you’re right. i wasn’t expecting to see you here.

When you first said native I thought you said naked and I had to do a double take.

Woo!

Jammi hiii

Hey, I have a question! From the videos I watched, you said you identified as bi. However, it's the pan flag behind your face on your profile picture, if I'm not wrong. So, did I miss something and I shall refer to you as pan? I'm sorry for bothering I just want to clear this up (and I haven't watched the video yet if you ever said something about it)🙏✨💖

Oh hello there

@_El_Cyan_ yes

Love ya

Indeed

Exactly

Cries in aromantic and poor

@@lbpfan315 😭

Cries in demiromantic, socially awkward, and poor

Cries in single omnisexual that has social anxiety and hates talking to people

@Hitler Interesting opinion there. It just isn’t.

I know right!!! 🤣

H also announced we would go straight into r/suddenlygay.

IRON KNEE

According to these people it probably means the women you like are actually men making you straight, but if they like you back that's gay again. Idk, I'm trying to make sense of their logic, but I think that is a futile exercise.

Nope, sounds kinda gay to me

Apparently! :]

If liking strong women is gay when you're a dude, it should mean that it's straight if you're a woman...? I have no idea tbh. Maybe it's gay anyways since "women are just men and liking men is gay". Seems like everything is gay in their book apart from ace/aro people, idk.

@@GreyPunkWolf on aro/ace people, I bet the argument of “what, you don’t even feel romantic/sexual attraction to the opposite gender? That sounds pretty gay” could be used.

That pfp is litterally everything

@@AAAAAAA-dm5nk Why thank you fellow she-ra pfp

@@merelymeepsheep2614 😌❤️

Congrats on the heart 😭❤️

That is an amazing idea and your pfp too Both of ou have am a pfps Double tor and catra are my spirit animals

Hey taste buds!

Taste buds 😂

Noo I can't unhear it 😅

@@jenthedictionary me nether

Same lol

It sort of is in a funny way actually! The term "straight" wasn't coined until the 1900s meaning to "go on the straight and narrow" and 'ex-gays' used to be said to have "went straight". So in a way, yeah, it is gay to be straight because it was used as a way of saying someone was normal instead of gay. Also, homosexual isn't that old of a term either and the true, literal definition of heterosexual seems a little aggressive if you look at it lol. Sorry for the info dump, I just learned this recently and love to share knowledge 💜

I'm pretty sure the logic here is "women only like men so if a woman likes a woman then women must be men, therefore liking women makes you gay." and i can't think of HOW they got to this realization tho!!

Kinda like how some straight people think a gay person saying ew your straight is the same as centuries of discrimination

Kinda like how some straight people think a gay person saying ew your straight is the same as centuries of discrimination

@@XxSallyLinnxX I just learned this as well! Damn, I was on a video essay binge that day, so can't remember where I learned it. Rowan Ellis?

I got "sulphate... and vegan"

i got “stinky ingredients… all greasy”

I got "in my videos... all of the good stuff"

Why are these so funny

I got native butter, sticky or greasy, scents non profit!

I also realized it during quarantine, probably because I had more time to myself and my thoughts

Same here, found out I was trans over quarantine. Being stuck in your head for over year is great for self growth I guess

I also realised I was a lesbian in quarantine too, now I'm having crushes on girls (mostly my friends) left right and center :') also, hello fellow person named skylar! have a nice week :)

I realized I'm polysexual demiromantic during the quarantine. I thought I was bi before, buy poly is more specific to me, realizing I'm demi explains why I have trouble making friends

Is it bad that same.

Two 'Murica colours are (secretly?) gay, because two of the stripes in the pride flag are red & blue. Ha ha, gotcha, dingleberries!

@@starrywizdom gays dont own the colors tbh.

@@jovanlisac I’m p sure it was sarcasm dude

@@starrywizdom nah, the murica colours are just the trans flag colours in a darker hue.

@@slashb7836 OMG

Its almost like straight people are attracted to the opposite sex and not the opposite gender

@@Ari.K99 only some of them. it depends who you talk to. you can’t make generalizations about stuff like this.

