My white husband is no different. What is going on in the world these days? A woman cannot believe in anyone. My heart is broken in a thousand pieces. I cant function most days. These videos have helped me a lot today.

This is disgusting. It makes me want to stay single forever.

Ms Fey telling all of us what our mothers should have told us about..Crazy

This woman is saving women thousand's of dollars in THERAPY!!!!!!!!!

This explains so much about my ex and our sex life. Let me say I am lucky not to have hiv! Thank you

I’m in a sexless marriage with a man and I just found out that he has been on gay/trans escort sites. He deceived me and had a baby with me. I am so disgusted with him. He never showed no sign until recently but the fact that he has been avoiding sex explains it ALL now. Glad I found out now than later. I’m ready to exit my way with my baby and divorce this monster.

There should be a federal law and prison time for this …. Deception And jeopardizing citizens health

Sad reality this is real and really terrible. Men should be shamed to drag women into this filth unwillingly. 😤

This is not just a black problem .White men are like this too.

This is one of the reasons why the Black community is in the terrible predicament it is in. It is as if Black men have given up their manhood. I am glad to hear Ms. Faye, speak on the topic of DL men. It is terrible seeing young men wearing sagging pants but, every time a see Black men over thirty wearing their pants sagging there is no hope for them. Again Ms. Faye, you have shared with us what you have learned from living.

This was my experience exactly. His aura was always off. He never appeared happy, nor with me. Thank God I was wise enough to figure this out. Thanks for this confirmation Ms Faye, you are so on point.

Parents are too eager to leave their children with a boyfriend they've only known for a short time. Leave their children with a coach, music instructor, martial arts instructor, and neighbors. And I would look at young boys who like to babysit too What young boys want to babysit all the time. And your new coworker always volunteers to watch your kids. And watch out for the husband's and boyfriends of your girlfriends, too. Trust no one you don't know, cousins, brothers, or uncles.

A former health provider told me she caught her husband in their house in the basement doing this dude who he always said was his close friend from way back. smh

Be careful ladies...better 2 be single n celibate n safe!

Thank you Miss Faye for this wonderful channel. After 30+ found out my man was on the DL. I don't feel so alone seeing other women understand but it does still hurt a lot

(29:15) You are certainly helping me and I'm a 48-year-old black female, divorced with three children under age of 19. I just found your Channel today. It's all a blessing. I hope you continue with this for as long as you can. 💐

It’s not just the alcohol, it’s the drugs too that will allow evil spirits into your space.

This is making me feel nauseous.... Because I know it's true.

Ma’am you are sharing pearls of wisdom. Thank you sooo sooo much ., you are an earth Angel ❤

I asked my man friend was he gay, he didn't say yes or no, so that leaves me to believe he is Gay!!

Thank you Miss Faye, I've always had all friends of all sex, shape and color but as I've become older and been dissapointed at how perverted people are I have to be more alone. You speak as though you would have been the big sister I didn't have. Everyone I meet just wants sex; gay, bi, single, married couples. What on earth is wrong with them ?. I'll just stay alone...God loves me and a true friend gave me a prayer book for Christmas.

Even more disconcerting is they have no problem wasting the other persons time and emotions and of course their resources too propping up a fraud.

I was dating a guy that was Dl now my health is on the line . Please pray for me Miss Faye. This guy was so sick in the head yet I ignored the signs

They’ll even pretend like their boyfriends are their cousins or relatives. And if you’re new to the family, you don’t know that’s not his blood relative.

