No one ever truly understands another person. I think once I let go of the idea that I can't control the way people perceive me I started to stop changing how I presented myself. You're right. We are never truly ready, but we can decide when we want change. Not everything is up to the universe to decide our fate. Things don't always just...happen. I used to pride myself on being very observant to other peoples behavior and emotions. I think that I've come to understand people better now that I don't really expect anything from them. We are not predictable creatures. Life isn't meant to be mundane. Good video as always. All the shots were very beautiful. This is the closest I get to being vulnerable so uh, thanks.

I have come to realize that maybe we’re not so afraid of getting hurt, but afraid that once another person sees us for who we really are, they won’t love us enough to stay. Which is why it’s so important to love yourself, you stop looking for validation and wait for right connections:)

"we allow things to be temporary" is so true, especially in our generation where commitment is feared and our idea of relationships is so influenced by the media and what we see online, and no one is willing to take the time and energy to get to understand each other emotionally and get to know them, which is why no one wants to be in a relationship these days.

This made me tear up. But frankly speaking, I've been tearing up and crying a lot lately. I guess that's what happens when you start to change little by little, learn certain truth about yourself - the truths that you've been ignoring for a long while - and slowly letting go of the concepts that have been a part of you for years, if not decades. Romantic relationships are kind of...a sore qound of mine. I'm 29 and I've never dated anyone. Never even been kissed. I keep wondering what it feels like. To experience that sort of connection with someone. I've been obsessed with love ever since I was a teenager or maybe even earlier than that. I've always hoped that something will happen for me. I've always waited for it to happen. But now I finally admitted to myself that I don't really know how to connect with people; I'm trying to learn how to do that now. I've always had a lot of expectations of other people - and of myself. I've adopted a lot of concepts about romantic love from movies, TV shows and books...But now I'm starting to to recognize that fiction is quite far from real life. And I've only been attached to concepts of people - I've never really learned how to love and appreciate people as they are. But I'm trying to do that now. The fact that I've never experienced what the majority people have experienced - romantic relationship and everything that comes with it - often makes me feel like...I'm broken. That there's something wrong with me. That I'm unlovable. But I also realize now that maybe I want to perceive myself that. It's the truth that I've accepted about myself at some point and I've been confirming over and over again. So, now I'm trying to unlearn it. Sorry for this brain dump and thank you so much for the video. It's really beautiful and moving.

After my last relationship I never wanted to find one. I’m ok without one but what hurts me is when I do find someone I do genuinely like and care about and I do want to be in a relationship they don’t want one. But it is what it is. That just means it wasn’t right for me. And I need to accept and let go. It hurts but at the end of the day I will always have myself

Putting here a piece of life lesson that I've received from one of my good teacher and friend. 'Never give your 100% to anyone. Live by the 10% rule.' (this is not some life hack, but sth so simple & practical to keep your mental health in check.) How to live by 10% rule?: Rather than living for just one thing/person, give your heart for multiple aspects of your life, Say, you give 10% for your family, 10% for friends, 10% for your lover, 10% for work, 10 for passion, 10 for movement, 10 for your community..or whatsoever. Here, even if you lose that one person/thing, you won't be losing all your heart. There are still others/ other things you love and care about that you can cling on to. Doesn't know whether this works out for everyone. However it's been working well for me. Let me know your opinion.

I'm turning 18 soon and struggling. it feels like i have the burden of the world to carry. these videos feel like a hug , thank you for creating them

I'm scared of sexual contact. I was abused as a child and I also saw my mom being abused. I want to feel like my body belongs to me and I need to work on that first. Idk, intimacy is terrifying

I needed this. I higly think that nowadays relationships are influenced by media, people dont want to get to know each other. Idk about you guys but even though i sometimes feel lonely, but i admit that relationships aren't my thing.

your channel is so comforting to me. life's been weird the last couple of years and I'm not even an adult yet. this video in particular brings me so much peace. I have this great fear of any and all forms of intimacy and especially for the attachment that might come afterwards. I don't have people in my life with whom I feel like I can talk about stuff like this. in the rare moments when I feel like I want to, i simply don't have the words or my anxiety pressures me to stay silent. everything's so overwhelming and overpowering. somewhere maybe on tumblr I've seen a post that deeply resonated with me and still does at the moment - "I wish everything was quieter and softer and less often". I think your videos are exactly this. and you're helping me understand myself a bit more. I'm so glad I found you :)

