side of KZfaq.
@chloekushira 5 ай бұрын
I realise that this music dates from 2011 and I'm listening to it in 2024 and I can assure you that no matter what period this music comes from, it will remain engraved in my memory. It makes me feel free inside to accept my pain and move forward.
@goinbossnova Жыл бұрын
I've listened to "it's okay, your okay" probably hundreds of times. This makes me feel okay with being alone. Not sad, not ambiguous, just a kind of a safe feeling
@Roddy_Zeh 2 жыл бұрын
This music represents a change...a shift. From loneliness, feeling sad for being alone...to solitude...finding peace in being alone. Went through some tough moments last week and after parting ways with someone important, I'm slowly undergoing that change. Peace of mind, freedom...calmness. It's still a work in progress, still processing...sometimes feeling like back to square one, back to loneliness...but then re-balancing myself again...back to stability. Now...it's up to you, time. Do your magic...and make the wounds heal, even if they leave scars. Bury the painful and depressing memories, deep in my mind, so I can slowly forget about them... I do not wish any harm to that someone, on the contrary. All the best life can offer. I just do not wish to suffer anymore either. Thank you for this piece of musical art, bonjr. 🙏
@izabella1154 6 ай бұрын
Hey, How you feel now?
@Roddy_Zeh 6 ай бұрын
@@izabella1154 Hello, friend. It's been a while since I wrote that comment. Things are better now. No more loneliness, although still being alone. Such a big difference when you learn to enjoy your own company, a very liberating feeling...no longer having to rely on someone else's company to feel better. 🍷🗿 Thank you for your concern. 🗿👍🏻
@mazrier Жыл бұрын
off topic but i thought it said if it’s real, i’ll slay
@joaodickel5015 3 жыл бұрын
Much love from Brazil!
@johnysharki5694 4 ай бұрын
It's been really hard sleeping lately. The darkness of my room and and the silence is haunting. The only way I can try to get a small peace of mind is by hugging a pillow and imagine it's the embrace of someone dear to me. It hurts more when I remember that that someone has passed away, a long time ago and there will be no chance of feeling their warmth except in my mind.
@kakr4739 12 күн бұрын
Hey, I don't know the pain you feel. I don't know the loss you feel or the loneliness you feel. I don't. But I know that it hurts. I don't know your pain, but I know pain. I know loneliness, I know loss, but I don't know just how bad it is for you. If you're willing to listen, I have some good news for you. There's someone that knows exactly how you feel. This person loves you so much more than you could ever imagine. This person would die to make sure you can live. This person can't wait for you to see Him. This person can't wait for you to run to Him and embrace Him. His name is Jesus. He knows that you really want a hug. He knows that even though it feels like the world is falling apart, He is greater than the world. Even if the world crumbles, He will never leave you. Trust me. I was depressed. I was going to take my own life. I was planning it. Every time that I wanted to though, I remember this voice that never left, He told me to keep going. I did, and it's been almost a year since I've been the happiest I've ever been. Jesus showed up in my life. I don't live a perfect life though. I will still lose people, I won't always have my friends, but Jesus has always been there, and will always be there. God has known me since before I was born. The same is for you. Jeremiah 1:5 “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.” Jesus is there with His arms wide open ready to give you the warmest hug ever. Please, go to Him.
@bLegitBllunt 3 ай бұрын
The comfort to my most unloved nights..
@theEnsoOne 4 ай бұрын
21 years That I don't shed a tear and 21 years that i don't hug someone, first time crying in this year 😅
@TW23796 Жыл бұрын
Feels so comforting...like a lullaby
@johnnymo4000 2 ай бұрын
Walking down the beach at night wondering wtf I'm doing with my life and why am I here vibes.
@bonjr2854 2 ай бұрын
felt
@michaelhood9024 6 ай бұрын
Spent 40 minutes trying to find this,it was the background music of a youtube video and man it just spoke to the soul, love it
@quietstormaps 5 ай бұрын
I don't know why this music stirs up sadness and nostalgia all at the same time bringing me to tears.
@michaeldalton5571 18 күн бұрын
My daughter and I love this song. I don't know what that says about us but we come together over this track 😊
@evanobrien9850 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for making this beautiful music, this helps me release so much emotion that otherwise have adverse affects on my family. Something that sooths the pain that you can never forget
@Jayman-gt8lv 2 күн бұрын
This song reminds me of my entire life flashing before my eyes and then it’s telling me live your best life!
@lonerwolf6496 Жыл бұрын
I thought it's some documentary with a clickbait thumbnail. Turns out it's a relaxing goodnight sleep tune when your mind running wild in the night before bed
@thegalaxy2262 2 жыл бұрын
Bonjr, there's no artist quite like you. Thank you
@bonjr2854 2 жыл бұрын
the galaxy has spoken 😳😳
@orbitismycat1311 3 жыл бұрын
It makes me feel calm, but in such a sorrowful way... it's similar to the feeling you get after crying at the top of your lungs, a scape that used to be filled but has became a void.
@HONEYxBADG3R. 6 ай бұрын
Wow. Absolutely caught me off guard hearing this song. I've had a rough life growing up and lately been dealing with a lot. I've been an expert at bottling things up, it's hard really to say but man hearing this caused a flood. So many emotions and nostalgic memories past can't help but make me so sad when I hear this. Thanks @bonjr for this masterpiece.
@rykersalty7265 10 ай бұрын
ive been listening to this song on and off since release and I am now a freshman in college and all it reminds me of is my final highschool years and how much fun they were and how little care in the world I had and how insignificant small things were and how much easier living a life with parents was and having childhood friends surrounding me, and it all vanished away from me one day and now I have to start new again just because I got older. Its hard.
