Basically of you're not rich or photogenic like this dude, online dating will never work.

Try being a guy over 40 and living outside of a major city. You seriously may as well be invisible. Because that’s how you are treated online. Meanwhile in real life your suddenly visible again.

Massive turn-off when women say on their profiles’, “Let me start by saying I'm a single mother...my kids come first and they are my world, we are a package deal...I need a real man who’s man enough to accept us”. Not to mention the Christmas Wishlist of the ideal man. Red flag 🚩. Women nowadays just put themselves on a pedestal and have high expectations. Better off sticking with chance encounters.

IMHO, people who met their significant other there, and still together 3+ years later are VERY lucky. Very few. Unfortunately.

I couldn't agree more. Dating apps are time consuming and a waste of one's hard earned money. It's best to go out and meet new people whether it's at a public gathering, through one of your closest friends, or both. That's something I'm striving to do, and hopefully meet a woman that I like and trust.

I got matched with 11 in my first day. 1 was hot. She said hello. That was it. The rest of the matches were boring. Uninstalling.

Tried dating app. Always ended up meeting creeps. Not a fan.

Online dating can be a complete waste of time. It's superficial so when you meet someone in person both of you will appear to be completed different that your profiles. That leads to disappointment. I found that I genuinely wantee a relationship, but most of my candidates just wanted attention and were free loaders. Get out there in public, talk to people and be your genuine self. Confidence and honesty is very sexy. Hiding behind a screen is not.

Your wise beyond your years. I re-entered the dating scene a few years ago, (it was much different when I left it as a 20 year old in 2007) All of what you just said is why I just left online at 33

online is waste of time and people are always looking the next next the next and never meet anyone, people with confidence go out and try to meet people, people with no confidence hide behind phones computers, waste

Finally, a genuine review of this app. I thought I was the only guy struggling with its flaky and superficial dynamic! Thanks for making me know I am not the only one!

I've met a few women through a dating app and none were worth it. Better off just getting together with your buddies going out for a few drinks and try meeting people.

'..and get your friend to hit all the right angles for you...' - sorry, you had me laughing and semi alive on the floor when you said that :D

It definetely is a waste of time in my opinion. To each his own, but all my matches/dates that I encountered from online dating were all damaged.

I tried a few dating websites looking for a decent man. But most of the time i got D pics. Its not just a guy thing even women have a hard time. Most of the guys want sex, and want a perfect model. The thing with online its very idealistic men and women think they actually have more options because of all those profiles, but in reality they dont. Its really crazy.

i agree with you. you hit the nail right in the right sopt.i was thinking about going on bumble but after listening to you i think i change my mind and im serious.

I just downloaded the app, right before the video, now I’m deleting it, you basically said the truth at the end, wish you the best 👍

This guy seriously has 50 matches in his queue . I think bumble tracks you, like if you were rude to a girl in a conversation then they shut your account down and make it impossible for you to get matches

Love your video. Very helpful. I’ve never joined a dating app. Have been thinking about it since we are in this Pandemic but Ehh, I’ll keep hiking and getting out in nature. Thanks everyone for your honest comments about this topic. Namaste 🙏🏼

I think online dating is useless. Sure, folks can meet their partner however they want. But I think its a fucken waste of life how people rely on the internet to seek their love interest.

That's the point - I don't want to date somebody based on the "love for dogs and food". What limited passions those are! When I hear "I love food and sleep and sex", I immediately picture an insect. A caterpillar, for example. Oh, you "love coffee" and that makes you unique? How original. I want to date based on common goals and aspirations. A chance to work on something together creates a true bond, that's what I believe in. Where is dignity in being a part of "dogs wedding" (not sure if this term exists in English) where there is a crowd of males chasing the single female? No, thanks. And on a separate thought, it's common for women to complain about the number of "creeps" they see on dating apps. But let's not lie to ourselves: the number of "creeps" among women is equivalent. We all seek attention and recognition.

Real life is key.....the internet is making everyone insecure...and causing them to stay home and not get out and actually meet someone that's right

Big time waste of time. The men were players, narcissists and creeps. Lots of catfishing too.

