Agreed.

+Shanisha Graham And there's a difference be a "nice guy" and a guy with no personality.

Exactly! I find nice guys very attractive. However, I don't like a guy that's just going do any and everything I tell him to do. I want a guy who has a swag and is confident that does not have to mean he is a bad boy. I can deal with a nice guy but a corny guy not at all lol

Yesssss! speak on it! I can't stand a push over aka a weak man. Women like men that can take control and if you need to ask me every little thing along the way I can't help you. I don't like bad boys, but I definitely like a man. There is a difference.

+Shanisha Graham Exactly, can't stand a "yes man"...too weak

+adl15 lmao

+adl15 lmfaooo I was trying to figure out what she said! thank you!

I cracked up 😂😂😂😂

😂😂hahahaa tamar`

😂😂😂😂😂

Mean To Girls For hooking up they are. At least in my experience

@BruiseLeeRoy imagine if I had a fleshlight. Used it, rinsed it out then borrowed it to you. Would you use it? Now multiply that by 30 lmao

@Tasheri you know the feeling of getting pumped and dumped huh?🤣

@@aaronhunter9337 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🎯

They are not going to finish last once they know a head of time what the game is, and act accordingly. The mistake they make is thinking these women will come to their senses soon. No they do not come to their senses until no other man wants them anymore. FAT and OLD, or have a whole lot of kids by other men. Either way you are getting strewed. Get a passport save your money.

After their 30s women will take just about anything

Cagon415 Toxic masculinity doesn’t exist. The term was created to feminize mem

That's my point. They'll make up anything.

Cagon415 😧😢 is make me sad I want a nice guy is OK to be sensitive I know I will never get marry but I like nice guy because they more care so I like that

I’m genuine and assertive and I ain’t overly sensitive

It's all about their ego. To control men. The Dual Mating Strategy. They need the "nice guy" to be their fallback plan after their "fun". The Dual Mating Strategy is not working anymore. These females on this video have horrible taste in men.

You just spoke words of wisdom!! It’s a shame that none of these women are going to agree with you!

Women respond off emotion and they say things to what they feel in the moment - men are about logic and reason - that’s why men and women will always bump heads

Same with guys

Facts

😂

omg 😂😂😂

LMFAOOO

😩😩😂😂😂

+osimeon00 LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOO

StephIsCold🔥

Very true sometimes

Alpha fucks, beta bucks. They all settled on nice guys who'll commit, but they admit all the bad boys ran through that pussy first for free in their prime

And How would you know ?

@@denisheabates6922 AWALT

They're so arrogant they think that they guy that marries her is the real winner, even after she's been ran through.

Addam Smyth Seems they think marriage is the same huge prize to men as it is to women which is not the case. Marriage is pretty much the best thing a man can give a woman. On the contrary, youth, highest fertility, sexual loyalty (i.e. loyalty during her best years) are the best things women can give to a man. So if she can’t give you her best, why would you give her yours?

@@1st_b, that's exactly it. You're red pill knowledge will bode well in the future. Get as many of your brethren off the sicking ship as possible before it's too late.

We're not *insert label* However, go and do *describes exactly what the label means* This happens EVERYWHERE, not just dating.

Just like men have their “prime years” so do women but men get there later so women are dating men that don’t really love them and they waste their time trying to change the man and it doesn’t work. Just like how men have to stop being the ones “running through women” women also have to get her heart broken a few times to realize that it’s not true love they’ve been feeling with the wrong guys.

+na5 The way she said that made me laugh. The way she said "marijuana brownies" like a technical term for something really icky 😂

@na5 - and she’s a hell of a lot sexier than the rest of these hambeasts on the panel. Lonnie is straight up gross. You can tell she’s been used up by those “thugs” she’s more than willing to spread that Grand Canyon of a cooch open for.

na5 I love her for that! She’s reppin for me. I have a tendency to be a goody goodie 🤷🏽‍♀️

@Don K 🤦🏻‍♂️there’s a price tag on this is a understament

@Don K goated comment 🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻😭

Leonard Campbell Trust u are not missing much of anything. Not worth it !!

