Is It True That Women Want Bad Boys in Their 20's and Good Guys in Their 30's and 40's?

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Is It Easier To Attract The Person You Need Over The Person You Want?
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@jaymoore5407 Жыл бұрын

Men shouldn't care what women want. Fully focus on you my guys.

@SWISSMUSICFC Жыл бұрын

Maybe they should also ignore their daughters, you sound new to earth!

@jaymoore5407 Жыл бұрын

@@SWISSMUSICFC a man also doesn't have sex with his daughter, that is a ridiculous comparison. That's the problem, let me stop speaking to you and speak to the men. Gents, learn to separate your mom and your daughter from your girl. They are not the same, so don't treat them the same. In the words of Mike Tyson - "your mother does things for you because she loves you. Your girlfriend/ wife loves you because of what you do for her" Please don't compare yourself to someone's daughter. You are your father's responsibility Ms. independent.

@clayhova Жыл бұрын

This is a truth I and many have to learn or learned the hard way.. Stay focus..

@thetechconsultant Жыл бұрын

Not caring what women want goes completely against what they say they want men to do. With that being said, I agree. But that statement can be taken way too literal and only works if the things you’re focused on is exactly what she wants and needs.

@clayhova Жыл бұрын

@@thetechconsultant It being literal is the point I believe. Who cares what a woman want or needs.. that changes on the fly

@OkayJayy_ Жыл бұрын

The nice guy in a womens 30’s is just a settling safe zone for choosing bad men and being for the streets. They don’t go for the men they need until the fun is over, focus on yourselves kings

@truthseekingfreethinker5214 Жыл бұрын

To be honest, women in their 30s wouldn't be so bad if the fun wasn't over. Now all they come with is trauma and expectations set by previous bad relationships.

@ICEMAN24072 Жыл бұрын

@@truthseekingfreethinker5214 At that point they dont respect you.Its like a hostile takeover if you abide.

@ContextReallyMatters Жыл бұрын

@@truthseekingfreethinker5214 Exactly. You're expected to deal with all the baggage from her previous toxic situations. No, thank you.

@mastershokhan Жыл бұрын

Then comes divorce 5 years later. She wants to go back to the streets.

@ICEMAN24072 Жыл бұрын

@@mastershokhan Lmao "BACK" She ain't never leaving them streets.They always want bad boys but I agree with u

@hmieklix6375 Жыл бұрын

Fellas what we can learn from this video, women mature physically but not in the head. The moment they stop getting attention and validation is the moment they start to mature💯

@ICEMAN24072 Жыл бұрын

100

@shuntavaisjohnson345 Жыл бұрын

True

@LOSTGPS Жыл бұрын

shit all them old women on Kevin Samuels show were delusional

@MarcusTheJR Жыл бұрын

I agree, when the sexual appeal leaves they develop.

@BlankestKnight Жыл бұрын

@LOSTGPS Key words "start to mature." Some women will mature at a snails pace and some just won't at all

@Ghragle- Жыл бұрын

Nah. I never had to touch fire to know it was hot. I saw paper being lit on fire and destroyed and understood what it was. Women know who will make them a wife, and who would make them a baby mama. They choose the later 🤦🏾‍♂️. Stop making excuses. Also if the bad dudes have imprinted on them, they will mistreat, basically punish the good man for her choices in men.

@Neo.Jordon Жыл бұрын

It's cool bruh, we've left them already. Hope the next generation of women are wives....

@Ghragle- Жыл бұрын

@@Neo.Jordon women who are around 22-25 are far more likely to be wives. Not even because of the way they were raised. They’re malleable. If you are looking for a wife shoot younger. No one over 30. Especially if they have kids.

@Jmelpegues Жыл бұрын

Facts I've been through trying to be the perfect guy to a female shawty did me dirty .I work a good job her baby daddy is older then me still on the street corner, I got my own shawty baby daddy at home with momma still. she left me for him. Lesson don't deal with single mothers I'm in my 30s if I do decide to start back dating it'll be female's in there 20s.

@donquantum1615 Жыл бұрын

@jamil pegues well get the passport...even living presidents have foreign wives ...it is what it is.

@lebomoabi148 Жыл бұрын

A girl i was interested in once said those words, (the next boyfriend will suffer for the hurt that the dudes prior imprinted in me). I aborted mission that moment.