Goosebumbs from your use of music, well-paced montage and nonchalant narration. It's like holding something warm, fragile and powerful in your hands. Have a heartwarming day :)

"which story would you prefer bringing to life?" so good!!

this is such a good video. we're fed with idealized versions of relationships of celebrities that barely make it a year, yet we hold it to the standard of forever. love is cheesy but it is what it is! the media makes us feel like if we're missing something we'll always be incomplete. but truly, if we are out of touch with love or purpose, we must find it; not in instagram stories or 15 second videos, but in the people we know and care for. i think that's why most of us see love as all or nothing, when really if we look around us, there is love everywhere we go. love isn't just a kiss or a hug, love is a part of ourselves we are willing to see in others. as a young person i feel pressured to find "the one" when i haven't even found myself. our missing pieces are room for change and only when we receive love from ourselves can we understand how to love everyone else.

Turned 18 in April and starting college in August. Terribly overwhelmed atm. Thank you so much for this video. The unknown aspects of a relationship and being vulnerable are very frightening to me. I think I have to learn to be more comfortable with myself in order to cope with this fear.

im shocked by the way in which this video both comforted me and gave me the wake up call ive been needing at the same time. the advice that you would’ve given your 18/19 year old self-am i just trying to win them over or am i having authentic interactions from a place of love and giving-hit me hard. i fantasize so often about having the beautiful love story that is romanticized in the media that im never not expecting it, never not craving it. and the more time passes, the more desperation i feel. but when i let these feelings of lack consume me as a deep feeler, not only do i over analyze every small interaction i have, but it rids these experiences of its genuineness. ive been in a slump for the longest time and falling back into my old self-conscious patterns, but somehow this 7 minute video brought me out of it. beautifully created and well-spoken, thank you

i cant believe your channel is as small as it is considering the quality and how much hard work you put into your videos! your channel gives me so much comfort and lets me forget lifes struggles for a second, thank you so much for that

after watching this video, i can say that it pretty much sums up what i'm feeling right now with a special relationship. thank you, thank you so much. you have my gratitude for being yourself and expressing yourself honestly, vulnerably, beautifully - cuz then i get to understand myself on an honest and vulnerable level. especially when pointing out the "Attachment" issue. the way this video was shot and created (with a hint of vintage), the prose-like voice over, the shots of ordinary life - helped me calm down and immerse into the feelings that your video brought out. thank you, for choosing to present it in this way. i don't want to "like" this video, cuz i'm just tired of reacting to things on the internet. but, i want to express my thanks and love to you, the content creator, for the beautiful and enlightening impact that your video has on my present moment. "the internet era" ushers in a whole new way of living, and we are learning how to react to it, to find ourselves within this brave new world. sending love and my best intentions, c.

Your video came across my recommended section and I am so glad it did. First off the calmness of the video, the shots and conversations on self love and relationships is very gratifying and amazing to hear!

finding videos like this from beautiful channels like yours is so cool

Gosh this is therapy. And yea, I too feel the same thing you told about podcasts. Great video. Much love to you!

your videos are so comforting

This is so peaceful and comforting !! Thank you for making this video :)

rewatching this. it feels so calming and i feel happy and contented after watching it. thank you, very much.

I loved this video, I really appreciate you making it and sharing it for us to enjoy! Great take on connections and the fear of emotional involvement that doesn’t just have to be romance. There’s room for confusion or deep friendship, and not just black and white decision and realities

your video gives me the peace and confidence to go and spontaneously open up with how im feeling with people whom i have special relationships (friends who i value, mom, dad). as you said, we can't ever be 100% sure whenever we're starting a relationship - i've resonated with that, and it has freed me to express myself and being aware and being at peace with my anxious little bubble. i've started voice recording my thoughts to these special people, whom i know will listen, and not feel like it's a nuisance, and appreciate it.

