Same smh

Right. She is self inflicting her pain by still dealing with him after the red flags.

@@livinglife6345 This is a perfect comment. Because her being in this relationship is a *choice*

She 10000%% can do better but I understand once you love someone it’s hard to walk away 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

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You trying to give us alcohol poisoning 😹

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm drunk and I still have 12 minutes to go.

And I'm drunk and dying of alcohol poisoning 🤣

"We needa tawk" 😂

I'm about to dieeeeeeee 😂 😂 why did I try thissssssss uggggh

FACTS!!

I still think Karlie lied about fucking Pooh and her man

@tq231442 Kendra actually checks joc on the regular, but Karlie needs to stay out of it...Karlie is doing it out of jealousy and pettyness..it does not come from a genuine heart..so yes, Karlie needs to be called out, too.

she is lol

Facts

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@Tracey Dumase Banda Exactly 💯

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bw can get all the degrees in the world, they never get educated om the bum ways of blk men.

Facts. I am glad she doesn’t want to have a child with him. She can divorce him but having a child with him is 18+ years with him.

He got several kids, I wouldn't want any with him

Nah it’s not that she just don’t want o be baby mama #6

I would also say Joc is trying to prove something to himself as well. That he can attempt to be faithful and change. ..wouldn't say she should take all the weight

She's pathetic like most women and puts her worth on having a man or not. And he found a woman who will pay his child support.

I love when we hold women accountable. ❤

Exactly 💯

Facts how is Kendra an attorney and such a poor judge of character

@@tmac7734 I'm mad that she's an attorney and we saw nothing in this marriage planning process concerning a prenup. When she brought it up...he kinda talked his way outta it

No, my sympathy jump out the window the momentshe started bragging about her ring to Karlie and acting like she won, cuz at that moment I realized that she's one of those "as long as I'm the one he comes back to/I'm the one that got the ring". At this point she well aware of what she put herself into and she likes to be in that situation.

But the thing is that she was actively being told about his behavior and she still chose to marry him? Like I don’t understand how Kendra could be so naive?

@@thatbeaatcch9884 Idk some people can't be better tbh.

Idky “gigolo joke” is sending me🤣 accurate tho

Exactly, And this is why I laugh at women that have the I could change him mentality. Like girl, Rather you change him or not. What's the point of wasting your time to see

Correct!

Lol I was thinking the same thing. Including her 🤣

I agree is she serious 🤣

Exactly! She is the President of the club!

Did she ever marry that dude? While she sitting up here with her weird obsession over Joc.

And popping out of a cake for him😂

Exactly

Sis you damn right. Joc has proven time and time again he ain’t gonna change

And Monday’s episode prove it

Exactly!!!

All of this!!!!

Whew, you preaching🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 amen sis. You told the whole truth.

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That mf gone come home that shit

“The desperado club.” ⚰️💀 Somebody dial 911. I have died.

She’s a pick me at it’s finest. She’d literally be better off alone, I doubt Joc adds much value to her life.

Some people don't want to accept defeat, too much pride 🤷🏽‍♀️

Strange. And then she lied to The Bams and Erica to kinda save face, cried and everything, 2 scenes later I lied, they were concerned for her.

Make me wonder if is to be in the show!!

Sad case frfr

"That part" Heartbreak and embarrassment. So anything happens she deserve everything she gets.

That part. I noticwd this is a lot of highly educated BW, sadly. 🤦🏾‍♀️

@@ashslay3224 opposites attract

Yeah, I don't care what anyone says. Getting a side baby is a game changer. I could kinda see taking a man back after cheating but there's nothing that should make a woman want to stay after a side baby or an std is brought. Like I honestly don't see how women could work on their relationship after that

@@Jasmiyn123 The fact he got another girl pregnant whether it was on a break or not shows how reckless he is with his peen

@@georgia8592 You think. He has 8 kids that we know of. I like Joc and I pray he do right by her...

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Karlie is a hater!!, like a real life hater. And Kirk has no class at all .

Her professional life with love doesn't have anything to do with her career. If it was so she wouldn't be where she is today.

