I am a woman who may or may not be an infj. I wanted to coment on something you said..." Weman no longer know their place." I agree with this, and this is why.....because of our ability to take on all personalities we have this primal need to pick up where the males lack. To fill in all the gaps. To be mom, friend, daughter, maid, ceo, secretary, therapist, teacher and dr and so on and so. I feel because of so many single parents or house holds where the males take on traditional father roles go to work come home play ball mindset it leaves a lot of the grey area of life needing to be filled. The males rolls haven't evolved. If they are providing income and playing ball then they feel as though they have done their job, ( not all but most) because that's how they saw there fathers. Weman have evolved. We no longer have a standard to go by. A mold to strive to fit. I have found myself asking a partner what roll they wish to be so that I may conform to who I need to be to make life flow as smoothy as our parents life appeared. It seems that the roll i inevitably find myself playing is superwoman. We do not know where our place is because our place is everywhere we are needed and anywhere we choose. I apologise for misspelling and punctuation.

I am a 64 year old grandmother. As a child, people would say to me: "You wear your heart on your sleeve. Stop being so sensitive." I saw the world differently. I wrote my 1st poem at age 7. I cry at movies like "Imatation of Life." I cannot watch horror movies. I cry when other very sentimental movies get to the sad parts. I took the MBTI three (3 times). First time, in law school. I was typed as an INTJ. I can mask as an INTJ, but I know, now, I am an INFJ. I was very angry in life. I decided, "Okay. You don't want my feminine energy. Here. Take my masculine energy." Marty, I believe you have not fully healed from your abuse as a child. I am so sorry you went through that. No if's, or's or but's. I also believe the female "carries" energy. However, it takes the sperm to "spark" (energy) life. "Why" the Creator made it this way, I do not know. But, I truly believe the "Spark" is very important. The "spark" and the "carrier" are both important. 💕❤️

I love you Marty and you can take it to the bank brother LOL seriously you are so on the money I just love how you have been intensely deeply explaining what we go through on a daily I think you're doing a marvelous job!!!... And I really love and respect your intenseness!!! Man we're getting somewhere here!!!.. you are on fire!!!.. David G

With all due respect, I don't believe you have a clue what you're talking about. I am not identifying as an INFJ because I am desperately seeking a label of some kind. And society did not make me the way I am. I was never like anyone else. Even as a very young child I knew I didn't act or think or behave like anyone else. I am the complete opposite of my sister and mother and all of my aunts and grandmothers. I have spent my whole life going against the grain and refusing to follow the crowd. I have never been able to go along with the lies that other people tell and I don't hesitate to tell the truth even though I know that the truth is not what people want to hear. I'm not desperately trying to label myself as an INFJ. As a matter of fact, I personally think being an INFJ is a burden. People might incorrectly label themselves INFJ because INFJ people are good people whether they want to be or not. It's not a choice. It is what it is. But even the people that hate me generally respect me because they know that I'm not a liar and I am a good person. So other people may wish to be that way and incorrectly labeled themselves that way because maybe they would like the rest of the world to believe that that's the kind of person they are. I don't know. But 90% of the crap you said doesn't even make any sense. And believe me I've considered all aspects of everything that you said trying to make sense of it. But it's nonsense. And people should realize by now that being an infj is not something that is an easy thing to be. Because we don't fit in and we piss everybody off all the time. If I was able to just follow the crowd things would be a lot easier in my life. This is not a choice and it's not something that society has pushed me into being. Because first of all nobody pushes me into being anything or doing anything . But there are some things that are impossible to change about yourself if you are a true infj. I'm just flabbergasted at the things that you've said. And I would like nothing better than to be able to blame the way I am on society. But it's impossible because I was Born this Way. And also, you contradict yourself a lot. You don't even seem like you're convinced of the crap that you're saying. No offense but it kind of seems to me and like you are just putting thoughts and ideas out there but you don't really have a clue how to form an honest opinion about anything because you are constantly contradicting yourself. And judging by the things that you said, you don't seem to have a tiny little bit of respect for women. You act like you do but then you turn around and say a bunch of stuff that makes it really clear that you don't respect women. And you come across as someone who seems to think that you are far more Superior and better than everybody else. And I have tried and tried and tried to watch this and see every angle to try to make some sense of this. I feel like the "INFJ" women that are taking you seriously are the ones who are self labeling and desperately looking for a label. I honestly don't care about the label. I am who I am whether I like it or not. I am who I am whether you or anyone else likes it or not. I personally couldn't care less what you or anyone else in the world labels me. I am not living my life the way I'm living it to make anyone else happy, including myself. I am who I am. Label or not. I don't give a shit one way or the other about the label or whether or not people see me as an infj.

My therapist gave me a test (INFJ), and it brought me here to explore. I am 41, and my mother had no mothering instincts. I learned the importance of being a mother and nurturing from my Vavo. I take pride in being a good and loving mom. I met my husband at 24 and had our 1st of 3 at 27. I have always felt out of place in my youth and then being a woman wanting to be with my children and making a home today. I am the granddaughter of an Azorean immigrant I believe a big part of American society has taken woman's natural role and has distorted it.

I'm an INFJ. A humanitarian, empath, intuitive and counsellor/hypnotherapist. But I think all that needs to be done on me, if only I could trust someone to do it. I also feel being abandoned by my mother at birth created a large part of my personality profile. Love has always been elusive, as has trust for people. Being a strong lone wolf outsider may be seen as cool but it's a safety response. Mate, get to the point. If you know true INFJs you would know we hate small talk.

