Can't imagine to go 40 years NOT wanting children. Get married , have baby only to be left as a baby mama.. You KNOW that was a fear of hers

I’m surprised Iman and Teyana lasted this long. Jeanie and Jeezy never made sense to me. What does a southern Black man have in common with an Asian woman who said his demographic is only good as a side dish.

I knew Teyana's marriage wouldn't last because of the whole 3some thing, when people open up their bedroom, they're bringing intruders to the relationship.

This is why celebrity relationships should not be idolized, we don't know what really happened

Chile, I divorced my ex-husband. The divorce was finalized April 2023. We were together 9 years and I found out he was cheating 3 months before our 10-year wedding anniversary. He had been in a relationship for years with some woman at his job and there is no telling how many others there were. I said bye. I sent him back to the streets where he belonged and wanted to be. I didn't care about 9 years of marriage; I cared about loyalty and respect. I feel much better now that he is gone. I wasn't about to stay and play any games with him. He knew right from wrong and decided to do wrong so oh well. Bye loser.

Most of these men just want kids knowing full well that mothers are the default parent. It is very frightening.

It’s CRAZY that she felt comfortable enough to have a baby with HIM of all people. They swear they are exempt but she just found out she got the same black man. Lord help. I’m not surprised.

Jeezy 100% just got bored and picked an argument to use the excuse to leave, no one can tell me otherwise

Not Jeannie saying she felt safe with Jeezy only for him to blindside her with a divorce… Imma say it: they both should have picked better.

Anyone who’s reading this, please don’t let these situations deter you from marriage. There’s still someone out there who wants the same things in life as you do. Not only does your person exist, but you’re WORTHY of that kind of love in a life partner. Marriage is about CHOOSING one another time & time again. 💕

I think the most shocking thing about these situations to me is the amount of grown adults that are having literal breakdowns over this. There are normal people getting divorced as we speak, the fact that people are admitting to being devastated because “they looked like a good couple” proves that people live through others, not even knowing what goes in behind someone’s door. There are plenty of thriving long lasting marriages that have and have not touched social media. No one should be this tore up over some folks that don’t even know they exist. The divorces are sad all around and it sucks they couldn’t pull it together to make it work, but a couple of failed celebrity marriages does not mean all love is lost.

It’s wild that Jeannie said her own trauma was one of the main reasons she didn’t want to have kids but all Jeezy did was give her more trauma. I hope she’s able to find real love and an honest relationship because this ain’t it.

She felt “safe” to have a baby with a man with his history? No she felt safe to have a baby with a man with his money. They both are irresponsible for this relationship and I hope they’ve learned a valuable lesson.

Looks are EXTREMELY deceiving with celebrities…

“why get married” personally, i do believe the child was part of it, at least for him. However, unlike the black community, it’s not acceptable in asian communities to have a child without marriage, and to me, he knew that. To have a blasian baby requires some sort of upfront commitment. He put in the bare minimum time and dipped.

She felt safe being his 4th baby mama? I think she might have felt safe because prefernces always think they will be treated differently.

This happened to my daughter! Once these men have a kid, wife and realize what marriage entails he left her and her son. I feel for Jennie. My daughter was blindsided and heartbroken.

We speak about race so much, folks forget about cultural differences. Jeezy and Jeanie were never going to work long term. They are more different than they are the same.

I hate how people are really only looking at marriage as some kind of wordly contract. Marriage is a covenent between you, your spouse and God. Some problems are seasonal but you'll never know trying to run out of it or not talking about concerns in your marriage and figuring out how to get past them. Marriage is a lifetime commitment on both ends to treat each other a certain way, and live a certain lifestyle. Please dont get married if it isnt THAT for you, these folks are making marriage look bad and I am sick of it. Marriage is hard work, youre joining two people together for life so both have to make sacrifices, deal with traumas, etc., but you arent supposed to take it lightly and when you get over those issues it makes your marriage all the more beautiful. PS...im not Christian, im a free form spiritualist so this isnt coming from a religious place this is about principle. Dont get married if you arent about that life and dont know your partner. PERIOD. PS again...im done responding to @'s. I dont have time to argue with fools who arent making any points 😂 I dont have time.

