River Golbrock I Hate my moms house and love my dads I just got out of my counselors room and talked to him about it I showed him a note and he told me that if I ever hit that hard again to call him and he’ll pull the plug and I’ll go over to my dads house and if my mom doesn’t let him do that he taking me to the hospital. Life’s rough I’m also just starting high school and trying to get good grades. Update: My mom doesn’t want me spending a week at my dads and stuff is getting tense and my dad may be take it to court to let me do this I’ll make another update later once everything has happened Update 2: Can’t believe this got so many likes things are going good I’ve been getting good grades, I’m able to have restbit(breaks when I need them) at my moms house I’ve learned to stay in my room as much as possible and that usually reduces the drama and my relationship is better with my mom and there’s 50/50 custody now. I also just got a truck for $1000 and fixed it up and it’s now worth probably $3000. Life’s going a lot better thanks for all the support :) Update 3: Things went crazy. I’ve been df my dads for probably about a month now full time after my mom went psycho and when we didn’t come back she threatened to get her attorneys involved so we went ahead and filed a change of circumstances and are fighting to get to choose where we want to live. This stress is too much and I barely holding it together at home and in school. It’s got to the point where I don’t even study anymore and barely turn my assignments in on time. I’ll try and update after the court case

River Golbrock same

Ikr

@@EbayNomad Good luck

Me too

@Ayen Bellona yeah I think about it all the time...its a promise I've made to myself that I need to take the time to find the perfect person for me and my future kids, and I've been actively preparing learning how to argue and solve problems...not fight and when I'm married I promised myself ill be the perfect parent and spouse...it won't happen...just take the steps

That is true

So true

Mom and dad divorced 6 years ago, so crazy how time flies, both happily married to different people, my dad and mom never yelled, but my dad did cheat on my mom so.. shit sucks man

I dont ever want a divorce when i find my right person, i want to be with them until i die

yup

Yeah

Understandably

Yep

🥲🥲🥲

Being an elder brother/ sister you have to bear with all of it and it hurts 😭

Yeah I related to this too in the sense that when I would hear my parents argue I would make sure my little brother is fine and shut the door sometimes it would be really tough because nobody in my family really knew until they were about to get divorced and I tried to act like all was good all at 9/10 and feeling so bad for my mom hearing her cry and tryna comfort her was tough

My younger sister is oblivious to all the problems in the world as well. Sometimes she doesn't understand that flaring up their arguments won't make the love return. Every time I tell her to stop she doesn't care. But she doesn't know. I have found out so much that just make everything cave in. I will hold it together until it can't be held anymore.

It is a bit different for me since my parents never separated (but still thought about it and argued a lot. I am the youngest but my brother has autism so I kind of became the older one. He is now 21 and I am 20 and my parents are still together, also I am the only one they go to when they need to talk out since my brother doesn't understand. But when I need to talk it is too much. And the times we sat in the car and they argued I gave my brother my headphones so he didn't have to hear it all and he never wanted to take his cause he was afraid to lose them

​@kaikalter Speak to your school counsellor about your own feelings, for yourself. And then also ask them for the right way to tell your younger siblings what is going on. Once you speak to your younger siblings about your parents problems, you may find out they understand the situation better than you, and they were playing it cool for Your benefit! ❤🙋‍♀️

Travis Ivanecky myn are and its soo true

Travis Ivanecky same 😭

same

Travis Ivanecky yeah me too!

Travis Ivanecky me too

Same. I think sometimes, when you can feel it, there are ways to view it that fits your own life. Other than that, I’m over here almost bawling on a plane watching this.

This.

Same bro

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Grace you have a great brother

You should tell him the impact he's made on your life. Thank him for taking care of you, taking the brunt of the darkness in childhood.

Grace, I wish I could have been the big brother that yours was to you. I've made 1 big mistake, and I've lost my little sister. What I'm saying is you don't need to express it he already knows because however much you love him, you'll always be his little sister and he will do his damned hardest to protect you always because thats what a big brother is meant to do.

Hey guys

Woah no way same surname

Patty men Original ligma cool

So true x

Its not about him though, its about a kid he knew who's parents were getting a divorce and James TW wanted to help the kid.

