​@@allanmccoy-ip5ud fym part 2, what r u yapping about blud

@@luvsx. blud they jus like the silly word combos hush

Wdym we need to do that more often? We've already got tons in the English language! Shepherd: sheep + herd, holiday: holy + day, none: not + one, and so much more! /j Btw if some of this feels sorta familiar it's cuz i actually got the idea from a yt short lol :P. And oh yeah. someone pointed yt shorts ain't a great source of knowledge and i totally agree, so just take it with a pinch of salt. And not flaunt it in a way that could get you k.o'd with a reply pointing out ur accedental bulshittary (aka don't word it in a way as if your presenting it as the correct truth if you don't 100% know that is the truth cuz u got it from a not so trusted source) I'm just sayin this just to clear up some things, even tho tbh i don't really care about this shit. Since it's not really important (to me anyways)

Portmanteau Power! XD

@@A_RandomNobody youtube shorts are not a reliable source of knowledge, and these are some really fucking weird and misleading examples for an actual thing with solid examples. the time that comes after noon is called the 'afternoon' and a thing that shields you from wind a 'windshield!' like, 'none' is from the old english words 'ne' and 'an,' which do _translate_ and are _related_ to 'not' and 'one' respectively, but it didnt come from mashing together the modern words 'not' and 'one' like youre implying. that isnt how etymology works. similar thing goes for holiday and shepherd etymology is cool you dont have to make shit up

oh hey someone who I swear I've seen before (online, not irl)

Howdy hey, Rea!

omg i just binged your videos no way

Twink.

he is watching, pondering, waiting…

XD

so you mean there’s only… one direction…?😈

Is that a doofensmirtz reference??!

@@bunnyconcubus8468 Unfortunately, no, but I wish I had a good enough memory to do that on command 😂

@@astraamarante6233 It's fine, if you're wondering which episode it's from the Phineas birthday episode.

Ah, because in the past women were in fact considered children. Kind of.

I just realized that- 😭💀

really? i thought the expectation for women these days were to have large thighs, big butts and a big back, broad shoulders and slim waist. Also hairless.

hairless = cleaness ; petite = need of a man to protect her i dont really why comment like yours exist what are you even implying about all men

not that i've seen irl.. maybe just some places of the internet.. i always hear boys talking abt chest, back etc

No kidding! It's great. She did a good job

YESSSS

that's literally what i was thinking 😭

I was about to say that she just reverse engineered every queer besties, especially the little guy lmao. He is lowkey me frfr

This. I love femboys so it was awesome to see one in this video.

REAL!!!! i love this art nomnom

TOMBOYS AND FEMBOYS FTW!!!

Same

Same

Same

As a trans person comments like this are so fascinating. Something I have to put conscious effort to do every moment of my life to be seen how I want to be seen not even being acknowledged by most people is wild It really goes to show how brainwashed we all are by beauty standards

Oh fuck am I a femboy?

@@Crossbell_Police _gives you a maid dress_ *wear it.*

​@@ellie8272why do you have to put conscious effort into it

​​@@Crossbell_Policeit is what it is, put the skirt on.

I agree, thats another subconscious change

being sporty and 'manly' you'd prob be out in the sun while the petite frail woman stays inside and does 'feminine' tasks that dont involve her getting tan. Everything's so stupid man

Yep, that’s another interesting phenomenon with how we perceive masc/fem, and it’s got some historical roots. Having a darker shade of skin was considered “masculine” because, in white men, it was achieved by working in the sun a lot, usually by manual labor, something generally perceived as masculine. Being pale was considered feminine because it was achieved by white women by staying out of the sun (like by staying in the house or confining your work to shade) through housework or careful protection, like with parasols. It all kind of ties into the masc = manual labor and fem = housework narrative. Unfortunately, that belief was also used to discriminate against POC women, as people would accuse them of being “too masculine” simply for having darker skin. The origin of our perceptions of masculinity and femininity are very saddening but also fascinating to learn about.

I TOTALLY AGREE

Oh noes

I think the video is proving that even when you dont fit the beauty standards you can still be exttemely attractive

​@@extaceed5961No, the video is making me doubt about my sexuality even more ahahah

​@@sugar706 it's doing both

@@Kairochronophobia yeah :D

​@@sugar706 same LOL

Barbarian crone with a axe broom hybrid to fly on

im begging what is your webcomics name???

Omg i would love to read this

WHATS YOUR WEBCOMICS NAME WHATS YOUR WEBCOMICS NAME WHATS YOUR WEBCOMICS NAME PLEASEE @chibibble

anyone curious its on her youtube description IM READIJNG IT TMRW

That’s what I was thinking

REAL!!

frrr!! was just about to comment this!

