They don't actually believe it though. They're just trying to be buttholes. But yeah, no one who doesn't hate trans people claims that cis is a slur.

Exactly. It's just sad.

THIS.^

Yup. Its exactly why transphobes think transwomen are trying to erase women, because they want to erase transwomen

Or gay as a slur, something which i am guilty of

I would love to know the story behind this

Capcom was, personally. So many twinks...

…I don’t know how I didn’t notice it before but yeah, he is *really* handsome lol

Alright I’ll explain, so i was in my phase questioning who i was and I found Jamie’s videos and i just felt great watching him, he made me understand so much about the LGBTQ community I didn’t know before and i found myself just watching him

Also yeah he is hot

Also, I'm a car guy and I really want to mod my exhaust to have titanium rainbow tips :) Ally Car Mods!!!!!

​@@reptilianrascal1125I love titanium oxide colour and having had chemistry class explain why it gets different shades, as well as details about partially hydrogenated oils

Can I get a short explanation or a website or something? Not doubting you, I wanna use it against transphobes

@@kiedisboughen5318 They aren't known to be good at advanced learning but you might try to teach something about: Latin gramar Chemistry nomenclature (from Latin roots) Bimodal distribution of human sex attributes Google "trans fatty acids chemistry" or "how to hydrogenate vegetable oil "

@@kiedisboughen5318I don’t know the details (still in school) but cis and trans in the chemistry context are just different types of organic molecule isomers (which in turn are different structural arrangements of the same empirical formula) Also btw I just feel the need to mention I love lead iodide with a passion.

Exactly

Yep *THIS*

fish are friends not *-food-* sexual partners

Now you tell me. I have bad news for my wife...

My first question would be :who would even ask you out in the first place

@@minestar2247 People of either sex presumably. And if one isn't into them (for whatever reason) the appropriate answer is 'no' lol

Remember the day gay marriage was legalized, when government agents came and forcibly separated all straight couples and ordered them to await their assigned gay partners? Yeah, me either.

@@OfficerZlock Dude, take a hint, we don’t want you here, go spread hate somewhere else

Pink also used to be yellow.

The word skirt used to refer to both the garments now refered to as shirts and the ones we still refer to as skirts. Therefore it's perfectly normal and traditional for men to wear skirts.

@@tjenadonn6158Exactly. Men have been wearing flowy garments since time immemorial.

Children were called girls regardless of sex until the age of 3 to 5 and wore dresses. Males were sometimes called knave girls and female children were sometimes called gay girls, if there was a need to differentiate. Boy was a derogatory term and was used only to refer to male servants.

⁠@@elaexplorer The words “boy” and “knave” have basically swapped meaning in English. “Knave” is an obvious cognate of “Knabe”, which is one of the German words for “boy”.

props to them for not being scared of water more than four feet deep - when I was six years old, I was not so bold

@@flintlock9857 you're one of the people who shouldn't be near a playground because everything is sexual in your mind

​@@flintlock9857why tho? they seem to know how to handle kids, and their identity is not a topic in their job? Shouldn't we rather keep arseholes away from teaching kids, like yourself?

​@@flintlock9857And I'm sure you have a lot of credible evidence and logical reasoning to back up your claim lmao

@@flintlock9857 I think you need to look up the definitions of 'fact' and 'claim'

@@trevorchester4439 what joke? O.o

I keep sharing the story about my sister who tried to explain this, and the person just simply could not get it. He heard "h-something-sexual" and just stopped listening.

I seriously doubt that happened

@@DeezNutzOnYoChinnyChin that's fair, you're not supposed to believe everything you read online 😊

@@enzi87 absolutely 👍🏿

Same in French! "Des objets divers" = "diverse objects" so it could be a mistranslation.

That's correct, we even have job ads that say (m/w/d) after the job title. That stands for male, female and "other". As someone in that category I do not like that. "Divers" sounds a bit like weirdos or leftovers or something. But at least there is a recognition that there is someone outside of the binary.

Same for Dutch!

