We only speak much about ourselves to people we're close with, but it doesn't need to be romantic tendency. In fact, I don't think we would be this open to a crush cuz by definition they're not as close as we want to be yet.

@@letsreadtextbook1687 Having a crush on a friend is a thing, specially if you are a prospective introvert...

@@ardidsonriente2223 yes but the main point there was they could just be really close. INFPs can still share their problems, they just tend to process it themselves first before doing so. It's a similar vein with my sister and I.

Nah I do really talk about myself because I don't know what else to talk about 💀

I do speak a lot about myself with close friends even if we just have a platonic dynamic.

Yeah I think it's not accurate that INTJ would simply say no

@@nitefriteThat's very stereotypical and wrong: INTJs have Fi in tertiary slot and can be heavy feelers even if the preference will go for Te. Ni-Fi especially when sufficiently developed, can intuitively "feel" when someone is being fake. Also it's quite evident from context that the INFP isn't meaning *literally* everyone, but rather that they'd been facing fake people more frequently at the time of the question. Being pedantic like Sheldon from Big Bang theory (Si) isn't an INTJ trait. This question is particularly relevant because INTJs usually have a hard time socializing in the early life phase, mainly due to Polr Fe function. Social situations can require you to wear masks and be "nice"; most INTJs are generally too honest for their own good and tend to express their Fi. INTJs tend to be very blunt and direct. Most INTJs notice early on that other people aren't necessarily expressing their honest feelings, and that they tend to wear social masks more skilfully. Therefore, the sentiment that people aren't being "genuinely nice" isn't lost on an INTJ.

@@nitefrite INTJs actually feel a lot, they just don't allow themselves to be vulnerable about

Everyday

@@chingchingbling2145 what she meant is that INTJs "don't feel" because they'd rather think, which doesn't mean they don't have feelings or emotions, they just keep those on a deeper layer and rely more on logic and thinking over emotion and feeling.

Awww! He means well... trust me xD

Wait what... what did you do to him... 👀

@@aryowincaster2775 That's not what I meant!

SAME

May God have mercy on his soul

Oof

I CAN'T 😭

lol sometimes I think people don't understand INTJ humor and just get offended. I've noticed that INFPs are inside their head all the time and usually to the detriment of themselves. They are such amazing people, and I hope those who are struggling can become stronger when it comes to protecting themselves because we need them in our lives!

I'm an INFP and this hits a bit too close to home. However, this is completely true, sadly.

@@umaizasfunactivities7478 We all love you no matter what!

I tested as an INFP. I used to dwell specifically on a few things I did to other people in the past. I essentially did an "apology tour" as I called it. Most of the people I apologized to said "I dont remember and I probably forgave you a long time ago." But it massively helped me, I never thought about those things again. I did only focus on what I considered bigger things. I also spent some time specifically crafting the apology, which helped me process it better.

I have an ENFP crush and he don't like me like I wanted 😭 Anyways we're good friends but still 😔

@@joanaborrellsanchez9225 well he still loves you.... As a friend

@@loveablestranger Yeah well he never said "I love you" specifically, he says "you're the best" and things like that. Thanks for your comment. I still love him a lot (as a friend also). I love ENFPs ❤️❤️❤️

YES, AND ITS THE TRUTH

i love enfps

That's awesome to have so many INFPs in your life!

@@cryshulvo Its quite strange as an INFP.. so many people seem to enjoy your company - while you would rather keep your distance to yourself instead beeing forced to listen to your own thoughts 24/7

@@Zuiken2160 It's strange even as an INTJ, but yeah that seems accurate most of the time.

Bro lives in mine of infps💀

Lol yes

I've listened to both close friends and strangers talk for hours on end. It just depends.

i am an intj and i'll be like come to the point and then maybe i can help you . if it's someone close then maybe i won't say it to their face but am definitely thinking inside. true! it depends. maybe i am mean 😶‍🌫🤐

@@akankshaverma8863 No, you're not mean! I love that fact about you :) I can appreciate and respect you wanting people to get to the point and not waste your time talking nonsense hahaha

I would, if they keep being interesting. -INTJ

got the point already in the very first beginning of this conversation, then pretend listening while thinking my own things in the rest of time of this conversation.

I agree, INTJs are HILARIOUS!! My mom is an INTJ 😂 I'm an INFP 😂 She says I taught her a lot of patience 😂😂😂 I say she taught me how to actually use my logic brain 😮😮😮

Beomgyu would send it and laugh in their face :]

@@cryshulvo AAAAAA you said it, bro 💀👊🏻 And yes, actually, YES HE WOULD, this mf- Hope you're having a nice day :> !~

@@minsungderstandings hahaha! I love him. Hope you are too!

I'm... sorry... jk INFPs are awesome! Glad that it's accurate :)

This is very true

Except I don't express my emotions to others

Ooh! Okay, those would be interesting!

