If She Shares THIS With You... You're Special To Her

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If She Shares THIS With You... You're Special To Her

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Joyanima

Күн бұрын

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@Joyanima 4 ай бұрын

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@user-vi4rv2zh4q 3 ай бұрын

Get a motorcycle !

@MattCool007 4 ай бұрын

She does this, then ghosts you and then she starts talking to other guys and acts like you were never special to her at all.

@sublimeister9630 4 ай бұрын

A womanly tactic to induce jealousy and territorial possessiveness and to force your action on winning her heart from the competition. Ha-ha! 😂 It might have worked when I was younger…. To possess and to be possessed is past me. 🙏🏼😊

@winfriedmaus 4 ай бұрын

Date a mature woman instead of an immature girl and you will have a very different experience.

@yomomshouse100 4 ай бұрын

Walk away and respect her choice not to choose you. If she loves you she will choose you after you walk away. You just gotta find a way to not be a baby about it in the meantime.

@adamfindlay7091 4 ай бұрын

Go for an adult. Children in fox clothes...

@yomomshouse100 4 ай бұрын

@@MattCool007 ay if you dont have the faith that you will find a wife for rest of your life you probably wont get it. Thats why u freak out when they walk away. Trust god all i got to say.

@sad_red_panda 3 ай бұрын

This is exactly how one gets into friend zone. Nothing wrong about it, just be aware about your real position.

@winfriedmaus 2 ай бұрын

The old "I am the victim" trope. Dude, try becoming an actual man. Develop authentic confidence. Work on yourself. Stop blaming everybody else for your own shortcomings. Once you've done that - in around 40 years from now - we talk again.

@peterk.m58 4 ай бұрын

All I heard from this whole video is “how to be her therapist while she’s looking for Mr. Right”.

@winfriedmaus 2 ай бұрын

No. All you've heard is: "I am perfect the way I was born, the world is the problem, I do not need to work on myself or improve myself, I am just a victim". It's time you wake up from your illusion.

@Scorned405 4 ай бұрын

“ She’s not yours it’s just your turn”

@winfriedmaus 2 ай бұрын

You are not hers either - it's just her turn. Why don't you guys just grow up and take responsibility and accountability?

@DougDeYoung-gt4id Ай бұрын

You seem to have a comment for everyone so I'll give you one. Have you ever heard about a thing called self sacrifice? Its rate these days and doesn't only mean death. The problem in relationships these days is the fact that nobody will sacrifice their "life" for someone else. This was the purpose of marriage and the divinity within it. You sacrifice to her and she sacrifices to you. You are supposed to then be one or whats called in union.

@user-hy6kl4lf2z 24 күн бұрын

Could be

@isaacmaurice227 4 ай бұрын

Don't be fooled guys. Your not special. Most of these women got multiple sources of validation and multiple men they share things with. Don't be a fool and think you're the only one. One false move and you can get dropped like you was never important.

@haver77fax 4 ай бұрын

*you're

@winfriedmaus 2 ай бұрын

No, you are not special. Why is that so? Because you do NOTHING that makes you special. That's why.

@Dman425 4 ай бұрын

A man can be special to a woman. That doesn’t mean she is interested in you romantically

@adamfindlay7091 4 ай бұрын

Say what.

@misterrigsby8491 3 ай бұрын

Yes you can be 'special' because your handy and can do most things because there's a lot of blokes out there who can't knock a nail up a cats arse and the hole's already there! 🤭😆🤣

@winfriedmaus 2 ай бұрын

A woman can be special to a man. That does not mean the man is interested in her romantically. Do you recognize a pattern that you chose to ignore?

@Dman425 2 ай бұрын

@@winfriedmaus I think you know exactly what i meant

@SV-wb8kh 4 ай бұрын

Never believe what comes out of a womans mouth only her actions.

@NewDawnFadesX 4 ай бұрын

Bingo!

@danh9503 2 ай бұрын

Works both ways

@winfriedmaus 2 ай бұрын

And never believe what comes out of your own mouth, only believe in your own actions. Do you see the pattern?

@ejscorp 4 ай бұрын

There was a girl I liked who would tell me very personal stuff. There were some other signs I noticed that she might like me, so I went ahead and gave it a shot and told her. I got shot down as just a friend. So no, just because she tells you personal things doesn't mean there's a romantic interest. If anything, if she gets really personal with all the subjects listed in this video, it's a dead giveaway you're in the friendzone. You'll feel like her brother or gay best friend. That's the crap she should share with her girl friends.