The DUCK😍

I WANT ITTTT!!!!!

I love the DUCK

Frrrrr i wanted to write the same thing 💀💀💀💀💀

That's what I was just thinking

​@@grianjuju9438lmaoooooo💀💀💀💀💀

I was thinking that too 💀

Okay, but whenever anime characters have those types of designs it’s usually a W for the LGBTQ community! Or just people who like those designs in general!

smh she just drew me but blonde 😭

Congratulations you just took non conformist characters and changed them to be more traditional so you would find them more appealing

@@ellie8272 Nah i didnt change them i just thought up a cute little story about them. If you don't like it then sry thats your problem but it wasn't my intention to be rude or anything just a cute little story

@@LilGremolin I never said it was your intention to do that, just what the effect of it was. You saw non conformist characters and your gut instinct was to give them conformist traits

@@ellie8272 nah instinct was to make a cute story up with them in my head

​@@ellie8272THANK YOU LOL

… I’m pretty sure it’s less dommy mommy, and more butch lesbian or butch sapphic woman but sure.

macsuline women and feminine men are cool i knew a couple that was like that once, they were both bi

@@aWERFRGT6545BGFG as a feminine guy myself i have to admit that yeah, we’re pretty cool 😎

real

It's kind of specific to U.S beauty standards.

I have been thinking that too

Yea the standards for beauty has changed a lot even just completely normal things that just about every living thing has have been made taboo to talk about

This kinda does show that features that define male and female appearances aren’t just as a result of societal view. I hear so many people say it’s just because of society, that you associate certain features with male and female.

@@saturnyne_It proves the opposite though?

Awomen 🙏

The fact that some ancient greek philosophes were actually onto those 😀 (I'll never look at aristoteles the same)

​@@Sun_S3t_22_Official lmaaaoo

​@@Sun_S3t_22_Official💀💀💀💀

Especially the ones north of the Danube and east of the Rhine. They were exceptionally fair, and their blonde hair and blue eyes were of celestial appeal

""""""servant boy"""""" 🤔

you've been mocked for that before?? im super small but i've never been bullied 😭fuck those guys for being like that to you

​@@pouinkimiryou're lucky af then 😭

I'm kinda short, but I've never been bullied for it, because I'm scary. I always joke that people should fear the short, because they're closer to crotch punching height.

where is being short/petite seen as a beauty standard?? i always see tall/average and curvy being a beauty standard....(or like when people say short they mean 5'2 or 5'1.. which isn't really short 😭)

@@RAATz- I mean, did you watch the video? It was kinda born from the idea of girls being short being seen as a standard of beauty in recent times.

Literally tho! a pair of my ocs are just 'Golden Retriever Gf who's strong as hell' and her 'Black Cat Bf who's the one being picked up'. With her being very masc and the bf being more feminine!

the main ship of two of my stories is kind of that trope too ig Lavendertowne attracted a specific kind of audience

my 2 main ocs are tall futch and 5’3 femboy…

Cyborg wearwolf cynical janitor woman in her mid 40s who makes dols and dresses out of human remains in free time and when not stalking her next prey she makes toilet moonshine and smokes so much cigars she has to frequently clear her throat air filter from all of acumulated tar, she serves as high profile cyborg mercenary/assasin for mid tier space merchant guild led by eldritch mad man who split himself in two so he could compete with himself in order to stimulate growth of his guild, and is curently stuck as you know, you cant "win" against yourself lol Her squad mate and protagonist is young fu€k boy cyborg druid savant (he speaks to machines) with semingly sinister interior motive to become immortal because "being dead su€ks a$$", and he knows that because he almost died to cancer and accepted deal with the guild for a chance at getting at least few extra months of life, but no one know of his schemes (not even the audience in the begining), on the outside, he is pretty much guy who likes to indulge in clubing and driving his 200 year old Wolkswagen

Same lmao. I have two characters that are twins, one male and one female, and the guy is more feminine and the girl is masc. Both are the same height, which would make the girl seem really tall.

If you're attracted to both of them, there's a chance that you're pan- / bisexual!

