@HeisenbergTheOGYou don’t even really have any content on your channel

​@HeisenbergTheOGI can't believe the bots are actually this early, but I mean I don't think a computer is capable of being hours late to something it's likely supposed to consistently look for, so...

Kind of wish the detachable egg was also a keychain.

​@HeisenbergTheOG Bot.

​@HeisenbergTheOG​We're no strangers to love You know the rules, and so do I A full commitment's what I'm thinking of You wouldn't get this from any other guy I just wanna tell you how I'm feeling Gotta make you understand Never gonna give you up Never gonna let you down Never gonna run around and Desert you Never gonna make you cry Never gonna _say_ goodbye Never gonna tell a lie and Hurt you We've known each other for so long Your heart's been aching but you're too shy to say it Inside, we both know what's been going on We know the game and we're gonna play it And if you ask me how I'm feeling Don't tell me you're too blind to see it Never gonna give you up Never gonna let you down Never gonna run around and Desert you Never gonna make you cry Never gonna _say_ goodbye Never gonna tell a lie and Hurt you Never gonna give you up Never gonna let you down Never gonna run around and Desert you Never gonna make you cry Never gonna _say_ goodbye Never gonna tell a lie and Hurt you We've known each other for so long Your heart's been aching but you're too shy to say it Inside, we both know what's been going on We know the game and we're gonna play it I just wanna tell you how I'm feeling Gotta make you understand Never gonna give you up Never gonna let you down Never gonna run around and Desert you Never gonna make you cry Never gonna _say_ goodbye Never gonna tell a lie and Hurt you Never gonna give you up Never gonna let you down Never gonna run around and Desert you Never gonna make you cry Never gonna _say_ goodbye Never gonna tell a lie and Hurt you Never gonna give you up Never gonna let you down Never gonna run around and Desert you Never gonna make you cry Never gonna _say_ goodbye Never gonna tell a lie and Hurt you (that's what you get for being a bot)

REAL

I laughed out loud at this!

Where is the magic makeup removing tissue? I'd pay too coin for a tissue that actually wipes off all makeup.

Aight that's a savage comeback

It's Mr. Clean magic eraser!

I used to consider myself a "nice guy" just because I was genuinely kind, respectful and empathetic towards others, but I stopped because of these ""nice" guys" lol (and now I can't anymore anyways :3)

Actions speak louder than words. It's like republicans when they say that they are pro-freedom & pro-life.

​@@ShinyTillDawn- Exactly.

@lu0z9_the_I lol I was thinking the same thing.

@@ShinyTillDawn Holy crap, I was thinking the same thing. If one really is a nice guy, gal, or enby pal, they won’t need to say it when their actions speak louder than words.

I see what you did there with your caliber and bullets pun.

"That's the point!"

No shot homie lmao

AAAAAAAA 😂😂😂😂

PFFFF 😂😂

No kidding. I'm aro-ace. It's happened to me a couple times, and it's awful.

I talked about this is another comment. Just how emotionally crushing it can be, once the anger fades, bc it's so painful to be quickly tossed aside and the friendship binned. It's also such a dehumanizing experience. Big (non creepy) hugs to all who have lost a friend like this.

yeah, people always focus on the other end, the person who has th feelings and whines about being rejected, but it's really devastating to lose a dear friend just because you weren't attracted to them

​@@someonewhocantmakeuptheirm2671 Especially since most of the time guys have this reaction, its not a "we were friends but i caught feels" scenario but a "I pretended to be you friend because I thought I could manipulate you into a relationship" one.

Had a best friend for 7 years who felt the friendship entitled him to sex. Years later found out he told people “we just drifted apart” after graduation. I told his former friend the truth because his behavior was disgusting and disrespectful. He was never actually a friend.

Then you can avoid them extra hard

Hell, nowadays it’s hard to see ANY people as people. Nice guys are a good example of this.

People can be so stupid. I'm disappointed in humankind. Everybody is a human and should be treated as such.

Yeah, it's guy women can't get enough with.

​@@94DeathAngel And/or consider women of any age on par with young children.

These guys will literally insist on paying at a nice restaurant and then call the girl a gold digger when she doesn't sleep with him after. They use it as both a bargaining chip to buy sex and as an out for taking responsibility for their behavior. Guys like that seem convinced that a relationship is just prostitution with extra steps. That it's just "spend enough money and sex comes out" and if you tell them that's not how it works, they go on an Andrew Tate rant and say you're lying.