*I agree 100% with u. So what online chat groups do u recommend* ????

dating apps are full of scam profiles. I started getting calls from india and other scams. the few real people I met were nothing that special and alot of them had behavioral or drug problems. It was hard finding a connection, and I got so sick of being on my phone all of the time trying to find someone who is serious about dating. It was even hard just finding hookups because I had to sift my way through all the weirdos to find someone normal

Good work buddy 👍

You have a good attitude. The problem I have is time. I'm always working or with my kids. I don't meet anyone in person in day to day life. Dating apps suck time though so they don't make sense. The struggle is real.

Dating apps and dating sites are all bullshit. You can tell when they say "you have matches" but in order to meet them you have to shell out cash. Forget it. He also talks about rejection. I have no problem with it. I must thrive on rejection because that's all I get from the "decent" women while at the same time the psycho's are drawn to me like bees to honey.

50 matches, damn dude!

Man you're so right. Respect for this video👍

I just downloaded this app yesterday and it keeps telling me that ive seen all the girls in my area and i get no response, what do i do then?, am i supposed to drive around looking for girls on humble???

I thought bumble was supposed to be where the Girl makes the first move this is basically like Tinder

I seen a picture of a woman who a big pet snake wrapped around her. I immediately swiped left. 😂😂😂😂

I have dated about 3 or 4 women on either bumble or tinder.. and I’ve had that app for a year

Either I need better pictures or I need to move to a bigger city. Rarely get matches through the app. When I do, they rarely respond within the 24 hour window. So yeah, most likely they swipe for entertainment rather than actually trying to meet somebody.

Where were you a Year Ago Thanks for the Advice 👍

Bumble in particular is full of hot-and-cold blowing time wasters. Girls have to pop to you (no one forces them to) and even when your chat is going well they bottle it

Stuck up women. Most are. It shouldn't be hard. It should be simple. At the very least be friends.

Blake you have a great attitude, wish you were 30 yrs older. Unfortunately i am NOT a cougar. Good luck 👍 with your endeavors 😊

Excellent video!

Inspiring, thanks

I got 10 likes at my peak when I started the app, since then it's been like once a week if that. I've had two matches and one conversation that went no where. Of the hundreds of people I've swiped on not even ONE liked back. I definitely wouldn't consider myself unattractive.

I'm an average looking guy. 34. In college. Work full time had 5 dating apps couldn't get a single woman to talk to me. Uninstalled.

I got 2 matches in a day but I’m tryna see who likes me but I don’t have the premium version

Your closing thoughts were so wise and well-said. I agree with what you said and it was nice to hear the male perspective on this. You should do a video about when you were "shooting your shot" in person :)

Most women that are actually hot on dating sites are just there for attention... think about it 4 a second. Truly beautiful and attractive women don't need sites 😂 they get hit on every day lol

Hardly ever match and when I do it goes no wear dating apps don’t work

It’s hard even for women, but it gets lonely/boring stuck inside due to COVID.. so enjoyed chatting and talking to a few men.

Waste of time and money. I hate mindless swiping and when conversations run dry and they stop responding to me. I hate being annoying and they unmatch me

Online dating sucks and I wish I didn't even do it. Most of the time, I wasted time where I could have been doing other meaningful things. Sure I've met really good people but some people I have wasted time with. I like meeting people organically.

50+ likes as soon as he starts. Not a single like on bumble and I’ve had my account for weeks. Life truly is unfair

yeah tbh I get matches and I still think it's shit, not because of the women but because of bumble itself doesn't show you to the girls who you choose to right swipe on.

Or what bugs me is you match with someone because they swiped right on you, then they send a "hi" 👋 then I respond with a half sensible message that is creative enough to be more than the 5 word maximum you normally get from most women, then that's it!! WTF!! where did they go? Did they die? Seriously woman if your not interested in a guy dont waste their f@#*in time by swiping right, saying hi straight away then just ignoring them!? Like why!? I get all these matches and they mean shit! Either woman dont bother messaging after their initial "hi"👋 Or they just ask same bland boring ass questions they blame and moan about us guys for normally asking, then when things seem promising and if you do get a rare girl who will have somewhat of a conversation it just seems to go nowhere!? Like this guy says in this video most of the gorgeous woman you see most likely have no interest in meeting guys or seeking a relationship, and are just using it as an attention seeking app to boost their little egos, that they have several hundred men that like them, and that their is the big problem itself!! They have all these men to choose from so they are obviously only going to focus on small percentage of the men who have liked them and who are the most attractive! Sorry but online dating is pure dog shit!! You are wasting so much time trying to even get lucky enough to just get an opportunity to meet someone in person!! Then theirs no saying that all them days or weeks of trying to get to meet up for a date then nothing! Your best off just going out places in general meeting people and taking to women, wastes a lot less time, & bull#*@

Where’s Waldo 🤣🤣🤣

Sometimes you just gotta hear someone say it. Again. And again. And... again.