^Speaking from experience lol

@@kitkat8669It's not even the bisexuality question, I think the more noticeable thing is finding men and women who are very gender non-conforming very attractive. I personally identify as queer/bisexual because it applies but I am most attracted to androgynous and gender non-conforming people which is interesting to notice in yourself

To me, gender non conforming people regardless of gender identity are incredibly attractive. Like I can see how people like masc guys and fem girls, but what are essentially tomgirls and femboys as well as androgynous people are so much more intriguing lol

@@antlerthyme oh shit, same!! Androgynous ppl are so fucking attractive, it's really a shame that I don't live in a place where it's safe for people to look like that :(

Pretty much

REAL

As a bisexual girl i am thriving

yesss they're both so attractive

REAL AS FUCK

This is something I've observed when it comes to comments I get on my very pale/porcelain skin tone; I've had some people ask me how I kept my skin so fair and clear when they liked the look of very fair skin (which often aligned with the standards from their countries) and that's always a stark contrast with the ones here in Western Europe, where being tan is usually seen as the attractive standard; and where it's common for people to use tanning beds to achieve that while other countries do the opposite by bleaching their skin (both of those methods can be harmful though and I don't think there should be as much of a pressure to change one's natural skin tone, I'm all about embracing it instead!)

Not true for all body types (for example, overweight is hated everywhere) and knowing that you wouldn't get bullied on some other continent doesn't help those people either.

@@juliab3326overweight is not at all hated everywhere, and the general amount of fat considered “overweight” varies by culture.

THAT’S WHAT I’M SAYING !!! *falls off chair*

Maybe it's because they don't give threatening vibe? Like this man can do no wrong, he just too wholesome to abuse, manipulate or do anything bad towards you(just my theory)

​@@amiable_monster People can just have physical preferences that they genuinely just find most attractive that are different from the societal standard. The same way that people who like women can be attracted to masculine presenting women regardless of their personality (i.e., not expecting them to be dominant or assertive), people who like men can like more feminine ones without it being about fear/distrust towards the opposite. I'm not saying no one feels the way you're saying, but I don't feel like this needs to be pathologized or assumed based on that preference, especially not based on what op said

Same fr

@@corndo9 I understand. Apologies if it sounded like i believe i know what op mindset is or that every person look out for such vibes. It was just the thing i observed with myself so i wrote it to find people out there who feel the same

@@amiable_monster No worries I didn’t think you meant it in a negative way. I just wanted to speak up because some people do try to say that in a negative way towards especially women/girls and lgbt+ people so much to invalidate them, so I just wanted to explain how it isn’t always the case and shouldn’t be assumed. But I don’t think it’s wrong for you to try to find people who relate or anything

what, are they supposed to be old and doddering?

Yeah, a little weird. I think femininity is just infantalized in general.

Am I the only one who thinks that being attracted to young looking women is NOT the same as being a PDF file??

@@wlwgwlwgnomesarereal Anything but infantilizing.

same tho!

I SUPPORT this video

SAME, but I'm not bi

reallll but im not bi either

Same here, there's beauty in all kinds of people but I do have that preference.

I was looking for this comment

I love them both they’re adorableeeeee

I like how this comment is just left unfinished

@@colbyboucher6391???

I mean that's cool but i cant exactly work out my spine to get taller

I think most people do

I dont think most people dont know this. Its obvious Patriarchy affects everyone. If women are expected to be docile and weak and in need of protection, Men are expected to be the opposite of that: strong and stoic. Womens emotions arent taken seriously, while Men arent allowed to show any emotion except Anger and Lust because its "feminine". This is just Feminism 101 at this point. Theres still much more to it. And I havent gotten into intersectionality because that'll take too long, but you get my point.

@@Milk-ck1wv I would want to agree but I argue too often with too many people online about the very fundament of sexism and how it even exists… (some people do in fact still not "believe" in sexism or play it down by alot)

@@blue-uv4mhyeah I see that.

@@blue-uv4mh i know some people do but I think it isn't as many as you'd think but I could be wrong on the percentage

as well as masculine girl straight/ bi dating feminine boy straight/ bi. i knew a couple like that

since haley is EVER so good at warning about such instances, I'm checking the comments before i hit play from now on because i don't trust like that. thank you for warning others so that they may be more fortunate than us

Agreed

Hell yeah!

yass more masc girls dating tomgirls

@@aWERFRGT6545BGFG Or masc girls dating feminine girls

I agree that we need more representation of masculine women and wlw relationships, but both of those combined as you've described doesn't really set us any forward. The stereotype of a lesbian already is a masculine/tomboy girl. Making them date each other would just make that stereotype even deeper, as even now the audience already excepts more masculine women to already be portrayed as non-heterosexual since the start, or to end up being revealed as such later on. And even if they do end up dating a guy, they're still called "queer-coded" - which is really regressive of fandoms to judge someone's sexuality just based on their appearance. Same happens with feminine/androgynous men always ending up non-heterosexual, except I've been finding it usually happens in a more ambiguous way; such as attraction to another male character being implied but never showed on-screen or progressed into anything more than a crush/"best friends who mean the world to each other", or he simply ends up never getting together with anyone. Male homosexuality still seems to be a lot more culturally taboo than female homosexuality after all, just like it's been for all of history; with even examples of homophobes finding lesbians hot but gay men are looked down upon and considered less masculine. So I ended up kinda going off-topic, but my point still stands. Yes, we absolutely need to keep working on breaking gender stereotypes in general - but if that character just ends up stereotypically queer in the end as the audience would expect, we've changed exactly nothing.