AHHHH MY FAVORITE PERSON ILYYYY this definitely gave me something to think about and i'm glad you posted this because this particular topic has been on my mind for a while and it's really nice to hear it organized this way

this is crazy, so well crafted. I wished I could have listened to this sooner but I'm glad the universe put it in my path to listen to. I genuinely screamed when the video ended I wanted more 😂 it was made to a quiet subtle perfection like the first raindrop of spring. thankyou for this gem

you're so comforting. i enjoyed listening to you :) and your way of seeing the world is beautiful. ❤

Just came across your channel today. Your thoughts on topics are so comforting, makes me feel less alone. Thank you🤍

Mmm. This was a comforting watch. I was meditating earlier and was asking the universe how I should go on about someone that I like because the stuff online about romance confuses me so much (which is why I try to avoid them). I've learned to be fearful whenever I catch myself liking someone - it's not natural for me, as an expressive person, to suppress my feelings and try not to show my interest and attraction to soneone I like. But really, what a liberating feeling it is when you find the courage to let them know. It was a huge weight off my shoulders, and I finally felt human again.

i felt so warm and cozy listening to this ❤ sooo relatable all of it btw🥹✨

Your videos are so peaceful It feels like a safe space where everything is very relatable You showcase the reality,the vulnerability of life so accurately. Please never stop making videos and documenting these emotions I love to visit your channel time and again,and I’m hopeful for more videos from your side Love, From India

So much comfort and aesthetic in one video

This was edited amazingly and It was a nice comfort to watch this. Your voice over is like the cherry on top, it’s what puts it together. I don’t necessary have a fear of relationship, but I do prefer being alone now ever since my ex left me for a widow. That situation felt too real and too grown up for me as I’m only 18, I didn’t think I was in the same category for a married woman. It’s been four months now and I’m graduating high school, I’m very proud of myself. Them leaving me pushed me to do a crazy amount of work load and now I get to celebrate graduating on time with my graduation class and celebrating with my friends. I learned I can move on and not rush into anything, I get to do everything on my own terms and conditions. I’m not sure if I’ll ever seek out another relationship again as that process and being cheated on is very traumatic. I left social media and only talk to the people in my house hold/ occasional friends but I’m happy. I’m very happy and I get to have a lot more peace within myself as I focused on what is in front on me

you dont know how much you truly comforted me. :((♡

I rarely comment,i didnt even finish it yet,couldn't but let you know how amazing this video (filming,as well the content) .i relate so much and the way u put it made me feel understood and trust that does not happen more often. Thank you wherever you are ❤.

I’m obsessed with your editing style and the way you speak in this video, I’m definitely going to watch others after this

This video exceeded my subconscious expectations, i felt so understood while watching. Thank you for sharing your perspective, i look forward to seeing more from you

Thank you for your thoughts and beautiful filmmaking and editing ❤

So much wisdom and beauty, I’m in complete awe.

Thank you for these warm and comforting videos , I really love to watch your videos please keep making more, we really appreciate your effort . 💗

this video is complete art, my eyes thank you for making this masterpiece

I really liked the concept of this video, like, love can be amazing, but if we don't know how to love it can also be harsh. Taking our time, learning to be patient, and knowing our surroundings is good. Also because romantic relationships are not the only relationships that exist, friendships are amazing too in the process of knowing yourself and waiting for things to happen :)

my god, this video is like nothing I've ever watched on youtube, I love it. Thank you for being so vulnerable

You’re so talented. This video feels like an indie film, and your thoughts are so similar to my own. Please keep making content, you’ve gained a new subscriber!

I absolutely love your videos!! They always help me reevaluate my thoughts. Please post more lol!! I love itttt

love myself and help others too

This is profoundly beautiful and really resonated with me. Thank you for creating

Thanks, it helps to know not being the only one who feels that way. Needed to hear those words, made me see things differently.Thank you!

thank you for your insight on these topics, i learned quite a few things from you. that little paragraph you read from tiktok prompted some emotions to rise for some reason. i've felt very alone recently, misunderstood, i guess, but this video made me feel seen, so thank you for that (loved the style of video btw)

Just watched this at a moment when I needed to hear those words, thank you.

Omg I've waiting for your new content I've watched your other videos multiple times! Thankyou ❤

There it comes why I love and respect my religion and beliefs a lot, it's forbidden to date until you're ready for mariage and your intentions are clear for funding a family and wanting peace . By the way I really love the peaceful takes on this vid , keep it up 🤍

Hmm… I keep watching this video nonstop and it has made me realize that I have to unlearn so many things in order for me to be at peace with myself specially about love, I’ve always had this idea that constantly texting, calling etc means the person is interested in me that if they don’t constantly do that they don’t love me or are interested in me, I’m slowly coming to terms to accept that it’s not always that way, love doesn’t mean what we know nowadays love is unexpected; without terms and conditions, being constantly glued to a phone to know about someone’s day or life. Love is about how you feel when you think about this person, how you feel when you see this particular person and how your soul reacts to them.

this is so beautifully crafted. thank u for sharing w us :,)

Just had this video pop up in my recommendations, I'm glad it did :) !

