Mieshia Dyches chills

Oml

Yes! Back when this first came out I was dating someone who did similar stuff and caught me at a very vulnerable time in my life. Smh

damn rt this song so really real!!

Mieshia Dyches "chills"

hellooooo I don't think people really understand how gifted she really is

+Dewey Raines can a freestyle be written down and then performed?

NirvanaDreamin Yes. Freestyle doesn't necessarily mean it's off the top of the head.

then what is a freestyle?

Tox.sick im guessing it was the notes she chose to sing

Oh i always thought it had to do with keys wanting to fight the dude for cheating on her

i overlooked that bar..... when she said cheated with someone who took advantage I thought she meant the current bf was the one she cheated with then got in a relationship with and she didnt mean to hurt her ex.... interpretation is a helluva thing huh

One of the most underrated artists. Her voice is amazing lyrics are great also.

I think this is happening to me

When you realize it’s a freestyle. She just came with the whole situation in her head at the moment. Magic.

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decade my nigga ?

^^^^^^^^ 😭😭😭😭😭😭

King kAS For reaaaal

The decade? Bitch where😂😂😂😂. Its still a good song though lol

PrettyBeautification so true 😩

AMEN TO THAT

PrettyBeautification bro exactly

😥 story of my life

Feel like all I've been doing is crying buckets of tears for the longest. Pssh. These dudes aint shit.

Sameeee

Felt felt felt that. Cos that really happened to me😪😪😪😪😪😪😪

Deadass :((( same ugh it hurts

Same here😭, had just lost my dad

You know Sean actually mentioned that too in his feature with queen naija in they hate our love. 👀 This song was definitely about Sean because he said he was there when her brother was dying

If you listen closely yo the lyrics sound like she left a nigga for a nigga. That’s called karma

💙

that part hits too hard 😭

Stuck😭😭😭

Felt it oh so personal

Bigperiodt

She also used him?? do u even listen to the song

Naturally Lynn Lol, she was sleeping with a man who was with his bm and she had a bf he found out she left him. & side dude bm bust in one day and caught them.

^No. She left her man to be with someone she thought was worth it. Also a BM isn't a relationship lmao. You literally will always be BM and BD to someone you had a kid with, sounding stupid with that... She did fuck up though being in a relationship and doing that, both were messy but the point is she thought the guy was worth the risk/chance. But he was just using her instead. So she lost in all regards. So she's an asshole for cheating but the guy's an asshole for leading her to believe leaving her man would mean they'd be properly together.

Wow. Exactly.

Bad taste in men.

Yu are mi.. With all the emotions😂 and acting it all out in my head.

🤣🤣

me too 👀, this sounds like a problem lol 🤣😂

🗣️❤️💐

Yes a break up now

I love how the music video only focuses on her and they didn’t show the male actors face.

Exactly 💯💯💯

kaiasia boyer gold fish memory.

kaiasia boyer same here

kaiasia boyer swear

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kaiasia boyer fr tho

Ik!!! My favorite line!

Dasha And Co. FELT THID

Also “If this was not love, then please tell me what was it?”

The way that she sang love was the best!

@@meeladsamadi lp

wow i have never looked at it like that, that was deep .

Sounds like a good interpretation to me.

Yep, I gathered the same thing pretty much too when I listened way back when.

You broke that down so well.

Or Marquis was a good guy n she fucked up

Forever_ Evolving_ she said I wasn’t the only one not I was

Girl I feel u ♥

💯💔

Im late but i am currently ecperiencing this and it sucks in the worst way

Tyra Johnson hell yeah

Tyra Johnson word

Tyra Johnson Amen.

Tyra Johnso

facts !

Yes

Istg . But I don’t think she wrote it . I think it’s a actual freestyle

Definitely, very good point

Me too, my favorite part of song

Yesss she went all out!!!

Acoustic

Agreed!!!! I was into it but when the beat changed I was lik

yeah me too. hits my heart.

okay? LOL...

i hate sad music

if that makes u feel some type of way listen to for my brother by her

therealimlikewoa sorry for your lost

“I was so weak then, and you proved it.”

