Haha but i think INFJ is all of the above

As an iNFJ I found it interesting what you said about the N being better at analyzing problems, because it's true! I have noticed that intuitives have a special ability to see "outside the box" and see things in more depth, as the phrase "you see, but you do not observe" says, I think it applies perfectly to intuitives, sensors tend to be more "closed mind" and "practical" in general.

So what you’re saying is to keep all aggression passive? 😉 (ISFJ here)

​@@aaronstollingsNo, what she's saying is, let your aggression out in the real world, write notes saying 'people don't love me' and then put them all around the house. I did that as a kid and you can obviously see it makes a cool memory to think about later - infp

@@VanessaLima-im9fs Absolutely agree. -INTJ

Exactly what I was thinking. The worst part is that it is likely. Somebody new to MBTI finding out they're INFJ are likely to have not come across Kristen but are also likely to be recommended INFJ stuff. Watch those INFJ stuff and eventually this will be recommended, especially over other Kristen content which tend to be for all types.

Actually I am new and had no idea! 😂

I need to make the "this video is satirical" label bigger next time 😅

HMM... I SMELL INFERIOR NE

@@dearkristinI knew it was satire from knowing you but in all seriousness I didn’t notice there was a label that this was satire. Some of us intuitives don’t register “little “ details unless we’re smacked in the face with it!! -INFP 😂 (And just had to edit out a completely random accidental time stamp I didn’t realize I put in there until the next day.)

It would just be the completed tier list on screen for 10 seconds because you should be smart enough to pause it to read it yourself. 😂

Nah gotta get more creative than that

Might be like "Hey, straight to the point, I'm ranking these guys. Here's the result. Pause the video to see. No, I will not elaborate on why (this beloved type) is ranked the lowest." :P

​@@icandoeddiethingmaybe they kept talking

I wouldn’t waste time ranking based on self awareness. The tiers would be based on usefulness.

True 😂

I love that i hate her character 😂

"subtle" ;D

It's not a 'complex' when we truly are a more advanced form of human :p

​@@rainbowratto1834Always make it just not subtle enough so they'll notice ;P.

As an ENFP, I don't quite understand why we would have a disadvantage in life. Chaos is fun amidst the unpredictability of the world! Unless she meant that the world is too rigid and structured for us to live freely

⁠@@evarootbeer22 both things you said are a bit true actually^^ I think that part was more about how the stereotypical INFJ absolutely CANNOT handle living in chaos and uncertainty, so it was more of a projection. Of course ENFPs can handle and love chaos cause they be built for chaos :p -INFJ

@@SecondFloor2311 Yeah, I think it's partially projection and partially thinking that an ENFP would never be able to go through life accomplishing anything, because they are so chaotic (not saying that's true, just explaining why she labeled it as a "disadvantage").

@@SecondFloor2311 Ah, that makes sense! Projection at its finest. Thank you for the compliment (or fact) :'D

@@1029blue Ooooh, that makes sense too! Because we are so chaotic, free and our ideas are all over the place, we may seem like we can't survive and deal with the reality of the world (such as adulting, responsibilities, serious orders and stuff) since we prioritize fun a little bit too much haha. A disadvantage indeed, but a mature and healthy ENFP can easily be successful in living life, even if it means doing random things that make them happy since that is what matters in the long run for them (or for me).

good catch

Exactly what i was thinking

lmao yes and no. Were pretty much in our heads but very realistic about the world around us (that does not inckude our crushes)

@@halimaalidrissi568I agree with you so much - it doesn’t include our crushes one bit! He could’ve gone off to Mars having signed papers that he’s never coming back to Earth and I’d still believe we’ll meet one day.

​@@Seca95because you will 😩

As an INFJ, this is a hilarious, honest comment.

I mean, it's true 😅❤

So very, very, very true. And don't judge me for it!

Quietly judging others and then judging myself for judging others is the story of my life. (INFJ)

@@1029blue I hear that!

Yeah, that's how I died laughing haha -intj😂😂😂💀

Blood will flow

😅

Oh, yea can't wait for ESFP tier-ranking 😆.

Brilliant 💡 idea

I want to see INTJ. We also jugde people in silience. But maybe it should be about something else than emotions?

