INFIDELITY SERIES: Before an Affair Happens

INFIDELITY SERIES: Before an Affair Happens - Esther Perel

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9 жыл бұрын

On March 19, 2015 Esther Perel delivered a TEDTalk about affairs. This series is an expansion of that talk, to dive deeper into a few areas of conversation.
Comments welcomed below.
For more relational resources, visit estherperel.com.
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* Filmed and edited by Nora Tennessen, New York, NY
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@barbarapaz3722 4 жыл бұрын

“We live in an age where we feel entitled to pursue our desires” ....how powerful and deep this is. It’s also a cause of many other problems in today’s world way beyond infidelity

@joseph7858 2 жыл бұрын

very well said: „that was a wonderful temptation, but: no thank you!“. This is the essence. Thank you.

@TheNeverposts 6 жыл бұрын

she really is quite good... her thoughts are very clearly worked out

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@tayoibrahim7053 4 жыл бұрын

Esther, you are amazing. You are so gifted in the use of word. You are on point. Thank you.

@jdcharlie Жыл бұрын

"We live in am age where we feel entitled to pursue our desires" translates to SELFISHNESS.

@henriqueanton3024 4 жыл бұрын

Wow! I’m lost for words.

@Iam_ramankaur Жыл бұрын

Loved this ❤ more such videos please

@eelise 9 жыл бұрын

I wonder if this is too simplistic of an answer. There are many reasons one gets married- there are many reasons one wants to be with other people sexually. I would say this is a good answer for a marriage where both partners are very much invested in keeping the marriage together. So many people I know- they are only half interested in keeping the marriage intact and working well. Just a few thoughts.

@NinjaPrimeProductions 3 жыл бұрын

We now live in a culture of Me and self-fulfilment, the idea of trust fidelity loyalty has become a byword for the past, values that no longer apply in this progressive and free world! You only have to look at what this world has become because of this and the decline in morality, the increase in divorce and the decline of the family and all the values associated with it. There will be a reckoning, things can only become worse before they can get better!

@sk8nchill52 Жыл бұрын

I’ll take “things you’ll never hear in a church for 2,000”, Alex!

@CatsAreNiceMeow Жыл бұрын

What do you think of a man you’re dating who actively talks to a few ex’s when they don’t share children together?

@celiaescalante Жыл бұрын

Just keep talking to him about your things together with love.

@ekaterinasanxhaku357 4 жыл бұрын

How to deal with infidelity !

@thomasuwewichmann4398 Жыл бұрын

Dann soll die Person zu dem gehen mit dem sie die Affäre hat und dann mit dem eine Beziehung führen, mal sehen wie lange das gut geht? Und der wieder eine Affäre mit einer anderen hat. Ich bin zu alt für diese Kinderspiele.

@toneman335 6 жыл бұрын

How about all the females that are sex addicts?

@RosasResources Жыл бұрын

Control your flesh find your purpose in life full your empty wounds and hold on to God.

@EmpressLori1111 3 ай бұрын

She almost always talks about females betraying their husbands. Yet, we know almost twice as many husbands cheat, than wives. It makes me think that the couples who seek help and can be repaired are those where the man is betrayed. But when the man is the betrayer, they resist going for help, resist talking about their affair and are almost certain to cheat again.