Feeling overwhelmed and suffocated in the marriage is very plausible given Jeannie's mom was also living in the home. That's a dynamic that can either go very well or very bad for a marriage.

Jeezy love affiar was the most hilarious and embarrassing. Bc bros were up their swearing he found his so called soul mate. Lol. Epic failure!! Hahaha 😂😂

Married or not you better be careful who you have a child with. I'm the product of a horrendous broken marriage. I look just like my daddy. The things my mama said and did to me because I looked like that "no good, wide head dog n**ga" are unimaginable and brutal. It's so not a joke. I feel for that baby. Not that Jeannie would do that and not that my mama intended to do that to me, but they're human and it happens💔

Teyanna thought she was the perfect blend of being a “homeboy” AND a “housewife”. There’s no such thing, you can’t be every woman. She tried too hard to be “down for whatever” and it bite her with that open marriage junk

Lmao, Jeezy getting divorced was inevitable. Nothing about him screams a good man for a HUSBAND. - Jennie said she liked her 🌑 meat on the side and he thought he was getting something special. She got the SBM.💅🏾

CHILD...let me tell you. That bit about when folks divorce and they wanna say they are still friends is spot on. When my sister divorced 7 years ago thats exactly what she said. "We are still friends, nothing has changed" TUH. she can't stand the ground he walks on. Granted he is a horrible human (she kept that from us while they were married), she still tried to save face right after it was finalized. I still don't know why she did it to this day

I don’t understand feeling “suffocated” by someone you signed up to spend the rest of your life with🤔 Like did he not know they would be living together, raising a child TOGETHER, and rarely be apart? Lol BM love to have a babymama🤦🏽‍♀️ Let her raise the kid over there, while he continues his life basically child free, show up when he wants and still call himself “active”😂

Why do y’all keep saying Jeezy made Jeannie a “baby mama”? Respectfully she will never be a baby mama since she married him. She will be his ex wife. There is a difference.

I just feel like to go on a national tv crusade spewing how much you don’t want kids and make your ex husband look bad for it then to turn around and have a child for a rich dude is just kinda weird. They never seemed like a match in the first place in my opinion

The truth is culture and values matter.

Idk why ppl are surprised. Call it judging a book by its cover, but Jeezy does/did not seem like the type to really want or even know how to be in a committed relationship. He came from a certain life, and it can be hard to kick that if you haven’t done the work (therapy, mindset change, people change, etc). Being rich doesn’t mean that all of a sudden he’s matured mental to leave “that life” behind. I’m sure there conflicting views on what I said, but that’s just the vibe I get from him

I've been married for 20 years. Personally, I don't believe that people today are any less committed to marriage than people from previous generations. Times have changed. I can only speak from a woman's point of view, but I believe a lot of women stayed in 30, 40 and 50 year marriages because they had no other options. My parents were married for 44 years before my mother passed away. My father was 18 when they married and my mother was 20. By the time she was 25, my mother had 5 children and no education. My father had another child during the marriage. He cheated - naturally. He was 18 years old when he became a husband. Are we to believe that an 18 will never lust after other women? My father became a better man when he went to AA and stopped drinking. After that, my father put my mother first and treated her like gold. If we went shopping, he would not shop for himself; he shopped for my mother. he would say, "Help me pick out something for your mama." My mother used to say, "Everything your daddy buys me, I deserve." Had their circumstances been different and my mother had an education, she might have left my father early in their marriage. She probably felt stuck. I know my parents loved one another, but my mother waited for my father to grow up. The difference with later generations is that the average woman doesn't have to wait for the man to grow because the woman is able to make it on her own. This is why I always tell young women to get themselves in a position where they don't have to rely on anyone. Even if you live with a significant other, never get a place that you can't afford by yourself. I have a good husband, but you better believe, if he ever decides he wants to leave or he decides to start acting like he has no sense, I can afford my mortgage by myself.

