Independent Women Are Regretting Picking Careers Over Keeping A Man

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8 At The Table

Ай бұрын

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@Antoine-fr5xi Ай бұрын

If I was ricco I would get my own talk show, let them women do them.

@szn1580 Ай бұрын

Facts man. They stuck in their ways and misled. Sad

@ralphbryant8178 Ай бұрын

I agree. He’s wrong by default

@ddavis8988 Ай бұрын

"I dont like generalizing" then proceeds to generalize. Do people hear themsleves when they talk?

@amac23557 Ай бұрын

Exactly

@amac23557 Ай бұрын

Typical

@510t-mac Ай бұрын

I’m happy 😃 I wasn’t the only person ☝️ that noticed/ seen this in 5kkkk smh 🤦🏾‍♂️ your comment at the time was like 2nd in the comment section. And I’m happy I didn’t need to search 🔍 for it…. She love to hear 👂🏽 herself talk and say 🗣️ nothing

@taylorgordon4920 Ай бұрын

Y’all gotta stop with pookie and ray ray shit that’s not real reality with us dudes in hood chicks love us niggaz from the hood because we ain’t chasing them that’s why they keep coming back to us but with the names y’all gotta stop this lame ass shit

@IlllIlllIlllIlll Ай бұрын

They forgot to mention how they are also picking hookup in their 20s and pookiii and rayray lol

@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Ай бұрын

they love those dudes

@szn1580 Ай бұрын

Facts man

@IlllIlllIlllIlll Ай бұрын

I am putting my time and money into myself. I'll be a remote worker in 2-3 yrs. I won't be stuck dating in NYC anymore. Better late than never

@RM-uk4xq Ай бұрын

Do you want to solve a problem or win the argument? Rico wants to solve a problem. The women just want to win the argument.

@gamanima1 Ай бұрын

From what I hear on all these pods is that we don’t have basic life skills. Everyone is rich no one wants to work towards a goal together. To much social media influence is leading to unsustainable relationships.

@tae-4319 Ай бұрын

It’s getting hard to watch 8 bc every episode literally every episode Rico is apparently wrong when he’s pointing out shi Thas clear I feel his co workers just be in denial and it’s more women than men in the room so it’s easy to gang up on him when they feel attacked

@vsmith3rd Ай бұрын

That just means his argument is weak... which it is. You can tell by the way he filibusters because he isn't a strong communicator.

@user-xg3hd7pe3c Ай бұрын

Yea gotta have more than one man or at least 3 men damn near, not to overpower an argument but to get the different perspectives that give understanding

@szn1580 Ай бұрын

Women are emotional and group thinkers. Local wording through the emotional funnel first

@5thnametry Ай бұрын

Women always hate being compared to mothers but don't realize that "protect me, pay for me, talk to me nice, tolerate my tantrums cuz I'm emotional" is the same protection we give children. So you want us to be your dads

@danielanderson668 Ай бұрын

He is talking about the same thing. The girls on this panel just like to move the goal posts

@abbyjackson5639 Ай бұрын

Oh yeah, women ain't takin accountability for not one God damn thing

@justhim3335 Ай бұрын

BW never want to hear the point 🤦🏾‍♂️ anymore hey just listen to be combative

@amac23557 Ай бұрын

Correct

@510t-mac Ай бұрын

They don’t (listen 👂🏽) but a woman will

@510t-mac Ай бұрын

I would change the BW Black Woman to FM Females. They are two 2️⃣ different ppl

@szn1580 Ай бұрын

Facts

@Luke973T Ай бұрын

@szn1580 that's women period in America. I see the same exact delusion when it's yt men and women in these discussions.

@DNice403 Ай бұрын

What Rice said made perfect sense to men...

@johnhenry5071 Ай бұрын

This ladies lack listening skills and discipline

@nsearchofself1980 Ай бұрын

The first blond woman never stopped and asked herself why there weren’t “any” men around “all” of the women in her family 🤔

@macjr2001 Ай бұрын

A mother who had government assistance didn’t do it all on her own.

