This happened to my Mum and older half sister in 1959 in Melbourne. They put a heat lamp on her vagina after she had Margaret Jane which burnt her. Then they drugged her and got her to sign the consent form or forged it as she has no memory of doing it either. My Father was going to marry Mum and bring MJ up as his own child but she was stolen. Mum searched endlessly to find her and was heartbroken every time MJ's birthday came around. Before she died she made us promise to continue to search for her. We finally did find her. She'd had a traumatic childhood till she was 4 years old in an orphanage (Of course Mum was told she'd be adopted by a good family). When she was adopted she said she had a terrible childhood and when we met her she was quite jealous and distraught that we had grown up with both parents that should have been hers. Two lives ruined, Mum's and hers.

You can find her. You just need the right help.

@Liselle If you contact adoption services in your state/territory, they can help you track them down.

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I went to the US to visit my son Jeffrey twice, he'd been adopted illegally into a white child baby scam. the first time I visited. I was given his alleged room, and he was made to sleep in the couples dirty basement in a big old hospital iron bed, the next time was in Lexington SC at his alleged partner Tiffany's trailer, the situation I walked into was so bad I had a breakdown on my return home. It was really really shocking. Every time I hear trump I think of my son, and others like him. They live in Mansfield Ohio now. Married soon after I left. But I feel that was to keep my son trapped. He wanted to take me to church when there but the gas was drained out of his car. I pray for him all the time. He's in his early forties now. I often wonder if I have grandchildren. I'll never know. Breaks my heart they'd be born into that hellish environment. 💕💔

Thank you for sharing 🙏

My wife and i where both put for adoption and we are white thankyou for what you have said it means the world to us

My mum lives in Queensland. She has been her whole life never understanding where she belong. She was lucky to meet her Mother but the lifetime mental damage had already been inflicted to both sadly. I have been trying to tell my mum that this needs to be talked about needs to be groups that women and men can meet and get some kind of understanding that none of us know how it felt to be in all your shoes. I’m trying to see if there is already such a thing because it was such a Hidden topic that never got discussed and the victims never got the help and the understanding that they should have. I hope you feel that you were loved by your parents. Sadly I think the pain runs that deep of being silenced and being told what to do the mental scars never heal.

​@@ambermelrose9462there are groups that Post Adoption Support Queensland run for both mothers and the adopted children

@ambermelrose9462 post adoption support Queensland run support groups for both mothers and adoptees.

Adoption- I was a test subject, put into a home where the parents were not able to conceive. In turn this prompted hormonal behaviour and stimulant for the female. It worked my stepmother became pregnant. I was basically dismissed after that . To this day is the same with them . I am No one to them just a pathway for their own children . I ran away from home at 15 . Life has always been a struggle . 💙

Same here Judy. Brisbane Mater Mothers 1972. My son found me as a 44 y/o man 3 years ago.

My heart is breaking . Love from me 💙

Can't believe this actually happened in a hospital

My heart breaks for you. Is that because they had to close adoption because my mum was lucky enough to find her mum but her mum was such a lovely lady but she was so beyond damaged mentally and emotionally that she sadly became very mentally unwell and then passed away. No one understood her. She’s always been told what to do and it’s just breaks my heart that I didn’t understand more than it affects generations after because that mother who had their baby Stolen is affected their adopted babies affected they don’t understand and feel this emptiness and void and unloved and then that gets passed down to the next generation and no one understands or get the help that they need or understanding that they need I hope you get to find your baby if there’s anyway that all of us can help please let us know. 🙏🏼

The medical people still can’t be trusted.

They would largely have been unmarried and underage girls and therefore they had no rights, their parents determined their fate. Sometimes they would of age but unmarried and religious and then religion and their parents would step in.

Society dictated Daniela. Though until Georgia Tann commodified the buying and selling of children, most adoptions were within the family. Between 1924 to 1950 Georgia Tann and the Tennessee Children's Home Society stole and sold an estimated 5,000 children ... especially white babies with blond hair and blue eyes. There has been a recent time child trafficker called Tara Lee currently awaiting trial and sentencing. Follow the money. :-(

@danielaayers3449 The reason why those "legalised kidnappings" were allowed to happen in the first place was because at the time, being a single mother was considered a blight on society; the unmarried mothers had "broken the rules" regarding motherhood and sexuality therefore they had to be "punished" by having their illegitimate children taken from them without their consent and without being informed of their legal rights. Just in case you're wondering, the young men who impregnated those girls/young women were NEVER EVER held accountable for their part in the pregnancy.