@@rainboworangeyeah, it was kind of a compromise back then when it was decided to use „divers“ for those who identify non binary in Germany if I recall correctly. It‘s pretty difficult with German language to create good terms for it. Especially if it comes to pronouns. This will take time and a lot of people who just use our language in a different way so people get used to it. There is change happening so we‘ll get to it eventually I think. 💜💚

My assumption was just a mistype of "diverse" 😅

Goddamn, her loss i guess.

She knew that as a bi you’d end up with the opposite sex inevitably anyways

How awful. I’m so sorry but it’s her loss. I hope you found someone to talk about it and can help ❤️

what a crap response, imagine the reaction if you had said that to her when she opened up to you.. gosh when mom came out to me as bi, I said "omg I always thought you were straight" then I thought back on how much more I crushed on girls than guys growing up and realized I wasn't straight either. my sister, with a brief explanation, helped mom and I both realize we're actually pan. this all came from mom ranting in the car about an ex gf that cheated on her with some bad boy type. I'm always grateful sis knew some queer terminology else my orientation would still be "wtf is going on" so it's always better to be open with your kids, give insight and be curious. there's nothing confusing about making things clear, heck I wished I'd learned what pan was back when I was 13 cos that's when I started having girl crushes. thinking I was weird cos I grew up in fuckin backwardsville pennsylvania where the school's queer demographic consisted of a single known lesbian and that's it. everyone, especially girls, from all cliques made fun of her, spread rumors to make it sound like she was gross, masculine, or made lesbian her entire personality. funny that queerphobes claim we do that to ourselves. so I never talked about my girl crushes, only boys. even though I thought about girls a lot more. it just didn't make sense to me.. I was confused af being in the dark about queerdom. I think your mom was lucky to have a kid so insightful and patient with them, and she didn't appreciate it. now you're gone from the energy hope and joy vampire, I wish you a good life to spite her ignorant self.

and excellent pfp I'm a big spider fan, but also, I'm a big spider fan ; D

SAME OMG lol

@stopsin1 congrats special snowflake

@stopsin1why? Why must you hate us dude

For me it was Jaime, One Topic, and The Click. The three of them helped me see that my lifelong pining for a female body was likely more than just idle fancy. Now I see myself as genderqueer since basically I am just gonna do whatever I want, gender norms-be-damned.

@stopsin1shivering in my boots

Your mum is an icon and so are you lolol❤😂

Thanks 😂@@CorvusuvroC

They don't care about making sense, they just say whatever they think will hurt the most.

@@flintlock9857 Not really, I've gotten to the point where people like you who are obviously just trying to make me feel bad often just make me laugh. Your desperate attempts to hurt me just seem so childish to me now lol

I suspect it does. As evidence, I present you. You seem to be so extremely damaged that you think your posting inane comments here would impress anyone. To be fair, I don't know what hurt you so terribly. Was it "the truth" or something else? Who knows. Whatever it was, my deepest condolences to you. @@flintlock9857

​@flintlock9857 if your goal wasn't to hurt, why were you gloating about "truth" being hurtful?

​@@flintlock9857Conservatives are biologically incapable of telling the truth, as they are the only lifeform on earth whose respiration is based on lying rather than on chemical reactions. The second a conservative stops lying is the second it starts dying: expecting a conservative such as yourself to go even a second without lying would be like expecting a human being such as myself to go an entire year without oxygen. This is all basic biology that you would've learned if you were a human instead of a conservative. Is that simple enough for the conservative to understand? It will answer either yes or no.

@@trevorchester4439 this was years ago so i dont really remember the specifics just horrible things about gay ppl

@@trevorchester4439 well idk what to tell you mate, trans women ARE women and if you disagree with that, that makes you a butthole 🤷‍♀

So as a bi it’s not like you really were bothered by the homophobia, bis spew that nonsense too after all.

