Sade is such a lovely person to chat with. I love her free spirit

I love her spirit... I love that she's comfortable in her truth...may God bless her.

I love this lady’s mindset she really is very real person and spill out facts I am in Yanki n know what she’s saying

I love a bold and vibrant lady, that knows what she wants, no doubts this lady is one in a million

Shade, I loved everything have seen about you in this interview and I can tell you that you have a very good smile, smart and sound friendly. I wish am your close friend. Very free minded lady to the world. And your point on children, I totally agree with you and I loved your genuinety about it. Am from the UK and a Nigerian saying stay blessed and be safe.❤

This interview is very misleading, especially in reference to life in Canada. It's free health care, but citizens are heavily taxed. She also failed to mention the long wait times, etc. Apartments do not come fully furnished in Toronto. Child benefit is also calculated on the parent's income. Its also misleading to say if you lose you full time job, you get paid $1,600 the next day [every month]. E.I is calculated based on the number of months you contributed to it and how much you contributed, and it's not forever either, it usually for a few months or period depending on how long you were enployed for..

Their marriage was most likely in trouble before they left Nigeria. They probably stayed together because of cultural societal pressure (while in Naija). But decided to do the inevitable and part ways once in Canada. She looks happy, free and living life on her own terms. That is very revolutionary for an African woman and that’s why she’s getting so much criticism in the comments section. Bless her.

This lady is very intelligent. I love her person

Abroad tears down a lot of marriages. The freedom it gives makes people believe they can do it alone.

My sister you're wrong about the issue of children. I am a doctor here in UK and I can tell you that 1 in every 3 Briton is on antidepressant because of their individualist and lonely lifestyle. Compare this to our communal and social network due to family structure. I was also a doctor for 11 yrs in naija before I left so I can comfortably make that comparison. You don't give birth just for them to take care of you financially but you need them around you as a support system when you're are lonely and frail. Western culture has not favoured them but they're too proud to admit that

There is a little bit of insanity here. She's hurting...her childhood is questionable. I respect her views, opinions and choice.❤❤❤

These soft life countries can stop you from fulfilling your potential if you're not self-aware

I like her vibe. Any where God put me he go make way for me.

she said the husband wanted them to stay with in-law a bit longer...very easy of her to say he enjoys freebies and not paying rent. She herself said she wasn't doing any job, I assume the husband too wasn't doing any job then, there was no end in sight for COVID at that time, even if they went to Canada with 6 billion naira, it's unwise to start depleting your funds while nothing is coming in, especially when you have a chance to take rent out of the way. I agree with her that COVID took its toll on their relationship but on the surface, it looks like they are not on the same page with the willingness to delay gratification. Now that they are separated, she said herself that she has dated a lot of Nigerians in Canada now(thats a lot of Nigerians in 4 years) and her conclusion still suggests that Nigerian men are not good. I hope she feels better with herself now and have the peace she desires

Giving children pressure extended the pressure as well to other siblings just because of you have both of them together as a parent they should do what you want not what they want God help us as in African children

Canada is a capitalistic society with mixed market economy so also is the USA. When people describe the USA as capitalistic, it really shows some level of misunderstanding of these economies. The USA has a large welfare system that supports disabled people, those living at or below poverty line, the old and unemployed. Pregnant women at a certain level of income get free care and support until child birth in USA and children from birth to 5 or so get welfare but you must fit into the category. Your income determines a lot and I think it should be so as the ones that have should not participate in these welfare systems. It is meant for the have nots. You must be a legal resident or United States citizen to enjoy these. Some cities are sanctuary cities so they support illegal immigrants as well. Like you rightly said, what you put in is what you get. The expectation that all fingers must be equal is unrealistic and will never be as all fingers are not equal. USA is fast paced whereas Canada is not. Gun violence is higher in USA than Canada. Education is free from Head-start to High school in the public school system in the USA. It is a choice to go to private school. The secret is living in a good school district, taxes will be higher but well worth it for the services provided at the public school in that district. Every country has some challenge with their public school system but you must know how to navigate it. To each their own but I love The United States of America.