@@Ari.K99 You're straight if you're a dude and you like a trans girl, even if she didn't get bottom surgery. Therefore, sexual orientation is determined by which GENDER you are attracted to. Doesn't mean which sex you are attracted to, but which gender you'd feel like having sex with. Anyways. I know it feels like a stretch but it's really not.

Very true 💛

i love that fact about sunflowers

@@ray36464 It's false unfortunately

I hate to be that person, but its not true :( Young sunflowers face the sun, mature sunflowers face East.

Awww, that's unfortunate. Still, a nice thing to think about regardless, ya know?

wholesome

and then when the sky is cloudy and the sun is out, one sunflower turns to their sunflower crush because their crush is their sun

"you make me happy when the sky's not gay"

This is super wholesome until you know that the lyrics of You Are My Sunshine are actually really darn sad.

I very much wished 7 of 9 to be gay (as a lil lesbean in middle school)

im imagining sanders sides but jamie and now i need that omg

@@hunterjames7433 Jamie’s version of Remus! He’s already got the deodorant sponsorship so that checks out nicely

@@hunterjames7433 Yes, please! That would be amazing.

This reply section is beautiful

That sounds sooo messed up, but also funny.

Came here to see if anyone else shared this fever dream! Unfortunately, in the UK anyway, it was actually 2 whole seasons including a reboot in 2012 👀 not that it was in okay taste in the mid 2000s but that is too damn late imho

Yay congrats!

That's great!! 💞🦋💞🦋

Awesome! ❤️

future former best friends

@@jovanlisac what do you mean?

Relatable af

sending love and support!!

Yup, same

Free mama hugs for whoever needs! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

sending virtual hug... virtual hug sent!

deodorant,VPNs, that one time he was sponsored by a sex toy company, our king has range

@@hussainbedair7676 tbf adam & eve sponsor everyone , but also : mobile games

literally never seen anyone else sponsored by them

@@hussainbedair7676 oh they are everywhere

@@niyagancheva maybe I'm just not a PERVERT who watches videos sponsored by SEX TOYS /j

I got laughing gassed when my teeth were removed and it’s not as strong as you’d think. you mostly feel tired, but it’s not hard to control what you say.

If it makes you feel any better, I had the same fears and I was able to get a reduced amount of anesthetic so I woke up completely coherent at the tail end of the surgery able to think clearly. I think the dentist called it twilight, I describe it as a medically induced nap

I get sedated for dentistry. I've gotten silly, but I haven't spilled secrets yet.

I haven’t had my surgery yet but apparently those videos are mostly just people exaggerating the effects to go viral. My friend just had hers and she was completely in control of herself once awake, just tired/out of it obviously, and didn’t spew any secrets to her dad

Okay tysm for this😭🙏🏾

This reminds me of the "Hard School" Kouha culture in Japan. In this Meiji era movement Koha sought to be the epitome of tough guy masculinity, engaging exclusively in male-male relationships as being with a woman would make them soft. Interestingly, in My Hero Academia, Kirishima is listed as liking tough guys in his bio buuuut in the original Japanese, he liked Kouha, specifically referring to this manly homosexual movement. (This had been cited as part of the body of evidence from official sources implying Kirishima is gay).

Yes indeed kiri is gay 🏳️‍🌈

Can i ask you something? I'm trying to ask several people to see different reactions So this is really unrelated but i wanted to talks about this to see what different communities/ channels think. However there isn't a large possibility op will see this so this is mostly for the comments to see. This isn't particularly crazy I just wanna know if I'm being sensitive about this. So Disney changed the phrase "ladies and gentlemen, Boys and girls" to "dreamers of All ages" and evryone is freaking out because they think we are being sensitive snowflakes for wanting a gender neutral terms. I personally don't think it's that big of a deal. I just don't think it's fair. They wanna talk about culture and times when media didn't happen? Gotchu well even back then in many cultures. Like Hawaii for example. Had healers and gender neutral people. Besides the fact that culture and being inclusive is there, there is also a possibility Disney also did it to make the phrase more simple if that makes sense. It's just easier to say that to be honest. But anyways in conclusion i want to know if I'm right here or if I'm being way to sensitive and this isn't how Walt would want it? PLS I NEED ANSWERS AM I STUPID FOR THIS

@@AAAAAAA-dm5nk I don't really care what Walt would want. And so what is disney is just "appeasing the gays"? The way I see it is that nonbinary kids are gonna be included and this is a step forward towards people realizing who they are at younger ages. Those saying wanting gender neutral language are "snowflakes" are just projecting. Hope this helps ✌🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

And here's me just wondering how high the last guy was lol!!