@@arturkrol2907 Kristin has just shared her ideas for this on Patreon and I think it's going to be abso-flingin-flangin hilarious! 😂

@@edwright4892 Knowing her - that for sure :)

I'd guess it would be the ENTP because she confessed to having a crush on an ENTP, who also has a crush on her, and he wanted it to be revealed to all. LOL! - Signed an INFJ who has a crush on an ENTP who she knows would do that. LOL!

LOL yeah sounds about right

​@@Lanino. Estp istj is. Its always the shadow function who is a golden pair. Entp for example golden pair is intj

@@justme8841 wrong. the shadow is the arch-nemesis pair. have you ever seen an estp interacting with an istj irl? or an entp with an intj? not that beautiful, is it? main axis' inverted e/i and middle axis inverted fully is what makes the golden pairing. i.e. entp and infj, enfp and intj, etc.

@@Lanii thought it was intp and infj 😭

Have you found the answers yet? I'm still walking in baren wasteland of meaninglessness

This is why I lean towards thinking I’m an INTP

@@entropy8634 nope, I figure one only has to learn to enjoy the search 😅

I dunno, sometimes I am also looking for questions.

@@KarlJeager gotta ask good questions to get good answers 👌

I would definitely put us in "suppressing wounds" 🤣

Same :) To both.

It can't be true

Stop pretending.

Just posted the same thing 😅

we're pretty private about most of these things, since we're in constant conflict with ourselves and always trying to find out how to reconcile them within ourselves or what the optimal times to use each of these traits might be, when to not use them, etc. Quite embarrassing to have it all put out there. But ESFP's love to out us like this, since they want everything to be on the table at all times, because... why shouldn't it be ?!? This is why I don't have social media anymore (ESFP mom replies in the comments cost me entire friend groups, even if I've grown past the stage she mentions ).🤪

I agree! It's hilarious

My mind kept on singing that through the entire video 😵‍💫

Me, I did!

ESFJ here, and she almost got me there twice😂😂🤣😜

maaan this is why im scared to have kids. lmao we cant help but judge but we do the work to validate the reason why were judging you for later... makes sense?

@@halimaalidrissi568 aww makes sense! I always see INFJs as my mirror. I can't help but blindly accept everything, but I do now see how that's ultimately kind of naive and I know I need a little bit more judgement. I think as long as you have some awareness around it I wouldn't worry about it too much 🤗 my mom's great overall even if I am sometimes rolling my eyes 😆

@@hannahpeterangelo7551 i would say that ENFPs are the more outgoing/more impulsive version of INFJs for sure. We connect on another level & share the same general values. Im happy to hear youre appreciative of your mum,..kind of gives me hope 🤗

awww we legitimately love ENFPs though, you guys have so many things we can learn from!! maybe tell your mom kindly that although she might not mean it, sometimes she can come off as judgmental. i'm sure she'll take it into consideration even if she's in denial at first. i hope you don't feel too bad about it!

@@ShravanaKakati haha we could start a club 🥳

That's by far the most accurate part of this.

@@renab.7390haha agreed. Highly called out.

And then didn't even use one of the tiers!

Further narrowing... it's a thing. Eventually all things become one thing. @@bobdole347

After just asking for a week to narrow the scope of a presentation, that one hit hard.

Hehe I just got roasted too, I'm sorry for both of us but it was super funny fr :)

I'll second this. It'd be fun to see an INTJ who's figured out that social skills are beneficial to one's quality of life, an ENFP who's matured beyond the complete haphazard goofball, an ISTP who . . . exists on screen for more than two sentences. xD

FJs that aren't manipulative or doormats

Yes please!

That could be fun!

Agreed! The younger and older versions meeting each other is a great concept. I'm an older INFJ. I see a bit of teenaged me in the skits, but now that I'm in my 40s I am so different as a person.

LOL I can't believe you're saying that!! I said the exact same thing to my INFJ friend (I'm INFP). We were talking about a classmate. She said: "I didn't ask for the class notes to her (to the classmate) because I don't trust her that much, we're not friends". I answered: "I don't understand, I thought you were friends. I don't understand who you consider a friend...". She laughed hard. And yes, it's difficult to understand the criteria they have for friendships... Like, if I talk to someone is because we're already friends.