I changed my mind. After thinking about this I realized I am going to have a difficult time going forward with trying to understand your perspective here. I AM going to watch the rest. I need to actually, to give myself the opportunity to at least try to understand… But first you must know why it will be difficult for me. I stopped at the "Do you remember" part because to be frank… I don't Marty. I remember very little of my childhood, and what I DO remember is anything but pleasant. I was rejected in the womb friend, and you don't have to believe me, but I am going to tell you I FELT that rejection and that is exactly where the rejection began in my life. A while ago I made a comment about my first ex destroying 16 years of hard spiritual inner child work in four months…. These are a few of the things I had to work through… Being rejected in the womb. My mother actually complained TO ME in my 20's ABOUT ME being so little when I was born she HAD to breast feed me.. . 🤦‍♀️ Being severely neglected throughout my entire childhood. Being raped at the age of 5. Being told at the age of 9 that my father never loved me and wanted my mom to have an abortion when he found out she was pregnant with me… By my mom. 😳 Severe bullying from my peers all throughout school. Not being taught how to do anything for myself as a child. Two examples: It took me til I was 22 yrs old to finally realize I should probably wash my feet when I showered… 👍 And I had a random lady teach me how to do laundry at the laundromat when I was 19 and had moved out, because I walked in, saw all those people and machines I had no clue how to work, teared up and was about to walk out when a stranger came and helped me. I was not taught how to do laundry because I was told by my mom and step dad I would break the machines if I tried to use them. 👍No one in my family has ever really given two hoots about me. My grandparents hated me, which my grandpa made abundantly clear by complaining about me in the next room every time we went to visit. I have been married twice, but honestly never had the opportunity to "be" a wife, and I couldn't have children, so I will never understand how it even feels to BE a mom or a grandma, let alone to be "mothered". There has been as much healing in all of those relationships as there can be at this point. My healing that is, not theirs, because they just don't seem to care. 🤷‍♀️ About a year or so ago I walked away from everyone. And I mean EVERYONE. I have not one friend in the world at this point. I still speak with my mother a few times a month, but have not spoken to my brother for the better part of 11 years since he destroyed my integrity with our father right before he passed away so he could get the majority of the inheritance. As it turns out… My father was pretty wealthy… 😳 I had no clue about that though because I only started to get to know him six years before he passed away, and I didn't care about the money. My brother could have had it all. He stole the only thing I can never get back.. My mom is also declining at this point… More signs of dementia every time I see her, and my brother and sister are both working overtime right now to throw me under the bus with her before she becomes too incompetent to change her will.👍 And to be honest Marty, I am far too exhausted at this point in life to try to fight to keep my integrity with someone who has never been able to see it anyway… 🤷‍♀️ I can't explain all the reasons I walked away from the entire world, but I can tell you the childhood trauma pales in comparison to the trauma I have suffered as an adult. Enough that I invested six years of my life into trying to drink myself to death, and failed… Obviously… 🤷‍♀️ I shouldn't be here. I shouldn't be writing this post. I shouldn't exist. But after six years of continuously growing worse misery, physical and emotional, I finally gave up on dying at least. 🤷‍♀️ Didn't try too hard to start living again though either… 🤔 Just muddled through several years still secretly hoping to die, while my body has just continued repairing the immense damage of 312 fifths of whiskey in two years after four years of beer and whiskey… 😳 After my ex and his girlfriend moved away and I had disconnected from every aspect of social life other than KZfaq, and losing my job due to covid, I got in a funk for a while… I went from "Meh… I'm still here" when I woke up every morning to, "Ok… This shit sucks. Can I PLEASE be done now?! Dear God, why am I EVEN HERE… GAAAAH!" And I resumed sitting around waiting to die for about six months… 🤷‍♀️ Can ya tell I'm stubborn? 😬 So THEN about five months ago, I really DID FINALLY give up on dying for real this time… Or so I thought… 🤣 And decided if I was going to be here I guess I ought to find a reason to get out of bed in the morning at least… So I got me a job. 😁 Scooping horse shit. 👍 Why? Well I like horses way better than people. Always have… They are much kinder and more understanding. 🤷‍♀️ And you know, I sincerely thought this job WAS going to kill me for a quick minute. Boy did it feel like it at first. Which is probably what got me hopeful again… 🤦‍♀️ Malnourished, literally sat around for six months straight eating less than a 500 calories a day, 4'10" tall, weighed 95 lbs when I started. I was hoping physical work would help trigger my appetite, and it has, but not enough. I burn WAY more calories than I eat every day. I have gotten up to 1500 a day now though. 👍 Last I checked I weighed 82 lbs. Pretty sure I have lost some more. Yet… And get this man… I can lift and carry 50 lb bags of grain and bales of hay. OVER half my body weight… 😳 One day one of my coworkers said to me, "Man… You are defying the laws of physics or some shit with THAT." 🤣 So, I have NOW officially given up on dying. Seriously this time. I am a walking impossibility. Even if everyone in the world chooses to deny that, I CAN'T. I don't get that luxury. I am LIVING it. 🤷‍♀️ And I am just trying to keep my mind occupied until something changes. So, INFJ or not, is really not all together too influential on "who" I am as a person. It means nothing to my self esteem or self worth. I am just ME. It's not our personality type that makes us who we are. It's our experiences and how we filter those into our current life situations. Which is good news, because that means we can switch filters when we find a faulty one… Meaning turn something that was negative into something positive. Which is all I have left that I can do at this point. Take a lifetime that has had far more bad days than good ones and find a way to keep whatever IS left of it positive, and doing things I enjoy. 🐎

I LOVE Frank James haha. I've been following him since the beginning, but you're absolutely right in that, it's so much easier for the INFJ male to find a place as compared to the INFJ female. Because we do have the capability to be intuitive in almost any of the personalities, it's indecisive when we're told not to trust in that natural ability or conform to something else. We love these INFJ males because they are a bit more sure in themselves, but the INFJ females that I follow tend to be even more self reflective and questioning than their counterparts. There's a lot of reasons for that you probably make a whole series on actually, and women love these types of discussions. I think you have something special here!

I get it but why are you so dramatic

Wow, this was very enlightening to listen to, thank you 🙏🏽⚡️

thank you for sharing your incredibly beautiful, vulnerable side with us and keeping everything so raw. i’m deeply sorry about the pain that remains in your heart from suffering abuse. but how fucking amazing is it that we get to be blessed enough to hear you share your story and your intellect. you’ve touched countless hearts with this video. thank you sir

Your energy is palpable.. the deep and very intense desire to translate to us what you pick up straight from the blue skies is felt ... You don't want us to loose a single grain .... Of understanding. That can liberate....

Message received. Much appreciated Marty. I innerstand why this was difficult for you to deliver.

Okay that was quite a lead up! Im getting ready to watch and i gota say you've peaked my interest. (Took the test twice, just in- case.) Thank you for making this. Here we go..

One of your best video till now... It's brilliantly explained, beautifully presented.. 👏👌❤️

This is so helpful video I have ever seen. Thank you for changing my thinking about my upcoming future.... 🙏Love from India

When I watch your videos, I am always thinking about how out there you are and then eventually it all comes together. I grew up in a religious abusive family and I’ve always have found holes and contradictions in them. I am spiritual, but I follow my own intuition to determine what’s right and what’s wrong. As a child no one protected me and both genders were abusive to me. I never experienced the love of a man or a woman as a child. I do not like violence, but I would protect children, women from men, and my baby brothers with everything I have in me, and I promise I will either succeed or die trying and have zero remorse. I know this is a year old video, but I’m thankful to have found it.

Respect = honour. The minute you said hurt my child my brain went offffff. And yes my brain has gone masculine because society is forcing me to, my relationship is forcing me to. It’s thee worst it affects your health in a negative way.

Everything keeps aligning .. I was in a spiritual rabbit hole learning about indigos because I found out I was one then got side tracked by personality and started obsessing about being an INFJ and now you connected it back to spirituality this is all so interesting.