Aw thank you

@@junkoenoshima2756 I just want to hop in here because I see from your pfp that you are fellow person of the transgender persuasion questioning if you're trans or non binary or not is completely normal even for cis people but where trans and non binary people are unique is we become extremely anxious at the thought of not actually being trans so keep that in mind next time you doubt your validity

"Kings, Queens and in betweens" I love it. Brain, we have to remember this one

@@theemofemboycatgirlw3214 cpuld u expkain a little more? I try to help a teenager who wants to come out to her parents, and i never read it explained this way and i m afraid to misunderstand it. What kind ofanxiety. I feel this young boy is so afraid.of how his family will react that he prefers to «let it down» to keep that fear away. I told him it was his right, his life, but that he was not a «it» and about valu Idating himself but the way u tell about it, i find it interesting because he seems relieved when he «forgets», but really nervous. And tired. If u cpuld tell me.more, it wpuld be very helpful!-thanks!

@@quadencaroline3368 all I meant by it was to give a trans person some help next time they doubt their validity like I know I struggle with thoughts that I'm not actually trans an those make me feel bad and anxious so I don't really know how I can explain it any better

I was actually expecting Apollo to start talking and do the video.

I hope things continue to improve for you! ❤️🙏🏳️‍🌈

would be to easy, gays cant even act straight

@@jovanlisac I think you got the wrong end of the stick there

You’re a closeted gay person and you’re pretty good at pretending to be homophobic

@@mujiescomedy279 come kiss me like a friench person would then put a la la baguette in my behind.

PRICKLY! 💛

Cactus we found you again! :)

I'm a new fan here, so I hope it's not too weird to pop in to this thread to say that I like your username. It reminds me of my two favourite funny insults: "I've met some pricks in my time, but you are the whole cactus!" and "F@*k 'em. Sideways. With a cactus!*

IKRRR

I was about to comment the same thing

Most companies just think multiple colours equals pride, but honestly, I love the rainbow colours, so I might as well buy their products, idc in that case.

@@m0thguy It was literally just like a scrap of yellow and green with the pride logo...

I think the profits go to a LGBT charity

@@jakewilner9237 Nope. I checked.

Mhm me too

relatable.

Yeppp

Ding ding ding! Yeah, it’s just making fun of dads who get weird about their daughters dating. Not the best joke, but I sort of get it.

I may be dense, but I don't understand how you dyed shaved hair? Bright rainbow colours sounds really pretty though

@@Avistew I got an undercut, then dyed the undercut. Does that help? I said shaved because I had hair down to my waist!

I just wanted to share because i feel safe here, i cut my hair in a ‘boys’ haircut and got collared shirts and a suit instead of a dress for an upcoming event and im really happy (i am lesbian as of now)

@@cleetus_ proud of you!!

@@cleetus_ proud of you!! That sounds awesome 🥰

have you ever considered acting normal ?

Normality is totally overrated.

@@Luubelaar agreed

Ben & Jerry’s continues to be awesome

@@scofieldvictoria consooome gay product , consoooooome, we have rainbows we are so woke and progressive give us your money

@@jovanlisac Only works if it’s actually tasty 😆 They already get my money if I’m craving Phish Food or Chocolate Therapy anyway

You too!

