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Aaron, there is a whole generation of people whose parents were told that they should not hold and comfort their babies, but let them "cry it out" when the child was in distress. My own parents subscribed to this practice and many of my friends had the same upbringing. ( I am Gem-X ) So many adults still walking around with lonely, terrified inner children. We were also never hugged, kissed, or touched except to be punished (spanked). That small clip of the baby is so painful, and I know for sure that some babies spent their whole childhood in that state. Thank you.

I pray all this inner child healing brings further awareness to how much healing of motherhood within society is needed too ❤

Hi Aaron, I have been a fan for a month now. This video really explains a lot about my behaviors. I have tried to make sense of my behaviors for a long while. I am the type of person that is quiet, introspective and observant of others. I have done this a lot in my life. I always wondered to myself why I have had an obsessions towards meeting my needs. Why am I so obsessed with the constant go go go and the idea of success. I make blocks for myself but whenever someone gets in my way to do whatever I get them out of my way. I always wondered why is it I have always thought hugging people is a weird concept. You really put in perspective the energy levels we connect with. I have always thought I am worthy and I thought I showed it by meeting my needs. From 0-5 I was abandoned. Right when I was born I was left out in the cold. I was left by a trash can at a gas station. Someone found me and gave me to the police. I was sent to an orphanage that abused children. I was starved to nearly to death and neglected. I always wondered why I felt such heavy weight of my mom’s words and actions more so than others. I am realizing when you finally get someone to desperately want you love you after being starved you put such emphasis on every move they do. My mom has been highly depressed throughout her entire time with me because my dad died. He absolutely adored me. She put her anger onto me. I internalized it and the sadness. I walk around with it without even knowing it. I think it’s similar fashion when a cult leader wants someone to do whatever told they starve them then do whatever ritual to get the follower to see them as a god. I think this similar thing happened to me so I doubled the energy and thoughts of my mom inside me. Also, my sisters would take their anger out on me. This did not help. It explains so much now of my energy. Why I do what I do. I have felt for a long time in my life there’s a dagger stuck in my heart that refuses to get out and I am holding my breath to keep alive. I always wondered why and I think this is why. Thank you for your video. It resonated with me.

I know some people (Not Related) who did family constellation. They all said, it was very powerful. My one friend, her mother got pregnant again and chose to have an abortion. The child that did not incarnate showed up in the constellation.

my mom died when i was 8 months old. this explains what i go through every day 😢😢

Yes at the unconscious level. I've been unpacking alot of unconscious low vibrational beliefs , thoughts and feelings and behaviors and I realise why I'm attracting the same energy. I have also relaise concious thoughts at high vibrations still don't punch the pack needed to over ride the undertows, healing has though. And the healing is tough.

I had similar dynamics. My mom also told me I was very quiet as a baby. I was always playing by myself. She said I could put together puzzles all by myself at a really young age. I also remember the feeling of being a kid. It was like I was detached, like I was just watching life like it was a television show. I didnt feel like a part of the show...I just watched it. Thank you for sharing this Aaron, that was really neat about the group thing you did in Sedona and how it helped you to feel nurtured to feel that neglected part of your heart that was never held.

Aaron, I have been watching you for 2 years and felt your words so much I started my own channel a few months ago. I thought I would look so stupid at 48, but I have a fashion background, so it makes sense (it's still early days). Thanks for your encouragement, hugs from Australia xox.

I also healed my inner child as he wounded so much and I ignored it for many years.😢 actually, it works! Now I am creating a attracting a more abundant and successful life than before.🎉 thank you for your teaching. 🙏It is very useful.🥰

Family constellations are SO POWERFUL! This changed my whole life. A real game changer

As a clinician for early intervention E.I working with little ones since 2010 . I can tell that it is 100 💯 true ! So true !!!great video ! Awesome msg 👏🏽I so need this video for myself today 😢Thank you !

man that still face experiment is heart breaking to watch

It's so sad that the first five years of our childhood define who we become. There is this quote that said "adulthood is the time you spend overcoming childhood." But in the book "Attached" the author said, we can fulfil our unmet childhood needs through adult relationships. We just need to learn how to choose right. I think you have become very aware of your own patterns Aaron. You can easily tell the difference between a controlling women and a nurturing one. Maybe you lean more towards depressed women because they resemble your mom's energy. Those you want to stay away from to avoid retraumatisation. One session of conventional family therapy might feel healing, but not enough. In my opinion, the best therapy is through a steady nurturing long-term relationship with a healthy woman. Someone who did the healing work herself. Someone who knows about trauma and its effects. Someone who values stability. Thank you for sharing lovely! It helps a lot when you share to reflect on our own stuff. When I lie in my husbands arms, I feel like it made up for all the hugs, I didn't get from my father.