The only thing i can say is that i love this channel and that you're extraordinary and i'm very grateful for what you do Keep up the good work

Thank you for such an honest explanation if the INFJ Female and dive into reality. I am an "INFJ" female in her 50s. This all rings true. Thank you for your insights. Was very much moved . About mothers protecting their children, I remember my mother standing in between a wolf who was going after myself or my little brother. Up until this point in my life, I had NEVER seen my gentle mother like this... she became an ALPHA wolf in front of my eyes. After trying about 3 times to intimidate my mother, and get around her to us little ones, and having experienced my mother's counterattacks, that large grey wolf actually assumed a submission posture, bent his head and shoulders, turned around defeated and went back into the forest where it came from. Will never forget it.. or my mother's strength in that moment. Later in my life, someone gave me a copy of Pinkola-Estes "Women Who Run with the Wolves" and I instantly thought of my mother, only, my mother was a woman who made wolves run. You were bang on about the loss of respect for the Mother, the Grandmother and Great grandmother (the Crone archetype), and how dangerous this loss is for species. In my wanderings, and in my observation of what is going in this love-starved planet, I am reminded of a line from Leonard Cohen's prophetic song, The Future, and of William Blake's The Sick Rose poem: You'll see a woman Hanging upside down Her features covered by her fallen gown O Rose thou art sick. The invisible worm, That flies in the night In the howling storm: Has found out thy bed Of crimson joy: And his dark secret love Does thy life destroy. It is the continued disrespect of the female life-giving nurturing energy that will harm the species, that will lead to the increase in harshness of the systems in this world, a transhuman technocratic nightmare lies just around the corner (that will also cause pain for embodied females and males on this planet) if we do not learn to truly respect the female (in all her forms and stages of life and manifestations). I am myself single - and have been for over 10 years since a turbulent and torturous 18 year relationship ended - Am I lonely? Yes. Sad sometimes, of course... but the thought of being disrespected by an immature, or insecure male again keeps me for forming any romantic ties. I cannot abide any more abuse, control, or manipulation from a male who absolutely needs what I can give, but who cannot prevent himself from harming me. I know that there are good men out there with the proper attitude, maturity, and understanding to be with a mature female. Just haven't found him yet. In the meantime, I am trying very hard not be vanquished by all I see happening in the world - I am finding other ways to be relevant, a contributor, to share any wisdom or gifts I have with those who appreciate my offering.

Damn... im infjFemale 20. This is very powerful to hear. Thank you for your insight. This explains a lot of the questions i had that no one could ever begin to answer. Me and my mum could never understand how people follow any religion and how they were written in a book to begin with. Non of it made any sense. Why follow a set of rules given to you by someone who you don't even know exist. And asking for forgiveness for doing something different from what is apparently the "correct way" I will never get how people believe such things. Heaven and hell is the one thing i could never make my mind ever begin to understand. The last point you said will stay with me forever.

I’ve been watching you for awhile and subscribed to you today. I wait and make sure before I subscribe to any channel. LOL You make so much sense! And I laugh and I cry when I watch you! Sometimes I have to watch/listen and have to pause and come back. Holy crap! You explain so much like I do! That’s why I don’t post much. LOL well one reason anyways.. LOL I’m laughing because I’m watching you on the big screen while using my cell to comment! I have tears! 🤣🤗👍🏻👏🏻❤️ I can’t tell my life story on here. It’s complicated and so long! I’m 47 and have 3 kiddos of my own. My father passed when I was 5 1/2 and he was 57 and my mother when I was 12 and she was 47. The oldest is 23 and here I go! Always long winded when I find a rare connection like this?! I know who I am to an extent! But how can we possibly say we truly know who we are when I’m not finished living?! I’ve got so many choices and my purpose is vast and ever changing! I believe I’m a child of God but that’s faith! I don’t deal in absolutes. I can’t fully explain myself. But I enjoy your views! Thank you for being refreshingly honest and unique! Idk why I’m drawn to some but I hope you keep uploading! 👍🏻🤗🙏🏻❤️👏🏻✌🏻

This is incredible. Honestly, I’ve found some of your other videos a little confusing, but this really resonates.

This has given my life the inner peace I’ve been searching for. It would be a man who would go as far to say that Adam was bored and needed a playmate so he donated a rib. How butt-hurt do you have to be to take even pregnancy away from women? The roles of nature have never been laid out so beautifully. Thanks Marty. Women are the cradle of life, born with “god energy/light”. Men are the protectors of those who bear life. Not in some subservient way, but as completion of a circle. To be in the loving care of one these “Gods” is heaven. (This doesn’t exclude any being finding the warmth of love but related to the video.) Thank you for creating this video for us to hear.

HOLY SHIT MARTY!!!!! I am a LOST female! You have no idea how much this means to me. being a female INFJ is completely torturous. Thank you so much for sharing this and helping me feel understood, and helping me better understand myself. 💜💜

47:47. . You are the first human I’ve seen have this thought on religion.... thank you ... for understanding.. people think I’m nuts as I spew this Out of my mouth for endless years. Chose the light , choose life.

😢 I love how Beautiful and heavy Explained. Thank you ❤

I love your passion about it tho. Shows your heart is in a great place. I find your passion very heartwarming. I wish more people cared this much about what we can go to help society be more wholesome and loving minded.

Nope not at all.... Some incredible validation!.... I really have to go into some deep thinking on that.... But it makes so much sense you're really spot on brother I think!!!... I lost my mom but we had a great relationship I lost my first wife and we had the greatest relationship... They are the creators that's for damn sure thanks Marty I am learning so much from you peace Love David G

Three minutes and twenty seconds and I'm already in tears. I knew it. I just can't connect with people,even if I try..My mom's relationship towards me is unhealthy. I knew it,I knew it, all my unhappiness sterns from the fact that she's tortured my feelings from the beginning.

Hi Marty, i don't think I've ever made a comment on YT itself before, but i feel compelled to thank you for making and sharing your videos. After i watched one, about a month ago, i ended up viewing a lot more. Thanks for putting yourself out there- 'warts' and all. Your authenticity is refreshing (and a necessity!). Your channel is the only 'mbti channel' I've come across so far through which i feel at the core wholly understood as a person and as an INFJ. It feels good to know that there's someone who truly gets it! Is experiencing it- not the lineage of suffering part haha, i hope you know what i mean- its nice to know we're not entirely alone in our experiences and in our desire for growth. I also really appreciate the level of depth and detail you go into- not only with your words and diagrams which give form to intuition so perfectly imo- but on an emotional/unspoken level too- i find myself picking up so much inspiration/understanding during your own moments of contemplation/pauses. So.. I've been bawling my eyes out throughout your video, in a good way. Its helped me to realise that i do need to try and heal the relationship between my mum and I while its still possible, and before things are too late.. It will never be an ideal or close relationship (my emotions have been rejected and unknowledged too many times running into adulthood), but it can at least be better. My mum is one of the only people who i find myself guarding highly against. i'm 38 but can understand what you say about the kind of mother who would tell you that 'mother knows best' or more specifically 'just do what mummy tells you (without question) because mummy loves you'. I experienced this growing up, and still do now as an adult. I know it's my mum's way of showing her love. A lot of the emphasis of her demonstrative love is through material things and constantly worrying about me- which comes out in the forms of criticism, control and forceful instruction. I'm thankful to even know my mum, to have had a mum growing up, but i do feel like ive missed out on the emotional connection. What hit me hard as a child was that i felt like there was no emotional or actionable support from her through all my years of being bullied at school, and i was blamed for a lot of things that i was not taught at home. I can feel a lot of resentment from my inner child still, even though i can see things from her angle a little more as an adult e.g. she had a lot her own issues to deal with on top of raising my brother and i, and perhaps as an immigrant she felt like she couldn't help with the bullying. This is something i realise i must try to make peace with so i can move on- what's done is done. I've overcome a lot (things like social anxiety and agoraphobia) and it's taken me a long time to learn things for myself and to like myself. I am now confident and happy in who i am today. This part of the healing is going to be the most difficult thing to forgive/accept/overcome so far.. Cultural differences (my parents were born and raised in Hong Kong and i'm a British born Chinese) do play a part in the relationship all of course, which i won't go into because i don't mean to write anymore of an essay than i am now. :) Point being, I didn't grow up with either of my grandmothers around as they lived abroad- and i guess that this severing from the Sense-ual idea of a mother and my grandmothers means a desperate longing and seeking for a connection to the idea of the loving Mother and the Feminine. I have my pre-natal pre-conceptions of the World Mother (what you call 'Life' in your video) to go by, and you called it/linked it up imo- her name is Intuition. Thanks for your insight. It makes me less afraid over the idea of perhaps one day becoming a mother myself.

