Is Your Ex Breadcrumbing You?
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3 жыл бұрынClay Andrews will help you analyze the answer to: "Is Your Ex Breadcrumbing You?"
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In this video, Clay Andrews talks about BREADCRUMBING, what it is, why it happens and what you should do if your ex is breadcrumbing you.
What is breadcrumbing? Breadcrumbing is basically, it's kind of the dating slang term for when someone's just giving you this little tiny non-significant answer. You know, maybe you're saying something important to them, maybe you're even trying to engage with them emotionally or have an important conversation, but instead, you're just getting back something like an emoji, or some simple message like "hey" or "okay" or I don't know." You know, just something infuriatingly dismissive, kind of like that.
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@dr5820 2 жыл бұрын
Breadcrumbing isn't you messaging them, and them giving short replies. It's them messaging you, every now and then, in a non-commital manner, which never leads to anything. This video is not about breadcrumbing.
@AtillaGenghisHuyter Жыл бұрын
Yup.
@gioplease6848 11 ай бұрын
It can be both things
@akosfellner5061 Жыл бұрын
Breadcrumbing is not only verbal. Typical breadcrumbing behavior of an ex is open to dating or meeting and last-minute stepping back. Or be open to meeting or dating but avoiding the particular opportunities.
@playmasterangie 11 ай бұрын
what does meeting and step back mean
@ivydune4185 3 жыл бұрын
Like flirting, then ignoring you, then jealous of you but at the same time chasing a much younger girl?
@evepeters3691 3 жыл бұрын
Love the sneer!"most likely " you kill me Clay!
@clairefoxall2313 3 жыл бұрын
Great info Clay thanks 😁
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
No problem 👍 :-)
@Marie-or8uj Жыл бұрын
You are being put on the side like their option just in case the other relationship or the one they are trying to pursue won't work out.
@lindybean2225 3 жыл бұрын
We broke up 3 weeks ago. He blocked me. He unblocked me finally. We talked for 4 days before seeing each other last night. We both are bread crumbing right now. We both aren't sure what we want right now but we love each other too much to fully let go.
@chrismcevoy2503 3 жыл бұрын
I’m in this situation Clay.
@draco2040 3 жыл бұрын
Clay is good
@pimpmytoast 3 жыл бұрын
Love the sounds hehe *plupp*
@0AeM 3 жыл бұрын
Friend you need to shift your focus lol
@draco2040 3 жыл бұрын
It takes about a year to know if yall will get back together. Its been a year and now my ex is willing to try to buil an emotional connection to deter ine if we are ment to be. In that year i got my own house, car, and a good job. I didnt tell her wat i was doing i just showed her. Actions are louder than words. Better yourself and they will love your or someone better will
@LaLaKDiaryLaLaKDiary 3 жыл бұрын
And did you get back togheter?
@draco2040 3 жыл бұрын
Not yet. Shes flirting with me and making swual jokes one day then the next seems rude to me
@draco2040 3 жыл бұрын
Sexual joke
@LaLaKDiaryLaLaKDiary 3 жыл бұрын
@@draco2040 Thats not a bad thing i guess..
@draco2040 3 жыл бұрын
Ya someone told me i should kiss her next time she jokes like that but idk. Im nervous cus i dont wanna lose my provress so far
@anothercat9600 4 ай бұрын
Very good strategy, kindly moving away, "A responsible kind person is moving away from my life, because i only wanted to text, not phone nor meet up" Then there is the trouble if they just send a new text. Maybe with a link to some cool music, something. Should I respond to that text? I don't want to.
@Aescob25 Жыл бұрын
Here’s my short version: zero tolerance walk away
@jbaidoo2 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Clay. New to this wondering if you help those wanting a 3rd chance/any vids to check out?
@gracelepri-valitutti2633 3 жыл бұрын
Ya there dating someone else
@stanross8235 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 50/50 from experience if they can’t give straight answers. The chances are they’ve found someone else 🤷🏻♂️
@BadioTheAfricano 3 жыл бұрын
Put your notes over the cam looking away from cam. King us.
@gemmahoang1162 3 жыл бұрын
I really liked this video Clay , cause this is my ex boyfriend is doing to me . I've accepted the being friends part n I'm trying get him to talk to me more .
@gemmahoang1162 3 жыл бұрын
I dont believe in these things in physics sorry . that is I do prefer Clay's videos and they def helping. I just need wait where this virus ends .
@gemmahoang1162 3 жыл бұрын
@@sandraalex4615 That's good n hopefully I will get mine bk
@gemmahoang1162 3 жыл бұрын
@@sandraalex4615 yeah if you like .
@gemmahoang1162 3 жыл бұрын
@Petros K No were bk in full lockdown after Christmas on 27th
@albertov182 3 жыл бұрын
Hello clay, i have been watching your channel for a time. Sry cant afford a coachinf call. Just maybe your opinion on something. So i recently started a business with a ex friend of hers (female frienx) and she kinda took bad? Lol. Sell she texted me yesterday and did not respond because i was actually busy and she spammed called me because she was "worries". She broke up with with me 8 months ago. We were eight years and last two long distance. Should i overthink this scenario and find a meaning behind it or just take it has nothing and just keep focusing on living my life. Thank you clay hope you get a chance to respond.
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Alberto, We may not know what your ex or think as of the moment but it sounds like you both have to communicate things properly. Instead of overthinking and finding meaning over it, communicate with her so you'll understand where she is coming from.