@winfriedmaus 2 ай бұрын

What I read is this: You did not manage to handle being her friend, YOU are responsible for NOT becoming the MAN in her life that she wants to be with, trusts and wants to have offspring with. YOU failed. It's not on her. Grow up.

@ejscorp 2 ай бұрын

@@winfriedmaus What are you on about? I was attracted to her and took a chance and it didn't work out. What you don't know is that I suggested to still be friends but she completely shut me out and ignored me. So I went my own way. My whole point anyway was that the sharing of personal things doesn't mean there's any romantic interest. I'm not going to cry about one missed connection or try to become who I think she wanted.

@Dj.D25 4 ай бұрын

I’ve known a few women who have told me very personal problems or views on different issues, just to get angry with me for something petty later or they lie or play mind games. Some of these were women who I did have feelings for and I wanted to show I could be the man they were looking for and show I was different from the others, just to be rejected or betrayed later on. Now I am tempted to just listen, say minimal answers or hardly care. And not open up about myself much. Most women in the USA seem to prefer these kinds of men anyways.

@haver77fax 4 ай бұрын

ah, what is new york?

@haver77fax 4 ай бұрын

flavor of love new york is bipolar

@haver77fax 4 ай бұрын

you and jonathan met at mental health

@BrickInMind 4 ай бұрын

That shit relates to every woman around the world. No difference in Europe. I dealt with the exact shit. People in general like to have someone to talk to about their issues and fears. Someone who listens to it is not usual so they open up for it. But it never means they want more from you. The truth is the only way to get woman, you need to create romantic or sexual environment for her and it only works when she wants it. Otherwise you will be just a friend.

@WendingWayfarer 4 ай бұрын

Not caring is vital.

@Grass1981 4 ай бұрын

Sounds like the friend zone

@danh9503 2 ай бұрын

So what? Friend zones aren't a bad thing unless you're a desperate guy pretty much gagging for female attention lmao. Big turn off to women and viewed as pathetic from other men tbh

@winfriedmaus 2 ай бұрын

No. It sounds like a place that REAL men are comfortable with and accept.

@shockmarkets7384 6 күн бұрын

A man puts himself in the friend zone. The friend vibe comes from the man, not her.

@thetravelexperience1695 4 ай бұрын

Great advice for platonic friendship 😅

@winfriedmaus 2 ай бұрын

Real men are fine with platonic friendships - they accept their place and do not let their genitals take over their lives.

@zerolbcool 4 ай бұрын

Perfects excellent points directed to her special male friends. I SAID FRIENDS! Make of it as you like! My Clueless thoughts might be worth a read? I think these can be indicators of: 1 Great boyfriend for Friendzone. 2 Great boyfriend she Wants in Every possible Way. If she wants you in Every Way (#2) Things said in the video, she will/may do, Plus ALSO she will initially Always Dress Hot, always have banter with you, be generally smiley/nervous/nice/quiet/demure or bit@hy(to get a reaction) around you. She IS also figuring What qualities you like. She may also ask for some stupid help lol on something you're good at, whenever she knows you more imo. If you notice these then just maybe you got something :))

@winfriedmaus 2 ай бұрын

I'm really not getting the problem that so-called "men" seem to have with all of this. If you're an ACTUAL man, you're confident enough about yourself, about HER, about YOUR place in HER life. If you're an insecure kid, not even the Gods of Olympos would ever be able to help you. You want to be a real man? GROW. Become authentically (!) confident (!) about yourself. Once you've reached that point in your life (read: you're probably over 50 years old by then!) everything starts "magically" (of course it's not magically - you've invested half a century into that growth!) falling into place for you. It's an enormous amount of work, guys. Just fucking own it.

@marcob5549 4 ай бұрын

Thanks, this is very useful! Ancient greeks called that kind of relationship "Philia" and it is one of the purest and kindest.

@winfriedmaus 2 ай бұрын

Not really. It's just about you, as a man, being MATURE and CONFIDENT - and accepting of the actual facts and odds that you're facing

@RickWander-jm1ko Ай бұрын

You're right. I have done all this. It's hard when she is 26 and I 64. I know that I know that I know. It's there It's great. It's difficult

@dr.options 4 ай бұрын

LOL...this just confirmed how truly irrelevant I am to her. Thanks!

@nathanhayward319 2 ай бұрын

Bro, my crush hasn’t replied to me in a few days 😬😬. But I’ve talked to her in real life once or twice. But she only opens the text doesn’t answer anymore 😢

@jacqueslee2592 4 ай бұрын

Joyanima: "Women show these signs because they like you". Reality: "Ugh, he texted me back within one minute I texted him. He is desperate so I am ghosting him."