Ya I cried the first time I heard this

Ye

Gamer Alex same😔

We needed this song

Can't agree more

me too. i hope your doing okay

yes

mhm

Yes

Hatte den Song voll vergessen und jz bin ich am heulen haha

Lillyana Harris me alot

Lillyana Harris me

Lillyana Harris my dad was abusive

Lillyana Harris me 😪

Lillyana Harris Me

Don't get a choice to watch it when the wife who wants the separation send this video to you

Me rn

That’s your empathetic nature. The world needs more empaths like yourself

Way to relatable

@@jacobford8017 hU ftrerrổtkwx

Exactly

literally me right now

does anybody else cry throughout the whole song? asking for a friend

JasmineSings s x

JasmineSings s ooh no! Thats so sad 😭

omg😢

JasmineSings s my parents split up when i was 7😭

It sure is touching

This is true. I’m 13 and my parents are divorced and i feel ashamed because my dad was never really there. It makes me upset but not as upset as I should be. It’s hard and it’s not fair. I hope everyone keeps their head up high.

My parents where married till I was 5 was.my dad was in jail most of the time

I’m 13 my parents aren’t divorced. They have been married for a little over 20 years, but they still fight... a lot. Right now they are in a fight and they don’t even want to be in the same room

potato carrot we are all together in these situations but we are actually alone

This comment broke my heart for you

Are you fine now??

Yesssssssss

amen.

Madi Simmons yes

It’s better than the dumb stuff kids listen to now

Darrel Be It's Shawn Mendes 😊

Lizzy Kuhrke no it's not

Crystal Perkins d bot, its Shawn Mendes

Inês Apolinário omg no it's not Shawn mendas

Darrel Be ur acc so ryt i couldnt have sed it better myself uno😂this is acc a sik record

Thank you for your concern, I hope you have a great day too 😌😁

My mom and dad have always been a great couple and they've been so in love for many years, but lately they've been fighting almost every day, basically for nothing, and it's so heartbreaking. My mom is lowkey blamimg me and my sister for making them anxious, thus making them fight. She's also mostly ignoring their problems. My dad says that they've kinda fallen out of love and that he's going to move out in a couple of months or so. There's also my little sister, who I think doesn't fully understand the seriousness of the matter, mostly because they fight when she can't hear them and they act like nothing happened afterwards. I try not to let it influence me and not to interfere when they're fighting, but I can't help it sometimes. I usually don't cry at all, but even thinking about this whole thing makes me cry uncontrollably (I'm also crying right now lol). I just want them to stop fighting so much and be the way they were before. I love them both so much, so I try not to get angry at neither of them, but it's hard. Thank you so much for this, I haven't been able to tell anyone and I really needed that.

My head hurts from crying too much lol

@@margaretampotsarakou2373 That has too be hard, it really stinks when family members fight especially parents. If its okay with you I would like to pray for you and your family, First I would like to pray that you will be given the strength you need to get through this, and the love and comfort you will need for healing. Two that your family will stay strong and together and find peace with each other, and if your family ends up not staying together that your parents will not be sour toward you, your sister, or each other. I pray that God puts people in your life to help you through this time when you need friends by your side. If you can drive or have a park or a place you can go to hang out, outside of the house with your sister, it might be a good idea to go with her and hang out for awhile once or twice a week, that gives your parents time to figure things out without you guys in the house to hear the fighting. It sometimes helps to try to be on best behavior even though that can be hard especially when there is tension in the house, try to do extra work around the house and help your parents out, this helps them have more time to think. I really hope things work out with you and your family. I hope your still able to have a good week, and if you ever need to vent again I'm here to listen and pray for you if you need it. ❤‍🩹

@@K_Crafts27thank you so much for taking time out of your day to reply to me. Also, thanks for the advice, I appreciate it a lot. I wish you the best as well

Reach out to friends, teachers & other family members. You're not alone & if this is still troubling you then you need to ask for support. You've got this 💞

Can of Springles thank you

My parents aren’t divorced but this song still brought lots of tears to my eyes because my cousins parents are divorced and they have a little girl who is only nine and a older girl who is 14 and it’s just soo sad cause they come to my home a lot and talk to there mum in my room while we’re listening and it’s so sad listening to them

My parents divorced around 8 years ago when I was around 4 maybe 6, and I understood everything that was going on. My one friend at school doesn't know how I handle going from one house to the other. I have been doing it for 8 years so its normal to me and my parents are friends now. So everything is good and I know I'm fortunate to have my parents that are divorced be friends because I know its not always like that.

