How to Forgive Your Mother (EXCERPT, Church, Nov 19)

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How to Forgive Your Mother (EXCERPT, Church, Nov 19)

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FULL VIDEO: • On Cheating, Guilt, Ju... Sunday, Nov 19, Jesse asks a first-time Church visitor if he forgave his mother. You must forgive your mother and father to be at peace, and get back to your original self. He notices himself getting angry with her. He asks how to forgive? Jesse urges him to get to know himself. You'll see you're no good. "Ask God to help you see yourself." But don't listen to the thoughts from Satan in your head, which are lies. Practice silent prayer ( / be-still-and-know . His father is not alive. How do you connect with your father? You'll see how to forgive once you see yourself and forgive your mother. Nothing else matters. He asks if he tells her he forgives her, or thinks he forgave her, will it make it true? No. Fear of facing her means you have not forgiven her. Once you forgive, the anger is gone. rebuildingthema...
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@its_me..... 6 жыл бұрын

I've never heard of 'forgiving your mother' until listening to Jesse. But it's so profound.. I realize almost everyone I know has some sort of resentment towards their mother, whether they're bad moms or just the natural way of child becoming an adult and losing our mothers that are replaced with flawed, regular individuals. And that loss is very real and I remember when it happened for me. I still hold anger. I hope I'll be able to forgive my mama soon so I can live freely. Thank you, Jesse.

@koftte 4 жыл бұрын

N Don't pressure him/her to do it. When he or she is ready, they'll either do it or they won't.

@its_me..... 4 жыл бұрын

I forgave my mom. She needed to move out of her apartment and she started living with me. It's a different dynamic since she lives with me and I'm an actual adult now. I love her. Now, I'm working on forgiving my past self.

@TheDoctornaut 4 жыл бұрын

@@its_me..... what would jesse think

@bobbybigsbee3075 3 жыл бұрын

@@its_me..... BETA! you should listen to more of Jesse's sermons. He says momma will do exactly this. Find a way to come back into your home and life

@its_me..... 3 жыл бұрын

@@bobbybigsbee3075 well I'm glad she did, quarantine would be lonely without her. I told my mama about all of this. She understands, she never forgave her mama. I tell her exactly what I think without the guilt. I'll tell her if I think she's being a bad mama or openly blame her for things. I watched my mama and other bit their tongue around their moms for respect. I love my mom and I'm never going to hold back because you just end up resenting them. I suggest talking to y'all's mom's about this idea of forgiving your mom and the best way to do it is to be open and honest.

@mifnp8887 6 жыл бұрын

'God will reveal to you who you are. Don't rely on your thoughts because that where satan operates. It's a knowing. The fact that you haven't gone and seen her is proof that you haven't forgiven her'. Wow, just wow.

@bradvincent2586 2 жыл бұрын

Great lines! Check out Dan Mohler! Will blow you mind 10x as much, but I’m trying to keep expectations low

@aistle2064 Жыл бұрын

The hardest part is finding it in myself to forgive her.

@terrancemcclendon456 Жыл бұрын

Forgive and accept I was always invalidated and abandoned

@cabilgibbs 4 ай бұрын

Shes gotta stop the abuse for you to forgive . .. orrr you can forgive and not be around her... until she truly changes.

@christianpahlman1994 4 ай бұрын

You realize it when u go and forgive.

@bploan8464 2 ай бұрын

I feel ya man

@a.stogner3773 5 жыл бұрын

Lord, help me forgive my narcissistic mom.

@vegeta8169 2 жыл бұрын

Did you do it? Still planning to do so myself.

@JohnnySmith-no2zc Жыл бұрын

I did it men, and everything Jesse says is true and then some. Just do it.

@PaddyIrishman 6 жыл бұрын

Seems like alot of black folk don't like what Jesse brings up.

@quinnjorge8820 3 жыл бұрын

A trick : watch movies at Flixzone. I've been using it for watching loads of movies these days.

@brixtondesmond5397 3 жыл бұрын

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@benjay5655 3 жыл бұрын

@Quinn Jorge Yup, been using flixzone for years myself =)

@phis.750 6 жыл бұрын

I want to go to his church!

