@Tie Shoe he means just doing your own thing. focus on yourself. yeah that includes working, but it’s more than that. read some books, increase your knowledge, get some hobbies, overall just focus on yourself and forget ab the girls really

and if you wanna talk to a girl just go do it. like he said, talk to them. if you’re interested in them tell them that. if they say yes than great, if they say no, oh well. if you’re already friends with a girl you wanna date just do the same thing. go up to her and tell her you’re interested. if she says yes or no you alr know what to do

@Tie Shoe I work at Macys retail like you, and for almost after two years, I just got the courage to ask out a girl🤣 She ended up cancelling last minute but I'd say that its just kinda like a process, what helped me was saying hi to her or something very casual every time we bumped heads at work, that way I had her around my radar and mines on hers. After about two weeks I just threw the question up in there during our little convo and made it happen somewhat lol

Don't focus too much on those hotties at work, bruh, stay focus on your work, bruh, those hotties will eventually notice you that you're not focusing on them, thats when they will become curious about you, bruh, and will approach you to get to know you, bruh

Yeah, the more you don’t care, the more she’s intrigued. Like one day so a little more interest, then cut her off and focus up, and be unpredictable. It’s chess Just stop caring

Always facts

Yessir😄💪🏿

I'm a nice guy. Women only see me as their back up QB, ATM and the fallback from the guys she really want to smash. It one girl I like but I see I'm not getting the energy I want no matter how much I try. I'm not doing the no contact. I simply finally gave us. As of yesterday out of a whole month she hit me up "hey big head" "hey stranger" what should I do. I still like her but I know clearly she don't want me how I want her

@@lordbeerus5722 if shes not trying to take you seriously bro forget her & move on ..way to many women out her but make sure your handling your business out here #1

@@thelifeiliveoutabout3868 thank you. And by handling business meaning stacking up the money first? And it suck I fell for someone who have a lot of male friends and like to mess around. She not thinking about my feeling. While I'm here stressing to get her attention. Sure she still give me some but I feel it too keep me in line as her primary back up QB in case the real star fails

@@lordbeerus5722 Hnadling Business --meaning not only worry about money ,but making sure your mental ,physical,spiritual self is taking care number one .the hell with a women 1st off your health's #1 if you dont have that, how will you make it out here to begin with? Take walks keep your mind clear, remember to pray , watch what foods you put into your body , work out ,read. So many things to do in life besides putting much tiring energy towards someone hardly noticing you exist. Do what makes you happy #1

Me two bruh. I'm doing most of the reaching out, the checking, seeing if she's good, trying get her to talk to me when I don't even get the same energy back. It suck man. It f***** suck. She have a lot of guy friends she giving them the attention I want from her. Yet I do everything for her Sigh!!!!

@@lordbeerus5722 ghost her

@@lordbeerus5722 ong errything you said brother i’m goin thru the same shi. i’m finna cut her off. if you wanna talk about this shi sum more hmu bruh.

@@jpro747 exactly what i’m doin. she disrespected me too many times now.

@@lordbeerus5722 me too bro its sucks, we deserve someone that do all that plus she make shure of working together to become better people and better relationship, fuck all that other stuff, its so painful i get it, its better to learn about ourselves i think, learning about our traumas, attachment style, intrapersonal intelligence, meditate, take care of one self, doing all of that we do for other wishing we receive the minimum at least of that, do all that for yourself, you will start to have an identity fr, a sense of self, instead of a sense of dying for someone, serving, being submissive, and not sense of self, then with time and once you live that way people of all kinds will be around you, theres a lot of people around, u can always find a way to get what u want almost, and cultivate all that love u have for u and share it, but dont sacrifice it, fuck all that fuck that version of u, fuck her, and everyone that contamine that, cry a lot, tolerate and give yourself compassion so u can help urself, much love broski

Nah I’m a nerd got my own house I’m married and been on many holidays around the world.

Just stay on your grind man don't give to much attention to her .got to know balance give little attention then fall back also , dont make her think your world evolves around her (only)

Bruh, create a rotation of hotties you can choose from and stop focusing on one,

​@@thelifeiliveoutabout3868 I pretty much cut off all my selections and learned my from my mistakes a while ago

​@@oscargonza2748rare to only have a rotation of bad chicks bruhh

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Not true. And Kam never said ignore them. How are you supposed to get women if you never approach anyone. Approaching requires the very act of acknowledging someone’s existence. So how is that ignoring them? In summary what he meant is have boundaries and make them clear. Don’t make exceptions for anyone when it comes to your boundaries. Others will test you if you hold true to your boundaries. If they see a crack in your armor, they will see you as a joke because your not standing up to your morals. When was the last time you never acknowledged an existence of a girl you liked and she cold approached you? Or initiated most of the conversations? It’s not female nature to do this. Women are very shy by default unless they get to know you and fall in love with you. But in the initial stages you are the initiator.

​@@jonathanm9986nah dawg you gotta ignore dem but if you approachin den you askin to look like a creep unless da chick already like you. No real nigga gon approach cus we know its trash

self improve your looks

@@xx3mw fax get a skin routine work out and eat healthy you’ll have the best glow up

You not ugly just gotta self improve, have a skin routine and haircuts are key

​@@xx3mwnot foe women tho

​@@animeprince8361 if i gotta change my looks den hell naw

AND????? What was the fucking realization?

@@thedaggonator ever since i had my first crush when i was younger when she rejected me i went on this downward spiral for years of simping and trying to find "love" and thats why i keep getting rejected over and over i barely found this guy end of last year now im trying to change my life when it comes to dating, im in the middle of a pull back because i showed beta traits again

@@thedaggonator i get choosing signals but i always ruined it by being nice i now know you have to be assertive and confident about asking for sex

Wow man did you have gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend before. Dating apps hardly give me luck as most girls ghost me there and I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently and both rejected me. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and many of them ghosted me too and the other ones who chat with me just see me as a friend. Only one girl who is 20 is a bit flirty to me and we send each other virtual hugs and calls me cute.

Better den dating cus yk how females is

Seek mental help and turncoats

Shii all females like da man dey will never get 🤣

according to the Bible you should wait but ain't nobody doing that it's either they smash then get married or they don't at all

in my opinion its not really likely that u will but prolly do it only w girls that u want long term

its not practical to do so anymore, but avoid casual hookups

Nothing wrong with being nice u should be nice to begin with , but be wise & know if someone is only using you for what they want or not

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​@@Yourcommentisretardedbruhh look at you, str8 goofy

you turned gay cause you got no play?

So spit game to gay niggas then

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Lol