@@RiveroftheWither yeah you're just lying and using them for a free meal. I've come across a few guys like this so if a guy agressivly insists or seems super bothered by my offer to pay for my own stuff, I call it off. Like they can pay or want to pay but if I'm like "Nah, all good. I got my way," and they get upset, like angry or pouty for real, I just check out. Like ask the waitress of there is a separate table I can move to for myself. I'm hungry and want to eat but I've decided it would be best to eat alone. (And I love a nice quiet meal out by myself, so it's no embarrassment to me.)

They see all sexual relationships as transactional. If they don’t have money and can’t get sex they get mad at the purely transactional system they’ve invented in their own heads and blame women for it. And if they do have money and don’t get sex they get mad at women for not conforming to their imaginary system.

Gold...lurers?

​@@RiveroftheWitheralso do not forget, that they ALSO complain, when a woman insists on paying her own meal, because then she does not appreciate his manliness....

It pisses me off so much how much music has gotten popular this side of 2000 on JUST that sentiment, of having money ergo hot.

​@@christopherb501music before that time often was about love in a predatory way if you look closely, so not exactly better

unless you are doing the dating professionally and are looking for a sugar daddy, then it's a match!

Yeah if my 4-star dinner comes with a side of Lecturing About Crypto I'm just gonna order some Domino's and watch Netflix by myself, thanks

"I am attractive"--ironically, I like scrawny guys, so him saying "I am attractive" probably means I'd find him ugly. Nobody is universally attractive. I think Brad Pitt is fairly ugly even though all my friends have drooled over him. Just not my thing (and I even PREFER beardless pretty boys in the first place.)

HA! I'm gonna use this the next time people demand sex from me knowing I'm demisexual

That’s a super cute comment. Thanks for sharing! 🥰

WHAHAHAHA 😂😂

I want to like that multiple times!

_ketle noises_

Exactly! Just say it FFS Why people find talking to another human being so difficult?

I'm glad to see I'm not the only one who sees that this type of manipulative behavior is predatory. It's both cringe reading the "nice guy" messages and fr scary.

You are speaking real truth and facts

I actually married my best friend 25+ years ago. Couldn't be happier. Interesting note, he NEVER claimed to be a "nice guy", he was just himself.

Yeah I like pining...in fiction. Not in real life. Especially when it's mutual pining. A+ trope. But in real life it's just sad.

imanananamoly

Truth. People are vast, chaotic, complex beings! And I love it. If no one has told you today. You are amazing, and I am proud of you! Keep it up!

​@@frolikswfroggys6416 Thank you! 😊

Imagine if romantic options in video games had a chance to reject you based on your actions or personality. Might be a good medium to teach some lessons 😅

yeah, the thing about those is that the game gives you options and you can either succeed or fail. irl no one handing you anyone and humans are far more complex than correct/incorrect superficial speech bubble. but somehow I feel like they still wouldnt manage to finish those games without looking up a guide.

I think I'd give that employee a raise.

Yeah, if everyone's calling you racist and sexist, it might be time to stop and examine your own actions.

@@WombatMan64 It's like that age-old saying: If you think everyone around you is a butthole, you're probably the butthole... or at a Trump rally.

​@@ladydarkness9642 or you work customer service. Poor people.

@@leunamreyo3663 Caitlyn Jenner is a horrible person. I don't give a crap that she's trans, that has nothing to do with it.

@@dustygania2425 Jamie is not misogynistic your the one that's misogynistic and transphobic

​@@KateWick1997No romantic attraction to people.

real tbh

​@KateWick1997 just more people that will make you cry.

@@KateWick1997 Someone who feels little to no romantic attraction to other people.

@@KateWick1997 For different aromantic people it is different. Some aromantic people feel absolutely zero romantic attraction, some on a very very very rare occasion may feel a small amount of romantic attraction towards certain people, and others might feel some romantic attraction after really getting to know someone personally.

They all judge women who dare to have standards and then hate overweight women for just existing

Men who call women chicks are almost as bad as the ones who casually call us bitches.

@@TheWerewolfOfNorway-mf5jz Idk what news your hearing about, but trans people are usually the ones being targeted, not the other way around.

