Amen sister

just dont get married

etf42 word!

@Ever Gorgeous yep, especially if they are raised by their mothers. women cant raise boys to be men.

Me too Lord

Right no matter how big a red flag is a red flag

BOOM

Fay Bury 100%!!!

Fay Bury yuppp 💯 FACTS ! I’ll even add! Marriage just REVEALS what you ignored or kept hidden while dating ..

@@noonelikeyou13 hello somebody!! #truth

You’re ahead of it so you’re good. Most don’t know till after the time is wasted.

Right

I have a friend who is doing that and she’s only been married for two years.... no kids and can afford to move out on her own. But decided to stay... why do we do this each other I have no clue :/

@@Mel__21 I felt that.

I feel like a lot of couples do that...

Nice to see a comment like this!

Amen & may God continue to bless your union! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😇😇❤️❤️💍💍

met my husband 31yrs ago.......we were 14yrs old. He told me within 6months I was his wife 🤣🤣 his discernment has always been there and he dead ass serious when be said it. Best decision I ever made!!

One of the lucky ones. God bless your marriage.

God bless your union

😅😅😅 it just popped up in mine too..

Don’t wait much longer, it will only get worse if you do...start preparing and making moves, God will guide you through this....♥️

Cara Pilar, good for you. We have intuition for a reason. There is a man made just for you. He will find you. There won’t be any doubt in your mind either.

Let God guide you to the right direction. God doesn't like divorces... Only exceptional will be commit adultery or physical abuse

Sis its God!!!

Yup.

No she lived her life and then came to the conclusion that what she truly felt wasn't love but commitment. Like she said she was committed to him and the hopes he gave to her. Unfortunately those feelings got mislabeled as those of true love. It's really simple to understand where she is coming from and what she learned.

True. You never know whats behind closed doors

@@kokosworldofficial ah. This is good. Love vs. Commitment. Sometimes we commit to the outcome and it's hard to break away from that.

The Cute Shuttle Transportation Service or hindsight 20/20. I’m sure after the divorce she’s had self reflection and realized warning signs that she was too blind to see happened way earlier than she willingly acknowledged.

At the time maybe she felt that way. But it's been a year since her divorce, and she was still processing it. She's sharing what she learned.

This stays in my mind alot

Yesss 🤦🏾‍♀️ 🤦🏾‍♀️

And all the disrespect I allowed over the years is the same reason I filed for divorce last month...You live and you learn though, never again😔

@@MrsDavis-vm8tq I pray for comfort and strength as you start a new chapter of your life. I know it isn't easy. Take time to grieve because even though you filed for divorce and will be glad to be away from the disrespect, there will be moments where you feel like someone died. And that's okay. You love yourself enough to leave so let that love carry you through the darkest times, too. 🤗🥰

@@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 Thanks for your kind words❤️. Lately I have felt those same exact thoughts wondering why it didn't work out and grieving the breakup of our family especially with 3 children in the middle of it. I know that if I stayed It will get worse so Im learning to not have regret and understand that I did all I could to save our marriage but any type of abuse should not be accepted and it takes 2 people to make a marriage work.

That and also the fact that there were red flags within the first year of marriage. Why would she have a child with him if she wasn't sure it would work out.

Exactly! I’m quite young as right now I am 18, but as of now, I am quite sure I don’t want children and people around me find it so ridiculous as I am children’s youth leader and I absolutely love young children and I’m naturally a very nurturing and caring person. I pretty much play the mother role in my close friendship group. So when I say, I really don’t want kids people think I’m being selfish or ridiculous, saying I will come around and why would I ‘waste’ my talents. I don’t think I’m wasting anything at all and indeed, I am not contributing the already growing masses of neglected and uncared for children, who grow up with having psychological issues because they were poorly cared for. I love young children but that’s the problem, I detest when they grow older because I’m just not up for it. Especially when their teenagers, I would favour jumping out a window more than to have a teenager, and essentially all children grow up. So it’s a no for me. I think a lot of people love to romantice the struggles of motherhood, but i understand it’s because there is a lot of love involved with those sacrifices and hence it’s hard for people not to make it seem as though it’s lovely and simple because it’s for the ‘greater good’. But it’s ain’t for me and that ain’t nobody’s business. I’m an very independent girl, and I have so much to do, and personally, a baby ain’t gonna benefit my plans, nor benefit from it 🤷🏽‍♀️

Tiffany Rayne Is it an infertility issue or did she really didn't want to have children?She should have discussed this with her partner before they got married because he probably wants children.