Oop- I really wanna know what she said tho-

@@science_bear you are not me, you do not decide what i am or am not bothered by. and as a bi, i can very well date someone of my own gender and she would definitely have something nasty to say about it so how on earth would i not be bothered by it?? but go off i guess and lastly, i have been nothing but supportive of gay ppl so do not come in here accusing me of shit

My asexual awakening was watching heartstopper a few months ago. Representation is important

@@pietjewaanman3506 the trans ideology of a cis woman being kicked out of a women's bathroom? I think you're lost.

I don't get why people even care about who's in the next stall, so long as there's proper cubicles. Potential attackers aren't going to care about signs or societal norms anyway, they can also be of any gender. As a cis woman, there have been a number of occasions where gender neutral toilets would have been really convenient. There are also certain situations where nobody bats an eyelid, such as in people's homes or a row of portaloos at an event.

@@hannahk1306 same. Like a toilet is a toilet and poop is poop. And exactly, as it turns out people breaking the law don't really care about breaking the law. If a man wants to walk into a women's bathroom he just can, there's no magical forcefield to stop him.

​@hannahk1306 right, like normal people go to the bathroom to ✨️use the bathroom and leave✨️ but then there's some weirdos out there who are very concerningly obsessed with what the person next to them looks like without clothes 🥴

@@sys-foster yep, like 😱shocker😱 people go to the bathroom to *_gasp_* go to the bathroom. The horror 🤦

This.

Thats not true. There was a guy named Justin Nash that attended the Denver Pride Parade with a sign saying “Recovering bigot, I am sorry! Free Hugs.". I know its hard. But we can't give up hope for them.

Thats rlly not true.

The funny thing is that it is true because once you do say that, you stop being a bigot...

​@@TheTransDevin520the saying still tracks because "recovering" means they're no longer a bigot! that means they overcame bigotry and are a decent person now. ❤ but you're right that bigotry isn't set in stone, people can and do change.

I binged the two seasons for the first time this week too ☺️

Binged them both and am now making my way through the graphic novels (just as good so would totally recommend them!)

I was crying at the last episode 😭😭😭😭

I watched both seasons in one night I was up till six am, also actually I'm bi as well 🙃

@@Kit-Nicole when season 1 came out, I binged that in one night and then when season 2 came out, it was a rota’d day off for me so I spent the day rewatching season 1 and watching season 2 with junk food and a blanket lol 😂

I’m often told I’m not a Christian by bigots My husband once told me “Well, you aren’t exactly a model Christian… you don’t have enough hate in your heart” LOL 😂

I think that it's sad that so many queer people don't feel safe enough to explore spirituality. So many of us would want to but feel pushed out by religious bigots

@@O-pm8bb Yeah it is not fair. Religions should be for everyone.

@@EstherH85 Nah I don't like that. I won't even joke about it because I will not let them take over my religion. A model Christian to me is someone who shows radical love and acceptance to others. Honestly, I'd say the minister at my church is a model Christian.

@@flintlock9857 ?

What? You mean feelings are not a thing trapped in amber, unmoving and unchanging for all eternity? That's crazy talk!

HRT flipped me from being a gay man-shaped thing with almost zero romantic or sexual attraction to women to a lesbian with almost zero romantic or sexual attraction to men. It's been a bit of a mindfuck, but it only makes sense that that would change as everything else about me changes.

Huh, how does that work, the model i use to understand this phenomenon doesn't predict this possibility

Yeah, somehow even people accepting of gender fluidity insist that sexuality can't change because that would mean you can choose to be gay. I'm. What the hell?

@@AstralArbourSysthey just equate choice with change for some odd reason. Your sexuality Can change however that doesn't mean you're any more in control of it than you were before

Honestly, both. The best thing to do in that type of situation is to explain that yes, there is nothing wrong with gay relationships, but incest, however, IS very wrong.

@@SuspiciousTemmie Yeah, I did try to do that. Honestly I wasn't too worried because it felt like the kid was just making it up because he thought it sounded funny lmao

The statement can be true without gay marriage or incest even entering into it. If the grandfather officiated the wedding, he did indeed marry his son (to his now spouse). It's like a little riddle, like the surgeon's child one.