I mean chicks do tend to be shallow. Their brains aren’t very big. They usually tend to think only of themselves, and they’ll fight other chicks just to get what they want. The only time they care about others is when they are nursing their babies. They are especially mean around food. I’ve seen some chicks fight over watermelon and try to peck each others eyes out. I mean chickens really are just vicious little birds sometimes! …Oh wait, were you talking about women?

@@Clay_sloth Yes! Chickens are tiny velociraptors they won't hesitate to eat each other

Im so sorry,thats s harassment...

Jesus that's terrifying! Sorry you had to go through that.

Did you mean 3pm?😅

Are you okay?

No Genuenly ARE YOU OKAY SHOULD I CALL THE AUTHORITIES THATS FKN SEXUAL HARRASMENT I CANT BELIEVE NO ONE HELPED YOU BOTH OUT OF THIS SITUATION ARE YOU OKAY SHOULD I CALL A THERAPIST????

Thank you very much for stepping up to the incredibly difficult task of working against homophobic AND sexistic misconceptions. A lot has changed, but unfortuately, ppl are also equipped with VERY protective brains, who'll fight for dear life over mainaining the integrity of whatever assumptions ppl have. Cause giving up that safety could totally wreck their pyche. A lot of people are relatively frail AND overwhelmed and it's the only way their brains knows to keep them safe. That said, media is frequently still not helping. It's gonna get better when it starts to get normalized to have all sorts of ppl in shows, without ridingold tropes to the death :'D Like the "lesbians gotta be masculine" one. Give it a bit more time. Most young ppl now are SOOOOO much better at this. But these habits take a bunch of generations to really get re-learned!

Same energy as "you should make yourself look more masculine so gay guys don't feel drawn to you, because if there's one thing gay men aren't into, it is... manlyness?" ( incorrectly quoted from an osp video)

​@@rabanryssel137stranger in s strange land eyyyyy

@@malaksafa4074 THAT'S the one!

agreed

He is just about the nicest guy ever, agreed. And it seems to come from the heart too.

He's wholesome. He's also not convincing cishets that they aren't.

Jamie is a guy

​@@KateWick1997yes

That's a really good explanation thank you, I couldn't put my finger on why it felt off.

I agree, but would also add a physical level to this on top of the language subjective/objective point. To be "taken on a date" implies the traditional way of dating, where the guy picks the girl up in his car and drives them somewhere, as opposed to meeting them in a public place like a cafe or the cinema. While most men probably don't mean to kidnap or force women into anything once they get them into their cars, it just doesn't come out as romantic anymore. Many of us women would much rather meet the guy somewhere safe first, and have means to make our own way home if things don't work out. And never have to even tell the guy our address until we know them a bit better.

I've always thought it just meant that person would pay for it, although I'm not a native English speaker

@@tomlxyz That is probably what the guy meant by it but it still goes back to what I and @durabelle were saying. The words he actually used to say what he meant (rather than phrasing it as "I'd pay, if you like" which would still allow the woman an opportunity to refuse or offer to pay an equal share) gives the person saying it all the power within the relationship and when it comes to 'Nice Guys', him paying for the date also more often than not would lead to him thinking he's then automatically entitled to anything he wants just because he was "nice" and paid for the date...without having given the woman the option of paying in the first place. Also, nowadays paying for a meal or ticket anywhere is more of a negotiation rather than the man just being expected to pay everything. It's difficult to explain because it really is more about what words were used rather than being about exactly what the guy meant but everything about the way he phrased it gives off quite big red flags. As well as all the other red flags in that interaction.

As a gay man, I don't think I ever said "I took him out" or "he took me out", I always said "we were out" and I never really realised I did that until now

Demi/grayromantic here (I’ve only felt romantic feelings towards a single person, so I like to joke that the sample size is too small to build a proper hypothesis lol) and I just wanted to send some positive vibes your way and say not everyone has that mentality. The “nice guy” folks tend to be an unfortunately vocal minority, but a fair number of people are really more open to having mutually platonic relationships, without a default expectation that it must escalate into a romantic one within x time frame. I’ve managed to find friends like that, a few that have even expressed attraction, but were very understanding when I explained my perspective. Hang in there :)

Demi here as well, nothing hurts me more then people hearing demi (or for those who I am not actually close to ace) and just thinking they can have an exception.. do they not understand how sexualities work!?