@phenomenal-xv4ey Жыл бұрын

They will marry or be in a relationship with the good guy and cheat with the bad boy that they like in their 20's. They win and have it all.

@doublepromo8240 Жыл бұрын

"If you want what you want, you need to know how to be what what you want wants." This says it all.

@briamonyae1396 Жыл бұрын

This right here ❤

@briamonyae1396 Жыл бұрын

That part 👏🏾

@BirdFinder100 Жыл бұрын

We gotta do better as a community when we’re speaking. Just say “Be the person your ideal partner desires”.

@jmanbee1334 Жыл бұрын

Precisely. Do not chase what u want attract it.

@darthbaby3281 Жыл бұрын

@@BirdFinder100 you’re using words like “gotta” yet trying to police the man’s message. You “gotta” do better. 🤣

@tyi6630 Жыл бұрын

The word" Choose" So you choose a bad bad boy over a good guy. Pearl said to this she made the point. You choose a bad boy you knew the decision when you made it.

@oajayy1374 Жыл бұрын

Idgaf no more…I see why men rather stay single. Focus on themselves and get your value higher.

@toreynelms5081 Жыл бұрын

Its because were opposites (whole verse Hebrew translated) Genesis 2:18 - For the man to be by himself is not good I will make for him a EZER KENEGDO (HEBREW WORD FOR) helper as opposite to him. See why women love villains on my nel for what this looks like. The video isn't as long as it appears

@LOSTGPS Жыл бұрын

now I see why fathers would pick the men for their daughters back in the days lmao

@DTreatz 19 күн бұрын

Yep _Unwin also stated "In the past, too, the greatest energy has been displayed only by those societies which have reduced their sexual opportunity to a minimum by the adoption of absolute monogamy (para. 168). _*_In every case the women and children were reduced to the level of legal nonentities, sometimes also to the level of chattels, always to the level of mere appendages of the male estate._*_ Eventually they were freed from their disadvantages, but at the same time the sexual opportunity of the society was extended. Sexual desires could then be satisfied in a direct or perverted manner... _*_So the energy of the society decreased, and then disappeared."_*_ He points out that "No society has yet to succeeded in regulating the relations between the sexes in such a Way as to enable sexual opportunity to remain at a minimum for an extended period." - _*_and thus all societies have collapsed._* - J. D. Unwin, _Sex and Culture_ circa 1930s 💊

@96Views Жыл бұрын

By 40? So she wants to be on the streets till she’s 40?

@hmieklix6375 Жыл бұрын

It’s funny how they went thru their 20s with the chads Tyrone’s and ignored the good guys. 10 yrs later…. they hit 30, expecting a red carpent and nice guys who has worked on himself to commit in a relationship… 😂 this sounds good on paper but in reality that don’t work.🤦‍♂️

@BlackMarvel25 Жыл бұрын

I wish I had this information when I was in my early 20s. Nowadays women tell you everything you need to know about them without you even having to ask. They just say it themselves on tik tok or KZfaq.

@Understandme44 Жыл бұрын

Hence why older men go for younger women. Older women have so much trauma from the bad boys and set the bar higher for the good men. Smh

@lobecosc Жыл бұрын

Yes, it true. Women know the difference between both men in their 20s. In my opinion, women choose the bad boy because he is what other women want and are intrigued by him. The approval of the sisterhood is more important to them then being happy with a guy that treats them love and respect. Women have no problem sharing men they have no interest in being with long term. I believe that it's not that women don't want the good guy at all, she just don't want him when she isn't mature enough for him. It seems that a lot of women want to "Live Their Best Lives" when their young and then have the light bulb come on when their maternal instincts kick in later on. That's not the problem, the problem is assuming that the a man will accept the fact that you chose to ride the C.C., increasing your body count and then justifying it by saying that you were young and your past shouldn't matter now that you are with me and that you are more mature and know what you want. It's OK for a woman to be for the streets and to be honest about it. It's not OK for a woman to gaslight a guy into believing that her sexual past is not important to him. This good guy says thank God for the Pookies, the Ray-Ray's and the Dante's they have babies by because it shows the good guy that she wasn't into him in the first place. Like I said in the beginning, women know the difference between both men early in life, she's just not attracted to him in the beginning.

