Is your relationship with God toxic?

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KJ Messick

KJ Messick

2 жыл бұрын

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@brentpavey1776
@brentpavey1776 2 жыл бұрын
A piece of clay will never become a finished sculpture until it has been molded and put through the fire .
@tanyaobrien3968
@tanyaobrien3968 2 жыл бұрын
I love your message
@bkizzle290
@bkizzle290 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!! An awesome way to think about it ❤️
@lisaallison2098
@lisaallison2098 2 жыл бұрын
Amen brother I have 3rd degree burns I love the correction in the purification of the Lord it doesn't feel good but the outcome is amazing I've been really struggling the past week I saw your comment and something just hit me thank you so much
@mr.elixer2455
@mr.elixer2455 2 жыл бұрын
Not every struggle creates good, not every sculpture turns out beautiful.
@thedrizzlefactory8600
@thedrizzlefactory8600 Жыл бұрын
You don’t say
@itsmecheesegurl
@itsmecheesegurl 2 жыл бұрын
Mine is how I’d pray and tell God I’m continuing my walk with him but then lust will tarnish it instantly. I feel like my flesh is more in the front row of my life rather than my spirit. It’s not like I’m not taking action, but the action to walk with Jesus is slow and I am fully aware it’s very toxic but I’m not giving up on myself. I’m in this together with Christ and I know I’ll get there🚵🏽‍♂️👏🏽 God bless everyone who goes thru what I go thru currently… don’t give up please!💕
@kyonacunningham770
@kyonacunningham770 Жыл бұрын
Yes it's like i felt like i had to be a perfect christian or God wouldn't love me... but that's not true, im still learning that i don't need to be perfect for God to love me but i just can't help it... and then the random lustly thoughts come and tries to destroy me, i try to rebuke it but it's like it won't go away.. and then when i talk to someone about it i feel better and they pray for me and i ask God too and then that helps me also :)
@treasureninsiima7815
@treasureninsiima7815 6 ай бұрын
I'm going through the same thing and I just want to encourage us all. God LOVES us all and He is VERY understanding and loving towards us. Although it won't always feel like the case
@newman567
@newman567 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this message today. I have been struggling with many of the same issues you listed. This morning during prayer I mentioned some of this. Then here this video is. Thank you God for sending me this message. Jesus is my Lord and Savior
@lucastaylor4160
@lucastaylor4160 2 жыл бұрын
Yes you are not alone, I still struggle with this quite often. God bless you❤️
@michelleruyle3068
@michelleruyle3068 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this so much my God. Thank you Jesus. I have been struggling so hard lately. Jesus help all of these people in your name.
@daniandi487
@daniandi487 2 жыл бұрын
I believe every Christian or most Christian’s has gone through this
@janog.5170
@janog.5170 2 ай бұрын
No, some christians are getting a little bit of suffering to make them stronger, some are bullied and harrased from birth to death. God separates people into this 2 groups complitely randomly, even if u are the best, compassionate person in the world, u will still be destroyed if god will throw his dice and assign u to second group. This is what i experience because of God and it's getting worse and worse
@jerriwalls588
@jerriwalls588 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I struggle with it too sometimes. It just makes me want to pray about it and talk to God about it and ask him to help me with that. It's like I have a blanket of peace when I talk to God about it.
@destinytapia8759
@destinytapia8759 2 жыл бұрын
The song "what if I stumble" by DC Talk really helps when I beat myself up when I stumble. I need to stop doing that. Thank you.
@type1t
@type1t 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you kind soul. I have struggled since being saved in 2018 and this has helped me so much!!!! God bless you so much!!!💛💯💛
@wayneingram7568
@wayneingram7568 2 жыл бұрын
After all this time, I still don't really get this. Even though the last 4 years has been forward and progressive, overcoming alcohol and cocaine addiction... working through BPD and every season producing growth...I STILL get under a cloud of condemnation OFTEN... I just torture myself with the perfectionism crap- so toxic! Grateful that it doesn't take me backwards anymore. Thank you JESUS!
@jusappia1580
@jusappia1580 2 жыл бұрын
Can relate. The solution to everything is making time to read and meditate on the word and giving yourself to prayer, especially praying in tongues which the Holy Spirit help you to pray perfect prayer according to the world of God.
@WOGDAISHA
@WOGDAISHA Жыл бұрын
God Is There Trust Me He Is✝️❤️😔😔 Keep Trusting In Him
@Telepathythinker
@Telepathythinker Жыл бұрын
Romans 8:1 NKJV There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.