Nevermind a preconceived personality trait - most difficult portion to add to being mother, wife, employee,friend,caretaker,nurse etc. Etc. Etc is the "job of getting the man to feel included when it does not come naturally to him, knowing how important that is to everyone's feeling balanced. My 2cents-woth. Tx for hearing me.

You just described me and my entire life. Ive been looking for myself for yrs. I am in the process of writing a book and wanting to create my own community that comes together in unity of love and compassion and a true spiritual family and peace.

Thank you for this video. You deserve more subscribers. This video said everything i have been struggling to figure out and say. I think you are the closest thing to the male INFJ i have ever encountered.

Thankyou so much for this video.

Thank you. This was awesome. Sorry, had to load you up with comments.

Toooooo excited I’ve not finished watching yet but .... Woooooop You got it in 2 . Light energy . God etc ☺️👍🏼

Wow. I don’t know where to start. Feeling of relief and sadness at the same time. Like many I have had experience of “man made” situations. (Both by male and female). This video has so much. Some things that hit accord with me. I’ve never been able to freely share my feelings and thoughts because I walk away thinking I’m a freak. Living in a way that your thoughts and feeling and processing happens in a seconds makes me feel crazy.

By watching ur video, I will say nd conclude, our brain so powerful to say about everything but only when we think it our heart. While I was watching the video, u r too emotional to this nd u said the personalies are from just since 150 years to 100. But by that u came to this far. Yeah we ourselves made these personalities according to our society we r, yes its our choices to become how we r, nd by that they r personality types. It's really amazing. Nd about ur video. It is great cuz there are ur emotions in that. Great job

That‘s why I never fit in this Society or Generation, I am 38. Marty, from the deepest darkness I thank you deeply for this video, thank you for showing a piece of your soul. Hearing all this Tresor words from a man, that is also an INFJ, feels like freedom. I know you will understand my words. I will take this always with me. You are the truly essence of, they call it, an awaken man. Much love for you and all your loved ones.

Thank you for sharing couldn't imagine if the entire world saw it for what it is. This was even helpful for me as an infj male it explains why iv always wondered what it would be like to grow a baby. I sometimes find myself wishing I was capable of having that experience. This helped me see a little more of my subconscious iv realized how nerrow minded I have been.. I have a very close friend and my gut tells me she's been the infj i never realized was there. I would go to her when I needed a friend and she would do the same. I value are friendship immensely. Yet I never showed that I was interested in her I instead subconsciously friendzoned myself because I was terrified of the possibility of being rejected and possibly loosing a friend. And on the other hand Being accepted is even a more terrifying thought because then it comes with the chance of a worse pain felt when loosing your better half mixxed with the loss felt when loosing a best friend. I'm worried I pushed her away after i put in new data and sent the results

I am 49, I never had children but 5 nephews. I had miscarriages due to epilepsy. I have experienced the light force. My mother, whom I have always wanted to have a close relationship with, but it does not happen. I did not cry in this video, I was not angry. I remember both my grandmothers, my grand aunts, and my great grandmother. I was very close to all. My mother used this against me. She was an only child and my grandfather died in Normandy. She would constantly belittle me, telling me that my grandmother spoiled me when I actually had to work for my grandmother. My father was an alcoholic when I was 8-16 during those years she would turn the mean drunk that had taken over my father on us, her children. I remember everything about my grandmother and her sisters and I have carried on those cultural traditions, my mother never wanted to. Like I said I have seen the light life force, I died because of a doctor, I said I was ready to go but God said it was not time, I needed to return to help my nephews. I had one at the time, as I said b4 I have five. Now. When I was in my 20s I developed epilepsy out of nowhere. One time she went to the er with me ( my dad made her) and in the waiting room, during one of my seizures she asked me to effing stop shaking. I love her, but she has zero boundaries even though I set them. She bounds into my space unannounced and even if I am on the phone just interrupts. I learned nothing from her. I learned from my grandma, great aunt and my father. I only have pictures with her up until I am 1.5 then they just stop. She is an artist and I am a poet, I once thought she read me all the nursery rhymes I had memorized, she said he'll no, that was your father, I couldn't be bothered with that. Right now, young women are ruining the role of women. Men and women are different, period. No Marty, you did not make me cry, you just reaffirmed my intuition. There is much more but this is enough for now. Thank you.

I have so many perspectives I would like to share with you but I will keep it as brief as possible. I've never been diagnosed or evaluated with any particular personality type and so on. Not do I care about finding a particular place to label in a box and proclaim s home for my personality creating a false sense of security for the human ego. Please keep in mind I can only speak for myself. 1) I'm 35 with 5 children.. so far😇. Since my earliest memories my biggest dream was to be a mother. What an honor right? I always loved and deeply respected my elders. Watching my family make personal decisions and his each individual felt their role should be played, including the role of a mother. Observing through the years from past traditions globally and culturally. Religiously and what was being depicted in books, movies and so on. Knowing all too well what society would and could demand of me as a mother. But.. what does your child need of you. What kind of mother does your child need you to be? What kind of mother do you need to be that is true to yourself? Surely not what any book or opinion may say. It's what a mothers heart knows is right even when it's the hard choice. Tough love in modern times isn't very popular but is taking accountability or asking children to have some. Mothers love has to include preparing your children male or female for the day you are no longer here. Hoping that the guidance and love you have provided with efficiently and fulfillingly carry them through the rest of their lives (pass the tourch my Dad would say) Possessive behavior and mother protective behavior are misunderstood. I do not own the lives of my children. It is a great honor to have their souls choose me to guide them as their souls grow and learn life lessons good and bad. Expecting a social reward of honor is like expecting a cookie for cleaning your room... the clean room is the reward😏 Loving isn't always about being liked but it sure is understanding. 2- Imagine a giant ball of light that is conciensness bursting into trillions of little lights like fireflies. Metaphorically the ball of light is God and we are all the little fireflies. Or another way I like to explain this is... imagine every part of your personality, for example the one part that likes chocolate and the other that likes vanilla became two separate people. Would they get along? Continue the division to the slightest variation .. how many different you(s) could you get out of that? 3- No offense but what you figured out in this video most women see past the suppression driven by low self-esteem by men by age 5 .... it's in plain sight at this point. 4- What is creating life without sustaining it? I'm not minimizing the rule of a woman but certainly we can't of a man. It's all very ying and yang, duality of man and women, a synergy that seems to have gone off cilter a bit but none the less here we are. 5- The suppression and opinion and the beliefs surrounding the expression of female sexuality is more than I can bare. If a man feels aroused or angry or intimidated or disgusted or any experience with the expression of a female, again accountability could be a champ here. This sexual list that men fear and run from is a powerful force pulling them in feeling little to no control over it.... thus the need to reflect back a false sense of control by forcing a woman.... much like how cleaning gives me an imaginary sense of control that isn't there. One in aware of it though and the consequences are a very clean home..... rape not so much. 6- The female body is beautiful in so many ways. Regardless of how anyone tries to belittle ass selfies....I just saw the oldest sanskrit statue have a man's hand on a very plump behind. Gravity... smaller forces being drawn to the larger. It's only wrong to a woman or degradation of her feminine form if her internal force is not as honored as the outside. We have not lost our place in this world. We are only catching our footing. How can a female a divine life giving force life her place? Never. Men simply forgot their place to sustain and protect the woman who was gifted with giving life itself. A hypothesis here btw... but if men figured out how important their role is in the survival of the very life that created them they would hold their heads up with honor as any mother does with her children.