Ms. Faye….. You are truly in your calling with these messages. You hit it on the nail EVERY ONE of your videos! I truly hope women out there are listening. Wisest words ever spoken. I can’t thank you enough for sharing. God bless you!🙏🏽♥️

It’s weird when they profess so much love for you and one argument and it’s like they don’t remember you at all

I’m staying abstinent it’s a great stress reliever

She’s not lying about none of this it’s so true I’ve just got out of an relationship like this it’s so hurtful to hear 👂🏾 from someone else that all this was going on and I paid no attention 😢

They get more pleasure sneaking around. Its a kink. Thank you 😊 💓 It's so funny you are burning trash 🗑 🤣Thats perfect for the topic 👌 🙌🏽

Thank you for being direct and transparent. Love and respect you for that . 🌺💕

Not only does he like a good looking woman for a great cover, the DL man will also date women outside of his race because women within his race, will and can blow his cover more easily. It’s not easy hiding for long from your own kind.

You are straight no chaser. I like that.

Thank you Miss Faye, I just subscribed to you because, you say what I have been thinking. I have been told that I am old fashioned because I won't allow myself to be used. I stand on my own two feet. I am 64 years old and it's been hard being celibate. But, again, I needed to hear someone say don't give up your power. I feel alone because most women I know give away everything.

I’m a black woman in England and I date white men exclusively and let me tell you something - the DL is a problem with them as well. The only thing I would say is a little better is that they’re a lot more open about their homosexual encounters. But for the grace of God have I not got intimately involved with two men that have previously had sex with other men. Talk about playing Russian roulette with your life; luckily for me they both told me of their previous encounters and I got rid of them before I ever even share a kiss with them.

Threw out a covert narcissist a few years back n think he may have been on the dl...thank God I tested negative 4 all stds!!! Women better be careful about stds n stis n aids n herpes! You never know what your man is up to n don't forget about massage parlors!!!

‘It’s hurting us women and we don’t have to put up with it.’ Yes, amen, sister

I know this is not a very recent video but still crucial info to consider as it relates to the dl man. J.L. King is an African American author who describes it best in his books about living a secret life on the dl while married with a family until his wife caught him having sex with a man. Thanks Miss Faye for sharing the insight in this video.

She is telling the truth about everything! I worked as an officer in a state prison for my career. Both men and women's facilities. The issues here are not just in the prison system. I have run into three of these guys in a vary small town in Utah. One guy was trying to get with me. Because of everything I learned in prison I called the guy out. He was dumbfounded that I knew what he was doing. I told him I'm nobody's beard! At the end of the day, he treated me way different because he knew how much power I held. It's still funny to me that all three of these guys run together. Birds of a feather flock together......

And you will never know them just the part they want you to see

SO TRUE!! I LOOK FOR RED FLAGS ALL THE TIME, NOW THAT I HAVE GOTTEN OLDER AND WISER! THANK YOU AGAIN!!

Hi Miss Faye, I enjoy all your videos. This is what our young women need as well as the older women. Bless You!!!

I’m sick of that treatment they buy you a meal and think you will give them sex because they spent money on you, NOPE!!! I’m not going to be a booty call 🚫🚫🚫 - Raylene Price

These men don't wanna get to know you or they don't want you to know them

i love your energy, message and wisdom. so lucky to have found this channel

I Really appreciate your channel. I live in New Orleans where in 2023 HIV is #2 in the entire country.. I also saw a very popular Gay DJ here in New Orleans say that he hosted for the holidays on one evening 5 different Gay events and he said there were mostly HETEROSEXUAL men at each event more so than the Gay men.. Ill never forget him saying "New Orleans, Whats REALLY going on???"... Big Sigh & Smh thanks so much for this video post. Ladies Stay safe out there

Mam, this is true. Closeted bisexual men are everywhere. I don't judge people for their nature if they are committed good people, but nobody should cheat with a male or female when they are married to a person. If someone shows other signs of being a deceitful, two faced, fake, selfish, or controlling person...then be careful. Use protection until you can leave the situation.

You hit the nail on the head, lust is where most relationships started, so true I speak with my daughter's about their ❤️ language.

Yes, dating is getting to know someone. Don’t rush. Long story short, If there’s something detrimental that you spot then you break up with him, though he may get angry. When that happens, block him. No second thoughts!

