In his apology video he said koi mere favour main bhi bolraha hai to wo unke against hi hai main qayamat main yeh bhoj nahi utha sakta and now what? He's doing that again trashing you once again. Disgusting.

Who is proud to be a part of Ummat -e-Muhammad PBUH🕋🕋❤️😍❤️

You go girl! You got this! Our Asian culture is very toxic! Specially women is against women! Thank you for sharing your story! You are strong! Stay blessed my dear sister!

MashaAllah your father is so well educated, so decent and that's why you are also decent husna is so lucky to have an amazing 😍 mother

Moral of the story : independent woman can moved out the marriage if she feels toxic and dependent woman has to bear toxic life till last her breathe…………………………….

usne aik video main kaha tha ke i never wanted to have another kid with her bcoz main pehle saal main hi smjh gaya tha k yeh kesi hai aur aap still itne parde dalkr uski baatein kar rahi ho salam hai aapko kasam se yrr the way you shared everything in a respectable manner and I'm happy that everything get into places aur aap zindagi main agay barh rahi ho ❤️

Your father's words are very strong and respectful. I appreciate your Father who said it's not a bad decision If you cannot live together better live separately .

Larkiun ko itna strong hona chahye k khud ko protect kr sken hatts of to you 👍

I dont like her EX but why everyone making fun of his stuttering? Speech difficulties ap ke bochon ko bhi họ sakti hai,Allah hidayat de sub ko

Even if she didn’t made this video and didn’t explain a thing i knew she was right from the start just because of the fact that Hassam kept on bitching about her daughter’s mother on social media and she kept quiet she stayed patient and endured it all. It shows her strength and character as a person and as a mother.

literally ma apka or hassam ka vlogs 2018 ya 2019 sa dekhta tha bech ma chor dya kafi arsa bad dekha to pta chala divorce ho gaye apki phr reason dekhna chaha to mera mind apko la kar bhot negative image ban gaye jo social media pr tha but now is video na sb kch clear kar dya is lya kaha jata ha dono side of story suno thanks ka mnye ya video dekhi or mjhye apna agaye wali life ka lya lesson mila ka ak husband ko kesa hona chya, meri dua ha apka sath allah apko izat sehat da or apka rizk ma barkat dalaye or apki beti ka naseeb bhe acha karaye.

Idk if you are reading this or not but I want to say that Thank you so much for making this video. I mean you really taught us how to deal with toxic people. It's not easy to tolerate but you are so strong. Our physical and mentall health both are important and it's good to take divorce rather than spending whole life with such pathetic and hypocrite person. I am so so proud of you. I mean you told us how important is for women to be independent, to not compromise on your rights which Allah has given. It's your life and Allah has give it to you so it totally depends on you how do you want to spend it. You are an inspiration for girls who are struggling through all this.

2 hours and 31 mins into the video and I have learnt how important it is to be financially independent and have a strong will power like you which majority Pakistani women can't. More power to you 💗

Sooo relatable with me same to same issues with my ex husband make me psycho just like him ... divorce was the best decision of my life today alhamdulliah sometimes we can't explain what happened and what I want in a form of security.....I am with u shomailaa❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️lots of love stay strong

So basically moral of story is ....girls please be focused on your goals. ...I know money is not everything but money can solve your 99% problems of your life. ...that's the universal truth. ..just make your identity apart from a good wife/good mother/good sister/good house maker....

Being a father of a girl I request every father to make your daughter a strong human being so she could take stand for herself.

Kis kis ny ye video start sy end tk Dekhi hy ????? Main ny aik aik lafz suna hy ... Shumaila ap ny bht acha kiya ye video dal k ... Logon ko in ki asliyat pta chly

I married at age of 19 complete my education nd left my govt job just for my hubby.i sacrificed a lot but in return he gave me so much respect money nd time.there r many good men in this world as well ❤️‍🩹

cried so many times during the video.its azan time. the silent dua thats just comng from inside is that May Allah bless you with success, health, happiness, patience and strength. May all your dreams come true and may you live the life that you have always dreamed of and deserve. Amen!