@@brtitneymissick6610how you’re going to represent authority and decide on peoples life if you don’t have a bit of common sense. I her what you mean but she seems like the kind of person to be overlooking red flags and be driven by emotions. I wouldn’t want her to be judging my case.

I wouldn't let Kendra Judge a talent show, let alone and criminal case

@@brtitneymissick6610 What she chooses to do professionally has a lot to do with her personal life. She has bad judgement in her private life which means she shouldn't go forth and judge people professionally... Where is she today? On love and Hip hop!

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And people are still trying to blame other people for his actions and or making excuses

@@thatbeaatcch9884 Exactly 💯

And her saying “we need to talk”! Lol

@@kishalashawn5542 Yep 🤣 d@mn shame

Sad but true

Omg yes !

She’s to dam successful and smart to be with someone like Joc to be honest

Kountry Wayne is a comedian 🤣🤣

@@keeksm0617 and he came out to be right during that “Joke”

😂😂😂 fr

Very exhausting

That’s because none of this is love, it’s lust and ignorance.

Fr

Why wat happened

No, SHE WILL. This is what drives HER.

It takes time . She's a lawyer. Most lawyers takes time. Just like teachers before they become principals takes time..

She’ll be a judge as long as she stays in Atlanta.

If I was intelligent enough to become an attorney- I definitely wouldn’t be dating someone like Joc and then appearing on a tv show like this

Karlie is so fake SMH

Lol 😂

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💯 I was over here like ikyfl.. 😭

Very wild

Absolutely 💯

Yup, Kendra has all the power in that relationship. She makes all the decisions and Joc won't say no to her because he's guilty for the past or present cheating.

Who wants to raise a man? Send him home.

And do not look back. Lol

The biggest reason not to go back🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️

do not pass go, do not collect $200

People are only as intelligent as the people they surround themselves with. Look at all the women in her circle, which one of them has a faithful intelligent man. Joc doesn't even practice safe sex. He's reckless with his penis, sexual health, and his soul.

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ABSOLUTELY JUST SETTLING FOR THE NEXT NOT BEST THING

We have ALL DONE some dumb ass shit concerning that Good Good 😜 and knew betterr and didnt do a damn thang STOP THE FAKE SHIT , at the time was like yall just dont understand 😂😂😂

If she is settling, how is THAT mature?

Can't stand her. She talk too much. Always trying to act like she above the rest of Jocs women. She's not. Evidently.

Right. It’s embarrassing & he’s not even cute

Exactly

Facts!!!!!!

All mighty dollar

Or for clout...fame etc

Women love drama period..good guys are boring and routine ish

Relistate business

she’s insecure

@@jamesroberts1810 my husband isn’t boring. I definitely break routine. I’m entertaining enough for both of us. We stay at home and have fun.

She loves the pookie and ray rays

Right…. Sounds like they are more of business partners.

@@livinglife6345 Nah, sounds like he'd been lying from jump and she should have seen his desire for secrecy for what it was.

@@diamcole Yeees girl you are absolutely right. He’s been dealing with her for all those years and was a secret. He continued to cheat. He did this whole marriage thing to shut her up. She had me feeling bad once they got married and then the story leaked about joc having a baby but she knew that this whole time smh Kendra set herself up for a lifetime of heartache

I think he wanted to keep her a secret because he was being so publicly messy and didn't want the Joc he is with her to cross over into the dirt he does in the streets. He would not have had to hide her if he just stopped being messy and ridiculous.

When most of us enter our 30s, especially the late 30s, all common sense goes out the window. We settle for less.

@Fee I

@Fee I didn't know he had 10 kids. I thought it was just 4.

@@tracieross9928 He had 4 baby mothers. He had 2 kids with each woman. Now we got this “break baby”. 💀

That's what I said.

I agree with everything u said up until Kendra will be the biggest loser. I get what u saying but she the type that bounce bk quick and dont let no man get in the way of her visions. A go getter. Now Joc, hes never gonna be able to get another woman like her. He will be the biggest loser. Kendra may get hurt but shes been aware of the risk since the beginning, if they break up she ain't losing much but a headache.

All of this will come up to hunt her career.