@ArnoldsDesign 4 ай бұрын

The last point is important. Don't go blabbing any of the things she told you all over town. The only problem is, if she told several people the same thing, and it comes back to her, you might get blamed even if you kept silent. I don't know the solution to that one.

@TracyNewcomb-rq8nq Ай бұрын

I do appreciate your understanding and love 💕

@mcmann201 4 ай бұрын

Hi Anna ! Not much to say here. Your secrets are safe. Pushing forward when it's nearly impossible. I'll stay the course, nothing has changed !! 😊

@Plotinuz 4 ай бұрын

If you wish to catch fish, ask a fisherman and not the fish. If a woman starts treating you like an emotional support animal, that is a sign that she does not find you attractive as a potential mate.

@Joyanima 4 ай бұрын

Hope everyone is having an awesome day! What are your plans for the weekend, anything nice?

@douglongard3699 4 ай бұрын

there is a girl who asked me what my plans where 3 times over 6 months , talked with her maybe 10 times . she doesn't know my name

@Martin_Priesthood 4 ай бұрын

@@douglongard3699😳😳😲😲😢. After asking you what happened?

@patrickdaigle5239 4 ай бұрын

I wish you a wonderful day as well🌞🎉 as for plans; very exciting, cleaning, shoveling the snow we had and grocery shopping. Tomorrow, if the weather is good, I'll go for a walk; otherwise I'll stay in soft clothes watching movies/series. And you, what's your plans for the weekend?

@jeffreyg607 4 ай бұрын

You're amazing and with your communication skills, your partner is very lucky to have you ❤💯 Lovely woman with a fantastic British accent!

@arunavbarua1638 4 ай бұрын

Yup enjoying a fun filled and tiring day. Hope you are having a blast too awesome one. ❤❤❤❤ My plans for the weekend is as usual. Waiting for the Japanese F1 race after a few hours and preparing to engage in a petty fun filled war of words online with the rival fans of other drivers.😂😂😂😂

@SummitMan165 11 күн бұрын

Very good episode !! 👌👌👌😎😎😎

@LoveandWellness2024 4 ай бұрын

Very lovely! I am going to practice it on my side hick 🎉❤❤❤

@July41776DedicatedtoTheProposi 4 ай бұрын

Walking in the warm sun after one week of rain “and earthquakes!”

@sublimeister9630 4 ай бұрын

I’m sorry I don’t like people venting their problems without being open to resolve their problems by hearing the other’s experience and wisdom. I’m no Sponge Bob… 😂

@MrThedr1975 4 ай бұрын

i must be special to a ton of people temporarily. people have told me their deepest stuff most of my life. it didn't matter if it was men or women they always come to me. even people that are much older than me talk to me about things. they must think i am dr phil or something.

@winfriedmaus 4 ай бұрын

Are working as a barkeeper or a barber...? ;-)

@MrThedr1975 4 ай бұрын

@@winfriedmaus i don't do either one of those jobs. for some reason i could be out and about and people just start talking to me. i've had times where i was just sitting at a bar minding my own business and then people would come to me and just start talking about deep stuff.

@Kickpanda132 4 ай бұрын

This is great guidebook, how to be in friendzone.

@winfriedmaus 4 ай бұрын

Not when you're dating a woman with actual life experience.

@tonyc8752 2 ай бұрын

Life experience? You mean, she’s slept with dozens of men minimum

@russelllevers9513 4 ай бұрын

I really love love love your advice!!! Keep up the great work you are doing

@russelllevers9513 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for these things you teach us

@johnporopat6366 4 ай бұрын

What if she's dead?

@guyblew1733 4 ай бұрын

Good advice.

@chrisarchibeque8584 4 ай бұрын

🤔 how’s your love life with all your wisdom anna?

@Dman425 4 ай бұрын

Does that matter? You can have knowledge about something without having any first hand knowledge on a subject

@chrisarchibeque8584 4 ай бұрын

Wouldn’t trust a bald barber or a skinny chef….

@Dman425 4 ай бұрын

@@chrisarchibeque8584 that is ridiculous

@thestealth293 4 ай бұрын

@@chrisarchibeque8584 Wth 😂😂..so you wouldn't believe a not so good looking dermatologist ?

@rymic72 4 ай бұрын

@@thestealth293. Would you trust a dermatologist with really bad skin?

@EricMoore790 4 ай бұрын

My crush asked me if my friend was single.

