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As an empath, when your partner flirts, gives attention or has sex with others, you can feel all of it even though you do not have any evidence to accuse them, the energy is just all around them. It just drains you with endless anxiety, sadness and feelings of self loathing which over time lead to depression and low self-esteem, you always know....

I’ve always felt this to be true. People are so casual about sex and think you are not sexual if you are not. You can be a deeply sexual being and still choose not to sleep around.

That’s why I permanently got off the dating apps. Got tired of men trying to bully me into having sex without any build up, or connection. I love sex but I genuinely feel that sex is a gift from me. I love it. It’s one of my favorite ways to reveal myself. I don’t want to cheapen that experience. And the apps were so destructive to my spirit in so many ways. I feel better now

I have been bullied for staying clean and not sleeping around. This is exactly why I do it. Why I am the happiest person. It works ladies!!! Don’t mix your energies 😍

I knew this ever since I was a young girl. Not sure how I knew but I just did. I had a relationship with my boyfriend for years and he was sleeping around and I didn’t know but I could feel it every time he touch me . I felt an energy I couldn’t understand. I would be angry during sex for no reasons. everything I try to accomplish something around him he would just Ruin it , it’s like taking 3 steps backwards. As I got older and with Tremendous trauma my prayer life increased. I started noticing that when he’s not around I’m happy and flourishing . I am still praying for a full release in Jesus name.

Actually the signs are clear but we choose to ignore them because like she said they put on an appearance but on the inside they are rotten to the core. Signs like narcissism, machiavellianism & psychopathy are reflections of a dark inner core. You give someone enough time during dating and those personality traits rise to surface especially when they don't get what they want. It's important to not only see when they get angry (which is key) but also how they react with regards to sympathy and empathy. Just don't give into the grand emotional delusion. If you ask me the human race has been hijacked by something sinister and now is not the time to be promiscuous.

This is the reason why there is a very high rate of depression, addiction and even suicide in fields like porn and prostitution where sex is the actual occupation!

This is very true. I laid down with a toxic guy back in 2015 who had alot of emotional issues and traumas. And I ended up feeling how "lost and confused" he was. I remember feeling like I wanted to die and I had nothing going for myself. But I never felt this way prior to messing with him. So it's true, you become ONE flesh with whoever you lay with.

Grandmother, who will be 96 tomorrow always said, "everyone you sleep with, you are giving them a part of your soul". She is right. Beware, ladies and gentlemen!

I read an article titled “sexually transmitted demons”. I must say that’s a real thing because it happened to me. Through that horrible situation and experience, I learned how truly sacred sex is. I’m on my fourth year of abstinence. I will go to my grave staying absent if I must. My soul is worth it. The flesh is nothing but a lie. Great video! Thank you! God bless!

She ain’t lying. I just went through this and as of now I’m staying away from sex until I’m fully cleansed spiritually, mentally, and emotionally. I’m gonna be careful that I don’t get caught up in this mess again nor pass on bad vibes/energy to someone else.

If someone showed me this video 2-3 years ago, I would have laughed off what she was saying. Why? Because I was sleeping casually with boyfriends and I didn't want to believe this...but it is absolutely true. Sex is the most vulnerable physical, emotional, and spiritual act you can do with someone and it is an energetic exchange. I always felt so low after having sex with these loser guys. It's like the act would pull you down to their hellish level. Sex without commitment is so, so harmful. Not even to mention STDs and pregnancy - that's a whole other concern.

She’s speaking spiritual facts. I’ve been abstaining 6 years, I’m always happier when I do (this isn’t the first time I’ve abstain). You literally take your power back. 💙🖤

This isn't limited to sexual experience, boundaries are important in every aspect.

Very true. Whenever I'm in any sexual relationship. I feel sad and depressed but whenever I'm out of that relationship I regain myself. I feel much happier, both physical and mentally. No wonder GOD said we should abstain from sexual sins.