@@Blessedone642 I get why you'd think this show would hurt her & her career, I agreed when I saw the first season she was on... But now I highly disagree. I'm not really sure why I believe this show & Joc's shenanigans, somehow, have both fully given her a boost but they have.... & Will continue to do so .... It's the notoriety & having Dan's say things like"you should be on your own show your so funny!" "You should be a comedian!" "You should be a fashion designer or model... Whatever" cause they enjoy watching the persons, same pushed on everyone's comments that's even barely famous! 🤣🤣 That's how many celebrities become respected holding very prestigious titles & offices with literally zero training or experience, but also people think they are going to bring a new excitement & get younger generations interested in the subject, like supermodels having biology degrees, thermonuclear degrees & jobs, but those girls actually hold the job & really graduated. But the stems & sciences got a boost in applicants & renewed funding for the attention..... The same thing as Judge Joe Brown, Judge Judy, Judge Lynn Toler & Jerry Springer elevated during & after their shows, some going on to try political offices & aim for Seate, Chairmen of the Board, & other important political offices & candidacies while also being taken very seriously regardless of what shenanigans happened around to make them look awfully while on reality tv! I believe Springer was a mayor as well as holding an assistant lower offer after the show ended but I'm not sure.... Judge Brown ran for mayor but lost due to some scandal election night....

This comment says it all 💯

Why it always gotta be the women the biggest loser lol what she has an entire career

now sis y u got me chokin 😂

Girl I- 😂😂😂😂 not Rasheeda’s twin sister.

Wicked💀

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Right 🤣

Exactly

You can’t blame her for her low self esteem

@@jrose1999 its plenty of men in ATL, who's educated like herself, she thinks she can change him but in the end she'll lose like all the rest of the women who tried.. Speaking from experience!

@J ROSE yes, u can. She could have stayed single. Went to counseling and work on that. Instead she latched on to community peen

Facts!

I think she’s going to get pregnant and he’s going to get tired of her and leave. I think he wants to “humble” her and f up her life by being a single mother.

@@marriejames01 smhh exactly, I hope that doesn’t happen tho but who knows atp 🥴

This !!! She said she needed time and he come proposing in front of her family hoping she forget the other shit and ….it worked

Everyone acted like that proposal was so romantic and it made me cringe. She was upset and didn't want to see him. Hell they weren't even really together and she was going through it emotionally only for him to pull the biggest stunt he could think of just to get her back. The moment he got on one knee it's like she forgot all the hurt.

No she's not.

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soooo many red flags were displayed!

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Right🤣🤣🤣

I was thinking the same thing! 🤔😭👏🏾

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And STILL is because clearly that was "overlap" from the beginning. Kendra knows what she got, she's not going anywhere.

I love how you said that cheatingmony! Your right Kendra knows he hasn't changed! Just because a man gets married doesn't mean he's changed..I'm not saying all men are like that I just saying that some are just like Joc!

@@monicastone3988 yeap. Kendra won't ever leave so long as Joc keeps his shenigans undercover so that she doesn't get publicly embarrassed. That's why she got mad about the baby news getting out. She knows she married a man who has issues with being faithful.

They might as well have an open marriage but this man wouldn't be able to handle it if she was getting her swerve on she don't have kids and this man has a thousand kids and a new I wouldn't be able do it

It’s the cheatingmony for me! I’m gonna add that to my dictionary. I don’t understand why a woman of Kendra’s caliber would let herself get mixed up with Joc.

It’s the cheatingmony for me! I’m gonna add that to my dictionary. I don’t understand why a woman of Kendra’s caliber would let herself get mixed up with Joc.

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He so happy it wasn’t him 😂

Thank you.

Thisssss

Cause she wanted to prove Joc was her man at the engagement party versus at the wedding she had since realized Karlie was still a threat and didn't want her at the wedding

Kendra DID Want Karlie There Tho , Joc Said He Didnt Want Her There 😅

That's the BIGGEST RED FLAG for Kendra. Kendra should've kept it moving then

The way the girl walked off when Kendra came over to get Joc had me hollering 😂

@@Iamcherese no I think she pushed her 😭😂🤣

Right!!! Thanks Vh1 for clarifying it for us! 😉

10-4 lol

How you turn this to a way to make this about bw?? Yall dusties....😂😂😂😂

HELLO!