You usually have two grandpas, so the dad could have married the other parent's dad

@@lauratroy13 That smells like drama to me 😱😂

And at the end, "He's still huggy." Got me right in the feels.

I'm in my mid-40s, too, but of the veggie bacon variety. I'm okay with both tomatoes and tofu, but I guess no-one wants to swap bacon for broccoli? 😂

I've never seen Heartstopper. I think I want to now. 😊 I'm just asking out of curiosity: where did you vote for same-sex marriage in 2015? It's been legal in Canada since July 2005. I remember when it happened. ❤

I'm tomato, and I'm allergic to tomato, too! I agree with the tofu sentiments.

@@SiusaidhMacUS I believe

​@@SiusaidhMacYou definitely should! For like a month after its release, I didn't watch it because I thought it would be boring, but then I finally watched it and it instantly became my favorite TV show

It’s gotta be either ace awakening or you have such negative rizz you ruin all relationships for that person

@@beatblocksgaming people cant technically 'cause' your orientation. You're born that way. lt can be fluid yes, and hormones can influence that as well, but it's you who have domain, not another person

​@@Him_He_MeUm no you literally don't born with a sexuality. It shapes as you grow up, which is why people aren't born gay.

Jamie has indoctrinated 1000s into the cult.

​@@veilbreak5867The cult of feeling better in your own body and being your authentic self?

@@HunsterMonterbetter in ones own body? A lifetime of medications, and 'surgeries that don't heal and inevitably fail. .....I don't think Jamie felt better in her body when the skin tube she had stitched on to mimic a penis began spurting blood, had to have a blood clot literally squeezed from it. Then needed how many more surgeries (revisions) on it? I believe 4 is the usual number before there's nothing left to work with, and they just give up! Though could be worse! it could have just started to rot whilst attatched like others have. Basically it dies, decompose, then falls off. The men who have a faux vagina made from a piece of their colon don't fare any better either. Having to force the hole open (which always smells of shit, cos it's from the arsehole,) with medical dildos several times a day, , so that it doesn't heal up. And is excruciatingly painful. They have constant infections, cos it doesnt self clean, like an actual vagina. And sex with thrse created genitals isn't feasible. One guy who tried intercause with an mtf, described it as a physically painful, and embaressing experience for both parties. Comparing it to sex with a dead, unyielding muscle, that rigamortis had set into! Many end up with colostomy bags! And that's just some of the misery after genital mutilation surgeries! The damage that cross sex hormones does to the body is scandalous! Infertility, the risk of heart attack from testosterone is about 3 times more likely in FtMs than in actual men! That's just some of the physical issues. The mental stress is obviously way higher post, than pre all these barbaric frankensteinesque procedures! Accepting oneself for who we are is being authentic. Not living a lie like this! But that would mean acknowledging homosexuality in most cases....and that won't do will it! We cant have that much authenticity! The cult of trans is also the most homophobic cult Must trans away the Gay ....at any cost! Jamie and her partner more or less admitted this. A lesbian relationship would not have been culturally acceptable to the partners family.....so Jamie had to fake it as a man to appease them! So your claims are incorrect

@@veilbreak5867💀💀💀

It's kind of a group effort. Anyone who sees a hateful comment can report it. Sometimes if I have the time, I'll just scroll through the comments section and report all of a particular troll's comments. Obviously I can't get to all of them, and some are so inane that I don't bother. But I definitely try to get rid of the most hateful ones, and certainly any that threaten or imply violence. I know there are some other people who do this also. (Good thing, because I actually have to go to work pretty soon, so I won't be able to right now.) Just ordinary people doing what we can.

They gotta be a special kind of oblivious to not realize the action of spending their free time being toxic says a lot more about them than their messages say about the people they are trying to disparage.