@@Silentgrace11 Thank you for the good vibes! And I'm glad you've been having positive experiences in this area :)

Hey, demi guy here. One of the most confusing things for me growing up was hearing other guys talk about the "friendzone" because I literally couldn't conceive of being attracted to someone I wasn't already friends with, so to me that was just status quo.

The "friendzone" is where they should WANT to be. Building up a trusting relationship first before trying to be each other's everything is the BEST way to end up together. Sincerely, someone who married her best friend.

I'm happy for you for leaving him.

So he was “nice” for yrs and all of a sudden he totally changed and became a player

I’m so sorry that happened and very glad you left him.

@@DJLordShango no, he was a player all along, i was just blind to it because i thought... i dunno, he was just being friendly? It wasn't my place to question his friendships? I wasn't worth standing up for? Hard to say. But therapy helped.

Good on you for leaving. Hope you are finding happiness

I said something very similar in another comment. It's a short trip from entitled frustration to sexual assault.

I'm not young. I've seen SO MANY people(usually men) like that through the decades...and it IS scary, because they REALLY are the ones ending doing the most terrible and regrettable crap to others(usually women)... Being 'nice' as a manipulative scheme is NOT an indication of kindness in ANY way!! Sadly being lesbian doesn't protect you...wish you the best, keep an eye out!

Fr this is the reason we don't wanna fw guys who act like this, do they not realize how terrifying and creepy their entitled behaviour is? Women fear for their lives Hell nearly anyone you treat like a toy will have a reasonable gut reaction

Thank you for confirming my suspicion that there are "nice guys" who are gay & treat men they find attractive the same way that straight "nice guys" treat women.

That's really sad man... must have been really awkward for you at best, painful at worst.

yikes. i'm glad to hear that you moved on from him. can't imagine if gay "nice guy" guy exists.

Hell yeah, live your life

girl SAME the Nice Guy to Transfemme pipeline is so real

I gladly welcome my Transsisters to womanhood!

@@Jane-oz7pp Genuinely, it took me years to finally realise but the reason I was so resentful towards women was jealousy.

This comment is like looking in a mirror!

Yeah it's actually not that difficult, I think what they're struggling with is that people can hear the difference between say, a dirty joke and a dirty joke with the intent of suggesting something that the person might be uncomfortable with. I've found that people who struggle socially often don't realise how much their intent is on display.

This is so true and relatable. I dealt with this frequently when I was working at a supermarket. Do NOT. HOLD. UP. THE. LINE. TO. FLIRT People are trying to work, the world does not revolve around you and this behavior is extremely rude and creepy. I cannot stand those guys. if I didn't show interest MOVE ON

One thing I will always love the McElroy brothers for is telling their audience, even early on when they weren't as tuned in as they are now, that workplaces are not lady zoos and taking a firm stance that you should not be trying to hit on someone at their place of business.

As an agender AFAB who's demisexual pan I've delt with this

Oof. Hate that anyone has to go through it really. I mean, even for me as a pan man it's happened, but thankfully in my case only once

@@DinosaurNick demisexual pan gang 🤘🤘

It's depressingly common. Most of my platonic relationships with men have ended with them attempting to date me (which i'm not demonizing in a vacuum, it's obviously fine if they want to ask), and then not respecting my no either by trying to force it or by blowing up and destroying the friendship. I don't know why so many men are like this.

​@@alexr2172 Misogyny :(

Hell yeah! Congratulations on being honest with yourself and achieving emotional maturity bro!

​@haemahn6072 Cheers, I'm almost 30, and that's the thing, I do relate to the start of inceldom and do understand that it's alot easier to deal with rejection when you have a group of people saying "it's not you, it's this women, there isn't anything wrong with you". I wish I could do more to help young men out of that pipeline. I think that's actually one thing that made me decide to become a teacher. Self reflection is so important at all ages and reflecting on your past and being honest about it will make for a better future. I tell this story alot as the narrative according to incels would have been me being single, miserable and a virgin all my life and its all womens fault. But by examining my faults it allowed me to grow and become a better person and with that led me into a life where I could have a sustainable relationship.

Question on this. I have a not quite 15 year old son. He's a fairly typical nerdy boy who has (outside of the situation below) no female friends. Also no sisters or close female cousins. The one exception is that he has been doing kickboxing for 2 years and at the gym he goes to there is a really high number of girls in the youth program and women in the adult programs. In particular he is quite close to the gym owner's daughter who is two years younger than him. Is female friendship from a young age and through the early teen years helpful for young men in understanding women as humans and avoiding incel and "nice guy" types of thinking? Or is that something guys have to work out at an older age? Thanks ahead of time for any insight! (I'm a trans guy who came out at 45 so my understanding of young male psychology is somewhat limited.)