Can i ask you something? I'm trying to ask several people to see different reactions So this is really unrelated but i wanted to talks about this to see what different communities/ channels think. However there isn't a large possibility op will see this so this is mostly for the comments to see. This isn't particularly crazy I just wanna know if I'm being sensitive about this. So Disney changed the phrase "ladies and gentlemen, Boys and girls" to "dreamers of All ages" and evryone is freaking out because they think we are being sensitive snowflakes for wanting a gender neutral terms. I personally don't think it's that big of a deal. I just don't think it's fair. They wanna talk about culture and times when media didn't happen? Gotchu well even back then in many cultures. Like Hawaii for example. Had healers and gender neutral people. Besides the fact that culture and being inclusive is there, there is also a possibility Disney also did it to make the phrase more simple if that makes sense. It's just easier to say that to be honest. But anyways in conclusion i want to know if I'm right here or if I'm being way to sensitive and this isn't how Walt would want it? PLS I NEED ANSWERS AM I STUPID FOR THIS

@@AAAAAAA-dm5nk haters are just gonna make things up to prove others wrong because if disney said that than it means they wanted to so I don't get the point of saying that *we* are being snowflakes because in reality the one hating on it are being snowflakes because I don't think there is a reason to point it out either we like it or not. Everyone has their opinion but if disney says something it means they mean it no one can force them to.

@@AAAAAAA-dm5nk I think they are just being the little snowflake thinking *"wHaT iF thAt mAkEs mY chIlD gaYyy"* 😐

@@idioticle3816 honestly i totally agree i feel like immature to be mad at stuff like that

@@idioticle3816 hahah yeah

I want him as a friend. He seems to just. Get how the world works and I love that

Yo but sometimes it is gay like when a bisexual ex of mine said she wanted a strong woman so yeah when I realised I'm transfem I definitely called her up we had an on and off thing for a few weeks until I started doing the thing she left me because of again (hint it's a white powder that's very illegal)

@@tea-stems7835 women: is chubby The Straight: eww, you nasty land whale get out of my sight! Women: work out to not be chubby and become strong The Straight: but you're not a woman anymore!! Anyone likes you are gays!!!! Me: mate, you ain't deserve them muscle ladies, get out of my way!

wait wait wait but if i, a lesbian, would want a strong woman? 🤔🤨 does that make me straight?

@@car0_lineee yes, yes it does because I, a bisexual transfem with a strong preference for particularly feminine women am straight because I of course am AMAB and I prefer a feminine woman that's totally how sexuality and gender identity work /s

@@car0_lineee it's basic biology, my friend. If a cis women dare to workout for a tiny bit of muscle you'll instantly turn into a man. There's no turning back. Only trans men can't never be "real man", no matter how much they try, even with surgery, nope, that full of fantasy./s

Haha that's awsome Can i ask you something? I'm trying to ask several people to see different reactions So this is really unrelated but i wanted to talks about this to see what different communities/ channels think. However there isn't a large possibility op will see this so this is mostly for the comments to see. This isn't particularly crazy I just wanna know if I'm being sensitive about this. So Disney changed the phrase "ladies and gentlemen, Boys and girls" to "dreamers of All ages" and evryone is freaking out because they think we are being sensitive snowflakes for wanting a gender neutral terms. I personally don't think it's that big of a deal. I just don't think it's fair. They wanna talk about culture and times when media didn't happen? Gotchu well even back then in many cultures. Like Hawaii for example. Had healers and gender neutral people. Besides the fact that culture and being inclusive is there, there is also a possibility Disney also did it to make the phrase more simple if that makes sense. It's just easier to say that to be honest. But anyways in conclusion i want to know if I'm right here or if I'm being way to sensitive and this isn't how Walt would want it? PLS I NEED ANSWERS AM I STUPID FOR THIS

@@AAAAAAA-dm5nk screw what Walt wants and what other people think gender neutral terms are valid and swaggy and if you like it then enjoy it

I'm also bi and genderfluid...and asexual. But hellooo

Eyyy fellow bi genderfluid

I’m a biromantic ace and u guys are valid would you like a plate of lemon and garlic bread?

I have had the worst day and honestly you saying your phone makes "conical" mistakes instead of "comical" made me laugh so hard. I'm imagining your phone as some kind of giggling conehead guy, making your point for you... (My phone is rather stuffy: I can't say anything so much as PG-13 without spelling it out carefully and selecting)

@@stellangios - same. My current phone keeps censoring my swearing. It's the epitome of "he autocorrect, quit ducking with my curse words! You piece of shirt!"