@mike8479 Жыл бұрын

Women do want the good guy but validation is everything for a woman. Women validate what people say over their own life. It's just that when a woman hits 30 there is no there to validate her but her kids and her boyfriend.

@whenniceguysretaliate5619 Жыл бұрын

If you "prioritize what you think you want" over "what you need;" you'll never be fulfilled.

@kumplexxbeatz4762 Жыл бұрын

men look for women that make us look better…..women look for men that makes their life better

@AyeYoQ Жыл бұрын

Women in their 30s start focusing on family an becoming a wife & women in their 40s most of them be already divorced with children an just looking for some company!!! But some women regardless of age got they type of men whom they just want even if it’s the bad boys

@tyriley7488 Жыл бұрын

Yup when they hit that 30 it’s a different kind of woman now it’s about stability, building, family. I’m good on all that. Im the good dude they ignored. I’m good on saving a chick/babymama.

@Spdx913 Жыл бұрын

Women glorify bad behavior of each other. They then think men don't know they getting ran through or hustling men etc.

@DTreatz 19 күн бұрын

Are we starting to see why they didn't have rights yet? Or do we need _more_ content, data points, and studies? 🤔💊

@bless-is-life7756 Жыл бұрын

Fellas focus on your health and wealth💯🎯

@gregs7460 Жыл бұрын

No, that's false. A lot of women don't even seem to want nice guys in their 30s.

@ContextReallyMatters Жыл бұрын

The problem will be, all the toxic experiences she had with other men, she will try to take all that out on you. So I would suggest that you proceed with caution. Be clear what you won't tolerate and stand on it. Any disrespect and it's a wrap. Any lies and it's a wrap.

@MarcusTheJR Жыл бұрын

I agree. All the terrible experiences, the next man ends up dealing with it all. And he leaves giving more and more shit

@quintonstorm Жыл бұрын

Her example with the light in the insects, and choosing who we entertain, was exactly what he had just said when he said we miss guide ourselves, we make the choice and the people we choose to deal with and chase.

@MrMakemusicmike Жыл бұрын

The problem with social media is too many people downplaying common sense. In general, wisdom comes with age. Why debate age old knowledge?

@ShortsEntertaimentTV Жыл бұрын

Every choice that you make in life has a consequence and every consequence defines your character it's just the way it is so it does matter what you do in the past.

@blackups__6554 Жыл бұрын

Learn from others experiences if you’re smart. That’s what I did and I became a top 10% earner at 27yrs even though I grew up in a poor household. Men need to be discipline and assert if the want to go far quicker. My dad told me when I just got out of high to pick any career that I like that has a good job market and pays well and still to it. One key character that women need to pay attention to when it continues to picking a good husband is his consistency and commitment to accomplishing what he starts.

@ICEMAN24072 Жыл бұрын

Women dont think like what you are saying,on average until they need some security.

@Rashaadthegr8 Жыл бұрын

Facts.Good guys when that biological clock is on the last seconds.

@kristophanynoble5263 Жыл бұрын

We've been debating this for over 10 years and still the point isn't getting across to both men and women.

@AyeYoQ Жыл бұрын

Men if most women you desire in their 20s I say this all the time be patient she will come around once she have a baby by the bad guy an be looking for the good guy to raise em!! That’s LIFE

@ContextReallyMatters Жыл бұрын

I saw this with my brother. He had a girlfriend in high school. They broke up not long after high school. She went and had a baby for a dude in the streets. The dude got killed. Then she tried to come back to my brother and wanted him to play stepdaddy. It lasted for about a month but bro came to his senses.

@impervious99 5 ай бұрын

That's your life lol.. not doin it

@Otakuoasis6860 Жыл бұрын

The men ain’t waiting for them those days are over now their going to find out their no men waiting for them

@robertrios1732 Жыл бұрын

What the problem these hurt women are lying about, is they are broken from those decisions. Men get stronger for the world from bad decisions while women destroy the world with their decisions. Yes men have to just worried and plan for everything because women want you for what you bring and not who you are. This show is an example of broken women showing the smiles and not the tears of their decisions.

@ShortsEntertaimentTV Жыл бұрын

It's like saying I want this job but I have no clue what I need to require that job but you should take me as I am that's modern day women when it comes to men.