❤💯

Yessss!!!

actually you do

Tezzlena1x06 O, ok

***** *cough cough* August Alsina too

^^august alsina is a bubble gum r&b singer , justin biebers album went harder than his

I came back to this song for that part. Narcissistic men never loved you, youre just a means to their end. It was all a lie.

Love this entire song but that part hits me every single time!!!

Literally read this while she was singing the same words

Best advice is that noone can take the piss out of u if u dont let them, listen to ur brain instead of ur heart, stop letting a feeling u feel for someone to be more important than how u feel towards urself

Lust

Idk smh

Agreed!

All the people who speak real shit is underrated

I don't think she's underrated...

Love her voice... real shame though; awesome voice; she’s so old school, and the very best of👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

Silvia Mendes she is thooooo doesnt have the spotlight like the big names cardi etc

Sharon Davis you're right...I'm agree!!!

Lol

Most def

True

💯💯💯

Okkkaaayyy 😂

😢😢

42893alison and they always promise th3y they wont hurt you.. liar!!!😤💔

Nicole Holder yesssss🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

42893alison it hurts

Or when they laugh about it in your face. ☹️😢

She's telling a story! That's what she does with her music! You need to listen to ALL her music and then judge. Or at least listen to more than just this song! Her albums always tell a story

same

I know

Like seriously

Man.. 💯💔

Yes 💯

true

star bevolo dealing with this now ...

@@taylorh2967 I'm sorry hun :( . I hope everything gets better 💗.

star bevolo thanks it’s been a few months since I’ve lost mine so this song represents it oh so well ❤️

I literally cry every time she says that part.

star bevolo facts I was so damn sad

Dainty Dacia this.

Good words

2 abusive relationships, toxic as poison. Suicidal was the end result. But then i found my worth in Jesus christ. Hes the one and only man who will remain faithful, even in death.

Been there. Never thought I’d end up dealing with a narcissist. Long story short they are toxic and will put you down and bring you back up just to do it all over again with no remorse or regrets. He saw every flaw he had in himself in me because of his own insecurities and guilt. And that was a part of the cycle. It went from perfect to bad to worst without anything happening. And to top it all off I lost our son at a week old due to his “bad habits “🤷🏾‍♀️, while for all of six years I was dating him while he was single and chasing everybody else....no matter how much you think someone is there for you always ❤️ yourself first and harder. Everybody isn’t worth it....

Needed that

Lydia that part BECAUSE THEY KNOW!

Lydia ,💯💯💯

Yess

Why was i listening to that excact part when i read this . 😢

Very beautiful message. I was touched when reading this and I needed to read that for sure I really believe your comment was meant for me. Thank you for sharing such wise words. Very well said. God bless you!

Thanks...it hurts so bad this ending of my bb dad of 11 years...the lies cut deep...

@@andreabartlett6160 u bak with him??

Yes but we shouldn't normalize countless heartbreaks. We need to grow and learn from it to not repeat otherwise its a bad toll on your health.

You can only have one heartbreak in a lifetime, other's are merely disapontments

I love her so much

SAME !!

+Destinee Colvin Girl did you just respond to your own comment??

she was talking to bullwinkle

yess$s$

Stronger = Crazy.

+Eddie S all we ask for is honesty

I've not even kidding, legit listened to this song 90 times, maybe more...

nah when I first heard it I had it on repeat & cried to it lol

your right! it changes a mans thought of Mind soul and characteristics

TAKUMI FUGIWARA

Absolutely for real

BrocksHampton 💯💯💯

BrocksHampton fr 💯

Blue

Blue

Sooooo tru

yeeeeeeeeesss

This made me lol. Why can't I be like this.

+Ebony Walter TF lol i love this comment

+Ebony Walter TF Real Talk girl! you gotta shed them tears in order to grow move on and remind yourself of the Queen you are!..

👏🏽🙌🏽💯

Facts

Purtisha Wood Man 💔

Fr took a break from her for a long a$$ while but lookie here, I'm back

You right...

💔💔💔💔

😔

Thank you King!!

thank you king!!!!!!! you deserve the world .