Can i ask you something? I'm trying to ask several people to see different reactions So this is really unrelated but i wanted to talks about this to see what different communities/ channels think. However there isn't a large possibility op will see this so this is mostly for the comments to see. This isn't particularly crazy I just wanna know if I'm being sensitive about this. So Disney changed the phrase "ladies and gentlemen, Boys and girls" to "dreamers of All ages" and evryone is freaking out because they think we are being sensitive snowflakes for wanting a gender neutral terms. I personally don't think it's that big of a deal. I just don't think it's fair. They wanna talk about culture and times when media didn't happen? Gotchu well even back then in many cultures. Like Hawaii for example. Had healers and gender neutral people. Besides the fact that culture and being inclusive is there, there is also a possibility Disney also did it to make the phrase more simple if that makes sense. It's just easier to say that to be honest. But anyways in conclusion i want to know if I'm right here or if I'm being way to sensitive and this isn't how Walt would want it? PLS I NEED ANSWERS AM I STUPID FOR THIS

@@AAAAAAA-dm5nk No no, you right.

@@AAAAAAA-dm5nk you're asking a transmasc non binary how he feels about gender neutral terms in media I personally support the idea, and fuck everyone who calls us snowflakes because we can adapt to the change of the world

@AAAAAAA you’re right, Walt wanted Disneyland to be the happiest place in the world, and places always get happier when everyone is included.

@@ashleykozior2067 wow I'm so glad you all agree I'm so proud of us being able to support an idea that includes all of us for once

You can rant to me if you want. It’s good to get your feelings out.

You can rant in this comment section everybody here are really nice

@@typicalmango5323 aw thank you!! I’m just upset cause I use they/them pronouns but people think its ok they use “she/her” when speaking about me. They only use they/them when speaking to me directly

@@junkoenoshima2756 thank you so much!

@@dracosxroses4368 that’s terrible. Just because you think someone won’t know doesn’t mean you should disrespect them. They sound horrible. Hopefully they are someone you aren’t close to. (Sorry if I didn’t say the right thing, I just meet you so,)

Truly

HONESTLY describes my last september - october when i went from straight to not labeling my sexuality to realising i'm pan in 2 wks or so 😭

@@nicole-rb4iw oof lmao well I'm glad you figured it out now! I was similar but for years I'd been in denial. It took quarantine for me to be like OK yeah maybe I really am bi 😂

As if I need another reason to have an existential crisis.

Hi i'm not Jami but i felt as if i could help anyways haha. If you aren't ready to come out just play out as you not liking that name anymore. For example many people change their names because they don't like the name. Or they got married. Or dozens of other reasons. You could just say that name feels more comfortable for you in the sense you just like the name better. If they continue to ask you why you don't like the name maybe say the name is shorter or more practical? Talks bout a celebrity you inspired the name from. Just insist that name is better and more suitable for you, telly our friends who you are out to use that name in front of your family. It will show them you are already using that name and will probably convince them to just start using it anyways. Try to say your name AS MUCH as possible, chances are if they are still in deniale of using it they will get confused and use it by accident because it so relevant in conversations. if you convince them it could work and you can continue being closeted and come out at your own pace. Best of luck to you *from your very own frog potatoe* 😌❤️

I know you didn't ask me, but I feel asking to go by another name is something that just happens from time to time, especially in school. My cis best friend back then did the same thing, because she just suddenly wanted to be called Janelle. You don't owe anyone any explanation as to why, and perhaps if you feel comfortable and you think your teacher will support it, maybe you can ask them to make a class announcement so everyone knows. Something simple like "please call them (name) now." Anyways, I hope that all works out for you.

@@Absbabs88 exactly peopel never question it unless ur part of lgbtq.. it'd kind of sad but it's how it is. People won't question your identity when you are cis and want a new name

@@AAAAAAA-dm5nk I agree, that's not how is should be. If people know you and know you're out, they shouldn't care as long as you're happy. And if they do care, sod them. And those that don't know, hopefully wouldn't care either.

@AAAAAAA @Abby smink aw ty guys :)