It doesn't.... I hope ur parents stay together for a long time 💖🤨

Can of Springles thank you so much it’s so hard going through this

Same

Same

Same

same

same

Lauren Zheng yea ik the feels..

Lauren Zheng im with ya 😫

Lauren Zheng feel your pain 😭❤

Lauren Zheng true

Lauren Zheng I'm with u feel your pain and been with this for 10 years now

Same

And i was talking to my friend lol

Same💭💔😔💔💭

YUUUPPPPP

Yadifannum1 Baseballlover that was me

hope your ok.

Was thinking the exact same

Aaron Delaney "

ikr

ikr

Aaron Delaney probably because it's on that freaking app music.ly..... my sister told me cause she uses the app, and, I was like only now this has become famous?!

AshLeRogue 'MollyBurke' :(

AshLeRogue 'MollyBurke' Thank you really good 2 know not the only one go8ng through it and i know all our situations r difgerent but i wish same for u! and every one who reads this

thanks that's quite an inspiring comment I'm going through it

AshLeRogue 'MollyBurke' Thank you so much for giving me some encouragement about my parents divorce

AshLeRogue 'MollyBurke' thank u❤

You're very lucky and you should be very thankful

@@haileyand2cutecats75 thank you so fck much... I needed that..

You just made my day

My dad is gone forever and my lil sis is too young to know hes gone forever

@@lpsworld9063 same here its 6 of us she only 8 and she think he coming back its hard to tell her that he not

Depends on the situation. It's true though. Sometimes two homes can be better than one.

@@antonellayaacoub2169 No, never in the child's eyes. Every kid that comes from a broken family, hates that they have 2 homes. It just feels like you have these two different worlds. So different. It's just too painful for anyone that hasn't gone through it to realize.

@@hollywelch5168 Yeah but would you rather be emotionly scared from seeing your parents fight every night? Kids may hate it, I didn't, but its less traumatic/ not at all trumatic as its like your living in two calm places and not one angry one. Edit: Its not that bad (for me). I've allways lived in 2 homes even when my parents were togher which to be honest, they were allways argueing because my mum is so antagonistic and starting something so all I've ever know is my parents argue hard core but others don't and I'm fine with it. I must be mentally broken or something to be so chill with all the yelling but at the end of the day, my mums a bitch. She stays with us at our dads even tough were 12 and 11 and they argue loads but its chill. Well, she starts something and my dad gets mad and she just continues. Shes allways picking on me and picking holes and yeah, I'm a bit problomatic, a little rude, sassy but its only cause she gets on my nerves and I put up with it for about a minute till I'm done and can't handle it. She allways slaps me and I try not to fight back but I just snap and need my self protection. She can't be thinking she can get away with it but I only put up with it as a, it doesn't hurt that much and b, I go to a really good school, its outstanding and world classed and its public and I ain't messin' up my future. Yeah, she does put 2 hands on my arm like she wants to break it and kick and pull my hair to physically move me as she allways yells for me to move and its like, no, why should I do what you want if your going to be so rude but why should I care about her oppinion, why should it hurt me knowing my bitchy mother abuses me, why does it even matter that she doesn't love me, that she doesn't treat me right cause I really don't care. See, it's even gotten to the point that I'm not bothered as I know other kids get worse even though us getting treated like this is hella wrong. Letting go was the best deciousn I made and I no longer care about much and its great. I put care into the things I want to put care into and none in to the things I don't want to. There proberly something meantally wrong with me and I am 99% sure I have anxeity well did as it started in 2019 September, start of high school. For the week, I cried at some point in the evening because of high school. Maybe it was worry for the stress or something, IDK, but then it went away and I had felt it came back like in April and then it was gone so I think I have it, just not 100% sure. Sometimes I worry I'm a phsycopath as I care about myself, alot, maybe more then other people but I wouldn't go hurt someone or kill them, I'm only 12. And even then, I like having 2 homes so not every kid is the same.