Great Interview, but I would have asked her if she suffering from any medical issues or childhood trauma that is stopping her to wanting to have kids, because so many people that fall within this "I don't want to have kids" category are usually plagued with deep underlying medical/psychological issue and they make the gullible ones think that it was a personal choice. I only making this statement so as to prevent an innocent girl child or male child somewhere from taking a decision that might lead to painful irreversible outcome in years to come. Please let there be another interview that can confirm that she lacks non of these issues and it was her choice as people mask a lot.

It's tough to be alone, especially at old age when loneliness affect them mentally. I like your honesty though.

When Daddy talks everywhere freezed🎉

Big ups, DF, another matured conversation.

Canada has amazing 'enjoyment/nightlife' as well. Depends on who and where you know. The lady is obviously still relatively new in Canada, also most Nigerian men don't deal with Nigerian women a lot.

When you eventually meet that right person you would want a child of your own even if it's one.

Smart woman.

She’s got a good heart

Loneliness nko my dear. I loved abroad before so l know living alone and been lonely is a thing. Pls

Sade I love your smile, confident and beautiful soul, I respect your opinion but if you reconsider, kindly have at least 1 child for your nephew and niece to play with too.

Cap!! I like how some Naija people keep saying they can never move to the US because of gun violence. Like those of us here are constantly dodging bullets on the street while commuting (na matrix?). Free health care that you're placed on a waiting list for certain treatments (some die while waiting). You will never be denied care in the US. Yes, you will pay but you have care anytime, anyday. And with good health insurrance, you're covered. Hospitals even refer special cases from Canada to US hospitals. The US is the best country you can ever immigrate to. Just talk say you no like am because them no give you visa or make am easy to enter. lol

She is a really a lovely person

Chaiiiiiii daddy freeze is too very simple with his speech he always come down to the poor man level when interacting

That area is called Brampton. I live very close to the place.

Cool

These soft-life countries can stop you from fulfilling your potential if you're not self-aware

She's 💯 correct. Life in Canada 🇨🇦 is soft

I love this Lady she is like me she thinks like me i would love to meet her ❤❤

Isn't this the same Shade who used to be featured on smooth fm 98.1, Nigeria, on the grapevine show?

Money is god, Broken marriages in the pursuit of so called happiness ( whoever told these pple that marriage is meant to make you happy), loneliness, suddenly no interest in having children, Children owned and indoctrinated by the government etc. May God not let us loose our basic humanity on the alter of living in Canada... And for all you lovers of the lady, based on vibes ,you don't have to love her lifestyle choices too, they can be mutually exclusive... be wise..

I’m a US citizen for 16 years, you don’t know anything about US benefits for unemployed and disabled people. If one is unemployed or disabled, there are free insurance, food stamps, and monetary benefits what you need to do is to get information and apply with proof and benefits will follows.

Madam your mindset about kids is wrong. There are a lot of seniors in Canada are in pains because of kids and some that have were abandoned by their children.

This lady didn't tell the true story about her not wanting a child and the reason for all the naija men way done leave her. But has she no gbench for 6month she ves. Which man would be happy to be gbenching woman way no want child na to just they gbench. And if the grandmother no born him mama how she go fit come they blame person for gbench.

I attended a grandma birthday and family get together,in that room where mama said her prayers and cut the cake where also 71 people who are all her children and grandchildren.imagine all that came from one woman.u could see the joy in her face.my dear sister you are very wrong on that ur children mind set.not having kids is the main selfishness my sister.

The pastor is Fatoyinbo

No matter the owner of the house, I must nack ooooo, I can't stay for four days without nacking.... am too active to stay too long without nacking 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I see myself in Shade alot ❤

I think its her opinion, but i wish she have ever gone to a nursing home or old people homes she will really value having children.