@@bubujooestes1499 He knew. He changed his mind.

Exactly and they leave out the part where she and Freddie agreed they didnt want kids and then he changed his mind the only difference is that Jeannie didn't. So maybe he was only saying that because he knew she didnt. Maybe he really did just have a change of heart later. They're the only ones who know. But it's really annoying ppl keep shaming her cuz she didnt want kids, shoot it's better to know b4 you accidentally get preggo or just have them anyway.

LISTENNNNNN ⚡⚡⚡

Thisssssss 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Listen, I did it for 6 months and like naw. I will never ignore red flags again. More power to you sis.

Girl I noticed red flags during the first day but kept trying to convince myself that I was overreacting. Dragged that mess out for 9 months. NEVER AGAIN. Weeks ago I had to threaten him with legal action for constantly calling me from random numbers.

Songbyrd Kay BOOM

You’re SO right. If only....

I hope so 😭

I’m a little slow when it comes to signs. Imma need a one on one conversation to understand 😂

It's just that some of us refuse to see then and end up in hell.

What about for us atheists?

Dalayna Wallace I have been with someone for 2 years and I knew the first week it will not work out. Still with him because in love some parts of him. But the parts that will make it not successful in marriage are all still there.

Same here..sometimes we look at the red flags and ignore them or look past them because we’re so blinded. Years later, all the time and effort spent..I felt like I had to stay and make it work.

I’ve been with someone for 4 years, there are red flags such as him not being emotionally available, not romantic at all and never wanting to do anything fun. I broke up with him and now he’s telling me he’s willing to change but i don’t know, I’ve been asking him to do so since the first year. I don’t know if I should go back to him, I’m only 20, i shouldn’t have to worry about this things

@@belupiazza2598 I feel like if you have to ask, then you already know. I'm not saying "you" directly but "you" in general. I did that same thing. I kept asking ppl if I should stay with my ex, knowing that he wouldn't change his horrible ways. You're young. Focus on becoming the best you that you can be. Love will come when you're ready and you'll never have to question it.

Bee Dotz thank you for the encouragement, I broke up with him and it’s been really hard but I know it was for the better 🙏🏻🖤

Tamar is no longer the scapegoat now, huh?... " Tamar is jealous of Jeannie's marriage", said haters.

It seems to me that people love to bring up Tamar. Especially when the conversation has nothing to do with her. This is about Jeannie not Tamar. Her fans can’t seem to get over the fact that she is no longer on the show. Tamar has moved on and so have the rest of the ladies.

@@thembamsibi64 lol who the hell made up that crap??

No one, people just love to create drama.

Chantholli89 say it louder for the people in the back 👏

well said. I love how unconventional Jeannie is. She's a good example for women to learn from.

and its crazy that is all happening for her now so late in her 40's she waited too long and wasted so many years

Joseline Orellana she’s almost 40

This is such a beautiful comment, especially taking into account where she is today🙌🙌🙌 She really was blossoming, here we are today!

correct. her current situation couldn't grow her. she knew it was wrong. the universe knew.

You deserve so much better. Clearly something wasn’t right and it’s best to start over with lessons learned and find a healthy loving relationship.

What did you see on your wedding day that you didn't see before?

Why didn't you divorce him

You’re gorgeous. 💜

Omg. This reminds me of my best friend. Went to marriage counseling with her husband every damn week for a year to save her marriage, until one day he walks in and says he doesn't want to be married anymore and moved out the next day. Smh. I hate to see her in so much pain.

Delayva part of me believes that but the other part of me thinks that it a nice lesson so she can thrive for the rest of her life

That's exactly what I'm saying! In the early days of the show when she mentioned that-that raised a big red flag for me. You both have to be on the same page if you're going to get married because it's a life long commitment. It's better to reject his proposal and say "babe I really love you but I'm just not ready and I need time to think about this" and who knows maybe in the time she would've taken to consider she could have realized this wasn't going to work and they both could have moved on. I remember her also talking about when she knew he was "the one" but honestly God does not want us to be unequally yoked with our partners and he wouldn't send you someone where you both wanted two completely different things out of life. That also was a red flag that I'm surprised even after they did pre martial counseling they thought it was one they could overlook. I think an important lesson to learn is that just because someone is great and loves God does not mean they are the person God sent for you sometimes they are someone else's blessing. I will continue to pray for Jeannie, wish her the best and continue to send positivity her way though.