@ralphbryant8178 Ай бұрын

I believe it’s important to have these mothers and fathers to talk about how they became a single parent

@leemajorsherod1 Ай бұрын

Having the excuse of not being taught or seeing an example is ludicrous. Your mind has the ability to learn. History, logic, reasoning, and the understanding of human development are the keys to knowledge. But most people's minds are clouded by emotions and narrow mindedness. They only see what is in front of them .

@keyturn23 Ай бұрын

Rico, I don’t know how you have the patience to keep fighting the fight on this channel, but props to you for hanging in there for so long. You continually remain calm and patient while trying to explain mens POVs, that seem to fall on the deaf ears of most of the female panel members. To you sir I Salute 🫡

@ShortsEntertaimentTV Ай бұрын

My mother always told me that most not all women are like children.They don't listen to understand they only listen to respond. She also said the biggest lie woman have been told is that they deserve a man There were raised to be entitled to a man which is so wrong. Everything in life that you want you have to work for Is no one deserves anything.

@Micosboo Ай бұрын

Mad respect to Rico, women are actually sitting on a panel with a logical, reasonable man and their ability to LISTEN is downright foolish.

@earljackson1483 Ай бұрын

Nothing is wrong with women getting careers traveling and living life but there should be a balance of also taking the time to know what type of man she FITS for and to know what a qualified man even looks like all while becoming a better version of yourself so when she's ready for a relationship she knows what to look for and she qualifies for what she's looking for

@jas1565 Ай бұрын

I would actually say a woman building her career, travelling and living life does help women figure out what kind of man she wants, bettering herself and understanding herself. Also, the whole idea of women having to be qualified for a certain type of men or in order to expect certain qualities or traits is nonsense.

@earljackson1483 Ай бұрын

@@jas1565 What u mean by qualifying is basically being in alignment with what she wants which takes qualification based off the energy she's putting out and her attributes to attract a specific style of man

@jas1565 Ай бұрын

@@earljackson1483ehhh, I think people, especially men, often tell women that they have to be a specific way to attract a specific man when I think that's far from true. For instance, telling women if they're too successful, men won't want them when there are plenty of career women in thriving relationships with equally, or more, successful men.

@earljackson1483 Ай бұрын

@@jas1565 I believe in like attracts like laws of the universe on top of what's the fairness or satisfaction in putting out what you're not receiving back and not ALL women with careers but ALOT of them come with a smart mouth I don't need you attitude none agreeable masculine and competitive those are the type of career women men are talking about we don't want that

@gamanima1 Ай бұрын

I’m tired of this BS when it comes to relationships. Taught or not observation should make you clean and take out the garbage if your mother did it or your father did it. As far as bills go no one has to see another give money to know you should help if you live together. If I live with a woman it’s automatic that I’m helping.

@Riverss14 Ай бұрын

I think the main point is adults should do all the adult things, career travel etc… however when a worthy mate comes up, is the person willing to sacrifice certain things to form a union before God in their relationship. And I think at that point is where some people continue to put themselves first instead of the relationship. Appreciate the conversation and as it happens more, people will be less defensive and more understanding. Less finger pointing. More accountability. Much success to all.

@jzurita6186 Ай бұрын

4:16 she said "idk if that programming for women.....i think its how we are raised" THATS THE SAME SHIT. When youre being raised to think a certain way, you are being programmed 😂😂

@sean81 Ай бұрын

These women are not listenting to contribute and add, they like most women, are just lstening to respond and oppose and try to discredit what Rico is saying...

@DAUGHTERofSARAH23 Ай бұрын

The interviewer is well spoken and has great poise.

@YaHeemStar Ай бұрын

Hundo spitting that knowledge & the women "hate" to make sense of it, so they start neglecting & trying to confuse his point he was making!! Typical modern feminist women behavior

@mrperryman1 Ай бұрын

Rico was cooking! They just missed the meal...