My sister talks what you know. i am in US for 20 years. If you do not have insurance or a citizen and you are sick, your hospital bill will be covered by the hospital, all you need to apply is called Charity care it is for low income to help cover your bill and even if you do not have Charity care, the hospital will never denied you medical care. All this shoting is not what it look like in the media. You can never compare Canada with USA.

This one don loss....listen to her at your own peril..

This lady should speak on what she aware off, ( if you wake up in Australia snake) That's rubbish talk, I leave in Australia for 4 years now, and I have only see snake 5 times. Twice it was crossing the road, other Twice back of my work place which is mountain. The indigenous people slept outside, they are on the field all day, why is it that snakes are not biten them. The truth is, there is a law that you don't kill Snake. If you see Snake call snake catcher. My dear Australia is far better than Canada as a Nigeria person, it's just that their visa is difficult. AUSTRALIA IS A HOME. if you want sun NT, snow Tasmania, cold with wind Melbourne and Sydney, queit life ACT Canberra Rain in Gold Coast. Church life in Adelaide Party it to Sydney and Melbourne. NT is full of black people and half cast, Job full, you do anything

Good for you, if that’s what you want fine, don’t drag women with you unless the ones that want to follow this routes . But when your friends and family are enjoying their kids company, kindly don’t forget you made your own decision. The western world is really changing our reasoning. I pity your old age, my aunt that are in the UK, thier kids had married and moved out . Now they’re lonely and looking for who to talk to over the phone for hours. Enjoy your youthful years but do not complain in your old age. 😊

The facts about free health care and support for children is true but she is wrong in other areas. She was given $1600 because it was during covid which canada is paying dearly for it right now.

I LOVE THIS LADY, SHE IS SO REAL AND SHE SEARCHED HERSELF AND DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS AND BELIEVE IN. WHAT IS HER IG?

Canada don already confused this woman

If you let this kind woman advice for life eh? Sorry.

She's said a lot of nice things but this not wanting kids issue sha.😊 If everyone thinks like this, a lot of things will go wrong with human existence. Her choice🤷

When i see an independent minded lady, i can tell right away! Sade is an independent minded woman! 🙌

The dangerous thing about ladies like this will drag many young ladies down with dem.but the funny tin there is that those ladies that dey are dragging down with Dem will never go and find out or research to ask those old single lonely rich ladies if it was worth it.

Who doesn't want to have kids when married? I bet her divorce was because of her unusual, weird choices!

A father killed a famous gangster that has been terrorizing and traumatizing his son,and the son ask the father saying "dad what have u done"the father replied him saying ("son when u grow up and have a child,and u look into there eye's the day dey were born,you will know that you are ready to die for Dem".)

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if she was abroad all she needs is money and she'll have all those people around her... Naaa. so wrong! And it's also not always selfish to live your life through your kids cos living your life through them isn't always forced, you can influence them and then they pick up those values or investments you've made and then decide to build on your legacy. It's beautiful when this works out. The truth is children might have their own dreams or choose to build on what their parents have started. Let's think about what our world would look like if there was no mechanism to build on the legacy of others, parents or not. Actually not having kids could be considered selfish, and that's because you have the potential to have them but decide not to. I personally think it is a choice you make either way and as long as you properly thought through that decision and can live with it, you're entitled to that choice.

nne you need kids for yourself all these your big grammar will not help you tomorrow . tomorrow is what you don't know people have done this your stuff before and regretted it . please get married and have kids God bless you

I pray you change your mind on child issue.

Very honest conversation

weather going to adopt a child or you have your own child because there is a disadvantage because you're going to get on it you better go and take care of yourself in the old age

Daddy freeze good morning Sir. Na you suppose be my biological father i dont just know why God brought me to this world through another man and i told God before i was born that i want to come to this world through daddy freeze

Oga Daddy Freeze, you did not scrutinised this her story well. You allowed your personal relationship to becloud your journalistic instincts. You shouod have pressed further on the reason she denied her husband sex for six months while sleeping in the same room, on the same bed. The excuse of a two year old in the next room does not make sense. Are you saying parents don't have sex because of babies sleeping in adjacent rooms? Not the same room, but room separated by a wall. Even if the two year old is awake, what will he know they are doing? In nigeria couples living in single rooms seperate their bed space with only a curtain, while the children sleep on the floor, and action still takes place between husband and wife. Most likely, this aunty got to Canada and started forming feminist with newly found privileges. Why would the man refuse to leave his brothers house to start living alone with his wife?