I haven’t left a comment since 2019. Aaron, I adore your way of explanation. My first family constellation was in 2020 and it was crazy. But it’s still the same.

Brilliant video Aaron, thank you. I've been watching your content for the last 4-5 years and they've been so valuable and effective in my healing journey. Thank you so much for continuing to share your story and helping others, like me, in the process.

A meditation at the end would have helped to feel 100%.Blessings,Love&Light.

This was so well times for me, wow! And I was just standing in line now at Starbucks listening to Abraham Hicks and then your name popped in my head and I was like let me go to his channel. And here we are. Thank you 🙏

Wow this is very enlightening for me. I was colicky as a baby and have constant digestive issues throughout life. I learned at 36 my mother resented me so this makes sense of something that happened between my mother and I in the earlier years of life between me and my mother. I am mid age trying to learn to regulate my nervous system and it has been a process. You just summed it up in a 26 min video. You are legit. I subscribed to you from day one of listening to you and I normally don't do that. Thank you for sharing this knowledge.

I can definitely relate. Thank you so much Aaron!

Thank you so much for taking the time to share this Aaron!! Your teachings have helped me so much!

Thank you with all my heart. God bless you!

Sorry for your loss. Thank ❤ you !

Thanks Aaron, back to the journey and work after a few months back to chaos and suffering.. Appreciate you. x

Love this aesthetic of these videos ! Light, colors and subs are beautiful

This is so sincere. I could see your emotions are real. This is why you're a success, you're genuine. Thanks for mirroring what I also went through in my childhood.

Thank you soul brother. For everything ❤

your videos are such a blessing! I found you just a few days ago and all the videos that i watched are so helpful and relatable to me! Thank you so much for all the information and help!❤

Yes, Aaron, I resonate with this so much. I too have avoided love feelings because it felt so painful and have definitely closed off my heart over the years and many heartbreaks since I was a born. Since I am a mother, I have been noticing and working on this, I hope that I will be the one to break the generational trauma and help my boys grow up healthier and happier, so that they can spread it to their peers and future families/ friends ❤

the timing of this is so perfect for me. i had a dream last night that my boyfriend was filling my purse with money or jewels or something like that, & I woke up thinking to myself "yes this is it" & I finally felt like I am wealthy inside myself right now & the external will catch up. thanks for this aaron! you are an amazingly helpful guide & I appreciate you.

Sorry for your lost… 💔 Such amazing information… I’ve changed and grown spiritually so much since watching… your info keeps getting better and better ✨

You speak my language. I always walk away with fresh thinking.

Thank you...Very informative video.! ❤ I felt terrible for that poor baby who had to go thru that experiment, but sadly, many of us have childhood trauma, and I appreciate your channel bringing light into the world.

I have cried all morning and I keep asking what have I done wrong I have been faithful to God all my life and I question what God what is wrong with me? Why was I born if I am not worthy of love or money by my faith alone? I have been entertaining myself all my life because I was told to go to my room and entertain myself to this day I am singing on smule then posting it on tic toc. Pretending to be happy. Knowing I am still alone making myself smile because I oh...just got it...was still miserable. 😮

Profound. Thank You for sharing, Aaron 🙏🏽💙💙💙💙💜🌎🕊️

Thank you Aaron for sharing and opening your heart to us, for telling your own stories 🥰 I think i'll definitely try familiar constelation, blessings!

