Being grown is not constantly staying in contact with your exes. She can’t even be respectful on tv.

he really just wanted an excuse to leave, let’s be real it’s obvious

He said clear as day the problem is her mouth. She was very disrespectful to him on the show and I know she is worse in private. It's bad enough she used to mess with the cousin, she probably talked to him like that in front of the cousin. No man wants a woman like that. It didn't matter the results he was going to leave anyway.

Adulting is realizing all you need is a home, stable income & a peaceful partner 🕊️💟📌

The amount of masculine energy that she exudes is unbelievable😂😂😂. Run brotha, run as fast as you can😂😂😂

They need to part ways, this is so extremely toxic. I don't see this relationship ever improving..There's no trust and tons of disrespect, just part ways

The man wasn't wrong here. She's disrespectful, and still wants her ex's around. He did the right thing by leaving.

Sometimes people just need to be alone give relationships a break

Once you call any man a bish, he mentally checks out. I know

The first red flag was him proposing after a few weeks. But unfortunately it takes a person an average of 7 times to leave a toxic relationship

Watch out when someone keep blaming you for cheating 9 times out of 10 they are the one who is doing it 😮

She’s messy asf. How you out here sleeping with somebody’s man for 4 years and expect that karma not to catch up with you. The bar is set in hell atp

She’s ready to cry before she even spoke. LEAVE. Idk who’s seeing this but you ARE worthy of respect, safety, security, friendship, companionship, and most importantly LOVE, HONEST COMMUNICATION, and MORE LOVE!

Her mouth is horrible. She says to many things to belittle him .

They better off going their separate ways!

She can’t blame anyone but herself. How you move super fast and jump into something serious without taking your time to know him? Also, they both display some toxic behaviors and shouldn’t be in relationships with anyone until they fix themselves.

Hold her accountable for her horrible behavior

He wanted to leave the relationship but was too much of a coward to be honest about it. She finally let her guard down and this happens, now she will never trust another man. We see this too many times.

I see alot of woman cheering her on but not acknowledging the disrespect towards him. The whole interview cutting him off from talking, the texts straight disrespectful, still being friends with exes.. But the guy is the only problem smh Take y'all feelings out of this. They both have issues...🤷🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

I feel so bad for the guy. He seems like a nice, genuine man with integrity. All he wanted was respect.

Whoo this hits home, I just recently went through the same exact thing as her and as her I was vulnerable, trying to take it slow, making time for him when I could've been home with my 3 kid's but the insecurities, controlling and seeing his temper in just 3 weeks was enough to call it quits, he was disturbing my peace, he had to go and I needed to hear those words from Karamo that was for me too. Thank you.

This is why it takes time to get to truly know someone...take your time....And atleast you will know how someone moves before making a lifelong decision....

Omg! I could never speak to ANYONE this way, no matter how hurt I am. It’s also just not my personality trait. I’ve been done DIRTY by men that I’ve had long term relationships with and simply walked tf away. No man is ever worth this amount of drama, stress or toxicity. What’s the end goal here??? To win an argument? I don’t get dynamics like this and never have in the 31 years that I’ve been living on this earth.

Lol when she called him flamboyant Karamo almost lit her ass up 😂 ‘well’

He’s not insecure. She’s disgustingly disrespectful.

“So where it’s at karamo I’m not getting any younger” felt that on a different level

She is incredibly disrespectful.she wants to be a man. To call him flamboyant because he’s soft spoken and not knocking your head off is wild.

She is the problem.. she called him flamboyant, texting exes.. like he doesn’t like her like he thought he did when he met her. So this is both of their fault because they DIDNT KNOW EACHOTHER! THEY RAN THROUGH THE RELATIONSHIP.

Idk why I hear Whoopi Goldberg when she speaks 😅

If it was a sexual relationship and you’re in a new relationship why maintain the friendship? It has nothing to do with being a grown woman cus if it did she’d understand a man you’re only sleeping with is not your friend.

I really love this show and his content. It’s real life application and scenarios folks deal with in real life

Karamo needs to be honest with her. You can’t keep a real man with a mouth like that. That’s a major turn off. Would she want someone talking to her son like that?