@@CorwinFound I had lots of female friends growing up and I think that definitely steared me clear from seeing women and girls as a collective and as their own people. However I wouldn't think that was is a necessity. Honestly my main advice is to communicate with your son, im not saying give him lectures, but see if you can just bring up in conversation his feeling towards women and find out what sort of spaces he is involved with online without invading his privacy. But at the end of the day be a positive male figure and show him how to respect others and how everyone is individual. You are asking these questions so automatically I think you are a great dad and I have all the faith that you are raising a great kid. Saying that as someone who is very much a nerd 😀

@@CorwinFoundI have a 17 year old and he had friends that were girls and a niece he was close to when he was younger so I figured we would be good because he was always close to them and had always just seen them as people.. sadly at 15ish his problematic grandparents and my husband started in with their stupid jokes about having crushes on some of them and then he just kind of stopped hanging out with them.. sadly by the time I had spoken to the husband about it and he had addressed it with his parents the damage was done and he was no longer comfortable with the girls in his friend circle.. he still talked to them online but no more hangouts.. we had a couple years of what I worried was the beginning of “the incel age” where he would come out with comments about “divorce being unfair to men” and complaining that girls at school were annoying and trying to trigger me because I’m a feminist and woke and we were in trump era. Now he has a few girls he hangs out with that like him and one that wanted to be his girlfriend but he is not really into any of them.. he has chilled out on the triggering me stuff.. It seems to me that if they have early friendships and the foundation of respecting women the incel stuff online may be fun for a bit but it doesn’t stick and he seemed to be performing it but not really buying into it.

Eww that's not a grown man, that's a baby. So sorry you had to live through that.

@@PensiveOmen oh I absolutely agree! Because most grown people actually make it into the toilet. There were toddlers that would come in that were potty trained better than he was too. Like how embarrassing

Dang. It just goes to show you how out-of-touch with the world these incel-types are

Eww that’s horrible!

I'm so sorry you had to experience this. I assume this dick stopped coming there and ruining your day?

The way she handled it was so mature and respectable despite his horrible and immature behaviour. He is the one losing a great friend I hope he realizes his mistake and learns

I heard "Saying 'I'm a nice guy' as if that's a selling point is like a restaurant advertising 'our food probably won't make you sick.'"

It always remembers me of that scene in GoT when Tyrian makes fun of Joffrey for constantly shouting "I am the KIIING!"

Fun fact, there was actually a time when the stereotype was that women were the really horny ones and men were the disinterested ones. Truth is that women are taught to suppress and men are taught to exaggerate. Beyond that, it's really individual.

Why call the cops? They won't DO anything.

Yeah it gives “I swear I’m packing mom” when you’re really still playing Minecraft on the computer vibes

@@huntergalaxy Haha yeah

Same though. It didn't take long for the realisation to hit, but there was a moment when I was thinking, "I'm pretty sure she doesn't want you crashing her vacation."

My main reaction to that line was remembering how I heard men who think their p*n*s size makes them good at s*x, that "bigger is better", tend not to be enjoyable partners.

@@huntergalaxy and then the morning of the kid just shoves whatever clothes in their backpack

Yeah, especially with guys who are persistent, I feel like they must have no sense of shame or self-respect to keep pushing someone who has repeatedly and unequivocally rejected them.

How would you even feel sexy hooking up with someone you KNOW doesn't think you're sexy? I would HATE it!

I think it must be because they don't view women as people, so their internal lives, feelings and desires don't matter, just that they have access to them.

​@@QueenOfTheRandomI think you've hit the nail on the head here. I sometimes wonder if people like this just don't have a good theory of mind in general but it's hard to tell.

​@@QueenOfTheRandom , and the social status boost. Because some crap attitudes along the lines "A Real Man must have (own) a woman." Blergh! Yuk!