Daddy Freeze you funny sometimes

Df just dey lookk wetin dey confuse am

My dear sister u wake up every morning from ur bed without are reason to keep pushing.or ready to die for.wjen the reality hit u,u will know that rich old single ladies have only there cats or dogs to talk too.and if dey ever decide to find love by Dem Boyz go choo Dem clean.

They should ask her if she never cared for them

She never told us why he left the supposed good husband.

That’s a lieeee. In the U.S, you don’t have a job, you get free healthcare with Medicaid or Medicare (for older people). You pay insurance if you are working and that also depends on how much you are making yearly. The less you make,the less healthcare insurance you pay, the more you make, the more healthcare insurance you pay!

No mind her, loneliness and depression are killing people like her every day in Canada.

No be everything dem dey talk for social media sha

This lady is using a lot of defense mechanisms to make her feel happy about the decision of not having kids

This one na ashawo ohhh. Mrs Bahamas n Mexico. 😂😂😂

This woman isn't a happy person forget the front she is putting up here. I don't think she is far from taking drugs to keep up with loneliness. If the whole truth is told you might discover that it's her husband who actually left and not otherwise.

My sister I'm surprised to hear an African say she doesn't want children. Oh my God what a mindset.

You needed a simple life. Why didn't you go to ibadan or jos,or even Abuja. I live in los angles . Here is not simple a n d easy everything is on the high pace.. cost of leaving here is expensive especially rent.

I'm really shocked how some people would say that they don't want to have children. What kind of mindset is that. My sister is not now . Is about when you are very old. Loneliness is real.

Many ladies that took this ur feminine route are all regreting it my sister go and find out,ur nanny go deal with u at ur old age bcos u have to kids they are scared off.nne advice from me to you,evyif u don't want to get married,get a good guy from good records to get u pregnant even if it one child it worth living for.

😂😂😂. Daddy go carry mumu woman come live. Runs girl don cast her womb 😂

Daddy f I like ur gist...

Please my sis think about what you are saying.

I know its her perspective and opinion, but regarding hard facts about OHIP, Jobs availability and opportunities, some of the information she's giving is quite wrong

You think say people way dey leave Canada run come USA never do your analysis?

All this talk of happiness bla bla is facade for loneliness

The Pastor is a COZA Pastor.......DF !

In respect saying, this make sense in some things but i can see that she is not been reasonable at all

Look her face well ...u can.tell

So it’s only one area in Canada but they shuuuting in every 50 states if yankee… dey play!!!

Daddy freeze, I disagree with most of the thing she saying with US, I have been leaving here in the united state for 7 years, all this medical and child care thing she talking about is available and even better than Canada, you can access medical without having a job, there is un employment far better than Canada depending on how much you making when you are working. Health insurance is absolutely free for all kids. There is a child tax credit for children you got. I never attend any school in united state and I am working with my Nigeria certificate here, I am talking about a good job without no professional certificate. In fact , I have two job, most time I turn down offers. With HND o.

Age go fast in the western world

Street life de this girl blood period

Employment income is not up to $1,600 babe

I detect some small small lie here sha especially with that gbensh parol

Bye

In Canada I'm sure you will pay all your taxes.

Canada is boring for people wey no get money and doings. Montreal is the most fun city in Canada

@36:00, It is ENTITLEMENT mindset that causes people to want to ''jeun omo'' i.e. they have the children and send them to school with intent to eat from them for life.

Lollllll, anybody can exist on his or her own. Oyibo land don gbensh am. Independent woman lolllll