I have an extremely similar past as you. This is gold ✨

Wonderful! I love this

Thank you for sharing Aaron, there's something fresh and new to the themes you bring into this video ! Not that I don't enjoy the other ones, it boosts my courage to watch them, but sometimes a lot revolve around the same subject ... here was depth and authenticity that really touched my heart, a hint of something new that you share with humility and truthfulness. Thank you, from recent high viber. 💫

Jazak ALLAH💝 for sharing your experience n Much Love to your inner child👼💖💝💚

This is really powerful insight 🤍thank you for sharing it🙏🕉🦋

Thank you, Aaron. I have sent this to Michael, my psychologist. Good analysis. 👍

Seeing that video burst into tears that’s intense

Thank you Aaron.

I did realize that after you explained this that i did indeed feel a type of energy when i seen your videos in the past. It was as this kid that you explained who was asking for attention and somwhere in the back of my mind i thought it and felt that maybe you need attention. I didnt see you as a kid but somehow unconsciously i felt this energy and now i understand it. Im a therapist myself and really see so much truth in what your explaining. Thanks for the info...

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Thank you for this 💚🦋

❤ can absolutely relate.

WOW WOW WOW divine guidance. today got an angel reading on forgiveness of resentment and rage.. questioned myself and went into meditation.. boom... my inner child came out screaming about how unfair my position was in my family relations and how I have managed that need all my life dysfunctionally.. and I also immediately saw three generations behind me, of similar dynamics.. worked on tapping and energetic release.. such a miraculous experience.. blessings and gratitude!!

Love this!

Thanks💕

Need this today thanks 😊

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Every second I am a new person.😊

Also by age 5 the brain is 90% developed. Early childhood educators are severely under compensated considering this fact. The first 5 years are critical

Omg Aaron, it’s like we are twins 😅 thanks for sharing bro. Sooooo much in common 🙏❤️❤️❤️💪

Powerful.

Great video Aaron, thanks so much for this 🙏🏼💚 The second part of the experiment felt like an eternity to watch 😥 My mom lost her baby before me when he was only a few months old. She then had her tubes tied, and somehow they came loose after some time, and I was born. The doctor said it was a very rare thing to have happened. I grew up with a very loving mother though - she recently passed away sadly 😥 Long story short, I recently went on a high dose psilocybin ceremony and the person who was overseeing me during my ceremony said that I completely covered myself in a blanket and refused to get out underneath it. What I could remember from that experience was being taken back into my mother's womb, and I could hear people say things like, "I can't believe she is pregnant again" - that stood out a lot for me. I know they said other things too, but I can't remember it all. I remember not wanting to ever get out of the womb, but eventually I was "born" again in my ceremony and was wrapped in nothing but beautiful light all around, and in that moment I knew I had a purpose to serve and that my birth was no "accident". Your video has put a lot in perspective for me. Again, many thanks for this! Blessed be always Aaron 🙏🏼

wow. Explains a lot. The second half of this must have been hard to share. Thanks for that. I connect more with the universe and nature as my nurturer and comforter than any flawed human. I realize my caretakers had issues too so I don’t hold any resentment. My mom was stoic. If she expressed emotions toward us they were genuine. So imo most baby talk is deeply fake or comes across forced in my perception. My mom also made a point of telling us exactly the angle behind advertisements from a tiny age. She wasn’t exactly bitter, but she was a skeptic. And when we got punished by her it was without anger most of the time. My dad was mostly gone and sometimes angry and also other uncomfortable physical things. But making a mistake with mom was like hitting an ice wall of violating The Right Way to Do Things. Interesting to think how that impacted us kids.

Great vid Aaron

Great video! Thankyou

These energetic patterns or traumas might be what Exodus 5:9-10 refers to “…visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children to the third and fourth generations…”

Thanks so much for your all your content and messages... always very interesting. I'm so glad you 'finfally' mention Family Constellations. More people should do this work, setting free themselves and their family-members too. I facilitate Shamanic Family Constellations assisted by horses... wonderfull work and an honor to be of service... for individuals and for the Collective.

Triggering yet helpful

I cried watching this video

Family constellation (B.Helinger) therapy is quite big in Europe. I've had my first one about 10 years ago.

Queen MS of England 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Oh that's crazy! When you were talking about your childhood it was like you were telling my story. I also have a younger sibling who has bronchial asthma. She was always being rushed to the hospital and it was very much life or death situations. I had a slightly different response to it. Then, my parents also divorced when I was 5. *mind blown*

Painful to watch but very accurate...