Preach

Round of applause 👏🏾👏🏾

Oh God

Luba Makwelo Because this generation is only about butts. I'm sorry man... I just don't want to be in this generation anymore.

Lana Rose

Luba Makwelo "Pose to Be" has a great dance beat, a subject matter of degrading women, lyrics loved by many of today's young people and the collaboration of 3 (make that 2) of today's hottest artists each with their own very large fan base. I would not be surprised if the song won an award next year.

so true. i love jhene's real songs

+Lana Rose me too.. at least you be you and love what u love. not what the massa wants you to love

💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔🤬

No, we’re still out here! 💪🏽

Completely destroyed 💔

Wow lol 😎

Yall should stop cheating and it wouldnt be RIP

Mohau Haukiie Mafolo thee truest lyric in this entire song

Me as well 💯💯💯

😂😂😂😂😂😂

😂true

Yes!!!!! Ahah lol I'm saying tho lol

Dulce Bernal a b

girl you aint never lied!! im sitting here listening to all the words like DAMN I WANNA KILL HIM!

100

Lmaooo truu

Listen to this with earphones, it reaches your soul... = go viral today with get mad hits to ANY video!

It would just be fukkin stupid lmao... All a smart guy would do is take yo ass to court and force you to pay for it all... Gawd forbid the guy was the soruce of income... Now you broke, paying shit tons of $$$ for damages, AND yo income gone

Sorry to say this, but your comment isn't funny. Someone had to say it :)

spoo man people interpret it in a personal way. I love her as an artist so I always listen to her lyrics. Without honesty and good lyricism a song is pointless.

Karma is real

@@Lovergirl44 yesss you get what you put out into the world

Umm where is the she cheated part...

Casey Walker ‘Cause that night turned into every weekend and Every weekend turned to every evening You took me out and left me in the deep end then Quis found out and then I had to leave him 'Cause I couldn’t be the one to hurt him Plus I thought you were the one so it was worth it I had to listen again too! Never picked up on that. Love when a person is lyrical like this

Right.... 😟

me too

I've actually been told that love is the most irrational feeling. Perhaps we shouldn't strive for feelings of love from someone because it makes us act a fool but we should look for safety and stability in someone first..

+Eva Sanchez Very true. Preach.

We should find those things within. I've been married thirty-six years an have been cheated on. But I gave him another chance. I still went to God so i could heal. First. I had to come to terms on a of. Didn't matter about him see. Cause I just be whole.

But look who's here😢😢

Regina Patrice Damn that's deep as hell yo..

I'm here.....shit😟😠

Forever_ Evolving_ to late 😒

But lookie here I am 😒

Halleluja to that!

Exactly

me2

Coconut Bay Resort crazy right!!!

Give it time 😈

@@infiniteepoch8 did you hear the part where she said " I thought you were the one so it was worth it"? They both did wrong, that doesn't mean she doesn't have the right to be hurt. She took a risk because of a lie and ended up losing it all, all at the same time. She made a mistake, that is exactly what she's saying. She also said "really we should have just ended it" and several " I should have never". This song is filled with her emotions and experience, both her own and her cheaters wrongdoing.

@Joep GTAS and I second that btw

@@infiniteepoch8 You don't have to feel sorry for her. And she has realised her mistakes, that is what the song is about. You see, when someone makes a mistake but are blissfully unaware of it because they are emotionally unavailable is one thing. But She is aware of her mistakes, she regrets and she owns up to it. This song is part "outrospect" *and* part introspect. That is where the pain lies. Retrospect is one of the most powerful perspectives we have, and she is taking the time to look back and learn from her mistakes and to own up to them. She is facing her mistakes, sharing them with us at the same time as dealing with it privately - that is actually a pretty bold move. She doesn't want us to feel sorry for her, she is simply sharing her pain and her regret. If anything I think she wanted to get it out more than she wanted to create a "piece". If you can't feel sorry for her (which you don't have to) try to see the beauty in that she is actually reflecting over the situation instead of shying away from it. Sorry about the rant it just interests me so I get a bit engaged, but I'm not trying to argue with you or anything so that is clear, I'm just talking about it with you :) (just feel like I have to say it so yiu sont get the wrong idea and get too fired up as people on yt do sometimes)

