I’m sure you’ve likely heard the sad but not surprising news that JLo and Ben’s new marriage is already “on the rocks,” and they’re living apart.
As someone who married a lost love, and had a quickie wedding in Vegas like they did - I’ve been rooting for them.
I always tell people who want to get back with an ex, the relationship will be EXACTLY what is was like before.
Why? Because you’re still the same people, with the same core ways of being and relating (and the same compatibility or INCOMPATIBILITY written in the stars).
What matters is HAVE YOU IMPROVED YOUR SKILLS and tools for BEING in a relationship? (Which is what saved the day for me and my hubby, and why we are still going strong 27 years later…)
People absolutely do grow and evolve and mature.
But the core of who you are, and who THEY are is set at birth.
And THIS is what’s working against JLo and Ben.
(And I WISH I could get my mitts on her to give her some serious celestial intel that could make a world of difference and save the day for them, too. If you know her, have her call me! ;))
In their case there are many factors… his “masculine capacity” and her “feminine capacity” are both low. (The Sun weak in his chart, the Moon weak in hers… making them have a difficult time in romantic relationships with ANYONE.)
He has the chart of a sensitive introvert who’d love his privacy, and she has the chart of a powerhouse who holds a ton of authority and loves attention.
They have the same Sun sign which fosters a feeling of familiarity and contributes to their bond, but ultimately creates “two kings in one castle” and, therefore, power struggles.
But their biggest issue comes down to ONE thing… (and it’s what’s rumored about in all the tabloids).
See a little video I made about it here, with the advice I’d give JLo (that EVERY woman needs to know to keep ANY man loyal and living in the same home long-term, no matter his stars…).
And if you’d like to know if a man has enough “masculine capacity” to bring out your best, and if you have enough “feminine capacity” to receive a great man and keep him coming back for more, check out the “Capacity Report” here: www.soulmatestars.com/relationshipcapacity.
And to determine if you and the man (or men!) you’re wondering about have a healthy balance of power or if one of you will always feel squished and unhappy, check out this and so much more in your compatibility here: www.soulmatestars.com/rightmanreport.
I sincerely wish Jennifer and Ben well, and hope that whatever happens, they have no regrets.
Wishing YOU “high capacity” love on YOUR terms!