If they last more then 1 Year, THIS WILL HAPPEN!

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Ай бұрын

Rebound relationships are a clear sign that both partners are emotionally damaged in this kind of relationship can never work if their relationship makes it to one year watch the video and see what happens!
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@sreach93 Ай бұрын

You made a good point about an ex not grieving. All the rebound relationship does is postpone grieving and replacing it with euphoria. But grief always comes a knocking months or years, it has a good memory.

@Beans300 Ай бұрын

This is so true. My girl monkey-branched from another guy to me and I thought "But she'd never do that to me because it's true love and yadayada" and after the honeymoon phase ended I started to get a bit insecure about her commitment and things slowly turned toxic and lo and behold if she didn't do the exact same thing to me 4 years later. Monkey branched to another guy. Oof. So you're absolutely correct rebound/monkey branch relationships are doomed to fail even if it takes years and years it will catch up eventually like it did with me.

@anacfonseca8292 11 күн бұрын

My ex-husband (married 23 years) in plain words told me he’s moving in with his rebound to forget about me , and to emotionally hurt .. what a wicked human being can do something so evil !! I’m glad I made the decision of never going back ! But still hurts .

@montserratpuebla4629 Ай бұрын

Spot on. My ex-husband rebounded quickly and has stayed for years in this relationship. He told our eldest child he did not understand why he was having so much trouble with his girlfriend. He expects relationships, life in general, to be easy. Otherwise he runs away. He just moved to South Korea (from Spain) for work. He monkey branches and believes grass is greener on the other side of the fence. He is childish and very immature.

@PazGoldmanOfficial Ай бұрын

Sounds like you’re very lucky not to have him anymore in your life!

@jennifermchugh4073 Ай бұрын

It's all an illusion . they are miserable and fake all bs. That relationship will stay toxic. Dont be jealous or envious of it no matter what it looks like. U focus on you. The Right person will.come into YOUR life if u work on you❤

@sanjanagrover7436 Ай бұрын

trueee sis

@creyeytions 12 күн бұрын

Still hurts tho 😢

@jennifermchugh4073 12 күн бұрын

Yes it does still hurt

@PazGoldmanOfficial 12 күн бұрын

@creyeytions I know my friend… but this too shall pass , stay strong 💪🏽🙏🏽🤍

@glamgodess9643 Ай бұрын

My brother dated his rebound for 7 years, 2 kids and then they moved in together and got married. The second most toxic marriage or relationship I have ever seen or heard of. They fight physically, swear, shout, it’s all money

@bvhia Ай бұрын

Damn lol We pray for them

@PazGoldmanOfficial Ай бұрын

lol 😂

@PazGoldmanOfficial Ай бұрын

God blessed them… people are so fucking stupid sometimes

@glamgodess9643 Ай бұрын

@@PazGoldmanOfficial So true

@bvhia Ай бұрын

@@PazGoldmanOfficial They are sinners

@thetallestmaninasia5689 Ай бұрын

dude all the other dating people on KZfaq don't say this. But this is the absolute reality, as a man you can never take a girl back if there was another guy after you. Thanks for including that fact in your coaching.

@epicperspective Ай бұрын

wb if they left for a woman?

@sanjanagrover7436 Ай бұрын

@@epicperspective same applies

@alliecat6342 22 күн бұрын

As a woman I will not take a man back after he’s been with another woman. That’s a wrap!

@Sevoflurane2014 Ай бұрын

My ex of 4 yrs dumped me and started dating her rebound the same week. They got engaged after 4 months and are set to be married in July only 3 months later!! So they will have been together 7 months before tying the knot. On top of that they both travel for work so have only been together equivalent of like 13 weekends before getting engaged. It's crazy fast. On top of that this guy has never lived on his own. 32 yrs old and lives with mom and dad still. Troubled history too. She is racing to the alter.

@PazGoldmanOfficial Ай бұрын

This marriage is going to be such a disaster OMG.! Clearly, your ex have attachment issues and this new guy. He is a mama’s boy who has not fully developed into a real man… Just wish them well and move on with your life My Brother she is for the streets .