​@@phoenixvance6642 "spending their free time being toxic" by saying women can magically become men just because they one day declare they're a man

Oh poor confused poppet, they are already men before they declare it. Coming out isn't "becoming a man"; it's letting people know that you are one. Also, you might want to consider giving a moment's thought to what "toxic" actually means before you embarrass yourself further, @@blowinatranny

@@blowinatranny It's not magic, it's this little thing called "science". Look into it. Science and medicine have made many things possible and improved life no end for all kinds of people.

Probably a memory your friend will cherish for a long time.

@@pathevermore3683oh hey again homophobe. Still pretending to be a supporter?

​@@juniorqindes8335Hey, trigger boy, still getting super triggered and crying because trans people exist?

I was gonna say that then saw your comment-

So was I- 😶

W family (except the stepdad f that bih)

nobody asked bozo@stopsin1

As a asexual demiromantic my myself I'm happy for her coming out

Born in the month of Indulgence!

@@teacup5921 Hell yeah! I was born in the month of theft. I say we replace star signs with this, but I'm biased.

nono, april fools, april is deception

@@-cat_in_space- YES!!

No

It's straight to be gay actually. (Patiently waits for straight people to fall into my trap)

​@@Toni-lo9mstrue

​@@freddiefishtonaye, fair enough

Probably

My brain went to German rather than French, because it’s the standard third option for German and Austrian forms that ask for your gender (since 2018 in Germany and 2019 in Austria).

@@ragnkja Could be that as well! It would depend on who created the website and their nationality I guess ❔❓

It’s also a valid (if somewhat archaic and definitely very rare) alternative spelling of “diverse”, as used particularly in legal contexts. Example: "By order of the High Council, this is an impartial inquiry into the behaviour of the accused person, known as the Doctor, who is charged that he, on divers occasions has been guilty of conduct unbecoming a Time Lord. […] He is also charged with, on divers occasions, transgressing the First Law." - _Doctor Who: The Trial of a Time Lord: Part One_ (1986)

@stopsin1 AKA you’re a proud bigot. Not sure why anyone would think that’s a good thing to be at all, but human beings are infamously illogical.

The transphobes seriously don't understand that permanent irreversible change is exactly the point. And also that change doesn't mean damage.

@@flintlock9857then educate us

@@mirandarensberger6919 "That block of marble was irreversibly damaged when Michaelangelo carved it into La Pieta!"

@@tjenadonn6158 Brilliant!

@@mirandarensberger6919Yes they do. They know that it helps us. That’s why want to ban it, because they hate us and want us gone.

phonetically, it works super well in YTPs

I still don't like the prefix. It reminds me of the word piss while trans sounds travel related. I want a travel sounding prefix, too. And a way of saying the same basic thing without making it sound like one is in agreement with gender norms. That was my biggest issue. Of course everyone decided I was a transphobe just because of my fixation on how a word sounds to me personally. It has nothing to do with anything else. I'm autistic though and just have different ways of looking at things. Gender and linguistics both. And of course I have no idea when it's ok to say something and when it's going to get misunderstood and upset everyone else. Someday, when I'm long dead, the language will shift no doubt.

My bisexual awakening was one of my besties in high school. Had a suggestive dream about her, and then I really couldn't deny it. My pansexual awakening was in adult naughty films tho, when I realized that I liked people with breasts but also a penis. Go figure lmao

@@animeartist888 Ain't human existence just beautifully diverse? 💗

Bi, here, also love Heartstopper 💖💜💙. Also, I’m demisexual though. Which I didn’t know/understand until here in my 40s. I had 2 long term hetero relationships that spanned my entire adulthood. When the second failed, I had space to reflect and realized I’ve had crushes on women I’ve been really close with through the years as well, just already in a relationship and never thought about what it meant. Aesthetically always liked women more, but as I’m demi, I never had that like “celebrity sexy crush” awakening or anything. Def found people of all genders “hot,” but it doesn’t translate to actual “sexy feelings” if you know what I mean. Then I realized I fell hard in *all* the ways for someone AFAB in my life that I was close enough to that they’d made it in under my “demi” umbrella. So I realized I’m bi in my 40s.🤷‍♀️