@B1LLBILL 3 жыл бұрын

Me too bro

@1000dotsdeath 3 жыл бұрын

I'm American Mexican first generation thank you jesse you are helping my entire bloodline

@DJ-yc5qk Ай бұрын

Messi-can 😂

@paulwilkie1732 5 жыл бұрын

I searched many videos of Jesse Lee Peterson and this one had exactly what I was looking for.

@LyndseeM 6 жыл бұрын

To answer that first question how do you see your inside yourself. The best answer I can give is when the devil is Tugging and you reject him more and more then the Lord starts giving your mind body and soul peace. That’s when I knew the Lord was in me. He was in my mind, my body, and my soul just like I asked of him. I just felt it and I knew it I didn’t have the doubt it any longer. ❤️

@wakinglife7065 Жыл бұрын

I just forgived my father and it’s the best feeling. I was so afraid it would turn into a fight but it didn’t. I wrote it down before I spoke to him and kept it short. Turned into an hour and half conversation that was positive. He talked about his own family and shared some stories. It was so good. Thank you JLP. Seriously ❤

@outerspaceman7534 3 жыл бұрын

Forgiving your mother is so difficult.

@mare4835 2 жыл бұрын

But not impossible.You just need faith,focus and strong attention.❤️It's worth of happy and peaceful life!

@proraptor4146 4 жыл бұрын

This man is amazing. I'm so glad I found him.

@idaoud32g 2 жыл бұрын

7:56 "You forgive her and God will forgive you" got me ballin man, wow thank you.

@ProgressOverPerfection7 5 жыл бұрын

Anger is an emotion and emotions are normal. The Bible says in your anger do not sin and everyone should be slow to be angry and quick to listen. It doesn't say don't be angry.

@1stwonder788 2 жыл бұрын

We have human anger, it’s all about us when we’re angry

@williamhaska1703 3 жыл бұрын

I just took a trip from Detroit to Calif. to go to the men's forum and his church. It was amazing. Jesse message allowed God to change my life. Thank you Jesse. You are truly my brother from another mother. All my love Bill.

@tOOballs 5 жыл бұрын

This is legit . I was in a bad way for 40 years . I did this , now I'm much better ... Jesse the man!

@Iburn247 6 жыл бұрын

I needed this. I need to forgive my mother as well. Jesse makes so much sense I could listen to him all day

@kirillmetodiev 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you Jesse! You changed my life!

@johnathanbolin5539 Жыл бұрын

You become who you're angry with! That hit me hard

@HMTWORN 5 ай бұрын

Me too.

@jengandy78 6 жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed this one! ❤

@wassupg3768 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Jesse. For the first time in my life i see where all my aggressiveness en fears come from. It never made sense to me, cause i always feel regret when those feelings arise. For the first time i see it for what it is and found de courage to go speak to my mom. I wrote her a message after years and years and the next step is to face her. I already feel so much lighter. Never knew the burden of resentment was giving me so much pressur. Time to really face the forgiveness i feel towards her. P.S. the silent prayer helped me to clear a lot of things.

@marcuspowell348 3 жыл бұрын

This is actually amazing after I set and thought on it if I be honest most of the things I hate about myself my mother was like that I hate I'm always worried what ppl think about me I hate I'm a ppl pleaser I hate I'm always pernoid of other humans that they might can't be trusted I hate that I'm insecure sometimes and when I think about it my mother was all of that she wasn't a mad black woman in my case though my mother was very nice but she was all of them things so I just prayed to God to give me my own identity back I forgive her and I understand why she had carried these things because I currently carry them but I no longer want to carry them and I want to be the man God intended on me to be I don't want my identity to be my mother's especially the parts that I hate about myself this is deep but u really have to open your mine and be honest with yourself for me I'm not forgiving her because I hate her I forgive her because she gave me the bad parts of her unknowingly and I just want to be returned to my natural state and identity ....this is deep

@diclick7063 3 жыл бұрын

Is painful when you love your parents and do anything for them, but they know very well they don't like you, I have dream horrible things about my mother, and I didn't believe my dreams and just after a few years, my mother start to become a monster to me, I was so confused and surprised not believing my ears what she said to me, I wish I can understand why she's being like this. please someone tell me what to do about this situation. 🤔

@sonicgauge1 5 жыл бұрын

But what if your mom is an irrational lunatic? Seriously...

