Is Your Healing Motivated By Self-Love or Self-Hate?

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Is Your Healing Motivated By Self-Love or Self-Hate?

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If your healing efforts are subconsciously motivated by self-hate, it will end up perpetuating your pain and not providing you with the deep healing impact you desire.
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@chloejams 3 ай бұрын

I've missed you Noah! ❤ you've helped me so much over the years. Your videos are the only ones that I go back to over and over and they always speak to me deeply and give me so much relief. You are an incredible person ❤️

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

:) That feels nice to hear Chloejams. I'm really happy my videos have supported you.

@333_Tarot 3 ай бұрын

To have patience with oneself is to have self-love. 🌹

@Atomicblonde1113 11 күн бұрын

Omg. I missed you so much ❤ I've been watching you for 11 years. Since I was 16. I'm now 29. ❤

@chrismcintyre5668 3 ай бұрын

Kisses and hugs to you, Brother Noah! We need your wisdom more than you know!❤

@Christina-wu6sx 7 күн бұрын

Omg Noah, thank you for taking the time to do more videos. I have bad anxiety n have overcame some of it over the years but this past year has been health issue after health issue n my anxiety is through the roof. I was watching some old videos of yours as i have them saved under one of my playlists n it still helps but this video here is so good. Maybe in the future i can do some sessions with you. Peace n love. ❤

@lilianac.5155 29 күн бұрын

Thank you. From the Botton of my heart❤

@muditdwivedi8798 3 ай бұрын

My anxitety goes awayjust by listening your voice ❤❤❤❤❤ 10:23

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

That's nice :)

@gloriacarina1 3 ай бұрын

I missed you!!. I ive been healing for yrs now. I still binge watch your videos, theyve helped me so much!!!

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

:) I'm so happy that my videos have helped you Gloria!

@chrisr838 2 ай бұрын

Good to see you on here again Noah !

@MegaJamesno1 3 ай бұрын

Good to have you back noah. I get so overwhelmed with a lot of other therapists on here they give so many mixed opinions on advice It's confusing. But you are unbelievable 💚 i listened to your videos for years every night they helped me trough alot of very very hard times. I honestly think you are one of the best therapists on the planet🌍 You are the best 🙌

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

I get it James. You really have to trust yourself over what anyone else says. But, it's tricky. I'm glad my videos helped you!

@MegaJamesno1 3 ай бұрын

Exactly noah. Thanks 🙂🇮🇪 from ireland

@eamonnleigh2856 3 ай бұрын

Good to see you again, Noah

@sodbaz4882 3 ай бұрын

You have such a beautiful presence.

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

Thank you :)

@johnnybhood7559 2 ай бұрын

So glad to watch a new video. You always help in some way. Take care Noah

@NoahElkrief 2 ай бұрын

I'm glad it helped Johnny

@Bats-7 3 ай бұрын

Yes your back!! This is just what I needed , I’ve been struggling a lot with my anxiety & self worth lately so this video will help , thanks Noah 👍

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

You're welcome!

@sciencewithsoul 3 ай бұрын

NOAH!!!!!! I don't even care what you're saying...I'm just happy to see you saying something. Your re-apperance is so loud I can't hear a word your saying 😂

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

haha

@surakshaguragain5538 3 ай бұрын

Hahhaa I felt the same. Gonna watch when I have time but so happy to see a new video

@MikhailStavin-on9iy 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Noah

@nhansme 3 ай бұрын

Very happy to see you…!!!

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

@maganrivera2447 3 ай бұрын

Awwww, love your message and the timing is perfect!! ❤❤❤

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

Wonderful :)

@cuckoo242 3 ай бұрын

Noah...I missed u❤

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

@chrischatfield8550 2 ай бұрын

Thank You x

@AlekThunder47 3 ай бұрын

Hey, Noah. Good to hear from you. I still fondly remember a few sessions with you. I hope you're well.

@bethanyfrances 3 ай бұрын

Welcome back Noah! Thank you for sharing such a comforting video. You seem relaxed and happy these days. I hope all is well 😊

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

Thanks Bethany! And you're welcome!

@scottybthebrand 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for showing up again, here just when (literally today) I needed to hear this and process, and persist.

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

You're welcome Scotty

@scottybthebrand 3 ай бұрын

@NoahElkrief 🥹🙏 I figured out Presence, and dissolving ego to be aware of awareness. Eckhart Tolle.

@Eric-rs1zu 3 ай бұрын

Hey Noah, glad to see you're back!

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

Happy to share again :)

@94smithee1 3 ай бұрын

Amazing video, thank you Noah ❤️

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

You're very welcome

@julies570 Ай бұрын

I need to find and experience this kind of acceptance and love at the emotional level...please help me!!

@surakshaguragain5538 3 ай бұрын

Hiiii so happy to see this video 🤗🤗🤗

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

Yay :)

@movewithpeace0666 3 ай бұрын

Enlightenment. Attempting to get rid of a part of yourself is painful. Accept it and yourself. Dive into it. Learn more about yourself. You have all the tools inside. So then you can leave your temple and answer other people prayers.