دنیا میں کہیں مرد کردار ہے تو کہیں عورت جب رشتہ بوجھ بن جائے اور بات ہاتھا پائی، ایک دوسرے پر الزام لگانے، گالیوں پر آ جائے تو اپنا اپنا راستہ چن لینا ہی بہتر ہے آپ نے اچھا ہی کیا

This video is revolutionary. Love and respect for this young girl. She is breaking generational curses of a Pakistani muslim women. She is speaking the story of not one but generations..time to get rid of shit finally 👏 I truly feel you are choosen by Allah.

Women who faces such issues don’t survive in Pakistan.because society don’t accept that. But you are strong women you made a positive decision.always stay blessed and happy.Allah ease life of everyone ameen

Koi bhi orat Khushi se apna ghar kharab nahi karti. Hats off. You are so brave. In shaa Allah Allah pak will protect you and give the better one you deserve in life. He is Raheem❤️

Girl you have been through so much just because you stood for your basic rights and independence .. Stay strong girl ❤❤❤❤ you are on right path

Please girls. ..don't trapped by these so called "shadi ka rishtas" during your college time. ..it can make your life from heaven to hell. ...first your education. ..job then everything is secondary.

May ALLAH PAK bless you and your daughter❤ ALLAH PAK says in the Quran : تمہارا رب بھولنے والا نہیں ⭐

Typical Pakistani man’s mindset. 90% of Pakistani women are getting suffocated in such toxic relationships. You were brave enough to break the shackles. More power to you!

I was really confused about you. But i can’t believe watched this video after my long hectic Er duty. More power to you. Cutest & intelligent soul. Just a dua for you. May Allah keep you & husna always in His utmost mercy & keep you on right path. Love & prayers❤️

They needed a puppet i think.... I am feeling so happy that I've rejected a man who was just like him and even his family ❤ you are a strong woman stay blessed

I love this woman so educated and well spoken on all the aspects of a Pakistani marriage which is always brushed under the rug I’m glad someone finally spoke about this. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

I'm 22 years old(unmarried) ALHUMDULILLAH independent .... I've invest 4hours for this literally mean it . I've learnt a lot .. ... More power to you ,,,it's very rough to survive like a single mother 🥺

2 hours into the video and I feel disgusted. Wallah I'm nauseous. Log kis hadh tk gir jatey hein. Allah Allah Allah!!! Allah does not forget, He is with you. I pray you have a beautiful life. Everybody please pray for your naseeb, Allah burey logon k shar se bchaye or hr behn beti ka naik naseeb karey naik logon ka sath likhey.

At 2:48:05 i can feel it. Your case was very evident and clear from the beginning. Thay guy was out of control doing stuff on internet which was going against him and you on the other side kep quiet. That was the losing moment for him. Atleast i saw it. You are going strong MashaAllah so many girls look up to you and now he is suffering for he did in the past. Psychologically i am sure he wouldnt find peace.

*CONGRATULATIONS GIRL!! this courage is priceless, a proud mother*

Oh my god. This video blew my mind. It feels like it’s my story. Except that I am still living with the toxic family. Every single of your word just went straight in my heart. Trust me I can feel every word. I was against you after your divorce. But aj ap ke har baat Maira dil ma utri ha. You are so brave you got rid of him. I am just suffering bcoz of my kids😢

shomailaa bajiiii dont say that the hurt will never leave you. trust me healing takes time and everyone processes things differently. It's okay to grieve and to take the time you need to heal. Just know that you are not alone in this

Some of the pointers that people can actually learn from this video: 1. Use protection when you get married. A child shouldn’t be brought into a marriage until you are sure that this is the environment that you want your child to grow in! 2. Be financially independent. And finish your studies. If your spouse doesnt sponsor it, ask your parents if you are not financially independent. Studies are so so important. 3. Do not disregard the red flags. Please please time le k decision lain to get married. 4. Never EVER believe in the vlogs and social media that people show you. Jitna bhi khush lag raha ho koi, no one knows what goes behind the closed doors. 5. Khuda ra apni bachiyon ko ye mat bolain k “tumhara janaza aaye ga ab susral se” 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ 6. Please try to speak up and never let go of your rights. Huge respect for you Shomaila. Saw until 3 hrs of this video and totally understand you! You have been through me.. The only cringeworthy moment was the fact that you guys continued to show yourself being happily married on social media for so long might have affected someone and mislead someone. That was not fair on both of your part. I somehow still can sort of understand what and why you still did it. But jo ghalat hai woh ghalat hai! But huge respect for you on trying to still raise your daughter without any negativity about her father. Love and dua’as

Your father is such a positive person ❤️❤️ even after what he did to you he never uttered any foul language against that guy. . his only concern is you and your daughter's safety.