I think everyone should see a therapist, but I wish they have better luck finding one they jive with than I did. I'm an INTJ and the experience I had was largely not impactful because they wanted to focus too much on how I felt and less about how I think. Feeling arises from thinking, if I feel bad it's because my thinking is off, and that's largely what cognitive behavioral therapy is about... Another issue I had was that they felt the need to water their explanations down. I'm intelligent enough to discuss different tests and studies and if I don't understand something I'll ask for clarification.

i recommend it to everybody who comes and talks with me about their life, problems, thoughts🥴 idk is everybody sick or incapable of locigal and fair solutions....

That's so cute! I hope they are friendlier to you than in this though haha

Yeah me too🤣

Yeah haha! I feel like that happens a lot to INFP. INTJ cares, but he's just too harsh sometimes haha. Thanks for the comment! Glad you liked it!

@@cryshulvo ☺️💖 aw, good luck for your journey. ☺️💙💖✨

Thanks!

Good for you! Our INFPs are special and deserve the best!

Omg its the first time i saw someone in the mbti comment section abt infp 5w4 :D-infp 5w4

Same. INTJ female with an INFP partner here. Even though I made everything clear 7 years ago at the beginning of our relationship, I'am now facing cold behaviour for the same ideals after we got engaged. It went to the point where he just disrespects me now, and I'am reconsidering the entire relationship with him.

Not like you need to read this, but yeah, that's a major flaw with INFPs, we can get stuck in past issues and bring them to the present moment which can only cause turmoil, so can't blame you for breaking up, specially if you were crystal clear to her.

@@jessielou9138 Thank you. I appreciate it anyway. I think the main issue with miscommunication was when she used intuition to decipher what was wrong with me (which I don't mind), she changed it into how it related to her worst fears, or things felt like they weren't working out and she thought or blamed herself because of her mental health. She never understood that my emotions are sometimes a plethora of jargon in my head and hard to decipher even to myself. So when I seemed upset, or uneasy to her, she put it on herself even after explaining it. I told her, those moments I have to handle alone but she would know when it is too rough. She never gave herself the chance to distinguish that.

@@tile-maker4962 Sorry to hear that. I hope whatever happens it works out positively for both of you!

Sounds like ENFP

Yeah! This is a great observation. Please continue to explain it in more detail! I think people would love to hear you expound upon it.

😂

I'm glad you found it! And he sounds like an amazing friend!

Aw, thank you! 😄 In these MBTI videos, I'm literally just playing myself, haha. I relate to the content a lot 🤧

Thanks for responding! :) I also relate to infp skits/memes as well

He's probably oblivious to it all. If you're good friends talking about stuff could be good :)

I'm glad you guys were able to talk about it and you can understand where she's coming from.

Things I’ve told my teenager - don’t need a history lesson. Just get to the point. I think she may be an INFP.

​@@Kokopilau77 lol definitely sounds like an infp, we tend to get detailed when it's something we’re passionate about. however, we’re also overthinkers and often hesitate

@@kkewsuk that’s definitely her. “I’m going for a walk.” “Ok.” “But it’s cold out.” “So take a jacket.” “But I might too warm.” “So wear long sleeved shirt.” “But I might get too cold.” “FML”

Thank you! I have 4 more videos ready to come out soon!

Me too, how is this happening to us lol

That's such a good observation. So many people operate that way and I don't like it. If you do something for me, don't expect me to do something for you unless we discuss a mutual exchange prior.

Thank you!

I also got into MBTI thanks to a beautiful blonde girl xD

@@cryshulvo 😅Isn't it beautiful?

Yes! I love this insight. I think that's such a good approach of thinking about it. Keep being awesome!

This is fantastic advice, and I relate to this a lot. I'm an overthinker and I got into the pattern of analyzing conversations way too much 😤 even after they've ended! Sometimes we need to take the pressure off of ourselves.

@@Charaito and sometimes we have to smack our brains so that they stop being dramatic 😭😂👌

You could turn this into a business somehow and get something you want out of it at least lol xD

@@cryshulvo yeh , eventually I'm gonna make my own career for this😂

Ah...you have discovered the 'good listener' trick. Most conversations are just occasions for ppl to take turns running their own monolgues. A person who isn't just waiting for their turn to speak is rare. In fact, most ppl are never really listened to. So when you say nowt, they get to ramble on. Welcome to the world of the psychologist. For $100 an hour they will listen and affirm, but never interrupt. INTJ's do this for free.

@@imho2278 true

Very troo

The point is many times INTJ is perceived as rude-both to friends and strangers-when they aren't necessarily trying to be rude.

INFP here and I don't think he's being rude. Perhaps the years I have spent with an INTJ have made me change my mind lol

Thank you!

Samsung

@@triangleswith3angles one of my favorites

INFP.

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@@cryshulvo sorry it was a joke I didn't expect you to read the comments xD

@@triangleswith3angles Haha no you're fine. I know it was a joke. I liked it xD I see everything...