@@petrinegordon hi petrine, if we look at what she shared about her parents relationship/divorce and her relationship with each of her parents, it might be the case that she had no one to teach her that. you can find that wisdom in yourself maybe, but i think anyone will agree is totally hard if no one's there to show you an example or to tell it to you when you're younger.

That's what happens when you cater to others before yourself. I'm sure he was a great guy to her and she to him but you cant sacrifice yourself. Life is too long lol

@@petrinegordon The last part of your comment🙌

Yeah exactly. U got it.

Then why get married? Answer that

@@javiruiz4405 Well that's the thing right? Shes didnt know until one year into her marriage. The real question is, why did she stay? which is what they're discussing.

@@ReplayAzpect didn't she take couple's therapy? Why go through all of that if she knew it wasn't going to last. I think after a year she may have come to some enlightenment but whatever indication she saw and did nothing about it is no reason for her to think it applies to others.

Humans are not rational no matter how much we try to think we are. She stayed because she loved him and she made the commitment. and to be honest you can know something but still hope for another outcome. It's life

💯💯💯

Girl, so many red flags on the first date and I brushed them off and that feeling of being uncomfortable. Worst relationship ever. Worst 9 months of my life.

@@Bee-lieve623 I have been seeing a guy for about a month.... he is amazing but I got hit by red flags on day one... the amazing part of him is so amazing is walking away the right thing to do?

I’m learning that lesson the hard way right now. We’ve been married only 4 months and when we started trying to get pregnant it hit me that I’m praying our kids don’t take after him. That’s a BIG FLAPPING RED FLAG that I’m trying to figure out now. I asked us to put a hold on trying to get pregnant and work on these issues now first if we can.

@@Helinacoustic girl....😶 that is not good

nnadaddy girl no it’s not! That’s why I’m trying to figure this out ASAP so if we really aren’t right we need to give ourselves the chance to find the right ones for us.

@@Helinacoustic The first year is always the hardest. Praying for you.🙏

Exactly, I and my husband, in terms of characteristics, we are completely the opposite. He is confident, I am not. He is social and good with people, I am not. He is a not a tidy person, I am. I am good at money m, he is not. But we have the same look at the world, same beliefs, same goals and it is what matters

Nothing says bravery like sitting in a marriage you hate for another 9 years. Heroic stuff

Marriage in the Western world is dead. Never walking into that nightmare.

Agree with you so much! People must follow their gut! No matter how painful it will be at that time for your partner! Follow that voice! We all love each other.

I know, don’t waste years of your life..

@@christinainthecity She wasted his time too cuz he would have loved to be a father much sooner

Forever is not even realistic

So true they had different goals in the relationship as they grew older . He wanted a family . She didn’t

Yet Jeannie keeps talking about him! She is so negative!

@kakarot songoku "finding happiness" and i bet she's closer to happiness now than she was when she was during their last years of marriage.

@@javiruiz4405 um did you ever stop to think that it's not easy to just forget and move on when you've spent such a long time with one person?

As I’ve gotten older I don’t believe in that saying anymore. Maybe attract physically but mentally there’s just too many differences that the relationship is doom for failure. However, I’m speaking from my own personal experiences with this.

Rosemary Ngugi I have changed several times... I am an ever evolving Aquarian Spouse

Bianca Lord Bianca Lord Aquarian here. Change is nice but people tend to think we’re fickle and that’s not what I want represented. Balance is key and evolution only works if it’s in a positive direction

But Why get married? Just stay single and date. That's what's blowing me away

Very few people stay in a marriage because of what they think society will say or think (this only applies to power or famous couples or people in really traditional/religious societies). most ordinary folk stay in a marriage because it's familiar and safe, they don't want to let the other partner or kids down, they don't want to deal with the upheaval of going through court proceedings, moving, separating finances, facing life alone again, losing friends, and administering to the challenging emotional needs of any kids as they go through the divorce etc. Sometimes even a toxic or dying relationship seems safer than the unknown because it's familiar

whoa

Damn

It's the cake, decor,& ppl."non ya business" opinions that hangs so many by the throat.