Meri Ami kehti hain, jab Mard Aurat tak Naahi puhanch Sakta, Woh Aurat ke Character pe Baat karta hai… I totally Agreee, More power to you Shomaila ♥️♥️

Lesson for life: never make compromises that you would regret later

THANK YOU for showing the women of Pakistan that women should not allow anyone to oppress them and for breaking the stereotype that a women has to suffer in silence. Fighting for your rights as a women is extremely difficult in Pakistan! You are an incredibly strong women, and an amazing role model to your daughter. Lots of prayers your way. May Allah swt always bless you with happiness, peace, and success. ❤

Mental abuse is more dangerous than physical abuse 😥😥

I think this was a personality mismatch and it got too toxic just because our society doesnt allow escape from a toxic marriage. If it doesnt work out one has the right to end things. As far as the child is concerned i believe in shared custody, with a few exceptions.

I think first time in my life I have seen such long video with interest... actually this is very inspiring.. respect 🙏

We made so many assumptions when hijab thing happend. But who knew you was going through such harassment. ALL POWER TO YOU AND HUSNA...STAY STRONG.....

The fact that I knew that she was right form the start....I knew in my heart she was right n I've supported her throughout 🙏more power to u🥺

Husna had been your power throughout the journey. She is the sole reason I guess that kept you strong enough to fight all this stuff and helped you to stay strong always. Being a woman might not have made it possible to struggle through all this situation but being MOTHER has totally been a game changer. The power is totally different I guess that Allah adds in the woman when she becomes a mother 🥺❤️ More power to you❤️

You motivated me to move on out of a toxic relationship and to be financially strong, I totally feel and understand your pain. You are strong shomila we girls only want protection and love from man if they can't why we want to live them and bear all toxity due to this our mental health troubles so it is better to get out of this toxic relationship. I am proud of you 👍

Just completed watching 4hrs video and my opinion about you is completely changed.Stay strong and be in Allah's amaan

After watching whole video..i only pray that May Allah Bless you with alot of happiness and always protect you and your daughter..❤

I invested my 4 hours on this video I am very old subscriber of urs following u since u both started ur channel, being a women myself I have been through toughest situations people can come down to their cheap levels to take revenge . Ur a strong girl MashaAllah always be strong 💪🏻 Allah bless you and ur daughter

Me ne tumhay Kafi Galat samjha tha last Kuch time say,lekin is vedio Kay bad se Meri favorite ho Gai ho.jo Jo situations daikhi he Tum ne ,bilkul Sahi decision Lia he Tum ne.educated ho or I m sooooo impressed from ur father,such a decent person .lucky to have a father like that

After watching your video,I have learned the importance of the financial independence of women. Thank you for making this video. love you from canada❤️ stay strong.💪

The fact that she Understands everything 🥺the way she understands why her mother in law was doing certain things 🥺🙂

seriously i am not married yet although i have crossed the marriage age i never liked the person u were with but after listening your side i can understand your situation ur bravo & u take stand for u & ur daughter. i know from the day first that u ll speak one day & tell whole story with full courage

whenever someone tries to defame a woman without her doing anything wrong, Allah himself helps out that woman, everything that has happened to you till date clearly tells Allah is with you, Allah has given this right to every woman out there to take a stand when anyone tries to defame her, may Allah bless you and help you in your life, I hope you get closer to Allah so that everything becomes easier for you. fiamanillah

Such a toxic husband and in laws they really don't deserve you. I really really appreciate you for standing yourself and not following the typical norm in our society that is to endure everything toxic in married life. May Allah help you and best of luck

Dear Shomaila, I'm so sorry. Forgive us for pushing you to the point that you have to repeat that painful experience of life. Forgive me, please. Stay blessed

This video taught me how important financial independence is for girls now a days. Let's make our girls strong as shomaila is mashallah .more power to you ❤️

Never knew i can watch a 4 hours video on KZfaq. First time in my life.