I know I'm an infj. And if I talk like this, and take forever to finish a point, no wonder nobody listens to me. I couldn't finish the video.

You just explained something from the soul level. That is intangible unless you really sit and think in your mind or intuition or NI if you want to use Mbti or whatever for it to be revealed. But this is deep stuff. You explain stuff that I’ve always felt but never been able to put into words. Wow Marty you’ve done it again! Thank you this is just wow....I can’t even explain it. Well I have to head to bed but this is great stuff man. And perceive is the natural function. But this world corrupts you to judge it’s the only way to survive. That’s where I think the strength comes in like a transformation.... Anyways I’ll rewatch tomorrow! See you when I see you :) God created spirit in himself I think man is the flesh. And the woman’s spirit is so pure. Ughhh this is so inconsistent I am sorry to who ever is reading this. Uggh and this is the same way man controls relationships while woman controls life. So in the end the woman still holds power......uggh I’ve edited this three times I should sleep lol but uggh I love you. I could kiss you rn. Your thoughts mwah impeccable!! And this is so evident in the cough cough patriarchal society...... Also I think ppl claim infj because of its unusualness to the physical world or at least to an individuals minds. It’s intuition is connected and discreetly hidden to all and others feel it. They are like a key...As a result others as in THEY want to claim it for power. While if you are infj you have this power but you don’t like to use it for evil. So for others to fill this void they don’t have as in others that aren’t infj...they just claim the words instead. Idk if that made any sense it’s late....I think I am just babbling my thoughts lol anyways. I’ll see you in your next video! One love ❤️

Thank you for your thoughts!

INFJ female here. Great relationship with my ESTJ mom (she tries to understand me God bless her). Even greater relationship with grandma thou (INFJ...I think..she was the only one in life I met who actually understood me and could keep up with my thinking patterns). She was my personal Yoda. I asked her everything and she tried to answer it. And according to her I was exactly like her mom. I saw the only existing photo of my great grandma and yeah its like I'm a time traveller. And according to grandma we had the same personality as well. Hihi genetics, if its not broke don't fix it.😂 God: I agree. I have had the exact same thought since I was 7 years old. My parents put me in a very Christian school...when I was 7 I was already thinking "great story, great morals etc but somethings off...it doesn't fit with my intuition...what my soul knows is correct". School told me if I wasn't a good obedient Christian I was gonna go to hell. My Islamic girlfriend told me, as an unbeliever I was doomed anyways. So I asked grandma about religion. Grandma told me "faith (the light force) is universal but religion and how people express it is personal. Don't tell others what to think and don't let others tell you what to think". Still believe grandma was correct. 👏 Live and let live baby.😉 Religious texts: the religious texts seem to me like narsisstic d*ckheads doing facade management trying to repeat the lie (that makes them uber mensch in the process...what a coincidence🙄) enough to make people believe it. You see the same thing happening on a small scale with narcs in our society. Its not about the cause they write about but their desire for fame/power. They weaponize morals and empathy for their own desire for power/fame/control/money. I think the true meaning of life....is life. 😂🤣 Unfortunately a lot of people are removed from the light force....destroying life and the really big monsters even use religion as a justification to destroy life. The book on God is being weaponized to destroy God.🤪 It was written to mininalise Life in the first place. So yeah its destroying life in oh so many ways. We need less narcs fighting for power and to be right and more people focussed on peace and life and to just get along. To play devils advocate here. If Christianity is right...congratulations we are in hell. The biggest monsters without the capacity to feel empathy. Who don't value life but destroy it for power are ruling and abusing those beneath them. The world is literally on fire, deadly illnesses, animals dying out, fertility in mankind dropping. If you wanna think in terms of heaven and hell...this is hell and we made it ourselves by letting those without humanity lead us. By not valueing life...in all shapes and sizes.

I want so badly to tell you through the television that if I could have one wish, I promise it wouldn't be to have this personality type. I don't revel in it and feel inclined to inform everyone about it. It's me even at 43 trying to figure out why I've felt like an alien in my life. I don't human right is been my go to phrase most of my life. I don't see it as a positive thing to be this way. Most days, I'm a square peg trying to fit in a round hole. So here is one Marty. I'm an Infj female and a Virgo as well. And that little hyphen and letter they include. Yes, I'm an infj-t Virgo woman. I do hope to receive a response from you at some point. I've commented now on 3 of your videos. One was a genuine intellectual question, however, no reply. It's frustrating at best most days to feel misunderstood @Marty Glenn

I tested as an IFNJ in my late 20s. I never gave it much thought. I’m now 56 and started seeing all this info on INFJ. I retook the test and still INFJ. I was wondering why all the fascination with it now. Very interesting video! Now it makes more sense!

I think your absolutely correct on infj being respected tho, everyone can be quite self absorbed and take advantage of that... I’ve learned the hard way

Yes Marty that's gone.... That is so sad I would like to think that there would be a possibility to turn this around somehow? What do you think? But boy are you right I see it all the time

I am new n just wont to say thank you i am crying in 45 never new my grandma n my mom n dad was disconected all my famliy was exsept my grandfather he was the only one i had truly conected with watching you i am understanding my self thank never stop xx

As an INFJ there are things about me that are strange some people who tried to hold hands at church felt faint and almost collapse. One of the men helped me to get water. So I feel uncomfortable attending mass as I did before because I don't know if something going to touch or make me ill.

End of this video dropped me to my knees. Thank you.

I find as an Infj female that its hard to put into words what I am thinking, so forgive me if this does not translate well. I call what you put into words, "the essence of life ", a purpose that is not self centered . Its not why am I here ,what does life offer me, rather, as an infj, what can I give and nurture ? I am in my fifties now and have children and have suffered loss and pain. My mother always said I had my own personal planet. I have to fight hard in my thinking not to go down the rabbit holes and has for the black hole , I see that as a giant pupil in space absorbing light . Its the space in between that nobody thinks about. As for peace , we all strive for it but for me personally , the more you look the lest you find. I have learned acceptance is the key. you did not offend me especially since I do have a faith and agree with your points, but for an Infj female life can be so spacey lol.... I do not believe in hell as the church would like us to see it. Hell in christian scripture was a place described to burn rubbish, besides , mankind manages to provide the world with enough hellish behaviour

Men play a very important role in life too but there hasn’t been many truly good honest men over the last 100 or so yrs.