@wavy.m3 9 ай бұрын
it’s gonna get way worse my guy 😂
@puppyhowler Жыл бұрын
this makes me feel like i'm floating in the soft winter air, watching the delicate snow flutter past me, each flake glittering in the cool winter sun. it's comforting.
@midnightgrahmmer 5 ай бұрын
This is the embodiment of the existential acceptance to things outside of our control. This is beautiful
@miyah4492 2 жыл бұрын
So i have a best friend ive been on and off in love with for 7+ Years. we tried to date, we tried to break it off, but we always kept on coming back to each other. He would find comfort in your tracks, and i would always sit back and let my feelings get carried away by your music too. Im here typing this while i cry after my lover my rock and my best friend commited suicide. It gives me bellyache to think about him, and yet its all im doing. I stopped going to school, i started taking drugs, and i started to cut myself again even though i promised him id stop hurting myself. But i just cant stand him not being there anymore. Its been about a year and Im still laying in bed not eating for days missing him. And i come back to this. To your Music. Because its all i have left from him. To enjoy the only thing he ever seemed to enjoy. So thank you for that (:
@prodosaka 3 жыл бұрын
ight, gonna go skate to this on repeat
@qllrm Жыл бұрын
Bonjr's works should be in movies, I would love to watch a scene work with this song 🥰
@vd6356 5 ай бұрын
This music can bring tears automatically
@spencerfrankclayton4348 Жыл бұрын
With the same lighting in the thumbnail, imagine finding a frozen lake, and skating on it by yourself, as if you're the only person left on earth. And you're okay with that.
@ariae3481 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve felt stagnant for most of my life. Trying to make sense of why situations/people keep hitting me head on, essentially knocking me down from the ladder I almost climbed to the top of. So close to reaching freedom. In some way, this song tells me, “It’s okay. Life is going to hit you with waves that knock the breath right out of your lungs. But guess what, you’re strong. Stronger than ever now. It may not make sense, but you’re going to be okay.” I love this. Thank you ☺️
@TK29867 Жыл бұрын
I recently just got out of a relationship.. This song reminded me of the good times, and the bad.. I feel comfortable sharing this story.. But everything that went downhill for me. My grandma died. My depression is hitting me hard as a truck can run you over.. And well, the relationship that I used to have.. I feel so relaxed yet sad in a good way. Remembering everything hurts.. but it always puts a smile while going through the pain
@Ricmoo74 2 ай бұрын
This is not part of this world, but a world of which one can escape to find, absolution, recovery, and love. Bravo.
@basadobarry2241 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Bonjr, been following your music for a while now and this year has been hell to me but I feel safe and secure anytime I hear your beautifully crafted creations. Much love from Australia.
@camic4070 3 жыл бұрын
hi bonjr idk if you’ll see this but it’s okay, you’re okay. is one of the main songs i listen to that has helped me get out of my head and this one as well. i really hope you have an amazing life cause you deserve it and you saved mine in some way ❤️
@vivian3796 3 жыл бұрын
thank you for this. life has been so tiring and stressful lately, I'm stuck in a phase where i couldn't care less about anything or have any motivation to do anything. your songs offer that one moment of peace and serenity in my busy life
@user_-165 2 жыл бұрын
That overwhelming feeling of anxiety and depression, while feeling nostalgic of something that has never happened…😔
@StrictlyHonest 5 ай бұрын
This song is truly the best 💔
@_incognita.155 2 жыл бұрын
This and "it's ok, you're ok" are my relief for all the stress in my days, i listen in loop and i just feel like i'm floating and nothing can annoy me. I hope u never stop doing this kinda of stuff cause you're amazing at it!!! Love from Brazil
@91Putts 3 жыл бұрын
I have found deep peace in this song. Thank you. And thank you to all the people in this thread
@XYouVandal Жыл бұрын
This song is the inner sadness we all work so hard to bury deep within ourselves, where no one else can see. It reminds us that it's still here and we're going to have to face it alone eventually. It beckons us to follow...and we will.
@buba5928 5 ай бұрын
Four years ago during one of the worst phases of my life, my mental health was really bad. I suffered from anxiety, panic attacks, de-realization aswell as had trouble with eating, at that time 'it's okay, you're okay'' was what helped me in my recovery. Now, four years later and during another major phase of my life, this song describes how i'm feeling inside. I'm still carrying on, but life's not the same with new hardships coming my way. I hope that my life is going to get better in the future, and if i'll look back at today four years later i'm going to remember this song.
@heart4braiins173 2 жыл бұрын
This song makes me feel alive.
@tshepi92 3 жыл бұрын
Making a song like this takes mad skills. It's all about what you are feeling in your soul at that very moment. Speaks volumes to me
@deborahwright3271 4 ай бұрын
This is the way my mind interprets the world and its non-stop pain in my heart and soul. If its real I'll stay...but I dont think its possible.
@respectable2540 10 ай бұрын
I don't know if you still read comments, but this music has held a speical place in me since last christmas. the memories it brings back are insane
@bonjr2854 10 ай бұрын
still here ;)
@ncreal333 5 ай бұрын
Just coming across this gem, it's wonderful ❤
@vancaryu3838 9 ай бұрын
This is my first time listening to your music, it feels like a bell ringing in the ocean with a lot of emotions. Like an echo crying for help, but there will be someone or something will calm down the emotions and this is relaxing. It feels like there’s a lot more deeper in the song and want to say thank you for this experience and I see a lot of people have stories. I want to say is, it’s okay to be alone. Just know that you’re not alone, and just remember that the memories will stick on your side and never forget the happiest moments.