@earlsylvan1294 Ай бұрын

Rico definitely getting paid well to keep up with this

@TweetsyCk Ай бұрын

He’s seems so intense! Maybe passionate is the better word. I’d love to hear his real life examples to help clarify his points bc it’s giving dating trauma (which we all have). Though, I love the statement about his self awareness & that the people we’re around help shape our views. Be around the right type of people to get the right type of influence. We just have to be careful not to depend on that alone bc people end up in the “relationship goals” thought trap. Interesting points 🤔💭

@moorishprincebey2839 Ай бұрын

Rico I applaud your willingness to try to reason with people who I believe wholeheartedly understands the points you’re making, but in defense of there gender and ego will not agree on anything that you demonstrate. For example, the point that was made by the young lady about only seeing women during her upbringing; I could only think to myself why is it that these women were single and having to carry the load alone in the first place? Which actually supports your point that women are led to be single and independent. And for the other argument, having two or one parent has no bearing on the qualities a son or daughter gathers from either parent, even if they only had one. I was just flabbergasted when I heard her try to make that a big deal in regards to the point you where trying to make. Keep up the good fight my brother, I only watch to see how the women respond to the logic you present that I’m sure the majority of heterosexual men agree with. However, I love my sister and wouldn’t switch sides at all 🤣. I just know how to move with them.

@angelotorres4936 Ай бұрын

I’ve noticed in most podcasts, the man is dropping gems of wisdom and knowledge while the women continue to listen to argue and play victim . We gotta stop giving women like this, the time of day, stop wasting your time and energy and let them be “strong, independent, women” all by themselves. WE NEED EACH OTHER POINT BLANK. If you disagree then stay single! Its really that simple! Rico pointed out the fact that he was raised in a single parent household and realized it wasn’t good and made the wise decision to be around people who were raised in the family unit to learn what he needed to be a man for his woman and for his child. He saw the problem and solved it, the woman saw the problem and victimized herself and played the blame game…smdh..and I don't wanna hear, “but its the men’s fault for hurting her and breaking her heart”. When are ya gonna learn you’re lesson and stop ignoring the red flags because you want a certain type of man physically and financially but his mental and emotional intelligence doesn't match what you need?? And this goes for the men as well who continue to ignore the red flags of certain type of women.

@vincewill11 Ай бұрын

I wonder did i sound like this in my 30's our future is in jeopardy.

@jzurita6186 Ай бұрын

3:32 you cant call your mom super independent if she received state assistance for living lol. That just means we ALL helper her through taxes OR your dad through child support

@kareemabdulwahhab6919 Ай бұрын

The problem is that having these discussions as a man, it’s like watching those television shows with someone has to go on jury duty, and they show reluctance at the start of the episode, and towards the end you see why. Where in the episode, they’ll have a plethora of evidence to show the episode should end quickly in terms of them being in court, yet there’s always one or two people who do not care about how much evidence they see, because they’re not in it to send that person to jail. They’re in it to spread chaos and confusion. Which is what a lot of women do, it’s why they get called agents of chaos. They’re smart enough to know, that there’s no specific answer that any man can give, nor is there a specific question that any man can ask them that they will use as proof to validate the discussion on a man’s side. It’s just them talking in circles. Which is pointless.

@Geeeromeable Ай бұрын

German shepherds do what that do. Shout out Minister Jab

@outlawthomas44 Ай бұрын

That chick is unbearable to talk to

@jarvisjohnson5553 Ай бұрын

The women on this show got all the answers but not teaching the younger women that can be y’all kids the right way to do things .

@danjenkins2064 Ай бұрын

Damn, I hate to admit it, but the women were right today. If a girl grows up with only her single mother, all she knows to be is masculine, controlling, and independent.

@blackblack3836 Ай бұрын

What part do men play in why women are so independent ?

@owensdouthittv8769 Ай бұрын

They watch to many Tyler perry movies

@lordinfamous2049 Ай бұрын

God is in his Holy Temple

@qrcgamez5279 Ай бұрын

Worst podcast ever let the man speak! Ladies stop chat foolishness‼️

@Richardson_Mg Ай бұрын

We have the states ! You can start from 1990

@KXNGY3RO Ай бұрын

The dialogue was cool but the title doesn’t fit to me.

@frankmatthews6966 Ай бұрын

How bout not date people that will leave u if u get pregnant?...

@blkingson_747 Ай бұрын

Men need to leave these women alone and focus on building the infrastructure for a better community. Work on coming together economically and intellectually to start businesses and financial institutions. These women will always be there.