@samjones4451 5 жыл бұрын

You still have to do your part to forgive for your own good. And understand her growing up circumstances made her go that way. So before God do your part to forgive.

@zntepicvids 5 жыл бұрын

Especially forgive that mother.

@martiniversen4898 3 жыл бұрын

@@samjones4451 great answer

@know-whats-right 4 жыл бұрын

FORGIVE MAMA.

@tonydavenport100 6 жыл бұрын

hallelujah at last young people pushing back against evil brings so much joy to me to hear them speak like this. perhaps we might win this battle against evil with people like this young people Charles Edward Lincoln Show ► New Athens

@trulylukebtwfortnite4257 4 жыл бұрын

I love you Jesse Lee Peterson God bless you 🙏💞

@smokeybirdman 3 жыл бұрын

I did it Last night forgave my mother and she was filthy. Told me that she didn't bash or burn me with cigarettes so my childhood was fine. And today I feel her wrath on me so it didn't go so well 😂 But now I'm feeling blessed by God and she is better Forgive your mother people

@cw4091 Жыл бұрын

Forgiveness, like Love, is NOT A FEELING. It's a CHOICE.

@civilizedagesabers 2 жыл бұрын

How do you forgive when they are still alive and continue to disappoint you in new ways???

@woozie___ Жыл бұрын

You shouldn't have any expectations of them to set you up for that disappointment. You shouldn't have expectations of *anybody* for that matter, it's not fair to them, just cause they don't do what YOU think they should do. You don't have the right to say they should or shouldn't do something. If they act crazy just let them act crazy, don't react to it (which is probably all they want)

@moonpye9082 Жыл бұрын

Im just glad my mother forgave me for the hell i put her through.

@chadwestra5371 19 күн бұрын

Without a dad around there can be an orphan spirit. Now what we don’t get about forgiveness the offense was not onto us but the lord our God we are to intercede that the father forgive by name of the one offending but problem is we take the offense and begins to pass judgement for the kingdom of darkness. True forgiveness is us asking the father to forgive we are Christ ambassadors.

@ohsensemillathehealingofth7243 6 жыл бұрын

Jah bless Jesse

@benjaminnolanfe 4 жыл бұрын

So simple but so true. Well done Jessie! This message has changed the course of my life.

@qahharmuhammad6230 3 жыл бұрын

As I get older and find out more about myself I am able to see others going through the same even tho they pretend to be perfect or good or superior they make the same mistakes and are not in the seat of judgement rather judging you in order to feel comfortable with themselves

@Your-Ideology-Base Жыл бұрын

What a wise man

@johnatsf1564 3 жыл бұрын

GOD BLESS you 🙏 Jlp

@bham7bh 6 жыл бұрын

Do the same 3 or 4 people come to Jesse's videos to dislike them? Silly..

@waterdog1853 Ай бұрын

Knowing I exist, I know that the same amount of non-existence has to occur simultaneously

@ronaldslimak253 5 жыл бұрын

Jesse you're the best!

@alihigginbotham2451 6 ай бұрын

Jesse your just the best!

@KDBHonda256 4 ай бұрын

Dont wait do it now. I waited until my Mom was just a few minutes from death before i forgave her... I can still feel her hand in mine like if she was still here. God Bless all of you reading this.

@1walkinnlite 9 ай бұрын

Sooo, do you forgive your mother and ditch her? My mother has been gone for 39 yrs…I do not remember my anger against her. However I do know there were times that I had been angry at both my parents but to think back I can’t remember it. I remember instances that I probably was but don’t sense the emotion attached to the instance.

@NoisySheep7 3 жыл бұрын

"You're always with me Jesse" 😅🤣

@douglasrohde298 6 жыл бұрын

Happy Thanksgiving Jesse to you and your family. I hope God blesses you in many ways.

@douglasrohde298 6 жыл бұрын

LUGG NUTT-THE MECHANIC LMAO!! My right wing white neighbors wouldn't find out. I'd tell him to come the back way via the 6ft. privacy fence.