I am glad I have rejected a boy like your husband ☺️ although I am knowing you little late but I've left him 3 years ago Alhamdolillah for that decision

Being independent is very important. I feel all the girls should make some career b4 marriage, so they can be on the driving seat of their life. No one can threat them. Marriage shd be based on respect and values. We girls never want to be treated in a disrespectful manner.

First I used to support him, but after watching this video I support you. Stay strong

I extend my sincere apologies as I previously held the belief that you were the wrong. Our wise grandmother always reminded us never to judge before hearing both sides of a story, a principle I regrettably overlooked. After nearly 10 months, I finally had the opportunity to view the complete narrative, and it's remarkably different. This isn't just your story; it's a valuable lesson and a wellspring of inspiration. I strongly recommend all young girls to watch and learn from it. Typically, I'm not one to sit through a two-hour movie in the cinema without getting restless, but this four-hour masterpiece held my attention without a single moment of hesitation. May Allah bless you and Husna 💞 Iron Lady 👑

I remember that in one of his video, he said that his childhood was disturbed due to differences between his parents. Those conditions might have imprinted his personality. I am glad that you took a brave step and left him.

Hes a shameless man from a shameless family. You be strong- Koi apka kuch nai bigad sakta - you will win !

Literally every proof she showed and still he is crying on instagram that everything is fake, he lost his izzat, i was waiting for ke kon sacha hai and this video came with truths.. Literally so shame on me that i have been following him on ig:(((itna insaan gir skta hai kia pr han ye insaan gira.. ALLAH ab kisi larki ki zindghi kharab na kary.

So happy you stood up for yourself and had the courage to leave the toxic relationship. More power to you

Apko ye video pehle banani chahiye thi mujhe regret ho raha hai y I watched his videos his shit about u.u r such a pure soul .more power to you . U r such a strong girl,u are in inspiration .I will always pray for u ,u deserve all the happiness and success in life .

Kudos to you dear. It takes guts to stand rigid in front of oppressors. I have been going through the same turmoil. Plz pray for me.

Shamaila why are you telling all this please just stop, Why are you exhausting yourself, you don't need to prove anything, We are with you, We believe in you, you are very Strong and Always Stay strong, Lots of love for you and Husna and you will always be in my prayers...

hats off to u ...4 gnty lga k apki video m dekhi h..2 saal sy m us bndy ko sucha smjti rhi pr m aj tk comment nh kiya...Allah tallah apko traki dyn ameen...m b apni Zindagi mein aisy log bht dekhy hein jo shql sy islami andr sy kameeny tareen ...

And you got married to the same guy? Jisky sath pakri gye thee?

This is the story of every other woman out there but yes you should clear the things bcz u r a public figure and u did it amazingly... more power to you girl, stay blessed.

Deterioration of mental health' is something that starts ruining everything. I don't know who is right and who is wrong on other matters but if someone's mental health is being compromised he or she would go to any extent to get rid of that toxic relationship.

Love, Respect and Loyalty. This is what a woman should see in a man. The saaaaame story I have faced myself with a bit of differences. Is society me mard khuda hai har shakal me. Or wo kabhi bhi ghalat nai ho skta

I was never convinced on believing this bitter truth BUT that statement in audio by your ex-susar k "MAINE SUPREME COURT K JUDGES KO PERSONAL FAVOURS DIYE HAIN" blew my mind. I mean, this statement itself speaks the truth. I'm happy you are going strong.