That pic with you In the suit u look like a model🔥🔥

I matched with a lot of women, however they never wanted to meet or they would just say hi or hey. I deleted the app, waste of time.

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IF you are on dating apps in the Boston/Cambridge area, beware and stay away from a chess player/streamer who is a sex addict and scammer. Lots of sob stories to get anything out of you (including $).

ok, I'm here looking for bumble review to complete my English assignment..haha

Dude 50 matches, seriously???

That’s conclusion I came to about dating apps.

you should have shown us the photos how are we meant to know if they were decent or whales

@ Blake chiumenetta I love the way you think. But where do I meet guys in real life 😅 dating apps have taken over

This guy is on here to meet “girls”? I was honestly shocked. This felt like Man on Man from the jump. I’m sure he’s going to “pass” on a lot of the girls lol 😂

True, will do the same.

What I find about online dating apps is there is a predominant race over all others. I would say 6 out of 10! Making it very biased and unfair for the other race. You wanna guess which race I am talking about? Comment below!

I definitely agree with your perspective on dating apps. I think they are literally the worst and can make both genders exceptionally lazy. Granted my last relationship started on Bumble and he is a doll. But I have no interest in trying dating apps again, it can get exhausting.

Yeah, total waste of energy and time! The convential approach of meeting people is the way to go, I love the challenge... when the man pursues the lady. Well, with the dating app it soo easy to move that index finger to the right without any discomfort. I find dating apps to be overwhelming especially when theres so many options to choose from.😣 Dating match overload, yikes!

What the intro song????

Let's talk about made up profile by Bumble fake ass profiles.

Dating apps sure as hell haven't worked for me....

All his pics are way better than mine. I'm basically fucked 😂

What's up with the brows tho

So ONLINE DATING WORKS! ALL YOU NEED IS! 1. Look good 2.Fancy Clothes 3.A dog 4.Pizza. 5.Friends who wont think its weird if you ask them to take all angle photos of you for no reason. Come on stupid it cant be that hard pft.

Reply to Sidney that you always eat your desert first

Find activities that you enjoy doing that aren’t totally male dominated and you’ll find someone. These apps are time consuming. After one day I felt horrible. 24 hours of hell.

Pretty much done with bumble it's awful, I literally matched with sum bird for the 3rd time in atleast 2 years she said hi the first time then ignored me when I replied, anyway deleted account twice before matched the same bitch 3 fuckin times it's just mind boggling all times she just message then disappear wtf is this? But you know what REALLY pisses me off there's not many women from my town on bumble so when I do finally match a nice girl in my town she just sits there at the top and doesn't reach out! It's unbelievable 😂 don't use this app it's awful

I just maxed out all swipes on bumble no more women left to swipe on. Spent over $60 on super likes and used my spotlight. I literally swiped on every woman 18-40 within a 25 mile radius of Boston. Not one match. This site is complete bullshit.

Not a fan at all. As soon as I chat with someone they unmatch. It’s garbage

This guy is awesome 👌 👏

Haha women have to send messages otherwise they won't get anything love this idea. Cuz POF is doomed to failure with the other way around. At least with that, no more validation game.

So is your brother on a dating app? 👀👀

Too many females on there promoting their Instagram accounts. Waste of time.

True ❤

Online dating is a waste of time.

I guess if your goodlooking like this dude it isn't a waste of time but if your in the bottom 80% of men, such as myself, your screwed either way

Guy got like 50+ likes I’m lucky to get 10 sometimes 😂 but you are extremely attractive imo

You a fan yes theory that seek discomfort life

Why spend 100 pounds a year just to be ignored by women with huge egos

If there embarrassment there ashamed aka did something they shouldn't of so ya its a cheating app break up instead of cheating. Seriously

omg super hot and you went to A&M #HEARTEYES

My ex is stunning and get lots of action on tinder ffs

Dude you still single?

Dude you are hilarious! Lol

I like you

Hahaha this was funny

Dating site sucks

His eyebrows are sideways

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