This video helped me out a lot

One last note while I am publicly puking ..I blocked my mom on my phone ..she is in her 80's and she has bought my kids so I am alone totally but not stuck with her words any more .My soul was crying I swear.

So, how do you heal the heart? How do you learn to stand unconditional love? I'm confident Aaron will tell us soon.

My parents were never divorced but I still feel that this well help me because my mother was a narcissist and had some past traumas that were never healed

i'm not worthy and not bothered about it either. it just is.

TRUTH

I had to cry during this videos and I know why because it was sadly in my past not different

Love from Morocco

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LOOK MAN my spirit needs love that is all I know love and the truth about all the stuff that people with power and money hide. My spiritual self is stuck with a narcissistic jerk now so tell me how do I show my face to the high vibes tribe at 59 and not feel a little stressed. Do I want to give your tribe the negativity I feel right now?

Last night I had such a powerful dream that relates to this. I was dictating so I said like a lot but here it is: Okay, so I think in the dream I was probably younger than I am now. Right now I'm 19 but, I think in the dream I was probably like a lot younger. I was probably like 8 or 9-ish and I was at my my old grandma and grandpa's house. And, it's really weird what happened but there was like, there was like some obstacle course thing. And like, it wasn't actually an obstacle course but that's like the best way I can describe it because it was such a weird dream. But let's just pretend it was an obstacle course for now. And like I couldn't, I couldn't figure out how to do it. I was kind of sitting there like having fun with it, not really like taking it super seriously. And once it was over, for some reason my dad's friend who like, you know, he like never really yells at me, like we're actually pretty chill. But for some reason in the dream he like yelled at me like super sternly and was like, you know, like don't ever do that again. I don't even know why he said that but he was like, if you ever try to like go on my slide again in my house, like I'm never letting you do that again. And it was like, it was so hurtful. And in the dream, I was so hurt by it. It was like, okay, like I was thinking like, okay, I need to find a bathroom to just go crying. And like, I told that guy Ryan, I was like, yeah, well, forgive me for just trying to have fun with it and like not take it super seriously or something like that. And I walked in the house, my old grandma and grandpa's house. And like I found a bathroom and like tears were just streaming down my face and like, I just looked at myself and was just so hurt by everything and tears were just streaming down my face. And then I woke up, I woke up from the dream. And then in real life, tears were streaming down my face. And I just kept on crying.

Hi Aaron 🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍

Las constelaciones familiares son increíbles

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It didn't start with me, but it stops with me. Went no contact and breaking the cycle of abuse.

Im in high vibe tribe and is this a meditation that we have to earn? I don’t see any meditations yet. Love this video btw, I totally resonated with so much of it especially your sibling having asthma, both my younger sisters had asthma and allergies and were often hospitalized. Thank you for all this you are sharing. I just found you a week ago and Im binging everything. I feel so amazing lately thanks to all your work 🙏❤️

Yes it’s a long video.

Sometimes I feel like this should be natural and I have tried so many rituals...I do the ancestor meditation too. Lawdy 😢😂😂it is almost a mind f.

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Hey Aaron, amazing video, the video is overexposed this time 😅

By the way I study quantum physics, numerology, astrology, religious beliefs worldwide, music from all nations of every genre and sing them all, I study Tesla, Einstein, Now Elon Reeves Musk...and all those you follow including neuroscientists..Joe Dispenza the and the dude that looks like wolf man. So I have tried frequencies , binaural beats, meditation of every sort..including mantras etc

Your thumbnails are funny as hell. I be like, how did he get that photo. Lol. Where did you get that look from? Lol😂😂😂

This is hard to watch…thank you

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So when someone is complaining about how you are as a person. Does that make it something wrong with me ? ❤

Yeah well mom told me I was a mistake and dad did not come to the hospital he dropped her off..he said he wouldn't give a dime for another girl..so as you can imagine how wonderful I felt before I was in kindergarten to know I was labeled the dime baby. And she would smile when she said it like I would be happy..like I totally get it but I have tried to be tough like a boy all my life ..and wasn't tough at all just acted that way ...To this day mom cannot say any positive things to me only criticism. I have zero sense of self worth. I put worth on how I make others feel ..good n bad ..bummer

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What y ou feel safe

My Dad wanted a boy and did not pay attention to me when i was a baby. Huge abandonment issues