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Ironic Rebound in Narcissism, Borderline, Psychopathy

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Prof. Sam Vaknin

Prof. Sam Vaknin

Күн бұрын

Pathological narcissism, borderline personality, and anxious psychopathy involve the only partly successful suppression of cognitions (thoughts) via ironic processes. Similarly entrained abuse involves ironic processes in the victim’s mind.

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@productioninquiry8937
@productioninquiry8937 Жыл бұрын
Dr. Professor Sam Vaknin w/ a bell is a whole vibe. 🔔🔔 🔔
@michellesabol1718
@michellesabol1718 Жыл бұрын
Good morning Professor Vaknin, the greatest psychologist who ever is you of course 💁‍♀️
@secretdiva9414
@secretdiva9414 Жыл бұрын
Ah...absence maketh the heart grow fonder. So happy to see you making a new video again. 😊
@johnpatzold8675
@johnpatzold8675 Жыл бұрын
Yes, LOVE Doestoevesky. Everything he wrote, but Brothers Karamazov is the Greatest novel in my estimation ever written.
@janetgd
@janetgd Жыл бұрын
Insightful and powerful. So pleased I got out as quickly as I did. I guess that's why journalling and meditation helps us help. We are releasing the junk in our heads.
@bananafanalll6651
@bananafanalll6651 Жыл бұрын
Sam Vaknin was my 1st choice
@goldenbreeze6618
@goldenbreeze6618 Жыл бұрын
You’re the best profesor of our times. Thank you for sharing the knowledge :)
@felipefelix8027
@felipefelix8027 Жыл бұрын
Glad you’re back!
@preshizmp5797
@preshizmp5797 Жыл бұрын
Super insightful and refreshing! Glad to have you back.
@the1rockgirl
@the1rockgirl Жыл бұрын
Hi Sam, Your videos are always excellent! Thank you!
@runwiththewind3281
@runwiththewind3281 Жыл бұрын
Professor Vaknin., Thank you.
@juliearntsen6288
@juliearntsen6288 Жыл бұрын
Hey! Now i want red wine 😅
@Charlie-radio
@Charlie-radio 14 күн бұрын
I love your introductions! I love that you have that bell. I love Dostoyevsky. I love Professor Vaknin.
@Sammiejam
@Sammiejam Жыл бұрын
Phew! You are back! It made my day to see that you posted a new vid. :)
@carolemiller4464
@carolemiller4464 Жыл бұрын
This is why people can't lose weight on a "diet." We are trying to avoid eating bad food but the first thing we do when we have a trigger is think about bad food - and go eat it
@oWMatt
@oWMatt Жыл бұрын
I don't think it's that easy to explain why some people can't lose weight on a diet. I believe most people can and do lose weight on a diet if done correctly. Keeping that weight is also another topic on it's own.
@carolemiller4464
@carolemiller4464 Жыл бұрын
@@oWMatt The fact is that the majority of people who go off their diets keep thinking about the other foods that they really want to be eating. It's just like the concept don't think about the polar bear and don't think about the wine.
@w8fall
@w8fall Жыл бұрын
Try doing exercise, when you achieve your dream body and get used to train and eat healthy you will value your body and yourself far more than some shitty food that only offers taste in exchange of your health and mental wellbeing
@carolemiller4464
@carolemiller4464 Жыл бұрын
@@w8fall the topic is not losing weight. Watch the video
@w8fall
@w8fall Жыл бұрын
@@carolemiller4464 your topic is trying to find a way to cope with your overweight, i'm just trying to help ya know
@Scorpio200
@Scorpio200 Жыл бұрын
You are a blessing . just brilliant .
@Ann-je4jt
@Ann-je4jt Жыл бұрын
Love you professor Vaknin, thank you for sharing your knowledge
@twinpeetzmoolsaasa854
@twinpeetzmoolsaasa854 Жыл бұрын
Welcome back dear Dr Vaknin :) I will read polar bears revisited, that was really funny! I wish you a nice weekend
@Stephanie_bitches89
@Stephanie_bitches89 Жыл бұрын
I love your brain
@malikak9384
@malikak9384 Жыл бұрын
You are the best, thank you very much .
@paulbickley
@paulbickley Жыл бұрын
Wow, that's incredible. I was in that dance. Thankyou.
@lehua16
@lehua16 Жыл бұрын
OMG I needed to hear this today so bad !!! 🙌My monkey mind form narc abuse! More you resist more you think...So make sense! BTW Is critical inner voice is the same thing???🤔
@lomaxx27
@lomaxx27 Жыл бұрын
I just had a thought, maybe dramatisation/drama class would help us x
@joesheridan7780
@joesheridan7780 Жыл бұрын
Prof Vaknin, thank you for your insightful videos. I'm just wondering if laughter would work to defeat the intrusive thoughts? If instead of trying to suppress the thoughts the person would just try to laugh at the thoughts maybe this would minimise them and then then would eventually go away. The reason I'm suggesting this is that this worked for me. I don't have NPD or any other disorder but did have a year of intrusive thoughts and this got rid of them. I couple of times the monitor did kick in again and they started back up but every time they did I would just laugh at them like a comedian would and gradually over time they just completely went away. Once I decided not to panic about having them and decidedly to live my my life as if I didn't have them (and keep laughing & poking fun at them) they eventually went away. After defeating them a number of times the monitor went away as I knew that if they came back I could just defeat them again with laughter. Acceptance was another part of getting rid of them. I just decided to acccept that I may have them for the rest of my life but that I would live my life as if I didn't and cope with them by using laughter.
@lenaduggan4697
@lenaduggan4697 Жыл бұрын
So we should stop trying to suppress forbidden thoughts, but embrace them and deal with them one at a time?
@kibbsellis9445
@kibbsellis9445 Жыл бұрын
Wow. So I like the last projection. Ah this helps with the awareness of childhood plants. Or inserted control bells within so many systems. So how does this manifest within remembrance of institional aspects in awareness? Do they teach these practices to teachers?
@michaelmich00
@michaelmich00 11 ай бұрын
the more your suppress, the bigger it comes back
@Abstractpeace
@Abstractpeace Жыл бұрын
What's the best way to get access to a neuropsychologist or qualified psychologist for assessment? In Canada, getting proper therapy and coverage is predicated on a clinical diagnosis.
@glossylove21
@glossylove21 Жыл бұрын
Oh, oh, don't tell me, it's you, the answer to the riddle is you! Edit: ah, you got me on that one!
@jessicawysocki7844
@jessicawysocki7844 Жыл бұрын
i tried to think of a brown bear instead as a trick but it didnt work
@reviancbell
@reviancbell Жыл бұрын
I instantly knew the answer was going to be Fyodor Dostoyevsky
@meladygenereux8800
@meladygenereux8800 Жыл бұрын
What about person who doesn’t act in abusive way and is able to discuss possible of diagnosis and interventions?? Does that person have milder form of disorder with chance symptom management?
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