This is VERY true!! When I got with my youngest daughter's father, I had my own apartment, my own car, a good job etc. etc, but a few months after dating him, I lost my apartment, I lost my car AND I ended up having to let my job go because we moved to another state (to get a fresh start from everything that was happening). 🥺🥺😥😢 I had NEVER been in a place so LOW in my life.....had I known THEN, what I know NOW, I would have "proceeded with caution" with him because it felt like my life went from "sugar to shi× overnight. 😔🥺 When we started dating, he didn't have himself together AT ALL (he didn't have a car, he didn't have his own place) & everything that he was going through was transferred right over to me (spiritually/energetically) so I became everything that he was/wasn't. I should have known better than to mess with a guy that didn't have anything going for himself, BUT (there's always a but), we had known each other since we were 16 (we started dating at 32), we went to high school together, he was a good/loyal/honest guy that treated women well etc. etc. so it was almost like I couldn't help myself. 😕😕 We stayed together for 10 years (I left him in 2020, the relationship became stagnant & everything that was needed to maintain a relationship was GONE), we had a lot of fun, we did a lot of things etc. etc, BUT it taught me a valuable lesson....be VERY mindful of who you are intimate with because that person can/will destroy you if their energy/frequency is bad/low. 🤔🤔 I became a Reiki healer in 2019 & I think that once I became more conscious & I started vibrating on a higher frequency, the feelings that I had for him changed. I knew that he wasn't going to do anything to better the relationship & I wasn't going to do anything to better it either because I was ready to leave so that's when I decided to go. I stayed by myself for 3 years (just me & my 2 girls) so that I could HEAL from the relationship & in January 2023, the Universe sent me the man that I've been waiting for (he's like minded, he doesn't smoke/drink, he doesn't eat meat, he has 2 cars, his own house, his own business etc. etc.) & we've been going STRONG for the past 5 months. I knew that my patience would pay off, I feel like one of the luckiest women on the planet for having such a GREAT man by my side......I'M GRATEFUL!! 😊😊🤗🤗

So glad to be in the sacred space of abstinence for a few years now. I've learned my lesson. Thankfully no diseases, no pregnancy, no abortions. But the pain cycles those situations left me in weren't worth it. I'd rather have my peace of mind and unadulterated connection with God. My time will come when the Higher Up ordains it.

Nothing but pure facts! As a woman we're carriers. When we have sex with a man. We intake everything that's attached to them rather it's depression, karma, or happiness. It's a soul tie! I've been practicing abstinence for 4 years now. I can't allow myself to be attached to anything. When I choose a man I literally must watch, look, and pray. I need to see his behaviors, actions, and reactions. I've been attached to an unclean spirit before and it's hard as hell to get rid of it. Sex is powerful with the right appointed person. I'm not taking any chances.

Oh sister, I love you!! I'm 45, not married yet, but never had sex with a man before, because I have always believed that sexual intercouse only belongs in a marriage! I'm in love with a man right now and God showed me three years ago, that he's the man I'm going to marry. I have never felt embarrassed to still be a virgin. Actually, both men and women have applauded me, that I'm still a virgin at this age.

My parents taught me this at a very young age nearly word for word. Be careful with who your spirit mixed with. Sex is a scared powerful act, so much so that it's the only act that pulls a spirit from heaven to form a human.

“When people have multiple partners to others they appear happy physically but in reality, mentally they are a mess” Speaking from my own experience. When I was younger, I used to do things because I thought it was “normal” and everybody else was doing it too.. After a very negative encounter with a man one night I felt so dirty and sad. And so ashamed of myself. I just slept with that messy guy… why? For what reason? Was I so desperate at my young age to sleep with anybody regardless how that person made me feel? How that person treated my body? I swore to myself I would never ever in my life sleep with a person who doesn’t have love for me, who doesn’t love me for me. And whom I loved too. 1 year after that I met my husband, we’ve been married for 9 years now. Everything really starts with a decision. Now I feel every sexual experience before him was useless. Know your worth 💕

we absorb trauma, emotions and intelligence from other's field of energy.

This is so true. The last time I was with someone they drained me. I quickly got into an accident, lost money and got into deep debt. They literally stole my luck. It's taken years to do some recovery financial wise.

So true. It's no joke. Sex exposes you to so much of the person's energy. I'm currently trying to rebalance myself after being with someone that has a lot of emotional and unresolved issues that they haven't addressed.