@PlainSpeakingMinistries
@PlainSpeakingMinistries 10 ай бұрын
Glad for you. Glad it doesn't take you backwards. The devil is the accuser of the brethren. Don't give him the satisfaction. Let Jesus be your perfection, my brother. It's all about looking to him and him alone. Think of it as looking to the light at the end of the tunnel. Don't look at the darkness around it. Look to the light. The light has been shined in our hearts in the face of Jesus 2Cor4:4. Look to him, and forget about your faults. Look to him, and let him be the one to take care of your faults. Woohoo! I don't know if that agrees with the ideas they promote in the Anonymous groups, but it is a good antidote to toxic perfectionism crap. :)
@ryanneetz2024
@ryanneetz2024 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your videos, it’s been helping me through a very hard time in my life Gods been calling me back home to him and your videos came into my life and has been opening my heart back to him, Gods working though you to others keep it up thanks a lot
@michelletelem730
@michelletelem730 2 жыл бұрын
Ouch 😔This message is for me.
@chancarter3440
@chancarter3440 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I’ve been struggling with this for a while.🥺🙏🏼
@ireenbennett7437
@ireenbennett7437 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you pretty girl for the encouraging videos. Praise God for you and your families.
@kaneTESP
@kaneTESP 2 жыл бұрын
You're definitely not alone, I have been there, still struggling and I need this. Thank you, sister we love you, and God loves you ❤
@amaliaconde5717
@amaliaconde5717 2 жыл бұрын
Amen thank you for that God bless all of you guys 🙏🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕💕❤️❤️❤️❤️✝️✝️✝️✝️💐💐💐💐
@leylacastillo7316
@leylacastillo7316 2 жыл бұрын
These videos make me feel better 😭🥺😞
@dreamerscrollowo6687
@dreamerscrollowo6687 2 жыл бұрын
Your not alone, even i am not perfect and i keep stumbling thou, But Praise the Lord He is Still Faithful~
@leannarobins5660
@leannarobins5660 2 жыл бұрын
Day by day the Holy Spirit chisels our struggles away ❤️
@LuisRamirez-by2mn
@LuisRamirez-by2mn 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN, ME TOO! I AM STILL STRUGGLING WITH IT AS I WRITE THIS. I HOWEVER SOMETIMES THINK THAT IT IS OKAY TO WALK THE LINE OF HOLINESS AND SIN. IT IS HARD TO KNOW SOMETIMES, BUT SOMETIMES I ACT LIKE I DON't KNOW. SO, PRAY FOE ME AND ALL THOSE LIKE ME.
@jv_edits5618
@jv_edits5618 2 жыл бұрын
Hello!! I am glad you believe in God God bless you all I hope you guys are doing ok stay safe
@jj.-m-.tochi1
@jj.-m-.tochi1 2 жыл бұрын
I literally was just feeling like this, but I didn't know what to do I'm just starting to walk with the hand of God, and felt like I wasn't praying enough! But now thanks 🙏 to you I understand, thank you so much🥺🥺
@mikairebutler3938
@mikairebutler3938 Жыл бұрын
Ur the nicest person ever I love vid u love god amen
@marlonpurcell8635
@marlonpurcell8635 2 жыл бұрын
Jesus lives inside of me ❤️
@hivekahuna1011
@hivekahuna1011 2 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone! Help us Lord to become more like you everyday, amen
@godislove1602
@godislove1602 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I needed this reminder ‼️
@allilopez4756
@allilopez4756 2 жыл бұрын
Love your vids
@blackdoglawrence2956
@blackdoglawrence2956 2 жыл бұрын
Wow..thankyou for your service..in Christ Jesus , I needed to hear this.
@jason6379a
@jason6379a 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely always a struggle but In the end i remember that his spirit is there. Jesus is there with us in each step.
@toumbryth7862
@toumbryth7862 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I have had this problem for a while. I'll expect instant change in myself and i feel like im not followingJesus the way i should if i dont change right away.. I have to remind myself that the Lord is patient with us and our walk with Him.
@Antifurry4961
@Antifurry4961 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! I'm not alone
@rosemaryvang3966
@rosemaryvang3966 2 жыл бұрын
The Beautiful the nyse's in the Way You Are
@dekard641
@dekard641 Жыл бұрын
I've been going through this myself. I've also come to notice that every time I fail, and even though its felt like the end for me, God draws me back and even uses my failures to draw me closer to him and further from my old ways. I want to thank God for always being faithful and true to his word. For all the rest of you going through this, don't give up.
@letiespinoza76
@letiespinoza76 Жыл бұрын
Amen! I struggle with that too. Thank God I'm getting better understanding that for some it's instant and for others it's a process.