I’m only halfway through so far so pardon if I’m missing some things when I put together this response. I agree with a lot of the things you’ve said so far - this “divine feminine” of intuition and feeling that is inherent in women, the fact that we are forced to be judging by society. The thing you said about women not being able to take you in a physical fight, however, made me angry (less angry when I realized you were using it to illustrate your point about a mother’s fierce protection of her children). Even women who are not bodybuilders (who can obviously take you in a fight) have many tools available to us that we could use against you in a fight - knives, guns, pepper spray - Even though I may not have much upper arm strength. Don’t get too cocky. Women have tools around us that we can use to be stronger than men every time, regardless of any self defense training. (Also, the idea you’re spreading that men will always physically win against women can be harmful to the psyche of women, because it would be unhealthy for a woman to be in constant fear that she could be attacked by a man and would have no chance of defending herself. And this is disregarding the fact that the statement is also just simply untrue - women can win and have won.) A lot of your other points, though, are fantastic; they’ve made me realize a lot of things about myself and my own strengths. All in all I am still very glad I watched this video.

Hello Marty. I just wanted to thank you for this video. You have said A lot that has resonated with me especially in this video. I honestly never have taken the Myers Briggs or any INFJ test. But feel I don't need to. I just know I am. Several personal experiences you've shared to illustrate your points have been eerily like I've experienced I.E. I always thought most religions had some good messages but never could get on board with one completely. I've always identified to being spiritual but never to being religious I've lost two children to abortion and I felt each one go and felt a part of me die each time. 1 abortion took place without my knowledge less than a year ago I suffered so much I began entertaining opting out of life as a male I struggled with these experiences and still struggle because they go against every fiber in my body though most males seemed to handle this kind of loss better or are conditioned to do so by society it makes sense now why I couldn't. it's no coincidence that I was speaking to a friend last night and told him that I believe in life that if I could I would have given my life so that my son could live and the conclusion you have drawn in this video about most women believing they identify as infj because of their loss of identity and that because of man's fear of women's Power through time text and religion man has made a perversion of our counterparts by forcing them into accepting subservient roles and advocating any promotion for them to just be aesthetically appealing for males destroying their true beauty and in man's arrogance we tried to nurture the idea of male dominance by destroying their identity but nature has a way of correcting us with the male infj for those of us who are old enough to remember we used to call the female of our species the better half I still refer to ladies as such because I believe this to be true and know without a test that I am a male infj Nature's correction for what man has destroyed in our counterpart because as a male trying to fill the role I can hardly bare it. Because I was never meant to. I have nieces that I adore and like all women I believe should be empowered I try to empower them. I told one more recently that she can do or be anything if she works hard despite what role society has deemed as a dominant gender for that role. Thank you for sharing you're insight again and I appreciate you're intensity and sincerity

I have thought all of the things you’re saying but I don’t like to definitively make up my mind about stuff that is either non essential or making up my mind would close me off to other possibilities.

Dog gone it! One huge thing you got right! GRAB YOUR TISSUES! 🙏🏻❤️

I was researching SIGMA INFJ as i am new to learning about personality types ect...And i came across this video. I have no formal education on this subject, however I felt inclined to comment on a few things. I believe this was yr intention. So "Respectfully" in my opinion not all females who create life nurture by nature. Just as all men do not engage in the opression of woman by means of religion ect.. I do not agree that all woman have the same ability to empathize, love or feel emotions in the same way. I feel many woman do as they are told, or what is expected of them just as those traditional values have taught them. People still live in the public eye and compete for attention just the same as the narcissists before them..Social status or acceptance was the goal then as it is now. However our morals have changed quite a bit, but the goal remains the same. 😳 We know not everyone lived up to those traditional values you speak of. Just the same, nobodybis as perfect as they demonstrate on social media. But I do not agree that all woman should be placed in the same group based on nothing more than gender and title. We are all different. Some are very different as we all know. And lastly, I know for a fact I would fight to save my own life. And even though the odds would be against me, I would go down fighting with everything I had in effort to live. If you doubt me i am ok with that. I am a gen xer. I am used to ppl trying to tell me what I can or cant do when the first encounter me 😏

Why do you make such drama to navigate this? I think wey ger the point but you really make this hard to watch, and not because of the so called truth, but because the over dramatic way that you do it.

I shared this with my husband last night; the concept, not the video, because he wouldn’t be able to follow you. We are both atheists, so I didn’t think he’d react as poorly as he did to the hypothesis that women and girls are worse off today than we were 100 years ago. He said he didn’t agree with this, and seems to be stuck in the “blame capitalism and that’s it” mindset. I’ve been talking with him for quite a while about how I am sure that humans don’t have much longer left, relative to how long we’ve had so far. I’ve mainly focused on capitalism being the ultimate cause, but after watching this, I see that there’s no way we could have gotten to where we are right now, so quickly. So what seems to have made him so upset, to the point he couldn’t sit with us at dinner, is that I asserted, quite confidently, that women who have no history of trauma, and were raised in happy, healthy families, and who aren’t heavily influenced by what they think society expects of them, want to get married to men that treat them well, have children, and be SAHMs until their kids are at least in school full time. I guess I hurt his ego or something, because he’s a SAHD, due to, let’s just say, our very different personalities. I’m the only one who works, and I have been working since about four years after we met. The fact that he didn’t already know that I feel this way shows that he doesn’t know me very well at all, but I have come to accept that I will never be able to expect from a partner the same, or even close to, the amount of energy I put into our relationship. So I refocused my energy onto our kids, and withdrew what I was giving to him, not because I don’t love him, or because I’m mad at him, but because it’s best for my psychological/spiritual well being. I was looking up the origins of “spare the rod, spoil the child”, late last night, because it makes so much sense that a religion that seeks to diminish the power of the female would come up with such an absurd idea. The men who wrote the Bible, with the intention of destroying the female, knew that nothing can break us like our children being hurt. “Corporal punishment not only damages a child in a way that most people don’t understand, but it is literally a form of torture for their mothers as well. Especially if we think we must participate in this “discipline” in order to make our children better people. I tried to find out if pre-Abrahamic people hit their offspring, and I couldn’t find a satisfactory answer, but my intuition tells me that they didn’t.