People are crazy af. Like. Why would she do dat

Chances are, she knew this in the 1st conversation.

The saddest truth of all

That is sooo true!

Yup

Whoooo💯🙌

It’s not wasted time, it’s life lessons that have shaped both of them. You could say they could’ve been with someone else but they’d be living completely different lives. Different not necessarily better

LadyChaos101 true but maybe they could have parted amicably. If you know in your gut that it won’t work out why wait? 🤷🏾‍♀️ We can never know the path we didn’t take but why ignore your intuition?

Yep, completely wasted.

@@chamab.6800 It's a little thing called denial, plus you have a hope that things will start to change and both partners recognize their rhythm so to speak. Sure she can't get those 10 years back, but she can make things a lot better now for herself.

Not wasted. You grow even in a bad situation.

Lytonya it truly takes work. No lie

THIS THIS THIS

Yes everyone has doubts, and i think that everyone questions themselves if they did the right thing regardless if it will last or not

EXACTLY people here don't notice that those who say i knew right then it won't work and now we're divorced are just justifying things to make it feel right and that they have no regrets on divorcing. I tell you this 100% true - that relationships have different colors and different approaches. She done that Doesn't mean it will work for you or for me. She thinks that - does not mean it will go better with you. Spread love everyone!

feeling and knowing - 2 different states of play ........

People have a relationship with The Father and still mess-up. We are called hard headed children. DUMB SHEEP, still His sheep.

I agree! I’ve prayed on my last relationship and heard “You know this is not the one. Move on.” But I wanted it to work so I continued and prayed for signs because at the time he was great all around. I saw sooo many red flags after that prayer which ultimately caused me to leave. Having a relationship with God is so amazing.

missydomtom I think it’s courageous. There are many women who may be feeling the same way in their current marriages and they feel alone and confused. But if people speak out about it, then suffering women can feel like... you know, I’m not the only person who’s gone through this!

Most people want their marriage to work, so they will stay and hope for the best.

missydomtom yes sis I agree she needs to stop like we have forgotten about it and she is looking shady now

Nah, I don't think so...I don't think she meant it as shade, I think she is just realizing the truth and can now confidently say how she feels

It does feel weird listening to her say this because I also remember when she was married and how happy she was but also I have to remember how easy it is to fake being happy as I've done that myself. I think for her shes using this as her platform to open up, she might not have anywhere else to speak like this

Honesty ? She lied about her marriage being great for years now all of a sudden she knew it wasn’t right the first year in ? Bunch of bs. She’s a phony.

Don't be scared of it, but do give it the respect and contemplation it deserves. Marriage is a calling, it's not for everyone.

lady rodriguez very well said. I will definitely keep that in mind for the next few years to come. thank you.

Jason Cromey Nobody says everything in public right away.. she would’ve hoped it’d work out eventually

Me too. Im turning 29 next month but im not ready to have kids or get married

I was 36 and felt like it my last chance.

😂 true dat

Book Bag yep and they get embarrassed so they just go along with it

Its Lit exactly. I think every relationship and engagement should be very slow where you take your time instead of rushing.

Yup, I agree.

Book Bag I think people should take their time with relationships but I don't think engagements should be slow. I think you shouldn't ask someone to marry you until you are truly 100 percent ready.

EXACTLY!!

I really needed to hear that. Thanks 😊

You are absolutely right, I'd say the first 2 years are shaky, but if both are in it for each other and loyal, it's gonna turn out great...

Stacy Maddocks this is also true.

If you see red flags in the beginning you should run, you shouldn’t stay just to give the relationship time to blossom. Warning signs are there for a reason.

Iz4 yes i agree red flags like abuse, unfaithfulness, disrespect or a lack of commitment should not be tolerated in a marriage! Marriage is supposed to b a safe place.

Bri.V.M. Like ALWAYS don’t ignore it people!!

Yeah even if you wait 9 years to acknowledge it. That's what's crazy....Give me a break....

AllAboutMeNU a lot of people stay bc they hope their intuition is wrong

Bri.V.M. Ten years! She has to be a stupid moron! And yet she has a platform to influencing other morons!