@kdeeznuttz Жыл бұрын

You won't find good men around single woman in there 30's and 40's

@MrTrav110594 Жыл бұрын

I want all the members on at one time. Bring those episodes BACK!!!!

@jordanglasper1064 Жыл бұрын

Dis is a good discussion

@kumplexxbeatz4762 Жыл бұрын

this baby hair thing is distractive …. Laughing out loud

@Don-hc4gk Жыл бұрын

She did that to make her forehead look smaller

@IluvJamila Жыл бұрын

I would say yes it’s true. Only because when you know better you do better.

@Neo.Jordon Жыл бұрын

Learn the knowledge before the damage is done

@genovasquez8361 Жыл бұрын

I think you want something different. When I was 16 years old I just wanted a good woman who was faithful who made me smile so I can have a good conversation with who I can satisfy sexually in every way and who I can make her my world. Looks and really matter. But once I turned about 30 to 35 I changed all of that thinking I'm 46 now since about 30 looks do matter extremely it like top of the list she can't wait over 145 lb at least not for a wife I'm not going to marry a woman who is below a 8 or 9 and looks. And I definitely want her to be very young like 18 to 24 I didn't always think this way when I was in my teens and my 20s but around about 30 that's when I changed. I also didn't want a woman to be submissive when I was younger but now I do in order for her to be a wife it's a non-negotiable that should be submissive and I want her to be young so she's at least moldable.

@tut0ne190 Жыл бұрын

Rico was talking that talk.

@keithwright9093 Жыл бұрын

Woman choose the good guys then cause they already ruin their lives with those pookie and ray ray's and got a bunch of kids

@sonk-rays5798 Жыл бұрын

Rico spitting facts.

@DripCaptain Жыл бұрын

The man who is talking . It would be hard for any black woman take him serious in relationship. Because he look to nice and sound to good to be true. Most likely he would attract other race of women, not black women.

@weeeeee1988 Жыл бұрын

It depends on the situation cause some women in they 40s and 50s still mess with pookie and ray ray

@tangoalpha94 Жыл бұрын

Yes. The end!

@PAbadboy Жыл бұрын

Going back to an ex should depend on a case by case bases. If he cheated, abusive or something like that then no. But if it was based off of miscommunication or something small you might want to spin the block because that Man just might be the one you were suppose to be with.

@genovasquez8361 Жыл бұрын

Yes what I wanted a woman has changed differently when I was younger I mostly went off an intrinsic values like when I was 16 and in my teens I wanted a woman for her intrinsic values her character traits and things of that nature now that I'm older I want a woman who can please me satisfy me cater to my needs and I want her to have a great body and be slim or skinny and I want her to be youthful and Young. Looks didn't matter when I was in my teens I don't really care how her face looked I mostly cared about how she treated me I want her to be faithful I wanted a woman that wanted to have children and basically and just the ideal dream girl but intrinsic values not necessarily physical ones now I prefer to be submissive and motivable and useful and youtful beauty , I like em skinny with nice booty or nice breast

@Azriel1932 Жыл бұрын

First, she literally said insect and then said "8-leg or 10-leg" lol. But then she was talking about attracting everyone and then choosing from the options of your attraction. That's a 100% feminine pov. The majority of men do not have the option or ability to just sit back and choose whose attracted to them. She needs to live as a man for a while and then reevaluate her thought process.

@impervious99 5 ай бұрын

There's truth to what man is saying...is good..we need ro pick what we actually like but all to often for decent people.... ...that means we gotta take on projects Im goid with that

@andredelaine9171 3 ай бұрын

These women are willing to learn

@Steve59633 Жыл бұрын

Accountability is key. Riddle me this why do women only agree with things that makes them feel good? Also why do they feel that they are self-entitled? riddle me that.

@toreynelms5081 Жыл бұрын

Its because were opposites (whole verse Hebrew translated) Genesis 2:18 - For the man to be by himself is not good I will make for him a EZER KENEGDO (HEBREW WORD FOR) helper as opposite to him. See why women are attracted to villains on my nel for what this looks like. The video isn't as long as it appears. 1 Corinthians 11:9 - neither was the man created for the woman but the woman for the man.