Jeannie still gets the last laugh bc her willing “dark meat on the side” is going to paying a pretty penny for the next 17 years lol

It’s the arrogance for me .Like,to have that type of attitude towards divorcing someone says enough to me about his character .Not saying we knowing every detail about what happened leading up to it ,but man you would think that going through a divorce would humble someone .

The dark meat on the side wasn't enough I guess. She better not ask us Black women for help whrn she bashed us

You shouldn't feel like you are going to war or to battle when you get married. I hear everyone say marriage is so hard but honestly, I think marriage should be easy because two people are coming together, making things better and easier for each other. It shouldn't feel miserable and sad. Unfortunately, many women, I see or talk to are unhappy, miserable, stressed out and not themselves. I'm so glad I got out of my marriage and didn't lose myself or become miserable. I didn't want counseling or anything. I just wanted out and to be free. Praise God.

She made HERSELF a baby mama cause she wanted him more than not wanting a kid.

Jeezy and Jeanie rushed into the relationship and JEEZY rushed her into the marriage by asking her after only 1 year. Of course she wouldn’t say no, she trusted him. Hope they both learned a lesson.

Everyone has to stop putting couples on a pedestal. My friend is still shocked about my divorce and that my husband was cheating. She still can't believe that he was cheating. She said she looked up to us as a marriage she would want to have. I told her, she can't look at things and think it's perfect. Even I was shocked that he was cheating because he portrayed to be this good man, but I was not shocked that he did it because again, he is a man and many of them don't care about who they hurt. They are selfish and are only worried about their needs. Shout out to the true and real men who have morals and values. But it's his loss, not mine. No matter if you are married or not, always practice self-love and self-care. I'm so glad I did and that is why I was able to leave the marriage without feeling sad and down because I chose me over him.

Eloho said she had to double it 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Jeannie spoke highly of him. If a man can humiliate the mother of his child the way he did, he is not a decent man. He is not a loss after all.

Jeannie Mia has openly said she has a temper. And didn't notice she had a temper until she met Jeezy. And she did not respect her ex husband. She said she saw she had a fire in her because Jeezy was someone she respected.Nah I think Jeannie knew but posted that pick of the baby praying as in her last way to try to save the marriage. But knew deep in her heart it was over.

I feel sad for all those people filling for divorce.

For Jeezy to file almost unexpectedly while Jeannie was posting about her husband proves something happened within their marriage. Either Jeezy or Jeannie did something unforgivable. I don’t believe it was cheating.

Marriage is not a requirement for fulfillment and happiness! You have to have that inside you already! Let’s face it, marriage and relationships are a scam in a lot of cases!

The way I screamed MY COUSIN POSTED when I saw this 😭

Teyana's response is everything. Seperated or not they go to bat for one another❤

Not surprised about Jeannie Mai & Jeezy, what an odd couple. She saw him as "dark meat on the side" so it was doomed to failure from the start. Teyana should have divorced Iman a long time ago; she went along with the threesomes because he was cheating, so she decided to join in.

a man who woke up and didnt want to be married anymore, wants his freedom wants to get back to the streets, cut him lose Jeannie your better off without him,

I can believe that he felt suffocated because every negative reaction he seems to have had to Jeanie seems to have been around that. I notice how much Jeanie is all over that baby like she’s starved for affection. The fact that he lived in a different state despite the fact that they have a whole baby together. How he mentioned Jeanie micro managing him about his suit. How aloof he came off the whole time that most couples are more affectionate with each other etc. The whole time, Jeanie made excuses for it all the same way she made excuses for Freddie until his real personality came out

I haven't been married, but I have been in a relationship that just evolved into a loving friendship with zero romantic feelings.