I can agree but the lie is changing and turning into 2 homes arnt better then one

The thing that’s hard to remember is that it’s not a choice between the way things were and the way they are now. It’s a choice between staying together in one home with bitter, unhappy parents or splitting up into two healthier homes. You can’t force your parents to fall back in love or stay together.

Sorry to hear that :p

I m sorry this happens to u honey, these times r hard for the parents, but it's especially harder for the kids. Stay strong

Dm me if you need to talk. My parents split 3 years ago and my dad got a really toxic girlfriend. We got to stick together

It's really hard. I'm in my 30s. I wish someone would have told me to see a counselor during the process to help me process my feelings. It made me develop some bad coping skills. Dont be ashamed to ask for help to talk it out. You will thank yourself when you get older. Sending you a big hug! You'll get through this.

Don't worry u will get thru it!!! I may not know u I may not know what ur going thru but I trust u and I know r strong very strong!!! Ik it maybe easy to say but I'm sure u have got this Also I'm so very late but sending u lots of love

Hope you feel better

Hi! Watts your insta? Wanna talk?

i was 9 when they split up, im 12 now and i get so emotional during this song... the lyrics we're just the same things my parents told me and my brothers back then. i still see my dad once a week. but twice a YEAR? im so sorry for you. i hope you and your father doing well and will meet each other more in the future. stay safe ❤︎

i was 2

This is why I feel so lucky. Even though my parents got divorced, my dad is only 10 minutes away and I see him every week.

Mayank Narang ikr

can't stop crying!!!!!😥

Freya Perera neither

Freya Perera same my parents have just split up and it's 4 days until Christmas

Mayank Narang lol

Seiana Brotherton hey, i hope you’re okay. everything will get better and everything happens for a reason if u wanna talk i’m always here ❤️

Ives always kept it. Now I don't know what to do anymore

It's ok just cry you can have us for support the unknown comments

I really didn’t want this for my kids but I feel it comming. And I can’t help but cry

There's nothing wrong with divorce and if you're divorcing for the right reasons and you really tried, there is nothing wrong with it. Some people just don't work out no matter how hard they try and it is best for everyone involved

Yeah that is so true but it sucks for the kids because it always works out for the parents but breaks the kids when they don't deserve any of it and what sucks even worse is when the kids ask when will I see you again and the mom or dad says idk or when they make you say good bye it sucks and when we put out or Zelda down and blame out self for it all it really sucks and I can't no more

But this thing is this: sometimes splitting up is the best thing for two people, especially when kids are involved. Would you want your parents stuck together and unhappy with their lives for the sake of appearances? It can hurt, and it does for a lot of people, but sometimes it's the best thing for everyone involved in the long run.

@@lifewithkat940 my parents did not fight they just decited that i was not purfect and that it was to much to take on so they sepperated and now hate each other and i can not talk or see her like they said i could

Our marriage ended when our twins were 3. They were so young they don't remember any of the bad times. Despite how we felt about each other and how hard it was to go through those times, we did our best to keep things as even and balanced for the kids. The kids are now nearly 17 and have a good relationship with their dad and me and get on well with his new wife and step sisters. It took a long time to get here but we are all on good terms. All is not lost and no regrets. Perhaps there would have been a lot, if we stayed together.

Agreed

that touch of micheal buble

+Sammy Khatiz yea and hozier too lol

LIVE HE SOUNDS JUST LIKE ED I LITERALLY THOUGHT IT WAS ED AND I SHIT MYSELF BUT HE'S SO GOOD LIVE YOU CAN'T EVEN TELL THE DIFFERENCE

That's what me and my friend said omg lil

Hi

I’m with u on that

life is shit

not really his 'friend' but the kid he was teaching

Yeah same

Same was it the San Jose show?