This unlocking phone thing can kick rocks. We need lie detector tests (unless this show is on a budget). People can easily erase messages or bring only "one" of two of their phones. How many people do we know that have a bat phone?

I can relate to her…let my guard down, was extremely vulnerable and it got me nowhere

Karamo's suit and shoes, looks very nice.

Love yourself and take care of yourself. You are a strong and beautiful woman. You don’t really need any man to validate who you are. Take time with the next guy who comes by.

She walked out doing too much to me, she’s just EXTRA & he’s f*** up, trust issues as hell!

She acts guilty.

She wants someone she can dominate in the relationship. She doesn’t like to be challenged. If you have sex with someone, cut off communication when you’re in a relationship. I wouldn’t even want to do something that causes concern with my partner. Idk how that’s considered controlling by wanting that. A relationship is about sacrifices on both ends and a lot of people don’t want to do it. That’s why I choose to stay single.

Girl run, he has issues. You can do better. He's not for you boo.

It's sad that it had to end so badly. If only they could have reminded each other what made them click in the first place, that may have given the reminder they needed to take it back there.

He got nothing on his phone hahahahahha he whiped it for sure, he erased all the female numbers. He probably wanted to see if he could play with her too but she is pushing back.

I hate when couples come on, and they won't let each other talk.

He wanted out when he discovered she slept with his cousin in the past that's a deal-breaker for anybody.

Ladies stop hooking up with ppl out of desperation. See how this backfired on this lady. Having slept with an attached man who happen to be cousins with her new man. It’s the fact that she slept with a man knowing he had a gf that’s eating her fiancé up. He might be insecure but he’s speaking from a place of loyalty and fidelity. I have respect for this man. Not dragging her but she a lil rough around the edges.

They BOTH need to keep it moving! Too much drama too soon!

“You look better gone” is hilarious 😂

Karamo said you gon get this inspirational speech today!!!!!😂😂😂

Leave him alone sis. It’s like he wants her to be cheating. He has to be right. He is so insecure. With his behavior, he wouldn’t have to worry about me cheating because we’d been done.

I am one of the few women on here not co-signing her behavior. Calling him b words like this, calling him flamboyant and emasculating him on national tv is just so wrong. She has a lot of manly aggressive energy herself. They’re both in the wrong but for her to do that was just so nasty. I’m glad they moved on from each other. No one was in the right and I’m a woman who was not cheering her on in no way. I respect my husband and love him too much to condone and cheer this mess on. Respect goes both ways. She really went in on him as soon as he came out so this would’ve never worked plus she has no respect for him. Just a selfish big mouth individual with no decorum or class. I don’t agree with karamo here. He was really on her side and not really objective on this one.

Please send him this way... grown woman over here

Buddy picked up on the fact that she's a liar and that she likes women. Her masculine demeanor and attitude shows that she wants to be relationship dominant. They needed to split.

Wow! Her masculine energy 🚫

They need to call it quits!!! she disrespectful to him!!!

Their energies are HEA-VY 😩- it’s crazy how she calls him “corny” & “flamboyant”- yet she’s coming off quite masculine- even on the walk out. Maybe its just me but feels like we got a glimpse of how she wildin’ out

ii dont understand why us woman try to work it out with cheaters, this man cheated the first week of them being together, she shouldve known then that it wasnt going to work. at 19 looking for love i tell myself to work on me and the right man will come.

Watching this made me a life time fan of his. He is truly a great person

And this is why you don't move super fast with someone you just met, you need time to get to know someone clearly. They should've talked about boundaries and standards etc. They can't even agree on a situation that happened and they both was there... crazy!!!

The toxicity in this relationship is top tier 😳😳😳… The best thing they can do for each other is part ways… There is no respect in their communication. They both need counseling.