@@RM-hi4vv I'm demisexual, too! I actually figured that out before the bi part, because the serious crushes I've had have happened very rarely. I was in my mid-20s when I figured things out, and at that time, I started analyzing my interest in certain female celebrities. I never just see a photo of a celebrity and think they're hot, but after watching a few seasons of a tv show, or a film which really hits me in the feels, I find the attraction, too. In real life, I need that deep emotional or intellectual connection, and once that happens, a switch goes off (or on).

i'm a xenogender woman. complicated is the only way i know how to live!!!!! lmao

​​@@asuka_the_void_witchcan I know what you mean by xenogender in this context? No hate, Im just ignorant on some labels

@@asuka_the_void_witch hmm that is a new word for me, what does that mean?

I’m agender/Pan. Right there with you!

​@@MinerBattaken from the NonBinary wiki: Xenogender (coined in 2014 by Tumblr user Baaphomett in a submission to the MOGAI-Archive blog, from xeno alien + "gender")[1] is a nonbinary gender identity "that cannot be contained by human understandings of gender; more concerned with crafting other methods of gender categorization and hierarchy such as those relating to animals, plants, or other creatures/things."[1] Xenogender isn't defined in relation to "female" or "male" (the binary genders), but by other kinds of ideas that most people don't think of as having to do with gender.

"This person is broken. Their body doesnt match their brain chemistry" "These frogs think changing sex makes them mlre attractive to other frogs. But it wont. They know"

@@trevorchester4439 no salt on my fries please

@@trevorchester4439 you mean sine not in right?

@@trevorchester4439 nah that’s not an answer to what I said. I need to make sure you got my order right. No salt on my fries and a large shamrock shake please

@@trevorchester4439 We’re all impressed you just got an a in high school calc but if you keep saying random stuff I’ll have to call the manager or get another cashier

Ironic, the channel has been failing for a while because of her homophobia.

​@juniorqindes8335 lmao, that was hilarious! Jamie must have made you super upset and triggered!

@@pathevermore3683 nope, someone just told me about t their KZfaq statistics and I looked it up. It’s starting to be more of a cult following than anything. New people unsub quick or stay subbed and the growth rate won’t compensate. Lucky for him youtube won’t remove inactive or duplicate accounts.

​​@@juniorqindes8335lmao, please, we know your kind is incapale of basic math. Statistics is way out of your cult's wheel house.

@@juniorqindes8335 "I make up nonsense to pretend like my hate campaign is working." Failing creators don't tend to have successful book launches and growing merchandise lines.

Oooh that's so cool !!

And noahfincce

This is something we all want to see. 🏳️‍🌈

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle..

@@stopallsin why?

Male and female are words related to sex, not to gender. World is crazy

You are a botato, as you are watching JammiDodger, who calls us all spuds

Did you forget that nonbinary people exist? If she neither sees you as a boy/man nor a girl/ woman, then she obviously sees you as nonbinary. A nonbinary potato. Probably.

I've seen this joke sooo many times now but it still makes me giggle each time i see it 💜🖤💜🏳️‍⚧️

Even though I’m cis I really appreciate that the German language school I’ll be attending (again) in a few weeks has that option on the sign-up form. They also have toilet door signs that explicitly state that transgender people are welcome to use the toilets on campus. Of course, they should always be, but making it explicit so that transphobes are clearly in the wrong if they harass people for just needing to pee or poo is good.

It also means "Various" in French! Kind of a similar concept 🇫🇷

@@ragnkja That's amazing! I came out as trans recently and I'd love to see positive things like that everywhere

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle...

I'm so glad to hear your story!

@stopsin1 it's looks like some video game art for me. Also who asked.

@stopsin1 Ok.. well whatever floats your boat, I guess...

💛💚💜💙💖💝💖💙💜💚💛

💀 indeed

Lol I hope you’re dad gains some brain cells soon

Is he also averse to being called "straight"

"Marginalising normal people" is a straight-up oxymoron