Same

Yeah same I just came back from Shawn mendes and he told us about the kid he was teaching

latajia mckinzie yeah me too

latajia mckinzie same i started crying so badly

saaaaaammmmmeeee

Same

It hits close to me and I can't explain why. I'm in my mid-twenties my parents are still together. Not only that,but they are doing better than ever. Irregardless it kills me to hear this song.

Ik how that feels

same ;-(

same

same even though i’m home, if i listened to this in class i’d cry

Veró Wilkerson sameee

Thank you for sending me the link. Cried my eyes out and now I'm emo. This is your fault.

+Samantha Otto you asked for it

Me too😕

Tayler Brugger same

Julia Mason I am a dad I cried at this cos I don't see my girls not through my own fault 😪😪😪

true

this song is good but heart breaking

I cried 5 minutes

londontolosangeles12 i cried so hard when i listened to it ):

londontolosangeles12 no

Beth exactly the same hahaha

Beth did you go to the Manchester concert?? I did lmao 😂

Hollie Lees yeah I was at that one😂

Hollie Lees I went to that concert too

Beth Omg me too

it sucks

my daughter is almost one, her mom and i aren't together anymore, i'm probably gonna let her listen to this song when she asks me why me and her mom aren't together anymore, it breaks my heart to just think about it

At least you can see her. My ex moved to another country with my son. Maybe i never going to see him again.

Birodalom1 i'm so sorry to hear that

Kaetlyn Babs this made me happy that people care about people who went through this (I did) so thank you :)

My parents are married and i still cry its ok im empathetic i started crying as if it were happening to me

Me my parents have been divorced for 10 years

Me

I can relate, yeah... its hard..

Me

*First

God bless I've had the exact same thing my parents are so depressed but they love eachother and my parents had planned so much without my sister me and my brother knowing my mum had almost bought a house but they are still together but everything happens for a reason

My parents have been split up since I was seven and I don't really understand what's it's like to have your parents together I can't image what it would be like if I was older when they split. On a funnier note:Things like these still make me cry tho and my friends always get confused because I'm always really happen and they get really worried

prettygirl prettygirls it does happen for a reason and im glad u parents are together and everything worked out or nearly anyway ☺

J Gaming my mum and dad split when I was like 18 months or something but idk it's not that bad I guess

This song is just amazing

Yonttely Dominguez god had nothing to do with it. Your parents worked it out. They put the effort in. Dont take away their feat away by giving the credit to something you cant prove even exists

Yonttely Dominguez glad to hear your story, bro. Congratulation.

Yonttely Dominguez my parents got divorced when I was 1, then when I was 4 my mom got married to an amazing person, then when I was 6 they had my little sister. Then we moved to Texas right after I turned 7. Soon before I turned 8 my mom and stepdad got divorced. My sister was almost two. They are still good friends. Me and my sister see him every weekend. My life is pretty flipping messed up. I’ve been in love but they didn’t like me back. His girlfriend got mad because he was hanging out with me and she told him. She broke up with him for another guy that’s just dating her to make my crush feel bad. He barely talks to me anymore because she said I influenced their breakup. Sometimes I just wanna curl up in a ball. Sometimes I just wanna sit in the top bunk of my bed, and cry. I don’t have many friends. Ily my friends.

@@karliwright1458 keep your head up, girl!

is there a video of it? i would really love to see it

Did anyone film it

LOL

me too.

so true, I wanted to cry when I saw the video

Lauren Grace same

Lauren Grace same

Meg KZfaq it makes me sad but I didn't cry

Same here 😭

The one at san jose???? i went there

omg same here .

same gurl same

I went to the one in San Diego. Anyone else?

Same

Me too😔

Same😢😢

I guess we aren't as alone as we think we are ;-)

+Thijs Schenk you are right☺️

❤️❤️

I know

@KYLIE POWERS sometimes you need to understand from another point

💗😭

that part got me

I actually cried even though my parents are still together that was just so sad

exactly me too

I balled the whole song

I was literally on the edge of tears.

I’m so happy for you and that things turned out well 💕 sending

*sending love 💕❣️

My life would have been better, after all I wouldn't have a sister that makes me feel worthless. I'd still have my sweet sister that would play with me. Not this monster.