She called him flamboyant, that was not nice at all.

i've been watching alot of Karamo show recently and i realised he nearly always takes the woman's side!! even when they are being extremely toxic, cheating, ect. i watched another one today where he completely dismissed a guys recollection of being assaulted by a woman. even though we could all see there was something not quite right about he. Woman are always taken seriously about their assault accusations and never just dismissed. He should have done a lie detector. Vulnerability doesn't always look like crying and just because someone cries doesn't mean we get to excuse the hurt they cause on soemone else. This is not me hating on the show i think its so entertaining and has helped aloy of people, but it's something I noticed. I hope Karamo sees this and gives men the same grace they deserve, an d holds both men and women accountable to the same degree

He doesn't want her. She's very masculine and rude but he's a coward for being a liar and not ending the relationship

It's good he left she doesn't deserve being treated like that.. She also needs therapy to heal.

This host enables all the females on this show even when their crazy 🤦🏾‍♂️

i love Karamo...the best talk show host ive seen in a lonnnng time!!!!!

I wish the best for her and not to give up on love she will get her King. I went through the same thing for 17 years and finally got someone who truly love me & treat me as a Queen 💕💯💕

She is HORRIBLE talking over him, interrupting, DISRESPECTFUL BEHAVIOR... no class at ALLLL...JUST EMBARRASING!! OMG

Karamo you are amazing so compassionate

@3:40 she can’t even stay quiet!!!! The guilty won’t hush!!

What Karamo said in the end, the reason I have accepted being alone.

She said she was sleeping with the other guy & still being in the guy's house around the girlfriend LOL

Karomo isn't equipped for this.

They be walking to darn slow! It be pissing me off get to yo seat lmaoooo 😂

You should start telling us they’re zodiac signs🤔

Such a dramatic exit only to stand in the dark, listening to the rest of the show back stage. Must be protocol.

This is just a case of them moving way too fast. The way they speak to each other is not that of love. Marriage? Seems like they hate each other. Walking away was the best decision he ever made. Its a reason why she didn't want to ever get married again. My advice, stay away from toxic people and focus on you sis. #LOVEISTHEMEDICINE

She is one of those woman you gotta take her disrespect to show her you love her. Thats straight up toxic behavior

Why would i know the “flings” mother😂😂

she acting like she the prize , his cousin hit but want relationship with him , im out to ,plus she hit the wall and dont know yet

The way she walked out with that fake pity party for herself told me everything 🤮

Im on his side with the being friends with old lovers… once you are in a relationship. That’s common respect smh

She's been through a lot. I hope she finds the right man.

It was the “You look better gone to me”✨

I'm not erasing a damn thing out of my phone unless I want to. Just because I messed with someone at a point, doesn't mean I have to mess with them forever. He's insecure for real.

I see his point. I'm a woman. I don't call any of my exes that I've been intimate with my friend because I don't have sex with my friends. Not only that but if everyone wants to be honest alot of these so called "friends " are waiting in the wings to create competition for you once they see just how great your person is.

He deleted everything before coming😂😂

The crowd when they hear the taboo 😂 Uwllllll😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

Mfs really in the comments placing blame on him you can’t make this shit up lmaooo

He was looking for a reason to leave the relationship

His cousin smashed her 4 years with no strings attached, soon as he found that out he should have dropped her like a bad habit and moved on. Period.

Karamo crazy for not checkin this lady 😂

She is very disrespectful, he deserves better.

Sista love your self first and happy

Calling him flamboyant was wild

He is right you can FaceTime a message on the phone. This is not on she could put a text app on here as well.

That’s is def a reasonable request don’t be friends with ppl you had s-x with

Agree with you. Run from him don't settle for less your beautiful.

I agree he does seem insecure but her mouth is extremely reckless which is the real problem here. She does not respect him as a man and he needs to exit this relationship ASAP!

I will say this, there's absolutely no guarantee that she or anyone else will find the "right one", and I know when people say that they mean well. However, the one guarantee that she can depend on is herself to find happiness and peace within her own life. I hope she does find love, but if not, it's okay. In our lifetime, we can give & receive love within ourselves, family, and within our friends, just as long as you find happiness & have a purpose, then that's what life is about. ❤

She wants genuine love but she has beeen “flinging” with someone else’s man for 4 years. Some people don’t believe in karma.