Dating costs money, it sucks

Arran Vid facts

oh boo hoo

Yesss I came here to say the same 😂

I tell

+Chik FromMtl HELLO!!!!

Probably lazy with it lol the lowkey ones will shock you

PREACH HUNTY PREACH

But most girls love thugs i dont get it

+Chik FromMtl speak the truth

Same!

Hes her only ex in my eyes lolol

+Kylie Sarpong Yeah i always think she's refering to Lenny and/or Rob

+Tislam Dennis hahahah omg you're right! However, when I think about her "EX" I only thing about Rob. For some reason, whenever she is referring to Lenny, she actually says his name or references him as her fiance

+Jermaine Jackson LOLLLL exactly

Modalsoul Na you’re right this is common women like excitement that’s all

Facts and women and girls are desperate for male attention these days because they weren’t getting it from their parents,their emotional needs weren’t fulfilled by their parents so they go out into the world and find that temporary sense of relief from the loser bad guys that won’t acknowledge how a woman’s feeling

THIS. Plenty of "nice guys" do shitty things from time to time and vice versa. The world is shades of grey

Right and Tamar's sister is dating Birdman. Oh the irony.

Just more proof that they'll always go back to the bad boys, so if she has a history of doing so avoid her like the plague.

@@Lorenzo3K Birdman?? lawl

Accurate

the best comment!

Stereotypical mostly from looking at them

+Awesome zebra I like your take on this subject. It's interesting when people label others, mentally or out loud, and then become devastated when they encounter the truth. It's better to let others reveal who they are completely then react accordingly, still without labeling. Just simply dealing. You get me?

Personally, I feel like your "reality" and "what society thinks" perspective is still what society thinks. People always assume bad boys are handsome, dark, mysterious and dropouts when maybe they do have an education and do have life goals. And people always say nice guys are weak, clingy, helpful, kind to strangers when really they might be kind yet be a dropout and have problems at home ect. So really, I think people aren't wrong to chose the "bad boy" it depends on how "bad" the guy really is. Maybe he's kind to his girl and defends her no matter what, or maybe he really is a jerk. Or the "nice guy" is just with his girl coz he has no other options or really loves her.

+Jazzy One Glad your cousin woke up and smelled the coffee, and didn't let it evaporate:-)

+TheRetroWoman80 I agree with you. That one was very lucky that she woke up before he left. Very very goid for her. The women who want 'thugs' in their lives are the same ones who end up complaining that they're being disrespected and stuff. In all honesty, we are designed with the need to be loved and treated with respect and anybody who believes in thug love is only lying to themselves.

Well Lilly, those "thug lovers" have a right to be about whatever they want to be about. But what you say about the NEED to be loved and respected.....you're talking real, right there. The amazing thing I keep learning is that many times the same folks who don't give us compassionate folks the pure, unadulterated love/respect we desire most are perhaps the ones who've never really had it in any area of their lives. And often, these people consistently gravitate toward connections which are based in everything that is the opposite of beauty. So it's their loss....until if and when they come around to truly appreciate what we tried to offer them. Get me?

+TheRetroWoman80 Absolutely! I totally get you. Also like you said, everyone has a right to be in love with whoever they want but that NEED will eventually come out and make them realize some things. I guess it's all a process to help people to appreciate when a good guy comes in to your life.

Life lessons, for sure.

And basically admitted that nice guys get thug left overs

take it from Chris Evans as captain america .how he stood up to thanos by himself like a boss and whooped his ass

Hallelluya

@A human being You being a nice guy may depend on what made you continue to behave in this way in the first place. Imagine being mistreated and disrespected, but you continue to be " nice" to women regardless of these experiences. You have the heart of an angel, I think this is an example of the best versions of ourselves and yet women have no respect for the version you speak of. As a nice guy I award their DISSRESPECT with indifference.

As woman that’s what I’m gonna do hope they can catch up

@A human being I agree with your assessment, I try avoid to generalization game. I fi d myself getting along with older women. Its typically them that inform me about female nature. You lose nothing by being honest

Lemrabott Smail : Boom! You can lose a lot of money chasing women, but you’ll never lose women by chasing money! Just remember to make them fill their own damned bags, because your money is YOUR money!