My best friend died by suicide in January. Her husband was physically, emotionally & mentally abusive towards her. The week she passed I tried telling her to stop sleeping with him. She told me I didn't understand as I'm not married. But I've always felt that sleeping with a man who cheats, hits you & swears at you will surely drain your energy & finish your self worth ... I wish she was still here, to learn, to grow, to raise her sons, to live 💔😓

Soo true ♥️ my mother (may she Rest In Peace) has been telling me this since I was a young girl. She told me, “when you have sex with a person-you’re having sex with every person that person has sex with because it’s a spiritual portal. People don’t want to believe because they want to be like a dog who returns to its own vomit. When you know better, you do better. Peace and Blessings. 🙏🏽✨♥️

As a divorcée, I can attest that marrying the wrong person, can not only be chaotic to one’s life, but completely ruin it.

I approve of this message, I've been celibate for the last 4 1/2 years. Best decision ever.

She is 100000 percent right on everything! We needed to learn this when we were very young, the world probably would be in a happier place.

I approve this message... Abstinent for 10yrs, got my peace back, untethered some soul ties.

I'm celibate for 2yrs. Men basically make me sick. Not wasting my precious energy on any of them. Staying asexual, happy & wrinkle free.

This is why it is also important to know your partner's family and ancestral history😮 You do not know what spiritual blessings/ curses they carry on so always take your time in relationships. This was such a learning for me in my early adulthood.

I'm a college student and being around so many people of the opposite sex almost had me forgetting about this fundamental principle. Thank you for bringing me back🙏🏿

She is 10000% !!! I’ve experienced that with my ex. Trust me, I left him. Since I got with him so much turmoil and anxiety. When I left him, I had so much peace. My suggestion is take sea salt bath 🛁 or get someone to mix a bath mix for you to remove negativity. Especially if you’re a Empath like myself. We absorb energy easily.

My ex-best friend slept with the wrong men and she ended up becoming schizophrenic. Smh. When I slept with the wrong men, I started failing at everything in life and I'm still here picking up the pieces. I've been celibate now for over 2yrs, my PH balance has returned to normal, my grades are up, and things are getting better for me slowly but I'm not gonna lie, it's hard remaining celibate.

I experienced this with my daughter's father. After he and I broke up I went into a dark place for a long time. That soul tie I created with him almost caused me to lose my mind. I went on a deep healing and discovered that he and I both hade unhealed trauma. But he went on and didn't care. However with me being an empath I had to cleanse spiritually and emotionally. And when I went through the change I became much more focused and I understood why I accepted what I accepted. Now I'm in a new relationship and spiritually it's peaceful and loving.

AMEN!! I was 14 years celibate, this person chased me for 3+ years, I finally dated, got engaged in less than six months only to discover WRONG PERSON, GOD gave me TWO dreams , I didn't ignore the dreams, just thought I could make a difference, pay CLOSE ATTENTION to your Dreams, both Dreams have come to past 🙏🏾

It’s so beautiful seeing all these black goddesses in the comments practicing celibacy/abstinence. I thought I was the only one. It was rare. Now I feel so happy to see so many on the same spiritual path. I refuse to be sexual with anyone until it’s divine timing with my divine partner 🥰

This is why I am remaining celibate until the other partner I chose is healed, cleansed, intune with himself, emotionally mature and sent by the most high! Scary things out here in the world...

Queen is telling the truth. I had a situationship with an older guy and when I tell you I was drained, depressed, & felt many energies I could not explain. When I finally Ghosted him, It was literally a huge weight off my mind, body, spirit & soul. A year later we spoke and my entire womanhood felt like it jumped at his voice. At that moment I knew I needed every aspect of him off of me spiritually.

I'm Christian and thanks God I always knew this. I remember when one day the wife of a pastor was preaching about sex with random people. She said "having sex with random people or with someone who sleeps with others people can give you not only STD, but can also open the door for demons in your life. I never forget that!

I learnt this in my late 40s. Spread the word, people perish because of lack of knowledge.👍🏾

Hence why I'm still virgin at the age of 24 n tbh I have no regrets 😊

Don’t cast your pearls before swine. Know your worth. Protect your sacred being.