@oscargustaverejlander. 4 жыл бұрын

I've just wrote my list of things to forgive my mother for... It is overwhelmingly long.

@TheDoctornaut 4 жыл бұрын

I did this too. Surprising.

@dustencross357 7 ай бұрын

I love Jesse lee

@johndenver5029 4 жыл бұрын

When i was 10 years old I remember seeing my dad on the local news for a drug bust. At school all the kids laughed and made fun of course. My mother drive me every Sunday to visit him in prison for 5 years, 3 months, and 22 days, even though they were divorced before the shtf. This is the first I've looked into forgive your mother. Just trying to figure out the origins of the anger that's inside of me. Mom or dad? Any thoughts guys? Long time jlp listener, uhmazin

@JacksTestimony 2 жыл бұрын

Father wouldn’t be in prison if it weren’t for mother. Mother needs to be forgiven.

@sergioabloh4937 8 ай бұрын

@@JacksTestimonyuhmazin

@HMTWORN 5 ай бұрын

Not understanding why your mother would need forgiving if it was your dad that went to prison? She seemed to me to be faithful by driving you to visit your dad. Now she played two roles.mom and dad.

@avader5 6 жыл бұрын

Did you do a video on how to forgive your father? What do you do when your father was The Reincarnation of Lucifer? Do you believe that the sins of the father are visited on the children?

@dfgjyt789 2 жыл бұрын

I think I need to forgive both parents. Lord 🙏 help me.

@glowiever 3 жыл бұрын

been overthinking about this. also my brother felt the same. but he needed to forgive both parents lol. nowadays I just tolerate my mother's presence when she comes to see me. just no need to acknowledge and continue my stuffs

@thebigg3638 5 жыл бұрын

Can I forgive my mother and grandmother at the same time in person

@joanaaylward2448 5 жыл бұрын

I'm rooting for ya!

@brianna094 Жыл бұрын

😆 2 birds 1 stone

@TheWordOfTheStreet 3 жыл бұрын

*if you forgive* _(without them doing there part)_ *nothing will change. **_you are just setting yourself up to deal with more abuse.._*

@Analoguebubblebath89 2 жыл бұрын

I do forgive my mother. But I don’t want to associate with her if that makes sense. She’s still very toxic/alcoholic and it brings up bad memories of my past. I forgive her and understand why she does what she does etc But I just want to be left alone

@springsoflivingwater Жыл бұрын

Does this only apply to Mothers or is the same needed for Father's?

@johntaparnell847 Жыл бұрын

Both. Listen to the video.

@HMTWORN 5 ай бұрын

I do not agree with the advice “ have no reaction to your mother”. There needs to be a dialogue of why the disconnect occurred in the first place. The young man speaking doesn’t realize his mother is unaware of his hatred towards her. Perhaps his mother did her best. Perhaps not. Idk. However, healing on both parts starts with a conversation and action and reaction. Emotions are key. I pray this young man found peace with his mom. In Jesus name!

@tonydavenport100 6 жыл бұрын

I sense it deeply . I sense overwhelming evil coming from the earth itself. this is confusing me.I always thought the aliens are coming from out of space but it feels like they're already here, please tell me I'm wrong

@PaddyIrishman 6 жыл бұрын

Tony truth your wrong

@glowiever Жыл бұрын

aliens are djinns, the third kind. they live among us.

@MarinaRina 5 ай бұрын

Can you forgive your parents without telling them?

@aistle2064 Жыл бұрын

It is a scary world we live in, this video was seen by 27k people maybe a little more. Cardi Bs new trash song in less than a week has been seen by more than 12 million people. You can see where the priorities are.

@reg8297 5 жыл бұрын

I don't really believe that once u forgive your mother u won't feel anger what about if her abuse of u caused nothing but abuse relationship s your hole life and your aware you missed out on healthy relationships cause of her abuse of u how after trying to forgive her can u not feel angry everytime your triggered in situations where u see the opposite that people who weren't abused got love instead of abuse I can't understand this

@joanaaylward2448 5 жыл бұрын

It truly does suck :/

@shedlightwholistic5610 9 ай бұрын

Should you forgive step parent mother or father?