Truth. That is the truth

+Sherea Surratt-Robinson and a lot of women allow them too

PREACH PREACHER. TRUTH

AMEN!!!

DAMN!! YOU'RE SO RIGHT!

She got overcooked in the easy bake oven 😂😂

trmetzgar amen

Exactly, they never actually WANT the nice guy they just settle for him when she's gotten to a point (age, weight, emotional baggage, multiple kids, or all of the above) they just need help. The nice guy in the end doesnt get the quality of sex, amount of sex, or the respect she gave to the bad boy in her prime.

That Dude Say it bro👍

In other words. They want nice guys after the bad boys are all done with them. They're no longer able to get these thugs is when they look for mice guys/simps to take care of them and their baggage.

Yep that's what messed up Tupac in his early years. He went around writing love letters telling chicks how much he loved and was getting rejected. He only started getting laid when he became a thug.

That is the definition of crazy doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results

Lol facts

Jerrold Rolle this topic requires carefully parsed words because the difference between one statement and the next might seem minute, but it actually is two different things. “Bad” and “good” are relative terms. Women, like myself, don’t want a guy without a backbone. Even men don’t want that - if you look at your relationships that failed, part of it was probably with women who had no respect for themselves. Women want a man who is a little unpredictable to keep them on their toes, strong and masculine, but is hell bent on defending them. Nothing is more embarrassing, than being with a man that gets punked out and disrespected by another man. It makes a woman feel like she has to step into a masculine role and defend herself because she doesn’t believe her man has the capacity to protect her. Bad boys have a tendency of taking it a little too far and hurting the heart and soul of the woman they are with, but that’s the difference in a nutshell. I was with a guy who was so nice that when I would make a joke about him, it would hurt his feelings and he would say I was being mean. Joking and bantering for me is a form of mental stimulation and since I couldn’t have that with him without hurting his feelings, it got boring really fast. Women are no more crazier than men. It’s easy to label a certain group of people crazy when you don’t understand them, but if you look within yourself, you may discover similar tendencies. Opposites attract. Men want a nice girl (with a backbone) and women want a guy who can stand up for them (which is typical of a man who is more aggressive or “meaner”).

They get mad when we call 'em crazy 🤪

Not all women though ...

+Dee M LMFAOO

IM DECEASED

+Dee M HAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAG

Took me clean out 😩😩😩

😭😭😭😭😭😭💀

Nah. These young women nowadays have criminal record as a “check the box” requirement for a boyfriend. That along with: Minimum of 4 tattoos Has at least 3 kids with 3 different baby momma- none of which he’s paying child support for Is still looking for a job that be a “best fit” for him Can’t get a credit card or cell phone in his own name Has filed for bankruptcy at least twice Lives with his Mommy who also does his laundry and cooks all his meals As long as the “project boyfriend” looks good in some jeans and can throw some good dick at em, they can work with the rest of the flaws.

@mia /// - I’m anything but bitter. I’m married to an incredible woman. I’m just pointing out the idiocy in women. They hook up with these losers and then become man haters.

aeromedical67 how in gods earth are you married with that mouth?

@Valeriy Keller - 28 years and counting. My wife appreciates a good man, unlike some of these nitwits on the panel. That hambeast (aka Loni Love ) is just gross. She probably visits the local County lockup and bails out enough thugs to pull a train in her.

aeromedical67 black women you mean

Future single mother with 5 children

Girl please.

@@juanmanuelvalles5066 LOL and you were right: she's a single mother now 🤣

Agreed.

+Lisa Conrad there actually really good friends though, there always all over each others instagram

Don't know what's wrong tamar. She's nut

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 so true

+Bellaizzle taking pics doesn't mean they really good friends 😕

complete lack of self awareness

Facts🔴

Everyone chooses their spouse as the last option. Da heck?? Which one do you want them to be the middle?

You are only the nice guy if you date a women over 25+ thats been in relationships, get with a girl straight out of college at 21/22

Yes because everyone meets a perfect person when they are 18, get married at 21 and have kids at 25 and live happily ever after....the end. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

😂😂😂😂😂😆

This is the best comment on the subject!