@Sevoflurane2014 Ай бұрын

@@PazGoldmanOfficial everyone I tell the story to says I dodged a bullet. Literally everyone. My kids who are 14 and 10 both were shocked at how quickly she got engaged. She was desperate to get married and she took the first guy who would give her a ring. I remember she would tell me I could find any man off the street to give me a ring in 6 months. I would tell her is that how you really want to judge your husband?. Well I guess she found her guy LOL.... She is still in the honeymoon and infatuation stage making these decisions! Lol This guy also doesn't even know how many women he has slept with because the body count is so high. This guy will wind up cheating on her at some point. I guess they're only saving grace is the fact that they were childhood friends. They have not been best friends but the families know each other and they've known each other for a long time but again it's not like they were hanging out or talking on the phone or keeping up with each other. They were more of just acquaintances at this point in life and she had always had a crush on him but he would never have given her the time of day when he was in high school. But now that he's 32 and his heyday is behind him he has no other options and so she thinks she has a catch LOL

@Champman543 Ай бұрын

Brother i don't know if i should be sorry for you or congratulate you that she left you I mean it's clearly a very unhealthy behaviour of her and it's almost destined to fail

@jmarietv Ай бұрын

Paz great video...what about a narc that was grooming this monkeybranch used her to make me jealous but may have already emotionally left the relationship...they already feel they grieved the relationship....

@user-fj8dy8oi5l Ай бұрын

You are such an adorable soul And I really appreciate your help...of course I'm still wounded after being cheated on after three years... will there be A video on what part I had to do with him cheating?... I haven't been able to figure it out!!❤

@PazGoldmanOfficial Ай бұрын

Thank you so much, my dear friend for your kind words. I really appreciate it and I will make a video on this for you. One thing that I want you to understand is that the fact that you’ve been cheated on doesn’t say anything about you and it says everything about your ex partner ways of dealing with challenges

@gabriellewhalley1328 17 күн бұрын

My ex divorced in September 2022 then we met in May 2023 and May 2024 he cheated and discarded me. But I think he was just using me financially.

@jorgereyes84 12 күн бұрын

He was an idiot for having done that to you

@nickyj2657 5 күн бұрын

My ex been with her rebound for a year, she confessing how much she loves her on their 1st anniversary. No chance of her coming back

@SpyOnDeck 11 күн бұрын

I was my ex's rebound. We stayed together for 7 years. It turned toxic. She started talking to another guy the week after she broke up with me. We'll see how long it lasts.

@alliecat6342 22 күн бұрын

My ex bf left me for a younger woman and had 3 kids with her. I believe they’re still together 15 yrs later.

@2008LadyLaura 22 күн бұрын

Are they happy? Time means nothing plus if he leaves it’s 3 kids worth of child support and she gets half the house 🤪 so he is kind of stuck

@Justme2474 Ай бұрын

thanks for your great videos. your documentary was so pure. My ex left me after 6 years and I caught him cheating. We were in the middle of renovating the house. He left and never came back. After 5 months she became pregnant and he will become a father in 3 months. She has destroyed a marriage before. I find it so difficult to process as we had been trying to get pregnant for 2 years. Do you still call it a rebowed relationship if they have a child?

@PazGoldmanOfficial Ай бұрын

I wouldn’t call it anything because of this point I wish that you didn’t care about this which tells me that you need to do some more work on yourself… What do you do to better yourself these days?

@gabrieldimancea7065 Ай бұрын

Man , you are great , your videos are very helpful ! Does this apply to monkey branching as well , right ?

@sanjanagrover7436 Ай бұрын

I think yes

@PazGoldmanOfficial Ай бұрын

Thank you! 🙏🏽 Yes it does!

@sanjanagrover7436 Ай бұрын

@@PazGoldmanOfficial okk THANKS

@gabrieldimancea7065 Ай бұрын

@@PazGoldmanOfficial Thank you paz ! Keep up the good work ! 🙏

@PazGoldmanOfficial Ай бұрын

Thank you so much! I will 🙏🏽

@Kopite19877 Ай бұрын

My acc was public but iv put it on private now.. and hers is public so its not asif she trying to make me jealous.. did she unblock because shes over it now?