I think she did a misjudge of character. She fell in love with someone eccentric then and there because she was hurting and she [may have] thought that the love between them would wash away the pain because it seemed so real, new and exciting that she finally had other things to focus on. But then when he turned out to be a dick, she realised how much of a dick she was too (which she completely missed until that point as she was high/drunk on a fantasy) because she did Keys completely wrong and basically became the same kind of person that screwed her over. I think she is thoroughly ashamed of her actions. In some way she might feel like she got what she deserved, but in a different way I think that is a retrospect thing. Before all this happened, she was in love, she thought she was safe and she moved on from Keys, which often happens in love if someone is not the right one. So even though she betrayed him, she was in a difficult situation too and didn't know how to handle it which made it all a big mess. I think in the moment she thought she deserved "real love" because she didn't feel that with keys anymore so she thought she would get that from this other man. But he ended up being everything she thought she wasn't and then, after it's all too late, she realised that she is the same to Keys that this man is to her. I think that's what made her make the song in the first place, explaining what lead to this point in her life, explaining what hurt, what she thought would happen, what happened and didn't in addition to her own mistakes because she realised she thoroughly screwed up. I don't think she feels bad for cheating on Keys as much as she feels betrayed by herself for making the wrong choices, handling it poorly and making rash decisions which in turn hurt Keys. She definitely feels bad for him, you can hear it in her voice when she says the lines about him, but I think she doesn't feel like she deserves to say that she's sorry or to go more into that subject because she knows he doesn't wanna hear it. She definitely feels like she got what she deserved in retrospect, but more as a consequence of herself handling it poorly rather than because of her being a "cheater". If she would have broken up with Keys, told him what's up and had a real conversation about it that would still hurt but at least he would have felt more respected than he did when e had to find out himself. I think she is ashamed of her actions but I think that feeling speaks louder than getting what she deserved, because in the end everyone deserves true love and for her to be driven to this point shows that she was not Keys' true love in the first place so their relationship was destined to end regardless - the big factor is how it ended which she is definitely mad about. But what was she supposed to do? Stay in a relationship with someone she didn't fully love and deceive him that way instead? Pretend to be a perfect match for him but eat herself up from the inside? I think that in the long run, that would have made her deserve far worse than trying to listen to her heart, even though her heart was making her blind from the reality of the person she was in love with.

I'm glad I could contribute to your understanding of the complexity of these things :) I think most people in these situations, regardless of gender, have a lot of things leading up to and to deal with regarding these things and I think if we were better at asking people what's going on or putting more thought into these things regardless of what we think of it before we judge we could promote to a more fair and just way of dealing with these things as people who find themselves in these scenarios usually already have a lot of turmoil to deal with. I think the go-to way of dealing with it is often "you got what you deserved/you deserve to get bad karma from this" or "I want to get revenge on you because you should feel as bad as I do" when in reality it's often no need for such harsh and blunt reactions as the person is already going through enough even though we feel like they deserve worse. Often we are blinded by how much it hurts because "they hurt me" without realising that they hurt themselves just as much.

Krissy is best friend goals tbh

Lol big ups to the bff

afeefa Valentine What?...

Shelby Swain a year later and still the realist line ever! So relatable

Shelby Swain facts

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That is legit my favorite part of the song 😩❤️

Hii ❤❤❤baby

She should make a whole song out of just that part

I woulda killed a man after a break up listening to this

same

going thru that shit right now.

I second that. One day i was singing so heart my roommate. Was yelling to my room. Girl you better sing. I sung this so hard. I cried everyday to this song.

Laay ❤❤❤❤❤

hell ya

Deandra Shaquanie-Jackson no we don't bc Chrissy would get her ass beat eventually 😂😂😂

Deandra Shaquanie-Jackson what is a crissy?😂

Hvj Ly referring to the line 'Shout-out to Krissy, that's my bitch 'cause she tells me everything'.

Fadi Ohh right, thanks😂