Loved every minute of this 🤌🏾

I honestly was scared that I wasn’t going to like this video, but I ended up watching and enjoyed it soo much💗😆 your style was everything and the points you brought up helped me think a little better about relationships and love in general.

You are so incredible Your videos make me feel less anxious and safe Thanks you a lot Keep on doing it ❤

warmest video ever

love everything about this ♡

To answer your final question: the one i can truly live ♥️♥️ thank you. This was both incredibly aesthetic and peaceful to witness but also a very important thing especially for this generation to hear

The Melancholy this video portrayed was just on point. Cheers mate.

your voice and videos are really comforting

That was soo beautifully atmospheric, I feel inspired. I love listening to other ppl's train of thoughts ^-^

thiss iss reallly well shot and you have a very nice voicee

JNNYLO IS EVOLVING🔥🔥🔥

I love watching your videos keep making them they're really good and cinematic 💯

I found your channel accidentally and thank god I did. The insights are so profound and meaningful. Keep up the good work ❤

Great video man, thank you so much for sharing. Related to this a lot as i’m sure a lot of other people here have.

I’ve been feeling a lot of this over the past year. I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years last year, and since then I’ve been feeling so strange. Its been almost a year now since then and part of me wants to find that connection with someone again, but the other part of me hates dating apps and how they make me feel. But then I also feel as though that broadens your chances of making a connection, and otherwise aren’t you just relying on chance? And anyway, why do I even put myself through it when I could be happy alone? The whole thing is so confusing.

omg this is so beautiful :) Pure art

this is awesome! don't stop

Never related to a video so much and it’s crazy how god has highlighted these two things two me constantly these past days through different forms but it’s time that I let go of fear and just love regardless of how many times I’ve been hurt. I have issues with vulnerability because of so much trauma sometimes I don’t know how to be vulnerable only with god.

This is so beautiful.

I love your videos please post often

new fav channel

wow, this was too good!!! wtff

I don’t know what to say other than, yes and thank you for sharing.

This channel is so underrated I'm not okay with it. This channel deserves all the recognition. I'm so glad I came across this ch. These vids make me feel so peaceful n grounded no matter whatever ur saying,the way u say it n ur choice of words,so simple yet so beautiful n i cant describe what kind of a cinematographer ur,the vid qualities r 100/10 too. Overall it's not a vid,each is a piece of art that reflects ur soul. Thank u so much for making these,can't wait for more...

I needed this:) thank you!:)

Love that my yt recommendation brought me here♡☆

Thank you so much for your video. I am a new subscriber and I am glad I found you. Your video really pulls at my heart strings.

this is inspiring, man. thanks.

Getting cheated on really mess up your confidence and trust..thanks needed this 🙏

I just found you and after watching this well edited video I immediately smashed that subscribe button 💓🦊

Another beautiful video your videos help a lot thank you ❤

The La La Land scene omg you gotta be kidding. This is so beautiful

A true masterclass video ❤

This is beautiful

I’m glad I discovered your channel :)

You’re very inspiring. Thank you.

Those videos of you are so well constructed, god damn!! Keep it up ^^

Such a beautiful video, with a beautiful message! This really opened my eyes, so thank you :) Also your video graphic skills are amazing, I inspire to one day be able to create something like this too.

this video was a work of art.

I'm glad that i found your channel, keep going

upload more pls it is very comforting

Great video i seen this on my algo and i can relate so much relinships are hard no matter how much effort we put in.

This is a really good video. I like the ending bit like “what story line do you want to choose” and I like the bits about self help and straying away from that later in your life. I used to be super big into the self improvement stuff and always wanted to give advice and be the guy who knows everything. And I felt it took until recently to be real with people and I’m still trying to get out of the daydreaming problems I have especially with crushes like you said. I’m trying to catch myself when I’m daydreaming, and just push my self gently a little to talk to people I’m interested in and see how I am with them in that present moment and enjoy it. But yeah I still get really nervous sometimes or catch myself crafting a response or trying to like optimize my rizz or whateva in those tense feeling moments. It’s definitely a practice. I like how this video kinda made it seem like it was okay to be curious and a learner and that everything isn’t such a big deal that you have to optimize and control. Also I love the shots and music. I’d love to make videos like that, you really put out a good message on kinda letting go of the reigns and it really makes me relaxed thank you for that : )

that was excellent. thank you for making this and sharing it