@Tt-dy4hx
@Tt-dy4hx 2 жыл бұрын
same!!Especial when i first started a relationship with God like foreal but i still struggle sometimes but the Holy Spirt has been growing me everday.🙏
@liliaflo6137
@liliaflo6137 2 жыл бұрын
I struggle with this thank you!!!
@victoriabankole3468
@victoriabankole3468 2 жыл бұрын
YES KEEP UR EYES ON JESUS✝️❤️🙏🏾 AMEN✨🤞🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@markgroom5337
@markgroom5337 2 жыл бұрын
I love you. Thank you
@shewhosigns
@shewhosigns 2 жыл бұрын
After being saved we all need deliverance from demons to get set free. This is done through fasting, forgiveness, prayer, and deliverance.
@teemccray322
@teemccray322 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@naomidaum8277
@naomidaum8277 2 жыл бұрын
Amen. I agree and understand what you are going through a d dealing with. Salvation is a process is my understanding. Flee from sin and God always has my back. Hallelujah!
@lilivaught5827
@lilivaught5827 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. It’s something I really needed to hear!
@santososa9753
@santososa9753 2 жыл бұрын
THANK U I NEEDED THAT love u ❤️❤️❤️🥰❤️🥰🥰💖💖🥰💖❤️💖💖
@Cool4Christ777official
@Cool4Christ777official Жыл бұрын
Please pray for me to overcome my struggling sins!🙏
@abelardokauefate316
@abelardokauefate316 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽
@miraclerainbowbutterfly
@miraclerainbowbutterfly 2 жыл бұрын
I promise you are not alone 🤟
@bluemeadows7520
@bluemeadows7520 Жыл бұрын
Bless you sister 💜
@patricktheg.o.a.t6867
@patricktheg.o.a.t6867 2 жыл бұрын
Amen I love you God.
@ingridcolmenero8026
@ingridcolmenero8026 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same! Since I became Christian, my perfectionism interfered. I wanted to be a perfect Christian. When the emotions you mention came, I felt depressed and ashamed. I still struggle with it. My lows are getting so deep!
@leahmcenderry8586
@leahmcenderry8586 Жыл бұрын
dear Ingrid I pray that you are good that you know that God is with u he loves u just be yourself and know that God loves u whether you are perfect or not u gave ur life to him and I know he will bless you and help u in the mighty name of Jesus amen 🙏
@toytube7795
@toytube7795 Жыл бұрын
In Christ Jesus' Name know that people can never make ourselves perfect because we are not perfect. Imperfect doesn't know perfection but only God knows it. The devil is the one accusing you but tell Him who is for you! Ignore that voice and come spend time with Jesus, embracing your imperfection and allowing Him to do whatever He wants to do in your life🙏🏾 HE is the one who makes us better💗🙇🏾‍♀️ God has you and will bring a great testimony out of this. Even after saving us, He still continues to save. How awesome is that! Don't give up or think that you're not enough. You're enough.💗💓💞
@observingcat9049
@observingcat9049 Жыл бұрын
Talk to God out loud and read the scriptures please
@shanewashington5638
@shanewashington5638 2 жыл бұрын
I had regerrets, and self doubt ,anxiety Myself🙏🙏🙏🙏
@sosoalkha834
@sosoalkha834 2 жыл бұрын
Amen Hallelujah I am
@tigerplays144
@tigerplays144 9 ай бұрын
Amen thank you for sharing this God Bless everyone and Amen❤❤❤😊😊😊!!!
@rz836
@rz836 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@SamPena-re2np
@SamPena-re2np Ай бұрын
I was praying last night to Jesus and in tears because I feel like I am not living a single life free life and ask Jesus to help me. Then I saw this video. I believe he put this for me and countless others. God bless you
@laurenpatricia411
@laurenpatricia411 9 ай бұрын
I've been struggling so much! Thank you for making this video. I thought I had to have everything figured out and that I wouldn't struggle so much with anxiety and depression and if I did, I was doing something wrong. This is such a good reminder. ❤
@RobMaj7
@RobMaj7 Жыл бұрын
Wow !!!!!! This is EXACTLY where i am this very moment! God's timing is soooo perfect and so is your message and your sooooo needed encouragement!!! May The Lord God bless you and PLEASE continue to make your videos. I watched a few of your videos about 11 months ago when i was first struggling to become a Christian. I was so messed up and bcuz i was i could not call myself a Christian bcuz i was such a wretched sinner who just couldn't get it right . But....i would rather call myself a struggling Christian than not one. It gives me hope that i can become worthy enough and walk blamelessly enough with The Lord Jesus to be called, or call myself a Christian. Please pray for me and may God bless you and all who may read this. Thank you for your video. It has helped me so very much. Thank you Jesus and thank you again.