@bh9262 5 жыл бұрын

What do you need to forgive your mother for? My father is passed away, and my mother is 85 now...

@AzimJivani 4 жыл бұрын

i can forgive but not forget.

@James15Ramsey 3 жыл бұрын

The guys asking the questions sounds like Zach from the bachelorette

@genxbaddie 4 жыл бұрын

Where do I go to download the silent prayer.

@marcelaparks260 3 жыл бұрын

How do I do this during the pandemic? I live outside of her country.

@brooksfeeback496 3 жыл бұрын

Aeriel Helwani asking questions about forgiving his mom and the next GSP bout

@YewrinePish 3 жыл бұрын

Shit I only watched him shit on Blatts and betas. I gotta watch his sermons.

@Dmitryzakharov 2 жыл бұрын

Isn't going and saying "i forgive/forgave you" a bit condescending?

@peterd3042 2 жыл бұрын

Jesse your videos are showing up less and less in my search results🥵🥵🥵🥵

@tanw.5149 3 жыл бұрын

Whewwwwwwww

@jonathanbanacky5955 3 жыл бұрын

So are you supposed to just ignore your mother afterwards?

@marcuspowell348 3 жыл бұрын

Not really going against it but if everyone is different how will the same formula fix everyone I do certainly do alot of things like my mother but I also had my father my mother did I want point of time wasn't doing that good and I had to live with my father and then we all moved back together again and I never really was angry at her she always was very nice to me but she always seemed like something was bothering her inside that she couldn't get out but not anger she act more sad most of the time and I kinda looked after her once I got older

@true1-1true Жыл бұрын

This man sounds like he still angry with his Mother and shouldn't advise anyone how to forgive

@datboidox 6 жыл бұрын

Jesse Lee Peterson Cleary had MOMMY issue..this is the product of not having a mother's love..nor did his father raise him.. also,he thinks that he's devoid of anger.. that bullshit..

@jacksonbryant3325 3 жыл бұрын

Why can’t we disagree with people without doing condescending Psychoanalysis on the person?

@crystalk9313 2 жыл бұрын

He did have anger and issues with his mother and father until he forgave, then the spirit of anger was taken away from him. He doesn't "think" he's devoid of anger, he IS devoid of that spirit. This is why Jesus instructed us to go and forgive.

@portiasnyder1812 2 жыл бұрын

Lol if both parents are passed away then I cannt talk to them so how do you do that now?

@marcuspowell348 3 жыл бұрын

How to forgive my mom if she has passed on ?

@GnosticCushite 3 жыл бұрын

How do I forgive my parents?

@mightytaco123 Жыл бұрын

The ONLY WAY TO GET INTO HEAVEN IS THROUGH JESUS FOR NO ONE COME TO THE FATHER EXCEPT THROUGH HIM!! All you have to do is have faith in Jesus and he WILL SAVE YOU.

@akshaya6770 2 жыл бұрын

This is just ridiculous!! you are projecting your insecurities and emotional issues on others. Your mother probably was a bad person. Mine isn't.

@lisacartwheel3693 5 жыл бұрын

wish jesse would go back to this. calling people beta, sluts and lesbians sometimes is funny but all the time taints the message imo

@realitytruth5175 2 жыл бұрын

3:20 wow this crazy Jessee def read the power of now

@PsychedelicRug 2 жыл бұрын

My brother forced me to watch this. And it's useless lol. He claims I'm a angry person because I didnt forgive my mom. She's dead. That ended the day she died. Its the people who are alive who treat me like dirt and throw me under the bus. This video is for some people. Not for me

@1stwonder788 2 жыл бұрын

that’s why you’re telling us all this, you’re only convincing yourself my friend

@woozie___ Жыл бұрын

Why do you think people treat you like dirt? How do you think they should treat and what gives you the right to tell them how to act? Do let them affect you?

@juliannkretonn4623 Жыл бұрын

Forgiveness helps you. Maybe the person you forgive doesn't care. Maybe they can't physically reciprocate the Forgiveness. But choosing not to forgive only hurts you. Do it because it's true, not because it will help you