@PazGoldmanOfficial Ай бұрын

No, she’s mentally unstable and she doesn’t really know what she wants, let her go move on and let her figure out her life…

@SNEAKVS 17 күн бұрын

Me and my ex were together for 1 and half years. I think she’s a Da, we were a little toxic but I loved her and did everything for her. We broke up for 2 weeks when I found out she was hanging out with some guy I thought was a friend. I then found out they hooked up and I acted out. It’s been 2 months no contact. I want her back but I won’t take her back. But she looks so happy and unbothered with the new guy. Does she even feel bad?? Will she regret it? Since I broke up with her is it really a rebound for her?

@ashwins3973 6 күн бұрын

I feel you man

@brianyerger583 13 күн бұрын

I'm not sure I believe this because my ex wife is with her rebound for 5 years 2 months now and claims everything is great.

@damo5701 11 күн бұрын

Define what you mean by a rebound relationship, what is the time period after the breakup for example? Otherwise, virtually every relationship is a rebound relationship, the exception being the first relationship.

@taliatut 2 күн бұрын

I believe a relationship qualifies as rebound when you enter into it without truly and deeply having emotionally and mentally processed your previous breakup. You still have unresolved feelings for your ex and you want to be with them, but if it is not possible, you’re moving on and subconsciously using this new relationship to fix your grief and previous failure. The new healthy relationship can begin after you have mentally and emotionally moved on. Not many people can do that, especially if the failed relationship was very important, and you basically named the dark side of modern dating where you sleep and live with people before true commitment of marriage - we drag pieces of our exes into every new relationship.

@Kopite19877 Ай бұрын

Why would an ex keep blocking and unblocking me after getting with someone a month after our relationship and after 7 months she unblocked me and i have been unblocked for 2-3 months and is still with the person .. i dont get it?

@remyd1984 Ай бұрын

Because when you blocked she can’t see you! Now she’s watching you. Hopefully in 7 months you’ve levelled up, start posting feel good stuff

@PazGoldmanOfficial Ай бұрын

I agree with remy ⬆️ She is taking interest in you again, but anyway it doesn’t matter, MOVE ON.

@Champman543 Ай бұрын

She is not worth your time and effort. She's probably curious and maybe hopes you'll reach out, mainly for boosting her ego

@matthewbarrett176 Ай бұрын

We were married 7 years my ex rebounded and broke up with that guy after 7 months.. She was alone for 6 months and after 6 months of being alone she went back to her rebound.. Will it last the second time?

@Sevoflurane2014 Ай бұрын

I doubt it. That relationship is obviously not functional if they've already broken up once and then now she's going back again. Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants and is probably emotionally unavailable

@matthewbarrett176 Ай бұрын

@Sevoflurane2014 Thanks for the comment 👍 Apparently they broke up because he is incredibly boring. My ex and I are both very social and outgoing people.

@anacfonseca8292 11 күн бұрын

It won’t last, my ex husband just did the same . The rebound is easy , is a low hanging fruit they don’t see their brokenness, and their BS , little to no investment just easy .

@Sevoflurane2014 11 күн бұрын

@@anacfonseca8292 my GF of 4 yrs rebounded the same week we broke up. Engaged in 4 months. Married in 6 months after our breakup. Lol... No way that lasts. They are both morons. What high value man agrees to not only DATE a girl fresh out of a 4 yr relationship but in only 4 months decides to marry this girl and in 6 months actually does it???? Dumbasses deserve each other.

@Gremlin516 Ай бұрын

Ex of 4 years broke things off with me in October and immediately started hooking up with her abusive ex who she had nightmares about for months. fast forward to now and she’s pregnant with his kid and theyre engaged. shit happens fast apparently lol

@PazGoldmanOfficial Ай бұрын

This is so sad to hear… also it’s going to be the most unhealthy relationship ever… wish her well, she going to need some prayers

@Champman543 Ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that. Hopefully you'll recover fast, sounds very painful, but let's be honest her relationship with this dude will be terrible, probably you will see it as a gift someday that she left you...

@candyjuiceable Ай бұрын

What about a marriage ? Will you get them a second chance even if they been with a rebound ?

@PazGoldmanOfficial Ай бұрын

I wouldn’t. If they been with someone else after being with me, this is over forever there’s no turning back. They had the chance to fix it with the in the relationship container and they chose not to. It will be foolish to give them a second chance because they will probably do this again and if they don’t do this again already fucked up.

@jorgereyes84 12 күн бұрын

No!