I knew this but I never thought so deep that we take on another’s ancestral lineage. Wow that’s deep.

THIS 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 A great reminder for me to stay a virgin until I (hopefully) get married. I don't want to carry any of that baggage into a relationship. I was raised in church so I was always told to wait. I thought I was missing out but then saw how much emotional pain and drama my friends went through who had various sexual partners. I had peace.

Believe her it's not a joke. My life is spiritually dead thanks to the ppl I let in to my l life now I'm playing hell to clean ppls energy and karmic baggage out my life.

I love her analogy with the soda fountain. That is so true. I've always hated entertaining more than one person at a time. You just invest so much energy, that to mix spirits like that causes chaos in your mind.

I embraced abstinence and my life changed immediately for the better. I enjoyed more personal peace, avoided drama, focused more in work, significantly increased my income and accomplished so much. Connecting outside of a committed relationship, or any other unhealthy/unbalanced unequally yoked situation is NOT WORTH IT.

Soul ties are broken in the name of Jesus.thank you Lord .I went through this she is telling the truth 🙏.

I've always felt I've given myself away with my ex partners, and not in a good way. Unfortunately it's taken me over 30 partners later to realize this was something sacred and special meant for someone who shared the same values I do.

This is SOOOO true & something I’ve always known except I never spoke it as eloquently as Ms. Hurlock! Since my early 20’s, I have always been one to take years of celibacy when I felt the need. I, too have been in relationships that were not good for me nor to me….., thus the need to take as much time as I needed to recover, reconstruct & grow from a relationship that never should have happened in the first place! Never one to be afraid to seek my alone time, enjoying the peace & tranquility of reclaiming my energy and making it stronger and more vibrant than ever! Not selfish, but love, love, LOVE me some ME, and am so grateful that every experience has indeed brought knowledge so that I can see almost right away when someone is NOT for me. I know without a shadow of a doubt that I am not the woman for just any man, and am ready, willing and able to sit in the knowledge that I’ll KNOW him when I see him….., whenever that is! Oh yes! Peace & Blessings to you all!

Sexual desire starts from the thoughts and emotions...if you manage yourself in a certain way, the desire will be zero.

This message is needed‼️Have you ever had sex with a narcissist (a real life demon)? You loose everything good around you including you spirit. Karma is real, you have now experienced the karma that was meant for the narcissist. If I were you, Cut-off sex and communication immediately

I agree with everything but minimizing.. Marrying is the answer! It doesn’t get purer then practicing self-control till u meet someone like-minded, same morals, knowledgeable, ready to commit, good role model/leader if male, etc.

Please girls, this is as true as truth can be. Be mindful of your hearts, of your body. Your body is your first home, having access to your body is having access to your whole being. Very few people are deserving of that, please be mindful. I wish all the best and that god can lead the path of your life for you! ❤

True words ✨ Only the spiritually inclined people understand this ancestral language☀️ thank you ma'a 💫

This is so true! As a gay guy, I was never interested in the ‘hook up’ culture. I know hook up culture exists in the heterosexual world too. It just seems so soulless and disconnected, more geared towards validation rather than a genuine connection. I’ve had so many people telling me to “get on apps” but it’s not what I’m after or what resonates with me, it never has.

My mom actually shared this awesome video with me! ❤️ She’s always sending me little gems 💎 I’m 21 and have never had a boyfriend ( I share my story on my channel) and this video here has also been so instrumental to my journey. The words spoken here hit my soul a certain way.. I’m listening ❤️ Thank you for teaching us! Aloha 🤙🏾 from Hawai’i 🧘🏽‍♀️🌸🫖🪄

Honoring and respecting your body keeps you away from promiscuity. My virgin cousin got married to a promiscuous guy. Her husband still engaging in licentious lifestyle in their marriage. Years later my cousin got sick of unknown disease and died.😢😢😢

Thank you. Your body is sacred, your soul is sacred, energy changes during sex and soul ties are real.

I always say that sex is the 1 act that literally join man and woman together to make 1 so it should not just be a casual thing and must be taken seriously.