I love that! A creator nurturer would never create hell, and only a narcissist would want that control and be so heartless. We are all to become the whole hue-man. Both male and female aspects is how we were made. We are perfect in reflection of the male female creator God. Black hole is a birth canal. It’s not gravity it’s magnetic. I need to add to this that this is not a correction it’s a perspective from a female. I know that I could not create without man. I appreciate your renovation of women that have been lost which I believe was your point but it does not diminish the importance of a man and creation. We might have all that power but we need shelter because we need a strong covering. We need you to support us and just pray for us as you said while we do our business. That makes you an equal half, I think leaving that out is doing an injustice to men who are being a shelter even though our cultures have feared women and deminish them as you said. In the Bible in Other I scriptures they have tried to hide it, but there was both male and female aspects, when they cut out one half. Man is half of the same God and He cut himself down when he cut her out. An atom has a positive or negative and if you take out the negative that Adam is unstable. As above so below. 1x1=1 Eve symbolically is half of Adam’s side Eve x 0=0 no offspring no creation The Nothing is God. The creation is the splitting of God or the first + and - . Think Big Bang. The Nothing is unlimited creative potential. And creation is the division of creative potential but it is limited and defined. I am limited and so are you but together we are a creator. This is a deep inward dive passion of mine. I would like to venerate the man as well. Even though I’ve been married to a sociopath and they a narcissist I have learn your value through contrast and I also confirm your message from my own experience. I’ve learned your value from watching the men who are strong and protective of their feminine feminine wives. My first abuser was a female. I’m not sure if this makes me a true INFJ or not if abuse possibly made me identify with introvert. I can do both easily but I need more time alone.

It’s my time to shine 🤯 14 minutes in and I’m already getting deeply analytical and kind of sad lol

Everyone’s job is to show true love and true care.

Just enjoying watching here....😊see you on ur next video..

Will I always felt/feel dumb and insecure about what I felt was always obvious and natural, but you make me feel less crazy lol... this is beautiful btw - the blueprint of life that propagates more life.

I have commented on 2 other vidieos. My mother never stood up for me ever. She was nice to me & put me down all at same time. I'm 45 & few yrs ago put a lot together. I know i am very rare despsite what an infj stands for. May be i am idk believe i am virgo heyoka & one of gods chosen ones. I have yet to have kids just fur babbies coming & going through out life. Was very lost on all of my life. I feel i am now a stronger woman ever & i am empathatic. But when attacked by any evil i will HALLK Out on anyone try to ever hurt me. Btw I'm 45 yrs old mom now 71. Still fighting for myself with her. Hope to win battle soon. Because of her never want or had kids. & don't need a man.

I absolutely love this ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ This didn't scare me one damn but!!!!! I already knew all of this!!! So glad I found this 💯🙏❤️💯🙏

I was treated horribly but I still love everybody. I will never trust a human soul on this earth though. It’s all good though, God and all Holy Angels got my back.

I got focused on the biblical too . Read the Quran , Old testimony and new . It’s amazing if you understand the human story and abstract the typology that is within the biblical text 👍🏼✅ I have a theory for Time too 😬 Your making sense so keep going my friend ✊🏼

I’m at 7:17. Dude your frustration to get it out...... to explain.........I feel it like it’s mine. 😂😂😂🤪🤪🤪😎 it’s fkn killing me. Idk if I could ever try to do this. Don’t you feel like some alien try to tell a monkey what blue is.

Hi Marty, Interesting video for a beautiful Friday morning. I like to add to your speech that Grandma made Mom embarrased to have chosen to be a Mom, Mom felt awful, ashamed, less than many other woman so Mom told their daughter to go to university, have a career, hold on for love or children, and stay away from men. Why? because men don't value you as a mother, wife or a woman, they will beat you up, use you, lie to you, walk with other women who are better educated in front of you and make you feel like the piece of cloth in the kitchen. So females developed that Judgement better and were forced to think instead of feeling. Even men/blindwomen judge your tears, call you weak, so tears do net help women anymore than just to be labeled as a manipulative weak B... A real man to me is one who listens and protect women so that they can protect society. Hopefully we can reach that point. Now, who knows what Grandpa, and Dad told the Man in today's society.

My mother is a narcissist and a pathelogical liar. She's dead- She's door slammed. It's okay. Just say it. We're INFJs, but if we've made it passed 28 years... We're survivors at all costs. We can take it.

My mom was some type of extrovert; I am having trouble typing her post mortem. But she was the only person in my life who has ever listened to me the way I needed to be listened to, without interrupting, without waiting for her turn to talk, without dumping her problems on me. I am about 90% certain my father was an INFJ, and while we had really interesting conversations about lots of things(usually religion or politics), and I even had a sense that he loved me more than she did, or that he was more loyal, I always turned to my mom for emotional support. She never judged me either, though she was fairly judgmental of other people. It’s very sad that being a good mother or being empathetic and intuitive are seen as unusual traits in women now, especially since I have two daughters. I also have a son, and while I worry about him for a lot of reasons, it’s just different with my daughters. It’s a lot more likely that my son will find a female partner that is capable of not treating him terribly than it is for my daughters to find male partners who will/can treat them the way they deserve. This has always been true, but it’s never been more true than it is now.

I’m a infj, this is so accurate. The depth is unusual ✨

I’m grateful to them all!

You had me hanging on every word.Very open minded approach slamed all the religions wich was a bit boldt ok really boldt hope I spelled that rite.Scarry but very entertaining. Wow in every way.Go research my name Tanya spelled backwards. Scarry Shit as well.Life is amazing ,not easy but Lovely,and so precious. Marty I loved this .

As an INFJ female, I have to look after myself, and when my doctor after my operation told me that once he operated the insides organs of my body were beautiful I was 30 years old. My "INTUITION" felt as if I need to leave this hospital ASAP. Later, when he tried to get a hold of me I was at my mother's house recuperating from surgery and later went home to my apartment. My doctor/surgeon kept calling in the answering machine. When he called again he asked me two questions. "How old I was and if I was married or single?" I responded 30 and single. He was advising me to have a hysterectomy and I got angry! I told him, " I will not get a hysterectomy because I plan to marry and have children. This doctor had the gall who was supposed to be a Christian was trying to tell me what to do? NEVER! What I know is I don't trust this doctor and will not have anything to do with him again! I am in my 70s and have two beautiful children which are adults are happy adults and loving. Plus I'm a grandma. I won't EVER accept some doctor's advice due to this creep but will question and make sure they are trying to help me not create havoc in me. As far as God I have a strong faith in God and for that reason, I have been able to function independently for many years and survive this lifestyle.

What about the INFJ female who grew up with a mother that was psychologically and physically abusive and a neglectful because of chronic drug abuse? I get how never being nurtured would play into heaving judging for the INFJ female in this case. Do you think it’s possible for an INFJ female to nurture herself in place of a “mom” and “grandma”? Idk how to make my questions make more sense so hopefully you get the gist

Hi Marty..found your channel a few weeks ago and this one really hit those strings ..especially the black hole theory & the light ..I would add the sexuall energy in there too .. I can also feel people as apparently I'm discovering many do ..there is no words to describe how intence and debilitating this has been & is ..its being so many at ounce ..a violation of my being essence whatever that is anymore..I've labeled myself as an empath healer for years not knowing all these types existed ..trying to understand why the coldness and draining happens when there's a few people in here ..its insane to explain then I'm sure you need no explanation ..thanks for the info

Marty you are sounding sooooo spiritual. ... You are answering your calling .....

I’m so happy that my thinking has been validated!