@julies570 Ай бұрын

Thanks for this video. Oh wow l can see and feel im full of the self hate and rejection motivation rather than love.. I had the rejection of my emotions constantly as a child and its so ingrained and i have an anxiety disorderwhich feels like so scary that i am trying to avoid the feeling of anxiety and all my feelings really seem unsafe. My brain thinks feelings must be avoided because i have so much anxiety, so i go into my head to try to eradicate anxiety intellectually...of course it doesnt work so im on medication...which cant help the situation in reality. Its a conundrum as my view of myself and in my mind others respect snd even God's love for me seems in my mind to be contingent on my not being anxious....but i am so its a cycle of self suppression and more anxiety and panic as the real feelings are still there despite my efforts to hide and control them. Where to begin?

@jlvandat69 3 ай бұрын

Excellent guidance, and much appreciated. From my limited understanding, serious pain that was instilled early in life is rarely resolved. It appears to be inaccessible using known methods, so nearly everyone burdened in this way find "secondary solutions" to help them minimize the negative effects that deeply buried pain causes. I often wonder what would happen if we found a way to fully reverse such wounds in a relatively brief period of time? I imagine that doing so would completely alter a person's behavior in a healthy, sustainable way. Maybe someday.......

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

My experience is that healing is similar to peeling the layers of an onion. With each layer that we heal, our nervous system gets more calm, and we gain access to another deeper layer (earlier memory). It's not a quick solution, but it is definitely possible to heal our early life traumas.

@jlvandat69 3 ай бұрын

@@NoahElkrief It's very good to hear that you have seen 'full recovery'.....I wasn't sure that was possible!

@94smithee1 3 ай бұрын

What about if you are constantly being reinforced by people around you that certain qualities are lovable, and others are not. When people give you special treatment and attention when you show certain qualities

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

For me, it could be about explaining to my inner child that people can only like/love the qualities about you that they can like/love within themselves. So, when someone likes or dislikes something about you, it says more about them than you. For my adult self, I would make sure that I only let people close to me who are able to like/love all my parts. It doesn't feel good to be around people who don't accept some of my parts.

@sidescroller52 2 ай бұрын

Is self-hatred itself any different of an emotion? Should it also be embraced?

@NoahElkrief 2 ай бұрын

It depends on whether it is current or old. If we currently believe the hatred then it is something to disbelieve. If we don't believe it anymore and it is just a remnant feeling creating by an old belief, then we embrace it and let it move through us. If we embrace the self-hatred as an emotion, and let it be expressed, but it persists... then we know it's creating by something we still believe.

@sidescroller52 2 ай бұрын

@@NoahElkrief Interesting. Thank you!

@Eric-rs1zu 3 ай бұрын

I usually feel bad and want to hide my anxiety when it's a result of drinking too much or if it's related to health anxiety. I feel ashamed in the first scenario due to feeling like I lack self control and the second scenario since I'm afraid I'm going to die or need medical treatment and had bad experiences as a child and feel like a scared child again that my parents can't seem to calm down instead of relate to and accept.

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

I hear you Eric

@333_Tarot 3 ай бұрын

Eric are u open to suggestion?

@Eric-rs1zu 3 ай бұрын

@@333_Tarot maybe

@333_Tarot 3 ай бұрын

@@Eric-rs1zu maybe try diving into 1) subliminal audios of your desired outcome/theme/effect, grab em and loop em all day, they will work on u from inside, do big research, there are dozens of subliminal channels 2) rife frequencies. For example Leviathan has powerful subliminals for detachment, and also anxiety. Good luck 🏵️🍀✌️

@darkmana1000 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for answering my question Noah, I really appreciate your response :) i have one more question if you don't mind. Have you ever had the experience of crying but not feeling anything? I remember when my cat died a few years ago, i was bawling but I didn't actually feel any emotion or sadness while crying, it felt really strange. I've had other occasions where I've been bawling but didn't feel sadness or anything at all actually, do you have any advice on how I can feel my emotions in these situations, i don't like feeling numb

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

I think it's about meeting your fears of feeling emotions. For example, you could imagine yourself as a child feeling a particular emotion, and remember or intuitively sense how your parents viewed you or treated you while you experienced that particular emotion. Then, give your inner child love while they experience this particular emotion and explain to them that his parents couldn't love him while he had that emotion because they couldn't love themselves while having that emotion.

@darkmana1000 3 ай бұрын

Hey Noah, how can I connect with confident people in society? I find it hard to connect with many people because most people seem so confident, it makes me feel like an alien almost lol. I can imagine myself connecting with people who are more vulnerable and not as confident but obviously no one wants to say they're not feeling confident lol.

@NoahElkrief 3 ай бұрын

I think what you perceive as confident people are just emotionally suppressed people. When emotions are suppressed very deep, a person is less sensitive, and can appear more solid/confident. But, that is definitely not confidence. My perspective is that you can't have genuine connection with a person who is not genuinely connected to themselves and their emotions. So, perhaps, it might be worth considering seeking friends who are sensitive like you.

@darkmana1000 3 ай бұрын

@@NoahElkrief Thanks Noah :)

@trudibarraclough478 2 ай бұрын

People see me as confident and some feel intimidated by me. However, I am in a perpetual state of feeling unsure. I think most real people are like this - no one has lived this moment before and no one has many answers that make sense for anyone but themselves. I go back again and again to Noah's "you are allowed to be happy" and "are you attached to suffering".