I love hearing the knowledge she speaks. For quite some time, my peers have seen me as obscure because I was never the type to have multiple partners because I was always subconsciously protecting my energy. Now that i've stumbled across this channel, my decisions and make more sense to me. Thank you so much for sharing the content that is shared on this channel. It is indeed greatly appreciated.

This is facts! I love this knowledge. I have been abstinent for 1.5 years and I will remain abstinent until marriage. I had an experience with a narcissist and it drained me to my core. I never believed in soul ties until I had sex and experienced it for myself. After I had sex for the first time, I changed and not in a good way. I picked up on his emotions and my peace had seemed to vanish. As an empath, I could intuitively tell when he would be intimate with others or give his attention to others. I felt disgusted when he would touch me and often times ended up crying after intimacy. It was painful but through the experience I learned how sacred my temple is and how sacred sexual energy is. Also the dualistic nature of such a powerful potent force of energy. I am excited to continue my journey until marriage. Life is finally peaceful again. And I refuse to exchange my peace again for the simple purpose of getting off. “Peace is not the highest goal in life. It is the most fundamental requirement” - Sadhguru

This energetic dynamic happened to me. Prior to being with said person, I was making $240K and my career was flourishing. I was happy and full of energy. After our relationship, I became unemployed, had fights with friends, etc. My life was ruined in a matter of a few months.

This is something that was instilled in me as a child from my Caribbean grandparents and my Southern mother. Truth in every word.

I've been abstinent for years too. I'm so much happier, my mind, body and spirit are so much more calmer and peaceful than ever. I can stay this way forever and be very content and happy with my life.

DEEP. AND men laugh at me when I tell them I'm single. I'm just tired of people not realizing how serious messing with people energy. That's how a lot of people get killed when the ready to leave or cheat on that person. That's why I'm just tryna give my energy to the Most High

“keep yourself pure. pure as possible.”-

Mark 10:8 kjv And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.” The word of God never fails.

This is so very true, I came to that realization a little late in life. But, it's never too late to take your POWER back, like someone in the comments said. When you sleep with too many partner's their spirit gets mixed with the ones that was before and that's where a lot of conflicts get started. Thanks for showing this, it is very TRUE.

Finally someone expressing in words what I've experienced several years already. Thank you! 🙏❤️

This is why The Holy Creator instructs His children to be “equally yolked”. Well said lady!

Sexual intimacy is the easiest way to exchange or siphon energy!!!! She is so dead on point with this. People thought I was crazy when I would say this. I'm so glad that when I learned how important this was I applied it to my life and will continue to do so. Guard your peace and energy at all costs peeps we are worth it!💯💯👊🌟💖 AND the rewards are so much better than that 12 seconds of so called pleasure😁😁😁

I'm glad to see that someone has the courage to speak about these subjects.

So beautifully put. Thank you for speaking truth🙏 our young folks need to hear this over and over again. I pray for our youth both female and male. They need guidance.😇

Yup I ain't been right since. Sex would make me physically sick to my stomach my head would hurt and my energy would be the thoughts of just feeling like I was dirty with this individual. Having sex with the WRONG person for me has made the act just seem so deplorable.

Finally someone put this into words so perfectly. Thank you.

These are truths that I learned from my mom and grandma and will pass on to my daughters.

Great information! Thanks for sharing! Yes. Sex is much more than physical pleasure, it is a spiritual act.

I remember in my teens a male teacher of mine told us in class never have sex as if it's wearing everyday cloth, Sex is something far more deeper than the physical pleasure we get as a quick pay off, sex is more of a spiritual interaction between two souls, a sought of dialogue that only u and partner can have alone and understand, both urslefs interlinked, but sleeping around can actually disrupt ur inner spiritual core and can be used for sinister purpose, what this lady said is very much right.

You don't know just how profoundly this video has affected me. I had worked this out myself through very great pain, but I couldn't articulate it beyond 'it's a tie on the spiritual level.' I could not quantify it. But you put it all into words for me. It's a sacred tie and an exchange of Karmic energy! I'm amazed. Thank you for this knowledge, I feel blessed today. God bless!