+V Love-Williams YES ma'am 💯

W

VERY TRUE!

True 💯

So true

Bo Majesty You are ryt

Boom

@@menudo2381 i dont get it can you explain

Single mothers wouldn't be single mothers if they had nice guys in the first place :\

Amen

You're a good girl❤️❤️❤️

Queen

Smart woman. I hope y'all be doing well.

Don't take him for granted. Women have it backwards. -Bad boys manipulate women to get sex, temporary. *Takes* -Nice guys work extra hard to get sex, committed. *Earns*

I really want to understand women's definition for " treating her right " because from what i've seen that could mean many things like not agreeing to everything she says and pick up some fights now and then so she doesn't get bored from you .

Chuck Master damn Chuck

Bruh...you said the truth..best comment on here truueee

Yeah. I'm not that guy. I'm in my 30's and you know how many women with kids be trying to talk to me. Uhhh NO! I ain't raising your kids. Sorry.

Hit the nail on the head.......

Redpill truth

+LovelyVibesXO Yes! I think that's why I'm so cautious with them tbh~

Yeah be weary

yyaasss girl o my gosh 😂😂

yessssirrrrr

Lmfao so true!

It wouldn't matter because they get thrown in the friendzone instantly as ego boosters.

@@NNWillieProject From what I have seen and experienced, I agree

SlideRulePirate Facts

@Thelondonbadger it depends on how you approach it. If you go out and try to demand that women change for you, yea good luck with buddy. But if it's indirect, as in you won't accept less than what you want and anyone else can take a hike, and it's not super unreasonable given who you are, that's just having standards and we all agree that that's healthy.

Ramone, that was interesting.

@@DeCurtaRican 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

Facts!!!

This is the reason most girls who are from unstable families which are most today's girl are fall in this catagory.

Very truthful words

Truth aff ..most bad boys are more arrogant than confident..

Dre` Qoutes` My Notes this is sooo true

Appreciate your honesty

finally someone who says the truth.

Damn, you said a mouthful!!!!!!!!

That’s so stupid lol but okay

Still stupid asl

You let 5 random celebrities influence you? That might be the real reason you’re single.

Unless you just want friendship...

👏👏👏👏

+Smyth gal yessssss!!!!!

They mention those type of guys too here

agreed #Deception101

you bettah preach!

Exactly!

lmaooo u crazy

lol that was so much fun

+Beinglively hahahaha truth

+Beinglively lol right. Find a good guy but bring out his inner naughtiness. haha

***** LOL exactly and in that order!

+MRZ QUINTIN gurl nah you cant give a guy swag, if its not in him he cant get it. Thats why girls go after the bad thug ones in the first place, 'cause they wanna make em good and create the naughty god guy...😂

+Evin Celik Yeahhh I agree, we can't change them unless you want their phony personality.

FACTS

Preach my brother

True

There's many nice guys out there who are desperate and will sleep with them.

Why is the nice guy still single after all that time tho? 👀

Bruh never listen to what a woman says about this type of thing it’s like being a fisherman and asking a fish how to catch fish just ask another fisherman

dragon360ful1 I see you’re a man of culture. I too enjoy the words of Black Phillip

@ 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I like fat women.

That’s just ego and insecurities talking. With women like that it’s just one ear and out the other.

Heinrich Himmler Giving Head

And Adrienne's is "ABSOLUTELY!"

+Yasmine Xo drives me crazy! 😩😭

Except they get the cheeks, y'all stay messing with them you aint fooling nobody anymore

@@DTreatz only temporarily. in the long term the nice guys always get the heart of a woman.

@@stevejohnson130 Yeah, must be a real prize, getting a woman who is run through with someones else kids. Your just an ATM to her at that point, and 'heart' doesn't have a damn thing to do with it B.

@@DTreatz projecting much? that's your personal issue man. I don't deal with those kind of woman. Anyway, what's that's got To do with being a nice guy? There's plenty of good women around. Only a dam fool will choose such women! Being cynical ain't gonna get you anywhere.