As an INFJ, I will put it this way. The criteria is basically who we divulge are more personal thoughts about. What we really think about the world while at the same time also being proactive in who we want to talk to. We are introverts, so we will not be sure of who to trust right off the bat and, frankly, it’s tiring to work around other people’s needs. We are very guarded inwardly, but outwardly we are open enough to listen to what others need. In its best form, it’s comforting. In its worst, it’s manipulative. But that second case is only the worst case. Which I would hope never comes to past, but people are unique, so who knows?

​@@joanaborrellsanchez9225if they divulged this information to you means they definitely consider you as their friend 😂

YES! I am the same way. I tell people that they are my acquaintances, not friends because we don’t hang out nor do they know much about me, etc.

I am like that too. Hahahaha. Lol I love how it surprises people. You could know us for decades and we'll still call you acquaintances.

samee I remembered it too during that moment lol

we love INTPs. they are very earnest.

Eh plenty of istps are suppressing wounds but they just don’t acknowledge it

INTPs being awkwardly considerate is the cutest thing ever.

You know you've all subscribed for unfinished things

Not to mention "MBTI goggles" lol

@@dearkristincmon please at least finish through the eyes of you’re so close!

As an xNxP I actually agree with this xSxJ comment

and teas... 'cause obviously everyone wants know what tea they are, right?

Finally a decent comment in the comment section... - INTJ

With those kind of questions the most challenging aspect I find is how do you create any system that has to be managed by people without the people needed to manage it warping it for their own advantage? people making seemingly dumb decisions because they give them personal profit seems to be the one universal constant of governance.

@@KarlJeager the question for me there is how do you insure that the people are ultimately attuned enough and in charge enough to displace bad actors and systems when necessary. Given the state of things, I'd say that is the core problem society ultimately can't quite get around. Change will happen, people will be selfish, lessons of history will be forgotten, but people adapt. However, the decay of institutuons, and failure of goverments in particular to really think long term seem a constant of our species. It's a tough nut to crack at least.

INTJs could only go so far with their physical and mental limitations. Leave it to God/the Creator. He will take care of everything and will eventually make all things new in His time when humanity is ripe for a harvest. I don't know if any of you believe in a supreme mastermind Who has ZERO sin/imperfection/character flaw/weakness that also created the entire universe, but I believe in such a being exists. Observing the seemingly endless reaches of outer space down to the most microscopic level of our material realm, there has to be more than what we percieve with our senses and thoughts. I suggest try studying the Holy Bible. It's not only a source of providing practical and moral guidelines on how to have fulfilling lives despite hardships or injustices surrounding us, it's very much a chronology of the fallen human condition as it foretells future revolutionary events that have yet to unfold. A future where the saints and humble redeemed are granted eternal life and joy, while the wicked and proud unrepentant are resigned to perish in the lake of fire. Like how God is completely independent from time and space, He is able to see everything from start to finish, and these special developments illustrated through prophecies. The current world order is coming to an end, but is going to usher in a brand new world without evil and corruption, a place where perfect love and justice prevails.

LOL Yeah, I wasn't offended to be placed there either. Kinda wanted to see the secret INFJ tips to escape the overthinking too 😂

It’s payback for the characters kidnapping her

LOL 😂

The TV show is called "MBTI inside" in Korea. 1 year+ it exists ^^

​@@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzesi love mbti inside😩

Feeling your pain gives me headache

Highly highly relate

I literally felt that line

I also think that way! 😂🤣

As a sweltering, human hating INTJ in boxers and a Tshirt shitting at the computer, it was like the toothpick fell out of my mouth. My smug gaze turned to a look of shameful introspection, I dissociated, and lost like a minute of time so then i had to rewind but im over it now. edit i meant sitting obviously wtf whats good with yall

I had an INTJ friend back in college and 90% of our conversations ended up being about our Ni visions of how humanity will slowly wither and die and why we deserve it lol. He challenged any sprinkle of optimism I had to offer. Sorry but Kristin understood the assignment on that one. -enfj

HAHAHAHAHAH That's seriously legit

@@whitneyd6827 The physics teacher next door to me was an ENFJ, It was a spider man pointing at spider man moment (I learned year laters that ENFJs have Ni parent). I have never met anyone who cared so much or worked so hard, doesnt he know that a star that burns twice as bright..but he liked doing it like what the F

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@@holacasita1979 you hurt?

Why do you think that you have the tools to accurately assess your intuitive superiors?