What we as people need to underatand is that, if the relationship or marriage isnt ordained from God it will fall apart😊💛

There relationship seemed forced ,like everything was just to post on Instagram

yes you should have children for yourself, because you can be great in your feelings to raise them and have no regrets..be safe..

I think this is only coming as a shock to Jeannie partially due to a lack of self awareness on her part. She said out of her own mouth that she has a temper and that her previous husband didn’t check her on it. When she got with Jeezy, he showed her that having a temper at her VERY adult age is not okay. That may have been a part in it. She also had more respect for Jeezy than she did her previous husband, whom she also said she didn’t want kids with. Only to pop up with a kid with Jeezy. This may just be her getting back what she put out. Also, why did Jeezy marry her if he knew how she was? She didn’t hide it. Honestly, I think both of them knew it wouldn’t work out but they still did it.

I remember when she thought she was too good to invite her cohosts to her wedding

Still haven’t apologised to Rho then?

Jeanie Mae should have stuck with being childfree and not allowed herself to change her mind. Now, it's a great possibility that she'll regret her decision. I wish everyone the best.

Jennie, Sherry asked about inviting her to the baby shower, not the BBQ 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Theres SO MUCH to say but before anything YOU COVERED THIS SO WELL !!! Completely Respectful and Empathetical. Again, there so much to say. My Hearts and Prayers are out to Both Families ESPECIALLY Iman & T I Genuinely in my Heart dont feel they are supposed to be apart AT ALL. Alot of whats transpired is spiritual and needs God The Father Jesus The Son and The Holy Spirit Only God can Restore the hearts, minds, will and emotions of Man So my Thoughts and Prayers are Foreal WITH THEM !!! smh at the times and culture we live in. May God Restore TRUE LOVE back in The Land

Ooh come thru with the vids Eloho!

That vacation looks epic. I wish them both well a divorce is like a surgical removal of ones soul.

Their relationship was destined to fail when they started bringing other people in their bed. Having an open marriage is a recipe for disaster. Also I wouldn’t technically call it an open marriage if only females are allowed to join, bet he wouldn’t let another man come in, it’s strictly for his pleasure only. Tey said herself her first time with a female was with her husband (iman) I’m pretty sure she only did it to please him and keep him “home” even tho she wasn’t comfortable with it.

I’ve just been waiting for your take on Jeezy and Jeannie!

2 uploads in 1 day eloho you're popping off!! Now let me sip this tea🍵

Can we normalize people growing apart ? No book last forever and that’s OKAY.

I needed to hear your advice on having babies for oneself because I can see how one can get caught up in love and change their ways because they feel safe with a man. It’s crazy. The baby is beautiful and I doubt she ever regrets having her but you have a point when you said have a baby because you wanna be a mom. Not for a marriage, not for a man. Women need to hear this. Stay true to yourself y’all ❤ 🙏

This tea is piping! 🍵😏

Nah she had that baby for HERSELF. Lol I highly doubt the man with 3 kids and 3 baby mamas was pressing her for another child. Jeannie knows how to say no I’m sure he was coo with her not having a child I believe SHE wanted that baby

Eloho you’re doing the Lord’s work today with these uploads. Thank you 🙏🏾

The gag is Jeezy put that paperwork in back in May, which lends to him being the one who put this shit out yesterday because, wtf!!

JEEZY was hypnotized and snapped out of it like the movie GET OUT

💕💕 for support, thanks for your content Eloho

Can't remember the last time I was this early

Chiiiile it's been real messy lately😢

*”Waaaaaake up love, this marriage over baaaaaaby…🎵🎶🎼”*

It’s sad to see marriages breaking down, I hope they get things together and know vows are forever and it is written in heaven first. Marriage is not just saying you’re married it’s endurance, patient , submission ,love ( giving ), It is important to search yourself deal with the imperfections within you to agree to become one with another

Marriage is two people deciding to be together until they pass on! And in too many cases people do not see it like that! No one said everyone needs to get Married in order to live a happy and satisfying life! How many time do we need to see that marriage does not equal happiness or a healthy happy childhood for the kids? Y’all still putting marriages on this pedestal that they rarely live up to!