@roxie333
@roxie333 2 жыл бұрын
You aren’t alone. Thanks for sharing this!
@aryannasoto1434
@aryannasoto1434 2 жыл бұрын
Me too! I am so thankful to God that he put this on my page! I come from a past of manipulation, narcissism, mind games, you name it. I struggle even trusting myself. I struggle thinking highly of myself. I struggle with internal hardships, but The Lord I know is transforming me. I know he will show me and prove all of those doubts, fears, and worries wrong. Our God IS a loving and LIVING God. He is not angry, nor spiteful. He is just, merciful, and patient. I need to start thanking him everyday for the good he does and his patience on me in Jesus’s Almighty name! Amén!🙏🏼❤️
@3rcpro-life-semper1m5
@3rcpro-life-semper1m5 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Miss. I have a toxic thought process/thoughts that I'm praying for its being changed. You help me to be hopeful: "don't be discouraged, keep pressing in, and keep your eyes on Jesus. " Thank you. May God bless you for blessing us. 💖✝️🦋
@juliastenfeldt1008
@juliastenfeldt1008 Жыл бұрын
Yep! Me to a T! Wow. Never thought if my relationship with God as toxic until you said it like that. Thank you 🙏🏻
@cesarhernandez4701
@cesarhernandez4701 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN✝️🙌🙏❤🥰🤴
@stevebowman9745
@stevebowman9745 2 жыл бұрын
Glad to know you're putting this out. Keep showing everyone you're not afraid!
@ncndiamartinez4767
@ncndiamartinez4767 6 ай бұрын
😅uff ❤Glory to God🙏🏽 I so needed to hear this! Thank you Father for this message, YOU are not alone or the only one ☝🏽 thank you 🙏🏽 Jesus is my Lord and Savior 🥰thank you for this message! Hallelujah 🙌🏽
@lazerxander2379
@lazerxander2379 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@ronaldmello1831
@ronaldmello1831 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your messages of faith. May God bless you and keep you safe and free from harm. In the mighty name of Christ Jesus our Lord and savior "Amen"
@Egg-42069
@Egg-42069 Жыл бұрын
I love you Lord Jesus and God I wish I did better I try to come closer to you guys but then I keep getting pushed away constantly since I have school and stuff but I will do better God I hope I don’t increase my sins🙏🏾✝️
@kyonacunningham770
@kyonacunningham770 Жыл бұрын
Amen God bless i feel that way too... you're not alone we are here for you!
@Lucas-tq3lb
@Lucas-tq3lb 2 жыл бұрын
God bless y’all Amen
@ilovegod7598
@ilovegod7598 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN PO LORD 🙏❤️💗🙏
@silveredgrunion7196
@silveredgrunion7196 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you. I am struggling with similar things. Like...I go to watch a movie and my thought is...why am I doing this...it wont exist in heaven. Or I go to play a game and my thought is, why am I doing this, it won't exist in heaven. But what I end up doing is just sitting, and doing nothing in fear that whatever I do, is wrong. I've been struggling alot,and Thankyou for the videos.
@mollyliggett5973
@mollyliggett5973 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this!
@itsdaniebee
@itsdaniebee 14 күн бұрын
This was me also 6 months ago! I just came back to Christ in January this year, and I used to always say, what’s wrong with me? Why can’t I just be full of joy and on fire for God like everyone else? But having a true God loving community definitively helped.
@shio_pao
@shio_pao Жыл бұрын
I wish everyone reading this to be blessed ❤
@Dey_luvv_kayla
@Dey_luvv_kayla 2 жыл бұрын
Hi
@usejustonce2386
@usejustonce2386 Жыл бұрын
I've felt this, too. We are all fallen, after all. But still, no matter what, God loves his children.
@iamnunu5854
@iamnunu5854 2 жыл бұрын
Amen I needed this 🙏
@ilovegod7598
@ilovegod7598 2 жыл бұрын
PSALMS:37:4:TAKE DELIGHT IN THE LORD, AND HE WILL GIVE YOU YOUR HEART'S DESIRES.
@enosyodermattieyoder4298
@enosyodermattieyoder4298 2 жыл бұрын
I used to think that way too. And couldn't understand why I and others aren't perfect. ,🤣
@DaughterofYah101
@DaughterofYah101 2 жыл бұрын
God bless💓💙
@myfashionstyle2337
@myfashionstyle2337 2 жыл бұрын
Last statement about which start of Holy Spirit change us every day is so correct. Really it touch my heart. Keep up your work. Your words are so loving and which I feel it comes by God
@thomasking3359
@thomasking3359 2 жыл бұрын
I struggle with depression, anger at times, losing jobs. It hurts and it's a struggle everyday. But, I trust the father and am a faithful follower. My struggles will be over when God brings me home. I've got to believe there is a purpose.