@@nelit708 as always

@@dallassukerkin6878 the same reason you asked that stupid question. Thanks for proving my point tho

True lol I think lots of Fe users can't comprehend us Ni-Fi users being totally aware of our own emotions.

@@EresirThe1st True in many cases, I think. But coming from an INFJ, it's weird. They're, like, our buddies who usually actually understand that we've been sentenced to solitary confinement in our own heads because they're the other Ni doms, so they're up there, all alone, too. We just have different coping strategies to the eternal inner monologue.

What are our minds but suppressed tier lists

My twin is an ENFJ. We aren't in competition. I wish she had more goals beyond basing all her decisions on how her husband might react and not let her kids walk over her. She surprises me with her insights and brilliance and does listen and absorb my suggestions more then most. She calls me judgmental and suspicious and that isn't wrong...overall I like ENFJs and they are one of the easiest types to click with right away. They might get the doorslams if you find out later how manipulative and fake some are.

My best friend is an ENFJ, and we understand each other so well we basically had a whirlwind friendship when we first met. And at the same time, we have complimentary traits. I am reserved, she jumps right into social situations. I really understand peoples motivations, and warn her about them, she has an easy time asking for help and networking. I am great at strategizing on how to approach people to get what I want in the most efficient way, she is very ambitious and hardworking. While I take a long time to finish or even start projects, her motivation is often other people's expectations. I think in our 20 years as friends we have really made each other grow without constantly crossing boundaries and I appreciate that so much.

That's the swetest comment I've read in a while. I can relate, xSFPs have had a similar effect on me. - INTJ

This is so sweet!

ESFJ! The INTP's opposite and best mate if your purpose is max growth!

Depends on the INFJ I'd say.

I haven't found that exactly. The INFJ's I've known are able to criticize themselves to some extent, but they also have a strong belief in their own abilities and, for want of better words, moral superiority. They believe their own philosophy is the correct one and although they are completely open to listening to others, they are very unlikely to be tolerant of other views. Outwardly maybe, but not inwardly.

Fr us ENFP's we really deal with these wounds daily. All we can do is look on the bright side of things. Hell yeah we need our own category.

You’re probably the only INFJ I’ve seen who was ACTUALLY self aware enough to realise how arrogant they can be about these things -ENTJ

@@jacobdevilliers9485 I think if they genuinely engage with these ideas instead of using mbti as some weird class structure they would be way better off

@@jacobdevilliers9485 I think all the "INFJs" (or most of them) who are that arrogant are either mistyped and/or immature ones who are projecting and trying to feel better about themselves. Maybe I'm wrong about this. But this is the impression I've got from so many. I'm also tired of the "special snowflake" complex do many people have and that is obvious in so many communities... Everyone, has talents and flaws. We shouldn't have to feel the need to put others down when they have multiple things they do better than us and we could learn from one another. Growth only happens if you're not afraid to face and accept you darker side. So yeah. This attitude is immature but at least we can work on overcoming it. :)

Yes we do, but I think it's more of an external judginess than a internal one. That is, we come off judgy when internally, we're still open to a lot of possibilities (open-ended, internal Ni versus judgy, external Fe).

:grins: I was very shocked when, decades ago, a girlfriend slapped me with the wet-fish of "You're very kind-hearted but *so* judgemental!". Quite brought me up short ... but it helped me perfect my self-awareness :angel:

Add on top of it that I’m an enneagram 1, I’m definitely judgy. Working on it though 😅

Woohoo! 🥳

Well for the last personalities through the eyes of serie we are missing the ESFP, but really that's just this whole channel ;). Also please let this be a new series!

Can’t wait for this series to boom! 🎉🎉😂😂😂

just as long as there's ENFJ version im good 😆

The istp video would be super easy, two tiers: -pretty cool -no

And to clarify, I do realize this is comedy and it's all meant in fun! 😄

Hopefully, nobody would open up to THAT INFJ. 😂As with every type, there are healthy an unhealthy versions. One of my favourite fictional depictions of a healthy INFJ would be Edward Norton's role in Red Dragon.

And i think healthy INFJs value nothing more than having their friends confide in them

idk this infj seems a bit harsh compared to me and other infjs, when someone doesn't want to open up i leave them alone since I also dont open up to others easily, (also what's it like being ISFP :) )

idk this infj seems a bit harsh compared to me and other infjs, when someone doesn't want to open up i leave them alone since I also dont open up to others easily, (also what's it like being ISFP :) )

Yes thank you INFJ's we appreciate you

Hmm... I was looking for the INFJ who couldn't relate to this video. TBH, I didn't finish it, and I think yours is a great point! I never label people as wounded. Maybe the only INFJs Kristen has met are the narcissistic ones?