Thank you Miss Fay for educating women about this

You always help me out with the situation , thank you

I loved watching this video. Lady you are a blessing to many women out here and you are very wise and know what you're talking about. I like how you teaching the young and older women.

🎉😢My ex husband is still DL because he’s an Arab muslim. He’s been paying for the “gym” for 9 years but never lost any weight or gained any muscle! He’s past 40 now. Not so attractive to the 20 & 30 somethings anymore. Old gays always looking for young gays. Young gays lookin for DL gays money 😅. He 🧛‍♂️fat, older, & ain’t got no 💵 now 😅. So now he’s trying to come back my way. 🙅🏽‍♀️ Heck No!!!

I had a man 35 years my senior approach me and courted me like he wanted to be my fiance, he also introduced us to the temple like that. He lived with a man and never spent the night after being in my house and wanting sex the entire time. Well at about the one and half year mark another person took over him and he no longer wanted to touch me. I always had nightmares of running and not being able to get to my destination , sweating and stressed. That was God tell me what he enjoyed doing to me , sabotage. At the end he had his roommate call me and say we broke up! So sometimes you are a cover for them. He would provoke fights and use my reaction to justify what he tells everyone else. It is spiritual warfare. Thank you again for this therapy ❤️ 🙏

Miss Faye, your video was very informative! I appreciate you so much!

Brand new subscriber here - love your content - you're like the best favorite aunty - keep on keeping it real!

May God judgement expose the lies that down low men like to keep hidden.

I Love You ! This Video Is Everything !

As real as this topic is, it makes a woman not even want to be bothered with them. If I EVER found out my husband was on the DL, that would be a total deal breaker. I have a heart disease and those meds don’t mix with my heart meds and it would be a death sentence for me.

Keep up the good work. This is one lady who is real and logical and knows nonsense when it comes her way. Helping these young ladies out here. Very critical detailed thought process and the little things she is saying are as important. Most of these videos don't talk about this honestly to keep from blowing their cover. Thank you! Burning trash now that is clever

Ms Faye so Happy to have found your channel, I appreciate the sharing of your non- judgemental words of Wisdom & Truth...

Ms. Fay you talking true facts.

Ms. Faye you are my, our kindred spirit. Thank you 😊 💓

I’m 45 I divorced at 42 my husband was undercover with a coworker And I help him build his career and he treated me like shit after and during the divorce process

I like your realness and honesty. Seriously

Also the culture of jail and prison bring males into fold of homosexuality, and lack true male relationship with their fathers.

You’re right!!! New subbie from Tampa Florida 🌴 Love your channel.🌷

Love your videos new subscriber I grew up in the lgbt community my family created Chicago house dance so to speak I’m straight but everything you said Chile 😩😂😂😂 was spot ON!

Love your guidance Ms. Faye. Thank you for TRUTH👍

Hi Ms.Faye, Awesome Channel and keep up the good work. 💯👍

A lot of men are living the DL life for the MONEY! It's scary out here. 🙏🏽

Had “a dl “fiancé ( a Marine)who beat me so I ran backhome to parents! Thank u thank u thank u big sis !

👏👏👏... LOVE the forthright manner in which you express the truth about the situation on your absolutely beautiful property. Thank you, Miss Faye~ ❣️🙏🏾

Thank you for telling truths that others won't

Get a private investigator to check them out.

Yes I totally felt "he didnt REALLY want to be around me" Yet he kept me on his arm and in front of his dick friends to make his dick friends jealous. Ms Faye I didnt want to SEE it. Didnt want to believe it.

Not only we be heartbroken but messes with our mind. Takes a hor minute ti get back to being normal again if we can call it that.

The minute I have to question that about someone is the minute they are done dealing with me lol. No more feminine damsel in distress men. ❤

Thank you for amazing wisdom love it🙏🏼

I used to be all about the church. I dated a preacher. He was a bodybuilder. He was a golden gloves boxer and looked like, the Rock. He was also a senior design engineer, so I thought I picked the perfect person. That is until I finally met his "buddy" Clinton, when I decided to go to the gym with him. I thought Clinton would be big, stocky, and masculine like him. Instead, Clinton was an aerobics instructor. It was over when I looked in there and saw him flitting around with the other women. He was the first and last black man, I ever dated.