Shiiiiiiiii you might have to add Remy and Papoose too...if the rumors are true that is!

Marriage is commitment & means somebody in your face all day. People grow & learn separately & hopefully it will work together but at the end of the day when you have kids together there is always a connection whether u like them or not.

I’m truly hoping that both couples can find a way back to each other and neither gets divorced.

The preferences never think that is going to happen to them until it does😂😂😂😂 there's a whole clip out here with her saying that she was hot-tempered and she had to check herself on a regular basis because of said hot temper saying her hot temper would trigger Jeezy😂

To be 100 % honest, I usually feel like people that marry too young eventually grow apart. I believe that's the case for Teyana and Iman, they were still growing. For the people in a relationship or married, do you ever look at your partner and think, if it was 5-7 years ago, we wouldn't be together? Because you know you were a different person?

Please take care of the little girl. Remember her whatever you all do . I wish you all can work things out .

How he secretly divorced her and just filed 😫🤣🤣🤣

Anyone else feel that Jeezy secretly resented the trips to Vietnam and Jeannie always wanting to do the most? Jeannie is a TV personality so it’s her job to always post and make her life look glamorous, but a man like Jeezy simply doesn’t want to be told what to do or, I think, bike through Vietnam and drink tea. He just doesn’t. He wants to drink whiskey with his boys and do whatever he wants. Not be a prop for Jeannie. I think the more she tried, the more he disliked her and it drained and irritated him.

Suffocated? Sounds like he Jeezy has commitment issues.

Jennie praying he’s successful to secure that bag from divorce.. I’m praying with her girl..

Jeezy Secretly divorced Jeanie? where's the secret? he just filed like regular people

Mother's baby, father's maybe. Do not have kids if you are not prepared to be a single mother.

I thought they were polyamorous with all the threesomes they were having? I don’t judge anyone’s sex life if it’s safe and no unwanted babies, but this seems like a confusing dynamic (monogamy and threesomes at the same time) but if it was polyamory how would there be cheating? Idk

I heard about the venus retrograde a couple days ago and read up on how there will be alot of couples seperating. Idk feel like theres some validity to it with all these couples i wouldve never imagined breaking up doing just that😮

Most of these states are requiring the separation prior to getting divorced, so its not always really about a needing space. Although some couples probably do that, it's because legally, they have to have a separation before they can file. Especially when you have children. My first husband and I had to be separated for 6 months before we could file for divorce. And we didn't even have any children.

I mean her family did live with them so they never had time alone. Foreign cultures often live in groups so that was new for Jeezy and it may have been too much. The first few years of marriage can make or break a couple and with the family right there to be in the thick of it couldn’t be easy.

teyana is whole lesbian...i think they loved each other but wanted kids and thats it

Interesting that so many couples broke up during or directly after Venus retrograde. The south node is in Libra right now, too so collectively lots of people are moving towards independence vs codependence

Jeezy whenever he was on the Real tv show as a guest and especially when he dropped by for Jeannie he would always have his shades on. Strange. Jeannie referred to him..her husband as Jeezy. Looking at everything there were signs of some of disconnect on his part. I wonder how much of himself he actually shared with her. I think he got with her for clout. A preference who was on big platform and with there new family gave him more mainstream exposure and wholesome image. I think he may have blindsided her.

No baby ever gonna save a marriage and the fact he filed and she did not see it coming ouch. I feel there is a reason he filed for divorce and don't believe he felt suffocated either.

I learned that once newly married couples have baby’s quickly into their marriages/relationship it doesn’t last… not every situation but in some. I think Jeezy intentions were different than Jennie’s 🤷🏾‍♀️.

Selfishness is destroying marriage in America.

Eloho i just love before i even watched the video i wanted to say this! 😍😍