@@stevejohnson130 Wrong, being cynical will get you further than being naive, my dude they're _literally_ saying it in the video, and no it's not a personal issue, because it's coming from the *data* . It's women's nature, it's as impersonal as it get's. Do you really wanna bet you livelihood on it? By all means it's your choice.

Ruined and desecration.

No. What we need to do regarding man/woman relationships is get our mentality right. Stop encouraging women to whore around. Stop lifting up cardi b as a role model. Ahhh f it. It'll never happen. It ain't even worth addressing anymore.

Yes!

+immi's snow globe I had to sit on that for a minute. It made me think about some things. Thanks for posting this.

wow! very true

immi's snow globe yeah sure.

EXACTLY. They need me on this panel

+dj_oldskool men do that too.

+dj_oldskool Amen brother! Some women be dangerous!

Cassandra Muzik A real man wouldn't do that period ( at least I won't)

dj_oldskool unlike women, men usually can't tell if they are chasing a Bad Girl because most women are very good at playing the "Good Girl" character. These women give false hope, lure Good men in and by the time these nice guys find out it's too late because they have fallen for the Bad girl. Now when it comes to Bad boys, women know what they are getting from the get go, yet still go for these type of guys. I'm pretty sure most good men would've dodge a bad girl if she wasn't pretending to be a saint in the beginning.

***** As a woman, I agree with most of what you're saying EXCEPT the part about Bad boys. Men fool women too. It happens ALL the time. They also give false hope and pretend to love the girl just to get what they want, all the while just stringing her along. There are some dangerous women out there I'd agree, but the reverse also happens.

"most valuable years" and "leftovers"?! Women are not a piece of meat, and you are objectifying them. Methinks that's why you're having issues, your sexist attitude.

@@maiaespinosa8594 and guys aren't a financial ATM. You want marriage? Than save your body for the guy you're going to marry, we don't want sluts.

Richard Tate whoa calm down there nice guy

@@nanibruh9992 thanks for being emotionally supportive there guy but I'm good thanks.

So you’re a virgin as well?

Savage but have truth to it😂😂

Thas completely false

The bad boys don’t work for the nice guys. I’ve fired more bad boys than I can count. They do stupid things and win stupid prizes. One of my friends growing up was the bad boy, he got the lazy dumb girls. Won child support payments and lives with his mom and he’s 52 now. I retired at 49. House was paid off, a solid 7 figures in investments. Travel when and where I want. Never married, I learned the game young.

They ain't hiring no more

Uce28 dude bad boys become rockstars and nice guys get married to a single mother

Agreed!

AMAN.✋ *see what I did there* lol

Yess. 🙌🏾

amen amen

amen !!

+Lavi Nia true or you say no to him

Lore Ah bitch who don't get mad dumbass

Lore Ah 🖕🏽😎 what you can do is take your fake ass some where else

Lore Ah I know what ur saying girl n ain't it the TRUTH! That really does matter !.

@@Mr.11_Oracle 😂😂😂😂😂

#MonkeyDoubleBackflips 😂

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So they want Evel Knievel?

It’s the scarcity of narcissistic supply which keeps them looped in a cycle.

Praise God 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

Halleluhhh won't he do it!

It's to make up for all the bad videos they posted today

A Real, Manly Man. Gotcha. Respect.

Always. No exceptions.

And California doesn’t have the smartest kind of people anyway because it’s more about money,self appearance,trendy clothes,flashy cars,big mansions in the hills ,you catch my drift

Exactly!

+Kendra Anderson Glad she did! lol She said, "I love mine!" Go Jeannie

Goshi Imran Lol right!

MsFlipflopsandsocks Lol exactly she staying true to her man

She actually asked Loni the thug question not Jeannie

J Brown oh ok it seemed like she was talking to jeannie

Sometimes women don’t want to keep messaging back and forth and would rather make plans to meet.

Bro you need to travel and meet women of other cultures. Realize how much they respect men and take care of their men. Women here really do not value niceness and gentlemen, whereas in Africa or south America or even most of Asia they truly respect and take care of their men.

@@veronicam2159 Exactly!

They were probably waiting for you to make plans to meet and yiu never did so they left.