You aint said not one lie

LMFAO 😅😅😅😅😅😆😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm Weak 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Same thing I’m thinking 🤣🤣🤣

Hot damn mess smh

Shes paying $$$ for his kids while she's childless ..... Joc loves and will always Want Karlie but kendra is the perfect s*x doll/ ATM

Facts !!!!

She was so blindsided by it that she didn’t even know how to respond. That look on her face told everything. Toxic people are good for that.

True that. Now that they can watch the show and see how Stupid and Naive she Truly is.... Who Wants an Attorney like That. .... Where is Kevin Samuels you need him.... oh yea.... 😔RIP KS RIP.... he would've said "your degrees mean nothing! and You chose him" "you knew who he was so why are you complaining now Modern Woman!?"

Exactly

That's not true all these judges that has skeletons in their closet... She might make supreme court judge... 😆

That’s what I’m thinking

Go fix unu life and come out the people them business then quite fine.

That last sentence is KEY! When people show you who they are believe them!

@@LaDominicana33 always!

TRUE. I wouldn’t have been able to marry him. Because having unprotected sex means either you weren’t planning on us getting back together or you just don’t give damn about me.

And that's just the unprotected sex she found out about and only because a baby came from that situation. Who knows where else he put that thing with no condom on.

So he did have another baby with another girl in the new episodes it keep coming up. But it's the girl meda meina idk how to spell her name she got the baby

Lmafo 🤣

Listennnnnnn I was like bish whaaaa😆😆😆😆😆😆

My thing is how was she okay with him cheating on her and she was out doing her as well yet she mad about the baby?? Make it make sense!!

Damn they just got married not to long ago. Please tell me how y’all already need a break tho😂😂☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️😂😂😂. Ain’t no breaks, ain’t no separation. We staying together or divorcing- I don’t do the in between stuff.

Do ya'll believe in breaks in relationships? 😂 for me, I'm genuinely asking it's either ya'll together or ya'll ain't 😂

Yessss rewind it back 😂😂👏🏽

Wait what you mean 😳👀 was Kendra messing around with joc while he was with karlie or sumn?

@@loyalcapricorn1772 There's an interview of her saying they took breaks, so only they really know the timeline; definitely not VH1...LoL

@@ninaangelique4811 but I feel like she just said that like Rasheeda did when Kurt had a baby on her

@@ninaangelique4811 oh ok lol I thought I missed some good tea from the blogs 😝

Or, oops I did it again!😂

@@ybeckom lol right cause she stay pulling him to the side 🤣

*13 kids

@@miabarnett2587 damn!

Naw that’s a stop sign!

Wait he really got that many kids

Wow didn't know how many he had...what a fool. Never would I either. That's too many. How old is his youngest???

Lol she still deserves better

Telling the truth is talking down?

I would love to see her with a doctor or a successful black man that's not in the industry

Well, she chose Joc. Despite her being an accomplished attorney with access to many successful top tier men smh. I don’t feel bad for her.

Physically but is she mentally?

😭😂🤣😅 "take serious "

Mane said “see you can’t even get out, God dont want you to leave” 😂😂😂

that was so funny. and he was genuinely drunk, speech slurred and everything. 😂😂

Yes that part

That's what it seems like to me.

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Right. So disrespectful.

Embarrassing 😭😭😭

More of the reasons why she should've just have fun with him and kept it moving because that was the red flag right there

@@ahavayasharahla9110 exactly

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Right

I'm watching the old episodes and realized that she painted herself as a victim the whole time. Now she's trying to give relationship advice smh.

All that you stated is in fact true. I love Kendra but she should have kept wanting and should have kept looking because he definitely wasn’t good for her heart and definitely not great for her career. She worked to hard for that career to be letting him taint it.

So true

Thank you, as a gay woman, I’ve been telling my straight friends this for years!

AMEN

@@thatbeaatcch9884 it's so true. You only do what has you allowed to be done until you stop it

How about yall do what you're supposed to do and stop trying to get over on women.

Exactly!

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