This lady is very intuitive. I agree 100% with her ❤️

I've known this for years. Exactly why I don't play that cheating stuff. Or rebound junk. I stopped association with some energies because they mix with unstable energy and its transferred to me. I want no parts of it.

So true. These negative energies are evil spirits around the individuals. Be careful who you yoke with, become friends or take what belongs to another person. Friendships as well as intimate relationships need to be sanctified in Christ in mind body and soul otherwise you’ll have problems. You don’t want a Cain and Abel situation.

This is exactly why I'm abstinant now. I don't want anymore of the wrong ties. It's very empowering. I have slowly gained back what I was losing giving away...joining with energy and spirit I wasn't meant for

These videos are so calming. I'd like to imagine this subject matter being mainstream as opposed to the typical garbage we see on the regular.

I’m going into my fifth month of abstinence. Admittedly, it’s difficult, and I am STILL fighting off soul ties. If I would have known that a few minutes of pleasure would leave my spirit in shackles, I would have never engaged! I like so much better who I am Becoming, but my healing journey remains far from over. My last long term relationship nearly ended my life… and like the speaker said, no one would have EVER suspected the pain I was enduring because I looked perfectly healthy on the outside. I had a thriving career, business, money, a good social circle, travels… physical health… anyone who knew me would have told you I was the coolest person, but behind closed doors, I was sleeping with the devil (naively). Even after the relationship ended, the energy didn’t. I continued to meet the same type of person although the toxicity/poisonous nature gradually became more apparent with each subsequent person. The mental anguish/noise/confusion consumed me until what was almost the very end. Energy is not to be played with. We MUST be careful who we allow in.

Wow. The analogy she used with the kid and the soda really opened my eyes. Anything you mix with a lot of different things loses it’s pureness. It does not matter what it is. I’d love to just sit down with her and just listen all day to her teaching on spiritual and physical health for hours.

This this this!!! I’ve been celibate for a year now (my third time around) and have noticed that I still have someone’s energy attached to me even after all this time. As divine feminine, we are indeed receivers which allows us to be susceptible to the energy, spirits, character traits, thought patterns, behaviors, habits and karmic debt of those we have physical/sexual energy exchanges with, that become attached to us for as long as it takes for us to notice and do the very necessary shadow work to rectify it. I realize I have much more work to do (chord cutting, cutting soul ties, and soul contracts etc.) to enter the next level of my healing journey. Thank you for this word and that of everyone else’s journey on here! Sending you all healing energy throughout your journeys. Message received Sista Paula Give thanks🙏🏽 Asè

I can testify to this revelation. I have decided to wait until the right person comes in my life..🙏

This is so true, I abstained for 5 years and just got married last December. It was worth the wait 🙏🏽 Also to anyone else that’s abstained would you say it made you more sensitive / discerning to people spiritually? I found I was. I’d either get dreams of insight or warning to leave certain people alone early into knowing them or made aware that they had demons with them and those demons didn’t like me lol

I agree with all of this but the guilt of having made these soul ties is not worth it either. If you slip up. Forgive yourself say positive affirmations and have faith in the process that those ties will be broken.

Agree and have learned this 100%, we need to teach our daughters this more than we teach them anything else.

i listened and i’m taking it into consideration , im only in my 20s and i don’t want bad energy from multiple partners

This is true. My soul still walks with my ex. I can feel him energetically and most my exes know when I’m going through it. The minute I’m happy they feel and they come in the numbers 🤣 they know because it’s the bond. I don’t have time. I’m saving mine energy for God.

My life has been on hold it seems for years and when I look back I had people that were fighting real demons family problems etc. I thought I was getting away from them and that was it. My life is in chaos at 52 and although I didn’t have many people they did. I use to say don’t judge but for your life you better. I was doing good and when they came along my life fell apart all 3 times and I spent years with these people draining my energy brought me down and it’s funny this pops up and I was just at work thinking that every time they entered I was on the high part of my life and they brought me down and then looked at me like what happen to you. Whoa…

Now i know why God hasnt sent anyone into my life, he wants me safe & im really happy i gave my life to Jesus ❤

Great video. You can tell this woman lives what she speaks. She has an extraordinary level of calm and pure energy. Thank you for this channel. Keep being you, Paula.