That's exactly what I was thinking when she was talking about her being loyal. A lot of people do get judge for not trying to fix their marriage for giving up to quickly. I'd hate to be that person who gives up but at the same time I rather "give up" more like follow my intuition be judged by it then to stay.... but that's just me. Jeannie should of followed hers when he had proposed. Because even then she wasn't ready.

So agree,you can be loyal and still be divorced

@@Mel__21 💣💣💣💣💣💣

Girl I relate to this whole comment

Yes. Been there too. We live life forward and understand it backwards. Growth.

Me too

Me too

Yes I agree. So much. I resonate! When I tell my gfs that I was married, I was embarrassed to tell people I'm with an alcoholic, he only cares about is car, doesn't work to pay the bills, and freeloading mf. I was unhappy for a long time. We didn't have the same financial goals and I'm like not down for that. Bye.

😭😭😭

A lot of forgiving and accepting that is so true. I got divorced after three years of marriage and my ex was not forgiving always bringing up past arguments making it impossible to move forward.

People aren’t willing to do the work, that’s what. Some marriages have genuine abuse and neglect. That’s different. Nowadays they wanna divorce because it doesn’t feel good to them anymore. Just break their covenant, like it’s nothing.

felt - knew: 2 ends of a spectrum

If I was in a relationship and that person cheated on me I would leave.

Dude he seemed too country.

I think he told her that he wanted to have children knowing that she didn't and he reiterated that a year into their marriage; that's probably what she's talking about without saying.

Ive learned just bc it looks nice...doesnt always mean IT IS!! Its that appearance...can be deceiving!

by why shade him now cause dude found a new love and has a kid?

@@JCALRADIO because he started working on his family while he still was with jeanie

Nalucha Shakalima I get it. I dated a guy for a year and knew within months that it wasn’t going to work.

@@McKenzieRain151 What a weak pathetic person you must have been. I hope you have improved yourself since

Steve Pickford I have to tell the truth. The person I was with changed my strong character to a weak one. I wasn’t myself when with him. I am stronger now and learned so much. It has made a better woman. I now know what I want. Lesson learned.

@@McKenzieRain151 Full respect to you then. Sure with that attitude you'll get what you want.

@@stevepickford3004 I don't think it is fair to judge her like that. We've all been in situations where we knew something might not work, but we kept going hoping for the best. In her case (though I don't know her story) maybe she was hoping things would change for the better.

Thank you. I completely agree. Sometimes we feel and know that it's not right but end up doing it anyway for various reasons. Even when writing a test abd we dont go with our intuition and end up choosing the Wrong answer. Then we are like I knew it. Same thing

Yes

TheElolicious I disagree. Marriages may start out rocky but you still have shared values and a strong foundation to get you through...they were night and day on every single aspect: values, kids, personality, upbringing, interests, friends, etc. she probably knew the differences were too great but she tried anyway because he was committed as well and she loved him as a person. It’s not that hard to understand

Nicole Owuor he didn’t even express that he wanted kids until later on in their marriage. definitely not in their first year. i don’t get what you mean by the others because in terms of values, they shared the same religion so... 🤷🏾‍♀️ if you can bring some examples i’d be happy for you to try to change my mind

100% first year is usually the hardest.

Right! I feel like this video just spiled up the divorce rate. Lol. Ain't nobody about to stay married if they listen to this.

LoveCompassionPurity exactly, there’s nothing wrong with acknowledging you might not have made the best decision when it comes to who you’ve married but like...why lie?

Marriage can get hard

Facts. Love and commitment do not equal feelings. Many have it mixed up!

@@LadyK007 can you explain this more im young but i want to understand cus everytime i hear this type of stuff about marriage it makes it sound really scary. i have never dated anyone so i have no experience. im 22

No. They do not.

JackGeezy hindsight 20/20. Rose colored glasses are definitely a thing.

& Tamar said the same about Vince when they were eating chicken sandwiches. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@@calm_b4thestorm582 oh my damn

Maybe there is no "the one" there is the one for that particular moment as you grow and change they also change and maybe that change is not aligned

@@chichizamba2112 yes cause I was sure my guy bestfriend was the one for me. He felt the same way too but I broke it off after a few months of dating because I just wasn't happy with the "relationship him" I realized It was much better when we were just best friends.