Yes. In other words, seeing women as objects they can own. Ugh

Maybe it's usually more involved, but I don't think it's more complex

Yea I gotta agree with the other replier, I'm also poly and I swear my platonic friends are actually way more complex relationships than my non-platonic ones and partners. Lovers take more time and attention, but usually you're so intimately aware of their needs (if you do it right) that it's almost simple. Friends are a little trickier because that extra vulnerability that comes with intimacy isn't there so you have to work harder to figure things out. Or I do anyway idk I often use sex as a social crutch so... 🤷🏼‍♀️

And actually, I have a D&D group and they're all either my girlfriends, a fwb, or my metamor lol

It's not necessarily more complex at all. People have different friendship and relationship dynamics.

Unless your polycule is big enough and all its members are into D&D!

Love your name!

[s] As we all know, strippers exclusively sleep with bouncers. [/s]

Have you seen Cinema Therapy's video about Megamind on Nice guy vs. good guy? It's a lot of fun.

Underrated movie

​@@frolikswfroggys6416one of their absolute best videos, I think

Guessing you got that from Cinema therapy. great channel!

Dude, happens all the time. The last time it happened to me, just a few years ago, I was utterly DEVASTATED. Bc all along I thought he was interested in what I had to say, like a friend; and wanted to hang bc we had things in common, like a friend. This is someone I would see 2-3 times a week, every week, text with him every day. Then he asked me out. I said no... then he completely ghosted me. Just all that time as friends gone, like it was nothing. It was heartbreaking to think a man saw me as a real person, only to learn he was just bidding his time. It made me so depressed that the "men and women can't be friends" cliche was real. That I was so disposable just bc I wouldn't sexually service him. That I finally let my guard down and let a man in my friends circle, and he proved all the negative stereotypes to be true. And until then, he really was a nice guy. He had all of us (a group of about 5 women) fooled. Knew how to act appropriately around women, never leered or made innuendos or anything uncomfortable. All my female friends enjoyed hanging out with him bc he was "such a great guy." Then *bang* dirtbag. At least he didn't call me names or put me down - he just stopped talking to me. I think these kinds of "nice guys" are so self absorbed that it doesn't occur to them how crushing or angering it can be to experience such dehumanization like that.

Yeah, I've lost count of how many guys I thought were friends turned out to just be after sex with me, despite that I think I'm a pretty ordinary looking woman. I mean, maybe all my woman & enby friends are actually pan, bi or lesbian & just want to bang me, too, but at least they never end up rubbing my nose in it! SMH.

I did not realize its that common

@@KossolaxtheForesworn unfortunately, there is a reason. We men are socially taught that emotional vulnerability and support is something you get in a relationship, it's not something friends do. Women aren't taught that. So men who don't know any better think the first female friend who provides emotional support is their one true love. They either learn they have it wrong and try to unlearn this dumb lesson, or they don't learn, blame the woman for "leading them on" and repeat the pattern again and again. (Source, I'm a man who did this, felt bad and is trying to learn emotional vulnerability with his male friends who have also done this)

I can relate. I do appreciate if they tell me early on, because I can't read minds. I love making new friends but it's hard to tell who is real sometimes and who just wants to get in your pants it is sad

REAL I'd feel like human garbage

I’m glad he’s an ex. (Also, your response to the other guy was excellent. With more optimism than is probably warranted, I hope it shifted something for him and he was able to change.)

@@kalieris Maybe! Mr. "Nice Guy" was so angry that he went outside and smashed his beer bottle to the ground! So yeah, I think it left an impression and maybe made him see. I've not been keen on seeing him again since our friends group ended due to several of us moving, so I may never know.

OOF Yea that's a red flag for an abuser tbh, if they can't take criticism or pushback without getting mad about it, then they're absolutely controlling and probably violent.

It's really quite insulting that someone thinks you're not good enough to be friends with them, & only good enough to hook up with!

Maybe I crave friendships too much but my instant feeling on that was "ah well no romance then, maybe new friend?" 😅

@@Dougie373 That's pretty much what i offered. Because you know, friendships are awesome.

@@Omneyvdwatering Hard agree. Plus I don't really understand wanting to date someone if you don't also see the potential for a strong friendship. Like would they not be friends with their partner? 😅 Odd attitude in my eyes.

That is a very ace response lol

A round trip to the pile of dirty clothes in the corner

@@Montesama314 That works for both interpretations lol 🙌

@@DinosaurNick I'm not ace but I have no idea what the "I'm packing" means there. I did get the "I know my way around a bedroom". It's an odd choice to say "I'm a good lover" though.