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Subconsciously while in the womb we are already doomed, We feel this and carry this all our life . No one wanted us ,this is what we felt . I can’t imagine what my mother went through. 😢 Maternal trauma. Emotional damage %💯

Sept 1967 here. I so much wish I had been adopted.

May I ask if your name was changed in any way that would make it difficult for family to find you?

She would have no information on you and possibly told you had died. Searching is very hard. You probably have more info than she does. Many were told never to look or think, she would have been threatened with being arrested for trying. Her baby ripped away and almost no one cared, not even you?

I was born in 1971 and adopted. I searched for my mother and found her. She didn’t have the mental capacity or the will to search for me. It was a pretty simple process and took only months to do. The big gain for me was to complete my narrative (what happened before I was born) rather than being the baby delivered by a stork. I don’t have a relationship with my birth mother, but in the end I was able to move on, mystery solved. Hope this helps.

It is so nice to hear . Thank you 🙏 faith in humanity’s heart

By forced foster care are you talking about when the baby is born having been exposed to drugs or in dangerous situations or sinister things like race, morality, poverty? I'm not being an ass I'm actually trying to have a conversation.

@@autumnmansfield1304 I think there are some cases for removal. However the UK has the highest rate of children being removed and many are not being removed due to dangerous circumstances. Many are being removed from perfectly adequate, loving and caring parents who get caught up in the system while trying to navigate support for their children. Many parents have to deal with false allegations. Social workers have high case-loads and make mistakes. They never admit them as the risk of losing their jobs is more important to them than the risk of placing a child in foster-care. Foster carers do a great job... they are never privy to the court process or the child's past. Babies are being removed when parent are struggling with complex issues that often are ill supported by support services. It's a complex subject and I think the current statistics are proving that too many children are being removed, yet we don't see better out comes for the children. The majority of care-leavers have mental health issues, anxiety and difficulties as a result of being in the care system. Babies being put up for long-term foster care and then a pathway to adoption is a lengthy process, however I am referring to children who are removed when parents struggle to get their children support they need, but once child is placed in care, the support is given and considered priority, thus leaving parents feeling angry that it has taken removal from their homes to get the child the support they needed. In the UK every 6 minutes a child is removed from a parent... often when the child has not been harmed, there is no evidence of harm, but within 6 months they can lose a child if a social worker targets the parent for removal... this is a dubious practice which has been going on for too long in the UK. Since the Baby P scandal, social workers have been taking many children through fear that if they don't, the child will be the next Baby P. I have seen this happen, the parent is often then left with severe PTSD which can lead to suicide. Kids who lose their parents to suicide live with life long unresolved questions, mental health issues and so on. What I am saying is that the social care has become an extremely profitable business and that agencies, judges, lawyers, social workers are all making a lot of money by placing children in care. The foster-carers are a means to an end. They are innocent, the child is innocent and very often, the parent is innocent. From what I can see many parents who take drugs, have alcohol problems and abuse their children often go under the radar, for they rarely seek help. It is the parents that get trapped while seeking support that are easy targets for removal.

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Catholicism

@@Pacdatty831 St Mary's was Anglican, not Catholic.

Anglican you’re right. It’s basically the same for the followers.

...isn't the forced adoption because of abusive parents now

@@soomiko No, this is misinformation to keep the public misinformed and pliable so as to not kick up about such an abhorrent attack on Families, if everyone learnt the reality of this and how vulnerable ALL Families are then the public would be up in arms and have been educating themselves about this and fighting with Families against this Abusive Corrupt ACT before they could pass it. I know as I am fighting for 4 of my Grandchildren who were STOLEN not to be FORCEFULLY ADOPTED WITHOUT CONSENT right now my meekest child TARGETED by a very CORRUPT SYSTEM!

Or just say No to being a thot.

Our only sin was to be single ... and pregnant. Don't believe the common misconception that we were whores and drug addicts. Most were not.

Are you human?

As a child of a single parent what terrible reality are you talking about, how women step up and raise their children in spite of not having support from the father or even in some cases their family or community at large, how they work long hard hours to feed and clothe their children to give them a roof over there head that terrible reality, or how until recently they were shunned and judged because there was no man around, why is it when a man is raising the kids alone is a hero or brave but a women is deemed unfit or unworthy.

@Rajan Ramid oi grew up in a single mother home and I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

How’s it no big deal