Support this girl she is strong,true ,pure soul

itni c umar mein itni takleefein ly lein Allah apko or apki beti ko hr kadam per sakoon or khushi dy

دنیا جو کچھ مرضی کرلے گی اگر آپ صحیح ہیں آپ کے اللہ تعالی کو پتہ ہے تو صرف آپ اللہ تعالی کو راضی کرنے کی کوشش کریں یہ دنیا کسی حال میں انسان کو جینے نہیں دیتی

agar separation hoti hai log hamesha aurat ko ganda kerte hain . i m so proud of you for sharing your side of the picture ta ke logon ko bhi pata chalay women are not NOT under any circumstances going to tolerate any bs and abuse.

Conversation between you and your father 🥺so much respect for him ❤️

Hey shomaila...it took me 3 days to listen all of the video . But Tbh it shook me to core ..🥺 I was literally happy when you left Pakistan.. Allah aise logo ko hidayat de.. 😔

I didn't know you before. I came to know you after watching Dr. Affan haider video about Quin Daro and her divorce. He mentioned you as well. I have found this video of yours out of my curiosity that who is shomaila and hassam. Now I know you as a brave independent woman. Live your free soul🌹🙏

We just see the example of Saira and Sheroz......Prayers for you Shomaila we can feel your pain. More power to you ❤️

I truly appreciate your courage to go through all this Allah is with you Good that you posted

Mama Noor here.... I believe every women in this world has her own story regarding her sacrifices she made to build a peaceful home.... I'm 💯 faminist and I love to support all women of world as this is male oriented world.... I wish you all the best for your's and husna's future.... In Sha Allah well wishes from RIYADH SAUDIA ARABIA 🇸🇦💐🎁

Literally this man has 2 sides one which he shows to the world and the other real side which you exposed through this video. I also found you guilty after his videos but this 4 hours 11 minute video changed my perspective. More power to you ❤️

4 gantay diye lekin is vedio me ye pata lag gaya k partner ko chose karne se Phele bohat soch samjh leen or us ko jan leen mismatching shoro se ho tu kabhi cover nahi ho sakti kionk jis ki jis mahol me bringing hoi ho usay usi tarah k background k partner ko chose karna chahiye.

I can relate to your story shomaila I suffered for approx 3 years .. parents suppression also played a great role in wasting my life.. 🤐

Watching u explaining the shit u went through to public just because your BETTER HALF couldn't understand you and support you is so sad. I hope you're doing well and best now in life..Allah sb k naseeb ache kre and bless your daughter too...♥️

Tbh me comment nai Krti, pr phle lgta tha wo sahi hai Par Ye sb suna to pta chala 🥺 such a Strong Brave Girl More Power to You, Dua hai is comment me jo jo is situation se Guzr rha Allah Unhe Himat De Or aese Insan se bachye or Sukoon de, Or Baki hum sb k Allah Behtreen Naseeb Kare, Or aese Insan Se MehfOz Rakhe jo mentally physically spiritually Destroyed Kre, آمين يارب العالمين, Allah Apky Leye asaniya Laye Sis ❤️🥺

Your story is full of depression toxicity honesty sincerity.. Allah bless your child nd u too...

I used to watch ur vlogs dn after hearing all that u guys divorced nd after hearing all his nonsense I used to hate u but today after watching this vlog nd d way u tackle all this much respect for u really u r so confident nd strong be like that every women shud b like u independent...bcoz when girlz r independent they r enough for themselves they can survive independently dn they dnt need guy like these cheap people.Lots of love to you

This video underscores so many hideous realities of our scoiety. JazakAllah shomaila. Before you spoke even I thought you were wrong. This needed to be heard.

Hats off to you girl ... Congrats for husna's custody

Sahil Adeem sir ka aik lecture suna tha us me uno ny kaha k hr aurat jo single parent hai uspy Allah ka dayan hath hota hai aj apki 4ghnty ki vdio dekh kr realise hua k usny ye bat kis perspective sy kahi thi or blkul sai kahi thi Allah hmesha apko apni aman me rkhy ameen

Never compromise on mental health, I totally understand your point.

Meri pyari sister your life story is exactly what happened to my youngest sister so we can relate with it. Education ka promise ker k apni baat se phir jana, parents ka total hold then , every single little thing hurt his male ego and so on. You are so positive after that whole fiasco, which is a good thing

Brave girl , sister I am facing such type of problems that you faced in your marriage life .but now I started to groom myself.