@steen275 6 ай бұрын

One of the things that make resentment in men is when women are hooking up with rappers, buisness men, NBA players through their 20s. Then hit 30 90% of the eggs are gone. Then say ''Alright now the next man i meet has to pay for me, wait, and marry me before i give sex'' While the other 50 dudes didn't. So it's the bad boys who cheat in their most fertile years, and then the good men later. So you're basically punished for being good and rewarded for being bad as a man.

@facts351 Жыл бұрын

Man im so glad im out the game I dont have to deal with none of these new wemen im good lol

@DaddyWarBucks Жыл бұрын

Men just focus on you Women gone fall at your feet by the thousands

@lamont238 Жыл бұрын

Art of attraction

@SHADOW-KING-X Жыл бұрын

This is a women influencing other women to be like them 🤣 so if every women a 304 u have to pick one 😂 .not thinking 🤔 we don't have to pick none 😂 . On top hoping nice guy wil understand 😂 nope 🤣 we don't chose 304 believe wen men say we out we out !!!

@B.Piercesports Жыл бұрын

That is fact but I'm a hybrid lol

@YoungGodlyKing 10 ай бұрын

A question for the guys do you think when you were young that you chose better women to be with ?

@brettwilliams8971 Жыл бұрын

All of this bs is not gonna change the truth most men do not wanna marry women that sleep around. Period it doesnt matter what excuse they make up.

@mrgoodvibes1995 Жыл бұрын

What’s her IG ?

@jbubba1053 Жыл бұрын

Let pookie have them

@jrdontmiss Жыл бұрын

Dub Rico

@Azriel1932 Жыл бұрын

What this man is trying to explain is the difference between knowledge and wisdom. I don't agree with him on the "you should go to college" example though. It's been proven time and time again that college isn't the be all, end all.

@r.walker7986 Жыл бұрын

They go after love and what they really want in their 20s and they get disillusioned due to being let down, then they go for stability and financial security. The Good guy/bad guy talk is silly. Most women don't date men that are "bad" A lot of times bad guys are just guys who are desirable, know it, and play it for all it's worth..

@sportstalkonly1442 Жыл бұрын

U just said a whole bunch of nothing. The reality is these women are idiots. They want to explore and experiment when they're young and then settle for the good guy after she had her fun. That's just what it is.

@r.walker7986 Жыл бұрын

@@sportstalkonly1442 why is it okay for men to explore and experiment when they are young but not okay for women to do the same? That's what everyone should do until they get to a point where they find someone they want to settle down with or just want something new? it makes no sense to have an issue with that? if you are mad that when you were young you were ugly and dusty and had nothing to offer women just say that, no need to twist yourself into an illogical pretzel to make it wrong for women to live life and grow and mature at their own pace....

@sportstalkonly1442 Жыл бұрын

@@r.walker7986 I didn't say anything about men or women. And for the record I grew up a Muslim. So that influences the way I see sex and women. It's a spiritual thing not just casual fun f ck1ng 1diot

@sportstalkonly1442 Жыл бұрын

@@r.walker7986 so it's not about being young ugly or dusty. I can pull any woman I want. It's about what sex actually is and what it actually represents. I never said men can do what they want nor do I speak for any of those men that did. But if your dumb4ss wants to know why there's a double standard it's because men actually have to earn the right to get inside a woman's body. Women don't have to do anything but open their legs. And women do things like have casual sex and it devalues them. The only time a woman should open her legs for a man is in a committed relationship. And if that relationship goes wrong then she needs to heal and find another man that values her. Same goes for men. So stfu

@toreynelms5081 Жыл бұрын

@KGwisely Жыл бұрын

Personally I wanted to build with a good guy my whole life.. cause who really wants a dumb a$$ that isn'tabout nothing? And did have good relationships in high school but then trash after, and it has been taken out..

@mastershokhan Жыл бұрын

How many trash dudes? How long did it take for you to figure it out each time?

@ALMiGhTyKuLTuReJeYy Жыл бұрын

20k in 2 weeks that cause the men on the side of youtube give it up this also mean there is a real market on men's content this also so mean that the true culprit is woman for not knowing if this was not true then this side of youtube what not be this big Shout-out to Rico for makeing this Content go Thinks this is Cap ok but woman lie number don't 20k in 2weeks