This is a good point. I'm often surprised and taken aback by this lack of sensitivity! And it makes me, as a sensitive, feel inferior

I knew the second she unveiled that tier! 😂

ME!!

I saw that coming for a long time, yes 😂 But her description of my own type, INFP, was sooooooo ironically spot-on as well 😅

Can you explain please How

Yeah, Kristin was always excellent at roasting INFJ, but this one is charred and caramelized. So good.

​@@itznav_sin Her portrayal of INFJ is a critic of them.

True 😂

You should say what's your personality type before spitting on INTJs. (I am INTJ and I don't agree with your comment).

​@@lachezarvalentinov8751 He's probably an INTJ as well :/

I think he’s joking. Calm down, kids! Kind regards from old auntie Simone

Nah we put xNxPs at the top, xNxJs in the middle, and sensors at the bottom

@@EresirThe1st Friendly reminder to focus on cognitive functions, not the dichotomies.

Are you annoyed with INFJ Just asking for self improvement -infj

Ok, lay it on me. Which INFJ hurt you? With love🫶, empathy✨️, and spiritual understanding✨️ - another INFJ

I mean. I don't think are being empathetic, caring and spiritual and judgmental are inherently incompatible traits. In a twisted way they go "well" together. And most/many people are extremely judgmental anyway. Not about the same things. The question would be: are you aware of this side of you? Are you willing to put in the work to grow out of it? So yeah, everyone needs an opportunity to grow. And sometimes it's a slap in the face or an extremely accurate satirical video. :)

I agree. It's a good portrayal of an immature infj lol. One's who overcome these traits are great thought.

INFJ who's best friends with an INTP here. We have worked on our communication styles. And it works very well. I would advice honesty but told respectfully (or even gently depending on your INFJ sensitivity). I'm sorry about the passive-aggressiveness, truly, it's like an automatisme that is hard to "unlearn". I don't know what to say about their manipulative tendency, without context. So maybe be careful about yourself?

Sorry about that. Please never joke about it. Tell them directly that you don’t appreciate the passive aggressive tone, and tell them how you want to be treated. Passive aggressiveness usually indicates the suppression and frustration of an INFJ. We are like wounded animals that hiss and bite to cover up their weakness. We have a difficult time expressing our frustration straightforwardly, so it comes out as passive aggressive remarks. I can infer that you are close to these INFJs because they have already showed you this ugly side of themselves. So gather your strength and, lovingly, stop this erratic behavior. You may help the situation by guiding their thinking. Ask them if they are upset about something, or frustrated with you, and whether you can do anything to fix it. This will be enough to ignite the conscience of an INFJ. Take a step back and allow them time to think and answer. INFJs can be difficult but they are smart. They will appreciate you setting boundaries, standing up for yourself and expressing your feelings directly. If this proceeds, do not accept it.

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@@dearkristin 💓💓

All good. I deliberately overdid it ;)

Maybe you are. Maybe it was Kristin exaggerating for comedic purposes and to show an not so mature version of the type. Or maybe it was both. It's weird to love to feel so seen and roasted at the same time XD

⁠@@dearkristin@elisa4620 I did not see the replies but I thought about it and analyzed it (as per character) and I think this is for the better XD because for a long time I thought INFJs had been a somewhat overrated type or like over explained in the sense of “how good” they are, I feel like this could bring some nuance on us. Personally some stereotypes I hate is when they say we are good at reading people. (Edit: specifically other INFJs saying they know what they’re talking about) Like yes but also, could be that because we’re always playing a guessing game of what’s gonna happen next, we cannot help but “look further” on someone. But if we’re honest a lot of times we miss small details or we are too focused on a “vision” that we don’t see what should have been obvious. In other words, we can be wrong 😂😅 I think more INFJs need to admit that. Maybe this arrogant stereotype can shed some light into INFJs. Also other videos with INFJ boot camps as much as I love them and their advice they often use the words “always” and “never” which it is very bold to use on any human. Saying “INFJs will always…or never” is just kinda silly to me. ~end rant