​@@tomokokurokiirl I mean the standards for heterosexual relationships have usually been masculine man and feminine woman or masculine man and androgynous woman. I think crossing taht line and letting masculine women date feminine men is a good change, i wouldnt say it changes nothing. When I was a kid I didnt differentiate gender so I always believed for ages that women and men were exactly equal in the relationship and that feminine men and masculine women were a normal couple to exist. Femininity is hated, thats why women can be masc and still be seen as cool (until she doesnt shave or wear mkaeup then she is looked down upon) but men cant be fem without people being cruel about it. Having a Masculine woman (aka a tomboy/ mascgirl) dating a feminine man (aka a femboy/tomgirl) should be more normalized. I've been attracted to feminine men for ages and back when I was identifying as a woman, that was frowned upon and people got mad at me for "tkaing the gay men away" even though I wasnt. but after I transitioned to a guy now Its seen as a normal thing in the queer community.

Well most trans women and femboys like themselves looking androgynous and that's usually before puberty...so it's less so of a baby thing and more avoiding gender specific features... Plus baby is cute not every one like sexy eye candy some just like wholesome and cute...

Has straight male I rarely find the overly cliche girly attractive (if anything the tomboy in this video look more attractive to me )

Trust me, even as a somewhat hetero guy, nothing makes me more uncomfortable than hearing a group of dudes dehumanizing women that walk by.

As apposed to a obscene Female view? since when has beauty been a monopoly.

And yet the moment anyone, regardless of their own gender or age or sexuality, calls out how close the beauty standard for women gets to creepiness towards kids...they respond as if you're delusional. Like, sure bro. Desiring a hyperspecific type of woman that is essentially a child "but legal" is weird. There's nothing wrong with a shorter woman or a woman who shaves/naturally has less body hair, there's a problem with YOU. They need to stop expecting all women to look like preteens, especially when it comes to Asian women...leave them alone asian people are not fetish fuel replacements for children. Weirdos.

@@r.connor9280 Every facet of society is seen through the male gaze. Read up on it instead of just talking out of your biased view.

help the guy looks a little like basil (omori) thats so cute

@@cravinguravity HE DOES :O

Go steal it back

Idk, apollo was a pretty boy

​@@djk5758yeah but he turned several other pretty boys into flowers too

that sucks. people never take femininity seriously

Dang, I wish I had feminine traits tho, lucky

Dw you're not the only one. I personally love drawing feminine men because I find them cute

I love feminine men!

Oh yeah, facial hair (a very typically masculine trait) is a huge turn off for me. Facial hair is good on guys I wouldn’t be romantically interested, eg guys way older than me, family members, friends etc

No offense but what were you expecting to hear?

@@shadpant9255 ???????

@@shadpant9255 Well not all men have hard features and not all women have soft features 🤷🏿‍♀

It's called sexual dimorphism. Look it up, buddy.

fetish

Did you end up finding it? Curious.

@@nvenvieliner3698 Unfortunately no, I think it's in a box in storage, so it'll take me a long time to find it.

@@cinnamonsugarcourtney6073 oh…well good luck then

There's also manga called A Cute Guy but the girl is pretty feminine as well

W pfp

fellow saiki pfp??????

@@kumori_77 hell yeah

Yes and (as a woman) it is probably so harmful exactly because it is less talked about, men almost never see stuff about body positivity

Sounds like your a country girl, lol.

What's the Momo video?

Momo video??

@@mothbrainedindividualProbably the one where she was redesigning Momo and Siu smth (i forgot her name the dragon from raya)

@@fangirlapocalypse Ahh, okay

@@mothbrainedindividualfrom mha (I feel like in that case it was more making what look more sensible for teenager to wear and someone as smart as momo )

LMAO idk why that’s so funny to me 😭😭

The fact that you literally described me (apart from ginger/white lashes and frizzy hair)!

Thank you for appreciating eyelashes that are hard to see 😭😭