Ikr

Lol agree. I think she probably means like values and morals cld have been the signs. But my mom wanted to ship my dad back to his family after the first yr 😂😂😂😂😂 is common. The manners are different, the cleanliness..... many things

Adaeze's Space so true! Through thick and thin, sickness and health and bla bla ... marriage isn’t easy. It’s not glitter and confetti all the time. Before I married my husband I knew what I was getting into. And how I and we can both help one another, grow, laugh, mature ... commit. Fortunately, these were correctable things and we were always open about everything. Been married 10 years and I love that man so much!! We have our days but most of the time it’s been great! I’ve never lived with him before getting married so when we finally did it felt like we were dating again lol. Because of certain habits or styles we are figuring out and we work that out. If the red flags are there before marriage ... yes definitely follow that. But also be wise before you do say I do. Marriage is a commitment, and divorce for certain circumstances... certain (I.e. adultery, abuse, .... a lil few more)

A. Banana Intuition isn’t just a feeling! It’s usually based on observations you’ve made subconsciously but your conscious mind hasn’t pieced together yet...for example, you walk into a coffee shop and immediately think ‘something’s off here’, it’s because out of the corner of your eye your brain/subconscious mind noticed that there is something shady happening in the corner but your conscious mind hasn’t put it all together yet. That’s why people say to always trust your gut/intuition, it picks up things that your conscious mind hasn’t yet...like you’re walking home late at night and there’s a shadow in front of you, your subconscious mind recognizes the shadow isn’t yours so your intuition warns you that something is off but your conscious mind hasn’t recognized you’re being followed yet. True intuition is a warning you should listen too. You can search up Carl Jung and the Myers-Briggs explanations of intuition.

It’s not like a moment where you have doubts, it is a constant, consistent feeling that something find wrong that won’t go away. Most ppl honestly have that BEFORE they get married but hope that over time it changes.

This is me 😪

@@Claudia-yc8xk yeah. It’s no good. I pray to teach my daughter better. My ex waited for me to change my mind and I knew I was never going to. That’s no good for either end

Right just messy lol

City dweller got a point later on we'll see another extended clip on this topic, & we'll watch it ☻

City Dweller facts

This is America I agree

Fr they need to hire me I’ll be sitting right there with Jamal....

Rightttt

Nah . Tamera is shook cos she knows Adam ain't right from jump too but she sticking it out

You will be alright. Healing takes time. You are on the right track

Bianca Lord thank you💕

Chanel Rich amen dude

so happy to see this comment

Everything in society now is about fulfilling your own happiness. Making yourself happy. It’s all about me. NO. In a marriage, it is all about sacrifice and compromise and realizing that you made vows before God and your happiness is not the only thing that matters. People are very selfish and if people would stop thinking about themselves and put half that energy into their partner and marriage, so many more marriages would last.

Elizabeth Unger Exactly that’s what my family in the Philippines keep telling me and my aunts and uncles never divorced at all and are happily married after many years.

Elizabeth Unger so you mean to tell me that you were sent on this earth to be unhappy???bogus claim. If you aren’t happy leave, 10 years of trying to make work is too long. Time you will never get back, people do make mistakes.

Were you married?? Being with someone is not the same as being married. If he did not want to work and you had to support him, you already knew he was not the right person.

Yes!👏👏👏👏👍 Thank you!

@Yakhanna..I love your comment. People treat marriage like a dating relationship.

These people have changed the definition of Marriage. What they are experiencing is not marriage. It's altogether different and unholy

Exactly I agree. Marriage is hard work. And at times you have to die to yourself and put your marriage first. Having said that it's not a bad thing to do at all. Isn't that what God wants in the first place.

🙋

To Be Honestly lmaoo

And that one person was Jeanie 🤣

Lmaoooooooo

You don’t know her friends so back off. She might have other friends we don’t know about.

@@edealobe-manga4893 ew, it was a joke you weirdo.

Nucola Joyner I see Botox girl

@@onajitephilips8252 true

She's so damn goofy

I'm sorry that happened.. Ppl can hide themselves very well.

Daaaaamn

The true colors show during a divorce

R.i.p !!

Feel like confessing anything hun???? 😄

The Life and Thoughts of Shan no because I’m NOT married

@@meciagotcha I was joking

So before you got married you didn't see this coming?

Yakhanna I was 19 years old. I didn’t see anything coming. But I knew very early on I made a mistake and wanted out.

At least you were young and got out after a few years. You learned from this experience and grew from it.