Thank you very much for this video Mr. Marty. First of all I am so sorry for the abuse you have had when you were younger I hope you’re better now. The second thing I want to say is not all women can give life me beeing one of those who unfortunately can’t. I am a mother a saviour I represent peice love nurture to my son that I have adopted. I gave him everything I had in me because as a child I didn’t have that from my mother the one who gave me life. She made me think I am crazy because I hated going to gatherings because I couldn’t get along with my cousins because I liked writing ✍️ because My logic was making no sense to her. She thought I was dumb because I didn’t answer her back I obviously knew That there was no point in doing so she made dad take me for a psychological assessment because she thought There’s something wrong with me. I didn’t have cuddles and hugs growing up not from her not from my grandma. So I don’t think all women are empaths some of them are very very vecious. It was my birthday last week and of course She forgot but that’s fine. I have had love from my father who has with time understood that I am my own self . I really have mixed feelings about her because she actually told me that I am a sub female because I can’t give life. I can’t give life but I can give love care protection nurture and that is what I wanted to tell her but I can’t. I guess I didn’t want to hurt her again me beeing such an introvert . So no I don’t think all women are caring by nature. But I get your point. As for religion I am a Muslim but the idea of heaven in Islam doesn’t make sense to me. A man in heaven has I think more than fourty virgins just to him plus his wife. I must say poor wife . And what happens to women like me who have been doing good I sacrificed my mariage because of the well beeing of my son and forgot about beeing a women and just concentrating on beeing a mum . I believe in god and I agree with you there is no heaven or hell there’s life and then peace.

Love this!

Thank you, for saying this, it was very brave. The book the Crone speaks abstractly to this, and after reading it, I came to a similar conclusion about our society. Please give it a read if you have time. I have identified with the INFJ but agree strongly with your assessment and am so disheartened with how hard it is to be a women, courting is now all about gaslighting and manipulation, control and status, if you see the truth you walk a lonely path.

Wow! Excellent ❤️

I was raised Mormon. I won’t abandon it though because there are too many good women being hurt and deceived and too many children being abused

My grandmother was a badass and we were all kind of scared of her. My mom played a more traditional role and raised 5 kids, but she always talked about her ambitions beyond being a mother. I had my daughter young and waited until she was older but now have 3 college degrees and after my 30 year marriage divorce that didn't chose, tell me if I am a real injf.

You are describing devine feminine 🥰 My husband has been trying to beat this into my head, I fought him. 😔 This is validation for him 🤣 I actually used the words, "you were right, I have been wrong" 🤫

What if an INFJ female is emotionally and physically abused by her mother? I had 4 children and I truly believe they would tell anyone that I was loving, caring, nurturing, playful on steroids and a cheerleader, good teacher and confidant. I am a true INFJ and can’t help it. Strength by nature.. mentally. All I know.. I’m a hella of a damn good person ⚡️

I’m 7 min in and scared to finish. I believe I am a true infj female. I’m 33. But I can’t imagine any other reason I’m so different and so unique but i guess I’ll update my thoughts after watching!

I cryed many times during the video XD. I have no beliefs, no religion. I think I just believe maybe in me, and in some people, but not all. Maybe thanks to you and this, maybe tomorrow I'll be better (mental health not so good every morning since 2 weeks) Just my thoughts : It makes so much sense to me. I find it amazing. You are very smart. An authentic and real human, a nice/kind soul. In my entire life : I never followed a religion. mother > mother nature > life > essence > intuition > space/time, out of time, past and future, > black hole stop the time > singularity > essence > soul 67:47 What is the most powerfull thing in the universe or none ? Black hole. This is... why I called Introvert Intuition : Black hole ? This is why I called myself : Black hole ? This is why I think : What if Earth go into a black hole ? Many times I wished it and think of it, since my depression last year XD Go deep into yourself, and you have all the answers. *Put the Earth into a black hole and all is resolve > nothing & eternal peace.* or how to destroy years of humanity and everything that comes with it. I think and agree with the theory that a black hole = white hole. The same thing in 2 differents states or energy. “understanding a question is half an answer” -Socrates When I think or tell : the answer to your question is already inside you. If you question something, it may be you already have the answer. If you have a doubt it is that there is no more doubt. My mother have the personality type of the mother/the nurse ESFJ, she appreciate life just as what it is, and question nothing, really nothing, just live. She doesn't care and doesn't want to know how things work. But if she learn something happened to her children, I think she could be destroyed inside. If we appreciated life just as it is, we wouldn't need to question everything to refind the essence and the meaning. Because of so much negativity and useless things... we question it. We question: why they didn't appreciate life just as it is and create conflicts? As if INFJ & INTJ, we were the essence of the human, want and appreciate life just as it is, we want simple life, simple things. Maybe that's why we are at peace when we are in nature, don't need to have much sensory. That's surely why we love the night, the calm, the empty, just watch the sky and the space, the stars. We surely likes empty spaces, as most as possible. It sad, if we need to suffer (depression, go deep into us) to find what is really important : the life itself, the essence. I want to see humans crying, be so sad, in order to go deep into them, to realise that the most important is just life and the essential, not the details. Maybe Intuition have the choice : create or destroy. The little Ni dominant during all his life. _What do you want to do in life ? _ I don't know. Because we just want to live, and be at peace. I tend to attach Ni with Socrates (who seems was an Ni Dominant) : the truth, the good, the usefull. That's what this function/lense/filter does. Keep the essence, the meaning.

Hey Marty just going to put this out there having a relationship with your mother is important but no it's not necessary. Sometimes it's necessary to cut them out of your life if they were the root of all your abuse growing up and continue it throughout your life. Something I hope very few ever endure.

Marty, do you do life coaching? Can a person set an appointment to talk to you, possibly for a fee?

You're an interesting guy. Anyway, I'm INFJ. Took the test when I was 20, and again around 33. Same, INFJ. Searched about what that means when I was 33, and FINALLY felt seen, like not an alien. I think you are right, life was a let down so I had to develop Judging. Either way, it still formed in me. I don't believe all mothers are naturally supposed to be extroverts. You can take care of kids and home just fine being introvert. I do like a lot everything else you said about mothers. I've never heard such reverence from a person when speaking of a woman before. So that was awesome to see a man actually see and feel into a woman/mother. Idk, I just like how you explained it. Later.

I desperately wish I could turn off feeling other's feelings and understanding where and why they're coming from their perspective. It's difficult to put a value on my thoughts and opinions when I get theirs so well. Edited for succinction.

I was pointing out the ENTP paradox (never growing up, wasting potential and so on). It is striking that since you are +15yrs, people accept your messages a lot easier. A father figure a lot of folks are missing perhaps. I look young but I think like a 65yr old.🤭😁 I have been watching a lot of your videos and I can't help but wonder how are you doing? In my experience when facing difficulties you should try to get away from things like digging endlessly theories online. It emphasises anxiety. It is better to focus on real life instead. I have only started to talk about personality tests when I finally after a decade of mental issues feel alright. My hunch is that there is a bigger portion of people who are not feeling well in MTBI enthusiastics. It makes sense. Outsourcing your anxiety. It also explains the amount of backlash I was getting. You don't have to take responsibility of yourself; the theory allows you to stay the way you are. I would beg to differ. You don't have to stay anxious all your life. It means however you should not think only through this framework. There's so much more to life.