@@silviasanchez648”I’m packing” = “I have a large penis” But actually my first thought was that he had a gun and it was a threat, til the bedroom part. I grew up in a very gun-centric state.

Sp he was neither nice nor intelligent...

A sickly mammoth would likely make you sick if you eat it. We don't eat sick animals. The intelligence would come in in _how_ we hunt the mammoth. Team work, weapons, restricting it's movement by using terrain to our advantage. Eating the healthy mammoth, is the intelligent choice. Everything else is accurate, but that one is unlikely. We probably wouldn't have hunted the biggest, maybe a runt, a young one or an old one, but we definitely did not hunt sick animals.

​@@Jane-oz7pp , cancer, kidney failure, heart insufficiency, or general old age are not contagious, just to name a few. Bacteria get killed by sufficient cooking. Most viruses don't hop between species. So most sickly/weak animals will be safe to eat. The smart hunting is still necessary, though, for example by chasing a small group of mammoths with fire to a cliff, where at least one might fall to its death.

Or maybe "just be nice, not being A nice guy, because being nice is not a permanent character trait but lots of ongoing actions"

@@shachardl5360 Yeah that sounds better, thanks

In other words, have some basic human decency

@@ninjoshday Correct

Don't be a Nice Guy, be a Kind Person 😊

I'm so sorry to hear that happened to your friend.

@@nmelodic6391 Thanks.

That's awful. I hope you're in a good place

True. Even before transitioning to present as a woman, even before I came out as trans, I would make jokes about my girl friends and how hot they were. Things like my friend asking how she looked and my response being "like a snack" or her asking how her clothes looked and my response being "almost as good as they'd look on my floor". We made jokes like this to eachother a lot, but it was always clearly a joke. Also you can totally hit on your girl friends, just make sure you've established yourself as someone that is actually fine with that not being reciprocal and make sure you are genuinely okay with being friends and nothing else. I've told a lot of friends I've had crushes on them, asked a few out on dates. Never once did it ruin a friendship, because I wasn't just using friendship to get close to them, I valued the friendship as much as I would have valued any other relationship with them. (this also actually meant I had a greater chance of getting a yes to things like fwb or whatever because I was comfortable in myself and put the friendship first)

If you're really as good as you're saying here, you'll get someone eventually. There's no shame in not having kissed anyone, at any age. Even though society acts like there is.

Yes it's perfectly normal especially considering the past few years. I find myself at 29 having to build a new circle. Socializing isn't easy ^^

i want to see jamie and roly react to more of jamie's hate comments because i love that roly says what jamie is too nice to say

Yassss I thrive on the Jamie and Roly dynamic. Roly is the protective angry punk big brother to Jamie's soft, gentle, sweet cinnamon bun, and we need more of it.

pffft, no. i is a letter not a pronoun /j

I think you mean to say "I am an anemone". Easy mistake :)

oof I'm sorry you went through that. I'm demisexual and got out of a relationship last year with a 'nice guy' i lived with for 11 years who manipulated threatened and controlled me so I couldn't leave and then SA'd be and emotionally and mentally abused me and now I'm borderline sex repulsed

@@DinosaurNick I'm so sorry you went through that! I hope you heal as much as you can. 💜

That sucks. I hope you have support and this guy is no longer bothering you

@@ninjoshday I blocked him on the one site he could contact me on so I'm safe now. Thanks for the good vibes! 💜

I'm glad your boots are bossy!

@starrywizdom lol. I do have me some big bossy boots.

How about debacle, debauchery, banana bread, and discombobulated

Make it even better. Say, "I am an anomaly, and I love me." Say it every day because you deserve to hear it! We are all wonderfully unique, and the world is better for it.

@@frolikswfroggys6416 This needs to be a mantra!

lmao even a blow up doll would gain sentience just to run away from them

Several of the posts Jamie read, I was literally saying in my head "Please just get a 'Dutch Wife', please just get a 'Dutch Wife'..."

@@starrywizdom that would work too

Help same here 😭😭😭

Nah, they just need therapy.

​@@silviasanchez648that, or a cell

Like what’s wrong with people? Do they rlly think they can get someone like that?

Only people that can call me a slut and still get into my bed are people that are already invited to my bed. Dude is broken.

@@Caffeinated_Arden They probably do think that. It's the same kind of crazy thought that makes these creeps send d*ck pics. Like the person they're sending them to is gonna see that and go "OMG! I _have_ to touch that!" 🤮