@alexakosspartiaths9461 4 ай бұрын

Use condom,u gonna pay for another mans kid.

@RI-yz8do 4 ай бұрын

@EricMoore790 😂

@FabianDialer-vw1zk 4 ай бұрын

Chances are that she is more interested if your friend isn't Single. If you say he never had a GF she would probably lose interest in an instant.

@luisalphahernandezomega1704 4 ай бұрын

*ALEXA MY LOVE, YOU SHARED WITH ME THAT YOUR GRANDPARENTS PICK YOU UP FROM WORK AND THAT YOU LIVE WITH YOUR GRANDPARENTS AND I DON'T WANT TO SHARE THE REST HERE BUT I WANT TO SAY THAT I TRULY CHERISH YOU THAT YOU SHARED THAT PERSONAL FAMILY MATTER WITH ME WITHOUT ME ASKING. I TRULY REALLY DO LOVE YOU ALEXA AND WE REALLY ARE MEANT TO BE TOGETHER FOREVER.😚👧🏻🥰🥰💖💖*

@Ben-eu4il 4 ай бұрын

Love your channel and am a subscriber! Always give LIKES and appreciate your insights! You have helped me with others! Blessings to your day!

@EspressoDave411 4 ай бұрын

Thanks Anna!! Good info, as usual.

@mutungiedmund2355 4 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing 😮

@Joyanima 4 ай бұрын

My pleasure 😊

@Martin_Priesthood 4 ай бұрын

👍 points noted and very true. . have a nice weekend..🥰❤️.

@Joyanima 4 ай бұрын

Thank you! You too!

@Martin_Priesthood 4 ай бұрын

@@Joyanima 👌🙏🤸

@Julio_Bravo 4 ай бұрын

Did you say "Soccer"?!.....OOF!

@You68688 4 ай бұрын

Jesus christ a lot of resentment from guys in the comments

@XMehrooz 4 ай бұрын

true... much of it is justified though, given the current social climate of the world.

@thetimeshadow6769 4 ай бұрын

Hi Anna. Thanks for the helpful video. I was wondering if there was a way I could get in touch with you abt a personal, specific girl situation I have? Is that possible?

@Joyanima 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for the support. Unfortunately unable to offer specific advice for individual circumstances sorry

@thetimeshadow6769 4 ай бұрын

@@Joyanima Ah, shame. Nevertheless, thanks for all the helpful content you create. It never goes unappreciated 😊

@jacqueslee2592 4 ай бұрын

This video assumes that all women think and want the same thing and show same behaviors and assumes that there is a woman for every man and that woman are only showing these behaviors to one single man, to the prince. Women have a list of men and she is doing the same to all men, going through who will be the one and testing all of them before settling with one. That is reality. Not Disney princess and prince romanticism.

@samdrumeller8433 4 ай бұрын

Will you marry me?

@hillusherrod2163 4 ай бұрын

Booger

@erikvonerik 4 ай бұрын

I think I’ve figured it out - you are from N Eastern Australia or New Zealand

@Joyanima 4 ай бұрын

I'm not sure if you could technically be more wrong 😅

@MisterGames 4 ай бұрын

Lol, as an Aussie i can say, she is not from Australia or New Zealand and thus judge that your inability to distinguish these accents marks you as a person from the USA, assuming English is your native tongue. Cause "Americans" are really quite bad at picking accents.

@erikvonerik 4 ай бұрын

I was judging from my girlfriends accent who is a native Kiwi but raised on the Sunshine Coast My first guess then - S Africa !

@BWater-yq3jx 4 ай бұрын

No way. England for sure.

@shootingbricks8554 4 ай бұрын

I lean British as I worked with British troops overseas

@mrindependent6382 4 ай бұрын

I know someone who shares sexual things with me what i didn't expect her to say only to One of her girl friends, should I take this as a "green light" so to speak

@winfriedmaus 4 ай бұрын

That sounds like the oldest story in the book. Either she doesn't see you in a sexual way AT ALL and feels comfortable to treat you like she'd treat a girl friend or a gay friend -- or -- she's intentionally cruel to you and just wants to tease you for her own amusement because she's not remotely interested in you as a man but knows that you have a thing for her -- or -- she's really trying to wake you out of your coma and to seduce you. In any case, you're at a crossroads: Either pursue and see where that leads -- or -- move on and step out of that person's life for good.

@rymic72 4 ай бұрын

I’ve never heard of a redder red light in my life 😳. It’s as though it’s the very form of the colour red