@mrkeitt 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so pissed. I was in NC for 3 days and she text me asking If I was ok. I replied 45 minutes later saying I'm cool and how she was. She said she was fine and she was just checking on me. My dumb ass asked her to go out for a bite. She said that wouldn't be a good idea and after that a disagreement ensued. I went on to tell her I feel she left me for someone else and etc. She became angry and told me it was a huge mistake to text me and will never happen again. I feel like I got dumped again. She said right now she's not interested in a relationship with me. Mind you I proposed to her 4/10/21 in which she accepted. So I'm pissed how bad things went. I was initially gonna ignore her. But my happiness wrecked it all. Thoughts coach Clay ??
@rig-zag 2 жыл бұрын
This is a much different definition of breadcrumbing than I am familiar with
@fatpugg3507 3 жыл бұрын
My exwife after 3 months of no contact texted me asking me , what times do a certain store open ??? Im like wtf, wasnt sure it was meant for me, until she addressed me in the text, Really? What time a store opens???? Smh
@MonotoniTV 3 жыл бұрын
It's an excuse to reach out
@How.Dare.You. 2 жыл бұрын
🤣
@luton10000 Жыл бұрын
What time does it open ?
@fatpugg3507 Жыл бұрын
@@luton10000 That's the crazy part it was open 24hrs..😁😁
@aaronpagewb Жыл бұрын
@@fatpugg3507 bro 💀😂
@brandondavisful Жыл бұрын
I've moved on into a new relationship and my ex lady friend has a new relationship but she keeps trying to interfere with my relationship.
@sonnyghandour 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing work when you dealing with a narcissist😔
@BrayeEvans 3 жыл бұрын
Great video clay. I don’t know how to move things forward when my ex told me that she only wants to talk or hang out here and there. She said like once a month. We just hung out last weekend and that’s when she said it. To me everything went good. It was a good time. Talked the whole time and laughed a lot. She gave me a hug for like 2 minutes. Said I smell good. She likes my new tattoo. I told her I changed. She said she’s giving me this last chance. But we’re not talking or hanging out all the time. Maybe once a month. Any advice
@BrayeEvans 3 жыл бұрын
@@danieltrottier8599 I haven’t talked to her since we last hung out. So it’s been almost 1 week
@kushpakk2210 3 жыл бұрын
ur in a good position she probly just isn’t ready to talk to you as much as you guys used to (yet) give her some time and within 2-3 meetups make her your girlfriend after that she will most likely talk to you more
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Braye, Sounds like you both are doing quite well. Just continue to build that positive interaction and be sure to be consistent in showing the changes that you have made.
@BrayeEvans 3 жыл бұрын
@@ClayAndrews okay thank you I’m glad to hear that. And I will continue to try my absolute best.
@lukeskywalker313 3 жыл бұрын
Mine reached out to me after 2month of no contact to tell me she was in auto accident then later on that day that she completed her college course that was November 9th then on the 16th her youngest son called me to tell me he missed me and he love me then later on that evening she texted me to tell me she still has my name tattooed on her that was on the 16th of November is here testing the waters
@striz8923 3 жыл бұрын
I've been doing no contact, my ex reaches out sporadically and I respond casually just being polite. But every time she contacts me she keeps bringing up why she left and how her past has affected her in moving forward with relationships even tho I never bring up the breakup. She says she's doing it to give me "perspective" on why she she did it. Is this her just breadcrumbing me or is this her way of reaching out to say she's not sure about wanting the breakup?
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Striz8, we really cannot read your ex's true intent but at times, we have to accept the information that they give as it its without overthinking. What is important is that you are doing steps to improve your connection from this day forward.
@apope06 3 жыл бұрын
It doesn't sound like shes breadcrumbing you. Shes actually trying to engage in a real heartfelt reply. I would be cautious by re engaging and asking if she wants to talk things through. Dont tell her your feelings. Make her think you are moving on but are considering her offer.
@jaybee5794 Жыл бұрын
Maybe she is trying to get closure
@chrismcevoy2503 3 жыл бұрын
I think my ex-girlfriend Tracci Ludwick is Breadcrumbing me.
@NLD20001110 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Clay, when I interact with my ex it’s usually very inconsistent. Sometimes we can go on and talk for hours about anything, but sometimes we can barely talk and usually only exchange a few words. I want to make our interaction more consistent but don’t know why sometimes we can talk effortlessly.
@Twannes 3 жыл бұрын
No contact forever
@kacchanteh6532 2 жыл бұрын
She is bread crumbing u to ease some of her pain. U gotta go into no contact until he feels the concern of really losing u.
@bryanlopez6713 3 жыл бұрын
What if my ex jumped into a relationship after the break up and still watches my stories.
@wednesday3828 3 жыл бұрын
He is think of you. Keep posting cool stuff on your story. Don't post anything about a relationship.
@fredjackson5061 2 жыл бұрын
Get back with You ex
@richardpersohn304 3 жыл бұрын
She breadcrumbs and then ghosts
@GammaShotz 3 жыл бұрын
That’s what my ex did. Why ask how i’m doing if u won’t respond when I answer
@j-gu6jx 3 жыл бұрын
🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
@yougotgroove Жыл бұрын
Ya, crumby!
@ytfeverguy8367 3 жыл бұрын
My high school ex breadcrumbed me on social media and later rejected me. Never forget once an ex always and ex on social media. Unfriended and going no contact. I think she was seeking attention and validation and I told her so. She was never the prettiest girl but has improved her appearance of late. I really think she sought me out for validation with no interest at dating again. Bitch needs to grow up and stop messing with my emotions.
@AtillaGenghisHuyter Жыл бұрын
This not breadcrumbing.
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