@@veronicam2159 or they ran out of vocabulary!

theres no such thing as friedship

🙌🙌

I was just wishing they had a tutorial for it lol

I said the same thing

And Jeannie

@Mike Smith, exactly! They laugh and joke about this but don't realize this the fastest route to single motherhood.

Oof, you guys need some help if you think, women are just at fault for being cheated on.

Yevette Ankah women are the issue to a lot of relationship issues we can’t ignore it anymore we can’t act men are the issue all the time and call them out but every time we say a issue that women have we gotta ignore it why wouldn’t women be the cause it’s definitely not men we not having sex with them

Nate Hall If someone decided to cheat and ruin the relationship it was there decision to do so. It’s a really immature thing to do. There are other ways to express that you aren’t feeling the relationship besides lying and making it seem like it’s okay. That’s not the woman fault. You cannot collectively say it’s women with the issue. That’s a huge generalization. Men just need to express themselves better than just going and cheating, that doesn’t solve anything. You’re not aware of the issues in your relationship if you’re being lied to, thus you can’t do anything to fix it. There’s a lot that goes into cheating. It cannot simply be the blame of one person especially if their not the one doing the betrayal. But then again they are men out there that just simply like to cheat. That’s who they are and is no fault of the woman. Some men just have that character flaw. Others don’t. Cheating is just not that simple.

Yevette Ankah your right some men are insecure but that still doesn’t change my argument just because I make a statement saying why men cheat more it doesn’t mean I’m blaming women or I’m justifying why it’s right than men cheat more I’m just saying this is why for example I was cheated on I don’t think that was right for her to cheat on me but it is up to me to realize could I have done better or was she just to insecure we can’t ignore the issues that we see and not use them to are advantage there is a reason for everything people love to ask why men cheat but when u ask them what made them cheat we don’t wanna hear answer bc all we gonna say is well that’s not right we all do things that’s not right we all know it’s immature to cheat but let’s look for other reasons also

I don't understand why ppl take single person's advice for their relationship problems.

threw all that shade 😂😂😂

Jst_beautiful Me lol girl sometime you just place folks under a big old shady tree!

+Danielle DeFreitas 😂😂 I feel you

Yeah but just because you realize you have bills to pay doesnt take away from the fact that you natually desire bad boys. Don't lead those nice men on relationships just so you can get bored and cheat on him with the thugs you desire. You are attracted to what you like. And if you natually like the alpha thug then go get him. Leave the nice guys alone. They will find happiness with someone who really desires their boring qualities.

Now this

Yes, when they are old and the bad boys dont want em no more lol. And with one two kids too.

MGTOW

Byee good luck lol

@@shooklizard9039 lol u trolling all through the comment section..

It's good that men are talking about solutions, I don't like these kind of topics, unless men are giving young cats a solution to this problem. Without the solutions, it's just whining because these women are not changing their ways.

Louis Davis DRATS 😒😒😞😞

right because women love drama

My gf once told me this. I told her “I can start sleeping with other women, to bring more life into our relationship” she didn’t say a word.

@@justshady Hahaha. I won't forget to use this 😂.

TheEmpressDominique woah. You crazy

Pretty much. Thank-you!

That advice won't get you an African-American woman---but, as you have figured out from this video, you probably don't want one, anyway. (Maybe there are decent ones, but distinguishing them from the rest is difficult if not impossible.)

live for Jesus facts

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+MRZ QUINTIN Great advice. Too bad most don't want to wait. It's just gotta be in the next 6 seconds or never for many people, lol. Smh.

TheRetroWoman80 lol right. sadly people lack patience.

MRZ QUINTIN life is too short to wait around for the "Good Girl" if that even exist.

***** and your proof of someone lacking patience. This could be a case of letting bad experiences determine how you look at things (excuse me for reading into this. I'm taking psychology ha) just try try till you succeed. God has someone for everyone. There are lots of us good girls out there. Just gotta to do some looking.

***** Key word: "appear." I hear you all the way.

yeaaa

Yesssssssssssss omgoodnesss I said the same thing. poor thang

😂😂😂😂😂😂

Right

+Aja Giselle She's single because she wants to be single...