Keeping it Real!!! Ms Faye is Right on All Points!! I have witnessed this!!!! Thank you for sharing

My mother used to tell me, that a man is gonna be a man. And as I got older I understood exactly, what she was talking abt. My mother always talked to me, and I'm very grateful to her for that. In her day, no one talked them abt sex. But she didn't raise me like that. If I had a question, she was always ready to answer it. God bless her.

Ladies these are FACTS 💯

It is exactly like u said it with my boyfriend! Thank you so much for clearing that up for me

Miss Faye I want to let you know something. I’ve encountered 3 DL men that eat plenty of 🐱 so sometimes even if he does do that it doesn’t mean he still doesn’t prefer another man.

Thank you for your channel and your words of wisdom to.

True I knew a narcissists who was raped as a 5 year old repeatedly by clergy from 5 to 9 when he understood it was wrong but it was to late for him hes a horrible person now

If you suspect it HE IS 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉

They are found in your local Parks ... in the parking lots, and in the woods. I walk my dogs in the parks daily ... and the men meet-ups are plentiful.

A few yesrs ago a Police seargant recently retired had a heart attack at their family vacation home.. to the wifes surprise he was with his male lover.. the man died.

Recurrent BV is a strong clue.

And here I was thinking your grilling something delicious 😂

My ex husband left me after I helped him to fix credit, get full custody of his kids for another woman. After 15 years, I realized he did that in his first marriage. Now, I ve heard he is doing that in his third marriage. PLUS, gay men used to ask me if he was gay. Now I wonder

You telling the gospel truth dear sister 🙏💯🎯🥰

My Ex tricked me. I was young and not experience but it finally came out after 22 years of marriage. Actually my Ex was perverted in other things but believe he cheated on me with men and other younger females. After awhile he started hating me and ignoring me despite 2 children. I got the vibes and he let me know by the bruises on his butt and going on 2 week vacation with a gay man at his job. I was a cover up and did not realize it till years later . When I realized it I filed for divorce. He did get married again to a female older doctor who travels all the time so he is now in the perfect marriage. I think the bisexuals are in all races. So women accept it for mates. Luckily I never got a disease! I I look back on signs were there...he had no male friends and refused to get to know other couples when married, very neat and obsessed wiht home decor, and very picky about many things. Also during divorce my Ex hubby took my 2 teen kids to movie about homosexual lifestyle. I was SO upset!! Also I think my family brothers knew but just ignored me and did not say anything at all. A bisexual male is worse than a man who runs after just ladies. I just read Will Smith the actor is gay now too. It seems to be more of a lifestyle in Hollywood

Everything you're saying makes a lot of sense I'm listening to you very well I'm paying attention to everything you're saying thanks for sharing

Straight talk MissFaye 🎉

That was a goood.... goood videos Miss Faye. All you are speaking is true with good details- on every point! Yet I do want to distinguish that I am a born again believer, disciple of Jesus Christ which is different from being a religious or a church goer. It is a true in dwelling of God's spirit that opens your soul to understand spiritually, I do go to church, on purpose and in purpose - and for good reason, there is strength, healing and deliverance in the church, the study of the Bible-the Word of God makes you wise not perfect! "Woke"! Yet there are those that come out of tradition and others with their evil spirits to prey on others. I can say yes to so much you say bc I'm over 50 formerly married to a minister and work for the Court System. Miss Faye you are exposing and encouraging! Enjoying your content is real and helful!

Thank you miss Faye thank you this mind blowing but it’s true❤

This is a hard talk to listen to but its very important to hear this.

Looking lovely ma'am 👍🏽 thanks for all of your advice 👍🏽🇹🇹♥️💯.