@janog.5170
@janog.5170 2 ай бұрын
There is purpouse in your suffering and every other person, but as more and more years passes for me as devoted christian i fear the purpouse is not anything good. I feel i have been lied to by god. He claims to be merciful, he claims to always support harrased people, to side with victims of violence, to heal sick. But everyday i get more and more proves of opposite, that for some reason God works with Satan, and allows him to torture some people. For what reason? I don't know. But sadly everything points to that we are a toys for this 2, we are entertainement for demons. And god condemnds us to be tortured by demons for their entertainement for fun. I get more and more proves of that everyday. So the purpouse of your suffering and many others, is that satan and demons can get some fun.
@josephagibinik6995
@josephagibinik6995 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jesus amen
@hectorrodriguez1730
@hectorrodriguez1730 Жыл бұрын
Praise God. Thank You so much. I have experience something similar. For me I thought I had to be this perfect Christian, and when I sinned I failed. This message is awesome 👏 🎉 thank You so much. Have a blessed day everyone.
@Prayer.warrior077
@Prayer.warrior077 Ай бұрын
Amen..your not alone ..god almighty is with us
@faithachonu-douglasson6588
@faithachonu-douglasson6588 Жыл бұрын
HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH, AMEN
@kellyw16
@kellyw16 Ай бұрын
I've been struggling for the last few years and keep thinking something is wrong with my relationship with God. Which isn't good! I was completely free and surrendered my life. But now I'm struggling so much, and not sure what to do. Also, thank you for sharing this!
@cakes.
@cakes. 2 жыл бұрын
You aren’t alone, I used to say “going to Church is BORINGG” when my parents wanted to take me. Now, I’d do it whenever they ask. 💕 GOD MY SAVIOR I LOVE YOU!
@leonidesrivera9812
@leonidesrivera9812 Жыл бұрын
This ☝🏾 Ty I needed to hear that. GOD bless you 💙
@nanayaa8792
@nanayaa8792 Жыл бұрын
YOU'RE NOT ALONE SIS WE ARE ALL PRAYING FOR YOU❤❤❤❤❤❤
@deonteprince1449
@deonteprince1449 2 жыл бұрын
Truly have struggled with it, I prayed to be freed from it in JESUS name amen amen 🙏🏾
@justinthathamkulam3002
@justinthathamkulam3002 Жыл бұрын
sister you're definitely not alone in regards to this problem. May Gog continue to bless you in Jesus name
@user-lc3by9lc9z
@user-lc3by9lc9z 11 ай бұрын
I struggle with this now thank you for letting me know I’m not alone in Jesus name amen
@angeljj5875
@angeljj5875 Жыл бұрын
I thought that as well. I love that about God He will never leave us in our brokenness
@rohanisikani0845
@rohanisikani0845 Жыл бұрын
Amen thanks you God Save Our live I love you have been done for me God bless you God🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 ❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@singingandgamingboy6147
@singingandgamingboy6147 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@jusappia1580
@jusappia1580 2 жыл бұрын
That’s the part a lot of Christians don’t have knowledge and understanding about. Will leave it to her explanation. Great point!
@Weneed_Jesus_
@Weneed_Jesus_ 7 ай бұрын
You are not alone, a year ago I decided along my husband to give my life to Christ and worry I wasn’t truly sincere about it because I started sinning even worse and lied for the past year about things I have done. Last month I finally came clean about everything and though I have hurt many people I also hurt God, and Christ. Lately I feel like I’m struggling in my relationship with them because I get anxious every time I think about them and growing in them. I get anxious about what I have done and what it did to others and feel like I can’t grow in Christ.
@isabellalaing51
@isabellalaing51 Жыл бұрын
Girl STOP, I feel "attacked" 😂. Okay, on a more serious note, I feel this. Feeling the need to be perfect to be acceptable is a daily struggle, but thank you for this because it was a good reminder that perfection is a LIFELONG process through JESUS, not me.
@xxxcellardoor
@xxxcellardoor Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this so thank you and God bless you ❤
@Mviews-gq5xz
@Mviews-gq5xz 5 ай бұрын
Yeah I used to and still do, I'm trying my best cause to have a better mindset, I don't like hurting his feelings. Sorry Father ILY❤
@tylersea9910
@tylersea9910 Жыл бұрын
You are not alone. Sanctification, yes. I was waiting for that word! It’s a process. We are justified in Christ, sanctified and eventually glorified! Amen. 😁
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